usikunyeusi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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18	To the black queens in here: please understand that divesting is imperative for our safety and to better our chances of meeting HVM. Most black men are LVM. I have received your sermon. 😭 It has been a catharsis of releasing the things and experiences that did not serve any other purpose than a cautionary tale and a lesson learned. I mean girls experience so much over-responsibility, co-dependence, guilt and shaming, control, religious, emotional and physical abuse, and parentification and personally, they still echo but daily. I am choosing to protect their little girl who deserved to have a true childhood, a curiosity for life. Fearlessness, coura…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 02:34 AM
1	Hating men takes too much work, just acknowledge that they are dangerous and untrustworthy and stay away from them. I am slowly making my peace with that. Not that I am not excited to have my life to myself and my loved ones and my interests. The process of shedding those layers of influence is not as clean as I had envisioned but it is rare that I dwell on those momentary slip ups. When it happens now it feels like echos of another lifetime. I knew this as a kid, that boys and men were selfish and didn't want to ever do anything unless it was for their own gain. I lost that knowledge for a period but I am ha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/21 02:38 AM