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The dog is like: "wtf girl? Are you serious?!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:31 AM
13

Totally. I could never trust him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:12 PM
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A friend thinks he was able to hide it so well and didn't show red flags because he was so quiet. He probably just kept everything to himself. We never had a real conversation about controversial stuff or real discussions. I always had the feeling he just agrees with me in every topic, no matter if small or big like my opinion about porn or just single tweets about feminist or just political issues in general. I always thought he just is insecure and over time he would be more open to me. But no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 03:08 PM
2

The screenshots are just the worst cutouts and show how he talked about women with his friend. The single things in the screenshots stand alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:56 PM
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Yeah, English isn't his first language. The screenshots are just the worst cutouts and not directly connected. They show parts how he talked about women with a male friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:55 PM
8

Yes... While he was 19.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:54 PM
14

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 03:17 AM
56

Think about it. Porn takes everything which is bad in society: incest, child abuse, violence in general, rape, sexual abuse, racism, disabilities, poverty, even the fucking pandemic and sexualises it. That has nothing to do with sex anymore and all about power over people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:51 PM
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Woman: unfriends and deletes man on social media Man: I don't understand. You still wanna chat? SMH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 12:52 PM
8

Men are just harsh to us to put us down and have a better chance to get us. Don't fall for it. If you look decent, care about yourself and so on you already could get most men. And HVM shouldn't be that shallow anyway. So if a man tries to neg you and wants to make you insecure, he is doing you a favour for basically telling you, he belongs into the trash. Same goes for gay men. The guy on the left is hot and all of them would want a night with him if they would admit it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:13 AM
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Joke's on him: https://www.discovermagazine.com/the-sciences/ncbi-rofl-why-poor-hungry-men-prefer-bigger-breasts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 08:48 PM
37

Please don't use dating apps as a woman to make friends with other women. It's annoying for lesbian women who are obviously looking for a relationship there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:51 PM
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Don't know it. But I am interested now and will watch it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 09:19 PM
6

Good decision! Reminds me of my abusive ex. He insulted me nearly everyday until someday I woke up and told him after an insult, that this was the last time he did it. If he does it again, he will regret it. His answer? An insult. So I broke contact. Until today, after 4 years, he still writes me and wants contact again 😂 I warned him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 11:05 AM
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oh, didn't see it. thanks for telling me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 12:39 AM
10

For me it's no deal-breaker. I consider my boyfriend HV. He has a good job, saves a lot, is overall lovely, doesn't watch porn and I really feel loved. He plays video games here and there. It really depends how much they are playing and if they are obsessed. Otherwise it's a legitimate hobby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:40 PM
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Noo, he doesn't! That's the point! He does something really really small, nothing big at all, and then he is down and blames himself a lot. He doesn't repeat the mistakes. He is just too harsh with himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:50 PM
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My boyfriend is a bit too sensitive. It can be cute sometimes, but he tends to stress too much about little things he thinks he did wrong. Even if, there is no need to be extremely harsh on yourself for two days as long as you don't repeat a mistake. It's not healthy. Not just in our relationship also at his work for example. But not at all a deal breaker. I am very glad I found him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 11:56 PM
32

If he would be a good guy and match for you, you would know and he wouldn't need paragraphs to convince you of that. He broke up. His loss. You deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:24 PM
33

Females dating males? He's an idiot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:53 AM
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And don't forget all the dudes who complain when a female cast isn't dressed as they want and so their dick won't get hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:50 AM
7

Tbh, I really don't care about birth control for men. That's a topic I always ignore because I wouldn't trust a man regarding that anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:27 PM
7

They tested 18 men and 30 dogs. Also they use the word "only" when saying that "only" 23 dogs out of 30 have the same germs as the bearded men. (While 23 dogs out of 30 is obviously the majority) It's still disgusting but to say dogs are cleaner than bearded men seems like a clickbait title to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 01:28 AM
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That girl who got a 4 is so beautiful. Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:59 AM
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Don't understand me wrong. I totally agree with you. But please don't call humans "it". Even if he is an idiot. I saw incels and MGTOWs using "it" for women. And I am sure we are better than this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 10:38 PM
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In the answers it becomes clear that it's a man :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 10:10 AM
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It's the incel-theory women would use dogs to... "have fun". Totally disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 10:03 AM
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I like coffee dates. I know it's against the rule but when I met my now boyfriend we also just were drinking something together and then walked a bit. (We talked a lot, had a connection and later on the day decided to eat something together) I know people call that "low effort date" but I don't see the point in going to dinner dates I myself don't even like. Just do whatever makes you comfortable. My bf is a HVM, so coffee date doesn't mean automatically you are meeting a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 11:08 AM
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So cute! Happy for you! And to the incels who talk about the "dogpill": You are fucking disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 10:59 AM
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Don't know about the social media part but that he just didn't care about your worries is a red flag. Be careful and take a closer look at his reactions when you tell him about yourself which isn't personally concerning him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 03:48 PM
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I also mostly dislike beards BUT there are exceptions when men care and groom themselves. A clean good-looking beard can show that he cares about hygiene and bathroom habits. Most of them sadly just let it grow like weed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 03:41 PM
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I was together with a LVM for 4 years. He had depression. Everytime he treated me like shit (which was nearly every day) he used that as an excuse and told me I just wouldn't understand it and wouldn't have empathy torwards him. (Gaslighting) THIS could be your future if you don't break it up with him. Do it. Otherwise you will only get hurt and feel bad. You deserve someone who will always show you his love you want and need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 11:41 AM
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That is so extremely unattractive. Wouldn't think a second and swipe left. Wouldn't even read that BS text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 11:21 AM
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"Many women in FDS seem to believe there is an epidemic of gay men sexually assaulting women..." Excuse me, WHAT?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:44 PM
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If that's what she wants, sure, why not. She was honest about it. But I think she should have then divorced him the moment he begged her to stop spending the money instead of wasting it and then divorcing him. Her logic is it's a fair deal as exchange for childbirth and so on. I see that. But when he said she should stop, it was obvious that the marriage wouldn't last anyway. What she did after wasn't fair anymore in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:37 PM
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That's just the easiest thing to do. Really. Either you are happy with a man who isn't porn sick or you are unhappy with a pornboy. Easy choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 04:17 PM
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That was the part which threw me out at first. Yes, I think there are sadly a lot of porn sick "cool girls".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 04:12 PM
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Now she tries to convince herself that it was worth it. That way she will make the same mistake again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 04:06 PM
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"Set him free" As if she did all that without the hope to be with him. But if you play mama your "boy" will start to look for a girlfriend pretty soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:28 PM
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My ex was a bit similar like that (but not THAT extreme). When he heard I had a 1,9 on my final tests he said "yeah if I continiued school I would have at least the same result". Like fuck you. You don't even have a graduation at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 02:29 PM
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You know, men are so fucked up and the bar is extremely low that my first thought was "at least he is honest and doesn't want to trick her". Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 03:24 AM
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Clearly your self esteem is still a problem. That's probably the reason why you thought it's a good idea to get together with him in the first place. I know that feeling and was in a similar position like you. So let me tell you, your self esteem will never get better as long as you are together with a man who treats you like shit. You deserve better. Way better. And even if this means you don't have a boyfriend for a few years. That's already an improvement. You don't need a man, you are strong…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 12:22 PM
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"Hey, how are you? Could we talk again? I would be happy" Lol, too bad I don't want you to be happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 04:39 PM
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Yep. Without me. 2 prostitutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 12:15 AM
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Oh there is sooo much. I shaved my arms because he didn't like body hair on women at all. I made my hair blond because he liked that. I just smiled when he said one day he wants a threesome with two prostitutes... there is so so much more. But I changed gladly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:11 PM
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I was on there for a month and my first date was a HVM. Together now for 6 months. I think everywhere are more LVMs than HVMs but you can be lucky!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 09:54 AM
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My ex bluffed he would leave me for certain things. In the end, I left him and he wanted me back. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 09:34 AM
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Yeah, it's totally absurd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 09:20 AM
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When I broke up with my ex he said "I wished we got married". That statement really creeped me out because he said nothing else than "I wished it would be harder for you to leave me". Toxic men really see marriage as a way to trap you. I agree, first live together with him for some time and then marry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:32 AM
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When I told my ex I was sexually assaulted he told me instantly "I don't think it was that bad". He later began to joke about it, said stuff like "well, I was your first one except for that other dude...". I smiled it away and didn't want to show how much it hurts me. But one day it was too much and I told him he should stop bringing it up regularly because I want to forget it. He said he only does that so I know "it's not a big deal" and he "wants to help me" with that. Some time past and after…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 02:09 PM
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My boyfriend plays videogames. But not often and mostly with me. I would never accept such obsessive childish dudes. Sad men tend to obsessions a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 12:15 AM
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Oh god, that's so my ex. "You changed" / "You are not the nice girl anymore" etc. Lol dude, I just see through your bullshit now. Hope this dude won't show up at your work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:02 PM
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