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SEEKING ADVICEusernames_r_us/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:02 PM
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I tried... twice. I have friends that found it liberating as they actually didn’t want anything serious and didn’t (at the time) plan on having any kids. When I tried it? I realized it wasn’t for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:54 PM
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Sounds like my ex.... He “dated” someone while we were supposed to be in a relationship. About 4 months after we actually broke up, I get a call from the other chick’s friend. After that? My ex was single and I gained two new friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:53 PM
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I’m going to call this the “Ass Tax” because... well.... you know 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:08 AM
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If you saw my other post, I definitely think this is the crux of what I was interested in seeing. And also where the line is drawn from acceptable to unacceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:34 PM
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Actually, I explained my reasoning for posting this in another comment. It was primarily to see if this sub would consider this “too much” as it’s a bit different than some of what people decry. There’s investment on both parts and there’s no expectation on his end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 04:21 PM
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This is fair! I feel like this is definitely something that could teeter on the edge, but I also don’t feel like I’m being taken advantage of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 03:20 PM
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Posts on this page usually center around men “expecting” things. And women doing things to earn love/status. When “wifey shit” is mentioned, it’s usually in the context of a man expecting women to do these things and women doing so in hope of being loved/chosen. Since I’m cooking, but it’s not expected, it’s not to earn affection, and he’s putting in work as well, I was trying to understand where FDS would draw the line. It was out of my own interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 03:05 PM
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It’s not controlling. Just a simple “when you’re in my house, I don’t want you to have to worry about these things.” He’s just.... a believer that I shouldn’t feel obligated to do these things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:56 PM
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Explain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:48 PM
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Fair enough!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:44 PM
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Owns his own house. Or, at least, is paying his mortgage. His mom lives half way across the country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:39 PM
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Upper part of my Mid-20s. He’s two years older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:36 PM
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I read that one as i think it was posted here as well and that’s what made me wonder, honestly. I could definitely see it if it was me doing /everything/, but I was interested in hearing how FDS would draw the line. We are exclusive and we’ve been together for a while :) . This is just the first V-Day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:35 PM
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So, I don’t own a vehicle. He does all the driving. I don’t do any of the other things for him and neither does his mom (she wouldn’t tolerate it). For V-Day, he is planning dates out, including dinner(s) and a movie. He does still invest money in our relationship. He also invests time, which he has in limited supply. This would just be my gift to him. When we do the cooking, the few times it’s happened, he does all the cleaning. He prefers it. I can try to touch dishes & etc., he won’t let me. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:33 PM
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The EMAILS I have gotten from my ex almost six months later are insane and pretty much like this. Email is the only way he knows to contact me as I’ve blocked him on everything else. He’s blocked on email too, but it all goes to spam and I regularly check that folder so I see them all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:55 PM
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