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it is if you’re not doing those things. people constantly give more detailed advice though, so your comment is just dumb hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 10:25 PM
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nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 07:15 PM
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if you want to waste your time and money, go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 07:09 PM
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stop posting if you don’t genuinely want advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 07:04 PM
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stop blaming everything on your height. it’s not the real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 07:03 PM
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i was 18, drunk, and trying not to get caught. tried talking to some people around, most were boring. then my friend’s ex started a fight with the bouncer she was dating at the time and we realized it was time to go. not my setting, never went back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 03:46 PM
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maybe you should try offering interesting companionship instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 04:32 AM
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this probably isn't a genuine post but just in case it is... remember that not everyone posted, and even those who did were all different kinds of types/looks. i used to think this way a lot about people, but it didn't help me at all and i think it's a good thing to avoid. try focusing the energy on something positive! what things do you like about yourself? you don't have to post it if you don't want, but i'm sure you can think of at least one or two things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 01:28 AM
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doubtful. it would definitely change the way some posts are received and answered to, though. mainly, those who are bitter that better-looking people exist will be even more dismissive to better-looking people. especially if those better-looking people are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 04:37 PM
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i kind of suspected it before, but with this frequency of posting, seems even more like that Hopeful guy. how does anyone have the time to post that much bullshit on multiple accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 04:35 PM
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you're the one desperate to prove your superiority; it's not my sleep that anyone needs to be concerned about. i also never said i was religious, but gotta say, wouldn't cry at your smiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 02:10 AM
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But, ''muh beliefs'', ''muh beliefs!'' you're getting responses on par with your OP. it's not like it was any kind of shining masterpiece, get over yourself. you're also proving a lot of people right in what they say about rabid atheists too, FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 01:26 AM
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When people proselytize for atheism, I genuinely believe they just want to prove they're smarter than other people have a friend like this... he's great to have a beer with, but insufferable on social media (and that one time he tried to make a movie night into some anti-religion thing). the fun part is that he complains about all religious people hating who he is while he hates on... all religious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 12:24 AM
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damn, even just poking fun at a crappy quote of Trump’s gets people here triggered. so comes the predicted meltdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 05:00 PM
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there is no such thing as a funny thread made by a red pill man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 11:26 PM
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how would you even know when you’re so unwilling to put in even a baseline effort to fix your situation? ... right, you wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 11:24 PM
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mocks special snowflakes right after bragging about how special he is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 10:39 PM
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If I gymcel and have well done shoulders, neck, etc, I could have a sick body in the next few years. and it still won't fix your personal problems. you'll just be the same wreck in a different body.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 07:36 PM
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if they already know, then they don't need to post about it or start discussions asking for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 04:38 PM
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but they doooo so this is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 12:38 PM
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no point. i mean, that's it. you're an idiot, the end. it's not like i'm saying this just because it's purge week, for funsies; it's been evident for quite some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 11:51 AM
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good grief, you're stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 11:38 AM
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i'm not wrong, and fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 11:36 AM
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your whole "woe is them and maybe me" thing, on top of "well it's society's job to do something for and about them and if they don't well guess who is to blame!"is nothing but apologia.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 02:45 AM
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fine, seek help. i don't object to that (but way to twist it around as if i did, fucking red pillers, i swear). but acting on it or burdening anyone else with this problem, nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 02:18 AM
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obviously i was talking as if it did, given that it's the premise of your OP. i don't care if it's a choice or not, it's still disgusting and i don't feel bad for these men having to 'suffer the plight' of keeping it to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 02:09 AM
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actually... never seen/touched an uncut one. as long as it was kept clean i can't imagine it'd have been a big deal, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 02:03 AM
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i'm okay with men suffering through thisnin silence and inaction. disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 01:31 AM
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if you don't get it after reading, i doubt this thread will help. the woman in the article comes off pretty whiny, but it can be tiring to have to ask someone repeatedly to do the simplest of things, especially when the thing you're asking or wanting them to do is a mere fraction of everything you manage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 11:49 AM
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agreed. i have most of them blocked but checked the sub a few times while logged out just to see what was happening... nothing i would have missed. boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 04:24 AM
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yay! yeah i'm not opposed to some sarcasm or calling someone out on their shit when necessary... but insulting for no reason and/or general meanspiritedness, i'm no good at it. i can't even do it in a funny way because i still end up feeling bad, so i'll just be on the sidelines for this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 10:54 PM
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yay, a safe space for softies like me. brutal out there already :P i've seen a ton of inktober posts already today. does anyone draw/participate, out of curiosity?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 08:15 PM
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sounds like you already have your mind made up about this, so what was the point of making it into a discussion? think whatever you want, who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 11:52 PM
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no, there's definitely been a spike -_-.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 09:37 PM
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i'm not advocating being totally hands-off with a kid's upbringing, i'm just not going to pimp them out like some fucking weirdo trying to live vicariously through my kid. what part of that didn't you get from my previous comment? read again, maybe once you calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 09:20 PM
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i'm alright with being a woman. my life's been pretty average, save for a few things here and there when i was younger, so i see no need to change things up like that. it has its disadvantages, like anything else, but i have been mostly fine with living as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:31 PM
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if i had a son, he'd be just fine without me trying to secure lays for him. if you think that's normal or required for a parent, please don't have kids. it's not remotely normal and sets them up for a life of struggle and failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 06:01 PM
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this is why i wish there was more of a vetting process for people to be allowed to reproduce and/or parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 04:31 PM
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it sounds made up, honestly, which is pretty on-par for TRP. the OP's still a piece of shit for fantasizing about this, but it's too perfectly set up for his stupid bragging and "chuckling". he was one shit-eating grin short of terp fantasy bingo. lonely angry sheep upvoted and gilded it because they share that fantasy and it made them feel good, per usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 03:34 PM
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there's an entire sub for incels, and a designated thread here, even, if you just want to talk about yourself. go there instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 02:05 PM
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no, being involved in and focused on your kid's sex life (and his sexuality) to that degree is weird. god, men here love to turn themselves into victims over everything...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 01:32 PM
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ugh, that's right, you're the leg extension guy. there's a designated thread for this; stop making new ones just to whine in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 03:35 AM
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seems like either has the potential for you to gain both; use your good looks to get rich, use your riches to get good-looking. given that, i'll take attractive but poor. i don't mind hard work and i prefer putting minimal work into my appearance. plus, higher chance for cute kids. perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 03:17 AM
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one hell of a hypothetical... i'm sure my husband and i would tackle the subject together, but it would probably involve mostly what-not-to-dos because giving your kid tips on how to get laid is weird. any advice or question-answering would probably be about specific scenarios, so there's not one universal answer to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 11:53 PM
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so much for calmly answering a simple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 08:02 PM
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from this post alone, i can already tell that his height isn't what's most off-putting. and i get it, to a degree; it makes sense and i'm sure that it can be tough sometimes, as there are some women who are more strict about their height preferences. but ultimately, it's no longer about just height.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 06:16 PM
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surgery, schmurgery. just get some of these and you're good to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 06:10 PM
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And to further add to that: Changing flat tyres. Taking the car to get serviced or getting someone to check it out. eh, neither of those are housework; i don't think they should be included. if we're including this, then also add 'taking kids to the doctor or important school events' (but actually don't, because none of that is housework despite still being important). Maintaining and cleaning the pool. You ever have a weir full of dead frogs waiting for you in the middle of winter? I've pulled …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 03:11 PM
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reality should convince you, not me. witness it sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 12:10 AM
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a rebuttal to that article blaming women for donald trump's election that articulates most of my thoughts on that and the manosphere mindset in general better than i could.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 10:31 PM
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of course! The Holy Scripts of TRP are never wrong, can never be argued against, are totally infallible always no matter what no exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 09:56 PM
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yeah, that's one of the things parts of the manosphere are most heavily criticized for. this is their bread and butter. maybe stop that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 07:30 PM
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seconding crumblesnatch: stop reading it (and following it?!) if stories that involve a positive outcome for a woman upset you. there are no shortage of places that only laugh about women getting the shit end of the stick; go there instead. problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 07:29 PM
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yeah yeah, that's exactly what i said. clearly you have no interest in reading my actual comments or discussing in a genuine way, so i'm done with you. all short men have hearts of gold; curse those bitches for not appreciating them in all their glory!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 07:26 PM
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i demand that you find and post links to every single thread about men detailing getting over bad exes in order to prove this statement. or, you know, just don't assert things like this as fact when you can't prove it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 07:17 PM
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i don't see this post as particularly celebratory, or trashing her ex or whatever, and i've seen posts celebrating guys moving on from crappy girlfriends so i think you're just overreacting to anything even remotely positive involving a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 07:05 PM
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this. it's as bad as posting thoughtcatalog here; both sites are mostly, if not all, trash articles. i've seen a few interesting/insightful things posted at buzzfeed, but they're most definitely the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 07:05 PM
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Either sacrifice family or sacrifice career. Women CAN'T have it all. They can't, dammit! They just can't!!!!!1
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 06:45 PM
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anyone who demands another person stay friends with them is entitled and delusional, no? just like it's not wrong for guy to be sad or disappointed at rejection, it's not wrong for girl to want friendship to continue. he can't demand she date him, though, and she can't demand he remain her friend. seems pretty clear cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 06:36 PM
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TRPers also say: resorting to violence > losing frame > weak. so, i guess it's not the woman thing you're making it out to be. WHO KNEW
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 05:47 PM
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JUST ASK HIM DIRECTLY no one else needs to be involved if you have questions for someone about their specific story, especially a story as dumb as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:38 PM
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yeah, undiagnosed women have it real easy. not like they experience the same personal struggles as men with the disorders, or spend their lives frustrated and aware that something's not quite right. not to mention that just like any kid, they're in the hands of their parents when it comes to those parents not dismissing the kid's concerns or the concerns of a professional, accepting that something might be wrong with them, or that treatment is necessary/possible. what a load of bullshit, your co…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 03:59 PM
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yeah, sure. seems like a good rule of thumb to avoid anyone that constantly talks about how much better than everyone else they are, for reasons like being nice or smart. especially when they're the only ones doing it. especially when their claims are unfounded or are about something really subjective. i don't think that totally covers what a nice guy is and these women would just exist alongside those guys instead of replace them, but at least on that one aspect, sure, they're alike, and equall…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 02:58 PM
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from the title alone, no. both experience/cause both. it may be true that men and women are more likely to get different disorders, but even anxiety and mood disorders affect the people around you and it's hard to imagine that the men described aren't suffering in some way internally as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 11:48 AM
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it still baffles me that people don't do this. there's always a cart corral nearby. you'll take less steps to that than you took in your trip to the store!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 02:54 AM
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only once or twice. it didn't go horribly, but it didn't last long and the end of it was uncomfortable for both parties. in one case all communication was cut off, and in the other less serious one, we just stayed friends (being in class together makes that easy). i was in my teens for both of them; if i was really not attracted to someone and single/dating these days, i probably wouldn't 'give it a shot' past a single date. i'm open to being surprised and giving someone a chance; there's a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 11:47 PM
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i was just giving it as an example of the double standard, i wasn't really offended too badly by it. and i don't know what you mean by "better people" unless you're saying i should start hanging out with very prudish churchy people or something. these were not low class ghetto women or dumb 20 year old bar sluts. the women making rape jokes were all late 20s -mid 30s, well educated, have white collar six figure jobs (lawyers and doctors), politically liberal women. i know for a fact that they we…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 09:23 PM
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seriously, hang out with better people. these people sound gross, and that shouldn't be accepted from anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 05:54 PM
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in your first paragraph, you confirm that you are projecting the way that you and (some) men think onto women. no need to continue; you don't know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 05:53 PM
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that's a normal compliment, so it appears your complaint has nothing to do with compliments or women then; you just don't like people that talk in an annoying way. stop looking at or following people that talk like this, simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 05:17 PM
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yeah, that was surprisingly easy to demonstrate. haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 04:14 PM
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it's not fake; it's women communicating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 04:04 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 03:27 PM
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not really. they're either normal things that have been around forever, or bizarre/funny things on occasion (vibrating butt, really?). they're not really a thing in my relationship, so i can't answer your question about the SO (as that's just a wildly different reality, making it worthless to talk about). even in the scenario you mentioned, if it weren't an SO and just a date or new relationship, intimidation/fear isn't what i'm feeling, just disinterest and maybe mild irritation (how much does …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 02:27 PM
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Yah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 03:10 AM
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not gonna lie, seeing the tables turned with a post like this, for once, is amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 09:19 PM
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he's literally talking about everyone, because "some" is apparently not in his vocabulary. Agree mostly, but I think that these women genuinely like having a stable of orbiters. They know very well that these guys want to fuck them. They know very well: If a man is talking to you or paying any attention to you in any way, he wants to fuck you. Women know this. They KNOW it. ALL women do. Women who say they don't are virtue signaling or being willfully ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 09:07 PM
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this comment is amazing. as is the line of reasoning in the comment being responded to... but for a totally different reason. haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 08:31 PM
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honestly, the main reason NiceGuys get brought up now is men out of the blue white-knighting for them. i almost never see them mentioned otherwise, and any "demonization" comes from men totally misrepresenting what they are in their efforts to defend them (if not actively asking the community to challenge them on an idea about NiceGuys). don't bring them up in a debate and discussion sub if you don't want to hear any criticism about them. besides, the women here who do complain about them are a)…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 06:26 PM
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the crime of the century.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 01:22 PM
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single mothers are women, and women are evil for not dating/sleeping with/acknowledging/worshipping them for simply having a pulse. the end. nothing worth taking seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 01:07 PM
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👏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 01:00 PM
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i don't assume that most or all women lead men on for kicks, and especially not because i heard incels and TRPers insist it enough that i started to believe it. some are dead set on thinking Women Bad, Men Good no matter what, though. the only way to win with these guys is to be genuinely attracted to them (an impossible demand) and women who aren't apparently deserve to have cruel and horrible things happen to them. it's absolutely insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 12:41 PM
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for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 12:37 PM
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in fantasy. yeah, we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 02:52 AM
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the only answer to TRPers and people that think like this TRP Enlightenment and Conduct Guide for Women do not speak to, look at, or breathe too close to a man lest you lead him on. at the same time, don't ignore him! shower him with attention and affection and satisfy his desires on demand because life is an unfathomable strife and struggle for all men, everywhere. realize you fail no matter what you do, as you are a loathsome woman and a blight on humanity. hate yourself until the bitter end f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 01:38 AM
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ugh, as usual, women always taking over the good stuff from those poor men. the bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 08:24 PM
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from your many edits, it sounds like you have your mind made up and will just choose to think what you think regardless of what anyone says. you're not seeking answers about anything, apparently, so no need for me to bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 07:22 PM
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right? what the hell. we even gave them a whole thread for that, and yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 05:41 PM
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1: Isn't makeup a fairly profound phenomenon in our society and in the SMP? i don't think so. it's pretty common/basic. 2: Why do we tolerate the bizarre "lie" that is makeup? because most people don't think of it as a lie, and it's as commonly accepted as wearing clothes these days anyway. it's not a big deal; even plastic surgery is a bigger deal than makeup. 3: Isn't it a strange imbalance that women but not men are allowed to enhance their looks in this way? men are, absolutely. it's less co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 04:22 PM
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it sounds like you're thinking of nice guys and Nice Guys as the same, and they're not. Nice Guys are not nice guys. they're pretending to be nice, believing that this obligates the target of their niceness to give them something (like a covert contract). then they get shitty about it when they don't get their way, because their target is not actually obligated to feel the way that Nice Guy wants them to just because he was "nice". as stated here frequently, niceness alone is not going to guaran…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 01:27 PM
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i mean, it's nothing like murder or stealing or rape. there are some things it can probably be compared to, but some other immoral acts are in completely different categories, so why bother? i don't think it was the goal of the OP, but the only reason i imagine someone would compare it to a thing like murder is to attempt to justify it. "it's not like i killed someone." there's really no other purpose i can think of, because those other acts are just really different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 12:49 AM
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it's relationship-killing, and extremely hurtful. i don't see the point in comparing it to immoral acts in general, though i suppose i do consider it immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 11:49 PM
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and this conversation is over ✌️ go post your own advice if mine's so bad, i really wasn't asking for anyone's feedback in the first place (nor do i care to hear it).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 11:34 PM
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well, therapy was helpful to me, and i've improved without the use of anti-depressants or similar drugs so we disagree. oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 11:28 PM
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this is completely irrelevant. go bitch about feminists to someone else, i don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 11:15 PM
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anti-depressants may help as well, though i'm pretty sure a prescription is required in some places, to get them through legal means (but i could be wrong). looking at drugs as the first and/or sole solution to something is pretty stupid though, IMO. like i said, there's no magic fix-all. bandaids, though, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 11:04 PM
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yeah, right back at you. post your own suggestions as a top level comment if you've got something so much better to share, and leave me the fuck alone then 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 09:38 PM
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therapy helps some people. if it doesn't help him, he can stop going and spending money on it, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 09:16 PM
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therapy might help. you could also see an escort or prostitute, but i doubt getting laid is going to solve any of the concerns you listed above. it's nice, sure, but not a magic fix-all, and guys that do have casual sex are not flawless beings with problem-free lives. it sounds like you're on the right track with improving physically and socially; i would continue that. i would not listen to TRP beyond that and would stay away from pill stuff in general, honestly (and stop viewing people who hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 08:13 PM
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"i'm not saying it... but really, i am."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 05:22 PM
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the writer obviously realized nothing, which is why he got fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 03:07 PM
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More people buy video games which represent stereotypical masculine interests - reward system of progress, mission-based play you guys always go so far to try and twist the most basic of things into being masculine. everyone responds to and even enjoys being rewarded for goal achievement. "gamification" is applied to things involving both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 03:05 AM
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it always turns out like this... i think a few college students have raised similar stinks about their voices not being heard, accusing their professors or schools of censorship or whatever, and it turns out that it was really because they were just being disruptive fight-seeking dicks about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 02:32 AM
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oh, good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 12:59 AM
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possibly. i haven't read much about this since it was last posted here, but if they violated rules by doing this, then yes, they should be punished accordingly. i don't know google's policies, but it seems like that would result in at least some sort of punishment, sure. i work in a somewhat similar company, and that would probably earn someone a write-up at the very least (for adding to a public scene).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 12:48 AM
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indeed. you seem to feel that he should be immune and protected, though. the world is not a safe space. statements can have consequences, for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 12:41 AM
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what makes him immune to either public or private criticism? in what world is that a thing? it's not like a manager recorded a 1x1 and released it for kicks; this guy wanted his views out there, and just didn't get the response he wanted or felt he deserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 12:36 AM
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sounds more like he wanted to spread his manifesto (that he knew would be controversial) consequence-free... and then got mad that there were, in fact, consequences because reality's like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 12:30 AM
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hopefully it results in posts of actual substance in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 01:00 PM
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i know the song already; trying to co-opt it into some poorly constructed whinefest is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 03:36 AM
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lol, Jordan Peterson again. also, don't drag Pink Floyd into this; some things are sacred.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 02:26 AM
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when my ex-fiance and i broke up for the last time. though that was more like... loneliest two years. haha. it was more than a moment, but, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 02:35 PM
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no, i don't. i don't see the harm in countering the examples that i mentioned, and acknowledging that women can be more if they want to be. how does it hurt women to encourage them? how does it hurt men to have women encouraged alongside them, or in ways they've been encouraged in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 02:04 PM
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thank you, for thinking of something to ask in response to that... i've never seen someone describe themselves as pulpy, how weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 01:32 PM
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the media has also been inundated with male superheroes for decades; it's not just goofy dads. we have a president who has made denigrating statements about women just for not being attractive to him, and has said things about women needing to be attractive as a priority over much else, iirc. i don't see the harm in telling girls and women that, for example, they aren't just products to be gazed at or used by men, but in fact have brains and worth as fellow human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 01:16 PM
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some people here say it was about trying to get men to be attracted to fat women, but i think it was more about just not making fat people feel disgusting or subhuman (basically, not bullying or shaming them). acceptance. that, i can get on board with; hating on fat people to the degree some do is stupid. extreme groups or individuals may have had their own interpretation of it, but that was my take. i haven't researched it much nor do i see much about it at all so it's not a big deal either way…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 12:32 PM
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yeah, that's why men do labor. they wouldn't even have jobs or do work at all if it weren't for that bitch. that's... accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 02:57 AM
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agreed... a few of them are going on about having fathering opportunities taken away from them... just find someone you know you're compatible with on the subject of parenting? i know not everything can be predicted so an accident might happen, but even if it did, this situation where you both want different things so badly isn't hard to avoid at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 02:06 AM
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if a woman so much as sighs out loud, every cop and law enforcement officer within a 50 mile radius assembles and bows before her, obediently awaiting orders to destroy or otherwise address what has dismayed her, no matter how trivial or extreme. didn't you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 01:52 AM
1

the North Korea back and forth makes my stomach turn :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 11:45 PM
1

there may be those addicted to their mobile phones, but on this point specifically, plenty of companies are the reason that people check their phones so often. i know i didn't check mine nearly as much until i had a job with a work phone, that expected me to be somewhat available at all times. i don't think restricting laptops or phones in meetings is solely about people being addicted to facebook or whatever; some jobs just have that kind of environment/habit built in. i work a pretty regular o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 11:04 PM
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you're making up all these things based on your feelings towards women, and trying to call it logic (while saying that what anyone else believes doesn't matter). think what you want, don't care anymore ✌️bye
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 09:49 PM
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as things are currently, i don't see a better option. i agree with the idea of giving up paternal rights and responsibilities, but as that is not in place and a child exists that needs to be supported... i don't think it's a positive thing for a woman to keep a kid against a guy's wishes either, tbh; it sounds pretty crappy, really. but at this time, i don't see a better alternative to child support (until something like giving up paternal rights/responsibilities is put in place).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 05:00 PM
1

aw Irvine <3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 01:06 PM
1

seems like OP just posted this to fawn over Ronaldo again, and then added a bunch of other shit to try and make it a real post. but if you want to talk cuties...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 12:40 PM
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i think so, especially if it's having a positive effect in stopping or decreasing rape. there have also been articles linked here in the past where men responded that clearly non-consensual activity didn't constitute rape. they simply didn't understand that the actions actually were rape. similar things have played out in this sub; there are some people who really need this kind of education. FYI to those who argue that anything but a screaming, punching no = consent or ambiguity: that just furt…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 12:37 PM
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btw, re: your last paragraph, TRPers say the same thing. the only difference is they care little to do anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 12:31 PM
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right? terrible, for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 12:30 PM
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sure, in a way. things happen in life; good to be prepared. it's no more insecure than looking both ways before crossing the street though; far different than the insecurity that gets discussed here. but you knew that before this silly little post, didn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 11:47 AM
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it feels good, we both enjoy it, and we both finish. a level of comfort where we can laugh, talk about likes/dislikes, and not get embarrassed is also really great.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 01:22 AM
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I think you're mistaking "feminine men" with men who just have a more defined facial bone structure. this seems to be how many reds/manospherians here define feminine men, IME... it's silly. women who really care about their jobs are also immediately branded career-obsessed bitches. c'est PPD. also, don't see how all of those guys listed above are fuckboys just for being "feminine".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 07:32 PM
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i mean, it's nice to know that there are situations where it all works out for the best. good for those couples. however... it wouldn't be worth the risk for me to see if that's how it pans out, on top of the slim possibility that i'd ever get over the betrayal, hurt, and disgust from what they did the first time around. who's to say they don't just feel so guilty and lousy about themselves that they feel like they can't be good again and just resign themselves to being a cheater? nah, not a bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 05:42 PM
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i was surprised by that, given how often he's on the other side of such situations (even including those who were defending him). well, in any case, at least most other people here are nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 05:29 PM
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here, from google. the context from me mentioning people taking up seats with their bag should also clarify that i'm talking about a degree to which it is invading the space of others in the bus/train, or blocking empty seats that others could sit in. i recommend more googling after that if you still don't know what it is; i don't have the patience to try and explain further what could just be easily researched.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 01:03 AM
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please reread my comment and then ask yourself whether or not that's what i'm talking about. i've been very clear. i even repeated it three times above.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 10:52 PM
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because i'm a reasonable human being, yes. i know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 09:29 PM
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i'm not talking about someone sitting normally without their knees slammed shut; i'm obviously talking about someone taking up a ton of space in a totally unnecessary way. i'm not talking about someone sitting normally without their knees slammed shut; i'm obviously talking about someone taking up a ton of space in a totally unnecessary way. i'm not talking about someone sitting normally without their knees slammed shut; i'm obviously talking about someone taking up a ton of space in a totally u…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 09:26 PM
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it's not something i'm 'reading into' comments; it's just being on this sub long enough to know how some people operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 09:23 PM
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nope!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 09:22 PM
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a very TRP level of hyperbole and 'argument'.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 08:09 PM
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It's not about the actual issues, it's about how men and women are seen/treated differently. the rest of your comment is nonsense (naturally), but as for this, then talk about that instead. i saw someone just today saying that there would be anti-manspreading laws if women ruled the world, which, calm down (and who would that even hurt? are you in favor of this rude behavior for some reason?). people who are upset about the 'other' group that made manspreading seem like a male-only offense are j…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 07:43 PM
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it's always amusing to see complaints about "the war on manspreading" in threads here. do you want to be that person that takes up 2-3 seats more than you need? do you want to be that person that sits in a weird and potentially gross way? do you really think only men are capable of doing this, or is it an asshole thing that everyone can do? should there be no rules or etiquette on a train? is spreading out shopping bags or luggage across seats something that should be acceptable in your mind as …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 01:27 PM
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when i was single it always seemed like a fantastic fate to meet someone from the other side of the world that i happened to have a lot of common with, and to be with them and work with them to overcome the challenges that difference in culture and/or language presented. in some more dramatic daydreams, there was a "run through the airport to meet at the gate in the nick of time before they leave" moment too (with either them rushing, or me). a little cliched but all in good fun :) i also love t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 11:42 PM
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some fights, some drug selling, some drug stealing. mild forms of vandalism, shoplifting. drinking when/where they shouldn't. yes, some of it was more common when they younger, if they even still do it. they are still criminals though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 01:30 PM
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makes sense; probably a good rule of thumb for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 01:24 PM
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no no no things can just be nice and simple sometimes really, being the guy that always pushes like you feel you need to is just going to get you a bad rep.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 05:10 AM
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if he really doesn't know, then no, i'd say he isn't. his target may feel differently, but if he just didn't know, i likely wouldn't think of him as an asshole. there's a set of limits there too, though; even some really socially inept people can recognize when they're fucking up in a really bad way. if he got really grabby and vulgar i'd doubt claims that he didn't know he was being inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 04:42 AM
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fair enough; i admittedly have no interest in reading his articles or watching his videos, so that does leave me with an often-colorful TRP/manosphere interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 05:09 PM
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does this sum up to anything except "all these bad things are the fault of women"? it's an old line no matter the justification attempts, just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 04:15 PM
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it looks like there are a couple on Netflix, but i was (finally) watching Jiro Dreams of Sushi this time. was pretty cool; a lot of stuff i didn't know about sushi business.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 02:12 PM
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hiding your feelings away or avoiding attachment out of fear is not maturity; it's the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 04:39 AM
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thought my standards were high-ish, but the men that have answered so far are definitely more critical than i would be, mostly... interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 03:49 AM
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meh, it makes sense to account for compatibility of lifestyle, especially if you want kids. that's more reasonable than some of the stuff you listed above.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 03:40 AM
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i mean, still. little to no violent crimes for my friend group (of primarily good guys and gals), but more than speeding tickets. 'crime' is a wildly broad category.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 03:38 AM
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"criminals" is also a broad term, i thought. by strict definition, i think pretty much all of my friends are criminals even though we're plain janes/joes. i am for fairly mild reasons (comparatively), and i'm at home on a Friday night with pumpkin beer and a sushi documentary. just sayin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 03:05 AM
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your standards are too high!!!!! what a snobby girl you'd be. TRPers would bitch about you for sure. maybe even you would.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 03:02 AM
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even today males are the most loner sex. talking about the same guys, apparently, but you're still saying they're tough outlaw loners. what are you doing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 09:43 PM
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Men Are Wonderful. and not at all super dependent on each other to the degree of needing to create a safe space to congregate in like the manosphere, where they also lament their sadness (caused by their dependency on approvals from both women and men).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 08:46 PM
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you are dead set on ignoring any traces of femininity in these characters because you would have to admit to being wrong. talking to you is a waste of time, go wallow in your misery and willful ignorance. bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 04:42 PM
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oh, no disagreement there. i just don't think the subset of people that this is aimed at will care; it's been brought up to them before and they didn't, and i would expect it's much the same now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 01:44 PM
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not anticipating much care about this from them regardless, tbh. but, you tried i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 03:41 AM
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Faye Valentine is an anime character. She's an example of proving my point in the first place. yes, one of the two people that you actually had any ability to discuss, yet you still talked about each of them as if you had a clue. you don't. just say you don't know and leave it at that, unless looking absurdly biased by making guesses about the rest of them based on what you personally believe is the kind of image you want to put out there. pander to her by saying she's so strong and powerful and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 08:12 PM
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exactly :P oh, the fits that would ensue... if only that meant mods wouldn't also have to deal with the fallout from it, blech.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 05:57 PM
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i mean, the only thing you appear to have knowledge of above is Faye Valentine and (questionably) Supergirl, and you just say "well, i don't really have a clue, BUT I'M PROBABLY RIGHT ABOUT THE REST OF IT CUZ WOMEN + POPULAR = FEMINIST". why should anyone bother, after that? you wouldn't, if faced with such an 'argument'. of that, i'm sure. also, sailor moon was hardly the first magical girl anime and no doubt 'ripped off' plenty from other series that came before it. cultures all influence each…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 04:03 PM
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welp, looks like you're determined to cram your opinion into all of these shows, conveniently ignoring major parts of them/whether you've seen them or not. thanks for making it so clear so no one has to waste their time on you anymore. dig those heels in...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 03:19 PM
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that would remove any double standards or unfairness, which is your complaint, correct? blanket removal for the win.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 01:35 PM
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no, don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 01:11 PM
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not really; plenty of female characters are allowed to be feminine. sure, some of them get some stupid criticism thrown their way (think black widow being sad that one time) but there are tons more. someone in this thread mentioned supergirl, who is still very feminine, and even characters like korra remained feminine despite also being really tough. most recent Wonder Woman is also quite feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 01:07 PM
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i support having a week-long experiment where the mods remove everything that gets reported. that would be better for discussion, yeah? surely, no one would complain. not even you or OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 01:02 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 11:51 AM
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yes. in fact it is the sole trait that makes a difference between yes and no for me. the only thing, period. AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 11:50 PM
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this thread seems kinda woe is me, just sayin. but really, make sure to report it (if you didn't already) and then message the mods if it looks like the report was disregarded. specific discussions like this usually end up moved to DMs anyway; cut straight to that, and save some time/effort. the dumb post from the guy who just wants to tell everyone he thinks women suck as friends is still up too, though; not everything reported will get removed (and you can find out why by asking more directly)…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 09:03 PM
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i don't have near as many references to cite, but this is essentially what i've noticed as well (through media consumption, and language exchanges/studies). side note: my copy of journey to the west is arriving tomorrow and i cannot wait to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:26 PM
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i would never hear whining (or anything) about it again from silly manospherians that created the concept just to make themselves feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 05:41 PM
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men and women being just friends is really common. it's not the weird outlier you're making it out to be. it might be bizarre to red pillers or manospherians who have a certain perspective on women, but in reality, it's not that weird or unusual. seriously, anyone getting upset over the idea that male-female friendships exist (or that people are saying so) can just go back into their cave.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 03:36 PM
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if a woman did this, you'd all just call her a nosy annoying harpy bitch anyway. can't win.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 04:02 AM
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no one said there were men here who couldn't handle it. by this thread alone, it's very clear that some men here can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 04:00 AM
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i don't really have any, so if i were denied what little i do want or ask for... yeah, that'd probably be a dealbreaker or at the very least make it a lot less pleasant and desirable for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 12:19 AM
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you're not really discussing anything, just lolololing about how much women suck and you don't like them aside from the time they spend having sex with you when/if they do. no one cares if you personally choose to be friends with women or not; go post this stupid shit in the circlejerk sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 11:16 PM
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perhaps. i think the "thirst" comments were pretty spot-on; i prefer to have few friendships that i can be more dedicated to, simply preferring a smaller social circle, but even i don't have these wild demands for those friends. i suppose i would if i wanted a lot of attention or devotion from people, platonically or romantically, though (which is not what i seek, so i guess i can't relate except for reflecting on a brief period in high school).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 09:36 PM
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oneitits
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 09:30 PM
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yeah, OP is operating on a really weird definition of friendship, one that comes up here from time to time. would not be surprised if these demands and expectations are only placed on women; surely, there's some hamstery explanation as to why male friends would not be held to the same standard. blah blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 09:16 PM
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1) she's not wrong about your reasons for hanging around, apparently. maybe if you didn't act like that, you would be viewed differently. 2) in addition to being a better friend, get better friends. this also requires different standards than "would" or "would not".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 09:07 PM
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yes, men and women can be friends. i have male friends that are not remotely interested in me; we just enjoy each other's company. it's probably more difficult or uncommon among single people, tbf, but it's not impossible. it's not surprising to me that the same men who can't imagine being just friends with a woman are also the men who lament about women being so boring and terrible, and couldn't manage a relationship if they tried (conveniently, they claim to have no interest in it).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 09:06 PM
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i think damascus steel is pretty cool. i haven't researched it much, but it's also cool to see the rings made by swordsmiths out of the steel they use for weapons, and so on (IMO, naturally). i saw an article about some of those being made available in japan, but sadly... they are a bit pricy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 01:24 PM
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then we can agree to disagree. i don't really care if you agree with me or not anyway; this is an argument or statement that often gets made by men here on this subreddit, and my response is the same every time it comes up: no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 10:15 PM
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it is easy. pleasant? probably not. but it's not difficult if you have a baseline level of concern about what you're doing and your well-being (or anyone else's).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 09:23 PM
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right, men are never responsible for themselves or expected to use self-control when the alternative is that they're unhaaaaappy 😭. there's another thread you can go post about that in; you have company in that kind of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 05:37 PM
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i do, i did, and we're done. bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 02:11 PM
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i'm a human. i will not accept this being written off as something that only happens to men, or that men are somehow less responsible for this mistake, especially after just having a thread on this. don't bother responding if that's where you think you're taking this (it's not going there).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 01:48 PM
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not difficult, easy. wildly so. women have to do it too; there are no excuses for those who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 01:36 PM
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so you're just basing this on reasons you made up about the specific group of people around you (that you admit are party people)? flimsy, at best. iirc there are women here with higher n-counts who have managed to carry on relationships just fine. reality disproves your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 03:37 AM
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tungsten rings are cool; my husband and i both have a few rings (because sometimes we like to switch styles). a good choice :) and often inexpensive. we really want Damascus steel rings but those are a little more pricy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 02:04 AM
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it was abrupt, and i was in love with him, when there wasn't much else around me to love. also, was young and hadn't been through many situations like that. it would have been a hard breakup for an adult, so it was that much worse experiencing it as a younger person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 09:09 PM
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what a helpful bot!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 08:35 PM
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yes. it was horrible. i was unhappy, i didn't trust anyone, i kind of lived on autopilot, just moving through days and motions when i had to (work and school). drank a lot; spent as much time wasted as i could, occasionally doing something reckless but mostly just drinking to feel something other than pain, sadness, anger. self-harm (no, i will not elaborate). for a while, i blamed men, and stayed away from them romantically. eventually through the healing process i stopped thinking that way, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 08:33 PM
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depending on the guy, sounds like some "feeling like a man" thing. hard to tell without more info, though. from the scenario posted elsewhere, he may just want a little control over what's happening to him, as the other participant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 07:01 PM
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agreed. and then write it off as satisfying male nature or some bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 10:21 PM
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we were the reason the relationship failed, so knowing it was that, rather than fate... probably not. incompatibility, growing up, etc. etc. would have torn us apart at some point. it was just a matter of when. if i imagine the relationship as perfect and only destroyed by fate (as the OP seems to be asking me to), then i guess we'd have had no reason to part, but that's so far out of reality that it doesn't seem worth talking about. yes, if everything was perfect, it would be perfect. in any ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 03:36 PM
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Don't be so sure. "i'm not sure" is basically the first thing she says, and that's echoed all throughout her comment. read before lecturing. people in this thread, i swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 01:19 PM
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what a bitch, getting sick like that, amirite?! -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 01:17 PM
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but they have so many other subs for that... -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 12:23 AM
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of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 11:27 PM
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it's part of it, obviously. otherwise i wouldn't have said anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 11:27 PM
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men and their ~feels~, so emotional. focus on the reals, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 10:47 PM
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doesn't matter; he's clearly not in love or satisfied enough to be faithful, and make keeping his vows a priority. too bad, so sad, goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 10:45 PM
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well, all of this is hypothetical, so of course some of it is reality-bending. most of us who even said we might allow it have noted that it would damage our relationships irreparably and make us miserable, though (despite any agreement that might happen). it's generally not a good or promising thing, no one's excited about this. obviously, answers are going to be as close to 'no' as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 08:18 PM
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lol, no one here cares about what mistress wants; that is most definitely not important.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 07:57 PM
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if i'm questioning whether i'd allow it when i was terribly sick and couldn't be intimate with him, then i definitely wouldn't be on board with it in a normal situation. this should not be surprising or difficult to understand, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 07:51 PM
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yeah, the reactions from some of the RPers/manosphere types in this thread are nuts and they'd probably burst a blood vessel if the tables were turned. and you know, they've been pretty emotional, despite that label being slapped on your comments. tut tut.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 07:42 PM
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most of the women here aren't that thrilled to be parting from our partners or husbands, and most of us aren't able to say with 100% confidence what we would do in that situation. as for me, and i'm sure many others, the idea of having to part from these men is heartwrenching and something that at least in part, we'd try to avoid at nearly all costs (like potentially allowing him to have only physical needs satisfied elsewhere). but putting emotions into it is just additional betrayal of the pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 07:39 PM
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good for you. hopefully you never have to. it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 07:33 PM
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i don't care about what guys like you do or don't get off to. if he wants to carry on a full emotional and physical relationship with someone else, then we don't need to be together anymore. i honestly don't even think i could withstand him having a physical relationship with someone else. those are the terms; abide, or move along. if i'm going to be devastated either way, i'm going to do my very best not to stay tied to a man who clearly doesn't give a shit about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 07:16 PM
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denial and ignoring can be a great bandaid when something is hurting you. just ask TRP, they have an arsenal of them. it's not a woman thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 07:06 PM
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yeah, on second thought that was one of the main things that bugged me, that he was basically getting a girlfriend and trying to bring her into the marriage or whatever. unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 05:09 PM
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first things first: he sounds gross. Could you too "get on like a house of fire" with his "sugar babe?" Would you welcome her into your house? no. if i even agreed to such a thing (which i very likely wouldn't), it would only be begrudgingly. there would be no need or purpose to getting to know this woman. Do you think it is possible for a late 30's man to have "a bunch of similar interests" with an 18 year old girl? (Setting aside her interest in his money and his interest in her body tho, thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 04:47 PM
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I am genuinely interested in why women are attracted to narcissistic traits. you are interested in people confirming what you already believe. that is not valuing viewpoints of others, because you're already arguing on a premise that some won't agree with (in other words, you're excluding any viewpoint or individual that doesn't already agree with the premise you selected).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 02:24 PM
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no brained answer: whoever they find most attractive, the guy they crush on the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 11:53 AM
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there's no reason any of those things wouldn't have the potential to be unrealistic options for people. do you really think otherwise? it's not highlighted as much as abortion since morals are less involved, i suppose, but people can and do struggle with major medical care as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 02:50 AM
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the bar is higher than just a long drive, as noted in SW's comment that i linked at the start. if you don't realize that it's about more than a long drive, then just as i said, you need to read up because you don't know what you're talking about. unless you don't want to be taken seriously, in which case, keep up the good work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 02:19 AM
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if you can do it, everyone else can without exception! of course! you speak for everyone... don't you? or do you agree that people have different lives, challenges, abilities, and opportunities? how far will you dig your heels in just to avoid having to admit you're wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 01:02 AM
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so you choose ignorance, then. i thought things had changed, but good to know; carry on doing... this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 12:46 AM
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you need to read more about abortion and the ways governments try to restrict it and make it more difficult, if not impossible. it's not like a trip to the grocery store or something similarly trivial. there's a lot of information out there to read; the statements above are entirely ignorant of reality. you should make sure you're well-informed before discussing the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 12:05 AM
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i'm getting old so remembering is tough... it was in high school, a while back... but probably, i put a lot of effort into noticing his interests and learning more about them so i could talk about them and/or impress him. i didn't do a lot of dressing up, at least not to the degree i'd consider it a big effort, but i did a lot more in the way of trying to appear as someone he was compatible with and wanted in his life. this also occasionally involved some dumb flattery and compromising on things…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 02:12 PM
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as this thread goes on, i become more and more convinced that OP is matching up with on-par women, but thinks he's more interesting than he actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 09:00 PM
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everyone's a victim, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 07:19 PM
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if you're so blind that you don't see the misery in this OP, my advice would probably be helpful to you as well. have some sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 07:13 PM
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if you have nothing else to say and don't want responses that challenge you, this was just a waste of everyone's time (including yours).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 06:09 PM
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it's not rude to point out that you clearly have your mind made up. it's no one's responsibility to convince you otherwise, and most here won't care to do so (because it's your decision, after all). frankly, as this is clearly a very personal post, i think you should stay away from dating for a while, as well as any pill subs. take a break, get some perspective and fresh air (so to speak), reset, and then decide where you want to go from there. break the miserable cycle so that you can find your…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 05:47 PM
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ah, what a shame; i loved it. just watched it again yesterday, actually. suppose it's not for everyone, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 02:32 AM
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yeah! each of those mythologies are fascinating; i'd like to reread them someday. did order journey to the west; also added in dante's inferno and tao te ching... should keep me occupied for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 06:55 PM
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i don't know what you think you're busting me for, but okay. you got me, i like attractive men and not bulgy gym rat assholes. it's a pretty normal preference; only TRPers believe women want the extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 06:15 PM
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trying to think of who else he looks like... he's sort of a mix of beck and sam rockwell to me, both guys i find super cute... in the first picture above, he's not bad-looking to me either. with you on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 05:37 PM
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husband, but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 01:56 PM
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think whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 01:46 PM
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then clearly we've had different experiences and discussions. neither of these things are well-defined, like much of TRP's stuff, so that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 01:39 PM
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chads are sneakier, alphas are in your face and personal space.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 01:23 PM
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yeah, i happened to stumble upon an anime series loosely(?) based on it and i love it... so reading the actual story is next. i used to read a lot before going back to school, though, so i do want to return to that too. i love reading classic stories and stuff like that, especially from different countries, so i hope i can focus on it. i only vaguely remember it now, but i used to love reading Greek mythology.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 01:20 PM
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this might be even worse than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 01:16 PM
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something more like the chad posted, though that picture is boring and i don't actually care for tyler that much. i prefer slimmer toned guys, not really muscly ones. laid back, has feelings, not some weird macho or stoic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 12:58 PM
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most depictions and discussions of either chad or alphas are a joke here. absurdity matched (if i understood the OP correctly). i bet he could lift a whole lot, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 12:56 PM
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that alpha...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 04:48 AM
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haven't read anything but textbooks in a while... but pretty sure i'm ordering this now that payday has come. miss non-comic leisure reading...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 04:00 AM
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the man to lead all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 02:46 AM
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totally. actually, i'm pretty sure my friend's cat would match this description too. he steals the show at every party, and no one refuses to pet him when he bats at them to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 02:13 AM
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just googled "musclehead" (though i suppose it could also exist on a gay porn blog).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 02:11 AM
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based on the idols and descriptions of TRPers... chad alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 01:52 AM
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oh, come on. a guy promising to be there for the woman and kid and then leaving (likely when it's too late and abortion isn't an option) is shitty. you can still be team man and acknowledge that they're capable of being shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 01:36 AM
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a lot of people here support the idea of men being able to relinquish parental rights/responsibilities... but in the current reality, both parents are financially responsible for the child they took part in creating. child support helps with the raising of the innocent kid, so at present, without a financial abortion option (that i'm aware of)... it's the next best thing (again, for the kid).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 11:43 PM
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If these guys use it in a way that doesn't yield positive results they use it wrong. this just supports her criticism. "RP is never wrong; anyone who doesn't get good results from it isn't RP or isn't using it right." blues constantly misunderstand it to mean that it always and forever applies no matter what a woman does. it's not a misunderstanding if this is how we see RPers here and elsewhere using it. it's an observation of how the term has changed and/or deviates from the super-charitable d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 09:00 PM
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because they either focus on those women that actually do fly off the handle with ease, or want to see themselves as superior. or hell, maybe even both.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 03:39 PM
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we've all tried to show them that what they're doing is self-sabotage; they don't care, or don't want to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 02:17 PM
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according to some of PPD i happen to find guys who are somewhat feminine in personality and looks attractive, so i guess that. it doesn't seem like that big of a deal to me, but others have disagreed and/or been outraged. also, not a size queen when it comes to muscles or anything else. the things people say women should be into are grotesque and unappealing to me. there is a point where dicks or bodies are just too big, guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 11:29 PM
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it's not. read what's actually being said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 07:50 PM
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a mod confirmed it. it was weird, unproductive, compulsive, and continued despite him being asked to stop, so naturally, multiple ignored warnings/rule breakings led to a temp ban. it's not like he was just randomly perma-banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 07:40 PM
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there were a few posts requesting explicit descriptions of acts and experiences, in ways/discussions that had little relevance to this sub (several people noted that it just seemed like a bizarre effort to get material for personal perusal and enjoyment). a lot of those got removed because they were so pointless and weird, so it was probably because those posts continued despite mod removals/warnings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 06:32 PM
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aside from your name, haven't seen any romance movies in a long time (or teared up at them)... i prefer stories where romance is just one aspect of it, not romance-centered films. i remember liking 500 days of summer a lot, even with the ups and downs, though. it encompassed all the good and bad parts i remembered and experienced in relationships at the time, so in that sense, it was comforting even when it was sad. as with anything else, i'm sure it's just nicer and more palatable for the peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 02:55 PM
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seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 12:10 PM
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👏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 12:04 PM
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voices of sense are nice; all of these threads are such a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 11:55 AM
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i follow so many samoyeds on instagram >.< they are perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 09:48 PM
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the bots we really need.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 03:49 PM
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if men being unable to tell if someone's not into what's happening is real, then they need to be accompanied by an armed police officer at all times to keep them in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 03:32 PM
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feminists love to harp about women being entitled to what practically amounts to guaranteed safety without having to adjust their behavior in any way or form. well yeah, in most cases men have more of this guarantee than women do. sure, some feminists or advocates go overboard... but putting extremes aside and thinking in general, why is it wrong or surprising that women might want some freedom too? can you not see how demanding that women "don't do this, don't do that, because men" is just this…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 02:55 PM
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what do these people care? (they don't.) they'll just talk about how women are weak for viewing anything as an obstacle, while whining about all the real obstacles men have to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 02:12 PM
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just read about the missile launch :( hate this. between this and the hurricane... egh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 11:55 PM
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oh, good luck! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 03:06 AM
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i guess it is a matter of perception... he was charming, passionate, and had nice lips. for a more down-to-earth/country girl (as the waitress appeared to be), it made total sense. sad you didn't enjoy it more though; the music/action timing and jon hamm villain seemed so fun to me. but, then again, i love that kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 03:06 AM
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oh damn, didn't know you were in the midst of that :( glad to hear you're alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 07:18 PM
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i guess it depends on how he interacts with them, but just on the basis of being female alone, no. unless there was a weird vibe/interaction, i wouldn't concern myself or demand he stop talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 04:26 PM
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not that this thread is any better... but we had to have an incel moratorium long before now because of their attempted takeover. this is annoying, but nowhere near the same. discussions over the last week have had a ton of RP circle jerking too; don't worry, you're safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 03:33 PM
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minor are necessary, major is probably a sign of incompatibility. think altering your communication styles to better understand each other vs. whether or not to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 06:09 AM
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it seems to be the song of the bitter and boring here. they also lose their shit at the idea of any woman being attracted to Asian guys, or thinking Dan Bilzerian is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 06:18 PM
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recently watched Misery and had a thought while watching the interactions between the cop guy and his wife... (roseanne and dan are similar to what i mean.) i wonder if RPers/manospherians recognize that as a couple/relationship with rapport and love, or actually think those are two people that hate each other and have a bad marriage. my husband and i often tease and pick on each other even in public, and we also wonder how often people around us mistakenly take that seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 04:54 PM
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no, you just clearly don't know how attraction works for women and i don't care to spoonfeed you. other people with more patience are trying to explain it to you; be smart, and listen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 04:33 PM
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you have much to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 04:12 PM
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... there probably are. he's really popular and attractive to many, whether the minor group of sour grapes guys here gets that or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 02:48 PM
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maybe you should make a thread asking which BP members here are feminists before assuming all are (if you care to listen or know things). most aren't, as i recall. why else do you think feminism discussions were moved to a megathread? it's not really relevant here (and don't kid yourself, you have zero authority over which discussions i can or can't stay away from, lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 02:52 AM
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i don't need to fight feminism, nor do i claim to be a feminist. this sub is not a feminism sub. this sub is not a feminism sub. this sub is not a feminism sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 10:39 PM
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because women are horrible. you win!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 08:59 PM
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i seriously want red pillers and manospherians to find a better place to discuss feminism instead of asking completely unrelated people to defend stances they don't even hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 08:59 PM
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go to a feminism sub or the thread where feminist discussion goes now if you want to talk about feminists. or, go circlejerk about it with some bros if you just want to bitch. this is not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 08:31 PM
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the OP and red/manosphere responses here are full of more strawmen than anything. that's what makes these threads a waste of time. the post begins seeming somewhat normal, then this crazy woman/situation gets made up throughout the comments that no one will defend (or even knew they were talking about in the first place), then you guys claim... victory because no one is defending an obviously strange characterization that wasn't even initially on the discussion table? is that really even satisfy…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 08:16 PM
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As an example, if a woman considers an unattractive male coworker complimenting her on her looks to be "sexual harassment" or something similarly inappropriate, then she can't suddenly be fine with it if an attractive man does it. If a woman believes men should behave a certain way around women, then she has to have that expectation for all men, not just the ones she doesn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 07:36 PM
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this. these recent posts about "you can't be a hypocrite!" are nonsense. you can't be exempt from being criticized for being a hypocrite... but be a hypocrite all you want, no one can stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 06:39 PM
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it's not as if any of the things he's talking about are scarce; he's just begging for approval for some weird reason. reds and manosphere types do it a lot; who cares, if it's not harming anyone. go do your thing and ignore the critics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 12:50 AM
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all you have to do is bring up the thigh gap and i bet someone will get bingo 😂 silly, silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 12:45 AM
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the most popular movies have a mix of action and romance quite often, because that appeals to multiple groups and makes the most money. 'talking' to only one demographic is stupid and risks money loss; those who would profit don't give a shit about the fringe groups that cry about things not being dominated by only one demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 07:38 PM
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okay then, care extensively and stay mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 06:44 PM
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they do so anyway, regardless of criticism (which isn't that common, aside from maybe the porn). men and women alike love jessica jones, for instance. super, super flawed. veep, too. movies and television shows are filled with women portrayed in unflattering ways and yet remain popular. next.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 06:42 PM
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They can, but no one should take it seriously. then don't. do what you say, delete the post, and move on not caring. you trying to dictate this is no different than the people trying to dictate the opposite. you are them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 06:41 PM
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yes, Men Are Wonderful, we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 11:47 AM
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well, you're wrong, unless you're only referring to the first question (but i doubt that).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 01:32 AM
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Are women essentially biologically predisposed to seek abusive relationships? are men predisposed to seek relationships with women that break their hearts and trust? or is it just that people are less likely to see the worst traits of a person (or show their own worst traits) until it's too late and some emotional investment has already happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 05:19 PM
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Smoke, drink, and eat shitty food? Men will end up looking terrible for their age. Take care of yourself physically throughout your life? You continue to look your best and age gracefully and become more attractive with an increase in status. i think the above is largely true for both men and women, perhaps taking into account that 'attractiveness' is subjective and that you will appeal to different age groups as you get older (a 25 year old person will not likely be attractive to the same group…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 02:44 PM
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totally skipped over that thread earlier... but damn. haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 03:47 AM
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no do better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 07:32 PM
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i do. i wouldn't have said it otherwise. it had nothing to do with feminism; just repeated bad experiences with men. i also had repeated bad experiences with driving, so now i don't drive. also not about feminism. if i go to a restaurant and have multiple bad experiences there, is that because of feminism too? or is it just recognizing a pattern?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 11:40 AM
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sure did. it wasn't a feminism driven thing, just a string-of-bad-boyfriends driven thing. it helped me for a time so i do understand to a degree, but it's something you've gotta grow out of and move on from.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 01:17 AM
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sounds like an outlier. i can buy someone finding powerful or charismatic leaders suddenly/fleetingly attractive (saw a lot of this during comey's testimony), but from a glance at the article, this doesn't seem to be that nor is it a view i see often expressed (about Putin or anyone that resembles him/his body).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 11:54 PM
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But why? Why so much shaming? Why so little empathy? shaming sounds like way more energy than i'd put towards guys who see sex workers... but i do find it unattractive because it signals that what he thinks of sex is different than what i think of sex. our values are not the same (and also, depending on where he's been, he may be a health risk). i don't see what's there to empathize with, though, especially if he's going out and getting what he wants. if that's the game, then empathize with wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 04:24 PM
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yeah, it does. i've seen/been around/dated guys who had warped expectations and understandings of things due to their porn consumption. not every guy is like that (and this affects women too) but it definitely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 03:29 PM
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ah, okay... that was more my response as a consumer/buyer, not sure i'd recommend my tastes to everyone on a committee. but, would want everyone to get to choose, like i did.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 02:02 PM
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i wish i had a copy/paste of my responses to the 'perfect partner' posts... would be fitting here. maybe i will edit in later; tedious, though. it would be a clone of my husband or secondarily/were i single, based on celebrities or characters i really like. they all have flaws so working towards total perfection would be misguided/a let down. having some unfavorable faults become removable is a nice feature though. i can't think of any i'd want gone that badly myself, but i can see how that woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 01:33 PM
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It's possible to have wishes that can't be granted. Yes, men complain about women's standards but that doesn't mean getting settled for suddenly answers their complaints. It's possible to still be unsatisfied even if getting settled for is the best you can get i've never said otherwise; this isn't in disagreement with what i said, at all, so i guess we're done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 03:40 PM
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When those men complain they're wishing for a hypothetical alternative universe where women didn't have such high standards and felt sexual attraction for a larger amount of men. They are not wishing to get settled for. nothing you said makes this not a complaint, or says that men aren't wishing for things to be different (which is exactly what i said before). and, it doesn't matter, because in the end, hypothetical alternative universe doesn't exist. in this world, the granting of their wishes …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 01:30 PM
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ratings like that aren't objective, so that's probably why it doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 01:27 PM
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a complaint is the expression that you wish for things to be what they are not. if you can't acknowledge that because you would lose face or just have to defend these guys no matter the cost... fine, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 12:31 PM
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what is a complaint except for the expression that you wish for things to be a way they are not? and my point is that those men complaining are either too dumb to realize that women begrudgingly going out with them is the result of women meeting their wishes and lowering standards, or they're choosing to ignore that as they whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 12:30 PM
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... yes, obviously. they wouldn't complain otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 05:05 AM
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every time they complain about the standards of women (which is always), that's exactly what they're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 04:01 AM
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a lot of the reasons i've read so far sound sad and reflect poorly on the women (so i don't defend them)... but i'm interested in seeing how the same people who complain that women should lower their standards and give more guys a chance react to this article, with women who said they gave up on finding perfection/a guy that checked every box.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 12:04 AM
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hmm, let's see... i might miss a few things, but essentially: i enjoy the creativity some use with it, but i generally don't care about makeup or fashion. i do put some thought into what i wear, but it's basically choosing which shirt, jeans, hoodie, sneakers. i'm a fan of rolling out of bed and throwing on whatever on the weekends. i'm pretty lazy then. i don't watch reality TV, spend much time on facebook, etc. i enjoy forms of entertainment that tend to be seen as masculine, like videogames a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 05:35 PM
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downtown at a show, and happened to think of a funny memory that seems fitting for this sub... i was a SXSW volunteer one year, and offered to help move around band equipment, but they told me they had just assigned that to the men since it was so heavy and delicate... but, then they assigned me to man a back entrance gate, and stop people from sneaking in. like i wouldn't be bowled over by even someone my same size, at the time. it was absurd... lots of people gained entrance to that show that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 01:54 AM
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same; ocean + storm is my favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 08:46 PM
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same; the difference between the pictures was pretty mild.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 08:02 PM
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🙄 at these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 07:23 PM
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but then what will they have to fall back on when it fails 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 07:21 PM
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yeah yeah, okay. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 05:09 PM
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yes, exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 05:02 PM
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this has nothing to do with what we were discussing, but alright. i guess that's what happens when the person you're talking to doesn't have a meaningful response.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 03:44 PM
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we'll all be dead, so who cares? that's a reeeally long way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 03:03 PM
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those women would probably also be put off by a guy with an extensive porn collection. that guy isn't newly offputting because of sexbots, the bots don't make a difference. on that level, no one cares. it doesn't matter if it's sexbots or a porn collection or a wall of fleshlights; people nope out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 12:32 PM
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i think it would be worth getting checked out by a doctor just to make sure there isn't an concerning health-related cause... but other than that, they're just fine and free to do as they please. they are outside the norm, so that will probably always be felt (and may make dating harder), but that isn't really a sign of 'wrongness'. just difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 03:08 AM
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geh, that does seem a little embarrassing... somewhat rewarding, i guess, but not as much if he'd done a lower weight all by himself. thankfully, i have never seen that at the gym i go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 06:50 PM
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Wow, that's really impressive. I rarely see women do bench-presses, let alone over 100lbs. I remember when I started to work-out, the bar alone without weights was too heavy for me to do 5 clean reps. Congrats! Bench-press is a complete mystery to me anyway. I suck at it so much and plateau at weights other guys do on their first day at the gym, (it's really embarrassingly low) but chest is the only muscle group I frequently got complimented on. thanks :) yeah, i don't see many girls doing bench…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 05:27 PM
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this is pretty unfair. if someone's priority is seeing and experiencing the world rather than having children, why is that gross? would it be less gross if someone who deeply wanted to do nothing but travel got stuck with a child they didn't want and just longed for a different life until they died (which would undoubtedly have an effect on the child's upbringing)? i can't see any way that the alternative situation would be better. it's also not generally correct to class everyone who loves to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 04:33 PM
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Do you think having kids is morally good, neutral, or bad(even evil)? neutral, though i don't typically agree with or relate to the reasons people say they have them (but, you do you). Are kids an extension of their parents? Always part of their parents, owned by their parents, or in debt to their parents? no, to all of the above. i mean i suppose they are always linked in some way, but at some point they become full-fledged adults on their own; they aren't children forever, they aren't pieces o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 04:07 PM
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unattractive. doesn't make him a bad person, we could be friends, but i wouldn't be interested in pursuing anything romantic with a high-n guy (were i dating, anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 12:25 PM
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will do! thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 04:26 AM
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thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 02:41 AM
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finally benching over 100lbs as of today, and got a high five for effort/success on a different exercise by a guy working out next to me 😁 to think i almost skipped going today...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 01:25 AM
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are you surprised?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 06:24 PM
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How certain companies are legally required to hire a certain percentage of women each year this would be a mandated quota. it's not unreasonable that if you say something like this, you would be expected to provide examples of it as part of the discussion that you initiated by making the statement in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 05:22 PM
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i think they're 'demotivations' fueled by two very different things, so while they're not equal (as in, the same), i don't think one is lesser than the other or should be dismissed. for example, feeling as if you aren't being heard or given the same opportunity as others because you're a woman surrounded by men can be really discouraging (and having another woman in the office/feeling less alone can ease that). i don't necessarily encounter these feelings a lot, but i can understand how it may b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 01:15 PM
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men do this too. it's just nice to have people around that you'll be able to relate to or have something in common with. gender/sex is one of those things, and a pretty strong one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 12:29 PM
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I don't think that ignoring someone else's pain is helpful towards them... babying and enabling them isn't either. We're talking about adults who have never had relationships and/or sex despite trying their best (according to them), not a 8 year old who keeps whining about how his sister got more sprinkles on her ice cream than him. when it comes to incels, there's little difference between the two. they're professional wallowers. some people just need tougher teachings than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 01:52 AM
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ignore them so they realize their constant complaining is no longer a viable outlet/option.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 03:56 AM
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probably a good sign that you should focus on your goals instead of the success of others, in any case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 03:55 AM
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My question is, what is there to lose by exchanging quick, nonverbal pleasantries with the males you walk by in the grocery, doctor's office, laundromat, and other open public places? most times nothing, if i'm not in a hurry. not really much to be gained either, though. they're strangers. Is it just not something you think about doing? nope, i don't think about doing this with most strangers, male or female. Do you purposefully ignore males who smile at you or is it more of a subconscious thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 12:27 AM
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that someone else can save them, or that love will solve all their problems. also, that it's exactly like the movies. it's not, though that's not necessarily a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 06:25 PM
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if you just edit your last post to include text/a basis for discussion instead of nothing but a link, they may reapprove it? links are allowed; it's just not allowed for someone to make an OP that has nothing in the body of it but a link.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 04:26 PM
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they don't want to be in a relationship with me and/or aren't into me. could be other things, but it doesn't matter; by not wanting to be exclusive, he's making clear that our goals are incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 03:20 PM
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i do envy my cat, often. good call.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 03:06 PM
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a lot of them admit jealousy and wishing they were women, despite the /s in that comment. naturally it's based on a lot of misconceptions, but it happens. it will probably show up in this thread if it hasn't already. if they don't want it to be acknowledged, perhaps they should stop saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 02:30 PM
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female. it's all i've lived as and i've done alright so i'd stick with that instead of troubling myself with trying to live as a man. might make some different decisions in my next life, but i'd stay female.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 01:16 PM
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oh, i don't doubt that harassment itself can be common; as for this thread, i was thinking not common = harassment being used to initiate or build a foundation for a relationship (rather than being a simple sexual advance). to me those seem like separate intents, and it appears to me that it's more often just an advance, and not the actions of someone seeking out a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 06:58 PM
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look, you're dead set on thinking these guys are poor broken-hearted babies that need handholding and spoonfeeding and that women should tiptoe around them and be as nice as possible even when they're being disgusting assholes. isn't that right? so, i'm done; any further responses to this would be a complete waste of time. if that's your opinion, just own it, and stop inviting discussion on the pretense of caring about what anyone else has to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 06:51 PM
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this. i don't think harassment is at all a good MO, nor is it common.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 06:37 PM
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Lots of married women on dating sites explicitly looking for sex, sometimes very graphic in their description of what they want and sometimes seeking someone to join them and their husband. You can't speak for all women, there are some who like that therefore in that circle it is a winning strategy and guys messaging those women about being friends would be rejected, some even state clearly on their profile, no friends, no relationships. if he's being ridiculed for sending this message, it's obv…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 06:09 PM
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aw come on, those guys are just trying to be funny and lame! ha ha ha!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 05:05 PM
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problems with the examples in order of appearance: 1 - he's acknowledged that she is married and proceeds anyway with a gross and cheesy come-on. then, tries to talk himself up. 2 - out of context, it's just kind of an odd/awkward conversation starter. like, where do you think that can actually go? 3 - demands attention, issues his version of an insult when he doesn't get it. crybaby. 4 - recognizes his age may be a problem, tries to confirm. finds out it is a problem, totally loses his shit. 5 …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 04:43 PM
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to me, equally important. 'exclusivity' is a package deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 04:00 PM
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you're right, he is a flawless being who could not possibly have ever made any mistakes or have been misguided in any way. praise damore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 01:35 PM
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i don't care about what he has to say, especially not 10 pages of it. i do have a great book that i will actually enjoy and get value out of, however, so i'll stick with that and not waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 01:10 AM
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Assange was definitely leveraging the situation for his own personal gain cool, we agree. nothing further needs to be said, and you don't have to be so mad that you downvote me while we say the same damn thing.. it was about assange's personal gain, and not the guy or his skills at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 09:26 PM
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he was unknown until now, and was doubtfully integral to the company staying together. assange used him to make a political statement for himself; it wasn't about the guy at all. if you just want someone to hold up as a hero because it makes you feel good and confirms what you want to believe, you certainly can, but it looks pretty silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 09:08 PM
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Do they exist? nope! none.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 05:41 PM
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how would the general public know whether or not he was conservative before his manifesto came out, and was read? yes, some people don't read and go with what their favorite news sources say (which i don't entirely blame them for, because who wants to read 10 pages of this guy's blathering). i'm not saying that the person you responded to did that, just that it is a thing that happens. however, it wasn't some common knowledge thing that he was conservative before his actual words came to light, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 02:18 PM
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yes, what a lucky guy! someone who doesn't give two shits about him (with no requirement to follow up on his public offer) extended a 'job opportunity' for the sole purpose of being attention to himself and making his own political statement. i mean, hell, he got the job offer without even having his skills considered (if he has anything special, which is questionable)!!! lucky, lucky man. he's not a tool, he's a hero!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 12:38 PM
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if he's trying to sue them, it would appear he does care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 11:59 AM
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you need the ability to properly read and interpret before that discussion can ever be had. no point in participating without those skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 10:50 PM
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well, i just posted here because i'm not a man but i suppose automod is for jokes too. you get just one for your minimal effort: 🌟
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 10:28 PM
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i see where those pointing out that Google is kind of going against their claims of openness by doing this are coming from, but also... ... who would ever think that this was appropriate, or that there wouldn't be some sort of consequence for the way he did it (aside from what was actually said)? i didn't read the 10 page thing and i have no plans to, but as i understand it he somehow thought it was a good idea to spread around this personal screed throughout the company, using that as his platf…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 10:03 PM
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not if it's pages and pages long. simplify; i assure you, the answer is not that complex, don't use word count to obfuscate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 09:44 PM
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link. also, be concise; this should not take pages or a ground-up explanation if you're not just trolling or refusing to give a straight answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 08:26 PM
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he also seems to think that a dollar = a hundred, and that strippers are all clamoring just for one of those precious bills... lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 06:15 PM
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compares two unrelated things tries to make a point fails miserably
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 03:02 PM
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Shallow is if you insist on something that's ultimately inconsequential or even harmful but happens to be a weird preference of yours. selective definitions. nice, and totally helpful to discussion. regardless of how you define shallow, you're free to have a preference that is that. you don't get immunity from criticism, but criticism doesn't actually stop you from doing anything. the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 08:59 PM
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that's not as big a deal as you're making it out to be, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 08:46 PM
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i don't believe Michelle Obama only found interest in things for her husband's sake, nor do i believe her sole purpose in doing anything was to strengthen her relationship. i don't doubt that was a big part of many things she did, but i also believe she pursued her own interests as well. their relationship does not match even a positive captain/first made or traditional relationship to me. it's not wild or outlandish, it's just a different model IMO. gin's response here sums up part of what i me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 08:10 PM
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i don't care about TBP, and i was under the impression that RPers didn't either, or weren't supposed to anyway. ignore them, who cares? do you know them personally? do they have some silent, unseen control over your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 07:05 PM
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why are you trying to censor and stifle discussions this sub by having an opinion on it?! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 07:03 PM
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that's not catch all whatsoever then, in this case. just another example of how the definition of RP is unreliable and subject to change depending on the discussion and how bad someone with a red flair wants to 'win'. pah.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 07:00 PM
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oh, i don't doubt that she also helped him. it just seemed like this other person is framing this as the extent of what she did (or at the very least their chosen focus): seems like Michelle raised the kids, didn't embarrass him and helped his image and assisted in him reaching his goal. which i didn't remember being the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 06:48 PM
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same... i should have put this in the survey as one of the bad threads that come up. there's nothing to really say to or against a personal preference like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 06:44 PM
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if i remember correctly, though, she was pretty active herself, with things like school nutrition, etc. i didn't read about it extensively so i could be wrong, but i don't remember her just being a helpful housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 06:36 PM
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hm, i'm not sure... it's been a while since i watched it, but i seem to remember eric being pretty wrapped around sookie's finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 06:26 PM
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exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 06:17 PM
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the ground begins to shake as a herd of RPers stampedes your way to insistently shout that barack is a beta cuck and michelle is a post wall hag
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 05:54 PM
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either way you aren't top priority, by your logic. just make it about the kid not being yours and leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 05:43 PM
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... when did this become the place for guys to post rants to women they're too afraid to berate directly? why should anyone even care about any of these opinions? please don't flair this as a discussion. what a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 02:25 PM
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saw atomic blonde yesterday. it was pretty awesome. kinda want to read the source material, definitely want more over-the-knee boots (and big coats but who am i kidding, i live in texas).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 07:51 PM
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our relationship is good, but there's not much of an expectation that they do for us, or that we do for them. when we get together, it's hugs and catching up. favors are only asked in case of emergency, and they're extended to the whole friend circle. the same is true for us; only ask if you have no other option. people have lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 03:20 AM
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he is unattractive (though i already thought this before knowing his height).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 07:24 PM
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you weren't wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 12:29 AM
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not in the hookup scene, but a really high pitched or nasal voice could be grating, especially if the guy doesn't have other redeeming qualities. think... urkel-level speech (and maybe mannerisms). i don't think it's bad if the voice is just moderately that way though; a lot of guys i find attractive don't have super deep voices and it's fine. i wouldn't expect that many women are all that picky about it, since super deep voices are also kind of rare and other qualities are taken into considerat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 08:22 PM
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interesting; had no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 03:22 PM
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seriously. and what if you lost it?! not worth it, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 02:01 PM
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well, no surprise about the conservative Christian site (but lol at it being called 'Boundless'). book still means nothing to me, but again... it doesn't really matter re: my opinion of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 01:29 PM
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i don't know what or who that is, but it doesn't really matter; i think it's gross no matter the source.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 01:22 PM
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that does seem a little creepy; it wasn't the first one that came to mind, but i agree. any "giving away" stuff is gross, to me. i don't think there's much since most of those gestures are nice, but i don't really like pet names and ordering things for me or speaking for me is annoying. that's less of a romantic gesture towards a partner, but there are certainly men who think that's a part of romance/relationships, and a positive thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 01:17 PM
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i've been watching my yard grow progressively more brown... hoping that forecast of rain is true. friends tried to get me out of my house to a water park today, but... too much sun, no way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 03:55 AM
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i never watched the original IT... but i'm pleased with all the Stephen King based movies coming out. i might be more excited for the punisher since jon(?) bernthal did such a great job... but am also excited for the defenders. hoping inhumans is a win too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 03:53 AM
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pretty sure TRPers advise being the guy liked for his money and parties though, even if only temporarily. i mean, who idolizes dan bilzerian more?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 02:54 AM
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i agree with your view on that advice; taking some solo time makes more sense to me than trying to use someone as a bandaid or replacement for someone else. it might not hurt to flirt every now and then if you get the chance, to feel a little better, but just trying to fill the void with as many other people as you can... there's no way that'll end up being satisfactory and it's not healthy. it's been a while since i was in this position, but for me, i'd try to focus as much as possible on hobbi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 11:05 PM
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hypothetically... if he seemed higher, i'd feel excited to see where it goes with the knowledge that we may just be too far apart to work. i would not feel so excited as to compromise or shortchange myself though; i would nope out if it started to seem like that was a necessity. not exciting or pleasing to me at all. below... well, he'd have to be pretty low since i tend to see redeeming qualities in most people and don't think unreasonably high of myself. if i happened to find myself on a date …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 08:35 PM
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never read it, but if it is a first-of-a-kind sort of thing, then i can see where that might fit into a certain lesson or period of history. i doubt it's being taught like a how-to guide or the entirety of feminism, but i guess if it was that would be pretty absurd. it's so outlandish that it's tough to imagine but some really dumb stuff gets taught in school sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 07:15 PM
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it's not uncommon for the older party to be taking advantage of the younger, and it brings into question why this older man is a) still single and b) searching so far below his own age range. people that young have less experience, less to their name, less knowledge, and more mistake-making capability. the younger party might not know better, but the old man likely does (and is using that to his benefit). is it always that way? no. but as everyone always says... there's no point in talking about…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 05:41 PM
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Anyway, the evening Bangkok is interesting - so many white dudes are casually leading Thai girls away somewhere. sounds gross and possibly unsettling; hope i can avoid this view when i visit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 03:34 PM
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men are wonderful, women are terrible. that's why. it's basically the backbone of TRP. it's the only real answer to all of their inconsistencies; no truth or reason matters as long as it enforces this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 02:52 PM
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Also, the screenshots women post of when men make playful comments (what RP would call a "neg") will get you blocked. yeah, if some guy thought that telling me something like "you're cute for your age" was a clever and witty opening, i'd block his stupid ass too. negs are not just a hello with a wink emoji; it's an insult and a lame trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 02:47 PM
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It was a big balancer in the market. Women have a lot of advantages with dating, so it's natural that men would be upset about losing their big one. what i'm saying is that this wouldn't magically net them what they wanted: a woman who loves and adores them. if they're undesirable now, money wouldn't make them desirable; the prospect of using them would be more attractive, but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 03:01 AM
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probably both. those don't seem mutually exclusive to me, and actually, are pretty closely tied. i'm sure it's a mix, at which point it doesn't matter which thought has more presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 09:51 PM
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reality TV is probably more exciting than going to these lengths, FYI. at least then you'll be watching alone and not looking so petty 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 04:25 PM
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must be part of that thriving on drama thing. sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 04:21 PM
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Women are no longer dependent on men. In the past men were financial providers. Now women don’t need a man’s money; in fact, most women are “expected” to work and earn their own money. Marrying a man is no longer a financial necessity. it's amazing that there are men who still lament this part of reality, and romanticize the days when men were needed for their finances. it would not be great for you if a woman only bothered with you for money, and that was your sole worth in the relationship. do…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 04:11 AM
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if she wasn't trying to assert that how she feels is how all women feel or live, less people would care. it really flies in the face of the claim that RPW make about not dictating how other people are or should be. the needs expressed above are bizarre to me, and sounds like the mindset of someone that thrives on drama. if that's what's comfortable for them in a relationship, go wild, do what works for you. but they don't know me or speak for me, how i feel, or how i live. anyone who does that, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 11:21 PM
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it's nice, comfortable, peaceful. we still encounter challenges sometimes and it's not effortlessly great, but having someone to care for and care for you is really the best. it's much better than dating in that we know each other and our boundaries/needs well, so we're prepared to work together to solve problems if they come up or adequately help one another if we fall down (so to speak). it's also exciting to be with someone that wants to try new things, learn new things, a couple that encoura…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 11:09 PM
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the question in the subject is unclear... can you restate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 11:06 PM
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Do you think women with body hair (hairy legs, vagina etc.) are inherently unattractive? Or is it viewed as unattractive because of social conditioning? definitely social conditioning. as others have said, it's gone in and out of fashion, and there's nothing wrong with it, it's not dirty or weird, it's completely natural. and come to think of it, shaved or not, i've never had any complaints or rejections based on that. i don't think most guys are that bothered or shocked about it, and those that…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 05:46 PM
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you're so mad you're abusing the caps and formatting options now (and going off the rails mischaracterizing what i said). nice. in any case, it still sounds like you're the one with the problem, and trying to dictate how everyone needs to act. relocating to a different society may indeed be the best option, then... if you can tear yourself away from the same women you're criticizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 02:37 AM
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you're not really trying to suggest that you don't hate women, are you? because nothing you've said has expressed anything to the contrary. the person you responded to said nothing about women being victims; they just observed the things you're posting and what that means about your thoughts towards women. it's also very telling that you've narrowed it down to women aged 18-29, no doubt about the same range of ages that you find attractive and will notice the most sexualized ones or exaggerate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 09:13 PM
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okay? is this just a thread to air grievances about her, or... ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 06:00 PM
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we treat each other pretty similarly, so it would be fine. i'd occasionally be tasked with things i don't have the strength or know-how for, so that would kinda suck. there are some frustrating circumstances that would irritate or stress either of us; i'm on the receiving end involuntarily, but he's admitted that he'd feel the same in my shoes so it'd be about the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 05:53 PM
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indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 10:01 PM
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It's in many ways the end result of rampant individualism. It's no longer 'us' working together, it's just 'me me me'. this is the reason. people generally mind their own business unless absolutely necessary (because even then, most people aren't heartless enough to just ignore an emergency situation, or the like).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 07:28 PM
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agreed. although being younger had fun points too, it was more stressful; now everyone's paired off or happily single and enjoying life after settling into careers and things, and gaining more stability/confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 04:26 PM
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it's odd to me as well... i didn't think what you said was extreme, and i don't know why everyone's bitching at you about it. i agree that someone who would lecture others about wine and beer unwanted/unsolicited could be unpleasant company, but it's okay to have at least some standards and interest in people that you have common passions with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 03:44 PM
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if i were dating... yeah, it might. if he didn't drink, that could be tough. if he only drank crap, that could be tough. if he drank and couldn't control it/himself, that would be a dealbreaker. it's not high up in the list of things to consider, but it's there. it does seem like some drinks say something about the drinker. fireball drinkers seem to be a type, as well as jager drinkers and bud light drinkers and cider drinkers and mead drinkers (but just generally, and not always bad, don't take…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 02:15 PM
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aside from getting (back) in shape, not much these days, and that's really just a secondary effect, not my main goal of it. i second a lot of what Gin said; i relied on being cute more than sexy because that's easier for me (and my figure helped me out). the basic 'girl game' flirting was about it, once i got the hang of it. didn't seem to need much else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 05:30 PM
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good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 06:15 PM
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sadly, so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 04:02 PM
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i'm not RP, but not a TBPer either. the outrage got old, and even though it was just occasional, i wasn't cool with some of the mean-spirited stuff that went down there. i don't really match most of RP's characterization of what BP means in general either (extreme, as usual with that group), so i just went with the gray/black flair. purple isn't accurate, this is as close as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 01:49 AM
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thank you for being a prime example of what i described in my last paragraph 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 04:34 PM
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i kind of like this though... it's kind of cool to have a more chill off-topic chat with people without those other 'topics' (that everyone inevitably gets up in arms about).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 07:01 PM
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probably a pretty decent part. it may not influence your parents as much, but it wouldn't be surprising for it to influence your peers + you, especially in youth. it's something most people grow out of though, once you start seeing how things are in reality vs. their presentation in media.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 03:31 PM
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some of that sounds pretty sad for men and women... but i suppose it's more necessary in the culture the article presents.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 01:10 PM
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it was encouragement. i hope that dream of yours comes true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/17 02:54 PM
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responding to the question in the title: it doesn't come up in conversation ever, but the one time we did talk about it, i provided the real number. i can't imagine having a desire to lie about it; if he's got beef with it, that's a problem i'd rather know sooner than later.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/17 01:58 AM
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B, absolutely, although maybe i'd prefer him to just be really skilled and not a legend among women... i don't want someone too big, and i want someone who's down to make sure i'm satisfied too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 11:16 PM
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your comments are pretty much solely about her, despite your insistence that she's nothing to you and your shock that she posted such a thing (lol). it's not the place for whatever you're trying to work out through this. the off topic thread would have been better; maybe you can post about the topic there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 11:04 PM
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they should be more outraged about things like Last Fling Before The Ring shirts (unfortunately seem at Target). gross :/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 11:01 PM
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why are you still posting about this plate you moved on from a year ago that you claim means nothing to you? this is not moving on, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 10:59 PM
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yeah... getting the sense that this was just a thread for him to brag or reminisce in, too. lame. OP, why are you still posting about this plate you moved on from a year ago that you claim means nothing to you? this is not moving on, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 10:53 PM
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it doesn't matter; there are no winners there. if this thread was just to brag, i think you're in for a rude awakening. it's not an impressive thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 10:52 PM
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Yeah but still she has to like it, and what she likes says something about her. yeah, most people like not being taken for granted. i'm not saying ignore it entirely, i'm just saying it's worth considering other aspects of that person, other posts, and/or reasons they might share it. people share a lot of shit and then forget it a second later; not everything shared on facebook is a 100% verbatim reflection of one's deepest feelings and convictions. and if it turns out to be an accurately identi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 10:49 PM
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this isn't a positive reflection on either of you, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 10:46 PM
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probably someone who shares and posts stuff fairly indiscriminately. people post and share stupid stuff on Facebook all the time without much thought. the message is obviously "don't take her for granted" but if the picture bothers you or her behavior is too close to the actual text on the photo, dump/ignore her and move on. i don't want to be with guys who post dumb things about women, so... i'm not. it's easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 10:37 PM
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it might depend on groups and it doesn't always work out this way... but in the end, sometimes, it brings people closer together in a way, to have that history. some of them hate/avoid each other for a while, some only go to certain outings where the other person won't be, but for the most part, they eventually decide one or both people was wrong/dumb in ways, and get over it. i can only think of a few instances that didn't turn out like that; there are a number of people in my friend groups lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 01:29 PM
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i have a pretty even mix of guys and gals in my friend group. some of them in couples, even with each other, some single. Has it helped, not made a difference or hindered your dating life? well... i met my husband through that friend group, so in that sense it has a big impact. it doesn't have any effect now, as i don't date. before meeting my husband, some of the friendships were flirtier than normal, but didn't go any further than that. made the period when i wasn't quite ready to date pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 12:25 PM
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you could have typed nothing, and it would have contributed the same value as your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 08:30 PM
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i wouldn't hate it, thinking of the families i sometimes see where both parents probably weigh 300+, and are surrounded by like, 9 chubby kids (with a cart full of junk food). abusive parents, too. i guess it depends on this test, though. it seems impossible to guarantee that the governing committee for it would know all possible ways of being a good parent that exist, and not end up excluding at least some potential good parents from having kids (which i actually would hate).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 07:42 PM
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no one was talking about jailing (or convicting) anyone so Learn to read please
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 07:20 PM
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hm, there are a few things... he once bought me a marionette doll that i'd been coveting forever, and wouldn't let myself buy. i love it, but having him remember how crazy i was about it made me feel really good. he took care of me during a bout of food poisoning. and, when my anxiety was really bad, he took on some habits that i developed to try and help ease that (like locking doors/making sure they're locked). he didn't hesitate to check a door or make sure the oven was off etc. etc. if i ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 02:27 PM
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bots have always been like this; posting generic likes that are popular and appeal to the biggest group they're hoping to attract. who would think those things were unique anyway? all of these things are really generic, and not exclusively loved by millenials. that's why so many people can identify with at least one of the listed interests. i don't think this means anything, just bots doing the bot thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 02:00 PM
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please make sure to copy and paste this throughout the thread for men too, since no doubt, some of them have several terrible women they were with too. needless victim blaming for all!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 12:35 PM
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ugh, annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 08:44 PM
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all of that is terrifying, and awful :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 08:29 PM
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there are some of both. both are fine and free to be that way, but a lot of them make up weird things and statements to explain or justify their feelings, and that's usually what gets picked apart and criticized. example: being driven to make wild and false statements about promiscuous people to blame the feelings on them, and not simply acknowledge their distaste for promiscuous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 04:58 AM
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seriously. and/or they'd be sad that they no longer had a dead horse to beat about the things they constantly complained about before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 03:29 AM
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so? so they quoted an old book and a one of those dreadful feminists when it suited them and the message they wanted to put forth. i haven't read the book, but again, not surprising. i'm not even convinced it was used properly or that the book actually supports their claims beyond a quote or two, given the source.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 12:07 PM
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it sounds generally like having to micromanage another person's life... getting milk probably isn't emotional labor, but i can see how constantly keeping track of things for them can be taxing, and takes a certain amount/kind of dedication.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 08:30 PM
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Do you not expect your SO to do basic human tasks like remember his mother's birthday? i guess? he does this just fine as is (better than i do, actually). if he didn't, i'd expect him to, yeah. it's not my duty. Do you not expect your SO to realize he is out of milk and he needs to go pick up more? yes, expected. i mean we do grocery shopping together, but if he ran out of something that he specifically uses and i don't, then i'd expect him to pay attention to how much of x thing he's got left, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 08:13 PM
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my path: article pointing out how absurd RoK is > absurd RoK > TRP > TBP > PPD. SMV is moderate, RMV probably higher. married so it doesn't matter. i didn't land here because of a failing; even single, i'd do alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 02:54 AM
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ah, Colorado is so amazing... i've been wanting to visit again. i went to Winter Park as a teen and the landscape was incredible... seeing frost and snow in July was also incredible. glad you had fun :) lots of pretty places there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 02:42 AM
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maybe once or twice, i didn't go out much or do much dating. most of the relationships/flirty friendships i got into were things that gradually grew with friends or friends of friends, so there was no real getting hit on or asked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:56 PM
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yeah, this makes you look not petty and here to shitpost 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 03:19 PM
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huzzah!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 02:26 PM
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maybe one or two, when they were younger? they're paired off now, but might have been into more casual experiences when younger; we don't have any reason to talk about it so i'm not 100% sure. no one i know now does that. i do not, did not. edit: obviously the percentage is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 11:44 PM
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she was just pointing out an amusing similarity of thought, don't take it so seriously (and don't be so rude).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 04:17 AM
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that's so cool! i love how much language learning stuff is out there. and talking shit is a definite plus :P i enjoyed learning many French insults in high school... languages are amazing, in many ways. i have such a long list to learn but i'm never not excited about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 04:08 AM
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i'm glad that i'm content with a single-toned, pale face. it's a little ghoulish compared to some (especially since i have darkish eye circles) but i feel like i would never get things like contouring right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 02:57 AM
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do share: trying different craft beers collecting toys, art, and figures playing video games coding lifting weights/working out reading comics/manga don't share: building electronics writing/drawing comics learning foreign languages collecting vinyl records don't share = we talk to each other about it and find it interesting, but we don't have equal interest/skill in doing that hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 11:43 PM
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man buns aren't just for hipsters (or yupsters)! there's a whole section on it. am not into the hipster look, but long hair, ponytails, and/or man buns are a-ok with me 💕. edit: being such a pain, Wikipedia link ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 10:54 PM
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good for them. why not? is it any different than using products to slow, hide, or remedy balding (which have also been a thing forever)? it's not like guys haven't been wearing makeup already. some heavily, some subtly, but nothing new. it's basically a given for male celebrities, on top of that. edit: an example of what i hope to see in the future. if he was cool with his red complexion, that's fine. but if he's not, i'm glad he has options for hiding it (especially as a lady with pinker cheeks…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 10:23 PM
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you can get really affordable ones from pawn shops and craigslist! you have to be a little more careful to know what you're getting... but it's doable for sure, and great exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 07:35 PM
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really. i don't think the person suggesting that was talking about some sort of fancy picnic either. sandwiches + snacks are super cheap and easy, even with a tight budget. anything, anything to have someone or something else to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 06:26 PM
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yeah, no clue where that came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 04:05 PM
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yeah, same reaction. the only MGTOWs that people criticize or poke fun at here are the ones who claim to be MGTOW but still center their lives and energy around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 02:23 PM
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no. it's not unfathomable though. plus if they were high profile, it's typically in their best interest to hide it. just think of the female celebrities who have had very public breakdowns. some of them are cut slack, but for the most part, they're the butt of the joke or harshly criticized.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 04:39 AM
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so impressed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 02:40 AM
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this is accurate. they haven't made it illegal; just difficult enough that less and less women can feasibly access clinics or options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 11:01 PM
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unics
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 09:02 PM
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totally 100% serious merchandise, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 09:01 PM
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Do these women really think that men bottle up their emotions in private? Do they think that men don't cry in their own time? It seems that they are specifically demanding that men cry in front of them, which again supports the idea that what they really want to see is who the criers are and who aren't. if you don't personally feel like you can't cry or show emotion when or how you want to, then this isn't about you and you can ignore it. there are men who say they wish they didn't feel so embar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 08:59 PM
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seeing TRPers lose their shit over this never gets old. stay mad, fellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 06:13 PM
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Can the women who feel that way define what they mean by "emotional connection"? i think what you describe as presence is part of it, but there's also a sort of investment or exclusivity, i suppose, that i need before i feel comfortable doing anything. we don't need to be planning our wedding or making super-intense declarations of undying love before anything happens, but i don't really feel comfortable being intimate with someone just because they have a great presence; i need more of a just-y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 04:45 PM
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Shrek is great. good on that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 01:17 AM
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someone mentioned the depth hub earlier; maybe we need to add in some of the past comments explaining how attraction works for women. there have been a few great ones from people like GinSmokeLies and ArthurMcArthur (probably sublimemongrel too?). i fear that even having a more official post about it will still be ignored, and threads like this will continue... but at least we would have tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 01:16 AM
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it's a fun exaggeration (i guess?) but not one i will discuss or take seriously. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 11:06 PM
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i agree that total dependence on a partner is bad, but some reliance and expectation is okay. the support doesn't have to be total, but it should go both ways because people stumble, people fail, people get hurt. that's normal, and really, i don't think anyone's ever 100% fulfilled. doesn't necessarily equate to unhappiness, but even really successful people are constantly striving for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 07:38 PM
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i haven't visited in a long time, but last time i saw anything from there, yeah, it was a lot like that (and sad). posters with that mentality come and go from this sub as well. red pillers are all too happy to call anyone not red a special snowflake, but... it seemed like a terrible place even before all the sub-splitting and mod drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 04:22 PM
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Also he hasn't mentioned any "boundaries" that he is willing to live with. Mutual respect, for example, would be one of mine. i was thinking the same thing... the demand is there that she never disrespects him ever ever ever, but given how the whole thing is worded and the source, i doubt the reverse would be true (and fuck that).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 02:51 AM
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aside from the normal "relationships have boundaries" stuff, it's very extreme and one-sided, far beyond just a traditional relationship. it's reducing someone's worth to what they can do for you, and throwing them away the minute you even think you won't get every little thing you want. it may work in gaining a doormat or two, but eventually even they'll get worn out or crushed completely. these are not normal or healthy ways of approaching a relationship. you can't even call this a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 01:48 AM
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pah. why just temporary, i say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 07:07 PM
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My personal life experience doesn't help me believe that there are women out there truly loving their men like they deserve. All the women I know are unfaithful hypocrite backstabber to men weren't you on here complaining about how you can't easily sleep with other women like, just a month or so ago? and you even state above that your wife is justified in being unable to trust you? and you still think of women as villains and men as perpetual victims? i... sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 01:47 PM
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ah; yeah, i suppose that would be a risk, the extra detail just sounded interesting. fair enough, though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 04:51 AM
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k. i guess it's a totally unsolvable and unavoidable problem and you will have to give up on all martial arts forever. thanks, women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 07:40 PM
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okay, well find a gym that does have gender segregation, or choose sparring partners more like you, or find meetups if you require male-only sparring and interaction. i have my doubts you'd be nearly as upset if we swapped out the women you have in mind for men of the same strength and skill level. my advice then would be the same though; go somewhere where you feel you are fairly matched and challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 07:28 PM
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pretty sure most martial arts classes are age-segregated specifically to avoid pitting a young teen against an adult that will obviously be stronger. some places do offer separate programs for men and women; perhaps you should seek one of them out, or simply select only sparring partners you feel comfortable with. i get the sense that your opinion is based on general dislike of women (your OP definitely gives that vibe)... but regardless, if you genuinely believe that you won't gain anything fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 06:57 PM
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you can do it! and, hope you both have fun :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 04:21 PM
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i mean, this itself is kind of whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 04:19 PM
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if this is about the thread i think it is... if you put your views up for debate (especially if it seems to be veiled as neutral when it's tied to a very personal situation) then it's reasonable to expect that people will be commenting on your views that you willingly submitted to be criticized and argued against. i didn't think the initial comment from that other user was using "you" in the specific sense anyway. and if you think you're being unfairly attacked, report it! the mods have lives ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 01:00 PM
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yeah, that one hurt, i'm glad it was just a small area. some areas around my calf were surprisingly painful too. having done those now makes me think i could probably tough it out through more side tattoos, honestly (but i want to get more toned first).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 12:40 AM
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i have some various small tattoos on my right arm i got when i was young and bad at planning; it's become my "put small tattoos here and turn it into a sleeve" arm... i have an aquatic themed tattoo on my left upper forearm, and it's the beginning of a sleeve. probably going to keep going with the aquatic thing for the forearm, may change it for the elbow-to-shoulder piece. i have two large outer thigh tattoos and one needs to be finished; also have some empty linework around my right calf (art …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 11:54 PM
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but can you love a fish
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 11:46 PM
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i've been able to put it off for longer than i anticipated... but super itching for new tattoo work. there are too many people with great tattoos walking around >.< gotta keep working on finishing current ones so that i can move on to new projects!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 09:45 PM
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agreed. thank goodness for Facebook, when that curiosity comes up. i don't know if it's typical, but we had to pay to get into our reunion. not much, and understandable (since a group of people were putting it on and would want help getting some return on their investment), but another good reason to say no, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 09:24 PM
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well-chosen photo, IMO. not sure about the yoga froyo thing though; someone else who's more familiar with current dating may have to weigh in on that. seems alright to me? don't know if it'll get you what you're seeking though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 09:11 PM
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seconded; i thought about going to my reunion just to check it out, and realized i had nothing to prove/no interest in the lives of anyone i wasn't in touch with anymore. i can definitely understand the satisfaction of seeing how far you've come, especially in comparison to your former peers though :) .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 09:07 PM
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shave my legs. (kidding, kidding...) i used to dress a little nicer or more carefully when i was single than i do now, and i probably feigned more excitement about what a guy was saying from time to time because people like feeling interesting and exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 04:52 PM
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because when you're a guy, unhappily single, it's easy to think that any guy a woman likes who isn't you is an asshole (and this happens to women too). some of them might actually be assholes, sure. but IMO, a lot of it is jealousy and bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 04:34 PM
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PG kissing, hand holding, and flirting. anything else i was too young to remember or recognize. i can't picture what polite public making out is; i always think of that as too much or impolite, ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 01:03 AM
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can relate to OP. sorry you had to deal with that shit; it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 10:12 PM
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So someone posting an extremely high quality incel post wouldn't get deleted? doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 06:48 PM
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interesting/tough question; all the ones i can think of are fictional, but there are probably IRL men that possess similar traits (powerful, kind, magnanimous, intelligent, valiant/gallant, steadfast, and so on. not bothering since i'm not quite sure who those IRL men are, but looking forward to other responses to the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 03:18 AM
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none of this is surprising (the quotes in the OP anyway), so... okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 12:39 AM
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this is fairly spot on. there's also the possibility that the nice girl being discussed is boring and bland, but a safe and okay bet (same for guys). it probably applies most often to people your family tries to set you up with. they often are indeed nice, but the attraction is lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 10:59 PM
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I learn by experience same; don't know why that was left out as an option. it's the best way. reading/instruction has its benefits but no story or instruction will 'live' something for you. for the thread: non-pill woman. i don't remember my MBTI and i don't care to take the test again, but i ended up being ravenclaw so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 06:01 PM
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i'd guess it's not that they're much more or less lazy, it's just more visible and discussed now. it's also possible some things are being called laziness that aren't; men and women alike have lots of options for putting off relationships and still getting the kind of interactions they seek, but to someone who does want a relationship, that would no doubt look like laziness (either in reality, or out of frustration).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 01:09 PM
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tingly, obviously. don't you read TRP at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 01:14 AM
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cue me still not giving a shit about what articles you've read. don't be surprised if you get negative reactions to this; it's awkward conversation, and it makes people uncomfortable. just go with something less personal to ease into conversation, sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:32 PM
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Having a minor bit of consideration for one's fellow man in a casual setting is now "walking on eggshells?" if you can't even bring up a simple, neutral topic around someone for fear of hurting their feelings, they're almost certainly being unreasonably sensitive. any other situation would be an extreme, an outlier, and not worth holding up as a general example. Not according to several sources, one of which I cited. Should I start citing to other ones? i don't care about your sources. try relyi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:24 PM
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no, pretty much everyone is cool with discussing their job; it's not poor etiquette to bring it up as an ice-breaker when meeting someone new. it can be easily bypassed if it's not a subject someone is comfortable discussing, but it also gives someone an opportunity to not only shed insight on a big part of their lives (without going into anything too private), but it offers a chance or them to bring up achievements or talk themselves up, which goes a long way in showing you have interest and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:20 PM
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Forcing someone to save face 5 minutes into a conversation is not good small talk. then don't save face, and tell the truth. it's silly to expect everyone to constantly walk on eggshells because someone might have an overreaction to a simple non-controversial question. if someone's that sensitive, that's on them, not everyone around them. It's a good chuckle that in response to me saying that "what do you do" and "what are you" are rude (backed by common modern etiquette), is "well what CAN we t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:14 PM
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lol, so asking about occupation is off limits, but lecturing and grilling them about their name and activities over the past week is A-OK. no. just do normal small talk. the dialogue above would be off-putting to me, if i just met someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:08 PM
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then they can say they're in between jobs? that is an easy way to gloss over either situation. i'm seconding Gin's question: what, if anything, is an appropriate small talk topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:05 PM
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meh, that's less weird. asking about someone's career or occupation is a pretty safe small-talk subject. almost everyone has a job or is working their way towards their goal job, and it's a big part of life for most people. asking something like their salary would be weird, but not just asking what they do. hell, even foreign language books teach this as an ice-breaker question for basic conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 05:48 PM
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emotional distance is definitely worse, though neither are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 01:52 PM
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tough question. if they were well taken care of with or without his money i wouldn't care, but if he's denying them needed support then i'd think that was crappy and a turn off. ideally he wouldn't even have kids in the first place, but if that's already happened, then he should support them as needed. not supporting them if he can and they need it is just irresponsible and uncaring. no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 11:50 PM
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yeah, reading it changed my perspective on the question a little. reminds me of things like when people i went to high school with and knew the general ages of tried to buy alcohol and cigarettes from the store i worked at with a fake ID... come on, if you're gonna do it, do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 09:11 PM
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yeah... i mean, i value loyalty and sacrifice as much as the next person, but being a 'ride or die' type isn't going to do you all that much good if you've got no sense. some of the responses in this thread are incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 08:53 PM
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also true; even she admits she should have just stuck with her initial no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 08:53 PM
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lol, he's an idiot for asking her to get it to him this way. it's really, really stupid (and he's even worse in other ways, according to the OP's comments in the thread).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 08:39 PM
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i think some people here underestimate how strict or serious getting busted in certain areas can still be, even just with weed. there are counties in texas that will issue the most severe punishments they can if they catch you... while others will shrug it off. i've known too many people or stories of people who got busted to be so careless (and i don't even have a professional license or anything like that to risk). i don't think it's bad to do it, but damn, use some sense, don't take unnecessa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 07:15 PM
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nah; he'd be a fool to ask me to, as well. don't know the first thing about it and i'm not all that sneaky, so it would be really risky and unwise. i'd probably get caught, and i'm not a great liar, so eventually he'd end up involved too. as for the dealbreaker, i guess it depends on what he was trying to buy... the request itself might not be a dealbreaker, but his drug choice and frequency/volume of use potentially would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 06:44 PM
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ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 06:32 PM
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Lol makeup fucks up your skin, feels disgusting on your face and takes forever to put on/ take off. it may not always be great for skin, but it doesn't feel disgusting or necessarily take forever to put on/take off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 05:21 PM
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i don't doubt there are some women who solely wear makeup for others, either for their approval/praise or just to avoid any negative comments (rather than seeking compliments). however... plenty of women put on makeup in a way that they believe looks good on them, and get a happiness/confidence boost that way regardless of what someone else might think. i used to be like that, and it's great to look in the mirror and like what you see. it doesn't involve anyone else, but it gives you a big boost…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:53 PM
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ideally, yes... expecting that would be dumb though. and, i don't see n-count as being equivalent to sexual violence. doing so is also dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 02:13 AM
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read the top comments; it has nothing to do with knowing or getting to know someone. you could do this to a hot guy you just met and still not know him any better. i don't agree that the things you learn about someone outside of this act are necessarily inauthentic, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 01:25 PM
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nah, dumb thing to say. it's an attempt at profundity and what men here want to hear, i'm sure, but it doesn't really make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 01:08 PM
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do you think you can have fun or enjoy life with someone that possesses the traits they tell you to avoid? does that sound like someone you would have a good time with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 12:56 PM
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yes, that's what i said; sex is meaningless and should not be prioritized at all. thanks for properly reading my comment and not making up your own version of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 12:55 PM
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i can't have fun or enjoy my life with a partner that makes me miserable, much less want to jump in the sack with him. it's not because sex is valueless, it's because it's common sense to consider other things than just sex and what happens to be fun at the time when you're making a lifelong commitment. prioritizing sex over things like compatibility and not hating the shit out of each other is absurd and not the mark of someone/a couple that is setting themselves up for a long happy marriage. r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:12 AM
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yeah, self-destructive would have changed my answer, probably. i don't see all smoking that way (like alcoholism or a drug habit), despite the harm it does cause. i think some of that also involves escapism/numbing life, where cigarettes or cigars don't necessarily serve that purpose. i still wouldn't like it, but would see it as separate from those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 02:33 AM
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i'd agree that most of these are good rules for anyone in a relationship, except maybe the one about smoking; despite caring about health, i don't know that smoking would be that much of a dealbreaker for me. if he hated family that would be a problem, but if he just had a polite aversion/distance, i would understand (because i'm kind of like that).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 02:27 AM
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good to know, though i don't plan on going into further detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 06:05 PM
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depending on what does or doesn't count to you... 2-5.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 05:55 PM
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oh, it is. you just don't want to be wrong, so you deny and downvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 05:00 PM
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nowhere in that quote do i advocate marriage except for the part where i quoted someone talking about people not getting married and said that it was bad you were responding to a quote specifically about people not getting married, with the opinion that people should not be dating without settling down. it's sad you don't even know what you're responding to; pay attention or do a better job of posting clear responses. you're embarrassing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 04:04 PM
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oh, come on. you quoted it right here. seriously, who thinks that denying something totally visible to everyone makes them look good or smart? ffs. i see reds do this all the time; stop. direct your energy into decent responses instead, unless not being taken seriously is your goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 03:38 PM
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marriage was mentioned in the line you quoted, which you responded to by saying that people shouldn't necessarily be doing 'that' (dating without settling down). marriage was part of the conversation from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 02:12 PM
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that rules out a lot... but i suppose there are still meetups/courses to learn other things that aren't in any of these categories, maybe computer or cooking related? if that's your thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 01:10 PM
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^ yes, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 11:59 AM
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Nah, it's all his problem. now you got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 02:20 AM
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by your definitions, there's nothing wrong with either situation and neither is abuse; it's all just talk. good to know where you stand!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 02:19 AM
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Why is your or their preconceived notions of what people should do in these situations correct? i'm always right. discussions of suicide don't belong on PPD. the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 02:18 AM
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baby driver is so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 12:11 AM
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how do you feel about what Michelle Carter did, then? she was only talking to her boyfriend, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 06:55 PM
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sure i can! and if that should ever happen, i certainly will, to the extent of my abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 06:46 PM
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You would actually do that? i would and i have. not only do i not want to be responsible for this person's actions following a discussion i'm not equipped to have, my employer absolutely does not. it's a liability for them. Lol, I guess we think differently then. If a friend came up to me with a problem I wouldn't report him mentally ill to some state agency. random redditors are not my friends. even if they were, bough, i'd feel more comfortable knowing they were in the care of a professional i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 06:34 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 06:30 PM
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it's not about hurt fee fees; don't be childish. it's just a subject best reserved for discussions with mental health professionals equipped to handle that kind of thing. plenty of people outside Reddit can't talk about it either; in my job, if someone brings it up i have to direct them to mental health organizations and cease all communication immediately. it's a serious thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 03:04 PM
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even if it wasn't (which it is) it's not allowed and isn't coming back. this thread and the incel responses are a strong argument for why.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 02:59 PM
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it's their business; it's wholly their business to deal with. if they're strongly affected by my appearance, that's not my problem. the dress code on the streets is pretty free, especially the closer you get to the city. if someone else is bothered by it, those are their feelings to deal with. i don't even dress all that outlandishly, but if someone complained about, say, men wearing baggy pants or brightly dressed drag queens (which i see from time to time), i'd also consider it the complainer'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 02:10 PM
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this is why those threads are banned. this shit right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 04:12 AM
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guess you don't know reds that well then. that's their entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 03:50 AM
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this is bullshit. my husband got a vasectomy before 35 with only one kid. also, women are almost always asked multiple times about any reproductive decisions to make sure they're totally 500% sure, so enough with the "woe is men" shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 02:37 AM
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uh, like 90% of mayday parade songs are about broken hearts and the terrible women that broke them. if there were good writers at TRP, i'd imagine it would be a whole lot like their lyrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 02:31 AM
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yes! just what i was about to post. i don't think anything else much reminds me of this sub because i just don't think of it that way... but this song, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 01:09 AM
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i think before maybe 25, a couple years in either direction but no more. past 25, larger age differences aren't weird. there are always exceptions (i'm one) but generally, i think that's a good rule of thumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 10:36 PM
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or they don't want it taking up space in the sub elsewhere. these threads are for containment, not promotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 07:45 PM
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surprised it's not incels again... seems like they've been posting a lot more recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 06:54 PM
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it's advisable in the workplace and anywhere with a dress code, but outside of that in everyday life... do what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 05:36 PM
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the only LDR i was ever in failed because of the distance. no touching, different time zone, limited availability. i think some can handle it, but most can't (or rather, won't). on the off chance we spend a day apart or something, i do find myself missing my husband, but if that were a regular thing the effect would probably wear off and simply result in an emotional distance. i don't think this is a good idea for intimacy-building, personally. for me, it would just build a gap/wall instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 02:11 PM
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NAIALT!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 08:41 PM
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if you have to whine post about it, you didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 05:36 PM
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well you said they're not worth it anyway, so there's no reason for you to care. go do what makes you happy instead, and set yourself free. no one is stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 05:29 PM
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go ahead then, men. don't be funny or exciting or charming or anything positive whatsoever. you are free to be as unappealing as you please.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 04:38 PM
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the first thing i saw him in was Red Eye, and i was sad that the bad guy had to be such a babe. haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 04:21 PM
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right? he's not my usual type, but the smile/sweetness of his character portrayal got me. he's in american gods, which is weird but great. edit: added above too, but here's a gif of what got me. haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 03:55 PM
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fair enough :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 03:55 PM
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yeah, i get that. i felt the same way throughout most of the series; enjoying his performance but not necessarily being all that drawn in... but i'm a sucker for a nice smile and his reaction/behavior towards Easter was too precious. if it weren't for that, i'd probably still feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 03:39 PM
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at long last T-T
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 01:53 PM
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really. plenty of friends even just had small ceremonies if they didn't want to forego it entirely; hate this argument. you don't need a celebrity-quality wedding, no one is making you do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 12:35 PM
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consistently, sebastian stan. there are plenty others that i like personally but i don't think i'd consider them the most handsome overall; i just like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 11:42 AM
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ah, norah jones is beautiful. agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 08:21 PM
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i thought the same; didn't make much sense to me (and looks-wise, still doesn't). i think she has her own programming programs/workshops for women, which seems pretty cool. i haven't done much research into it so it could be crap, i guess, but at least on the surface seems pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 07:17 PM
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d'aww. she really is super adorable. i often envy her hair and style; she seems really cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 06:57 PM
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liv tyler <3 although she's had some more boyish looks/styles that might not be to everyone's tastes... i've always thought hayley williams was really pretty. leigh lezark... possibly in part because we have a few features here and there in common but she's gorgeous, so i feel a little better about having those features. current girl crush is liv moore, specifically, probably because she's also cute with good style and sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 06:46 PM
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red pillers ITT: "well yeah, i know that realistically there are happy couples out there, but why care about reality and truth when i can just focus on the bad ones, get paranoid, and ceaselessly bitch online for attention?!" truth seekers my ass, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 02:26 AM
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lol okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 11:30 PM
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seriously. i had to double-check the flair, because the question alone made it seem like it was just Q4M.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 06:57 PM
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probably kiss, not much beyond that though. sleeping together is likely off the table; i can't imagine a situation where it wouldn't be, since for me, that'd be taking some big risks with my health and/or emotions. i don't need us to have our wedding date set or anything crazy serious, but some exclusivity, yeah. even if i don't feel like he did something wrong, it would hurt me to know i was just one of a few he was sleeping with/he wasn't that interested, so, i wouldn't let that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 05:23 PM
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Its been about 3-4 weeks since you met. You've been intimate (kissing for sure), maybe had sex at this point already, too. pushing things a little with this, but since it's all hypothetical, i guess... Are you expecting/assuming that he's concurrently dating and possibly sleeping with another woman, or other women, at that point in time? i know it's a possibility. i don't think about it too hard because it's not really helpful to do so (being concerned about how they are with him more than how i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 04:50 PM
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if you make something intentionally indecipherable to the point of meaninglessness, then of course no one will understand what you're referring to. that's by design, and common with RP 'concepts'; it's whatever they want it to mean whenever they want it to mean that, so you can change it at your will and dismiss anyone criticizing or arguing against it if you don't like being disagreed with, putting it back on them to make them seem like the idiot instead of you. it's pathetic, but gets the job …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 02:46 PM
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then i might give them my number or make plans to meet up another day, or simply enjoy that feeling and leave it behind when the night is over (speaking hypothetically as if i were single). i'm not that impulsive and even if i was really into someone, it would never lead to an ONS because i don't really want that. i've tested it out, even tried to 'make' myself like it when i was young and dumb, but i have a deep-seated disinterest in it so it never happened (and i don't pretend otherwise anymor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 12:35 PM
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yeah, very sterile... i don't particularly mind gyno exams, it's just a thing i gotta do and my doctor is nice, but it's definitely not sexy or anything you want in the bedroom, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 12:32 PM
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i'm not sure why it matters, but yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 03:16 AM
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something RPers use to dismiss women and place responsibility elsewhere, surprise surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 03:13 AM
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not. i've never had the stomach to sleep with someone i didn't have a connection with, but i imagine it'd be like a pelvic exam but way worse. it's not enjoyable without connection to me so i can't totally answer this, but being with someone that you already have an emotional connection with changes a lot. there's a comfort level where you can laugh if it's silly or feel less self-conscious about saying no or asking them to do something, and it takes away the sterile, foreign feeling some (like …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 01:16 AM
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I mean we've defined typical male behavior as abusive so, you're not really wrong. the behavior being described isn't typical. Yes I'll abuse you, and you'll love it too, and never want it to end, and wonder where I've always been. nah. It is balance though. It doesn't feel like abuse when it's balanced with care and affection. It's when the care and affection are removed that all is left is abuse. you clearly don't know anything about abuse; this is part of emotional abuse. Literally reminds me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 09:22 PM
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hm, maybe... odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 07:48 PM
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i don't know why it's being painted as some sort of true form of love, above all else then. that's what i was objecting to; i don't doubt that it's an act of control committed by a person who doesn't care about who they're doing it to. that much is clear, but for whatever reason, some glorify and romanticize it here and i don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 07:29 PM
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then what was the point of mate guarding if he doesn't care if i leave or cheat? these explanations just make it seem more dumb and nonsensical, not less. i'd even normally accept the explanation of "beta doesn't mean bad, alpha doesn't mean good" but beta is clearly being painted as 'the lesser' in comparison to even psycho 'alphas', so not even that is being upheld.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 07:16 PM
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it's abusive whether you think of it as such or not. go for it if that's your ideal; don't assume it is for everyone else, or that it doesn't fit the definition of abuse just because you enjoy it. it's clearly extreme behavior (ahem... outlier behavior/interests), and not the norm or benchmark. obviously, it will be more attractive to a niche group rather than universally, this is simple. the people reacting negatively to this should have been expected if you're praising a guy acting like a viol…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 06:56 PM
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well i left a guy like that because he was obviously crazy and unstable, so if they did, then they'd realize this doesn't always win them what they want in the end (or ever, which is greatly more likely). that'd be assigning them an awful lot of sense though, and not even i'm that generous. oh well; continue being miserable and... complaining about the misery you brought into your own life willingly -_- The RP Way <sup>TM</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 06:32 PM
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agreed. threads like this... well if that's what life is like for them, then it makes sense RPers are so mad. it sounds terrible and stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 06:30 PM
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any man who treated me like that would be unsexy because that is an unsexy way to behave, and i assume it's the same for the other women who don't care for that sort of behavior in a partner. he'd be on his own, and i'd be seeking replacement of my damaged property, at the very least. go for it if that's what (general) you want; not attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 06:02 PM
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i wouldn't do that either, nor would it be approved of or tolerated if i did... i think the ladies here are pretty unanimous in their opinion of putting down or 'diminishing' (whichever term you prefer) your partner in public. it's just shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 05:15 PM
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not IMO. the ideal is being with someone i'm attracted to, is attracted to me, and that i don't constantly have to keep an eye on or try to keep away from other people because they'll either pick someone over me or are so weak-willed they won't say no to someone else. it's like you people pick the worst partners you can and then complain about AWALT/AMALT. if you picked some hot girl or guy with questionable integrity and stick with them because hotness is more important to you than anything els…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 04:45 PM
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as described above, insecure. especially if you're going so far as to 'take your partner down a notch', blech, annoying. just dump them and find someone you don't have to worry about so much instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 04:34 PM
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same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 02:46 PM
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okay, now i support more freedom for going braless a little more. fuck this mindset, haha. may you see them and cringe everywhere you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 02:29 PM
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good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 02:25 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 11:52 AM
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this is not better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 11:50 AM
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you wear a bra :P but really, i think they have some way of making the skin up top tighter, so that it points more forward/pulls things upward? occasionally local plastic surgeons will do a Q & A on a radio show i listen to, and i think that's pretty much how they described it. but, i'm not totally sure so that could easily be mis-remembered nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 03:57 AM
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doesn't matter. he definitely will. or he'll make a new post with 20 new questions stemming from one chain of comments between two people, instead of just asking those people what they meant -_- ughh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 03:49 AM
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not an expert by any means... but i've heard plastic surgeons say that it's just temporary, especially as you age. it'll be something that requires upkeep/re-doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 03:16 AM
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and if people actually used it instead of coming here... it'd probably be more lively.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 03:11 AM
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good for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 02:45 AM
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this > MBTI.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 02:36 AM
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fair enough; that, i get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 02:06 AM
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:/ pasties maybe? there are fun shapes and colors!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 01:59 AM
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we were both misplaced, possibly :( everything is a lie. (although reading the ravenclaw description, it does make more sense...)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 01:57 AM
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i'd guess probably only for women with larger breasts. for others, it's not as noticeable when they don't wear a bra (lucky gals!).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 01:52 AM
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eh, i guess? i see braless women sometimes. i may or may not think it's appropriate, and then i just continue on with my grocery shopping or whatever. i'd assume that, for the most part, the reaction is much the same, except perhaps in professional settings, for obvious reasons. i really only see it at local festivals or maybe the grocery store, so it doesn't seem like a big deal to me, just another part of a person's appearance that is open to criticism, like hair and clothes. i won't deny anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 01:49 AM
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i would have guessed Gryffindor, but according to this i am Ravenclaw. as others have said... Hufflepuff is probably the least-favored because it's also the least notable. edit to add the % breakdown from the quiz: Ravenclaw: 58.6% Hufflepuff: 37.2% Gryffindor: 3.9% Slytherin: 0.3%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 12:43 AM
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yay, congrats :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 04:52 AM
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yeah, i thought the same thing at first, but assumed she was referring to the really junky kind. chicken wings done right can be great though, even for a non-wing fan like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 07:40 PM
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oh, RTX is fun :) i went a couple of years ago (or maybe last year... not sure exactly, i'm terrible at remembering stuff like that). anyway, enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 07:38 PM
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i liked it, and it's shorter than most netflix series; 10 30-minute episodes. i really loved the soundtrack too :) i'm tempted to watch the documentary that inspired it as well... the original GLOW happened before i was born so i didn't know about it before this new series, but it does sound interesting. i love stuff like roller derby too, so i guess it's no surprise this would catch my attention, ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 07:01 PM
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lame. someone may jump in and correct me... but it seems dumb for anyone to get mad about how someone else eats if they're achieving the same thing. i indulge occasionally but a diet heavy on things like chicken wings and frozen pizza sounds awful -_- .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 06:21 PM
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not that i recall... i was attracted to every guy i dated or paid attention to. others may or may not see them as out of my league (in either direction), i'm not sure. but i never felt like i was settling. perhaps that's a benefit of moving slow, as i do. i've known one girl who had a rebound boyfriend, and it was the beginning of the end of our friendship... he was really nice, and leading someone on or using them as a placeholder is just cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 06:17 PM
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my husband and i started and finished GLOW in one sitting... so good. also made me want to replace all my clothes with leggings and soft knots; their outfits looked so comfy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 06:12 PM
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not really. i might say it had some merit in changing the guys who were doormat orbiters, but it just changed them into always thinking the worst of women instead of the absolute best, and neither are realistic or helpful mindsets. as for me, i don't see it as an improvement even in the above cases. i never asked for guys to pay my rent or pamper me etc. etc. in the first place, so such a man turning into a total asshole is... just another guy who might have had potential if he acted normally, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 01:36 PM
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but his urges :'( don't be mean. /s /s /s that whole chain of comments from him was indeed disappointing. you're not a "rapist" in that situation, you're a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 01:19 PM
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really... from my experience anyway, most men are broken due to porn and insecurity (often both). i will note that my experience is pretty limited... but the guys i remember thinking of as broken or fucked up either were so used to porn that reality was disgusting or dissatisfying to them, or they were constantly asking how they measured up to other men. certainly, women are equally as capable of these things. but for the 'red flag' guys i knew, this was pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 04:28 AM
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ugh, i hate how common this is now. i saw an article about it too, but for better or for worse, it's hard to trust so many sources these days. i can't tell if it's because there's more sensationalizing or i just read news more now, but either way, sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 01:42 AM
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i saw this earlier on facebook... i haven't done a ton of research so it's possible that the news article shared was sensationalized, but from what i read it sounds like an awful idea/law. then again, there are a lot of fucked up laws and policies still surrounding sex and reproduction so sadly, not as surprising as it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 01:41 AM
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please, he never stops complaining and spewing bitterness. i'm sure he brought it up in some past thread, making sure to include the parts where he was a hero against those dastardly women and taught them all a valuable lesson before turning outlaw. the commenter above was probably being sincere, though. no reason to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 10:09 PM
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nope, just bored with lazy posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 02:55 AM
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well you wouldn't have posted something like this for any other reason, so i don't believe you. but, sure. whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 02:42 AM
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nah. i'm sure it'll win you karma from RPers though, they love that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 02:34 AM
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drinking beer and watching GLOW so can't research right now... but isn't most of what comes from thought catalog just nonsense? :/ wish that would be banned along with other pages; i seem to remember lots of their stuff being made up and just, crappy. Wikipedia would even be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 02:28 AM
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uh k
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 11:30 PM
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make one! if you want misandry, by gosh by golly, you go make a sub all about it. this is an odd view though, really. how about just doing away with hate altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 11:07 PM
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lol, no. had nothing to do with lady gaga, but good to know where you're at.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 08:16 PM
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:/ that stinks. it's definitely a sort of cycle; you have to both be exposed to something outside of it and also want to get out of it in order to move on, it seems. hopefully that person does someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 07:47 PM
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yeah, it's tough. some people never overcome it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 07:41 PM
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Yea RPERS are overrating them, not guys that are naturally successful with women or people who don't use Reddit or RP. Are you claiming RPers or PPD users are an accurate description of reality? i'm pointing out that your ratings are inaccurate, as many others have in this thread and past ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:49 PM
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i suppose it depends on how you define success, but the few people i've known that can't seem to stay in a relationship for long appear to have the following problems: not interested in compromising with another person, while wanting someone else to meet their needs not interested in committing to just one person for a while after all unsure of what they want/how to solve their personal problems, seeking another person to help them figure it out, failing repeatedly because that's their job and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:10 PM
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really. i mean, even TRP's favorite, brad pitt, was called pretty. a lot of attractive guys today also possess 'pretty' traits; see: dicaprio.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 03:47 PM
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yeah, it doesn't sound like anything to worry about :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 03:44 PM
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being called 'pretty' sounds different than someone calling you 'pretty boy', but again... i guess it depends on how it's being said, and also, who's saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 03:18 PM
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depends on how it's said; i don't think it's always a bad thing (but then again, there are some guys i am attracted to that fall under this description at least somewhat). i think i normally hear this in a negative context, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 03:10 PM
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maybe this is why all these guys think women are just surrounded by flocks of orbiters, because they once did stuff like this with ease and assume it's the same for everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 03:07 PM
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ooh fun! i've known a few couples that did this, and they all had a blast.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 03:05 PM
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if you think everyone is over-rating women... perhaps you should consider that you're just under-rating them. that's become pretty clear with these posts of yours and the way you talk about/rate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 02:52 PM
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no, i just do everything with style and flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 01:36 PM
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lol, we didn't even go on a trip or hold a party... but we will in the future. weddings just seem so stressful and needlessly expensive, and to me, it's a party put on mostly for other people (so meh). it's not for everyone... but for us, we were able to move into a nicer, closer to work home with the money we saved (and not deal with the fuss of a wedding).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 01:01 PM
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i bought my husband a drone; he bought me a marionette i had been wanting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 12:30 PM
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really, the cause of everything just boils down to women and hypergamy. especially when it comes to bad things. not sure what a MENA guy is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 04:27 AM
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it's alright, that's just fine... i was mailing chad anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 01:26 AM
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it would be fine. i'll even just go first here. me irl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 12:39 AM
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ooh, never thought of that... on another note, i wonder if that would be the solution to showing faces on here... finding some truly anonymous way to post a picture without any association to our names here... don't know of any sites like that, but would be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 12:24 AM
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because this makes more sense than numbers: no no no no no no they may be great for all i know, but didn't love the pictures and/or styles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 12:20 AM
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You have to compensate in other areas if that's the case. oh no! being interesting and enjoyable to be around! o horror of horrors...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 09:14 PM
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i suppose it could be location or class related... but as i understand it, most here are not UC, and i think only some are UMC (so our experiences shouldn't be too different). husband and i can easily have a decent dinner for, like, $40 max. if it's a night we just go out for drinks at a local pub/bar, it's about $20 (maybe $30ish if we get something to snack on too). on our most expensive days/dates, it can reach around $60-70, but that's maybe once a month, and involves both movie and a dinner…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 08:27 PM
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asking the real questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 06:11 PM
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clearly i was doing it wrong the last time a thread like this was posted for women; will remember to post a supermodel as a relative comparison next time. hooray internet!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 06:00 PM
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did you try just asking them what they meant instead of asking everyone else who isn't them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 12:05 PM
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lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 02:12 AM
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just... okay, most of this could be handled by google, i don't know why you keep posting questions here. research it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 01:28 AM
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lol, go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 11:26 PM
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i am Feminism? France? women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 11:20 PM
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then i guess you didn't need to make this thread. you already have your conclusion! yaaay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 11:12 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 09:48 PM
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going to echo Gin here, and say i'm really not sure since i don't know much about pre-nups and didn't have discussions about one. i would definitely be consulting a lawyer for guidance. something like a retirement fund remaining with him seems totally fair though (especially since i also have my own).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 09:47 PM
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It sounds to me like this is a big thing with a lot of women - that the gateway to their bedroom lies in their imagination. So guys have to be a bit of a mystery but in the right way. Drop all sorts of hints and implications that hint at intimacy and sexual desire, without outright spilling your guts as that ruins whatever fantasy is taking shape in her head. maybe; probably more likely that this works in various degrees. i prefer a lot of subtlety, but other women here have said they prefer som…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 09:45 PM
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me neither! we have something in common then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 09:35 PM
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and with mad dudes. goody.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 09:27 PM
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he could also win the lottery, or secretly be royalty!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 09:26 PM
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overnight sensation and yet, i only hear about him here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 09:20 PM
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no pre-nup. i wouldn't hate one if it were reasonable, i guess; might make me a little sad though (because who likes to think about their marriage falling apart). we just didn't see a need for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 09:18 PM
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i can try expanding further when my shift ends, but i really don't know that it'll be all that helpful or worthwhile here because it was never in the context of an ONS and didn't end with hooking up. it would be like, a friendly get together where we kind of end up in our own conversation without totally separating, and hold gazes for a second longer, or sit a little closer than usual; small things between us. then, on a different week, maybe hanging out with a smaller group of friends or meetin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 09:11 PM
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woman. someone not pushy. someone alright with being vanilla (while still trying out fun stuff now and then; is possible, even in the realm of vanilla). someone who's okay with me saying no every now and then. someone i can have a conversation about likes and dislikes with. someone who understands the difference between porn and real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 08:20 PM
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lol of course OP exaggerated. sigh...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 07:30 PM
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(which i go to to laugh at old women trying to justify their shitty lives through validation from other loser old chicks) this is even sadder than the people you go laugh at.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 06:58 PM
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the way they tell it, spinning 18-20 year old plates until the TRPer's dying breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 05:39 PM
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first link: 37 second link: 65 but, overall, i feel i'm luckier than most and try to be grateful for that. not much i can do about a lot of the things listed in the buzzfeed article anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:45 PM
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not surprising, given the source. some of it's not too far off from the other advice given here, just far more calculating. and hey, unhealthy or not, it would probably work. it's not the answer i'd pick or follow... but it is an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:29 PM
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i'd probably agree that some of their advice works if the goal is just ~keeping a man~ by any means necessary... doesn't hurt that they see everyone as being generally the same, so their advice is one size fits all (even though i don't think that's particularly smart or helpful).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 01:20 PM
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beyond brief friendly E-rated banter... it's pushing it. i don't know that it warrants a fight or breakup initially; depends on the degree and type of flirting happening. if you express that you don't appreciate your partner doing it and it continues or escalates though, i can see it reaching a fight or breakup point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 11:15 PM
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well, generally, sure. won't always be easy, and it's fine if you keep mostly to yourself; i'm not saying everyone needs to become a saintly philanthropist that never complains or has a bad day or acknowledges that some stuff really sucks. but if your life is currently thinking everyone sucks and is out to get you and can't be trusted and so on... yeah, there are better alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 09:03 PM
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same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 08:32 PM
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didn't see a % on mine but i got 33 out of 36. yay me!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 08:20 PM
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But, do I still believe all that shit they teach you growing up about romance and female behavior, and that women deserve to be treated special? so then i guess you don't see how RP is teaching you these things as well. you just went from one extreme to another; sideways (and maybe backwards), but not forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 08:08 PM
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nah, it's pretty clear they do. it manifests in different ways, different methods of hiding it are attempted... but admit it or not, they are not a group of people that actually like women based on their words and (claimed) actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 05:45 PM
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nope. a person isn't automatically good just because they're good-looking (lesson hard learned). but if you want to tell yourself that, then go on. believe it. it won't make any difference to me in the end; i don't know you. it's you that you've gotta think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 04:15 PM
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i was just responding to the questions about RP in general; no one has to listen to me, and they can deny and excuse all they like. i can't make anyone do anything, and aside from referring back to my first comment, there's not much else to say to this. anyone can do whatever they want, but if they want things to change... that starts with them, the individual. yes, it involves risk, and sacrifice. no, it's not without reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 03:54 PM
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How do you reconcile the reality of human unreliability with needing to invest and trust said human with your heart, life, time, and resources? fixed that for you. look, here's generally the same idea, written more eloquently. it doesn't mean being unaware that the person you're with is capable of hurting you or acting in a harmful or dishonest way; it's just not assuming that they will without reason to do so. and if you're not ready to do this, then don't. it's okay to hold off. also, base som…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 03:31 PM
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Do you honestly believe that this many men for this long are just griping about nothing? That something is just wrong with us - we're just hateful people without [just] cause? nah, i believe most have a legitimate gripe. there are a few that apparently just jumped on the bandwagon for comfort or edginess because doing things and feeling things and risking getting hurt is scary, but most have some pain and anger from a failed romantic or family relationship. however... you will never convince me …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 02:19 PM
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my questions and thoughts on this essentially match hers. i don't think she was creating a straw man, i think she was genuinely asking so she could understand your position better, and expressing her thoughts in response to what you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 04:17 AM
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if girl game takes practice and lots of it, then she's also going through trial and error (or no practice would be needed). if game for men and women takes lots of practice, then she's not just 'doing fuck all' or getting opportunities thrown her way for nothing; she's earned it through her own practice and work. it may work differently for women than for men, but is by no means effortless. unless you're saying that neither men nor women try hard and have it on easy mode, but that would fly in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 10:24 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 10:20 PM
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yeah, i thought we could tough it out, but last night was pretty rough so maybe not. hope your dad is able to get A/C again soon too :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 10:02 PM
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... of all the weekends for it to happen on, our A/C broke too. we're doing anything and everything to stay away from our house and the outdoors, haha. i hope so badly that the person coming out tomorrow can fix it...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 07:22 PM
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i often make up my own mnemonics and things to help me remember kanji meanings/pronunciations, and this sub might have actually helped me with two i struggle with... 資: pronounced "she", means resources. 費: pronounced "he", means expenses. if you go by what TRPers say each person gets in a relationship... this makes perfect sense. thanks PPD!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 06:57 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 03:45 PM
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it's so cheap and easy to do at home... i can see some benefits and instances where going to a salon would be necessary, but it's crazy to me that anyone would spend that much on their hair when they could save so much by doing it themselves. i think that's high even for a salon though; wonder where it is, or what is being done.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 10:45 PM
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i don't see how this is useful for looking at male/female instincts as a whole, honestly. even if this weren't a somewhat unique situation due to her disability, plenty of us get that people who don't get much sexual attention will value it more. it doesn't change how people who have gotten a lot of unwanted attention feel about it. nothing against you or anything though; it's just a topic that comes up a lot here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 07:43 PM
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do you see me attacking this? i'm not, and i wouldn't be wasting time by doing something much better regardless of what shit you assume i do. you are free to read it if you want to though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 06:10 PM
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i think it's way too long for me to bother reading, especially given the high chance of it just being a bunch of nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 06:01 PM
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yeah, that just seems like good sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 01:49 PM
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wondered when this would come up here... Is this level of sociopathic behavior typical in women when it comes to men? A few years ago I would have been shocked by what she had done, now I think it is probably the norm for most women and I kind of wonder if there are any other women out there who would do what she had done. no, i don't think so. Why is it that so many men let women influence their choices in life? Reading about the case it is scary to read how much control this woman had over tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 01:17 PM
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i can't continue this conversation if you're equating pregnancy and childbirth to occasionally putting on a pair of heels, lol. i'm not talking about drag queens or appropriating anything or starting some sort of movement at all or even trying to force you into heels, but okay. just an fyi: lifts = wedge heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 12:34 AM
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all the bizarre likes and fetishes in the world, and a woman simply thinking a guy having a little fun and wearing leg emphasizing shoes heels looks good is too outlandish for you? well, okay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 10:21 PM
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next up: a fundraiser for female participants to walk a mile in 4" lifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 10:19 PM
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who said you were? i'm a woman, and the guys i know who've done it weren't going out on the town trying to attract anyone; they just happened to look good on the few occasions they dressed up for an event or something (typically rocky horror picture show). not that it would matter, but at best, a few of them are bi; most are straight. careful with the judgments you cast around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 09:19 PM
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i haven't gotten far enough to see older bjorn but from pictures... not that cute. ragnar seems kind of dumb in ways to me, but both he and rollo are more attractive (if i had to pick any of them). also, just IMO, can't really feel attracted to a guy that i saw as basically a kid. weird, cannot do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 08:11 PM
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shame; it can actually be kinda hot. oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 07:56 PM
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no need to bother arguing against someone who's already made their mind up; just needed a comment reply so i could block. bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 07:02 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 07:01 PM
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okay, you're right. the world hates men, 100%, and this is a perfect example. not just a silly fundraiser, absolute hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:50 PM
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agreed; it's totally voluntary and as you said, they probably don't even wear heels the whole distance or anything. it's not like there's some lady army out there making sure all participants walk the full mile in stilettos no matter how blistered or sore. as long as the org gets their donations/registration fees i doubt they really care what you do otherwise. we know heels hurt, and they'd probably prefer everyone have a good time so that the event's an actual success (in the future, too). what…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:31 PM
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It's like if there was a charity where women were guilted in to wearing fake beards and running around to raise money for the male victims of female domestic violence. it's not for victims of violence... but women all over get involved in movember. fake moustaches abound. no one feels guilty, it's just some silly fun for a good cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:25 PM
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Do you believe making men walk in heels helps sexual assault victims? no, obviously it's the donations and proceeds from registration that do it. Is this fundraiser just an attempt to humiliate men? no. Is it unfair that the term "men's sexualized violence against women" is used? not really. if that's their focus, that's their focus. it would be preferable to me that it applied to all victims of sexualized violence regardless of their gender or that of their assailant... but no doubt, there are …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:22 PM
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yes! i remember seeing her in something... she has a lovely voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 03:08 PM
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i envy them some, must say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 01:44 PM
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not really. like other traits, you'll probably find that even if someone doesn't like your voice, it can be overlooked in favor of more important things, like personality or looks (no, don't say chad). i won't say to ignore what anyone thinks, ever... but don't take threads like this so seriously, and give up without even trying. don't care about us or these threads; don't internalize this. pay attention to the actual people around you, and most importantly, yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 01:37 PM
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Yes, I agree. Deep is not better if the tone is poor - smooth/harmonious is the kind of voice I guess I like most. That character in your link is like that - not a deep voice, but a pleasant tone. By weak I mean mumbling or wavering I guess. Resonant is a good word for a pleasing voice I think. ah okay, i see what you mean then :) yeah, a weak voice can be awkward and off-putting. I also agree that it's not the be all and end all, no one factor is. But the voice can make a man more or less attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 01:26 PM
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i realized i had never heard david beckham speak... but i see where people are coming from; it wasn't the voice i expected at all. i don't hate it, but don't love it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 01:22 PM
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oh, lucky! on all counts. i would probably end up all giggly too; he's such a babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 12:31 PM
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female. a good voice and/or accent can absolutely increase or decrease attractiveness. i watch a lot of animated shows/play a lot of video games, and i've found myself more interested in this character or that based on their voice actors alone sometimes (even better when you start to recognize certain actors based on their voices alone). i wouldn't say i need them to be deep, per se, but excessively nasal or high pitched voices would likely be less attractive to me. i'm not sure what having a we…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 11:58 AM
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can't speak for anyone else, but the first thing i ever saw him in was boston legal and i was hooked then; i had to go back and watch pretty in pink, so those past roles had no bearing on my attraction to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 02:38 AM
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perfect response. also, i really need to keep my response to threads like this saved somewhere so i don't have to bother looking up pictures...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 11:33 PM
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glad someone made mention of this on that sub... except sadly, they don't seem to share my pet peeve.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 11:16 PM
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same, same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 09:00 PM
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also agreed. i even tend to like guys who fall closer to the 'pretty' category (without being right in it), and that's basically how it is. they're nice to look at for a moment, and then forgotten if there's nothing but looks to keep my attention. i wouldn't normally bother weighing in to agree when so many others have... but it appears this point really needs to be driven home to some people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 08:30 PM
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men can too; it would be pretty easy to use makeup to enhance things that also make a man more attractive (think concealer, not sparkly eyeshadow). nothing stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 08:26 PM
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think i'll just report you instead. resorting to personal attacks and insults because you've got nothing else to say isn't the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 04:05 PM
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people here don't seem to know what trolling is anymore, either. someone disagreeing with you or pointing out the ridiculousness of a comment is not trolling. stop shouting troll anytime someone disagrees with you or says something you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 04:03 PM
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Women need to find a new boogeyman. he says, after going on a tirade about his female boogeyman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 03:58 PM
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waits for voices of reason (legally versed, even) to show up and crash the panic party once again, say it with me: it's okay to never get married. no one cares anymore; you're free to do or not do it. you're also free to vet as long as you need to instead of rushing into it, if you personally feel it's still important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 12:09 PM
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it just reads as "give up on anything good, everyone is pretending and/or will use you, get in on the game". i'm not saying that the opposite is ideal, some apprehension and caution is good, but damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 09:46 PM
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who says he's not ugly or deformed? who can even prove that this post is real? who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 09:42 PM
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what a sad view :/ .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 07:44 PM
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I'm not going to change my flair color. Fin. you didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 06:04 PM
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lol @ this guy trying to tell people their flair is wrong. i don't doubt this is true, but i don't think it guarantees that it was done maliciously or to hurt someone. it's probably true for men too; it happens. there are men here who admit to being habitual cheaters, but this is what you set your sights on as a moral transgression. k.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 05:45 PM
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lol, please don't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 02:49 PM
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maybe. i've grown up with Texas weather and rarely appreciate it... so a change would probably be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 02:11 PM
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Lol and would this man you know happen to be a minority? Let me guess... the sneakers were Jordans? Im sure this man happens to dress very loudly, with bright colors or distracting patterns? He also probably wears a hat with the sticker still on it too huh? not really. maybe there are jordans? i don't remember any of his shoes being jordan-like though. doesn't dress in a flashy way, i don't recall seeing any stickers on his hats. have you ever listened to... music? this is a theme in a lot of di…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 01:24 PM
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i mean, it's not crazy to withhold some stuff; i get that. but the kinds of details listed in the OP... like, you can talk about dating experiences and things without getting into so much detail that someone, anyone, will dox you. some people here act like they have to provide proof of ID along with any discussion of dating or job experiences; no one is even asking for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 01:44 AM
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oh damn! you're one of those bloops they're always talking about! you are real, after all. no one is safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 01:40 AM
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yeah, i'm definitely the odd one out, in most cases. everyone's thrilled for summer and doing outdoor summer things, and i just want storms or AC and dim lighting, inside. haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 01:27 AM
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boy do you know how to hit a seattleite where it hurts! once in a while rain and drizzle is fine, but come visit seattle in Feburary, you'll wish you have never left Texas! i might! i've wanted to visit for a while. it will be nice not being responsible for driving... though i might wait for a slightly milder month to make sure everything doesn't shut down, if things get bad. all that rainy and wet weather suck, for instance, i 3d printed some stuff but could never get a chance to spray paint th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 01:26 AM
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at least it rains and gets cold in seattle. if i found a house similar to mine in the outskirts/surrounding towns... sold.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 01:06 AM
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yep, this is accurate; i work in a non-dev/game department of one, and there are times we don't even know about projects going on even though eventually, our work will involve it. it drives me a little nuts but... makes sense for avoiding leaks and things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 12:47 AM
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seconding the other opinions; not ugly, above average, even. smiles for the win 👍 you look a lot like an acquaintance (to the degree i thought you were him for a second) and his wife is super cute, so, it's possible (but he's also fairly social, and always seems to be having a good time). guess it depends on your standards for 'attractive'... and then theirs. same for goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 11:08 PM
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seriously. looking forward to seeing what this thread has become after my commute.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 10:57 PM
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I know a women in my office that has a shoe closet. and actual closet, just for shoes. i know a man who does the same, with sneakers no less. let's not pretend that only women care about spending high prices on clothing or their appearance. i'm sure people enjoy it for themselves too, but it's a pretty common symbol of status to other people, for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 08:29 PM
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as they all do, naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 07:27 PM
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0, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 06:38 PM
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okay, so whatever he makes up based on feels is real and true. i see what you're doing now; thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 06:19 PM
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this sounds like a great misunderstanding (or just blatant exaggeration, which amusingly, is something some feminists are heavily criticized for doing, here). help, we need a lawyer! there are only a few lawyer/lawyery people here that really have the facts about this (though it would be the millionth time they've explained it so i won't blame them if they decline).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 06:03 PM
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#cashandprizes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 05:11 PM
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it directly relates to this post. you're asking "why x?" when 'x' is not true, and is a conclusion you came to because of poor reading. people are spoonfeeding you explanations and you're just digging your heels in and rejecting them. why should anyone take you seriously, or avoid pointing out that the answer to your question and the problem with your interpretation is bad reading abilities? you spout "logical" like it gives you some sort of superiority just to utter the word, but it doesn't, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 05:10 PM
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all those burned bras really make for a stinky mess. also, who wants to look at grody leg or armpit hair on women? ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 05:05 PM
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if all you want is agreement instead of people pointing out flaws in your arguments/posts, i don't even know why you come here. there are so many other places that would eat this up and pat you on the back for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 04:51 PM
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not a problem; i was waiting for an inevitable silly reply so that i could. begone!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 03:08 PM
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i hope they're real proud of each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 01:06 PM
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no pill, female, hetero, probably all of the above. sacrificing my life would in no way be easy, but i believe that i would. i've already done things that felt dangerous or scary (to me) instead of asking him to do them, so i think that if i could, i would make that sacrifice if needed. i really hope neither of us are ever put in that place though; regardless of who survived, they'd be devastated. i'm sure he'd sacrifice all for me too, though i don't necessarily expect all of it in return just …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 11:11 PM
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Humans in the medieval world. so? they're still characters pulling off amazing feats in a fantasy world. Superhero world. Like, really? yes, that's what we're talking about. all of those are in a superhero world, and are often central to plots. Focus. Fighting games like DoA (yes its a spinoff don't get autistic on me) are completely male audience. How is that a valid comparison to you? so, you're agreeing with me then. characters made by men, for men. not appealing to women, even though there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 10:18 PM
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i mean, bayonetta's even gotten criticism from feminists for being sexy... but i can go along with it if that's part of her character and not just something that seems like cheap entertainment (and she was designed by a woman). but, like, lara croft's earlier iterations were pretty ridiculous, as is cidney in the most recent final fantasy. it's cheap and often has no reason or explanation, which is why people can't connect to it and it's just gaze-pleasing. this is sadly common in anime too; the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 10:14 PM
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they probably wouldn't have impractical boob armor, among other things. i mean, look, regardless of who wrote or created them, people love characters like brienne of tarth and arya stark. there's even room to be strong, sexy and/or feminine without going overboard, like wonder woman. gamora. korra. claire temple. black widow. can you really not see the difference between, say, a character like final fantasy's lightning and the characters in something like dead or alive volleyball? depending on y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 09:57 PM
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They are not being "married off" Jesus. Nobody has a gun to their head. And yes 17 year olds are basically adults. yes, they are being married off. the gun may as well be there; what means do they have of getting out of it? also, 17 year olds are not full-fledged adults. don't say ignorant things. A fucked up rule would be prohibiting people from marrying and getting on with their lives when they want to and say forcing them to stay with abusive/alcoholic parents instead. if they're married off …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 09:17 PM
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yeah, i do. it was great, and didn't harm me or cause me to believe i could actually act like any of the heroes i enjoyed watching when i grew up. reality will hit soon enough; let kids have their fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 06:22 PM
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fair enough; there are definitely iterations of wonder woman and the amazons that i'm not familiar with. to me, 'world of man' still seemed more like it was referring to 'world of not-Amazons' instead of just men men, but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 05:52 PM
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you're right. better go back in time to any point where a boy did this over a male superhero, and tell him how stupid he is for finding it exciting and wonderful. also, must do that in the future, for all of time. no dreaming, no fun, no nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 05:47 PM
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It wasn't not agreeing with my views, it was a different understanding of what the movie said within its universe. how is this not me having views that disagree with yours? There was a movie review for the great wall... the guy hated it bc "there was no explanation of how they got on the other side of the wall" The problem with the review was there WAS a very specific explanation about how the attacks were diversionary and they funneled under and they showed the tunnel. I assume the reviewer had…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 05:43 PM
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Well, fair enough, it is cumulative. The amount of people on debate forums who utter some form of "Why you writing views on the internet is tiresome". So when you mentioned not making things this topic... well it seems a lot like that common narrative. ah, my apologies then; that's not what i meant. i just meant in general. a lot of people were mad (on or off reddit) that black widow was portrayed as sad about not getting to have kids or being sterilized and it seemed to be a 'feminist' issue; t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:56 PM
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This is a Reddit for the two to debate and discuss.... like literally the specific place for someone who hears stuff to come and discuss it... you asked for views on it; i gave mine. i don't recall saying this thread wasn't allowed, or campaigning for your silence. i just don't agree with people who try to make it super- or anti- feminist. Also, while the movie was a spark, I mentioned other iterations. Thus there is varying levels. it's probably best to stick to the most recent/visible one, lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:27 PM
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i haven't argued this one way or another (nor have i read the comics), but what makes the women on the island man-hating super feminazis? i didn't get that vibe at all, and i don't remember them saying much of anything about men at all either. i also remember wonder woman choosing to leave, and them letting her go even though they were disappointed and it hurt; she wasn't kicked out, and they simply didn't see a reason to interfere in matters of another world (with people that they were right ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 03:59 PM
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men think of normie fatty women and nerd women as 10/10s though... just another example of how totally awful women are. thanks for pointing it out, lest anyone forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 02:12 PM
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#2 is so shiny... haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 01:22 PM
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ooh, what good news! you hear that Gon? children are never married off despite it being perfectly legal to do so! it's just 17 year olds, who are basically full fledged adults, amirite? also, your life/anecdotes aren't real; NalkaNalka said so. no need to worry about the world having some really fucked up rules and people after all; phew.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 11:56 AM
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and i'm really not a stickler for attire! it's just that odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:09 AM
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the article didn't change my life or result in any serious negative effect so i'm good. not sure why i'm the one everyone's suddenly trying to pick a fight with, but i'm not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:05 AM
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same. the expression's a little silly and overalls? but he was my favorite, i think. (no secret i go for smiley skinny dark-haired pale guys...) one of my first major crushes in high school was a guy who looked like him, actually (but with long hair).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 03:31 AM
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you weren't. you were being childish and rude the whole time, which is why your comments are removed. but if it gets you to leave me alone... 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 03:25 AM
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fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 03:22 AM
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of course not; what was i thinking? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 03:09 AM
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you're being uncivil in your response to me; don't go around making insulting, baseless accusations if you want a polite response. go bother someone else with this shit. it's not my problem you're mad because of some beef with a mod; go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 03:07 AM
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flat iron.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 02:26 AM
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what the fuck is your problem? no, of course not. go find someone else to throw that accusation at.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 02:23 AM
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it really does :( i haven't found many things that have made me feel activist-y... but i might have to research ways i can help those fighting this/the laws. here, or worldwide. i donate to other organizations sometimes, so maybe...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 08:22 PM
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just stumbled upon this... had no idea, how sad and awful :( and i'm not that well-versed in politics... but it seems pretty shameful for any politician to defend these laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 08:09 PM
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totally. you got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 07:11 PM
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did the full stack of weight on a gym machine for the first time this week... and i'm reaching that point on others pretty quickly. might have to move on to free weights and non-machine things :O i also managed to cook steak perfectly on the first try and got my first full set of keys for my mechanical keyboard... it was a good week.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 06:12 PM
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i never assumed they did, if they'll go so far as to hold these kinds of beliefs. i'm sure there's lots they don't care about, like reality and reason. it's to their detriment, so go on, don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 05:29 PM
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those men are also silly. lol, 'know'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:18 PM
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sure, they can. hopefully they get a good surgeon, to better ensure they don't end up looking ridiculous. it probably doesn't get brought up frequently or first-thing because it's often expensive, or a procedure that the advice-receiver is unlikely to want to go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:59 AM
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i guess i don't know any guys like that; i dated one as a teen, but he was just a run of the mill idiot so, not representative of much (IME, of course). i might have a few friends into that kind of stuff, but i don't think they'd act like the kind of guy mentioned in the OP about it. that, or i don't attract that kind of guy, or i write him off/avoid areas he might be, so he's just invisible to me now. sucks, if there are more guys out there now these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:09 AM
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not much to disagree with here. i don't really think there's much need to submit to anyone (depending on the definition, which is another post entirely), but certainly not to that guy. i don't think OP is saying that all men in 2017 are pornified; i read it as her saying that submitting to a guy that is is a mistake (but, if i'm wrong...).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:01 AM
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chad <3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 11:41 PM
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just go to AskWomen already 😩 these threads are dumb and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 02:40 PM
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there are probably free or cheap online courses that you can take if your true interest is learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 03:34 AM
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lol, majestical. no, what a weird question. i'm not into the gorilla?-esque men you described either, though even that's not as weird as asking about gorillas themselves. some animals are cuter than others or have more striking traits, but this doesn't automatically equal sexual attraction from anyone who points that out -_- . humanizing the traits of an animal doesn't necessarily mean you're actually seeing them as a person or attracted to them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 01:35 AM
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I would love to know how many women would try to body-shame men after the men agreed with them that they have a nice body. You should try and test that. you're focusing on this part instead of the responses from women. this deflection makes your ability to engage and discuss things directly seem questionable, just an FYI. interestingly enough... lots of TRPers do this. it's no good, from anyone. and, maybe some women would body shame, maybe some wouldn't. no doubt, many women would write the guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 09:19 PM
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She agreed with the compliments on purpose. She was making a point, showing what happens when these men feel you just don't care about their praise. they were probably also upset because the responses they got were rude. of course you're going to get a negative response if you reply rudely and bluntly to a compliment; it's poor manners, as stated above. it's not just "aww, poor man is upset that i didn't fall all over myself upon receiving his praise" like you're trying to make it out to be. she…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 09:04 PM
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This, however, completely missed the point of the men's angry responses. 'Actually, I don't think you have a nice body at all, need to hit the gym.' He's obviously trying to body-shame her, come on. Yet another men angry because women are not dependent on his praise. i never said the guys responding weren't also jerks, and i edited my comment above to reflect that. it's no surprise that they were; some guys are like that. it doesn't change my opinion on the way that the women chose to respond to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 08:56 PM
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eh, i thought some of the comments/responses were rude ("like saying "thanks, i know!" in response to someone saying you're smart). i think her response to the compliment about her hair was okay and a good example of when it's just normal to do that, but anything beyond that just seemed rude. i'd think a guy was a dick for acting that way, so i don't think it's some commendable act for a woman to do it. you don't have to giggle and blush at every compliment; i certainly don't. but to me, giving …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 08:47 PM
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i think you're in the wrong place. here you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 08:21 PM
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i didn't think much of it until it happened... but it was so weird saying that the first few times. also, thinking of myself as a bride at all. i was happy with that i was doing, but it was odd. like the first time you realize you're an adult, or hold a real job, or... haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 06:55 PM
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to be fair... i've never had jersey pizza in jersey. judging from pictures it's pretty similar, though... and delicious, so, i'll say i love it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 06:06 PM
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how about... some people just want to get married. if you don't, cool. don't, then. other people do though, and that's reason enough. the list of topics for the mega thread continues to grow... not meaning to pick on you since it's not just something you post about, but it feels like a topic that's been beaten enough (and often does turn into the OP getting mad and feeling like they're being ordered to marry).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 05:29 PM
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you don't know me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 05:21 PM
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'fish love' sounds like a quirky (romance?) movie, like the lobster. or a wes anderson film. maybe it's just because of the whole aquatic thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 04:51 PM
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this is no 'lower quality' than the other threads it's mocking. at least this one has entertainment value. that alone makes it better than the other ones, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 04:47 PM
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ah, you know, i bet you're right. my bad. (but how will i ever get by with just pepperoni?!)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 04:42 PM
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new york... but really, jersey (just because there is a really good jersey pizza place near me).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 04:21 PM
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That's just her misusing the word like when she says she loves pizza. ahem i am never misusing the word. my love for pizza is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 03:57 PM
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When women say we're shy we mean talking to people gives us panic attacks. like they don't even know how hard it used to be to even order food or a cup of coffee for myself -_-.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 03:15 PM
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pretty accurate. only semi-related, and i don't bother to say anything about it most times, but it seems like "introvert" and "nervous anxious person" are often presented as the same thing; they're not. a person can easily and even frequently possess both traits, but they're not the same thing, and a person can be one without the other. you made the distinction, so that's not you, of course... but people often don't (here, or in general) and... it's annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 03:14 PM
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in addition to the other responses: even though i struggled with social interaction myself, i started learning how it was 'supposed to be' in my teens. it didn't make me more successful or extroverted to know that; no magic, my struggles remained. but i still understood from a relatively young age how other people and things in the world worked, whether i was in line with them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 03:10 PM
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not really; i learned mostly by making mistakes 👍 i got tips here and there from friends, TV, and magazines (since i was a faithful Seventeen reader) but they weren't that helpful, and nothing was as effective as messing up (through which i also got a better sense of what i wanted and what not to give a shit about). i think the only thing i really remember hearing from my mom is that making any first moves or sleeping with someone or not expecting the guy to do everything in dating made you chea…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 12:25 PM
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edit, since i mixed up Aidan/Aiden... i actually like Sam Witwer a lot... but i get where people are coming from when they say that, haha. Aidan Turner's eyebrows are a little more intense than i recall... but he's alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 10:57 PM
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indeed... i do remember the UK vampire being pretty cute too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 10:45 PM
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i tried so many times to watch it already, i don't know if i can >.< maybe i just imprinted on the american one since it's the first one i saw (and loved, so so much). i might try it once i catch up on vikings, we shall see.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 10:35 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 10:33 PM
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lol, we were almost on the same wavelength... i wonder if josh was supposed to be the american equivalent? i never watched the UK one, even though the show had the expected 'the UK original is better' opinions. edit: reading further, josh is totally the american george. haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 10:30 PM
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i mean, josh was pretty cute, so why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 10:27 PM
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for being so vanilla... it's interesting to be one of the few who knew what it was already. what i get for working in a XXX store. edit: we never sold the 4" extenders... how frightening, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 10:15 PM
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GridReXX summed it up perfectly in her comment. i doubt what you've stated above (especially since you go on to say just that about someone), but regardless of if you do that or not, plenty of other men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 10:00 PM
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i don't understand how so many men think they don't do the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 08:35 PM
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seriously, maybe Q4W needs to be next week's megathread topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 07:38 PM
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comments like this make you look bad, and ignorant. you should stop. go take a break. edit: lol, rapid comments in defense of chris brown now, multiple-reply style. calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 06:42 PM
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most of those were released several years ago, according to a glance at wikipedia anyway. he's not in the spotlight anymore, especially not like he used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 04:24 PM
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liar!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 04:07 PM
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on that, i agree with you. i somehow ended up watching part of a jennifer aniston interview, and even that was pretty bland. i think it's the 'first love' thing that makes it seem sad... but what do i know, i'm a second wife (and the one before me was kind of a nightmare).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 04:07 PM
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the reasons for that would vary as would the definition of 'get away with it', but generally, yeah, no shit. same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 03:56 PM
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:'(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 03:55 PM
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because women live in the united states, and that represented a lack or care and respect for them. obviously, people would be concerned about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 03:38 PM
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to be fair... even just in the past few years, people are still talking about jennifer aniston and brad pitt. some people never let stuff go. the only thing i've heard about either of them recently is her heckling some basketball player; not sure why anyone would bring up chris brown again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 03:32 PM
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good? the person i was responding to didn't appear to understand the difference. it has nothing with needing to seem like a beta or provider, but just as someone who isn't going to make the lives of americans living hell while he and his buddies profit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 03:29 PM
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and what about Fisher? His politics isn't the only thing that matters we also need to take into consideration his private life he led in an anonymous forum secretly. ... yes, because he could affect the lives of his constituents. didn't i already say politicians were different? anyone who wouldn't be affected by it forgot and didn't care that much though. even here, the topic was discussed and done in a matter of days. But Chris Brown? His music and he himself is totally different. Perfectly pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 03:29 PM
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i think most would disagree that it's a majority of women who love and adore men like this, not that there aren't many women out there who do love and adore men like that (or give the appearance of doing so). there are probably many men in the same position. it's a messed up world in a lot of ways; who is even challenging that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 03:25 PM
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How is this weird? because you're bending the situation around your own views, and then... challenging people? it's like you're reassuring yourself and then inviting people to fight you. it's weird, as are your conclusions. Here we have a man who is attractive, talented and successful and also a known dirt bag in the BP sense of the word. yeah, lots of these exist. nothing new. He beats women, has anger problems, has misogynistic lyrics and is an all around the opposite type of man that BP says …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 03:05 PM
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So Chris Brown's character and his music is completely different things there's no need to mix his character with his music. orson scott card once strongly opposed homosexuality and same-sex marriage, but plenty of people still love(d) ender's game. jesse eisenberg is a dickhead. michael fassbender and casey affleck have been accused of some awful things. it happens. but don't vote for trump cos he's a dirtbag asshole that once said grab em by the pussy in private politicians and presidents are …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 03:02 PM
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But he didn't beat the millions of women who still love him and go to his concerts? What's happening there? Are ALL those millions of women fucked up? could he even have? is there any evidence that they're all there because of what he did to rihanna? or are they choosing instead to appreciate his music and think he's cute? again, being a dirtbag does not automatically stop you from being famous. Or do they just know deep down that CB falls in the dildo with legs category and accept his shit for …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 02:32 PM
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some people stay with their abusers for a number of reasons. being a dirtbag doesn't necessarily prevent you from being famous. i don't think it supports either of your beliefs. personally, i think chris brown is garbage, and anyone who likes him isn't someone i want to be friends with. he appears to be a terrible person, and it's a shame he didn't really suffer consequences for anything he did (that i'm aware of). i mean really, for all the complaining TRPers do about women... talk about babyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 02:25 PM
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maybe so. another reason i stopped disagreeing or playing it off :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 01:48 PM
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if the bra being worn/cleavage being shown is comparable to wearing 4 inch lifts... then yeah, that probably should be a red flag to you. i don't agree with you on feeling deceived or mad though; it's not unusual for a guy to naturally be 5'8" instead of 5'4". at some point, it is unusual (or impossible, really) for boobs to defy gravity or sit a certain way. one 'fakeness' is far more obvious than the other. it's kind of like like... would you get mad when you saw a girl without eyeshadow? did …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 01:39 PM
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i've since switched to just accepting it with a smile and gratitude, but i used to laugh a little when my husband would look at me in bed in the morning and say i was beautiful. like, i've rolled out of bed and seen my face and hair in the morning, who are you kidding? but it's sweet nonetheless (and i don't want to make him feel bad about it).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 12:08 PM
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How would you know they are charming if you haven't met them? Or are you judging from speeches/TV? neither; they really don't give speeches (outside of stage plays) or spend much time on TV. they interact and post a lot online though, and just generally have a good vibe about them. people who have met them have nothing but good things to say. you don't even know who they are, so despite your attempts to make it seem like i know nothing... i would know better than you, regardless. It doesn't real…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 11:43 AM
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whining about it (woe is me), having a chip on his shoulder about it (being angry and negative), having a complex about it (blaming all his problems on it). same as having hang ups about anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 11:39 AM
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the actors that are 5'4" - 5'8" that i think are attractive would be so regardless because they are charming and good looking. it's also not like they're Hollywood actors, and they're foreign, so their fame is somewhat limited in that way (before you go trying to play that worn out status argument). average guys will be averagely attractive. being short might be more of a hardship for the average guy. but then again, there's a short guy in my office who's average but still pretty cute. guess it …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 02:34 AM
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assuming that run of the mill also includes minimal hang-ups about his height (basically, the shoes are all the thought he puts to it)... then probably. an actor i have a crush on is 5'4" and i think he just wears normal shoes. i don't find him unattractive for being short, it actually makes him cuter. a scenario where he wears lifts but has no hangups about his height seems incredibly unlikely though. even if he acts cool for a while... personal problems like that only stay hidden for so long. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 11:03 PM
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of the blue pill types who chose to offer an opinion a group of 3, something you've conveniently left out until now, instead claiming 'lots' did this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:18 PM
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lol, this whole thread was a very personal response from you to BiggerD, QW, and TGL. it was never an effort at real discussion with the community to begin with. go or don't; i don't care. the thread was stupid and juvenile either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:15 PM
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aw, don't backtrack now. you were almost truthful!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:13 PM
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I thought we were still talking about my op? You're all over the place here. lol, i'm not all over the place. your OP states it was related to that thread, and you linked it here yourself claiming that a lot of BPers and feminists were on board with that; you've all but stated it as the driving reason for you making this thread; to 'get' TGL, BiggerD, and QW. So is your big argument that in fact BP types were all over that thread condemning what happened to Macron? i haven't said that at all. ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:11 PM
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oh, sure you do. you don't see it, but you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:04 PM
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not by me. guess someone else was bothered by your comments. thanks for admitting you did it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:03 PM
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sure did. I dunno. But a lot of blues/feminsts were defending a forty year old woman fucking a 15/16/17 year old boy. Apparently it appeals to some.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 05:58 PM
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if TGL and QW can have gray flairs but you still call them blue based on their views/behavior, then you are equally red based on your views/behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 05:57 PM
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Inspired by a previous discussion on Macron where the consensus from the blue pill side seemed to be "if it's legal it's ok to fuck 15 year olds". stop lying. thanks. also, stop making new threads just to settle a beef you have with 1-2 people. this was actually interesting until it became clear that it was just some petty part of a dispute.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 05:34 PM
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I mean they get tons of replies. Maybe you don't engage with them. But that's not the same. if they're just getting tons of replies from non-blues disagreeing with them, then who cares? it doesn't at all support your claim that lots of BPers and feminists were celebrating a 39 year old woman getting it on with a 15 year old boy; it makes it an outright lie. I'm not sure how this proves they aren't blue/Feminists. if gray flairs are just gray flairs, then it was only a single blue piller. if gray…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 05:20 PM
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then you are red. yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 05:16 PM
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the same way you can claim not to be an RPer: 2 of them have gray flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 05:08 PM
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i think most people don't even bother to engage with them, honestly (with the exception of [deleted], who i'm not even sure we can count in this scenario). i don't see many people outside of outraged non-blues talking to them, in most cases. they really do rile up TRPers and anti-blues though. i mean really, since when does 3 equal a lot of people? get a grip, lol. edit: aww, look, he's downvoting me now. a rational response.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 05:07 PM
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given the source, i'm sure it was either 1-2 rogues with a blue flair taking part in that argument, or a complete misinterpretation. ding ding ding! so far it looks like just BiggerD and questioningwoman, and maybe some agreement from [deleted]? i can't tell since the comment she replied to was deleted, so that may not be the case at all. either way, not lots at all. always so dishonest, tsk tsk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 04:58 PM
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if things are serious, they likely already know about it, so it would be moot. but, in fantasyland where this isn't true... depending on the habit/trait, i'd either tone it down in a compromise, or i wouldn't, and we'd decide to go our separate ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 04:38 PM
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edit edit, because i misunderstood the question... for me personally, i wouldn't go any younger than 23 (or 5-6 years younger than me). anything beyond that is too young and not something that inspires any kind of attraction. would still be friends with them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 04:12 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 02:26 PM
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well, probably quite a bit. it is, as you say, a patriarchy. you may be 'just another one of them' but at the very least, i wouldn't doubt that your opinions and contributions are valued a decent amount just by merit of you being a part of that group. you're the hero, the breadwinner, what matters and keeps the world turning. yay for you. i'm not someone who constantly brings up the patriarchy though, and i don't think many here are either. this looks to be something directed at feminists who do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 01:22 PM
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occasionally; i do language exchange for practice, so ending up with a flirty partner now and then is kind of inevitable. much like other forms of flirting, though, they'll do it to any woman they can get to respond to them (even if the conversation begins off as normal small talk).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 02:11 AM
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you could; it's not that hard to 'deceive' yourself into thinking a certain way, especially (but not exclusively) when that certain way of thinking helps soothe or justify pain or anger. from your OP though, i see no need for you to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 12:51 AM
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1: Are you male or female? female. 2: What was your high-school experience like? nothing special; i was smart, but bored in school so not very motivated. not ugly but not done up, not skinny but not big, had a goth phase, was in band for a while and then quit. was in the dance-but-not-cheerleaders group, but then quit. some truancy here and there, lots of leaving campus to get lunch or coffee when it was against the rules (and then carefully weaving through rows of cars to dodge/lose the truancy…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 07:35 PM
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Doubly so since multiple people pointed out that i was just exaggerating took offense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 07:15 PM
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only a TRPer would choose to read it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 05:51 PM
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you definitely shouldn't try swimming in empty pools, much less on a hundred degree day... :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 05:47 PM
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sometimes i wish i had aimed for something medical; some of it seems really cool, anatomy is fascinating. but i get a little squeamish about some of the things i'd imagine i'd have to do... so that's a no-go. can't be getting sick during an operation :/ haha. i wouldn't mind operating on people if i didn't have that problem; i think i could set aside the emotions/empathy as needed so that i could concentrate on doing my job (especially since i'd be going into it with the goal of keeping them hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 04:50 PM
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knowing multiple languages is interesting to me. being a good cook also counts... though overall, i think the most important thing is being around someone excited to learn and try new things. i'm not particularly into some of the tech stuff my husband is into, but i love watching him light up and get all excited when he tries out something new, and i love telling him about whatever new things i've been studying or teaching myself. i also feel pretty happy when i see him teaching himself bass. th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 04:40 PM
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if that's 'BP morality' then you're wrong; tons of TRPers buy into that, and moralize constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 01:15 PM
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yeah, i'd say so. i can't remember the last good one i saw, anyway. well, i think i liked the christopher nolan batman movies. so those were the last ones, then. (i always feel extra old when i can't remember stuff like that, but i've seen countless superhero movies -_- so i forget sometimes...)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 09:58 PM
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this, basically. both groups are big enough that it's hard to say it's just a loss or just a benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 09:41 PM
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yeah, exactly. and if all the threads are going to be related, why not combine them into one big thread? the outrage over this and the incel thread is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 08:52 PM
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and now there's a designated thread to do it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 05:17 PM
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marvel movies in general have been better than DC, but even being unfamiliar with the comics myself, i still enjoyed this one a lot. the story made sense to me, and aside from some poor CG here and there, i didn't have any issues with it. it was pretty cool as a war movie too, to be honest (to me, anyway). speaking of war movies though... i really want to see dunkirk. i'm not into war or history that much... but damn, the trailer looks great.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 01:35 PM
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i really enjoyed it :) the warriors were all so strong and graceful... i envy them! haha. i think that's what drew me to archery too. there's just something really graceful about it, and it requires such skill and training to be good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 07:22 PM
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it's been the center of a lot of controversy, it seems... but DC finally did it; Wonder Woman was awesome 💕. reminds me of how i used to want to take up archery and fencing when i was younger; wish it wasn't so expensive. maybe someday...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 07:03 PM
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well... it won't always help. i can't remember the thread, but someone posted a picture of a ripped guy who wasn't blessed with good or average facial looks, and it didn't save him (not to mention, personality can wreck everything). in general, though, i agree with this. plus, it's so much fun to see your body improve along the way... started weights again a few months ago, and while i have a ways to go, am pleased with the improvements to my arms, legs, butt, and tummy 👍.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 06:41 PM
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windmills and nonsense it is. 👍 not much else to talk about then, if you're going that far out of reality. perhaps a fiction or creative writing sub would be better for such made-up things. no doubt, incels would lap that up too. (P.S. you don't really believe you can silence anyone or tell people not to comment, do you? lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 02:52 PM
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no false equivalence. you answer my questions. then we can talk (since i already know that a reasonable person's answer to my questions will also answer yours). why don't men mention that the traits they appreciate are on women that are already attractive? why don't they say that, say, big butts and boobs are only attractive on women that are small every where else? why are they hiding that information? why don't they tell the truth about it? why, oh why, do you men lie and hide the truth so dam…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 04:54 PM
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seriously. what better way to go around complaining at and policing everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 04:47 PM
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prodigy is a man, he has nothing to be insecure about (not that pointing out a fake photo automatically equals insecurity anyway). that aside, i don't know why you'd challenge women on the tricks that some women use to look more attractive. i mean, if anyone would know... you'd be just as annoyed at girls saying super ripped guys just wake up that way and don't work for it. that's along the same lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 04:00 PM
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why don't men mention that the traits they appreciate are on women that are already attractive? why don't they say that, say, big butts and boobs are only attractive on women that are small every where else? why are they hiding that information? why don't they tell the truth about it? why, oh why, do you men lie and hide the truth so damn much? if they're going to be so dishonest, then they have no room to complain if women follow them around and constantly bitch about their nefarious deception …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 02:44 PM
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sad (but perhaps not surprising) that this has no responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 03:14 AM
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i'm not disagreeing with you at all, and you're not revealing some groundbreaking secret. women here are pretty explicit about that, and several have explained it to you personally. if you choose to continue acting out due to some hang ups from your youth and flip out when women don't state this every time because it's so obvious, then yes, i will laugh and point out how ridiculous that is. i mean, no one here chases the men around when they talk about their preferences, taking every opportunity…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 11:34 PM
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IF AND ONLY IF they reside in a sexually attractive package. IF AND ONLY IF the man is FIRST sexually attractive. and IF AND ONLY IF it's referring to human men that lived or are currently alive in or around earth. i mean, i know that seems like stating the obvious but...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 11:08 PM
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he's asking for opinions; not sure what you think is there to dispute.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 10:20 PM
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yeah, i don't know why they're fixating on the few that pointed out things that could (just potentially) be asshole behaviors. most are either not saying that at all, or just mentioning mild versions of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 09:56 PM
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the objection to this thread seems unnecessary, but... this has nothing to do with insecurity, so you probably shouldn't just cite that as the reason anyone would disagree or critique your posts. people object to things for reasons other than insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 09:55 PM
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indeed... even when conflict does come up, there's something really great about seeing a guy take care of it with wit and words, rather than fists. that is a thing to admire.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 09:20 PM
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i think this is pretty spot-on. i sometimes have a hard time articulating things like this (since to me, it's something i know when i see/experience it) but this sums it up well. as an addition, i find the composed, relaxed, subtle kind of power more attractive than the brash, showy kind (which really just comes off as try-hard to me). some guys here go on and on about how it's super tough and alpha and awesome to be the guy that beats down everyone in the bar and shows 'em who's boss, but that …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 09:10 PM
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yeah, it's rough. i'm sure that's at least one way i'd be the overprotective mom, calling parents and everyone involved in the school, haha (at least, depending on severity, anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 09:08 PM
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it is interesting, for sure (this topic, and bringing up a tiny human). i will probably never forget the first time my nephew woke up from a nap and was able to speak about what he had dreamed of; it seemed so magical to me (and i always got a laugh out of his attempts to negotiate with me when i told him no). but it could also get pretty tiring to entertain him and keep him out of trouble, and involved way more bodily fluids than i ever wanted to deal with. it sucks when you know or think they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:56 PM
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I'm the oldest of 7 siblings, and a very significant portion of my "childhood" was spent fulfilling what should have been parental duties. I consider my current and ongoing years of life to be mine, and want to live them free of such responsibilities. i wonder how many of those not interested in children share this reason, or something similar. i'm the youngest sibling, but some shit happened and i ended up doing a big part of my nephew's raising for a few years, and i think that also factors in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:29 PM
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they're expensive they're messy they're loud they're an immense responsibility i have no strong desire or need for them they're a pretty major physical toll for me however slim, however well-intentioned, i run the risk of repeating bad habits of those who raised me i find myself wanting one every now and then, when i see a cute baby or hang out with a friend's kid and see how great they are, but it's kind of akin to wanting a puppy because it's such a cute thing to look at (but not wanting it to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 06:07 PM
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sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 02:08 PM
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if i were rating on what i thought of them, she'd probably get higher. i thought she was cute too, and somehow seems like she'd be fun to be around (i guess because of her expression).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 02:02 PM
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if you're not a woman, this thread isn't for you. go shitpost in the auto mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 03:53 AM
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not really. even those are pretty significantly different from each other. neither are unattractive, but they have very obvious differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 02:39 AM
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they probably just woke up looking like that, even.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 01:51 AM
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i'm rating these on a first-glance basis (so first impressions from western men in general). 3-4 8-9 8-9 5-6 8-9 7-8 4-5 8-9 7-8
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 01:31 AM
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one of his sons is also good looking, as i found while watching a documentary about them... but he ruined it as soon as he opened his mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 10:02 PM
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i'm pretty sure penny (big bang theory) was the butt of many jokes for not matching the smarts of other characters, and probably still is. i haven't watched it in a while, but she was made fun of for being 'different' just as much as the 'nerdy' guys were. there are sitcoms and TV shows that also follow the "hot-or-smart" rule for female characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 09:31 PM
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/u/LewisCross is not arguing for balloony types and yet, he's posted that picture multiple times in threads. you haven't argued against him about your own damn preferences so i don't expect you to know that, but yeah, he has argued that before. that particular comment was toned down, but in the past it's basically been unfathomable to him that anyone wouldn't drop their pants at first glimpse of that guy. he has absolutely been presented as an ideal before. Which I would agree with. He is clearl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 06:32 PM
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example. how that man could be described as anything but balloony... there are more people throughout that thread (and in past threads) making similar arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 05:41 PM
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probably the one he posted about yesterday, which was also posted before (about the people quietly getting it on during a party). the guy pulled the girl back at one point when people showed up and she tried to move away, so i guess he's fixated on it because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 05:21 PM
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so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 05:17 PM
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to name a few: balloony body builder types someone to pay for everything brash bad boys a doormat a dictator a rapist anything that the women they see at clubs go after anything that they tell themselves women want in order to comfort themselves some women want some of those things to some degrees, no doubt. but they're almost always stated as absolutes or they're just such extreme ways of thinking that it's not even worth discussing or engaging with the person expressing the view.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 04:23 PM
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nope, i didn't. this also rings true for good personalities and smarts, despite objections from RPers when women say they find those things attractive: It's certainly real attraction in the sense that it gets him laid. you may not be one of the ones that complains about this... but there are plenty that do. "it's real attraction when a billionaire is surrounded by models who wouldn't give him a second thought if they passed him on the street otherwise, but it's not real attraction for regular wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 03:21 PM
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if we're able to call that true attraction, then i expect no further complaints or whining when women here say that personality or smarts are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 02:53 PM
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they think we're all lying when we say we're attracted to men who are well above average but don't fit their very specific idea of attractive (fight club brad pitt)... but somehow models and melania are super duper into trump, an aging, unattractive loudmouth, for free. uh... alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 02:45 PM
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Women, do you consider Donald Trump sexually attractive? nope! not in the slightest. his appearance and personality are repulsive. based on what they say about him and/or what they believe women desire, the RPers who say he's supposed to be attractive appear to view his boorishness and lack of grace as positive; a wonderful, bold, aggressive show of masculinity and power. that, coupled with his money and status, makes him irresistible to women in their eyes. no doubt, they can see that he's phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 02:34 PM
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yes, not trolling is hard for some people, we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 05:02 AM
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there was already a thread about this not long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 04:30 AM
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well no, of course it's not just about vacuuming. it just seems like there are people here with standards even below mine, which are fairly normal (so, it's weird to see basic things presented as some sort of horrible or unnecessary task, which would definitely put extra stress and duty on any cohabitants just trying to keep the place from going to absolute shit).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 09:43 PM
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even without pets, vacuuming weekly is pretty standard, isn't it? that doesn't seem unreasonable, dirt tracks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 08:31 PM
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Sometimes childcare is overwhelming, but I signed up for it so I need to do the fucking job to the best of my ability. Its useless to whine that my husband refuses to wake up for night feedings; its not his job, its mine because I agreed to be a mother (with all the responsibility that entails). Likewise it would be silly for my husband to complain that I don't participate in the Big Picture. It's not my wheelhouse, I didn't sign up for the position, he needs to assume responsibility for the rol…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 05:57 PM
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they are definitely both of those things :) i hadn't seen one live before, just in textbooks and things... but i adored it pretty much immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 05:34 PM
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yeah, i find myself surprised when i see normal-sized bugs sometimes. i'm used to roaches being huge and anything yellow, black, and buzzy being something to really fear (thanks, yellowjackets). so, as a result, i'm surprised at how tiny regular roaches are, and my husband laughs when i panic over the occasional honey bee we come across.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 04:52 PM
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so did i :) and i still live here too. i've known people stung by them, and i think my sister might have been stung once... one even was in a classroom when i was a kid, but it was just a different student's unlucky day. i concur, though; there are some awful creepy crawlies in Texas. edit: i did see a little armadillo rooting around for bugs outside my office building the other day, though! some of the critters here are cute, at least...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 04:40 PM
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jeez. i'm glad scorpions are nothing i've ever had to encounter; their stings sound awful. but yeah, if that's not a lesson learned...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 04:09 PM
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interesting... i'm no clean freak, but there are definitely some things i just can't relate to, even having never lived alone before. but, perhaps at least part of it is because cleaning up anything that would be inviting as a hiding place or meal to a tree roach was the preferred choice; they would sneak in at my parents' house every now and then -_- . i've gotten used to small spiders in my own house, but anything different/larger than that... not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 04:01 PM
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fair enough; that's far better than what the first comment sounded like. i've sadly known people who let food covered dishes pile up, and... blech. why.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 03:57 PM
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I am a man that throws his own household without a problem, I cook 2 times a day and do the dishes like every 3 days. contradictory. and assuming that these dishes aren't clean (otherwise why would they be gross?) that's how you get bugs and funky smells. you don't have to be neurotic to manage basic cleaning; this is living 101, like changing your underwear and not leaving wet towels on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 03:52 PM
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But outside of my personal situation, speaking more generally, it seems like women are being raised to become heads of household (strong, independent, "don't need no man"), effectively displacing men from positions that they have traditionally held. i think it's less that women are being raised to be the household heads instead of men, but that they're just being raised as people who will have a lot to manage in their futures, just like men. that's our world now; that's what people need to do. t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 03:42 PM
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it doesn't matter if it's fiction or not; people were asked for their opinions on such a view. people do the same thing asking about this or that change to society; this is no different. you are not the only person on earth who knows who Haruki Murakami is, or what genre he writes. it just doesn't matter for this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 09:07 PM
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i think they get it just fine; they were asked to give their opinions on it, and they did. you can both know that murakami is a fiction author and disagree with the sentiments expressed in the passage, whether or not they're fictional.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 08:56 PM
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i really need to learn spanish... it's the most useful one that i haven't learned -_- haha. that's how french is for me though; i studied it for almost all of high school, so hopefully duolingo will help me brush up on those skills when i switch to that. i seem to like languages with foreign alphabets the most... but italian would also be cool. i want to learn way too many languages :/ .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 02:44 PM
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aw. well, i'm sure it's one of those things that's at least somewhat different in reality, vs. what you'd expect it to be... and even if it's not, i have a friend who made lighthearted jokes about it being weird even when she was pregnant, and she is a super caring and devoted mom, so i'm sure you'll be fine :) .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 01:55 PM
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based on their other responses i'm pretty sure this is just someone pretending to be BP (or woman). the thread about bodybuilders was pretty telling, and most of what they say is just regurgitated TRP/manosphere stuff; no original substance. seconded about thechemist158 though; BP can definitely argue against it and well, i just don't think this thread is a great example of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 12:45 PM
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yeah, keeping up with my reviews now is going to be tough... haha. but i'm gonna do my best. i gave up on French because i just can't devote myself to multiple languages after all, but hopefully i can go back to that someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 11:33 PM
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yeah, it's odd to me that some women approach it as such a normal thing... it's good for them, there's nothing wrong with it per se, i just can't relate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 10:26 PM
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yeah, reading it can be tiring. i have some Japanese games that i can play, but not for long because it wears me out still, haha. the duolingo lessons are still heavily in hiragana even at the end, which is kind of frustrating (since i mistake things i'd know the kanji for). i liked the genki textbook/workbook a lot. it was sort of odd doing them and checking my own answers, but far cheaper than going to school for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 04:14 PM
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i don't think duolingo is great as a first learning source or the only way to learn, but i think it's good for practice or expanding on skills (for example, it's been great for sentence-building and vocab practice/learning). i don't think the Japanese one is much different; it has an 'alphabet' learning section that i don't think other languages would have, but aside from that, much the same. it's is a great supplement, but not the best way to learn a new language on its own; i'd definitely have…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 02:15 PM
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yup! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 02:10 PM
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if they have such poor interpretation skills already... shouldn't be on Reddit at all honestly, unless it's to learn that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 02:08 PM
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no. too paranoid, and i want my relationships to have a better endpoint. we might still be friends, but our goals are different so i'd never date him or get romantically involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 02:06 PM
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weekend goal achieved!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 03:12 AM
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lol, classy. it's not an exclusive list as i'm sure there are important things i'm leaving out but... someone who's laid back, attractive, faithful, reliable, likes to have fun (without minding down-time ways of doing it), has a decent job/income, is generally polite and well-mannered, has ambitions and goals (especially if it's about an interest we share). it's mostly a starting point since specifics will tend to vary depending on the guy, but this is generally what gets my attention. this is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 04:44 AM
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i've never known anyone who moved there (from texas) that didn't move back, for those exact reasons. from their descriptions, life sucked there all around. i visit from time to time for work and vacation, but i could never live there. the only people i know that live there comfortably are high level execs and assistants in my company.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 03:08 AM
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fairly important, but not the be-all, end-all. i was never into hooking up or casual though, so i'm talking strictly LTR. sometimes there are days or times he wants to have sex and i'm not really in the mood, but also not bothered about doing it. in those times, he gets off, and i get an IOU (so to speak). no biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 02:24 AM
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not really. when it was applicable, i'd be really nervous but i would still say something. the only thing similar to this is if i saw an attractive guy and then realized that many other things about him indicated incompatibility or not-my-type-ness. i probably wouldn't have bothered to talk to a guy i thought was cute who was decked out in sports fan-wear, because it shows we likely have little in common (rather than me doing this out of some fear or resignation based on his looks).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 11:35 PM
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they're all in positions of power; 4 indispensable skills. not just 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 05:49 PM
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it sounds similar to that backwards complaint incels throw out sometimes, that women are violating their bodily autonomy by not letting them have sex -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 05:44 PM
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Camilla Pagilla definitely should be someone's next alt username.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 06:54 AM
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permalink doesn't count if you delete the comment so that's why people are quoting you in their own comments instead. you've already deleted some in this thread so far. it's not an honest way of engaging when you delete and deny comments that once existed, so naturally people are going to have other ways of maintaining and noting what was said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 03:40 AM
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school is out?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 03:35 AM
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indispensable = essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 03:34 AM
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stop trolling. thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 02:24 AM
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No, I've never paid for sex. It was girls betting money that they wouldn't stop wanting sex with me. you are talking about yourself; you said elsewhere in this thread and past threads that you made monetary bets with women about whether or not they'd stop sleeping with you. don't want to talk about your situation? don't. you brought it up. i explained plenty in my previous comments; disregard it if you please, but that's your problem, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:57 AM
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we can talk about real life or we can talk about the scenario in the OP, but not both. they are wildly different situations and i will not discuss them as if they are the same. sex and attraction don't work that way. you want them to, but they don't. stop making weird deals with women that are unlikely to succeed or pan out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:39 AM
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Women don't exactly respect agreements when it comes to sex this isn't a discussion about the scenario in the OP anymore, so we're talking about something completely different. that said, i don't know what agreements you're talking about. and don't pay men when they owe him money for not fucking him anymore. of course not. they don't owe him money; that's dumb. even if they said they would pay, he is not owed. that's a shitty move, but he is not owed money. they are not in his debt. Why should m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 12:55 AM
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if they set up an agreement, a completely equal exchange of services between the four of them, then yeah, he's obligated to hold up his end of it. they were, after all. he was already getting what he had agreed to, and what he had been offered. besides, i'm pretty sure doctors take the hippocratic oath, so... there's also that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 12:42 AM
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no, they're completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 12:22 AM
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it's certainly not immoral. if they were doing it out of spite then i'd think it was kinda shitty, but as described in the OP, nothing immoral about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 12:13 AM
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yes, he's being immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 11:51 PM
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OP has been disagreeing with me on which sex is more hormonal. yes. it's not an issue. It is just scientific fact that both genders are hormonal. Where is even the debate in that? exactly! you're arguing something that isn't even a part of this by trying to make it a contest, but that's not necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 08:10 PM
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of course it does! your dismissal of anything but enthusiastic agreement surprises no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:41 PM
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then go make your own thread. that's not the assertion being made here by anyone but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:24 PM
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I don't know, I mean he's really charming, and we share the same interests, and we have mutual attraction... I just don't know how to solve this little problem we have. not really. she's not into him because he acts like a toddler and yells "ay, shuddup!" all the time. she doesn't think that makes him a hot, dominant, high-value man. she's trying to determine if she can tolerate that behavior given all of his other positive traits (which are things i don't see TRPers caring all that much about).…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:23 PM
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You want me to give you a list of doctors who say that women are more moody than men? I am saying women are, on average, more sensitive and emotional than men. Therefore they are often more moody. you are obsessed with bringing up this side-point (that is yours only, not part of the OP) and trying to make people agree with your beliefs, but it's not happening. i'm sure there are subs where you could find the agreement and positive feedback you're seeking, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:04 PM
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who said men are more moody than women? you're backtracking now, and also bringing up things that have no relevance and were never part of the discussion to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:46 PM
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who said men are more moody than women? as far as i can tell, that's not the subject here at all; it's hormonal, and saying that men and women are both hormonal even though it might manifest outwardly in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:07 PM
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who said men are more moody than women? as far as i can tell, that's not the subject here at all; it's hormonal, and saying that men and women are both hormonal even though it might manifest outwardly in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:59 PM
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who cares? if it's dumb to you, just ignore it. no one's making you read it or participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:58 PM
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seriously, so many jokes made about hillary getting upset and releasing bombs or starting wars, just because she's a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:55 PM
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You are making a false equivalence between quick temperateness and aggravation (aggressive behaviors) and moody behaviors such as.... short temper, full on rage going to second her "trolling or unable to articulate".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:50 PM
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probably because there's no point discussing something so ridiculous and fake-seeming, and also because everyone's tired of pointing out that BP is not an ideology, or similar to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 09:51 PM
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Sebastian Stan <3
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 08:33 PM
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you're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 08:31 PM
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some days, we're all accused of being outraged about it, others, we're accused of loving it... reds also can't be consistent on their accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 06:44 PM
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moving it to auto-mod since it's off-topic but re: the discussion of reading curriculum above... am a little excited about this). the book (and animated movie) were both mildly disturbing in high school, but despite that... i enjoyed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 04:45 PM
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they like it, they assume they'll get something in return, or they are getting something in return. can't think of any other potential reasons. it's not something i've personally experienced; i got gifts and dates sometimes, but nothing too extravagant (which is fine; it would probably make me uncomfortable to be showered with expensive things that i couldn't get myself or really return the favor for).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 12:37 PM
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i was talking about these pictures specifically, as they're the example OP gave. stop following me around and accusing me of this "women are wonderful effect" nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 05:40 AM
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then why didn't you? it's your thread, that's your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 05:09 AM
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bah, you're right. i thought maybe they were somehow meant to represent the same country, just as multiple examples or something. should have known it was just only a part being presented in comparison to all the men -_- here's an article with a full view of the 'average(d) woman' pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 03:21 AM
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i don't make statements like what you've described above, but even if i did, i doubt i'd care enough to go through all this. i don't even think it'll actually prove anything, because anyone can selectively present 'evidence' from something like this. you could, someone else could. whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 03:17 AM
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shh shhh. don't be that person. i didn't ask for help and that wasn't the point of the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 02:29 AM
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i don't care what they say, because it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 02:28 AM
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i don't think most of those average men are unattractive. the women from the photos are more attractive than the men though, IMO. were those from the same study/group?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 02:25 AM
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i appreciate that at least part of the thread inevitably turns into a discussion about hotties though 👍 way more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 01:28 AM
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if you know that they're referring to the extreme type of muscular man, i don't know why you have such beef with them saying this. it's not as if they're insisting they love obese men. in fact, i don't doubt that they're well aware that an athletic build takes athletic activity to achieve. it doesn't come up in conversation because a) it's obvious they're talking about a high amount of muscle rather than normal fitness which b) makes it pointless for them to go into a deep analysis of what they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 04:55 PM
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don't start personally insulting me; that's foolish. don't pretend i said women do no wrong either; also foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 02:37 PM
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this is not what happens. (most) women point out that they don't prioritize muscle as highly as other traits or find themselves attracted to the roidy gym rat meathead types that TRP idolizes, but they don't say they dislike fit men or men with some muscle tone. in the most recent one i can remember, the before and after pics were both unattractive so that thread is hardly proof of anything. same goes for any other question that asks "which of these two things you dislike do you dislike the leas…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 02:30 PM
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Correct. And if one stops attracting the other, suddenly they're "incompatible". whether the attraction was one-sided in the beginning or afterward, the loss of mutual attraction is still an incompatibility. it doesn't matter when. You're making shit up. Quote me or stop. i'm not. and i don't need to quote you, because i said the whole thread (though i wasn't referring just to you, just this time; lots of people do it). If I were to chill out and get boring and then she decided to cheat on me, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 03:09 AM
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i do; there are female sub members that get reported as well. it's true, however, that the men here tend to get outraged and attack people more than the women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 03:06 AM
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if two people aren't mutually attracted/desirable to each other, that in itself is an incompatibility. a lot of what i see here is common general TRPer response, and IMO, expresses a kind of insecurity (which is rooted in fear). dismissing others to an absolute degree, assuring oneself that you're right, repeating what you already believe like some sort of mantra chant. your beliefs are the only right ones, and there is no possible way that anything real can challenge or exist outside of them. n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 11:38 PM
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why do you keep asking this same question in different wordssssssss
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 08:48 PM
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and despite thinking that of them, (general) your whole world revolves around them, desperately, extremely, tragically. says much about you, not so much about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 06:24 PM
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what a creepy comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 06:13 PM
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