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Are you implying that you cannot have the emotional connection unless you get married? Weird take
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:29 PM
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What? That's a very weird reach
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:15 PM
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So your complaint is the attitude... Ok..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:34 PM
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I live in one of the dozen countries that is not USA, where a spouse is not required to be married. And while I am speaking of specifically of relationships described as spouses where yes all of those items of merging a life together are true, I don't believe that relationship is solely limited to legally married status people. I mean in the sense that I know many people who have kids, have been together monogamously for over a decade, and have never gotten married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:30 PM
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Spouses don't have to be married. And either way talking about marriage or not, the legal status doesn't equate to the type of relationship. Or are you saying that once marriage comes into play, everything you said prior is no longer applicable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:14 PM
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No? I've never indicated if I'm married or not for one thing. What I'm saying is the relationship you have with a spouse is not the same as with other people, platonic or familial. My friends are not replacing my relationship with their spouses, they're having completely different level of relationship with their spouses, as I am with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:37 PM
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So your big complaint is the use of the word need vs something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:51 PM
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I'm saying there are levels to needs. And what, do you think all these incels aren't masterbaiting? Why isn't that satisfying their desire for a life partner? And yes, there are asexuals, or partners that have don't have sex for various reasons including disability and ect. That doesn't invalidate their want/need/desire for that type of relationship and they are not wrong to voice their desire for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:47 PM
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Maslow* but fair enough haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:25 PM
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Well sure you would put hunger above all else, you're 200 pounds
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:12 PM
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No one's ever proving your point. Your a bird playing chess shitting on the board saying "I Win"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:55 PM
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What is your definition of woke?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:54 PM
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The question was if you've heard of Moslov? Not twisting my words into whatever the fuck your rambling about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:52 PM
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Happy to hear you were able to improve your situation. I've been chubby, skinny, fit, chubby again, and I've seen the drastic changes in how the same people treat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:22 PM
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I don't think any of these comments are an indication of attraction. You can be all those things and not attractive to a person, or you can be those things and be attractive to a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:28 PM
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I mean I personally don't think those questions are hard to answer unless I'm pushing a narrative thst contradicts it. Anyone claiming there is no difference between platonic or familial love, and romantic love, either hasn't experienced it or is incapable. It's very easy to me to say my wife would not be replaceable with my mother. And Moslovs hierarchy of needs is like high-school level education.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:22 PM
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Other questions she left me unanswered; 1)Is she sexually attracted to her father? (context: She requested I somehow explain to her why her father and potential husband are not interchangable types of love) 2) Has she heard of Moslov? In context of her unilaterally deciding what is a need and a want for the entire world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:59 PM
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I do all of these things for my dog. That does not mean I am in a romantic relationship with my dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:01 PM
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You keep saying "no would have a problem with it if x". Why not just admit YOU have a problem with it rather than speaking on behalf of others?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:53 PM
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It's almost like the two things are completely unrelated and doesn't need to be said
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:51 PM
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All for calling her out but she'll never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:10 PM
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I think her goal is to kick to the good men down.. Ridicule is her objective, said so herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:57 PM
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It's useless, she doesn't understand the emotion we all feel when it comes to romantic love and bonding. She doesn't feel a difference between love for a person like her father and a romantic partner. She's incapable of understanding, and thus she is mad at everyone else who can.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:49 PM
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Is this you resorting to insults? eek step it up atleast
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:39 PM
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A lot of things hurt my pride but one thing that doesn't is understanding you don't feel the difference between your father and a romantic partner. That says it all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:38 PM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I guess some people get a lot of beholders and some get a lot less
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:35 PM
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I can't correct someone unequipped to understand. I can't explain to you an emotion you'll likely never experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:32 PM
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Nope. But none of those explain a romantic relationship either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:25 PM
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That wouldn't explain blue at all though, would it. And it wouldn't help the person I'll equipped to understand either. They wouldn't be able to go to another blind person and accurately explain blue, so they didn't really understand did they? That's you with romantic relationships, explaining blackness and pretending it's explaining blue
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:20 PM
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There are multiple levels of needs. Ever heard of maslow?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:16 PM
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Because they keep asking me to explain it to them haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:12 PM
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Do you experience sexual attraction to your father?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:11 PM
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No, this is like explaining what blue looks like to a blind person. You are unrequited to understand because you lack the ability. This is a you problem. I'm sorry you can't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:08 PM
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No one would need an explanation of why a husband and father are not interchangeable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:02 PM
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The lack of your understanding puts everything in perspective for me. Everything your doing is projecting because you don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:00 PM
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I think the problem here, is you don't seem to feel the difference. It's not up to the world to explain it to you. I'm sorry your missing out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:58 PM
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She said she couldn't tell a difference between the emotional connection of her romantic partner, and her father.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:57 PM
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Hahahaha Lillith said she couldn't tell the difference between the emotional connection of her father and her previous romantic partner! This screams "i have fucked up internal feelings" so I'm going to say the world is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:54 PM
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Ugh gross. You felt emotionally the same with your romantic partner as you do with your father?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:53 PM
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Like if you can't tell the difference in an emotional connection between a romantic partner and your father.. You shouldn't be giving advice on this..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:46 PM
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Building a life is a connected intertwined dependant future. Kids are optional, but if you've never felt a deeper connectional emotional than a platonic relationship i guess that explains it. Was the relationship between your romantic relationship the same sort of connection you have with your father, or a male family member? Because one should have attraction and passion and ect, one should not..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:45 PM
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So with your friends you wanted to build a life with them and saw your future, kids, and the emotional connection was identical to your romantic relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:39 PM
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Bringing up musk and trump in a completely unrelated context but whatever let's move on. So you are unsure the difference between a platonic relationship and a romantic relationship. So we have a baseline understanding. Have you ever been in a romantic relationship? If so, was that the same relationship you have with your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:37 PM
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Diversion tactic much? To clarify what you want explained to is the difference between a romantic relationship and a platonic relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:34 PM
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I'm surprised to see the words "I care about male" in your post at all! You come on here to ridicule men based on their insecurities. You become a bad example that justifies their negative thoughts both about themselves and women. Your a net negative experience for people as a whole on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:28 PM
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She doesn't, she argues in bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:16 PM
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Lol not to mention your entire personality is complaining about men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:16 PM
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Where did I say people shouldn't be treated like people? Projecting much?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:14 PM
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Leader of the eye roll using that as an excuse..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:13 PM
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Constantly complaining about other people like they should care about your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:10 PM
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Am I being whiny calling you out?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:08 PM
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Insulting someone who's goal is 50% ridicule? Oh no, must be unfair play. So Whiny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:08 PM
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You don't realise how whiny you sound then? Kettle calling the pot..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:05 PM
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It really sounds more like your posts could be distilled into "I'm complaining that I'm tired of hearing men complain"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:02 PM
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Is that your goal here? To help men? or ridicule the ones you are tired of hearing about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:58 PM
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I don't recall either whining about being lonely nor being in the house all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:54 PM
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I have a group of male friends, approximately 8, that have been friends for over 20 years. They are great emotional support, when we are together. However, like most normal people, they have spouses, they have children, they have independent lives that are not built around a connection with me. I understand that. Are people selfish for wanting to build their own family? You cannot build a family and the emotional connection with your married bro and his wife and kids the way you can with your ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:36 PM
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Who decides what is "correct priorities"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:32 PM
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I think I have a disagreement that being ugly = invisible. Im ugly. I've had multiple instances in my life where women unsolicitedly expressed their disgust with me. I'd rather be invisible too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:57 PM
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The bar is much lower for women than it is for men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:34 PM
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I'm sorry no one has ever been bullied for being slightly overweight in America? citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:23 PM
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Yup the world is fair and everyone gets exactly as they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:32 PM
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