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TRIGGER WARNINGusernamewhichiafree/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:21 AM
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Women should be protected by their men. But I will be damned to ever celebrate male violence. He could have easily called Chris out, raising awareness about the condition, talking about it and the distasteful behaviour of Chris. But no. He had to go ahead and slap him. It's hypocritical to suddenly celebrate male violence. Sure, this time it targeted another man, but we should be careful because everyone knows that male violence hits women way too often. It's a big turn off for a man to not be a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 11:32 AM
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The things my ex boyfriend, who told me he loved me, said to me were worse than that guy getting told he's ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 01:29 PM
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Right?! What was that?? I see his logical male brain came up with something truly outstanding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 09:10 PM
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I am not even mad at that. It's the truth. I am glad some men are spilling the truth because pickmes don't believe women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 02:23 AM
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"if you are not happy you just end things" uhm yeah?? Why tf should we stay if we aren't happy??? I don't get what those men expect. Oh jk, I get it, I just still sometimes wonder where they get that entitlement from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 02:31 PM
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I have total respect for men caring and speaking out about men issues. I hope they do it more. But sadly most of them use it to derail women when we talk about women issues. That's the issue. A lot of men don't really care about the suicide rate of their sex class, they only use it as an weapon against feminists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:13 PM
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Because being romantic here and there deserves being treated like a king? What? I don't get their logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 08:35 AM
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And even if he would, it's worse when you are the partner. My ex was an ass and insulted everyone. He also blew up a lot and yes, he did it with his friends too. BUT if you are constantly around him, living with him, you will be way way more the target. He always told me "I am like that to everyone and nobody has a problem with it". Like ok dude, but I get this behaviour every single day and your friends once a month tops. So even if he would be like that to bigger guys too, she is the one who h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:58 PM
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How the fuck is it a "fantasy" if a real woman got stabbed and raped while crying??? What part of that is a fantasy, a "harmless" fantasy even??? I hate how she has to justify her decision. "I have anxiety" "I found it on accident, I didn't snoop" "He only yelled at me" "Yeah he warned me but only about BDSM" As if I need to justify myself when I dump my stupid boyfriend when he watches women get stabbed and raped AND gets off of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:41 PM
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If you give a man already everything he wants, why would he bother to make it official and give you a title?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 12:07 AM
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I like Pandora. But I would never ever want an engagement ring from there. I know Pandora is cheap(er) that's why I buy there lol. But holy shit an engagement ring from Pandora would be sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:46 PM
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Even if they are not romantically interested, the vast majority would instantly say yes to a fwb kind of relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:34 AM
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Shows they have no idea how it really is. The lives of escorts and sugar babies get glorified and while yes, some might choose this life, the majority is desperate and the "work" is demeaning. Men really think it's easy money and nothing else. I am sorry you experienced that..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:26 AM
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That would make me so extremely angry. Anyone would get angry. Is that an advice to end your relationship fast or what??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:41 PM
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I hate the word "empowerment". Two reasons: 1. you can only claim "empowerment" if the people actually holding the power let you "empower" yourself. Which says a lot about the sex industry. 2. Empowerment gives you nothing more than a feeling. You feel good about yourself because you think you are empowered. But actual power is something else and you didn't get any of that. Empowerment is a scam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 02:26 PM
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I think a lot if women, me included, have deep down that hope that "he will get it". If it is how much he hurt you or how much of an ass he is or even just what he said which was wrong... For us it's so obvious and sometimes hurtful, so he has to get it if we explain it, right? Wrong. I get that feeling and hope, but we have to remember: he knows what he's doing. Block and delete is the only option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:40 AM
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Men and their audacity know no bounds. I was together with a fat dude. I was way out if his league, just had a super low self-esteem so I took him. He had bad body hygiene and looked disgusting but still complained about body hair on me. He even complained about facial hair??? Nobody ever said anything about that. It's not noticeable except for in the right light. It's blond too. Dude had problems...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 11:48 AM
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Yes!!! We aren't entitled to be hurt... One dude rejected me in such a cruel manner. First, he didn't just say no but said "I tend to no". When I then said, that this is answer enough, he tried to turn it around as if I decided it's a no and he just wanted to think about it more. On top of it he then, shortly after rejecting me, wrote me he told his brother "he had a chance to have a girlfriend", as if I am not a person, not a friend, just "a chance". And right after he rejected me he had the au…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 08:32 PM
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I never understand why people just don't accept personal preferences. At that point usually nobody (accept if it already was one-sided to begin with) is in love, so just move on? I couldn't care less for example if a man had requirements in his bio on OLD. I would laugh and then swipe left. Why are people, especially men, so baffled about preferences? It's normal and everyone has his/her right to it, even if you think it's shallow/delusional whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 03:36 AM
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The sad part is, that mostly men could age as good as women. They just don't care about moisturizer and sunscreen and look like 50 in their 30s. If you hear that typical one-liner it is mostly accompanied with pictures of male celebrities. And of course those celebrities care about their looks and so they use skin care for example. Most normal men still don't use anything on their faces though, so yeah.. they can shut up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 12:34 AM
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My ex said that too and he always followed it up with "be glad, I am just being honest or do you want a man who lies to you?". Him calling me names all day long was just him "being honest". He also admitted doing that because he knows I am insecure and that it hurts me, so of course he is doing exactly that, but this should be a good thing because that way I know he doesn't mean it, he only says it to hurt me. So what is it? Honesty or just being cruel to hurt me? Past pickme-me still stayed wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 10:58 PM
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Oh my god, I can imagine!! Served him right!! At least he knew he looks bad! My ex had no problem walking around like shit but if I was literally sick he refused to go out with me like that because I was too ugly. Like yeah, I was pale and had a red nose from having a cold but I still was way out of his league xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 04:50 PM
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Haha YES! I hope not! But for real, my abusive ex tried to tell me that all the screaming and fighting is a sign of true love and any other guy would be boring and not love me like he does. Because I guess he cared enough to insult me every day lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:21 AM
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Reminds me of the time when I didn't make an appointment at the hair salon for my ex so he got angry and shaved his whole head. But when I wanted to cut my long hair just 10 cm he got mad and told me he would break up with me if I would do this. Dude looked so ugly. He was overweight so with his shaved head it looked like a fat pimple is growing out if his neck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 05:19 AM
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I think it's hilarious that people call us female incels. Like bro, so much dick out there if we would want to have sex, and only sex, there would be no problem. If anything FDS is preaching voluntary celibacy in some situations which is safer for women to begin with in many aspects. I personally have no problem with not having sex. I never had pleasure with a man to begin with. If I am alone, I always enjoy myself. So I really don't see the point of having contact to men just for the sake of ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:22 AM
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Men conveniently forget all the time that anger is an emotion too. Just look at the gamers who punch their monitors, keyboards or throw their controllers. Getting emotional for not winning in FIFA. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 11:37 PM
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Saw a post yesterday in which a guy told a story about how he ordered an uber for a drunk woman instead of sleeping with her. He boosted his eho because he literally didn't rape a woman. And it worked because so many people in the comments praised him. So yes, the bar is so low men get praised for not raping women now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 11:22 PM
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The joke is that men often think we actually need them for sex as much as they need us, while they don't give a shit about our pleasure at all. In what world does that make sense? Of course women are sick of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 01:28 AM
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Or if we give excuses they are all like "just say no"/"no need to lie". See what happens when men get rejected. I couldn't even imagine how emotional and unstable you have to be to kill someone because he rejected you. And that comes from someone who chased a man for months and who went crazy after a rejection. I sent too many mails for 4 months and begged. Men would call me a crazy bitch but when they straight up kill after rejection it's just "not all men".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:18 AM
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It's a pet peeve of mine when people tell me "I don't think you are a bad person because of that" or "I don't mind you thinking that" when I tell them my opinion about a certain topic. Like.... Did I ask??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:57 PM
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Totally agree. If I want to discuss politics I go somewhere else. This is a dating sub and not to sound rude but here are people from a lot of different countries. Quite frankly, I don't have a lot of interests in American politics. I don't need that 2-party-system crying here. It's annoying as hell and I don't even know why this is starting now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:54 PM
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I totally agree. I just cared in that moment because I thought he is together with me because he likes me and not because he wants anyone. I realised that he didn't care about me at all. But from now on I will be ready for this possibility to begin with!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:01 PM
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I found out that before I came together with my last ex that he said to a friend "I don't care anymore, I take anyone who is a 5 or higher". I felt so worthless. It was never about being together with me. He was the one who asked me out... So no matter if you chase a man or if he is the one who makes the first step, you are always at a risk that he just wants to settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:18 PM
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My abusive ex wanted it and I sadly said yes. I was crying because of the pain. He saw and still continued and finished. Since then he even made fun of me because I cried and he laughed about it. He also said the pain is a part of it and women shouldn't be able to sit afterwards. I said yes but I still was shocked that he was able to ignore my crying during it. I can't imagine being aroused when my partner obviously is in distress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:03 AM
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He once had a video in which he defended a polish politician who said in the European parliament that women have to earn less because they are "smaller and less intelligent". Whole video he was only on about how that dude was right and how women shouldn't be so offended by it White rich dude wants to tell me I shouldn't be offended when another white rich dude says I should earn less than men. Sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:09 AM
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This is why I am starting to become a sceptic of "not all men". Before I was annoyed because I was always like "sure, not all men but enough and why do I even have to explain that?" I still know that not all men are murderers, not all men make fun of it... BUT so so many DO. You don't have to actually kill your girlfriend or wife to still be a part of the problem. "Don't blame all men for something one man did" Bro, first, every 3 days a woman dies at the hand of her partner, so fuck off with tr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:30 AM
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I don't even have high standards because most men are just so disgusting. What do I want? Brush your teeth twice a day, floss, shower every day, shave every now and then. And please WITHOUT ME REMINDING OR BEGGING YOU FOR IT. And still... most men just can't do it. I don't even wanna start about maybe using a moisturizer daily, using sun screen or dressing well.... I was on Bumble a few weeks ago and holy shit, some men legitimate sit on the ground with beer bottles in hand, looking like they ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:19 AM
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Even the men who actually don't directly hate women, are not capable of truly loving or caring. For men everything is a trade. They always keep count. They keep you around as long as the benefits for them *greatly* overweight anything else. The moment this is not the case anymore, they leave. The moment you have problems, you cannot be there anymore as much as in the beginning, the moment you would need them, they disappear. So personally, everything of that is too stressful for me, I would only…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:03 PM
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Nevermind their bio. Maybe it's just me but they often also LOOK very similar. I mean their faces too. I sometimes ask a friend while going through bumble if we already had that guy before x) But tbh I can't remember faces well in general so it might be a me-problem x)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:54 PM
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I was obsessed and heartbroken for like 6 months with someone I fell in love with (its like 9 months ago now). We "at least" had a fwb kind of relationship (I know, I know). Sure I still miss him but come on, after like a year you should at least start to move on lol. Guy needs therapy and leave women the fuck alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:38 AM
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Advice number 2 is so good. If he wants to he would. Always. Mixed signals, "I like you but..." all BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:02 PM
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Love the transition from "females" to "sis".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:08 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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