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I thought that too!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 10:56 PM
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a woman's needs ARE her personality Interesting statement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 10:51 PM
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Walter Williams (RIP) One of the greats!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 09:04 AM
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Why should I contribute to a society that doesn't want me and pay for women that think I am not even a human being? Worth repeating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 09:02 AM
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The first step is to realize that women are not the universally caring creatures everyone tries to portray them to be. Once you understand and accept this truth, the next step is to understand that sex, biology, and their own children are often personally and emotionally not important but rather seen as tools and possessions. If mothers really cared about their children, they'd be more devoted to their marriages and family. Instead they often see their children as a means to money and control.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 09:00 AM
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any clearer sign of a failing societal define: woman Many will refuse to even define what a woman is. when a woman cant get a date? define: date I doubt she can't get a date. She's just unhappy with the men who consider a committed relationship with her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 08:49 AM
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Of all my son's friends, none are interested in marriage. All have seen their mothers be crappy people and their fathers suffer a divorce raping. They know their mothers were the cause of the divorce and saw the transfer of funds to the mother without feeling much of the benefit. They have seen children born out of wedlock become "just what you do." The next generation of women are going to have a hard time finding men willing to get married at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 08:41 AM
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Divorce initiated by women In today's environment, ALL divorces are initiated by women. I'd like to know about the case where the man leaves a devoted wife who submits in all things and is always sexually available. Filing court paperwork is just a legal technicality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 08:17 AM
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why so many Catholic priests aren’t denying pro-choice politicians communion Money. Apparently single mothers tithe more than the men that have simply stopped attending. I'm one of those men. I will not give money to a church that gave money to my ex-wife for an attorney to leave me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 08:12 AM
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"Education" mandates have driven education inflation in general. At my previous employer, they began reclassifying the job descriptions and requirements for certain jobs. They literally told employees whom had been doing job ___ to find another job or be terminated because job ___ now required a degree. Also teachers as mentioned above.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/22 06:56 PM
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Mind you, all three were still friends with the guy long afterwards. It's amazing with how much Chad can get away with. I'm still learning, and I thank you for this new understanding. Do they ever really hate Chad? My ex hates me, but I'm not Chad. I had a coworker whom was a legend because his ex-wife treated him well even after the divorce even though he cheated on her and eventually married the adultery person. So this might be a good test for a future "wife". Is she still "good" friends with…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 10:36 PM
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My ex took religion and traditional marriage extremely serious. I doubt it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 10:32 PM
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She likely lives in a high cost of living area, therefore 6k/month is likely middle class. Also note that she previously did sex work but didn't save of it, therefore it really will not help their currently financial situation either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 01:35 PM
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Most women would rather be told a comfortable lie than the harsh truth. Most women would rather be told a comfortable lie than the harsh truth. ftfy The truth is neither pleasant nor harsh; it is simply the truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 10:51 AM
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Each man must judge for himself what level of damage constitutes a broken woman. I'd suggest a very low tolerance for negative indicators.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/22 10:35 AM
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This is both an appeal to your instinct to save her and the reverse psychology manipulation of the challenge - the "are you able to convince her?" challenge. No thank you. RULE: Never date, commit, marry or otherwise provide provisions to single mothers. The rules are guardrails to keep you safe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/22 10:29 AM
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The entire logic of the article's theme is that men and women are the same. TRUTH: Men and women are not the same; men and women are different. The article is so telling in many aspects. I believe the article was written more for the ears of women to embolden them to sleep around more, lie about their sexual past, and attempt to shame others for "slut shaming". Men: you are not "slut shaming". You are simply making reasonable and rational judgements and decisions about your life. Quietly take no…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/22 10:26 AM
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There is always an argument that someone pushing bad behavior are engaging in a psy-op to get bad results for others that would be foolish to embrace such bad advice. Sort of how most of the wealthy advocate for the acceptance of homosexuality, divorce, abortion, and race mixing but would never do or allow such activities in their own personal lives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/22 10:03 AM
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we should use the term "free spirit" when we talk about sluts I can get on board with this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/22 09:50 AM
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School of life This also means: "My current position in life is NOT the results of my decisions. Life happened to me. I'm the victim of external forces that acted upon me. This of course does not apply to my achievements, my money, and the positive things in my life." She made all the good things happen, because she makes only good decisions. Everything bad in her life was external and someone else's fault - or misalignment of the stars, or negative universe energy, etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 11:04 AM
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Some things, when said, are actually indicators of the opposite. This is often because these things do not require being said or the person speaking is not the appropriate person to judge on the matter. "I'm a nice/good person." "I'm not being a jerk." "I deserve respect." "Buying this car will be a good deal for you." "I'm complicated"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 10:54 AM
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The time has come for me to find the love of my life. These women are saying this after living over half - the best half - of their life for self. This boggles my mind and can't be highlighted enough. Imagine you leave home driving your car aimlessly until your gas tank is on E and the gas light comes on, and then you say, "OK, let's get serious now. Where do I want to go?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 10:44 AM
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Thanks for you response. My objective analysis was of course just my opinion and could very well be wrong. I've been wrong a lot in my life. Cheers!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 04:21 AM
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I apologize as I was ranting a little because of my past. Boy, the stories I could tell. 50 years ago were likely greatly different.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 04:19 AM
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All of what you mentioned makes her not worth the time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 10:45 PM
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TRUTH: Single mothers care more about themselves than they do about their children. PSA for Men: Avoid broken women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 09:25 PM
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Child Protective Services doesn't care about children. CPS especially doesn't care if there's not a better placement option. Child Protective Services is a black ops government agency. So much of what they do and don't do is protected in secrecy laws. Children themselves are not even allowed access to records after turning 18. They wield great power with little oversight. What are they going to do? Take away the children of every MJ user? Their budgeted resources will not allow that. Plus, being…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 09:21 PM
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I'm thinking she's also in a high cost of living area (COLA). The real question will be, can she survive the next recession?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 08:38 PM
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With either "option" she only wants the sperm. What she is truly trying to decide between is whether she wants to pay for it or not. This is her only hesitation from going with the sperm donor right now. She doesn't actually need or want the man. She just doesn't want to pay for it, but she's strong and independent so she loudly proclaims that she could if she really wanted to, but she doesn't want to pay for it, because what type of woman pays for sperm?!?! Oh, the dilemma of strong and indepen…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 08:30 PM
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Challenges like this are a form of reverse psychology. Reverse psychology also involves telling someone the opposite of what you truly want. She doesn't truly want a relationship. She wants someone she can use and abuse; she wants a tool and a sucker - someone to put up with her. Let me say this again as many comments in this thread are referencing "dating" and "romance". She doesn't want a healthy relationship. She is only looking for someone that she can use and abuse. Also notice that she's n…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 08:00 PM
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I respectfully disagree and would take that bet. I believe she is white. First, I dislike the focus on race, but I'll offer my analysis for scientific purposes. Second, I believe there's a chance the original "my g" was short for "my girl", not "g" as in "homie" as she took it. Here is a list of verbiage I believe indicates white over black. In my experience and generally speaking: Especially [being] a plus size girl black women don't say, "a plus size girl" I'm Demi sexual black women don't pla…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 01:59 AM
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Actually no. Even she doesn't know what she's saying. She is expressing how she feels, and she is confused. So, if you are confused, you properly received the communication. We need to learn to recognize this confused communication as an intended and deliberate communication used to attack you. Just as retailers do things to purposely make the shopping experience stressful and distracting to manipulate the shopper (pallet of goods in walkway, impulse items at the checkout, things for kids to gra…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 01:24 AM
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I want to see the GIF in action.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 01:14 AM
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I like real men. Flagged for shaming language. cowards who are afraid of commitment More shaming language. Men are the providers of commitment. Men are not afraid of commitment. She is just not worthy of commitment. The man who needs to hookup with several women to inflate his self-conscious ego, ... Men do not need to hookup with several women, but a man might do this if he can and enjoys hooking up with multiple women. This is a woman that believes men and women are the same. It is important t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 01:10 AM
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She thinks that her dating a bunch of people in rapid succession makes her morally superior to someone whose equally-shallow relationships overlapped. Correct. "Serial monogamy" is not morally superior to several parallel hookups. Some people believe that 100 partners is OK if experienced one after the other, but 100 experienced randomly and with overlap is different or bad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 12:44 AM
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And having a kid at 50 means they’re going to experience losing a parent at a very young age. Re-phasing: as a parent, you are robbing your child of yourself the longer you delay having children. The longer you delay having children and living for self, the less time you're giving to your children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 12:35 AM
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Building on your point... when this woman chose to birth a child from the "super awesome winner" as described above - you know, the man she doesn't want around the child anymore - , she does so at the lost opportunity of having a child with a good man. Therefore, society has lost the replication of the genetic code of a truly better man. This is why I have no consideration for single mothers. They either chose a bad man or chose a good man then drove him away. In this regard, women have a great …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 11:58 PM
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Rick and Morty backpack Nice catch on the Rick and Morty backpack. The implied contradiction: she wants to be taken seriously, to be treated seriously, but she doesn't want to be serious. She is wearing a large, silver, chain-link necklace. Her hair is colored with a reddish tint. She's a rebel. She works at the Museum of Art. She's expressive but doesn't want to conform or submit. That's what a job is: submission to an employer. She wants to be a housewife, but you can be assured she'll only do…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 08:09 AM
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Your response is appreciated. I'm going to say that you might have a valid point if you didn't isolate your statement to "older people". A lot of people - regardless of age - are out of touch, or simply ignorant. Hence the age old question: how to discern the wise from the unwise?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 07:43 AM
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You're not going to like this, but I'm going to go there... Gentlemen, this is the new age communist. This is the well off liberal communist that grew up with married parents, intelligent, and a "good" person. After growing up within a loving intact family - probably as an only child -, she now does the exact opposite. She does not marry, and she does not have children. Now a quick detour to remind you: TRUTH: While not all atheists are communists, all communists ARE ABSOLUTELY atheists. She is …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 02:01 AM
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Still not advisable to be careless with your seed. She could save for future use or give it to a friend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 09:24 PM
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I really wonder what happened with the dad It doesn't matter. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and reproduction. She chose to get pregnant. She chose to not use reliable birth control. She chose to carry the fetus to term. Women know how sex works and how pregnancy works. If a woman is pregnant, she wants to be pregnant and specifically chose the father. She chose the father both regardless of and specifically for his character; either way, it doesn't matter. This is what she wanted, because it …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 09:20 PM
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This is what cuckolding means biologically. Worth repeating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 09:08 PM
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He won. He got to replicate his genes and doesn't need to provide commitment, provision, or protection. He's the winner here. She choose to birth the winner's child. He is such a great man that she'll birth his child and carry his genes into the future without him - a great man indeed. Men: don't pay for, provide provisions or protection, or otherwise direct your life energy into the furthering of another man's child, even if that man is the great man described above.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 09:05 PM
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I'm just hoping that it's just a smear on the mirror. smh
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 08:57 PM
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I’ve always had the theory that one big explanation for what we see out of women is the fact that women tend to be most attracted to men around their age. Sorry, I have to disagree with you here. The evidence that female teachers are having relationships with their younger male students, that high school girls have relationships with men in college, and that early twenty-year-old women have relationships with men 10 to 20 years older would disprove your theory. What people - both men and women -…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 08:40 PM
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In less than two decades things have gotten so much worse than I could have conceived of back then. but at that point there will be another generation I think you're getting it, but let me point it out more directly. A lot can change in one generation. Hint: one generation is about 20 years. One of the benefits of being old is being able to see and understand the changes over time; the problem is that people discount what you say because "you're old; don't understand the new stuff, and the new s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 08:23 PM
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At any rate, he would be considered very generous for having married a widow with a child, and she would be expected to be perpetually very grateful for his sacrifice. Today the mother would not be grateful; she would see him as a sucker and eventually try to divorce rape him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 08:16 PM
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She'll get so upset at my brother that she has to watch her own kid. TRUTH: Single mothers don't care about their children. You may think I'm saying this metaphorically, but I'm not. I'm saying it literally. Women are NOT the loving and caring creatures many of us have been lead to believe. What u/ upsidedownbackwards is saying here is true: she cares more about the opinions of others than the well-being of her children. My ex-wife refused to receive our kids several times, going years without s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 08:12 PM
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but she's a much better catch My guess is that she was still unhappy with that answer and explanation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 05:56 AM
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Anyone got any insight on why she babbled on about teaching German and previously being a supply teacher and now having a stable job? In what way is any of that relevant It is relevant to her. She wants and needs stability now. Thus the stable job is noteworthy, not for the reader but to the speaker. Stability is important to her now, not because she has financial goals but because her mother and family will not tolerate her irresponsibility anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 05:52 AM
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They didn't think - at all. They believe nothing would ever change and that they'd continue to live life at their peak. That's why they're upset. They reward these types of guys with free sex for like 20 years. They don't see it as them rewarding Chad. They are just doing what everyone else is doing: experiencing free love and enjoying sex with guys that they are attracted to. What could be wrong with that? Mommy told them to live life and enjoy their young years. Marriage is for when you're old…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 05:42 AM
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She's saying in a selection of roughly 15 million men, none are good enough for her. What she meant to say is that the top 200 men in her country - whom she's already "tried out" - aren't interested in "dating" her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 05:38 AM
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No, we can only conclude that she's accessible, especially because we understand that these men didn't need to reciprocate commitment or provisions. They were on holiday, and she was just a minor expense - likely no more than just some time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 05:31 AM
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She thinks entirely in the present. She's a 7.5 now, so why can't men see her as a 7.5 forever? This is a good place to point out another aspect of female thinking and how women evaluate themselves. She says that she is a 7.5, but that is relative to other women her same age. Women believe in this notion that men should only seek women in his own age range - although women themselves do not practice this, but they begin to demand it once they're past their prime. Again, when she describes hersel…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 05:28 AM
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She saw folks changing baby diapers on dining room tables and other horrors. There are places children should not be brought along. This is one of them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 05:03 AM
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Nannies are young and educated. Perhaps she meant daycare worker or unpaid grandma who watches her children's children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 05:00 AM
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Now I know I’m not in a position of power as a male on a dating app but I’m done with uneven effort and making all the requests You do have a position of power. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment and provision. Let's remind ourselves of this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 04:56 AM
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I think OP should have at least left the age in the screenshot. That would have been the cherry on top of those fat arms and demands.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 04:48 AM
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Smart
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 04:47 AM
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This was proven when Johnny Carson got divorced. The newspapers did the calculation that he could have had a top escort every night for what he had to pay to his ex-wife.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 04:39 AM
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Never ask an investigative question that you can't verify. As for body counts, don't ask; you'll likely be told a lie that you can't verify. If she is sexual, it will be high. It would only be low if she's not sexual, which you should be able to determine through time. We therefore assume, based on our understanding of female behavior, that a sexual woman will have an increasing body count over time. Therefore, time is the measurement - not asking for body count. Time is primary for considering …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 04:36 AM
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People don't need a reason to lie; they need a reason to tell the truth. The article is not prompting women to conceal or lie about the thing. The article is prompting that women lie boldly, that lying is justified, and that it is OK to lie and to do evil.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 04:12 AM
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That's an awesome idea. Most people don't realize just how screwed up the lyrics to most modern songs are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 01:49 AM
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You're right. I've been wrong a lot lately - ha! After posting that comment I reflected and thought to myself, if she was intending to list a race requirement, she'd probably do it by stating it directly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 01:35 AM
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Oh, I missed that I guess. Now I see there are lots of memes for that quote. Thanks. :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 01:30 AM
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If this question is out of scope for this forum, I invite a MOD to delete it. I'd like to get others' thoughts on this: I had a thought that there are no lesbian women, only women open to the idea of having sex with other women (you might call that bisexual). Keeping in mind that women don't love in the same manner that men do - nor see sex the same as men. They're just open to kissing another woman (and more). Are there women who would be repulsed by touching a man? Are lesbian women simply mor…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 08:36 PM
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Don't worry; you're not. She still not on your side. She still doesn't like men. She still declares herself a lesbian. I am actively going to stop searching for dates on dating apps and in general. She says she's going to stop dating . . . for a while.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 08:25 PM
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vanilla my guess is vanilla => white I don't know for sure but just a guess
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/22 08:05 PM
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Also, the idea that age = maturity is crap. The article uses a handful of terms that have abstract and/or vague definitions. Just as age is not maturity, maturity is not responsible behavior. Maturity is a term based on opinion. To an older person giving in to their vices, this might count as maturity in their mind understanding where their are in their life - perhaps they've reached the maturity of "not caring anymore". From Wikipedia: In psychology, maturity can be operationally defined as the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/22 06:17 AM
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Women are more loyal to a company than men ... and companies are starting to wake up to that and to develop and look after those kind of women. If companies begin to "look after those kind of women", it will be interesting to see cases brought by men for sex discrimination. Be on the look out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/22 05:56 AM
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Are you a guy or girl? Do you watch a lot of porn?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/22 05:48 AM
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The performance only lasts between 1 - 2 years. It just takes men another 1 - 2 years to realize that, their "wife", the woman that had lots of sex with him years ago and said a lot of lovely words really just hates him - and I mean literally hates him. Around this time, someone files for divorce, usually the woman, because they figure the con is up and can't move to the next mark until the legal mining process is done.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 02:11 AM
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Yeah, I knew it was a quote from the article and was thinking of editing my comment to reflect I was being critical of the article - I predicted this confusion. Darn it! :) I agree that she is speaking from a female perspective. It is also the wrong perspective, because she used the word "partner" in reference to marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 02:00 AM
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I really wanted him to fight for me Men have rightly learned that "fighting for her" is a great way to go to jail. No thanks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 01:50 AM
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If Giga-Chad sneezed, I am sure she'd overlook it. She doesn't believe Giga-Chad sneezes; she'd never heard it over the slurping and wet slapping sounds.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 12:55 AM
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April — height: 5 ft 5 in, bust size: 32E ('my boobs are real. I developed really quickly. I've got stretch marks everywhere'), Ms GB mission: 'to empower other women never to give up' — turned 33 on Sunday. This is all you need to know. my boobs are real No one cares. Ma'am, neither 32E nor 33 are selling points. She is simply too old for marriage, love, or anything more serious than just sex. But she is, she confesses in this astonishingly honest interview, terribly lonely and thoroughly disil…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 12:47 AM
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... forgetting that the purpose of dating is to determine whether or not someone would be a good long-term partner in marriage. No, it is not. Critical thinking requires questioning assumptions and challenging assertions. This is a flat out falsehood. Dating has no purpose, especially related to marriage. Dating is anti-marriage. As long as you are dating, you are not married. Once you are married, you are not dating. Edit: I'm not criticizing u/moorekom - rather replying to the quoted section. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 12:21 AM
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That's not even Game Theory, that's common sense. Ha! I'd like to see the Game Theory model where you lose 97% of the time. Essentially the games ends quickly. Would you like to play a game? You lose. Would you like to play a game? You lose everything. Would you like to play a game? You lose, but not everything. Would you like to play a game? You lose everything. Would you like to play a game? You lose, but not everything. How long would you keep playing?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 12:12 AM
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However, that's not even the problem. The main problem is that women are being told to have lots of sex with random guys they're attracted to but then try to find some other guy with money to marry when they're 35-years-old. This is a recipe for divorce and destruction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 12:06 AM
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You’d think with all of that vetting people do, that they’d do better at picking them These women are not vetting; they are putting on a show before marriage - the performance of a con. Once married, they stop trying to act like they care.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 12:01 AM
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Now take three women and make them carry 600 rounds each and boom you've got a squad for whatever crew served system is being used. A squad consisting of one male gunner and three ammo carriers, would you want to be that guy? For those that don't know, ammo is mainly medal and very heavy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 11:50 PM
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their existence barely registers as sentient and deservent of empathy Men matter here friend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 11:43 PM
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75% of millennials get divorced when the woman pops out a few kids and loses the tingles because raising 2 toddlers is difficult. Sorry brother, but you're just wrong. They don't lose tingles, because they never had them. Also, raising 2 toddlers is NOT difficult. Women destroy their children's homes, because they are lazy and don't care about their children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 11:40 PM
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Also, think about who IS getting married and having kids. Beta males, Chad and Tyrone mostly. Marriage rates for Chad and Tyrone are incredibility low; I would rather say that, by definition, Chad and Tyrone don't marry at all. Either way, there is a different between getting married and staying married, and few marriages are lasting longer than 10 years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 11:28 PM
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I’m not saying she doesn’t love and care for her kid now. It is not if she loves her kid (now or before). The true measure is to compare to other choices/decisions/actions/sacrifices. She didn't love or care enough for her child to provide a proper home - mother and father living together as a family. She finally [decided to have] the child the third time because she worried She decided. She worried. She did what she wanted to do. Of course she loves her child now, because the alternative is to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 12:03 AM
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That being said, at least her requirements seem reasonable. Of course we don't know her true requirements, but at least the ones she wrote on her profile seem reasonable. Sadly she already at least 10 years late. Her requirements are not reasonable, because she's at least 10 years late. Dating and marriage is a young person's game. At mid-thirties you've lived the bulk of your adult life. Past forty, you are simply living out your earlier decisions. I've said before, 40s and 50s is when you expe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 11:47 PM
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It is not what she's looking for now either. She's looking for a bailout from a man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/22 11:10 PM
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First, you are not wrong. Perhaps not to the same standards precisely, and any gap is a problem with general society / public acceptability. However, you can self advocate and press the issue. Remember that you have no direct control over criminal prosecution; district attorneys are political positions of power, and they decide how the criminal laws are enforced and who is prosecuted. You have greater and direct control over civil law prosecution. To the current topic, I've pointed out why rape …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 08:06 PM
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I don't understand what you're saying. Most women today don't have fathers from an old fashion point of view, and we can't argue that women don't themselves consent to what they do, because doing so would strip them of their individual agency and accountability. Also, what does proving your worth to marry have to do with dealing with divorce or divorce lawyers? Thanks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 07:48 PM
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some sort big plan to ruin systematically the development of children Single mothers don't care about their children - not nearly as much as they care about themselves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 10:52 AM
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I played enough in my 20's to last me a lifetime, so I'm done with the games. I love it when they self-identify themselves as who they really are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 10:32 AM
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Women telling me what a " real man" is This is shaming language. It is important to recognize it for what it is. Ignore the shaming attempt and be more discerning of the person whom says it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 10:29 AM
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Kevin Samuels: "I'm tried of women shitting on average men!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 10:26 AM
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Agreed, the problem is not OLD but the new idea women have adopted that men and women are the same. Women will frequently complain that no one shames a man for having sex with hundreds of women; why should women be judged differently? Later: Now I demand to be treated different because I want a man to provide for me and make me feel like a lady.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 10:20 AM
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Give me A and I will give you B in return As this relates to sex, you are describing prostitution.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 09:54 AM
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Just ask her, "what app are you using?" Her: "I'm using ___ online dating app." Response: "___ is a hookup app." Hint: they're all hookup apps. Modern marriage is dying.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 09:45 AM
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redefine consent This is why words have specific means, and we need to fight the good fight against the redefining of words. I also predict this would never become law because it (1) could only be written with vague and thought based elements and (2) would have unintended consequences. As for vague and thought based elements, men would learn to take the 5th more (good thing), and ... this could also become a viable defense to a law like this: "yes, I was totally into her and wanted a serious, co…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 09:32 AM
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I would not say she's hot. Her face looks worst for the wear. I'd agree she's thin, and young and thin are usually 90% of attractiveness for women. I'd agree she's not ugly - maybe even average attractiveness - but not hot. It is interesting that there are women who can have 5 children and still be thin but some women have one child and balloon up uncontrollably.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 12:19 AM
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I'm confused by the stupidity of some people who hate the cops but want the cops to run their healthcare. They hate the DMV but want the DMV to run their healthcare. They hate the courts but want the courts to run their healthcare. They hate the USPS but want the USPS to run their healthcare. Replace with any government entity and the effect should be the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 12:07 AM
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Should men ever compete for a woman? I'm thinking no.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 06:23 PM
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Do you know how engineers measure the strength of lumber? Well, at the factory they will pull out random pieces from the production line and test them. They test each piece in a large hydraulic press, applying pressure to it, continuously measuring the stress as the lumber bends until it eventually cracks and splits. They record the final results and then throw the broken lumber in the trash. It's broken. It's trash. They don't attempt to fix it or sell it to a customer. There are women out ther…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 03:48 AM
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I had plenty of fun in my 20s and 30s. I would not say I "benefited" from anything in my 20s and 30s. And I feel it's the norm now, more so than 20 yrs ago. But that's only my perspective. Another telling part of her statement is how she believes it is so normal and applies to everyone. That's why she says she didn't benefit from it - because everyone was doing it. This is not true. These types of women have bought into the narrative that men and women are the same to the point that she believe …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 03:24 AM
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so and so's relationship ended during the 2year pandemic and now their ex is dating someone 5, 10, 15 years younger. Nice. I appreciate happy endings. I hope to hear more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 03:09 AM
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I'm going to lean into your suspicions. Even if a married man invited her into a threesome with his wife (I don't believe husband was inviting and wife was not agreeable), why would she not do it for a little fun for the evening. Oh wait... I've already discussed this... it is because a MFF threesome requires the women to compete, and I don't think she wants to put in effort. It is possible she'd be more inclined for a MFM threesome for this reason, because in that situation she's literally a se…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 03:07 AM
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choosing last does not entitle you to the best and biggest option pool. Worth repeating. Thanks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 02:52 AM
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I have realized in recent years that the intelligence in modern society has gone down and that a large percentage of our population doesn't understand how markets work, among other fundamental things. This reflects just how much traction the communism movement has made in education and society. This includes a lack of critical thinking skills - how to think. That's why most of the younger generation has been taught to just regurgitate "facts" and have such a positive opinion about socialism (soc…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 11:38 PM
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I really don't know. My father was in the military. She is 11 years older than me and moved to another city when she turned 18 (to a city she spent her teenage years thus more familiar), so we were not very close. I attended the wedding as a distance object in the corner. I remember thinking to myself, "how much does all this fancy stuff cost?" We didn't grow up wealthy, so it seemed excessive to me. How people grow up really affects them. Modern feminism and communism lie and preach the opposit…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 11:13 PM
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I wonder if she grew up in a wealthy family. It might explain the weight issue and other personality issues.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 11:04 PM
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What do I call a woman over 140 lbs? Just don't call them at all. :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 08:58 PM
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TRUTH: Men and women are not equal. Men and women are different, Therefore, the rules of life are different. Keys that open many different locks are high value master keys. Locks that are opened by many different keys are low value shitty locks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 07:58 PM
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Imagine knowing that her top priority when she was with those other guys was fun - she was having a lot of fun with lots of smiles - , but now she's with you for . . . <sigh> . . . well, not fun, and there are no smiles in sight.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 07:47 PM
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Vet her past, 27+ women are leftover women, stay away. Past a certain age, you should begin to assume her past is a problem, therefore, she is not wife material.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 06:12 AM
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Any self conscious person would not go have sex while high She might have grown up in wealthy family. This might explain ability to buy drugs frequently and incredibly low fear for safety and security. It would also explain hedonism due to lack of need/purpose/drive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 06:09 AM
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It only takes one particular previous sexual partner/experience to absolutely ruin a woman forever. As a woman's "body count" increases, so does the probability that the woman's husband will not be the man that she values most. If the husband is not whom the wife values most, she will resent and hate him. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Bridges_of_Madison_County_(film) Someone mentioned this film before, so I read the wiki - didn't watch the movie. The wiki itself explains the concept. Note al…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 05:59 AM
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Is there an option to expand all, or to not have comments collapsed?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 09:28 PM
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women like this are prime divorce candidates Can confirm. My sister had huge wedding - Rolls Royce, flowers, professional photos, and all, then divorced three years later.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 09:24 PM
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I think the best part of his show is that he gets these women to open up and talk, then you see their true thoughts and reactions. A lot of his callers can't understand why most men don't want to deal with a woman with kids. Another great thing he is doing is that he makes a clear distinction between married and not married. His show on Feb. 14th had a very good interaction with a single mother - highly recommended.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 09:22 PM
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She's complaining on TikTok, because she doesn't have any friends. Some people have invested too much of themselves into their virtual existence, which means very little in the end. I'm in the stage of life where I'm watching all my friends She doesn't actually want to have kids. She's just comparing herself to other people she knows and wants what they have.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 02:31 AM
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eww! single or divorced dads! They don't have money, and they have some other woman's kids! eeww! /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 02:26 AM
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it's only human to feel bad for her. I don't think she is hurting much at all. She's probably just angry that she can't have the toasted ice she was promised. I don't feel sorry for her. She is an attractive woman, and I'd bet my last paycheck that she's had a great number of good men show interest in her. I'm sure she has leveraged her attractiveness for many foodie dates. She has lived a pretty sweet life. She choose to push off marriage and a relationship for whatever else she wanted more. Sp…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 02:21 AM
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screw all you Kevin Samuel guys Kevin Samuels has been a blessing. I suspect he reads this sub. I'm not asking him to stand up, but... thank you sir. Keep doing the Lord's work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 01:50 AM
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I too was wondering what the "talking phase" was. Are men doing through interviews now? That would be a good thing. I bet she's still fucking Chad though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 01:48 AM
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Thank you. I thought about your response. I believe we are thinking about this similarly, and I think this concept is more insightful than we causally might think. I'm now seeing that what she is saying is that being in a relationship with a man and having sex with him is the basis of her claim to his assets and money. She deserves his assets; those assets are really hers; and it is only because they are NOT married that HER assets are NOT legally protected - for lack of a stupid piece of paper …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 02:08 AM
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Please allow me to point some noteworthy areas of the linked article. The author is a communist and an atheist. I'm not trying defame atheists. However, I believe communism is bad and founded on false principles. Throughout the article she uses the word love as if it is a mystically force of emotional feeling. Atheists will often, while rejecting the existence of a god, attribute many things of existence to spiritual and mystically forces. A week later, I saw him on a date with someone else in t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 04:25 AM
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I doubt she's a CEO. She specifically said "small business owner". CEOs are employees, and being a good one is work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 05:54 AM
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Just because someone explicitly uses only one account on one sub doesn't mean that it's to the point of complete obsession. There's ample doubt here, and when there's doubt, why won't you do the right thing and give me the benefit of it? Edit: I'm still learning the reddit webs pages. I immediately clicked the unbutton.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 05:25 AM
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Have a great day! :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 05:15 AM
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You're so desperate to believe this woman is a terrible person I don't have to convince myself; I know she's a terrible person. We just have different criteria for judging a person's character. That's OK. According to your criteria, is a sex worker a terrible person? That's OK. See? We just have different criteria. According to your criteria, am I a terrible person?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 05:06 AM
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I'd predict he's Chad and the 'arguing' was just her shit-testing in an attempt to tame Chad. That didn't work, so they "broke up". Now she's trying to bribe him with sex, which isn't working either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 04:49 AM
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So, long story short, about a year ago... followed by a wall of blah, blah, blah, blah, blah
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 04:45 AM
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I used to say of my ex-wife: "She's not happy unless she's mad about something."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 04:21 AM
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Sorry to hear that. Soldiers are often targets for baby trapping - not for the man but for the benefits.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 04:14 AM
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Just because someone explicitly states that they don't want the dregs of society wasting their time doesn't mean that up to this point they've been banging them. Yes... yes it does.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 04:05 AM
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(quick moderator removed the comment before I could finish) :( ha! :) not every single person with a child is a carousel-riding harpy who's looking for a bailout before they hit the wall. Maybe not - in theory, but this one definitely is. A bailout also includes love and commitment she now wants but rejected while having fun while dating was fun for her. TRUTH: Women are the gatekeepers of sex and reproduction. RULE: Never date, marry, commit or otherwise provide provisions to a single mother. E…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 03:48 AM
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owns a business and breeds dogs If the business isn't making money, it's not a business. If you are the primary worker and it provides positive cash flow, you are self-employed. If you are the primary worker and it doesn't provide positive cash flow, it is just a hobby. You're a business owner only if it provides positive cash flow and operates without you. Edit: to be more specific about someone claiming to be a business owner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 03:15 AM
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But this only applies to salvation. Ask the pastor if he'd like his son to marry the whore. His truth position will be seen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 12:51 AM
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One thing that always sticks out to me as I read these profiles: they will say something obviously simple and important, and then follow that up with LOL. a relationship is a top priority, lol This of course is being said by a 19 year-old single mother. I don't want ... sex She doesn't want sex, because she can have sex anytime. What she wants is love - from wealthy Christian Chad; she forgot to finish that statement. However, a single mother of two children from some other dude is disqualified.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 12:09 AM
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She didn't mean it as an insult or shaming ploy but rather her understanding of the term. I don't think they meant it as an insult or shaming either - from their perspective. The older, woman coworker and I got along well, had good conversations, and likely shared many similar values. However, in her mind, I hated women. If you worked in brand x dealership, but you spoke of brand x as being nothing special; it has flaws like other brands and that the dealership will often try to push warranty re…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 09:04 PM
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My elder generation woman friend said I was a "case of misogyny, bad" Gentlemen, be prepared for SIGN language like this. Be prepared for when someone calls you a misogynist. This is just Shaming and Insults. An older woman I worked with said that I didn't like women. No, I just treat them as equals and didn't treat them special. Understand that, to women and some men, this is hate - that disregarding their specialness is hate to them. Once you go your own way and stop treating them as special a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 08:06 PM
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Law Enforcement Officer
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 06:59 PM
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But it is also how they describe the marriage relationship they desire.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 02:00 PM
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Remember, single mothers purposely had children outside of marriage. One of the many reasons why: they believe this gives them power over the father. I'm not talking about state order child support; do what you need to so you don't go to jail. However, they believe the father is now on the hook to answer the phone whenever she calls and demands stuff. She now sees him as a morally obligated resource to her. If the child needs something, call the baby daddy. If something in the house needs to be …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 12:32 PM
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I left my ex-partner a life partner It might just be me, but every time I hear a woman say "partner", it is just a loud alarm of red flags to me. My mother used to tell me that having a baby would ruin my chances in life, but ... She was told by her own mother the rules of life. She rejected what her own mother said. I don't like threesomes In addition to what others have already said regarding her participating in them in the past but will refuse you in the future, she doesn't like threesomes b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 02:00 AM
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Venezuela is well known socialism. Are there others in Central / South America that are socialism too?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 01:41 AM
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Women generally don't understand the principles of investment. They are primarily an expense and only think in terms that would be filed under operating cost. A man's investment is based on a biologically calculated risk / return analysis. We are not going to write an essay if we have a low percentage of return on investing our time. She likely has all day to sit around and flip through responses.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 01:38 AM
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I think asking for source violates this forum's rules.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 01:30 AM
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She's lying.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 01:18 AM
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More so if he's married. They get the pride and joy of destroying a marriage/family. They can to extort him. It's easier to see him as a play toy, because they don't need to have a concern for a relationship with him... but, if they do destroy his family, then he could be theirs. That counts as a win! Tee-hee!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 01:17 AM
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"Spiritual" is a flag for me. I feel that most spiritual people have or will have a crisis of purpose in their lives. An atheist? OK. One of the many monotheist? OK. But "Spiritual" seems a vague foggy indecisive answer. I expect someone who's Spiritual to say belief in God is stupid, but "I definitely feel the wisdom in the wind & trees." Opinions on this may vary. It might be the weight, but I sense from the third picture that she probably has done some hard drugs - heroin or meth maybe. It's …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 07:21 PM
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We can now get the baby's DNA from the mother's blood? Part of the reason for the rule is that the woman's womb and her "unattachment to other men by shared children" is part of her bargaining for marriage. Once she has a child, even if it is yours, there is no reason to marry her; at the very least it is less reason, but I stand firm on my rule. If a man still wishes to consider marrying her, he should at least verify paternity of the child.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 01:35 AM
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PREFACE: If you have an mental or physical illness, I hope you want to be healthy and that you seek help to get healthy if you need it to get healthy. I don't think she is a sex addict. You could say that maybe I don't truly understand sex addiction. Maybe so, but addiction is a vague illness that by the strict definition is only an "illness" if there are "negative" consequences. FOOTNOTE: You'd be hard pressed to find single universal definition, and I'm not here to debate the definition. Some …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 12:32 AM
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This makes me think all the more about the importance of men waiting before getting married and squeezing out kids. Women who know they're pregnant may try to pregnancy trap a guy with some other man's kids by love bombing him. This is why men should never marry a woman with a child - even if you think it is yours. The fact that a woman would have a child outside the bounds of marriage is an important character flaw on her part. This is in addition to it possibly being a pregnancy trap attempt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 05:50 PM
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"I will touch you, but you have to pay me" Will someone explain the difference between this and prostitution? /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 05:40 PM
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How is sending "dick pics" illegal? How would unsolicited vs. solicited affect the legality?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 05:35 PM
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lots of women also have terrible men being a big issue in their lives; they too often encounter men who lie, cheat, send unsolicited dick pics and are generally douchebags. These women and strong and powerful. These women choose the men in their lives. They choose these men intentionally. They are responsible for the outcomes of their choices.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 05:25 PM
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This is actually great news! You now know who she is. This is good. He just needs to learn the appropriate response, and this begins with emotional detachment. Remain calm, and don't say anything about it. Now you can decide to simply exit the situation or stay and enjoy the sex as you build yourself. On second thought... I'm not giving the lack of trustworthiness enough consideration. He should find a good opportunity to exit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 10:29 AM
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Damn. Kevin Samuels is right. Theses women simply refuse to smile. She just maintains that hard stoic stare. You just know she's going to be fun to be around. /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 10:14 AM
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RULE: Never be a father to a child that is not yours. TRUTH: Children always seek out their biological parents, and it's easier than ever now with DNA databases and the internet. One of the comments to this article spoke about being a child of a cheating wife. The writer mentioned that his mother wouldn't tell him who his father was. Imagine that for a second. Imagine not knowing who your father is because your mother won't tell you - or can't tell, she tells you she knows but won't tell because…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 09:59 AM
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TRUTH: When there is a problem in society that centers around women, don't be surprised when you hear the solution is to punish men. Just gently and carefully push back on those arguments. Also, take note of those around you and on what side they stand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 09:47 AM
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Couples should prioritize their relationship over their children. I've held this view too, but seeing you write it so concisely has prompted me to add it to my rules - although likely reworded. I wrote this to up vote and thank you. This is such an important rule and a huge red flag if violated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 12:51 PM
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Was there a link to the video?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 05:20 PM
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absent fathers There are no "absent fathers". There are only good men that the mother drove away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 05:18 PM
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it is a crime only if she can pin it down to a specific person That's easy. She only has to accuse a specific person. Imagine going to the police station after being railed by 20 different guys in one month and wanting to file a complaint but all you have is .... tinder logs? This is easy too, because most cops, DAs, and judges believe and defend women. No one will criticize her for her sexual behavior. what they gonna do ? find 20 [unmatched] people and test them all for individual STDs ? LEO a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 10:08 AM
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Moriah Mills is currently 31-years-old according to iafd. The article listed her as 28. Either way, the before and after pictures in the link above are likely 10 to 13 years apart. The article is likely an ad too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 09:40 AM
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Recipe for a heart attack. More truth than some might think. Stress literally kills. As part of separating from my ex-wife, I realized she was literally trying to kill me. She never brought peace to my life. I never felt like she cared about me. Anytime she called me, it was a demand or a problem for me to fix. Stress will kill you. Gentlemen, avoid unhealthy stress by avoiding women who cause unhealthy stress.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 09:23 AM
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What if you were a man, would you marry a woman like yourself? Thanks for some recent Kevin Samuel's video, we now understand that these women believe that most man are having just as much sex as them. Therefore, their situation is just the same as the men, and they think, "why should their be any difference in outcome?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 12:49 AM
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This is what I was questioning to myself. He unmatched me so quickly I was thinking, "so, you still have a phone number, right?, right?" Is this how it is in the hookup dating culture now? she probably got some new STD to her collection now She's probably already got it. how dfq do you even plan to track him down if you figure out later that he gave you AIDS ? I'm not sure, but one thought is that giving someone HIV or herpes is a crime in many states now - if she didn't already have them. The l…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 12:44 AM
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They’d be entitled to a social security benefit until they are 18, I think. I'm not familiar with how that works, but I suspect it's not enough in her option. More importantly, she hates him. It's more advantageous to attempt a baby trap a new man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 03:03 PM
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how it's possible to be so delusional? Easy: just be a woman. I'm not trying to insult. Women are told a lot of lies - from her parents, teachers, society, the state, family, friends, guys, etc. They are also don't attempt to discern truth from lies or otherwise seek truth out for its own sake. Consider a young lady (perhaps early teenager) that is gaining weight. Often her parents will not even discuss it with her. Perhaps their emotional nature means negative conversations translate directly t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 09:07 AM
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I'm confused. Who's the person behind her? A twin?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 08:45 AM
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One of those bishes said if he went to therapy she would want him to DM her again. She's lying. She wants him to DM her now - "therapy" or not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/22 05:47 PM
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For the historical record: https://worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video-c.php?v=wshhE90Ft6WMMFI7On40 I'm not going to do a big write-up on this, but it is so powerful to hear in their own words in their voice. It is worth the 15-min video. But... a few notes: All these women highlighted in the video are average at best. One of the women stated she received full body photos with view of his tool, and... that he's got a very large tool. This same woman agreed to meet with him after the original "ghost…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 04:22 PM
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Allow me to translate and explain: currently married. However, with her own words, being legally married does NOT make you a wife. I have twin 18 months Her 18-month twins were conceived at 29, thus they could be the result of baby rabies to secure a financial tie to the husband she clearly does not care about. She likely would have divorced him a few more years down the road - you know, like when they're old enough to start school and the courts would grant more in spousal support and alimony. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 09:37 PM
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This one is for the comic relief. :) I like her face, but I question that jacket with that body suit, black fingernails and a lip piercing, and a lanyard with keys and what looks like pepper-spray. a good man will come eventually Good men come all the time. Will she be able to taste the difference? a good man will come eventually Yes! You hear that guys! It will be our turn... oh... "eventually"? when the hell will that be? Got my greatest blessing so I'm not mad She's referring to the sperm, no…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 08:11 PM
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why was there such a fight for accessible & free birth control for no one to use it? The difference is between the thing versus the power over the thing. These women don't really care about free birth control or the children; they care only for the power that comes from having the choice and having the children. These women would rather have full control of a house that's on fire and burning to the ground than live with a husband and their children in a warm, comfortable, family home. These wome…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 07:59 PM
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she should have waited on the divorce The stupidity is on full display. Does she not realize that the increased income would never have happen until after the divorce? My ex-wife demanded half my income tax refund after we were separated. My sister said to me: "the reason I don't have a house is because I didn't get it in the divorce". Yeah, that's where houses come from. /s SMH She was only married a couple of years. I wonder if she understood the mortgage payment would have came with it. TRUTH…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 07:37 PM
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I also blame the man for this. ... They're adults, if they ... they shouldn't ... their bad life choices. You can try to blame the man, but men do not decide to have children - her body, her choice. RULE: Women are the gatekeepers of sex and reproduction. A child is born only when and because a woman so chooses. RULE: Men and women are not equal; they are different and thus not comparable. Having children outside of marriage is not nearly a negative for men as it is for women. Many would say tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 07:11 PM
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Not unless she was adult enough to do porn but not adult enough to do much else. Be careful. This principle has sound legal standing: adult enough to die at war; not adult enough to have a beer adult enough to carry a firearm; not adult enough buy the firearm adult enough to carry a firearm; not adult enough to carry concealed adult enough to serve/sell beer; not adult enough to drink it yourself old enough to go to prison as adult; not old enough to legally be an adult old enough to decide to c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 10:40 AM
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Thank you for your response. I hope I'm not too tired as I write this. I understand that my stance on this point is a little outside of the normal window here. Perhaps I should have elaborated a little more in the original comment, but this works too by segmenting the thought. Whether this is a correction or an expansion, let me continue here: I will maintain: Widows are NOT an exception. However, I will amend this with: Widows shall receive grace - that being a grace period for healing. The con…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 09:23 AM
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Thanks to u/Maximum-Complaint-68 for posting content! First a technical glitch regarding this article. The date on the article is January 18, 2022, but it references an 18-year-old Roxie Sinner. If you follow the breadcrumbs, you'll find that Roxie Sinner is now at least 20-years-old and literally a porn prostitute. The Rolling Stone didn't try to conceal her identity because that was probably an intentional ad. That being said, the article is intended to center around the effects of the Covid l…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 07:10 AM
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Up voted for your low-key but awesome reference!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 04:10 AM
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I was not excited. What about the third paragraph (btw, that was referring to single mothers)? What does "go touch some grass" mean?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 03:08 AM
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I do remember that Steve Harvey show. In that instance, I think Steve's point was less about contradictions but rather pointing out women's behavior of building a list of requirements based on past relationships. For example, "no guys with yellow cars, because ex # 26 had a yellow car." Good clip. Here is a link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T3XkgbOFyJU Note to self: this needs better write up because it is another way of destroying your future with "dating" (pair bonding). The one I'm thinki…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 02:44 AM
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RULE: Never date, commit, marry, or otherwise provide provisions to a single mother. This rule stands whether she is never married or divorced. If the situation is that she is the mother of your children, this is NOT an exception to this rule. Widows are NOT an exception. Any interaction with single mothers should be seen as an expense to sex - to sex that is satisfactory and, thus, definitely happening. I personally would not recommend even sexual interaction - you have been warned. As describe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 05:49 PM
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I'm pretty sure I just read an ad to draw attention to this woman's social media. despite her stunning looks, she's been single for six months. oh no! The end of days is upon us! “I’ve been on dates where guys just can’t speak to me." I suspect the guys didn't want to or she couldn't support a conversation. I would totally let a friend set me up with someone. In fact, I would prefer it. This is actually a hidden gem. Since she has not been successfully set up, we can conclude that none of her fr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 10:10 AM
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Even past female Tinder employees felt like the app was a complete waste of time for men. But not a waste of time for women... like, it's still an effective app for ordering up a hookup (sex) anytime they want. If half the guys walked away their company would go bankrupt within a few months. Do you think we could start a movement? - The 2022 Great Exodus from Online Dating! nah, it'd never work, plus where would we get all our great content then?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 04:09 AM
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I respectfully disagree. She offered to many men everything they wanted: easy sex. And kudos to those men, because they know the rule. Do you know the rule? Hint: it has something to do with her being a single mother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 03:56 AM
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One female for every Nine males Is that before or after ignoring that 1/2 of females are bots or ads for OnlyFans?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 03:49 AM
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means nothing to me without a police report Police reports are meaningless too. The police will just write down what the women says; it doesn't make it true. I am not advocating violence. I just don't care. Not only are women the gatekeepers of sex, they also choose the men they associate with. As my insurance agent explained, if you have a lot of comprehensive claims ("rock hits your car"), the insurance company will begin to question your choices of where you drive and park. It still reflects …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 11:13 PM
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They say they want men who are emotional, but nothing is a bigger turnoff Referencing my other comment in this thread: more evidence that they actually do understand their true nature.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 10:53 PM
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The terms have lost all meaning. The terms never had meaning; to women, terms represent feelings.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 10:41 PM
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It is unnecessary to determine if the "misleading" is intentional or not. Someone may value knowing the difference, but, nevertheless, the why is irrelevant to the typical outcome. For example, I had growing up a mother and two sisters. None of them explained the truth of female behavior to me. They either knowingly didn't educate me (intentionally setting me up for misery) or unknowingly failed to educate me (supposedly because they were too fucking stupid about a subject matter they should hav…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 10:35 PM
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I'm sure, if we polled the audience, we'd hear many stories such as this. I wonder if women understand that most good men (I'm projecting) are not into the idea of heavy petting in public (anything beyond hugging and a kiss or two). Oh crap... I'm sure I stepped in it here. I'm prepared for the incoming wave of "no guy, I love doing sexy time in public."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 10:02 AM
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AWALT
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 08:01 AM
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RULE: Never date, commit, marry, or otherwise provide provisions to a single mother. She made her choice. don't waste my time, and don't ask me what I'm looking for You may frequently hear people give the advice to clearly determine the other person's intentions. This right here shows you that (1) they don't want to hear it and (2) they don't care. These facts are true for many reasons that I'm not able to detail fully now; I'll give you one: she's on a hookup app. These facts are enough before …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 04:01 AM
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she kept sucking on my neck She was trying to mark you to cause drama - me thinks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 03:45 AM
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my ex would ask if I thought her mom This falls within: questions women should never ask.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 03:42 AM
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She is Mt. Doom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 03:38 AM
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Reverse deep throat. It seems like... why? It seems like a good way to get a foreign object in her lungs. It seems unnecessary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 03:37 AM
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From "Two truths and a lie..." I like to go to church. I'm a big fan on Starbucks. I've been in a mosh pit. The lie is... "I'm a big fan on Starbucks." People who are fans of Starbucks think everyone is, because "why wouldn't you - it's, like, so great!" Also, this is the one she misspelled. People who dislike Starbucks think they are so rare - "my gosh, I'm so special!" She's projecting her faith ("I love God." and specifying Catholic), So, she adds this here to continue the projection. She may…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 07:17 AM
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Using the logic of today, __ is __ because - and only because - someone says it is or that their feelings determine it to be so. A falsehood can become my truth because someone said you can't invalidate someone's feelings. A man can become a woman because he says it to be his true self. Fat can become beautiful because someone says they feel it should be. A boba tea is healthy because someone feels it is. A salad is obviously more healthy (despite having more fat and calories due to salad dressi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 04:54 PM
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Good point. "I like to laugh" should be read as, "I like to laugh. This is something YOU can DO for ME. You can ensure that I'm ENTERTAINED. Do it now!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 04:14 PM
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I disagree. First let's establish: she's not wanting to marry ANY man. She wants to marry a particular provider man with a good job with good health benefits. Any man that would marry her would be the excessively compassionate type - not the controlling type. He would do so because he would already see her as a victim and just in need of a good man - he's a good man. He will soon realize that she is neither thankful nor giving. He will soon experience misery and then more misery when she divorce…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 04:07 PM
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She's a single mother. This is all you need to know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 03:40 PM
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she told me I needed to contribute around the apartment more cleaning etc. Bitch first off this is my apartment you are just a guest I'm highlighting this as another example of how women overly project communal attributes to things that are not. She sees it as "the" apartment, really meaning "our" apartment. This way she can re-frame and mentally dismiss the truth that it really is just yours.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 03:33 PM
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most women aren't actually capable of long term love. ftfy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 03:18 PM
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Typically all men pay (provisions if not cash) for sex - even girlfriends and wives. The "go away" is just part of the bundled package deal hookers provide. Therefore, you don't "pay" for the sex; you pay for the "go away", because the sex cost is universal. Perhaps another way of thinking is: why you pay vs. what you pay for. I'll add another note for the prostitute's package deal: another implied part of the package deal is privacy and secrecy, but Stormy Daniels has shown us to never trust th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 03:11 PM
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I would slightly disagree. She is lean, but not a "killer body" - even though that's a little subjective. I'm getting the feeling that she is a tall woman with strong bones - think volleyball/basketball player type body, perhaps would be model but not thin enough. She's good looking enough to have had lots of sexual partners from the club but not the hot little woman you want to wife. Just what I'm seeing... Responding here to respected members: u/Snoid_, u/Mundane_Worldliness7 I do agree. Beaut…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 02:59 PM
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I wish I could up-vote this X10. This is a very important concept for men to understand women and why women should avoid premarital sex. I hope to do a full write up on this concept.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 02:46 PM
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Now realize that a large percentage of the current 20's generation is this way. Neither my son nor any of his friends wants anything to do with marriage, because they saw the behavior of their mothers. Some of them had high income fathers and saw the large checks flowing to their mothers but used for her lifestyle. I specifically remember the government ads from when I grew up in the 80's and 90's that single mothers were "heroes". I remember thinking that women just wanted a man to love them an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 02:27 PM
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her tirade should be treated as a confession Very useful tip when reading these profiles!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 02:01 PM
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If you want (a), then swipe left. If you want (b), then swipe left. If you want (c), then swipe left. Gentlemen, this pattern is called preemptive rejection. Reply if you know it by a different name. This pattern is often used to deflect criticism of obvious flaws, typically using extreme standards or language, i.e. "trophy wife", "Barbie", "just sex", etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 01:56 PM
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Nice. I understand you went with the literal read of this, but I'd like to point out that the figurative read is untruthful. She immediately follows up with these statements: I adore life and I enjoy it to the max!! VERY independent, I am my own Queen I would say that, instead of being a person "with a bigger heart" (loving and giving of one's self), she is actually self-centered and self-focused. She is enjoying life by doing what she wants but also what is easy and enjoyable ("easy going girl"…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 01:42 PM
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Besides the principle that there is no dating; you are either married or not married. ___ is not ___ if ___ is missing the essential elements/attributes of what ___ should have. A car is not a car, if it has only two wheels. A plane is not a place, if it doesn't have wings. A relationship is not a relationship, if it lacks trust and intimacy. He is not your boyfriend, if you're lying about who you are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 01:12 PM
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Interesting... why do you think this is? A quick theory: lack of established medical care and health insurance industry? (I really know very little of the area.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 12:49 PM
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Thank you sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/22 02:19 AM
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Ah, you are correct. I now see that the chrome piece is a facet. I am thinking hotel room now. I don't see wallpaper. I think that is a patterned backsplash. Perhaps the band on her wrist is a hair band because she's 'bout to tie her hair back again. There should be a entire sub for "what's in the background of this photo." Ha!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 06:50 PM
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She’s too lazy or cheap to even go to the correct sugar baby website instead she just posts this on a regular dating website. This is why I suspect this is simply a disguised escort ad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 04:43 PM
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Thank you kind sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 01:51 PM
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Thanks friend. If the specifications refer to a past man, I wouldn't be surprised if its based on her husband - as a frame of reference that she knows.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 10:03 AM
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First, u/FaeVandal mentioned that the picture looks distorted. Notice how clean that bathroom is? That's right, that is a public restroom - and not a hotel guest room (see the chrome soap dispenser; hotel rooms get small individual bars of soap). The mirror is offset from the wall with the lights behind it. At the right of her hip, is the toilet paper dispenser reflected in the mirror. The room is too "off-white" to be a person bathroom. Therefore: public restroom at a hotel or semi-nice venue. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 09:52 AM
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I'm going to go out on a limb here and make a further analysis of this height/weight requirement. This builds on my previous comment on this thread. 5'11" and 175 lbs. is the upper limit of the BMI Normal Weight range. This specification was not an accident. She did not state this based on feelings or something she heard. I'd guess that she works in a medical related field. Again from my previous comment, she's looking for sex. She wants a man who is tall (long appendage) and thin (athletic) eno…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 01:16 AM
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Well... Dinner should be ready at the designated time. I'd offer instead, imagine her man said, "Okay, show me wild cowgirl.... AND GO!" You were probably just keeping it Safe For Work. Up voted. ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 12:51 AM
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My guess is that she's recently separated - likely still legally married - as if there's any other type of "married". Profile is short, but I'd focus in on the "[Searching for] Relationship" - no reference to marriage or long-term. Her only "requirements" are both physical. She doesn't want more kids. "AND GO" leads me to believe she's newly back in the market and expects suitors to jump up and dance on command - like when she was previously in the market many years ago. Based on this and the la…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 12:37 AM
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It means: "AND BEGIN DANCING NOW!!!! DANCE FOR ME, YOU FOOLS!!!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 12:03 AM
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expect you to be an altruist while they act completely for their own self-interest Altruism - this is the idea on which socialism and communism is sold on. Of course it is a lie and ends with disappointment and unhappiness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 04:08 PM
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Actually it is an impossible concept, because the men they want to have children with will not commit to them. So what do they do? They will carry his child without his commitment and demand provision from the group. This is a communist mindset.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 03:54 PM
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I've seen this as a new re-occurring thing women say openly and upfront in their OLD profiles: "I have kids, but their fathers are in their lives. They have dads. I'm not looking for a step-father (implying she doesn't expect you to pay for them)." First, I doubt she's not expecting any provisions. Any provisions provided towards her also goes to support the other man's kids. Secondly, I don't care, because it doesn't matter. You're a single mother. You are therefore already incompatible for and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 03:52 AM
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You are correct sir. “Wow why the hate i do expect people won’t accept it but no need to be mean and talk down to me like that!! (sic),” she said. Here she specifically says it, "i do expect people won't accept it". She is intentionally wasting good men's time. She swiped right on Chad who is a self-employed builder. Did she swipe right on someone more her match? No, she specifically wanted to waste a good man's time; maybe he's one the old fashion men who pay for someone else's kids. /s just ca…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 03:12 AM
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It looks an awful lot like the start of the convo immediately after a match That was too much wasted time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 02:49 AM
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To be fair, I think all the quoted references are out of context for the present topic/points being made - including mine. Being that this isn't the forum for a debate on these biblical passages, I'd ask us to end it here. The mod's may wish to delete all comments from the first bible ref down or leave up. Thanks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 02:35 AM
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I apologize that my response might have been interpreted to contain an attitude. It was not my intention. I think that fact my comment was not directly inline with the previous thought lead to the confusion. I posted that reply, not necessarily to counter your statement, but to add an additional perspective but didn't adequately write it out. Children are the product of their parents - literally and figuratively. Children receive much of what, who, and where they are from their parents. Therefor…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 02:12 AM
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Again women prove they suck at making good decisions. Actually, to these women, they think these are good decisions. Yes, it is dual-matting strategy (AF/BB), but that's exactly what they want, and they are betting on finding a Billy Beta to marry after having fun with Chad. My mission is to educate men (and women who will listen) to make better decisions - in hopes of better outcomes for everyone. We don't hate women here, but men and women are different.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 10:03 PM
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I hear you my friend. I sense your confusion. Now, imagine - for just one second, - imagine that they are lying. If your confusion immediately goes away, consider it more likely an explanation. In fact, they are lying. We don't NEED more blah, blah, blah. They just want more power - via money, position, and control. RULE: Always ignore "deserve". You have the right to remain silence (in USA); you earn your payroll; you can request a raise; men want sex; but you don't deserve anything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 09:44 PM
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Simple. The hospital would be held accountable - financially and in loss of reputation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 09:35 PM
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In France it's illegal for a man to get a DNA test done on a child to make sure it's his. So are 23andMe and other DNA services illegal/not allowed in France, or is it another one of those laws that tries to interpret your thinking and motivation?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 09:27 PM
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The bible says don't punish the children for the sins of the fathers Well, I know the bible does say children suffer the sins of the fathers, unto the third generation. Am I wrong? for I the Lord thy God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me Deuteronomy 5:9 (KJV) No, I'm not wrong. Edited to hopefully remove the appearance of aggressive attitude. Upon second reading after someone's response, I realize it…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 09:19 PM
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Depends state to state. 7 states recognize common-law marriage. Only a couple provide civil recourse for adultery.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 09:16 PM
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RULE: Never date, commit, marry, or otherwise provide provisions for a single mother. This is because... FACT: Kids always seek out and prefer their biological parents. Modern DNA registries and open adoption registries make this easier than ever. Adoption is an even worse situation now. Therefore, the corollary rule: RULE: Never provide provisions for a child that is not yours.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 09:12 PM
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I am wondering if female behavior is such that she knows guys don't want to hang out with her, but she only "wants" it because that's what she has been told to expect or demand - that's what everyone else is doing. Maybe this falls within slut defense but also an unconscious habit for which an individual might not even remember why they're doing it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/22 01:31 PM
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You're implying women listen to what men say. Men: We don't like nose piercings. Women: Ladies! Let's all get more nose piercings! The men really like them!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 09:15 PM
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Well bless your heart. You're about 23, right? How old are your kids?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 08:48 PM
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I'm sorry you feel she is a poor victim of the bad, evil man with his big, strong, hard, orgasmic cock. FACT: Women are the gatekeepers of sex and reproduction. No child is born that a woman did not chose to produce. 50/50 custody is not a real thing. "There are no accidents." -- Master Oogway If "two cars collide", then both are damaged and are of lower value - even the father. However, men and women are not the same - and are not equal. The rules of life and society are not the same - not only…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 08:36 PM
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What if I told you that it IS just a hookup app? What would have been your thoughts then? now?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 08:12 PM
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The analogy parallels that we are all cars and have a value in and determined by the mating market. Men can be damaged too, but the point being made originally is that - regardless of fault - damaged goods are damaged and have reduced value. In the mating market, we are all buyers of "cars" too. I can't think of a car to car parallel that fits within the analogy; so, the analogy is limited in scope - as are all analogies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 07:32 PM
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Analogies are inherently imperfect, but they are still greatly useful tools to understand principles where primary factors are similar. You can reduce your "[likelihood] to damage or crash it" by increasing your skill as a driver - education and good training. Sadly, we don't really teach driving in America anymore. I remember Driver's Education was a full class in high school. Today, the test is mainly DWI law and odd questions; actual time in the car with instructor is ~6 hours, not driving, j…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 06:32 PM
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It's all so confusing. She intends for it to be vague and confusing - if you're reading it. Chad doesn't read it. Chad swipes right, and then slides by if she's DTF. It's less confusing if you understand the language of this new era. BTW, if your photo is back-dropped by your yacht in Miami, hookups are definitely possible, because that's "something of interest".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 05:41 PM
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It sounds funny in theory, but it's best to act confused, smile and slowly walk away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 05:33 PM
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What do you do for work and hobbies?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 05:31 PM
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To be wife for married to a rich chad. actually... To divorce a rich chad, but that sadly first requires them to get married first. Then they don't have to do anything, allowing them to fuck random chads (plural emphasized) at leisure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 05:29 PM
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What country?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 05:07 PM
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Not likely... murders and sex offenders typically don't have a problem with depression, low self-esteem, or difficulties having sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 05:06 PM
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Imagine being this 40-year-old woman and not fully understanding that Tinder is a hookup app. Seriously, does she really think hot guys (she'd only match with Chad hot guys) want to hang out with her? Would does she want? Notice she doesn't say what she wants, other than entertain me ("having something of interest"). I'd really like to understand what someone like her wants to do - in this "new" stage of her life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 04:59 PM
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She needs to get subsided daycare, go to school, and get a job. I'm wondering why you didn't say something like, "she needs to find the first man willing to accept this damaged, low-value woman and be the best wife possible." No, you said nearly the extreme opposite. You said she should be REWARDED with money, resources, and more money. probably knocked up by some 25-year-old And here you're attempting to absolve her of accountability. "Some evil older man did this to her." Damn those evil, olde…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 04:41 PM
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RULE: Never date, commit, marry, or otherwise give provisions to a single mother. Damaged goods is appropriate for this post. If your car is damaged, it doesn't matter whether or not you hit a tree or if the tree fell on the car. It doesn't matter because either way your car is damaged, worth far less, and likely now undesirable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 04:17 PM
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No. Unless you're going to say that she was so mentally deficient as to not understand that pregnancy is a risk of sex, she made the decision to purposely bring through forth a child. If someone is so mentally deficient, they'd probably have 24h supervised care. Women know and understand sex - frequently more so than men. not [really] her fault this shit fucked her completely up You are attempting to absolve her of accountability by saying that "this" acted upon her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 04:09 PM
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I understand you're angry, and I'm sorry you're feeling that way right now. Can you give more information why a surrogate or a foreigner does not work for you?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 03:49 PM
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Yes and no. Yes, I'd agree with you that what was said is likely different than portrayed, but they did talk about divorce. However, things she did not say: "I don't care [if things get better]", "I'm just done", and "I'll never forgive". Years ago I learned, that when a woman tells you that you're "sweet", she's really saying "you did something nice, but I'm not at all attracted to you; get away from me you disgusting worthless thing, also please continue to do nice things for me". After having…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 12:38 PM
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Micro/macro-economics not withstanding, I think we can all agree that individual actors in the market make rational decisions considering their individual circumstances. In the present case, their decision was for the mother to be a SAHM. This can be an awesome opportunity, and she can be a force of greatness for her family. But that's the problem. She is centered on self. I have no money. I have no job. She sees her kids as her possessions - "my kids". She only thinks about herself and her want…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 11:33 PM
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Friends, watch what you say, and listen to what others say. You can't un-cook an egg, and you can't un-say something said. OP's husband should stop any efforts to buy a house and immediately talk with an attorney. They've already talked about divorce; the word has already been said. She has already checked out. The husband does need to handle this situation carefully. Talk to an attorney. Be a good father. Be pleasant to her, but generally stop talking about points of conflict - it's already ove…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 10:24 PM
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I appreciate your response. I remember a girl in high school in the mid-1980's that left town for a year to have a kid and then returned. That sweet spot of time where "dating" seemed good... this is a common phenomenon - not only regarding the present topic - but also physics, economics, mathematics, and nearly all areas of life including other soft sciences. Sadly, I'm concerned about the general lowing intellect in Western cultures and would love to study theories of increasing intelligent if…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 08:54 PM
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I would say that it is less related to any meaning those words might have but more signaling literally "whatever" sexually, reflecting a high level of desperation. I'm really shy in person so you'll have to do most of the talking. She has little to no personality. She has a vagina and puts on make-up; respondents are expected to entertain and not be boring. She has plenty of boring already.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 02:08 PM
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Seriously observations: It is likely the tilt of the head, the mouth open but not really a smile, and the way it looks she has to pull him in to take a picture. The child is also 'fidgeting' with the necklace - think fidget spinners. The picture is also taken upward likely as the child mainly looks down. Child's hair is also unkempt. Also from the photo, she just looks like an unpleasant person - not fun to be around. However, she is made up - make-up, eye lashes, and recently cut hair. Her hair…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 01:52 PM
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I'm 32, cis woman who mostly dates cis men. Mostly? Does she sometimes date women, homosexual men or trans-men? Dating has changed. Well, yes and no. This depends on your definition and perspective on dating. It sounds to me that OP's idea of dating is endless "romance", "romantic gestures", "sweet gestures", etc., in other words, her being provided for and entertained. However, dating has no objective standard. It is just a word people use to mean - I'm not a slut or whore for fucking random pe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 06:13 AM
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I read the article. I get the hint that she is of the Hispanic culture. I wonder if her parents knew. My experience tells me that her mother likely knew but her father may have not. I suspect there is something else not said. She uses a lot of terms used within the adultery forums. These were either quickly adopted or already accustomed. My bet would be she had been reading adultery forums for some time. I also don't appreciate the use of "affair" in place of adultery. The husband's response was…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 09:55 PM
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You bastard!!! That was some seriously funny stuff. Subscribed and forwarded. Thanks!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 09:06 PM
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Dude you can't say it is a "Cool Experience". I was awaiting the '\s', but none did I see. Honestly, at first I thought I had violated a rule and was being corrected by a MOD. Actually, I'm pretty sure that I can say that. It may be unpleasant. The truth is that she's not looking for a husband; therefore, we know what she IS looking for and how she is thinking. Dude, is that Greta in your pic? Nice. You should get one of the photos of her smiling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 06:34 PM
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but saying they don't care about their dead kids is fucked up Not exactly what I said, but let's go with how you phased it, "they don't care". Yes, and now you understand this woman. FACT: Men are more emotional than women. Men and women don't love, care or emote the same. Men are willing to risk death for what they believe, for what they cherish, and for what they love. (I think someone frequently links a post titled ~ "she can't love like you do").
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 06:21 PM
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That's actually just how she thinks... let me explain. To her, the death of a child was an exciting thing that happened to her - a cool experience that she'd like to share with everyone; that way you know she's got stuff happening around her. She got to do some stuff, arrange some events, got a lot of attention, etc. Boy! She sure is special! She's got big stuff going on! Don't be boring if you contact her! FACT: Single mothers don't care about their children as much as they proclaim. They see t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 08:27 AM
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NOBODY WANTS TO ADMIT THEY LOVE THEIR EX MORE THAN THEIR CURRENT PARTNER. I want to give this more emphasize as it shows the evolution and cause of the next failed relationship (I'll only hint here that it also relates to pair bonding). She doesn't really love the next "partner"; she really hates her next "partner". Don't be the next "partner" that she hates, or loves less than a past relationship. I put "partner" in quotes, because I have a rule. You are either married or not. My relationship w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 07:46 AM
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The mask is to conceal her identity (face) as her profile reveals the herpes. When she tells you she has herpes, it's not a warning. It is a filter and signal to the chads with herpes that she is DTF without the "conversation". By the way, someone else mentioned that many people have but don't know they have herpes. Herpes is NOT on the standard STD panel. Why? I have a couple thoughts: (1) it is so common already, (2) it is practically a do-nothing disease, and (3) it is medically considered a …
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