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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Women do not prefer nice guys over charismatic douchebags.	Debate	user7223	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 03:58 AM

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0	If you dont like women, don’t date them. It's a bad simplification. You can acknowledge you are incompatible with most women and still want to find an ideal women to date/marry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 04:35 PM
–	Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married him Men are not as down bad as you think for sex all the time. They like the validation of being desired if that makes sense. They want to be wanted. Even a simple hug or a kiss shows attraction. Maybe that's been your experience. And I'm saying this as a young dude with a very high libido. I can keep going for rounds at a time lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 03:00 AM
–	If women cannot be at peace with being the more sexually valuable gender, heterosexual dating can't become better. That's a lot of words but in simple terms, we can say dating is much harder for the average man than the average woman, generally speaking. I think most sane people would agree and this is reflected in the data as well. There are a lot more single Gen z men than women. Now this gets into a touchy territory because I don't think sheer effort will bring up a good chunk of men. Women are more picky and they have a lot more power and leverage now because we also know men are typically more desperate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 11:50 AM
7	Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so. Some women, not most. Most aren't bops. Most women aren't looking for "short term fun". They want commitment more than the average men at a young age. However, she might make an exception for an extremely attractive. I know this one chick who had a "short term fling" with my most handsome buddy but she doesn't seem the type to do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 02:59 AM
3	Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity. Lmao bruh I can't believe this needs to be said. I'll put it bluntly, women are not nearly as "woke" or progressive as they make it seem. The thought of being with a man who has possiblity sucked 🍆 before makes them hurl. This girliest girl woman you know is with a jacked, tatted up, super masculine guy most likely. Not a femboy. Women don't like mirrors of themselves in men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 05:37 AM
2	Women do not prefer nice guys over charismatic douchebags. Yes but the latter matters more in dating success than the former.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 02:33 AM
–	young men were not a priority until the red pill came along. Suddenly they need to be "protected" Selective Righteousness and Narrative Caontrol. I think you are derailing the conversation just like the media. It is not the "red pill." It's not the manosphere scare. A big chunk of young men are genuinely struggling in many ways. You guys wouldn't oppose support or compassion if it was women, lgbtq, or minorities but all that goes out the window when the topic is about boys and men. This red pill crap is just a scapegoat. There is a very recent poll that showed young men view women more favourably than vice versa. If there is an ideology t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 04:02 AM
–	I don’t agree with any of the pills but blue pill advice is far worse than red pill Bluepill is bs because it's the most delusional one. It believes in a just world fallacy. If you approach it with a kind heart and good intentions and just "be yourself" it'll all work out except reality is not like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/26 05:20 PM
9	Men present a false narrative in dating I think you're seriously exaggerating. And your claim has no basis or data to back it up. It is not men who are super picky, it's women and that's what the data says. You can look it up, most men rate most women favourably and it is a fairly equal distribution. Meanwhile, women rate most men low and only some men very highly. Most women flock to the same few guys who can have their "pick of the litter."	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/26 04:55 AM
1	No one hates independent women, you are just arrogant and obnoxious There is more to this. I agree that most people actually don't care and it's the attitude and ego that bugs people. However, I think as men we have been conditioned to think that our value relies heavily on our ability to provide. And yes, this is still true in most cases even in developed western societies. If we're being real, most women aren't marrying men for their personalities. So when you make less than her, you can't provide and that makes you feel like less of a man. She might even subc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 05:41 PM
2	Men should date conservative women instead of wasting their time online arguing with self-proclaimed liberal women Either way, you're doing the simping because you're a man and a woman is some sort of prize apparently. You still have to "win" her and keep her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 04:53 AM
–	Is it possible that Gen Z /alpha men can do better with women than previous generations? Absolutely not haha. Women make good money and they're more hypergamous now than ever before. No amount of inner work can bring up a lot of money when women have crazy standards and 5s ask for 8/9s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 12:16 AM
1	There's absolutely no point in marriage, for both genders. Well said haha. People are more selfish nowadays. I love video games but I can see more chosen in adult bodies than ever before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 05:50 PM
1	There's absolutely no point in marriage, for both genders. I completely disagree. Companionship is good. You can support each other. And in case someone hasn't mentioned this, it's a big financial upper hand if you marry someone who's stable. You can buy a home sooner. Life is cheaper. Best system to raise kids. Tons of benefits. However, yes, marrying the wrong person can leave you potentially worse off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 05:48 PM
3	Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm. Most men are not as picky as most women. Look at the data. Men aren't collectively only/mostly attracted to the top level women. That's womens pattern.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 04:55 AM
–	Being single and paying for it is far better than being a simp these days. Every day people just confirm the hypergamy theory more and more. Ladies would rather share Chad than date someone on their level. 💀	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 09:43 AM
1	Motherhood is a bad deal (and it's reasonable to opt out) Your husband had to buy you an expensive ring to prove his worth as a man and as a partner, am I correct? What does that say? Women, in some way, bring more value inherently just by being a woman and men are not equal (not in relationships I mean) so they compensate for that via financial contributions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/26 01:10 PM
0	Motherhood is a bad deal (and it's reasonable to opt out) I'm not the most optimistic person in the world, far from it. But please do not let your worldview be shaped by internet communities/echo chambers. No, not all highly attractive men are cheaters. Most people aren't. Far from it. Tom Brady's wife left him because apparently she didn't feel loved enough and he is by all accounts, incredibly attractive and an all-around amazing guy. However, you need to adjust your expectations as well, frankly speaking. You can't keep shooting for the cream of the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/26 12:59 PM
1	Why is "feeling like a dancing monkey" so triggering for you? All I'm saying is people wouldn't develop these beliefs if there were not some truth to them my friend. Men aren't that dumb and delusional that we're making up stuff and getting mad/upset about it. A lot of these things are reflected in data and lived experiences unfortunately which is leading to people developing these views.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/26 12:19 PM
7	Men Shouldn't Complain About Being Locked out of Casual Sex if They Think it's bad for Women I don't shame women for casual hookups. I never did. I think it is hypocritical for a man to want some and simultaneously for him to shame women for wanting the same thing. It doesn't take a genius to see that's textbook hypocrisy. Now that being said, there is more nuance to this that you're missing out. It's not just about the body count, if it affects her ability to stay loyal in an LTR/marriage, then obviously that is a valid concern. Even women would be suspicious of a man who's too promisc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/26 05:07 PM
1	Women objectify and reduce men to metrics but in a different way. That is exactly the problem that guys are complaining about these days because it actually has ground. Women's standards are extremely inflated. You have 5s asking for 9s and 10s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/26 11:44 PM
2	Why are men expected to "chase?" I have a theory. This is a sentiment that was also shared by women here in a previous post. I think men's attraction is more innate and women's attraction is most often more reciprocal. This is why men fall in love first and after being together if the dude proves himself to be a good partner, the woman loves him as well. A more simple explanation would be that plenty of men already initiate so women do not have to bother. Why bother risking rejection and making yourself look like a fool when th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 11:43 PM
3	Why are men expected to "chase?" Well I don't like it. I never did. Perhaps I'm an outlier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 11:07 PM