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| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Wow, this was disturbing to read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 11:51 AM |
| 2 | The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone.The posts on here always fail to acknowledge how it goes both ways - both men and women use each other in a utilitarian manner. Most human relationships have always been transactional on some level. The closest thing you can get to unconditional love is between parent and child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 09:41 PM |
| -1 | You're wasting your time chasing party girlsWhat was the point of this post? It’s pretty much common sense that party people are often problematic in general. Idk why you had to mention “party girls” specifically, but that’s pretty on brand for this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 06:31 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menWell, one thing she listed was a higher chance of having autistic offspring by reproducing with this type of man. As we all know, autism isn’t a desired outcome in general. I’ve never heard of parents beings thrilled that their kid is autistic. Another thing; if this type of man does eventually leave his partner for a younger woman, then that will most likely damage the partner and any children in a similar way that cheating & divorce damage the social thread of society. Society is made up of in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:58 AM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menThe men on this sub are not gonna like this one eats popcorn 🍿 I know one of these dudes that you’re describing and it’s true except 1) and 2), in his case. He has mommy issues and a STEM degree but is actually humble about it (for now anyway, it’s a fairly new thing for him). I didn’t even consider the last thing you said in 4) but I could totally see that being a thing with those dudes, assuming they find themselves having a chance with a younger woman (money and status being the obvious attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:45 AM |
| 10 | Bumble Backtracking is Proof That Men Will Always Be in ChargeI wonder if bro dislocated his shoulder from this massive reach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Why do great men engage in such misogyny?Misogyny and misandry serve no useful purpose. We are the same species. We both are capable of many of the same things, and there are a selective few things that one is capable of that the other isn’t. We are alike in many more ways than we are different. It’s shouldn’t be about “anything you can do, I can do/I can do better” but rather “we can do many things together”. It’s really sad that many men and women have lost this mindset. Humankind suffers as a result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Is there any hope in fixing gender relations?I feel like there's no fixing the dumpster fire at this point. As long as there are two extreme sides and no one is willing to find middle ground, the fire will just keep burning on and on. Same thing with politics. Peoples' differences push them farther apart than their similarities bring them together. We focus on differences rather than similarities. And people tend to double down defensively instead of trying to understand and consider anything outside of their own beliefs/perspective. No on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 05:36 PM |
| 3 | CMV People that claim that eating out a Women is wrong or emasculating or submissive are the biggest dorks on the planet.Are you being serious? I actually can’t tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 05:38 PM |
| 3 | CMV People that claim that eating out a Women is wrong or emasculating or submissive are the biggest dorks on the planet.Right, like wtf lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 02:51 PM |
| 1 | What women like vs what men think they likeThat’s actually pretty interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 12:58 AM |
| 2 | What women like vs what men think they likeBoth of those guys are def hot imo and I would venture to guess that most women think so too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 12:56 AM |
| 3 | Who do the really attractive women end up with?Y’all ask some weird questions on this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 03:58 PM |
| 6 | Why do women settle for men who are not super rich?Some women do want rich men, some don’t, and some may not really care either way. I think it’s accurate to assume that average people generally get together. Idk why you consider that settling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Why do women settle for men who are not super rich?There are many possible answers to this question, but I’ll go with the most simple and obvious one: Because most women are average. Super rich men aren’t interested in average women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 04:20 AM |
| 5 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionAs a woman, I agree with everything said in this post. I also think that women are just as visual as men; we are just typically much more discrete about checking dudes out. Obviously, the more attractive you are, the more attention you will get - be it man or woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 03:03 AM |
| 22 | Is there any benefit to being a traditional woman?Being a trad wife sounds risky. What if you get married and have kids, then the man wants a divorce for whatever reason and you are stuck a single mother forced to barely skimp by unless you have a certain background/life circumstances (supportive family, financial resources, good job/career prospects, a partner that would handle the divorce in good faith to ensure wife and kids are taken care of), then you are putting yourself at a great risk relying on a man who could change his mind about you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 03:24 AM |
| 1 | There is VAST chasm between the amount effort required to secure a partner that is reasonable for a healthy realtionship, between men and women.I get your point but this seems a bit out of touch and unrealistic to me. I think it’s much more common to see people of similar levels of attractiveness, educational, and socioeconomic status together regardless of gender. And if you think that “all women have to do is not be overweight/obese, put on a dress, and wear makeup” then you really have no idea how much effort women put into their appearance. You forgot the constant full body hair removal, skin care, nail care, hair care, ever changin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:48 AM |
| – | The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girlLmao I can see I struck a nerve for the person who downvoted me - you know it’s true! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 09:56 PM |
| – | The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girlBeing a “cat lady” is cringe regardless of the reasoning. Why would anyone be proud of that or consider it a goal? No one in their right mind thinks it’s normal to substitute human relationships for ones with animals. No one wants to scoop litter boxes and clean up fur and puke and litter for the rest of their lives. Y’all got issues that you need to address if so. No wonder some of y’all are single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on datesI don’t really recall losing interest/attraction to a man as a direct result of him not making sexual moves on me. There was one guy I had been casually dating for a while with whom I never ended up having sex with - but that was due to reasons beyond just his lack of sexual mojo. If I’m attracted to a man, I wouldn’t lose interest/write him off just because he didn’t make a move on me unless I’m not getting any signals of interest from him at all in the form of flirting, compliments, eye contac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 09:17 AM |
| 6 | Western women, how can you compete against an eastern/foreign woman?We don’t waste our time thinking about it because we don’t care. Men make themselves look desperate by seeking women outside of their home country; it screams failure with women. But sure, say it’s because of a value system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: are you intrinsically grossed out by chronically single men?I think chronic singleness is somewhat of a red flag for both sexes because usually there is a reason people are single chronically, and it’s often not a good reason. I’m not suggesting that being single chronically is bad, but it does probably raise some curiosity/concern for potential dates. And also, most people who go out to restaurants alone sit at the bar (if there is one), which is not abnormal, and they usually end up socializing with the bartender or other people at the bar. If you’re j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.I’m not talking about all men, just the red-pilled ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 08:59 AM |
| 11 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.They are desperate to regain control of us. That’s what’s at the core of all the red pill nonsense. They want to control our bodies and minds, and they don’t care if we get hurt or die in the process. It’s all a power struggle really. These disgruntled men can’t handle not having all of the power and not being fully in control. A traditional submissive woman is easy to control, but us modern women are not and they can’t stand that. It’s a fucked up world we live in, and this is just one of the r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 09:21 PM |
| 16 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.They act like we all have it so easy and overgeneralize/lump us all in the same category as what they deem as worthless “304”s if we deviate from their idea of a “traditional woman” in the slightest. I have worked since I was 16, supported myself since 18, never stripped/escorted/had an onlyfans or sugar daddy, and I pay 50/50 on dates by default unless the man insists on paying or if I offer to pay…. but even if that weren’t the case, WHO CARES? They are so bitter about desirable women not desi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 07:48 PM |
| 9 | Marriage is a good deal for women, and a bad one for men.Don’t get married then. Y’all act like we don’t have our own doubts/hang-ups about marriage and pros/cons to consider. We get it, you think modern women are worthless and not suitable for marriage. Marry your sex doll instead. We are all ultimately fucked in modern society in different ways and for different reasons. We all have our demons and personal hells. You’d think that alone would bring us together. All of this comparing and contrasting bullshit is nothing but a waste of time and energy, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women are more attractive than men is solely due to makeup/cosmetics/filters/editingPerhaps you meant to phrase that as “there are more attractive women than there are attractive men.” Attractiveness is both objective and subjective. Women are valued by society more based off their looks than men are, so it makes sense that they would try to maximize their attractiveness. Men don’t have to put in as much effort as women do in order to “beautify” themselves because it isn’t scrutinized on nearly the same level. Attractive people are praised by society while unattractive people a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Women's standards are giving men body dysmorphiaOkay…? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Women's standards are giving men body dysmorphiaI don’t see any women chiming in to agree with OP on this post. I wonder why that is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Women's standards are giving men body dysmorphiaLmfao! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 01:05 AM |
| 189 | Women's standards are giving men body dysmorphiaUhhh these are not dad bods. Those guys are fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithI don’t think most people tend to see it that way. As I said in another comment, that is normal behavior for women and men in their 20s, especially early 20s. At that age, people are getting into the dating world for the first time. I “fucked around” in my late teens/early 20s and that didn’t prevent me from having a long term boyfriend afterward. As an adult woman, I would find it to be a red flag if a man was acting weird or overly concerned about my sexual/dating/relationship past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 01:30 PM |
| 2 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithThat’s fair, but also seems like a cop out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 03:28 AM |
| 3 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithSounds like something an altruistic, empathetic human being would say. How could I have doubted you? And very well-adjusted, might I add. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 03:27 AM |
| 3 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithYour original post and subsequent comments seem like either a poorly thought out and half hearted trolling attempt, validation seeking for your own misguided opinions, or both. But sure, you can try to claim altruism despite nothing you’ve said thus far being altruistic. If anything, you clearly only empathize with the “beta” man, presumably because you are one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:56 AM |
| 3 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithYes, obviously he knows that and actually signed up for it by agreeing to marry a single parent. I’m confused by your attempted victimization of the man in question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:33 AM |
| 2 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithI don’t think you’re using that word correctly, first of all. It’s not cuckolding if the woman already had the child prior to the man being with her. Obviously, he knows the kid isn’t his. How could he not know what he’s getting himself into? This doesn’t make any sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:28 AM |
| 2 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithI don’t understand what you mean, so I can’t provide an answer to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:21 AM |
| 2 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithAre you going to answer my last question? I really don’t understand what the point of your original post even was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithAnd what does “beta” mean to you, exactly? Also, it sounds to me like this situation would work out for both the man and the woman. The man couldn’t get a single woman, and the woman presumably couldn’t get an “alpha” Chad to marry her, according to you. So why are you presenting it as a problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithNah, that’s a cop out on his part. It sounds like he is essentially settling. Single women are out there, they are not uncommon. He chose to stop looking for single women to date, assuming that was his first preference. It is not a case of not them not existing, it’s simply that he could not gain access to them for whatever reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:07 AM |
| 2 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithI didn’t say that. I’m simply offering another point of view that is not focused on the hypothetical woman in question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:02 AM |
| 2 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithThen why is he dating a single parent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 01:57 AM |
| 0 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithI mean, people are allowed to make judgements. By itself, judgment is a natural process. There is being judge-like and thinking you have the ultimate say on certain matters, or there is simply having judgements. We all have judgements, but the reasoning behind them can and should sometimes be under scrutiny. You brought up age-gap dating/relationships, for example. There are valid reasons why those type of relationships are often judged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 01:43 AM |
| 2 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithI think it makes the most sense for single parents to date other single parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 01:33 AM |
| 1 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithWhat is your point exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 01:30 AM |
| 1 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithThe fact that you are even using the terms “alpha” and “beta” to refer to human social hierarchy is why I can’t take any of you red-pillers seriously. So much cringe. Also, there are many women who don’t want anyone’s “seed” whether they be alpha, beta, sigma, or whatever the fuck. People have sex with other people based on a multitude of factors. To try to narrow it down to such a base level omits a lot of important details. So really, there is no way to even try to have a discussion about this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:03 PM |
| 6 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithIn regards to what u/CentralAdmin said: This whole comment is such a double standard. So you’re mad at women for not wanting to settle down/get married in their 20s who would instead rather gain experience in sex/relationships/life in general and enjoy being single - and then don’t understand why they want to settle down in their 30s and beyond? Dude you are seriously naive. This is what most men and women do in their 20s. Why is an unmarried woman aged 30+ according to you considered “used up”?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?What the hell is a stony jawline and hunter eyes? Also, this is all based on your own perspective and doesn’t represent the views or experiences of all men collectively even if you think it does. Women could argue the same about men. At the end of the day, we all have our own preferences when it comes to things we look for in a partner. Obviously there are certain things that all sexes typically find attractive such as good health/physical and mental fitness, positive personality traits, like-mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 03:50 PM |
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