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| 3 | "Never let one bitchy or unresponsive girl get to you or affect your outlook."Oh, this sounds so gross. I'm all for male confidence but... gross. Also, what women are actually hopping in the back of a cab to suck your dick after you chat them up? Sounds so fake. | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 06:07 PM |
| 0 | “we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are”I totally disagree with this. What a guy says matters. Of course it does. Maybe not if I'm looking for a one night stand, than I would say it's more about attractiveness/confidence but if I'm looking for boyfriend or hubby material what you say to me will have an impact. I dont know what women told you this but I have never heard any woman I know say this. We all care very much about what a guy says because its how we pick out red flags or see if we will be compatable for a relationship. Looks a… | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Nervous Around Girls?Absolutely. Even the times I got rejected I felt like a bad ass. Even women like to prove we've got balls sometimes... lol ;) That's what true confidence is to me... doing what you want to do and feeling awesome about it. No matter the outcome. | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Nervous Around Girls?What you resist persists! And yes, us gals are just as nervous as you are. Especially when a cutie approaches us. I've approached guys and chatted them up before and never regretted it. None of them worked out (lol) but it was still a fun, bad ass feeling moment. Let your inner bad ass out and go flirt your confident ass off ;) | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 02:53 AM |
| 1 | 7 hour date (!) gone wrong?I almost always am the one texting first 🤣 | /r/seduction | 16/01/21 10:37 PM |
| 3 | 7 hour date (!) gone wrong?I am a girl and do think it's a lil weird. Usually I message a guy I like when I get home from the date and try to flirt him up (lol). Not all girls are the same though. Just give it time and wait to see if she messages! I wouldn't worry until like the 24 hour mark. | /r/seduction | 16/01/21 10:36 PM |
| 7 | 7 hour date (!) gone wrong?I totally agree with all this but I also agree with why OP didnt make a move... I mean she had no body contact with him? During a seven hour date? I dunno that's pretty weird. I'd feel awkward to make a move too. I'm pretty touchy feely on my dates though so I'd be smooching after 3 hours 🤣 | /r/seduction | 16/01/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How do I establish man-to-woman frame in a conversation?Yeah, I'll come right out and admit I've always sucked at playing the game. But I don't want a boyfriend until I meet someone I don't have to play games with. I really only think it's silly because it's so convoluted and hard to understand, haha. I find if you try to go too deep into the psychology of it you just end up misunderstanding each other. If a guy takes a long time to message me back and is short with me I'll either think its just his texting/communication style or that he just isn't v… | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 08:08 PM |
| 3 | I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All?That is so true. If you aren't confident enough to send a confirmation text how confident will you be on the actual date? If you're not comfortable enough to text me you probably won't be confident enough to initiate a kiss or anything else either and that will just ultimately lead to me thinking you aren't really interested in me and would rather be elsewhere. I love how you handle that. Asking a woman to tell you when she is free sounds considerate, interested and gives her an easy out if she … | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 05:19 PM |
| 3 | How do I establish man-to-woman frame in a conversation?As a woman YES YES YES! When I see a guy start to lead, especially if he actually plans the date I actually want to breathe out a sigh of relief. I have planned the majority of my dates and been the "leader" and when I see a guy is doing it before I can it is an INSTANT turn on. THAT'S what shows confidence. Saying I like you and want to take you on a date. Let's do (this) whatever if may be. Dinner, drinks, a walk around town, a coffee. Literally anything! Just ask me to do something specific w… | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 05:10 PM |
| 4 | I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All?Exactly. To me it just seems like texting has made us waaaaay over think how we are coming across to others. If you are upfront and complimentary to me we are going to get along like a wild fire but all of these games exhaust me and make me feel like you're more interested in playing me then getting to know and connect with me. | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 05:04 PM |
| 4 | How do I establish man-to-woman frame in a conversation?As a woman reading this... my head is spinning. I would have no idea what a guy was doing with this. Why can't we all just be honest? Lol. Text when you want to text and when you actually have something you want to say. If I'm interested in you, you WILL know it. I wish people would just blatantly show there attraction. Women aren't mind readers either and we will think you are disinterested or just playing around with us if you play all these games. I want to get to know the REAL you and how yo… | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 05:01 PM |
| 1 | I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All?I'm so genuinely curious... why do guys think it's a turn off if you ask a girl? Woman like being asked. It shows you are being thoughtful. Nothing wrong with the way you do it, it's great and totally says what you need to say, but personally I like to be asked. It sounds more approachable and fun. What trauma have men gone through that they are so nervous to come off as "needy" they think asking a womans opinions and feelings is a turn off? If you are dating a reasonable woman it shouldn't be t… | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 04:55 PM |
| 1 | I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All?Haha! Humanity really does need help in the seduction department if these are the things we are getting stuck on. | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All?If she says no to your confirmation text she was either going to ghost you or cancel anyways. That's the whole point of confirmation texts! Its sounds like you are just giving up on these girls before you even meet them, which is sad for you and them. I'd say NOT sending a confirmation text because you are so scared of rejection is what comes off as insecure/uninterested. I am always disappointed if I don't hear from the guy on the day of the date because it feels like he isn't thinking about me… | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 04:48 PM |
| 3 | I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All?Exactly! If the two of you can't even send each other confirmation texts because you're too scared to seem "needy" or you think it will make her lose interest your communication is going to be awful. Believe me, women LOVE confirmation texts. They are a sign of organization, a considerate person and someone who values their own time and yours. Plus, I usually think guys are so cute and sweet when they confirm it makes me smile and get more excited for the date. Isn't it attractive to know they a… | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 04:42 PM |
| 3 | I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All?Wow. As a woman reading this I am really surprised at the thought process. I never see it as a sign of low confidence and especially not neediness in a guy if he asks if I still want to meet up. I see it as a total positive. If he asks if I'm still up for it I feel like he is instantly being considerate of my feelings and time. Please men, don't be afraid to be honest and vulnerable! If you are talking to the right gal she won't nit pick you on your wording of something as simple as a confirmati… | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 04:36 PM |
| 1 | I Never Text to Confirm Dates the Day Prior. Do You All?Woman here - I always text the morning of the date to confirm. You never know if someone's plans or feelings have changed. I'm so glad I do this because it helps weed out how serious they are about keeping the date. Many times I've sent the confirmation text and it goes like this : Me: Good morning handsome. We still on for our hot date today? Them: Yeah, maybe. I don't know if I'll be able to make it at (designated meeting time) I have a dentist appointment/whatever weird random excuse they use… | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 04:30 PM |
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