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I'll just speak to one part of your question, but basically my partner (of 3 years now) was previously in a 10+ year relationship, whilst my relationship history is a bit more like your girlfriend's. And I have my own insecurities about that, like can I really compete with 10 years of history and love? That's such a huge part of his life and now they never talk to each other and it's really weird to think of him with her and could he just cut contact with me like that one day? Does he miss all t…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 03:45 PM
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Yeah I'm gonna get round to reading the rest of the post but this is kinda the key point, like I had never kissed anyone at 18 and I was a reasonably hot lady, and my partner is a crazy hot man and he didn't have sex till well into his 20s. It's so much more normal than people on the internet think.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/26 05:16 PM
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Maybe other people are actually looking for emotional connection or at least chemistry and so don't go through partners so quickly? Not that there's anything wrong with just having a lot of casual sex. But also, maybe the non-redpill people who are hooking up loads just don't feel the need to brag about it publicly, because their self worth isn't based on how many people they've slept with, and they're not keeping count like a weirdo?
/r/ExRedPill19/03/26 01:53 PM
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...how old do you think I am/my friends are?
/r/ExRedPill08/02/26 09:21 PM
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Thanks for being kind and I really wish the best for you! I wouldn't volunteer to be in my 20s again, that shit is not easy. Sorry I couldn't help more.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/25 12:02 AM
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That's fair and I know what I've said is not particularly good advice. I have no idea what would have helped me when I was in your situation. I do know things can get better, because instead of spending all my time feeling jealous and insecure in my relationship, I'm currently bringing my lovely sweet trustworthy boyfriend a cup of tea. But there's no shortcut to get there, so I really don't know how to help, other than to say that my experience was that I felt intensely jealous of my partners' …
/r/ExRedPill30/12/25 11:47 PM
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I don't have great advice, but maybe no need to frame it in gender terms. My first boyfriend, many years ago, had himself had a lot of other experiences. I found that difficult some of the time. But I stayed with him for a few years, because he was important to me. Our eventual breakup was unrelated. There's no easy solution, it's just difficult. Inevitably, there will be a disparity of experience. All you can do is come to terms with it. For me, it was a good life experience; a couple of decade…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/25 10:58 PM
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Ok well I don't go around weighing my friends so I'm just going off of what I see
/r/ExRedPill25/12/25 10:13 AM
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Yeah I can tell! But that doesn't stop it from being true. Lots of people have hit rock bottom and then some. But part of it is feeling like there's no hope, and I'm for sure not the person who can tell you otherwise. Just gonna cross my fingers for you and hope you can look back in a few years and feel differently about it.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 01:39 AM
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Please, explain that specific lot! Seriously though dude, whenever you talk that way about your weight, I feel offended on behalf of the wonderful family and friends I have who are overweight men, who are also wonderful husbands, partners, fathers, boyfriends, and generally hot people who many people fancy.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 01:35 AM
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Ok sure, dunno where you've seen those comments but I'm sure there are people with those opinions, online most likely. And there are definitely people online who could make up similar comments about fat women. Those aren't the kind of women I know personally and I can't imagine my friends saying those things or even thinking them, but I can't rule out that such people exist somewhere. But that doesn't really relate to what I said, which was sharing my own experience of being both fat and thin, d…
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 01:30 AM
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I grew up in the middle of nowhere, and now I live near a big city but also mostly near a lot of sheep. I can't pretend to know your life, but I've lived in remote European villages and Asian megacities and that hasn't affected my opinions on this subject.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 01:21 AM
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And to add to that, it's wild to me that you don't see obese men with wives or girlfriends. I see that every day and they're my family and friends.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 12:04 AM
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I don't know the medical definition of obese, but if I had to guess, then yes, obese. (This might be tmi, but it might be worth knowing that there's a certain way in which fatter guys can make sex feel better that I'm gonna let you figure out for yourself.)
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 12:02 AM
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I don't have any data on the subject. But neither do you. So it's equally valid for me to share my experience, which is pretty much the opposite. I've been a skinny woman with a fat boyfriend, and we found each other attractive. I've also been a fat woman with a skinny boyfriend, and we also found each other attractive. I feel like I see many more examples of larger guys with smaller women, but all these things are just up to confirmation bias from both of us. I know it doesn't feel like it now,…
/r/ExRedPill23/11/25 11:57 PM
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