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userisauser/r/MGTOW14/07/19 10:49 PM
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Rule #1 Always make them invest.
/r/seduction10/10/22 09:24 PM
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This sound like you are the friend with hidden intentions. More than likely she's not interested but go ahead and make your move so you can find out for sure and move on. Stop being scared.
/r/seduction10/10/22 03:23 AM
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There's obviously more to it. You are correct that a simple wave will TEST how receptive they will be to you approaching. But that's not all there is to it. You're missing a few steps.
/r/seduction10/10/22 02:47 AM
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Willingness to take risks.
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:36 PM
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Sorry but this is honestly the most retarded question I've heard on this sub. Dude, do you actually stop kissing a girl to infuse positive affirmations?! Do you think that is necessary???!!! At that point you are beyond the talking. Show her with your body. Unless she explicitly tell you she likes talking. But if thats the case I guarantee you she is wanting dominant words rather than submissive supplication which will dry her pussy up almost as fast as ripping ass during oral. You need to stop …
/r/seduction09/10/22 04:20 AM
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I think it's whoosh.
/r/seduction06/10/22 09:54 PM
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This isn't even true. Shut up with your excuses.
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:08 AM
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Demonstrate you understand her while demonstrating that you are different from her in masculine ways.
/r/seduction01/10/22 07:47 PM
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When you say, "Alpha muscle moron", you come off every bit as ignorant.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:39 AM
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If the dog was leashed then you got cold approached. Lol
/r/seduction22/09/22 12:52 AM
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Yikes. Your problem is that you think you know everything already. In those two paragraphs you baked in so many conclusions, assumptions, and socially conditioned limitations. Try hard doesn't have to be creepy. There's no such thing as introvert and extrovert, just things that excite you and things that don't. It's in you, it's on you to find what brings it out. "Avoidance" another psychology term you probably picked up somewhere and you're letting reinforce your comfort zone. You project this …
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:50 AM
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I'm not even a dating coach and I know I could at least get you a decent reaction. The trouble is you are completely identified with futility. That's the only challenge you face, in reality. Girls date hideous guys all the time. Even broke guys that are ugly can get girls. It's all in your perspective. Try harder.
/r/seduction17/09/22 04:36 AM
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I would 100% recommend a book called The Power Of Now. The things you're talking yourself, even in the words of this post, are called pain bodies. You need to learn how to eliminate them from your mind so you can get what you want. Another angle to consider is that your brain will give you answers no matter what you ask it or tell it. It will respond with something. So you have to make a conscious effort to ask your brain direct questions about achieving your goals. Turn your fears and frustrati…
/r/seduction16/09/22 02:59 AM
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But any one of those guys gets laid more than you. So girls are not looking for authenticity or the boys wouldn't act that way. They are only doing what the girls want. It's more complicated than that.
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:08 PM
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Authenticity is the new "just be yourself".
/r/seduction15/09/22 06:38 PM
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Well, I guess I must be a model or something because I strictly ride solo and virtually all of my action has come from cold approach. I'm sorry you've had this negative experience and had it reinforced to the point where you profess it with such certainty. While I may feel annoyed by your remarks are so starkly differ from my experience, my heart actually breaks a little bit for you as I believe your perspective is limiting you from terrific experiences. Are pick up artists scam artists? Yes and…
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:16 AM
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This. /thread
/r/seduction15/09/22 02:41 AM
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The moment you make eye contact, you either say something or she thinks you're a bitch. Never look away but you also need to do something about it. Go for what you want. What do you say? Well, you should already have that one tailored specifically for her before you make eye contact. Say something positive about her that she can identify with that she probably hasn't notice. If you're a real boss, you could just ignore her while getting in her physical area while exuding confidence, masculine en…
/r/seduction15/09/22 12:44 AM
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If it's gotten to the point where she has to be direct with you then have missed every other queue and hint before that. Of course there's no way for us to know how serious she is when she says this, but on face value, you are done. Stop what you're doing. Move on.
/r/seduction13/09/22 07:54 PM
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If you go into it caring what the woman is going to think when you approach her, then you will be starting at a disadvantage. Women say a lot and it is never consistent. Just focus on what you want and ask yourself how you're going to get it without breaking the law. You will creep some girls out, that's just a fact. You have to be ok with looking like a creep some times. If you can see that you are creeping a girl out, just move on. However, you can't give up on girls too easily because sometim…
/r/seduction12/09/22 10:59 PM
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This is dating, not seduction.
/r/seduction12/09/22 01:39 AM
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Let's put a smile on that face!
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:49 PM
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You know what your problem is so just stop it I guess? Or do you only have solutions for women's problems?
/r/seduction08/09/22 04:04 AM
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You're not saying anything they identify with. What specific questions do you ask?
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:12 PM
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Forget the number bro. Instant dates only. Numbers are a last resort if she truly can't go with you anywhere right then. Otherwise, go on an adventure. Take her to a coffee shop, a park, on a walk somewhere, dinner, your place, whatever. Open your mind to the possibilities.
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:52 AM
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It all start with saying things they identify with. You just need to listen very carefully, observe their behavior closely, take note of their appearance, and fire off a comment that is hand crafted and tailored specifically for them. If she identifies with what you're saying, she will have a positive reaction. People always wonder how to escalate sexually. The trick is to talk about her and pay extremely close attention. She will give you the sexual green light, you just have to jump on it. It …
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:44 AM
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You're just feeling scarcity. All you need is abundance.
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:21 AM
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Your main problem is the staring. You should never stare until you are ready to act. The moment you make eye contact should be the moment you make some kind of introduction. After that moment, her resistance to you shoots through the roof. Hesitation is extremely unattractive no matter how much better looking you are than her. You could even say it's worse because she'll wonder what you're afraid of.
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:15 AM
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Say something to her, see how she reacts. That's the only way.
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:09 AM
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Would you be asking this question before phones or the internet existed? No. You would try to transition the interaction to her leaving with you to go on some adventure together. That's what you should shoot for in every interaction. Getting contact information is the absolute last resort. You should be joking, having fun, flirting, and the vibe should be increasing to where you both want to stay together. Seduction does not happen on day two.
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:26 AM
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It depends on how you communicate your interest. The way you ask this question makes it sound like you are going to be too direct. Women are excellent at picking up on subtle interest. If you ask her direct questions about herself and attempt to understand her, that should be plenty enough to convey your interest without losing power. Don't overtly confess anything however. Remember, you want her to say yes, agree, or elaborate on your statements about her. If she says no, disagrees, or goes qui…
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:59 PM
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This is an oxymoron. Of you want to get a girl, you have to make a move. That means you have to cultivate some type of extroversion.
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:53 AM
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There are three types of women. 1. Not in the mood. 2. In the mood and want you to clearly show intent or they'll think you're a bitch. 3. In the mood but want to play a game. Do not show intent.
/r/seduction20/12/21 03:59 AM
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You didn't have those kind of terms with her. Honestly you probably dodge a bullet. She's supposed to fight for your heart just as much as you're supposed to fight for hers. You owe her nothing.
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:53 PM
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You can take the easy route and just have a lot of enthusiasm. If you have enthusiasm, it will mask the fear you have. It will also give value in the form of energy. Not everyone is going to love your enthusiasm and some will try to kill it. The resiliency of your enthusiasm will speak to your level of confidence. Dont let them kill your enthusiasm and you will win.
/r/seduction22/11/21 11:18 PM
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There is one rule with women that nobody will tell you... That rule is: There's no such thing as #METOO for a guy the woman is attracted to. Everything that will get you metoo'd is everything that will get you laid. Metoo is about leverage. If a girl doesnt like you, she'll simply reject you. If you're powerful and a girl sees she can take that power from you, that's what they'll do. Women abuse power whenever they get it (which is why they never keep it). So if you do do something that really o…
/r/seduction13/11/21 04:40 AM
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Brilliant people use their brilliant minds to create brilliant obstacles and limitations.
/r/seduction02/10/21 12:35 AM
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The difference between how much they have validated you vs how much you have validated them determines how much they chase. They game is find ways to widen that difference. You cant just ignore them. They have to validating you as well.
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:54 AM
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You should definitely be your best physical self, first. If nothing else, to eliminate that as a variable.
/r/seduction23/09/21 06:51 PM
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You're qualifying her too much. Milking the subject. Sometimes girls say things to sound impressive. What if she doesn't have an impressive answer? She's not going to expose herself that way. Thats why those kinds of questions are not good. Ask how open minded she is or how outgoing she is. Things that are fun to answer.
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:22 AM
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I can immediately see that you are in a "focus on the negative" state and are probably in that state quite often. You really have to catch yourself when you think or say negative things. Cars are dangerous and expensive but cars also grant freedom and an immeasurable number of amazing experiences in your life. Brilliant people can sometimes use their brilliant minds to create brilliant limitations. One of my favorite exercises is to take an fear/frustration and turn it into a "how question." For…
/r/seduction15/09/21 09:04 PM
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Because most girls are taken. The difference is if they admit it or not.
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:48 AM
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All of this advice is way easier said than done and 9.9/10 people in these comments could not properly execute this ridiculous balancing acting aloof / attentive. You need to bring another girl to this party, period. It's the only way to guarantee you will be actually to busy to talk to her. Go the whole night letting her watch you with another girl. If she likes you at all, it will trigger her. If you don't have another girl to being then you heave bigger problems than just the girl at the part…
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:52 PM
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Do not go direct for the love of god... Just wait until she's doing something outside that you can tease her about. This might take some time but its best to wait for the correct timing. If you see her hesitating about something, displaying any sort of weakness or fear, those are your opportunities to enter dominantly. It's best to stack several of these on top of each other and not seem needy on any of the encounters. She will start to enjoy being teased by you and that's when you can start ram…
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:44 AM
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You sound scare to show intent. Which means you're hiding something from her. Which means you're actually trying to trick her. That's creepy. Your biggest problem is that you have a single target you're focused on. Again, creepy. You need you cultivate an abundance mentality and forget all about her. The only thing she should see "accidentally" is you getting attention from women in her league. Otherwise, forget about her. You've already put too much pressure on yourself which will eventually ma…
/r/seduction03/08/21 09:50 PM
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You regret it because you're disappointed that she didn't live up to the identity you projected onto her. Shes not the girl you think she is and kudos to her for not lying to you and making you wait. Fooling you into thinking she's what you want her to be.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:48 AM
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Yes, autocorrect
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 11:44 AM
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Not semantics but nuisances. It's important for the MGTOW community to have a detailed definition of its identity.
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 11:09 AM
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That's not apathy, that's impotence.
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 11:02 AM
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How can you want nothing to do with women for the rest of your life without hating them? That sounds extremely passive aggressive.
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 10:38 AM
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For everyone saying this isn't relevant to mgtow, just watch some of her content. She is the exact type of girl we all talk about.
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 01:51 AM
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She was annoying as hell. Misandry to the max. But still sad.
/r/MGTOW14/07/19 10:50 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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