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I’m saying I can cheat as long as the lifestyle goals are met
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:14 PM
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Too much + stories from other men and women. It’s kind hard to believe in anything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:13 PM
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True. This leaves me free to cheat without remorse or guilt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:29 PM
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Fair enough. I just gotta play according to the newly discovered rules
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:23 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:56 PM
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Definitely not any of this shit and I doubt I will get it in this generation (if it ever existed to begin with).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:51 PM
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How will I regret it? I’ve never regretted getting revenge
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:50 PM
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What if I want to hurt her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:42 PM
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(Real life experiences + observing other people’s relationships + this sub) = killed romance for me. I’m not saying that love doesn’t exist but it’s highly improbable. I’m not even talking about unconditional love. I just know how cu throat dating is. It makes sense though in this Godless, survival of the fittest, we’re just smarter animals, no meaning to life type of world that we live in. There is no right or wrong. You’re free to harm and lie as you please. I’m not saying that I need a set of…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:41 PM
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Sex is easy to get from her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:34 PM
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The girl I’m dating is acting sketchy. By answering calls whilst at a party which her and her friends were taken to by other guys. What’s the best way to punish her? keep seeing her and then ask her for advice about another girl that I want to start taking seriously and dating. She’s already starting to attach herself to me tell her upfront that I didn’t appreciate her blatantly not answering calls and lessen attention. ghost return the favour
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:11 PM
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but you likely won’t fail. A more realistic analogy is you wanting 80% despite being of average or below average intelligence. You have to study to get a 50-60% and pass but you don’t think it’s worth the effort so you don’t do anything and fail. Getting into a relationship with an ok woman is challenging but not impossible. If you want a top tier woman whilst being below average yourself then you’re going to have a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:41 PM
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plus I said that since 63% of young men are single and sexless how can we be sure what proportion of them are redpill? What if the sexless men are sexless because most of them are blue pilled? We don’t have any data on the breakdown of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:39 PM
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You ignored the part where I said I’ve spoken to these men and gotten their views on women and dating. Please learn to comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:37 PM
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What do you mean by this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:31 PM
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That’s ok then. How’s your dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:31 PM
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If you’re happy then what’s the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:59 PM
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If I have to study 6 hours to get an A on the test but that kid who was born smart only has to study 2 hours then what’s the point? On top of that he got a top job at faang whilst I get a lower paying position that’s still top percentile in my country. Boo hoo. Cry me a river. Also it’s pretty easy to tell when a woman is giving you a genuine chance or into you v.s. just being used for a free dinner. A lot of men are either oblivious to genuine interest or think that they can convince her throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:58 PM
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So what are you saying? There’s absolutely no hope and no point to anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:54 PM
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So your main complaint is that once you get the partner you won’t be able to maintain the attraction down the road? Look everyone gets older and has less time. Unless of course you work hard to get a better laying position with more free time. I’ve seen married people with children who still make time to work out. Plus there should be more than your body keeping your partner around. That’s the foot in the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:58 AM
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I actually don’t know. I would guess the first group from my own anecdotal observations online.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:56 AM
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In that case you’ve already got a partner. What’s the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:26 AM
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I think I just need some money
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:56 AM
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So you have time to study? It better be towards something useful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:04 AM
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What are you currently doing with your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:32 AM
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So you should be aiming for a better paying job with a decent work life balance?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:19 AM
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There are 2 groups of romantically unsuccessful men whom I’ve seen when it comes to self improvement. The first are the men who claim to have self improved and see minimal to no results because of women’s high standards. They may be right or they may be self improving in the wrong way (trying to fit into the wrong niche, not being social enough or still having unattractive behaviors or features). That’s besides the point. The second group of men don’t believe in working out, dressing well or mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:18 AM
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How can you want people to find you attractive without actually being attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:12 AM
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Some of us actually want to be in better shape, make more money and just have a better life. Why wouldn’t you want to? Female validation is a positive byproduct of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:11 AM
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It’s pretty much deteriorated. A bad breakup followed by lots of meaningless hookups will do that to you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:41 AM
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Then improve? Get in better shape, make more money and get better charisma and social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:41 AM
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Why wouldn’t you want to work out, make more money and dress well? Why would anyone entertain you if you are short AND have nothing going for yourself? I don’t understand the logic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:36 AM
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How do you use expect someone to date you if even you yourself can’t give a pass to ugly people?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:33 AM
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Finding someone I care about to have sex with is hard
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:43 AM
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I’m old. I’m doing an advanced degree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:42 AM
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I need to reset? I don’t watch porn or masturbate anymore and yet I’m bored
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:23 PM
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No ways. My last committed relationship ended badly. Plus I don’t want to be restricted in whom I speak to and sleep with. Not that I want to sleep around but I want the freedom and option to do so. and no I will not have an open relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:22 PM
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I thought about that but I doubt it’s the reason
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:21 PM
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I’m just speculating. Why am I seemingly over sex and yet continue to chase it as if I’m unsatisfied
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:08 PM
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It’s not that I necessarily enjoy fucking multiple women. It’s just that I like that thrill of getting to know and seduce someone new. Afterwards I quickly get bored. I do want a relationship (without any of the seriousness or pressure) but I want my freedom. I also sometimes feel a bit empty after sex. Like something is missing. What was the point? Maybe I’m not fucking hot enough women. I actually wouldn’t mind meeting a woman and not rushing to have sex with her. Just getting to know each oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:53 PM
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I’m also juggling multiple women but I’m not that deep into the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:01 PM
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She turned out to be ok with either outcome. She was just horny. So I could keep seeing her or ghost her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:00 PM
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She turned out to be okay with either outcome. I will see or not see her as I please. She was surprisingly good with her hands and mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:00 PM
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Turns out she’s okay with either outcome. She was just really horny
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:59 PM
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I came quickly. She enjoyed it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:58 PM
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She turned out to be ok with either
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:57 PM
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lol. How do we know that the 37% who are getting laid aren’t redpill? Why do you assume the 63% are redpilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:56 PM
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Lol. It’s possible. From what I understand these are usually financially successful or well off guys who were bad with women. The advice worked for them so they keep supporting the content
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:11 PM
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On my way to fuck this woman I just met. She’s definitely down to fuck. Problem is I want it to be a once off. What’s the best way to end it right there knowing I could bump into her again at any point and on a college campus (so ghosting is risky).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:09 PM
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Nope. I’ve listened to their views. Some have heard of the redpill and agree with the views, some have never stated their stance but it becomes obvious when you hear their views on women and dating. I’ve never heard anyone outright say “I’m redpilled”. They are successful as judged by the number of women they have, the attractiveness of women and how attracted their primary partner is to them (whether or not she is the only one).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:46 PM
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I’ve read those comments. Most of those guys are dating albeit with a very low opinion of women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:44 PM
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How do you know who represents the majority of redpillers? Where’s your data?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:11 PM
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I don’t know where women get the impression that redpilled men are struggling in dating. A lot of them that I know irl are either dating multiple women or are in stable relationships (some are cheating and some aren’t). The blue pilled men I know aren’t struggling per say but they aren’t exactly doing well either. They’re usually too afraid to make their intentions known. The ones that aren’t are doing fine as well although some are being cheated on or taken for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:10 AM
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Meanwhile all the real life redpilled men I know are juggling multiple attractive women. I can’t speak for those online
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:29 AM
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I’m falling (not serious love but I am liking her) for a high n-count, former party life single mother who’s cheated on at least one of her bf’s and has alpha sounding exes. The only thing is that she said she would never date someone who’s not her physical type and is not looking for a beta-bux. It started as a one night stand and she’s been trying to meet to have sex again. I’ve been busy so it’s just been hour long phone calls everyday for the last 2 weeks. Any advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:42 AM
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Whether they like to admit it or not going through a lot of dick negatively affects women and deteriorates them significantly. There’s just something missing when a woman has dated a lot. Nothing is special. She becomes even more selfish and calculating. Men are also negatively affected but nowhere to the same degree. She is still capable of pair bonding but the bonds are much weaker and she will give up on you at the first sign of an obstacle. Not the type of women you really want to be startin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:26 PM
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