uvmovb Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
148	I realized most of my dating behaviours stem from some form of self-harm	DISCUSSION	uvmovb	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/21 05:46 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Why does this man feel the need to go out of his way to ask for pats on the back for something so mundane. Wow congrats you have empathy which is the bare minimum we expect from people. Idk gives me nice / woke boi vibes notice how he’s worried about “saddling himself with problems” by getting involved and isnt actually worried about her at all	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/21 03:03 PM
9	The fucking audacity to think porn can fix anything when you already can't get it up for your wife... Holy shit. “Might have something to do with me being a porn addict. Sounds like more porn should do the trick”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/21 11:00 PM
6	Hypocrisy of men: Women are not allowed to kink-shame, but they are allowed to boundary shame women?! literally WHY is it controversial to say “I don’t want to have sex with men who get pleasure from hurting me”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/21 10:40 PM
2	I realized most of my dating behaviours stem from some form of self-harm Thank you for the recommendation! I have been trying to find a therapist who will work with me on trauma and attachment, but the counsellors that are covered by my healthcare system won’t do it and I can’t pay for a private therapist :/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 08:25 AM
4	I realized most of my dating behaviours stem from some form of self-harm The amount I blamed myself for the mistreatment and abuse was insane. It took me so long to get out from under that mindset, it makes me really sad to think about all the other girls going through the exact same thing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 07:43 AM
3	I realized most of my dating behaviours stem from some form of self-harm Thank you for the recommendation! I’m definitely going to put conscious effort into staying single for at least this year or until I feel somewhat whole.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 07:41 AM
2	I realized most of my dating behaviours stem from some form of self-harm Thank you! I’m finally letting myself be proud of the fact that I left him and I won’t look down on myself for everything that I endured anymore. I only recently joined this sub, and honestly. It’s been so fucking nice to read things from women who actually, really, love and prioritize themselves.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 07:37 AM
2	I realized most of my dating behaviours stem from some form of self-harm Thank you, I’ll try to get a copy!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 07:32 AM
7	I realized most of my dating behaviours stem from some form of self-harm I completely agree. For context, I had completely repressed the sexual abuse that happened in my childhood as an adult, I kept hopping from relationship to shitty relationship, I was a camgirl for a period, and I would seek out degrading sex as if it was some sort of compulsion. And it was, in a way, since I wast just rerouting my past self harm to more subtle methods. It’s been a rough few years while I avoided coming to that realization. I’m still trying to come to terms with it. Thank you for…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 07:32 AM
2	If your partner does this, RUN in the opposite direction. This is abuse and a power play. i’m always embarrassed talking to men while walking with them because I feel out of breath from trying to keep up with them and I can barely talk without taking breaks for air. It happens just as often with my male friends and yet almost never with my female friends.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/21 05:25 PM
1	Not to be a downer but things just feel bleak right now, very grateful for this community of women ❤️ This put into words how I’ve been feeling for the past few months. Even people who I trusted and loved are invalidating my feelings and constantly pulling the “not all men” card or finding some way to make this women’s faults, because they’re sex workers or because they’re “angry man haters” or whatever. It makes me feel sick constantly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 04:34 PM
1	Thank you FDS you aren’t pathetic! i actually fully cut off my abusive ex yesterday after a whole year of manipulation and despair.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 06:29 PM