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All of this! Also, by wait them mean by the third meeting! *🙄 I wouldn’t let a stranger in my house the third time I meet them! Meeting not date, cause you know the entitled scrubs are not planning fun or romantic dates for their hookups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 05:09 PM
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This aspect - alienation from yourself is not talked about often enough. Because you are always preforming for someone else, you lose touch with your own native authentic sexuality. Oh, and the dissociation! It takes a long time to get back from that and learn to become present and connected during sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:42 AM
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It’s exactly that. Isn’t dating supposed to be fun? Meeting new people, going somewhere interesting, getting to know each other, looking forward to seeing them again and getting excited while you get dressed up. The energy builds, desire builds, trust builds, laughing, kissing, sharing experiences. That’s what I want out of dating . The apps have killed romance. We are reduced to products in a free sex vending machine, created by men. For men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 11:42 AM
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They always tell on themselves! This dude’s broke as a joke. Can’t pay for a cleaning service, eating out, or an Uber, much less an actual professional personal assistant. What do you want to bet that he doesn’t even know how to drive? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:51 AM
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Right? This man is a whole psychopath! In previous eras, the lifelong commitment was marriage. The man would level up career wise because every single thing at home was maintained through the unpaid labor of his wife, who was forbidden from working due to the patriarchy. Some how this guy thinks he deserves this deal, the unpaid labor of a woman running his life and obeying him for absolutely nothing in exchange! It’s the most clear cut example I’ve seen of a man straight out saying he thinks of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:39 AM
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Nailed.It.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 01:59 AM
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So many single dads are on the apps looking for an unpaid nanny/bangmaid. It’s great to see younger women recognizing this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:10 PM
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Not to mention, patriarch cultures practicing sex selective abortion for a generation. China and India fucked around and found out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:53 AM
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Not to mention, patriarch cultures practicing sex selective abortion for a generation. China and India fucked around and found out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:53 AM
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I’m reminded of this one study- when the women present spoke more than 20% of the time in a meeting, men perceived them as “dominating” the meeting. Even though men still took up 80% of the airtime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 09:55 AM
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“Not well adjusted”... It’s like the film makers had a time machine to now. Also the girl with the floppy hair looks about 14 and the dude looks 20 at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 07:34 AM
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Why? These women are often trafficked from Asian countries, in deep debt to their traffickers who promised them real jobs. Unable to speak the local language and afraid of law enforcement and their pimps, they are kept in sexual slavery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 11:33 AM
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💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 12:43 AM
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Facts! I was just talking with my teenager today about how modern psychology started with Freud gaslighting women and girls about the abus.e and in.cest they had experienced. Oh and he was a coke addict to boot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 12:41 AM
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This has got to be satire? It’s like on of those ridiculous HGTV “jobs”!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 03:34 AM
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If she hasn’t found it yet, Steven Universe is amazing! It’s a really well written absurdist show w 4-5 female main characters who are all strong in different ways. It deals with complex emotional themes in nuanced ways and always goes back to maintaining strong boundaries and being in your personal power. The creator is a genius in my opinion, who wrapped lessons in genuinely good songs that my kids go around singing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:23 AM
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Fds Cost free, consequence free sex has never in history been easier for men to obtain. Yet they still do whine on! Previously men had to demonstrate skills, inheritance, farm land, a business or the otherwise ability to provide for a family and get a women to sign on for a lifetime commitment! Now they just have to fake being a decent person for a few hours over a few encounters (not even dates- low effort hangs/walks) and they can’t do it! It really shows how repugnant their personalities are!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 01:16 PM
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Emotional self regulation! Defined as: The ability to recognize and name your emotions, let yourself experience them and work through them in an appropriate manner. This is a pretty basic human skill, but a lot of us don’t learn emotional self regulation in our families. I see this in dysfunctional adult men all the time, (often coupled with personality disorders and substance abuse). They literally don’t have the ability to name how they feel, and figure out what to do about it. Instead they bl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:04 AM
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I googled the More Than Two author, here’s the website chronicling his abuse. https://www.itrippedonthepolystair.com/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:43 AM
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👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:06 AM
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I like supporting indie silver and goldsmiths on Etsy, tons of elegant and unique pieces in precious metals to browse there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:46 PM
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Obesity in males also linked to lower testosterone levels and erectile disfunction https://www.nature.com/articles/ijir200842
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:00 PM
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I’m glad you asked! It stands for: deny, attack, and reverse victim and offender It’s a common tactic of narcissistic people and abusers. Once you see the pattern, you can see it everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:35 PM
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Idc what his diagnoses were, his behavior was abusive, full stop. Going to therapy with an abuser is pointless, they twist things and use the therapy against you and DARVO you. He refused to work on his issues and took his feelings out on you. I’m sorry you had to go through this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:56 AM
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Ikr? Noodles and jarred sauce, like my 10 year old can make, and they expect a gold star!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:53 PM
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Whoa, this is helping the pieces click into place. Narc men do this- they needle you, abuse you because your pain/ emotional reaction makes them feel powerful over women, which props up their fragile sense of self and weak ego structure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:28 AM
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Thank you! Stay the same. %100! I didn’t know other women have to deal w this BS too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:20 AM
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So accurate and incisive it’s breathtaking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:54 AM
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Men barred women from law, politics, medicine, business, academia, science, religious leadership, the list goes on, for 1000’s of years. (Mind you were only banned from having our ideas heard, making money or holding power- women still did the unappreciated, unpaid and underpaid shit jobs.) They whine and rage about not being allowed in one ROOM on the planet. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:05 AM
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This type of “collaboration” was also quite common in academia in the 1940s, 1950s, 1960s. Male academics of that period frequently never learned to type, considered it beneath them. In undergrad and grad school they’d hand a pile of handwritten papers to their girlfriend, later wife, who would revise, copy edit, type and format it into an academic paper. She has this unpaid editor job on top of her unpaid cleaning, cooking, shopping, child rearing, household running jobs. The man reaps the cred…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:25 PM
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Ummm, any man in fact might be an abuser or rapist. Statistically, women are far likelier to be sexually assaulted or raped by someone they know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:50 AM
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1000s of unprocessed rape kits, in the US land of big police budgets. If they wanted to, they would. Once you see it, you see the pattern everywhere. Thank you, OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:05 PM
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Right? It’s totally dis-ingenious. Should someone penetrate them against their will, sure as fuck they would know it’s wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:19 AM
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Tell us more about this woman only village! What county? What approximate time period?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 06:54 PM
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Here are some physical changes I didn’t anticipate: A couple months after giving birth, your hair falls out like crazy. My hair seemed extra thick during pregnancy, then lost a lot of volume and was never the same again. There’s a hormone produced in the later stage of pregnancy that relaxes the ligaments in your hips to facilitate birth. It’s completely normal for your rib cage and hips to permanently widen from these changes. It’s very common to go up a bra band size post partum. Be aware that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:08 PM
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This is domestic terrorism, meant to keep her feeling unsafe and walking on eggshells. The message is - you are an object that I own, and can dispose of at will. It’s well documented that abusers ramp up abuse during pregnancy, after getting married and after moving in together. See Lundy Bancroft’s work. Think about if a friend, acquaintance or business associate threatened your life- you would immediately cut ties with that person, report the threat and remove them from your life. It’s complet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:34 AM
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This is a stunning analysis! Completely jaw dropping! I hope to see your work published, you connect the dots beautifully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:05 AM
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JFC, just take the L gracefully at that point and go home. The more you beg, plead or pressure her for sex the more pathetic you appear. It’s not a shit test. No one owes you sex. You job in seducing someone is to get them in the mood- by joking around, being confident in your masculinity, flirting, showing them a good time, teasing them and making them want you. So yeah, if your bitchy little attitude killed the vibe, just move on.
/r/seduction05/12/20 03:55 AM
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All excellent points! Additional thought- paying for dates shows generosity. As women we give and give- to our jobs, families, communities and partners. Who is taking care of us? A giving and generous attitude is one of the most important qualities to vet for in a long term partner. I’m not talking about money or gifts but giving you attention and emotional support, really listening, being generous sexually, giving loving non sexual touch and giving time to share chores and household maintenance…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 11:41 PM
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What is the documentary you speak of?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:59 PM
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Short Arrogant Take care of your self = No fat chicks Scorpio Sexual x 2 About you Let’s see where this goes Help me out w more?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:18 AM
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This has got to be satire, right?
/r/seduction04/10/20 12:43 AM
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Why are you scared about letting yourself have feelings? Obviously she opened up to you and made herself vulnerable by letting you know she had feelings, you did not reciprocate and now she is afraid of getting hurt. Women bond through sex, so now she feels the need to slow things down in that regard. You seem like you’re into her, but getting in your own way of developing a deeper relationship. Ask yourself if you want to keep spinning plates or do you want to take things deeper with one girl w…
/r/seduction27/09/20 11:18 AM
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And these are the men that run the economy, that are making the decisions that create the vast inequality and broken systems we have today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:26 PM
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Yes, give her a hug. Offer beverages, snacks, weed if you smoke. Put on music or a movie. Flirt, make her laugh and get to know each other. When the time seems right, go in for a kiss and start making out. Take it from there. Slower is better, make her want you. Tease her until she is practically begging.
/r/seduction30/06/20 04:47 AM
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Bjork 5 years You think you're denying me of something Well I've got plenty You're the one who's missing out But you won't notice 'Til after five years If you'll live that long You'll wake up All loveless I dare you To take me on I dare you To show me your palms I'm so bored with cowards That say they want Then they can't handle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:41 AM
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Check out /r/narcissisticabuse and see if those patterns fit. This type of emotional abuse messes with your brain chemistry; your dopamine, serotonin and cortisol levels. It’s literally like ending an addiction; an addiction to a dysfunctional, abusive relationship where the other person has messed with your mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 04:07 AM
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Thank you for this post! It totally answers my unasked question How do I Tinder? And your answer is awesome! It syncs with my natural introvert antisocial tendencies to log in once a week, and only reply never initiate. Tryin to get over a much younger Narcissistic fuck boi, thanks for helping us all fight the good fight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 01:08 AM
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What did it taste like?
/r/seduction08/06/19 02:39 AM
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Care to give examples of better text game?
/r/seduction11/05/19 04:35 PM
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44F here, I agree with this assessment. Huge opportunity here for those who develop interpersonal and sexual skills; there is really very little competition out there. A generation of young men sucked into video games and porn that has no idea how to talk to, much less seduce and sexually please a woman. So many lonely, thirsty women out there.
/r/seduction11/05/19 01:04 PM
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Yeah, I’m gonna go against the thread here. She’s not after your money, she knows you don’t have any. Stripping is a boring, repetitive sales job. She wants someone real to talk to. Plus drivers and strippers/hookers are natural allies. Text and ask her how her night was and challenge her to buy you breakfast at the late night spot if it was better that yours. It’s actually kinda hard to date as a sex worker, just treat her as a regular person and goof around with her. Don’t put her on a pedesta…
/r/seduction11/05/19 05:38 AM
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I’m not really sure what you’re on about, so I looked back in you post history. 2+ years of the same question. You want to get laid, like most people do, but have little to offer another person. You’ve gotten lots of great advice over the years: - leave your house - get off Reddit and learn to talk to humans - develop empathy - have something to offer: positive attention to the other person, make them laugh etc. (trend in your posts to be self centered and over serious). Seems like you don’t lik…
/r/seduction10/05/19 10:52 PM
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This reminds me of a film I saw years ago in an anthro class in college. Somewhere in SE Asia, I don't remember where. Village life, pre-Tv and all that. In the evenings people would hang out on the porches of their bamboo houses, enjoying the cool of the evening, gossiping, hanging out. Groups of teenagers and young adults would go around and visit each other and flirt. Mostly in song and rhyme. The flirting took a very stylized, ritualized form with certain familiar tropes, the memes of the da…
/r/seduction25/01/15 05:47 AM
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