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| 2 | [deleted by user]In the way you respond to Reddit comments, being your friend seems hard, you come off as very bitter to me. Relax and live a life worth including someone into | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 09:57 PM |
| 2 | If you’re hung up on one person who is not invested in you, think of the regret you will eventually have over the precious time, opportunities, and emotional energy you wastedPersonally wouldn't leave town, just confront him and stand ur ground. Unless he has gang ties | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 02:47 AM |
| 1 | "Hey you have beautiful eyes" to my first phone number.Ye I also am a firm believer that what matters isn't exactly what U say but js the tone of voice and intonation too... | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | "Hey you have beautiful eyes" to my first phone number.I gotchu bro, I mean maybe there's a difference in environment but at least where I'm from , I've never seen a dude not compliment a girl first time they walk up. Especially cuz I'm a little younger so usually first thing all dudes say is , ur beautiful / ur cute / ur fine / ur hot. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 05:16 AM |
| 1 | "Hey you have beautiful eyes" to my first phone number.That's what I'm sayinnn, I even didn't ask some girls for their numbers just to kinda try and slowly get rid of that feeling of having it as an agenda . I saw it as more of " I'm tryna socialize and if I feel you and I genuinely click then I'll take ur number rather than playing that weird numbers game . Like I no longer go up to girls thinking I'll get the number , it'll just impulsively come up if I'm feeling the vibe yk... Also Ive been practicing with this but I don't like complimenting girl… | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | I keep getting AAIt goes away over time, then you have to start again and be rusty and then it goes on and on.. that's why I speak to everybody rather than just females or people I'm tryna link with | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 11:37 PM |
| 3 | "Hey you have beautiful eyes" to my first phone number.Nice, something that helped me was talking to everyone and just making conversation, this really took away the nerves of talking to girls and knowing what to say. Also made me less focused on making sure I say the right thing and I actually became more picky about who I got numbers from rather than just taking it cuz she has an ass. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | For guys who have gotten into cold approach and started feeling confident about it, what’s your success rate like?I talk to everyone , not even just sexually ... I've learned to just be able to make conversation flow not just for the intent of tryna get somewhere deeper yk? | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls say they " don't usually do this "lol well her actions said otherwise | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls say they " don't usually do this "Lol it's a cold world out there , it was the first date too n she was tryna do allat | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 09:04 PM |
| 4 | Why do girls say they " don't usually do this "This girl the day before told me she ain't tryna do no of that because she doesn't wanna fw " lames." And she goes and is tryna get in the back seat next day 😭. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 09:02 PM |
| 2 | If having hobbies makes you attractive to women, why isn’t attractive if a guy is into video games and Reddit as opposed to more traditional hobbies?If a girl loses interest In you cause of a hobby then u not doin sm right | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Should I refrain from mentioning I go to therapy to a girl.Personally I see nothing wrong with mentioning it but I wouldn't stick or dwell on it too hard, just kinda be like yea it really helps! | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | What is the justification for wishy washy girlsWas just bored and she's been tryna hang, we see each other around school or the gym often and everytime she gets all excited and starts talm bout wanting to hang out, dropped her though | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 07:20 PM |
| 2 | What is the justification for wishy washy girlsAlready have I'm on to the next 🤣, I bet u she will hmu again tho | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 08:44 AM |
| 2 | What is the justification for wishy washy girlsye I think imma start doin that, many girls ask to hang but are js saying it to say it. I'm actually busy a lot but I think to others I come off as someone who's just constantly free and that's probably one of my downsides, if I was girl I would see that as no fun lol | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 06:05 AM |
| 1 | What is the justification for wishy washy girlsI ghosted her after that shi, I said nevermind and never texted again | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 04:55 AM |
| 1 | What is the justification for wishy washy girlsLmaoo this dude | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | What is the justification for wishy washy girlsI'm pretty chill and I've never texted a girl more than like two texts . I usually lag a lot too | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | What is the justification for wishy washy girlsLol would never, I'm ngl some of these girls are like 6's max | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 02:50 AM |
| 5 | What is the justification for wishy washy girlsI'm not even invested which is the thing, it js happens a lot. I think I come off in a way that shows that I'm taking it seriously perhaps | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 01:38 AM |
| 7 | What is the justification for wishy washy girlsBut she jus told me her schedule was free 💀. she said that we'd hang out depending on what we do and I was like fuck that shi. Made me feel like I was the one asking to hang when she was the one who brang it up in the first place I | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 01:16 AM |
| 15 | What is the justification for wishy washy girlsI get that, but many of these girls will be completely interested in me and practically begging to go out but as soon as I show any type of agreement or actual action they get all weird | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 12:51 AM |
| 13 | Is it a bad thing for girls to see me approach other girls after closing with them ?Because basic critical thinking can allow someone to easily deduce that going up to other girls right after a close isn't a good idea . | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 02:16 PM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?People need to stop calling ugly women cute . | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about.Dudes do it too | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 10:55 PM |
| 4 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)I've noticed that when there is a girl that I'm genuinely into I find myself wanting to be needy and overthinking everything | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 06:49 AM |
| 1 | got 1 solid number from 43 day time approaches, thoughts?Sounds like u just suck m9 | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | If you could go back and tell your newbie dating self anything, what would it be?I like talking to girls at night , my game is max prestige at that point | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:57 PM |
| 2 | medication to help talk to girls?I don't suggest medications, I've tried ashwaganda and it's helped me be hella calm tbh.. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | A study of 65k+ women finds that "Attractiveness" is not a top 5 feature that women look for. No wonder OLD sucks for men.Dating apps suck I'm ngl I've realized, ur scraping the bottom barell of people.. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:12 PM |
| 0 | Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules?I think for someone who isn't experienced and could accidentally come off as creepy or pushy , it's really undesirable for a girl.. if she's in the street and you walk up to her like a creep that could lead to maybe even getting the cops called on u lol, she just wants to get home. Same as in the gym, girls might feel forced to cooperate so that they don't feel uncomfortable in a place that they frequent ... but all in all the rules are pretty stupid, if you're just a normal kind chill person th… | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 08:00 PM |
| 2 | honestly speaking, how is anyone supposed to be confident in this day and age?This is a game ,people are born with DLC's and there's nothing that complaining will do about it. If you complain about the starting cards you were given and feel pity for urself then you'll never go on to the next level ... this doesn't mean to be less confident because u start off with less,confidence is defined as feeling "of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities." The issue is a lot of people are great but allow people to make them believe less of… | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Texting game questionMore like the start where u are in the process of getting closer, I tend to be someone who either doesn't care at all or who cares too much which is my issue | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Texting game questionYea that's what I've been workin on, I give up too easily | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Texting game questionGotchu, it's not that I want to build interest but more like I just don't like telling people , I naturally tend to just pull back with people | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Texting game questionShe responds almost instantly to me so I mean like | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Texting game questionBro I js be overthrowing shit like what's the best move type shit | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 04:37 AM |
| 1 | How to ask if she has a BF without being weird?You don't mention it, I find it cringe when people flirt and still ask , like nah bro it don't even matter at that point | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 11:08 PM |
| 6 | Most women don't realize how hard average guys have itDon't be average then? Workout , make money? Smell good , get ur hair right and boom ur not average | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 11:18 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Honestly my one thing has always been to get mental health in check and then go for girls. Depression and mental health are things that can cause you to feel empty and also come off that way, therefore people will see you that same way. Obviously depression has many different causes but at least start working out, stop playing so many games and work on eating as healthy as possible ... I know it's hard to start doing things of that sort since it's so extraneous but as long as you build the habit… | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 06:26 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]It's obviously working lol | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Wtf | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 06:56 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]If you have bad tongue posture your jaw line will still be trash no matter the weight but true lower weight will improve that | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Less manly. Getting a strong jawline is actually relatively simple depending on ur age. Mewing + chewing hard gum for 30 min daily will slowly transform ur face . But ur mentality is horrible , thinking that you " look" less manly, hair style, style of clothes u wear etc makes a huge difference . I'm personally working on my jaw line but that doesn't stop me from still looking hella good | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:21 PM |
| 0 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateok imo, I don't have sex u til marriage due to religion and because of my beliefs BUT. In my opinion having sexual relations on the first date ain't a good idea, I would ramp up tension over time rather than have some " s*x" that any other dude could have . Ur gonna get ghosted because you don't actually have a lasting impression, obviously these girls are thrown around and they could just get regular sex anywhere else. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flakingOp just saying, that if ur gonna do game like this where ur approaching woman on many occasions then yes u need to make sure ur having engaging conversations ... we can never understand it because we are engaged just by seeing some tits and a good face but girls need more than that, their equivalent to that is a deep emotional connection in that sense . If a girl is already flaking on u yes let her flake: ps I didn't read the rest of the thing cuz it's too long but this is just the important par… | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | How to stop caring about girls ghosting/leaving on read and stop double textingmindset | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you approach super hot girls at bars?Talking about drinks and saying wallah, disappointing , good advice tho lol | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to find a middle ground between complete openness and shutting down?I feel that , I either don't care or if I do it comes off as too much, Why do you feel you must be vulnerable??? Give an example of being vulnerable | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 01:11 AM |
| 0 | Why is it so hard to find a middle ground between complete openness and shutting down?I think it's important to a knowledge emotions but not wit girls ur tryna get with IMO, maybe with friends or a therapist etc | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 01:07 AM |
| 4 | Why is it so hard to find a middle ground between complete openness and shutting down?It's sad but honestly me being a shitty person has gotten me much further wit girls bro. Not in the sense that I even say rude things but just that I don't care , I'm chill and analytical rather than vulnerable and lovey dovey and it works everytime . I've been practicing push and pull, where I give some attention some how abs then pull back, works everytime | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Was friendzoned but she gave me a cha ge for a dateGo with the date but don't do anything all out, if it was me I'd take her out to Burger King just to meme 😂😂. " give me a chance" sounds like a bullshit way to get some validation and free drijks | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:14 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]u can't really force girls to not have hoes, it's honestly a mindset thing and you can't just 1 2 3 Ur way to it... You have to realize this is the nature of women, being unusually kind and idolizing won't get you anywhere. Once you realize there's nothing you can do about it any just accepting it then you'll be chill with it . The concept is if you don't care they'll chase . You have to stand out in ur own way 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lmfao just get fit | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Said she likes me but isn't ready to dateFlirting is important to keep some sorta tension sex ain't needed tho | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Said she likes me but isn't ready to dateJust chill don't text her for a little, live life, they always come back | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Said she likes me but isn't ready to dateLmao don't listen to this bozo, you ain't gotta care for sex to get out " friendzone" you don't gotta force nothing first or date. I'm saving virginity for marriage and I've never had issues in my relationships 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | would you rather have sex with one girl for life or will you keep having sex with different girlsOne | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 02:18 AM |
| 3 | How to make conversation interesting?It's mind numbing. Yo be completely 100% honest , nobody really cares how ur day is or any of that people will fizzle out with conversations because it's the same thing that been repeated millions of times . There's no tension or anything it looks like a conversation between colleagues lol | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 10:47 AM |
| 3 | which advice changed youre whole gameThat I'm inviting her to my life and not the other way around . | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 02:08 AM |
| 3 | How did you beat approach anxiety?You don't beat it, no amount of thinking will get you over it. You close off your brain and just go ap yo her and that's the biggest thing. I think you try to at least have a bigger fear to compensate such as, how bad you'll feel if you don't go up to her, the regret etc the fun of it is the heart racing feeling you get abs that's the point of it, embrace the way it feels and just do it... as someone who's went up to tons of girls the "anxiety " never really goes away but for me as soon as I sta… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | So self improvement is preached here. But at what point are you good enough?You've got it wrong , self improvement doesn't mean not good enough. Ur always good enough even at your worst. That is first step to this, u never stop improving | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 09:10 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]right, some people use game to try and turn themselves into some macho mysterious alpha man which simply just never works and I think that's the issue. Most of these people don't like their personality and are tryna pick up girls but the thing is this is the worst thing to do if you're that insecure... you can't try and turn into somebody you aren't. Ur approach is right; be the person you are but use game to improve your relations even friendships | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 12:08 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Exactly , realize wherever you are now is all you need and will ever need to get women... You don't have to be some sort of bad boy or some good guy. Be authentic to you, because you have an edge to you in whatever your personality type is... it's kind of like HXH nen switching, if u try to switch to another type that isn't fit for you then you will fail miserably.... even if your type isn't the best you're better off using it to its max | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 02:20 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]This is the light switch. When you realize you need nobody your attitude changes drastically | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 02:16 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Exactly , be natural and let some of the " game tips " help you escalate better | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 02:15 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ok listen I kinda resonate with this but I don't at the same time.. it's not anything wrong with game but it's me, it sounds like it's a u problem too and ur just blaming it on learning game. for me I was too needy with it, creepy with it, not in my element and just straight up uncomfortable . I took some time to work on myself and realized that every girl I mess with is someone who I'm exchanging energies with, somebody who is Being invited into my life... this made me realize screw trying to l… | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is really insaneSpeaking to her more in the moment???? Doing something in the first interaction yk | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is really insanenah he said he doesn't even know if she'll go out with him or not. It's literally a coin flip, u should almost always build rapport in the moment where you're meeting up . At least in my situations, I went to a trampoline park saw a cute girl and walked up to her, asked for her snap and then just left. This ended up with her texting me weirdly and being dry. I built no rapport and even if she does consider me attractive, I'm just some random stranger she talked to for 3 minutes.. Afterwards I re… | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 08:41 AM |
| 7 | Cold approaching is really insaneGetting them to show up is difficult, it works better when u take sometime maybe In that moment if y'all are doing something ask to do it together, maybe sit down for a drink . Build rapport in the moment or else you'll usually just be playing coin flip if u were appealing enough for her to at least text back with a hi | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is really insanethe reason he says this, and I had the same thought was because it didn't feel like any rapport was really built ? In my experience unless something of yours really stands out she will prolly be really dry or not even text back | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 07:12 AM |
| 5 | Cold approaching is really insaneWhy y'all downvote :( | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 07:11 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Don't seek out a girlfriend, just interact with them and someone will take interest to you for who you are... | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | 1 year of daily daygame results - This is my success ratio, what is yours?Calling a girl beautiful as an opener is the worst thing in the world, free validation dispenser is what you have signified yourself as, if I was a women i would instantly be turned off lol. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 05:54 AM |
| 2 | how to get hard with a womanIt'll take a bit trust, just keep it up. If you still watch porn at all it won't work | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | how far in advance agree on date and what to do in the meantimeIt depends, I think u must build rapport with that first or else the convo will just die and she won't be interest | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Girls have ZERO gameFr , it's a validation game man | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Girls have ZERO gameYes I get u, see I actually don't use dating apps. My main issue is girls will actually take interest to me irl , get my insta or number but they'll be extremely boring over text and at that point I'm not even interested anymore , like literally I hate it I'll just lose internet so quick ... all I'm thinking is maybe try to hang out quicker or sm? | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Girls have ZERO gameOh yea definitely , I'm not complaining about it I just want to unerztand what I can do to combat this | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 12:55 AM |
| 0 | Girls have ZERO gamelol not really bitter , I've come to terms with it but i wanted to know if others have my same experience | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Girls have ZERO gameYea again as I've said before it's just annoying | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Girls have ZERO gameI know I usually just stop talking to em it's just annoying | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Girls have ZERO gameBruh but like I have to settle basically? 🤦♂️🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 10:09 PM |
| 0 | Girls have ZERO gameLmao I do meet people irl tf? U gotta chill. Most the people I've met are from class or something of that sort . Still same issue | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 10:04 PM |
| 16 | Girls have ZERO gameYea I've had many situation where it was made pretty clear that they're into me . It's so weird but it feels like they start the conversation with me, and hit me up and still expect me to do more work in the conversation,??? Like they hit me up and then go dry and leave me on read .. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 08:48 PM |
| 17 | Girls have ZERO gameExactly , I feel like I have to kiss up to her just to keep things going. And I hate that | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | can you call girls that aren't your girlfriend dear or babe?I don't ever suggest using those lol, im a little younger so maybe it's not my place to give advice but as a dude I see it as desperate and creepy, I only use those ironically. Over time yes you could start using it unironically but tbh I just stay away from those. I only call them " bae". Usually as a joke but over time the girl will start messing wit me more and then I'll call her stuff. I tend to talk to girls about what they like being called " in both ways yk)" so whatever they say I'll cen… | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | As a nerd how does one go about "Just be yourself" ?Ok listen Ur first issue is calling urself a nerd. , I love video games, modifying cars, watching anime, and science /physics. whenever I speak to girls some of them think I'm weird lol. I also play league which is apparently only for " red flag virgins" . But why does it matter? If you think I'm weird for my interests then you don't deserve me , point blank. I honestly think interests such as these are admirable, having something you just love is something key to a good life. You've found it, e… | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:21 PM |
| 57 | Thoughts on male simps and gameLol this sounds like pent up anger towards women.. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 09:28 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lol what in the world. She's cheating and u need a more clear answer ? | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | How to reject a girl?this sounds like someone who's compensating, angry and upset at the world and is doing things just in spite . Like " imma leave before she leaves me. Tbh I would just go ghost but I think l just be mature and tell her that you're not interested, that's it lol.literally just be like " ur just not my type tbh sorry " | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Men who deleted themselves from dating apps. Did things improve for youFr this is my main issue, I'm pretty attractive I'd say, but these girls all have HUGE egos. And make me have to put in unbelievable amounts of effort just for a chance.. like nope I'm not doing that | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Men who deleted themselves from dating apps. Did things improve for youFr this is my main issue, they all have HUGE egos. And make me have to put in unbelievable amounts of effort just for a chance.. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Men who deleted themselves from dating apps. Did things improve for youSame, getting ghosted by girls that I would easily get wit. Because my online " text game " is lacking . Fuck dat. Also I hate feeling like if my texts aren't just giving free validation then im not gonna be responded to yk | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Men who deleted themselves from dating apps. Did things improve for youYes, dating apps are really a validation trap in my opinion, many people say that they've gotten married before over a dating app or sm bs like dat and yes although it's possible I would rather just find women in real life. A lot of people get so used to contacting online that they forget how to go up to females in real life. Also I think that after being on dating apps for a while u start to get desperate and will start trying to get with 4's and 6's just to bang. Ultimately u start just caring… | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Why men have to suffer so much of rejection? Even the attractive men sometimes could find it hard to get matches?Exactly .. I see so much " compensation " yk. Most girls that see that are actually immensely turned off by it. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Why men have to suffer so much of rejection? Even the attractive men sometimes could find it hard to get matches?Many act like they aren't desperate either which is even worse 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Why men have to suffer so much of rejection? Even the attractive men sometimes could find it hard to get matches?Oh yes u right, the whole concept is that men are pretty desperate these days lol. So they get a shit ton of "matches " and dms from guys. This means the girl will be more cautious and more picky ... | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 11:25 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You read into this stuff too much. Sounds like ur uncomfortable and not confident. People pick up on this. Relax and calm down bro | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Whats your biggest fear about talking to women?I think the saying the wrong shit , I feel like sometimes people are really sensitive, and if you say one wrong thing you're done... and I tend to talk with no filter lol | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Why people match with you, even write to you just to send you only one message a day? I usually text a lot, ask questions, bring up serious and silly topics. Yet I feel I do all the talking. People just answer usually. I even give them space. Not a single question about me. Why is this happening?Yes exactly. Don't always be dry like that though. When people put more effort consider putting in effort as well. But don't overdo it | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Approach anxiety owns meLol ask if they busy , next time. Or go somewhere girls would actually just sit down at.. also the way ur doing it is creepy af. They prolly think ur tryna advertise them something lmfao. Just say hey, are you busy? And start up a convo from that. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Approach anxiety owns meliterally just close your brain, TURN IT OFF, walk up to her. Don't even ask yourself what ur gonna say, say something and that's it. I know what you mean, but you have to realize that what you're doing is completely normal . This happens to me a lot where I start questioning myself, but that's the worst thing to do. Literally as soon as u get the thought of wanting to talk to her, do it. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain me the push-pull thing?LOL PUSH PULL legs | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 07:00 PM |
| 0 | Can someone explain me the push-pull thing?This is why they say to make sure ur aware of the type of girl, audience etc. there are still little small ways you can do these things even with " grown ass women" because it's human nature that girls love the chase | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Advice on how to approach a girl at the gym 🙏🏻Wait till after the workout ig, some people dislike being interrupted during workouts. I mean I've never really cared but Some people do. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Why people match with you, even write to you just to send you only one message a day? I usually text a lot, ask questions, bring up serious and silly topics. Yet I feel I do all the talking. People just answer usually. I even give them space. Not a single question about me. Why is this happening?Okay reduce your effort, they are putting in less effort to speak to you. This doesn't mean increase your effort but that's what ur doing u understand? I feel this happens to me too, some people literally don't care about getting to know people further and just want a ego boost, so don't devote your time to people that are just using you. Try to have a conversation wit dem and if they start pulling that, hold back | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Dudes Gotta Stop Dropping Their Morals For a Fat Ass..seduction ??! Ur literally lying bro. If you're not in love with her nor do you think she is pretty it's pathetic. The only reason I have a problem with it is because the girls get blown egos and literally become so annoying to talk to. They think every guy is gonna chase them.. | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 04:35 AM |
| 9 | Dudes Gotta Stop Dropping Their Morals For a Fat Ass..Literally, they go for some ugly girl with a big ass and I'm like cmon man.. it happens so much that these girls start thinking they are a catch or sm. I hate this appeasement culture where dudes straight up lie to girls, telling girls " oh you're pretty " oh I'm in love with you" just for some pussy. They make these women overconfident .. I'm not saying I don't like a girl who is strong but like when they get older and people actually want something more than just Ass, the girl will be appalled… | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 03:17 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Text less, I like telling them that I don't like texting.. sometimes some people don't actually like texting and it's also kinda a turn off if you do it too much.. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectivethat's fine. Even if you get rejected it's fine. Trust me you'll feel better going up to them and knowing you have the balls to, rather than just never going up and being a pussy.. the whole point of cold approach is to do something you're uncomfortable with, as you get better at it, the success rate will increase. See it less as some technique and more of you literally just going up to a girl. It's normal and is nothing to be embarassed or nervous about | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 08:14 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]I don't think lying about your age is a good idea... if a girl doesn't wanna mess w you cuz you're too young there is probably some other issue too lol | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Need a pickup lineExactly. Make shit up on the spot if you don't know what to say just say hi. Lol | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel like getting laid is such an important part of life as a guy?This is like everything. A lot of the advice given for example by people who " get women" is all just " don't worry about them and they'll come on their own" when you know you can get something you don't stress out about it anymore. Or like being tal, people who are tall are like " it's really not that big of a deal" but people who are short obsess over it 24/7.... there is a constant grass is greener situation which is the same for sex, " oh people who have sex" dah dah dah, Trust me ur not mis… | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | What can we learn from Pete Davidson?Like others said, he is a celebrity... also his main thing is that he talks about these things without complaining about them. When discussing these things he's telling others so that they can learn from him and improve. That's not a turn off honestly, + he's a celeb so doesn't matter lol | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Bro imma be honest, DONT let urself overthink this stuff. If she says no or isn't interested then she isn't abs that's fine. But at least u told her. Tell her ASAP. It's the worst feeling when you find out a girl is now with some dude abs u regret it cause u didn't have the balls to ask | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Should I really improve myself and build myself into a confident, strong, and successful guy to attract women when there are guys with so much less that are able to find casual sex and relationships so easily?If you want to improve for women it's not worth it, you need to want to improve for uourself. Honestly, bro you could get girls right now, your confidence and mind set just crutches you. You have the ability to do it now trust me... | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 09:36 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]MZLOL66 | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 12:55 PM |
| 1 | I feel like i cant be sexyYou can change yourself face to an extent with chewing harder foods and correcting tongue posture but that's not even the point, it's all about the confidence in yourself, you must get out of your own head and realize most girls don't care about your " facial structure " as much as you think they do. Really you must just radiate confidence and carry yourself, try not to focus on the girls so much and focus on yourself, girls will come | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 12:48 AM |
| 4 | Ladies, how do you signal that you are open to being approached?Sure I wouldn't suggest it tho, if ur gonna do it maybe do it in a indirect way but idk I just feel like it's annoying if ur tryna just focus on finishing ur sets | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Girl said she liked me. We’ll go on a date tomorrow. But she ignores all my texts. What should I do?She's obviously on this subreddit and shes gaming u 😭😭, jk bro don't worry about it, it's a first date not like ur gonna die | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 05:42 AM |
| 1 | How to be likeable/attractive from the very start?Do your own thing live your own life, explore, workout, change diet etc. start loving yourself and you'll realize that it's impossible to be the girl everybody wants and that it's fine, there's millions of dudes out there and you don't live to appeal to all of them, live to appeal to YOURSELF, make yourself proud | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | How to be likeable/attractive from the very start?It's good advice if you wanna be wanted by everybody, it might not be in the best way but you'll be wanted | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 01:12 AM |
| 5 | How to be likeable/attractive from the very start?Yes but the problem is a lot of men just want women for their bodies and it's hard to really. Ever know until it's too late | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 01:10 AM |
| 0 | Where should I cumIncel 😭😭 | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Guys falls asleep in my bed but doesn't want to cuddle??I cant sleep when cuddled up it's hot and uncomfortable, just let the man sleep 🙏 | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 08:55 PM |
| 2 | I cant text girls for my lifeUr right bro, most of them have been pretty bland | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 06:17 AM |
| 1 | I cant text girls for my lifeYes I'd say so, I just don't know what to say, I usually prefer group settings but I'm hella outgoing irl | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 06:16 AM |
| 1 | I cant text girls for my lifeWhat about women that are excessively dry? This one girl took my number, she hit me up and then just started giving like one word Answers | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 09:57 PM |
| 3 | I cant text girls for my lifeI'm pretty boring over text but I try a little, but I'm hella outgoing irl and over voice memos or calls, I just don't like texting man | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 06:45 PM |
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