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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
29	How attractive do you usually find your female friends' boyfriends/situationships/fwb/ons?	Question For Women	uwuskincare	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/23 04:30 AM

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2	All the kerfuffle about "older men with younger women" overlooks what is possibly the biggest reason why it happens: Younger women often aren't looking for relationships. The attributes that make a woman attractive tend to be things that take time to acquire: a curvaceous body (gym), a successful career to afford plastic surgery and a sexy wardrobe, strong make up skills, submission skills / charisma, a reputation as a "loyal woman".	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 04:53 AM
1	But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls? Same	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 06:57 AM
2	A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem. What's funny is a guy has pulled this on me before. Anti-hookup culture, didn't want to have sex. He said other girls have gotten upset when he said he won't. He did get insecure about if I had hooked up with anyone else while we were waiting. I didn't mind waiting though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 05:57 AM
-1	A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring. Yo I have also thought about stuff like this. I'm always wondering why we have the culture we do and how it could change to fit our new reality (modern resource abundance, agriculture instead of hunter/gathering, property rights/individualism instead of communal ownership, legal system is pretty robust, racism/sexism are reducing, now we can verify paternity, now we have birth control) Still even though culture can change, we have to work around certain biological instincts (which tbh can contra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 07:51 AM
1	A combination of male and female imperative requires complete social restructuring. That rat experiment sounds interesting, where could I learn more about it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 07:34 AM
1	Are women more biologically predisposed to homosexuality? I don't think women are more predisposed to homosexuality in a biological sense. If anything, men tend to be hornier so it would make more sense that they would act on what little bisexuality they may have. Men are also generally more proactive in pursuing their sexual interests than women are. There are more bi women than bi men but more gay men than lesbians. This is probably because it's more acceptable to be a bi woman than a bi man. Also as this subreddit discusses a lot: men are much slutt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 01:45 AM
2	Why is there no #TradHusband movement? Most people need to work out of necessity. Also let's not pretend that working in the home isn't work. Cleaning, cooking, doing dishes and laundry... caring for children... it's work. Most couples can't afford one partner to only do this forever. Usually they have to work too. Maybe she can be a stay at home wife for a few years when the kids are little. Not many men can afford a tradwife and support a family on one income. And a lot of tradwives still have to work really hard... but it's for fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 01:53 AM
0	Men don’t actually like “good” women I like your perspective on this	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 08:30 AM
–	The worst quality for a good man to have is Empathy Reminds me of my ex a bit. The go with the flow attitude, deference to my desires got actually so annoying. The only kind of people that can tolerate a doormat long term are just ok with using people selfishly, which are not the people you want to be around. And you can't exactly expect people to mind read, so you have to want things from your partner and communicate that. They do the same. You're compatible if you're both comfy with the requests.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 08:15 AM
7	Why is there no #TradHusband movement? Why would guys want to be a trad husband when they can make the woman go 50/50, pay half the bills, but she still does more of the chores, child rearing, emotional labor, household management and cooking? Oh and she gives him more orgasms than he's ever given her. She even fakes it too so he can feel better about himself. Yeah I don't see why a man wants to be a provider unless he especially wants to isolate and control a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 07:57 AM
3	When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women? I didn't come up with it, it's something I read about. There's a wikipedia page about it even haha I think the type of people in the dating pool changes over time, because certain people leave and generally people just mature over time. This is true for men and women. The original poster does seem a bit deluded to not mention that a lot of men left over in their 30s would also have problems too. A bitter incel isn't like... a catch. ever. If you struggle with dating while young, age won't necess…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 07:51 AM
4	When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women? Yeah survivorship bias really confuses people's conclusions	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 04:26 AM
10	What are women's motivations for wanting casual sex only? Dude you're literally so crazy commenting this over and over again. When people say sex is fun - yes there are always conditions too. Like being in the mood, feeling safe, feeling like you can be vulnerable with this person etc. If someone says 'chocolate is tasty!' that doesn't mean they eat every chocolate bar they see, no matter how hungry they are. If someone says 'kissing is fun' that doesn't mean they kiss literally every pair of lips they can. Yeah there is some overlap between a dude who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 10:01 AM
3	Do you think people are naturally attracted to people that look like them? Actually I think it's more like you're attracted to the people you had exposure to growing up. I'm white and always end up with asian guys probably because my school/local area was majority asian.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 07:31 AM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear Don't women live longer tho?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 07:21 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Adoption is not a solution. If I'm explaining why men are not designed by evolution to be as committed to children as women are yet all children need the resources and nurturing of TWO parents, then you still have the same problem. Also a lot step fathers/fathers who adopt turn into predators or simply don't treat the kid well. Childfree is nice but it would be even nicer if men were committed nurturing pretty providers like women already are. You may not like it but this is what men are suppose…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 07:11 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread "only a short amount of time" Bro what are you on about. A short amount of time is actually: all the absent fathers who do NOTHING for their kids men who only take the kids on the weekends men who pay bare minimum child support (the mom has to work and probably contributes more financially anyways!) the men who have an mancave, office, shed, garage, whatever they hide in while the mom has to do 90% of child care. "But she gets the kitchen!" Yeah where the children can always bother her and she's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 07:04 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I hope society moves in that direction but honestly greed, selfishness and a lack of empathy realistically indicates it wouldn't happen. It's a lot easier to feel your own pain than for someone else to fully understand it too and selflessly compensate for it. At least birth control, plan B and safer abortions (in some places :/) are around now... so women have actual agency in mate selection (for the first time in thousands of years).	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 06:45 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread This reminds me of a post I wanted to make about how women just get the short end of the stick always and forever. And especially in a species like humans where children are sooo much work. Females of all species (except the sea horse) are investing more resources / time commitment into the offspring than the males. Eggs are more costly to make than sperm, so even female fish get to be picky. Compared to fish, human women put SO MUCH MORE ON THE LINE. (men still just donate some sperm- about the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 07:52 AM
1	What's with all the generalization? Yet at the same time complaints of conflict is because humans are not monoliths "Only individuals can be hypocrites." frfrfr	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 07:18 AM
6	If people are only attracted to people they cannot lock down, is it a sign of lack of self respect, likely? TBH it is a bad sign if you're only into people that are unavailable. The foundation of a connection is mutual attention/interest, so when people keep trying to lock someone down that is clearly not interested or is just using them... they probably need to self reflect on why they do that. Most people get used or strung along a few times to learn how to set better standards for themselves to find a real partner. AKA: it doesn't matter how awesome or hot someone is if they lack loyalty, commitmen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 07:11 AM
6	Do you think you can actually sense misogyny? spoiler alert: women are different. People are different. Women want different things from men, have different standards, different goals, different attitudes about sex/feminism/politics/sexism. Some women are happier alone and others need a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 07:00 AM
2	I think the majority of men are unattractive in large part because of their high bodyfat % I totally agree that women carry fat a lot better than men (only up to a point tho - like maybe 20 pounds over is fine on a woman but on a man just is... not good). Women store fat in more places than men, some of which are desirable places to have extra fat, like boobs, ass, maybe thighs too. I literally don't know where you could add 20 pounds of fat to a man without tanking his attractiveness. Do men even have genes to store fat in the ass??? Even in other animals we can see this. I used to h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 06:52 AM
22	What do you think about the moms who refuse DNA paternity testing? Would you refuse one yourself and if so what would be your reason or reasons? I understand how some women can get offended by it. Like some guys don't want their gf looking through their phone to see if he's cheating- it's just a lack of trust that feels shitty. I'm going to 23&me all my children so the parentage would be easy to verify.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 06:39 AM
7	So many people try to make women give honest feedback to men, but it's just rude and unsafe With guns available to both genders, it's still men being more violent than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 06:29 AM
1	Do you guys/gals actually want advice? What are you looking for here? Debate. Seeing new perspectives and ideas. Laughing at ridiculous out of touch people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 06:24 AM
1	If you are unattractive, chances are it has NOTHING to do with your weight 70% of people in the USA are overweight or obese. Most of those fat people are ugly underneath the fat, yet it's still super obvious that being ugly and fit is much better than fat and ugly. It's how you stand out from the crowd (the crowd is 70% fat and ugly). Maybe you can bag a pretty fat person or fit ugly person now - instead of just a fat ugly person like you used to be before. Also being fit is just good for your health - but hey maybe some people enjoy the limited mobility, chronic pain …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 06:22 AM
2	What is your absolute ideal man and why? My ideal guy would be monogamous, at least 5'8" with a nice jawline, nice hair and an overall attractive build/appearance. He would be smart, funny, extroverted, authentic, positive, confident, humble, adventurous, curious and a good dad. He would be fit, active and health-conscious. He takes care of his appearance (skin care, sunscreen, nice fashion). We have the same hobbies/interests/values. A stable income would be great. He has to adore kids, plants and animals. Oh also he should be playful…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 06:56 AM
3	How attractive do you usually find your female friends' boyfriends/situationships/fwb/ons? relentlessly bully Dude... women aren't bullying each other over dating average to unattractive men. Friends are actually pretty supportive as long as your guy makes you happy. What's clear from this thread is Women are into different types of guys so your friends aren't that likely to be into your guy Women still keep dating these men even if their friends don't think they're 'attractive' (there is no hive mind lol women are still dating the "unattractive" men talked about on this thread) It se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/23 09:44 PM
27	Does female bonding sound as artificial as I think it does? Or is this how women genuinely feel? Never keep a nice thought to yourself :) Living by this makes the world a lot brighter imo so I love when I get that energy from other women and when I give it out too	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/23 04:07 AM
2	Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"? You didn't understand anything I wrote I guess. I never said men care about women's career, eq or hobbies. I said women care about that in men when looking for a long term partner. And I told you my experience. Which was NOT doing more for the hotter guy. I did more for the longterm guys than short term. And I've literally cancelled a hookup with probably the hottest guy I've ever matched with because he was an annoying douchey entitled dickwad. Like no dude I won't fuck you in your car because …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/23 03:49 AM
2	Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"? Here's a data point: I've only have done wild sex acts in LTR, not with ONS. I cared much more about pleasing my ex bf than any fwb or ons because i loved him and felt safe with him. There's more sex during LTR so you can really explore everything and try new things together. I think a lot of guys don't get that at a certain point when you've both had a bit of a sexual history, you're going to have tried some things you didn't end up liking. I learned I don't like doggy style for example... I th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 06:17 AM
2	Would you date a bisexual? Maybe I worded that weird but like I said I would date a bi guy as long as I trust him to be loyal, he's never been obsessed with casual sex and he assures me he doesn't need any men in his life, just me. Which is also what I would expect if I dated a girl too lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 07:35 AM
0	Would you date a bisexual? I'm a bi woman and I would date a bi man but my concerns would be Is he used to having casual sex with men? It's a lot easier to find hookups with men than women... so there are more opportunities to cheat. Like most straight dudes download tinder and get no action even if they want to cheat (unless he's pretty hot). A bi dude doesn't have to be hot to get action on grindr. Also hookups are more lowkey on grindr than tinder... so it's probably easier to hide. Will he maintain attraction to me, (…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 02:00 AM
11	The source of all male dating woes has to do with women’s core maternal drive being genetically mutated out of the gene pool. As a result male sperm has zero value. Yeah humans have created a different world we didn't evolve for. Humans don't want babies. We evolved to crave sex and pair bonding thennnn oops a baby happens. And if a baby is here we care for it because they're cute and cry in a way that triggers parental instincts. Now with birth control, condoms and abortions, women and men can have fun without a baby popping out. Wow so much sex not many babies Humans also love food. And have created food that is more calorie dense and nutrient poor than e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 03:56 AM
4	CMV - if you don’t have a strong social circle, you have no right to complain about the dating market being unfair I feel like ceramics can often have a good gender ratio. Gardening too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 08:08 PM
5	What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share? I'm curious what periods in time these studies measure happiness, because I could see women being happier when suddenly being a 'stay at home' mom took less time and effort because of washing machines/dish washers/pre-made food etc. Also birth rates going down made being a mother easier too. So for a few decades being a stay at home mom turned into a 'half job' (compared to before) Lol my grandma literally got a part time job because she was so bored at home (after the kids were mostly self-suff…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 11:13 PM
1	If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied? The evolutionary advantage could be on a societal level rather than strictly biological. If women only had children with the best men... like top 30-10%, then many men would not have much incentive to contribute to society. With women distributed more evenly, more men are contributing to the next generation because they have a stake in it (kids). Cultures that impose this "constrained female sexuality" might even outcompete other cultures that don't. Also there is such thing as inefficiency in e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 08:34 AM
–	Q4W: does “size” make up for height, & vice versa? I'd pick athletic tall guy but the other option isn't bad either. Height and dick size don't matter that much to me, but I really like when a guy works out or plays a sport. I've hooked up with guys who are like three inches and it wasn't an issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 06:32 AM
2	Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it? I guess the longest was like a year? I have no plans to hook up with men again... I don't like penetration (at it's best it's whatever, and at worst it hurts a lot). I honestly don't know how some girls just jump into bed with men (even if they are hot) when a vibrator is just better. I miss cuddling though... that's really all I get cravings for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 08:31 PM
4	SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILL I agree with the other commenter that top 5% of tinder men have enough options to be honest with women and still get sex. Average men are desperate and will lie to women they wouldn't date just for sex. Women feel used when misled/lied to in order to get sex, then the guy dips. I can also see feeling used if you make the guy have a great time, he can't get you off, you feel pain afterwards and he doesn't etc it's like a shitty trade deal :/ which might only feel acceptable if you have an ongoing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/23 04:35 AM
3	Do men actually have it better dating wise ? Smashing as a man vs getting smashed as a girl are very different. It comes down to just the difference between male parts and female parts. If you are a girl and your guy is selfish or incompetent then you're in for a very bad time. If you are a guy and your girl is selfish or incompetent, then you just fuck her while she starfishes. This is why there is such an orgasm gap in hetero sex. Not to mention girls deal with pregnancy risk, the possibility of their partner overpowering them, a decreas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 03:06 AM
1	Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours? I don't agree with your last two points. Men with ADHD are fun and usually more interesting/high energy. Depends on the mental illness I guess, some definitely detract. I don't think I could date someone who won't play my fav games with me and my friends. And people who travel a lot can be so pretentious about it so idk I think traveling is cool but I would care more about what a guy does daily.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 04:45 AM
2	Men Are Hornier than Women (Effortpost Version) Good write up. You're right about K selection theory, but clearly our species doesn't function like lizards where it's just a pump and dump, never to see the dad again. It can happen, but I think concealed ovulation/pair bonding are counter balances to that so that dads stick around with their woman, because human babies are such liabilities for so long that they need high parental investment from both parents, especially historically when life was much tougher. If women need men to stick around…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 08:53 PM
5	Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on). Yeah there are transactional women who use men for resources. There are transactional guys who use girls for sex but won't commit and don't care about them. Despite these types existing in both genders, there are plenty of normal people that just want to find a cute best friend to spend their lives with. Also yeah women are inherently more valuable, because they invest more into children (pregnancy/breast feeding). It's why across the animal kingdom the males are the ones who have to compete/dan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 07:36 AM
3	Q4W: Are you more attracted to a "naturally" attractive man than the one who "learned" to become attractive? I'd be more attracted to the previously shy/awkward guy because he put more work/effort in. It's like the difference between a self made rich person and a nepo baby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 07:11 AM
1	Feminism Discussion Weekly Discussion Thread Flashy-Country-800 So you're a TERF? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 07:29 AM
1	Bisexual women, what kinds of women behaviors are annoying or straight up nonsense to you? That could be, I mean it certainly is easier to hook up with another man as a man than to get a woman into bed. Hooking up with mostly men could lead bi men into mostly gay relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 03:59 AM
6	Bisexual women, what kinds of women behaviors are annoying or straight up nonsense to you? More men like women than women like women so yeah the odds are that bi women will end up with men. The vast majority of people that are into bi women are men :0 math is SO crazy!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 10:46 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread doesn't make a difference	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/23 08:12 AM
1	Men committing to LTR are in a huge disadvantage if the LTR ends Or maybe reduce alimony to cover the costs of a cheap hooker/fleshlite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/23 04:38 AM
3	What did you open up about that caused the end of the relationship? Sorry to hear that, you deserved to be treated better	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/23 04:00 AM
1	Signals it's over I might have seen the other side of this, not in my relationships but I have a female friend who has had at least three guys she was seeing end up using her like a therapist. They needed constant validation, were insecure without making progress, weren't able to be vulnerable with anyone else so she was doing all their emotional labor. I think a lot of guys keep this side of them locked up and don't use their friends for emotional support, so when they get in a relationship they end up dumping a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/23 01:08 AM
1	Do you think the majority of women are significantly more open to experimenting sexually depending on a man’s perceived status/value? If a girl is really hot and sort of out of your league, would you let her peg you? Would you be willing to go down on her for so long that your jaw cramps up? Would you be more likely to take her to a fancy restaurant, spend money on her, do things for her, even uncomfortable things...? It's not that hard to understand, it's just pretty privilege. Also I don't know why men are so into anal, tbh I think they just like the status of it, that a woman would be willing to do something painful/uncomfo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 08:04 PM
1	Those of you who participate(d) in “hookup culture,” do you think it has benefited you or harmed you overall? I have only had one hookup, one fwb and one long term relationship in my life. I think the pair bonding thing is bullshit, and if it is true, should be true for both genders. I also have plenty of friends who have had hookups, fwb and relationships. None of them have lost their ability to pair bond lol and were not harmed from their experiences. I do think hookups are generally much better for men, in terms of low risk to their safety and high likelihood of pleasure. Women still can get a lot ou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 02:17 AM
2	Only thing that make men need women more is sex I really like your comment! I would also add that women often use sex/attention from men as a form of validation. Tbh I think the reason women don't hook up/seek casual sex as much as men is because of safety risks/pregnancy risks/lower probability of orgasm/higher probability of pain. If random hookups had the same pleasure/risk probabilities for women as men, then I think women would use this avenue for validation more often. (Of course it's a bit toxic for any person to import all of their se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 02:40 AM