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uxl/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/15 03:10 PM
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Everybody wants to read the side bar, nobody wants to lift. Everybody starts lifting, nobody keeps it up. Etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 02:16 PM
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My blood pressure was raised. That video stressed me out. I got angrier and angrier that management didn't kick her out. And I desperately wanted a cop to arrive and watch the video. I hope that blue whale is watching this. I'll do my part and share.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/17 10:47 AM
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The biggest indicator that you are actually succeeding at RP is the feeling of total freedom to leave. If you're not feeling that freedom, then you haven't cultivated abundance (and therefore, the felt certainty of options) in your life for yourself. RP doesn't mean not wanting it to work out; RP means being able to laugh it off if it doesn't. And the only way you can laugh off a feeling of intimate rejection (and/or plausible betrayal) is if you have a felt knowledge in your bones that there ar…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 03:22 AM
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How did you get your foot in the door as a copywriter without the relevant degree or experience? How much can a copywriter expect to make at first, and how long did it take you to hit six figures?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 12:43 PM
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Those who use guns immorally are the ones that get the rest of society all panicky and bent on taking them away from the rest of us. Yet the gun is amoral, and without the right to its proper use, many people would be led to ruin. ...some familiar?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/16 10:00 PM
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The truth hurts. Fitness is not equal to attractiveness. Attractiveness directly depends on whether you look like a sculpture or a lump of clay. Speaking as a fit lump of clay, myself. :/
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/16 08:44 PM
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Wow. Sub-30 for an obstacle 5k sounds insane, to me. I feel good about running a 5k at under 30 minutes, period. With obstacle courses to slow me down?! I know the goal is attainable, but it seems like that would be for intensely serious trainers who put in 1-2 hours a day of training instead of the average schedule (3-4 days a week @30-60 minutes a day for lifting and/or cardio)
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/16 08:42 PM
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I made a huuuuuuuge mistake in my RP practice. Last year I continued to overhaul my whole life (successfully); spun plates, found a LTP, etc. Without my intent, the LTP basically became an LTR because she made herself immediately and constantly available for sex - amazing, porn-star sex. Through this beautiful girl, I lived out every dirty, crazy fantasy Ive ever had. I didn't LTR because she was the only one for me, the LTR just sort of happened because there simply was never any time for any o…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 02:04 PM
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Figured it would be an interesting conversation. Wasn't really looking for an answer so much as a convo on the topic.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 04:39 AM
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OP, you can be determined to be superior to that man, but in the mean time, this is the best answer. Next. Focus on you, and don't be a cuck to a plate's disrespect.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 12:54 AM
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Good job being honest with yourself and the sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/16 11:26 AM
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Tease her when she's good. Roll your eyes and walk away when she's bad. Praise her only when she's gone over the top to impress. Showcase fierce/aggressive loyalty if someone BESIDES YOU disrespects her. Disrespect /embarrass her in trivial/minor ways in public (falls in line with teasing only a bit more on the devilish side rather than the playful side). Don't let her have power over your stuff (bratty little sisters need careful monitoring when they have the privilege of touching or using your…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/16 10:24 PM
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Guess I'm just lucky in that department, lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 03:44 PM
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...foot powder?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 03:22 PM
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If you've lurked here so long, you should already know that you can only control you, and you need to NGAF about anything else once your shit is together and you've alpha'ed up. Do ensure adequate sleep? Is your shit together? Do you have abs of steal, a good job, and a calm disposition that effortlessly keeps its cool when other frames crack and splinter? Are you organized, driven, and leading your own life with a proactive plan of continuous improvement on every front? Are you your own man, wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/16 02:45 AM
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The main TRP sub sometimes seems like it straight up wants to either be celibate and woman-hating on the one hand, or begging for STI's on the other. I'm extremely thankful for it, and the progress I've made because of it, but it's hard not to understand the negativity blasted on it. There are too many examples of obviously pathetic guys stuck in anger-mode to counterbalance the quality posters. I don't know anything about purple pill but the implication of even remotely remaining blue pill make…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 02:18 PM
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SLEEEEEEEEP. The first and presupposed, NUMBER ONE rule upon which successful implementation of every other rule depends.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 07:43 PM
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I'm trying to figure out, based on OP, you're comparing the woman to the lake or the man...
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 03:46 PM
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Super depressing. Very thankful you tried, however. As a man whose life would still be shit had someone not broken protocol for me, I am all about making calculated attempts to right the wrongs of this world. Oh, and now is as good a time as any to thank you, personally. Like a Gideon Bible, your book remains in the drawer of the nightstand by my bed (from which I tap out this message at this very moment). It has been over a year. Down 10" around the waist, up 10 pull-ups around the gym, increas…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 11:23 AM
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"I didn't really want to go and asked her if I had to." Huh? MRP 101, you're the boss of your own life. This is such a glaring problem, and you mention it so casually, that I have to imagine there are/were a lot of other issues going on as well. Be your own man, the boss of your own life, and attract other people into your frame. If you don't want to go to something, you just say you're not interested, like, "Nah, I don't want to go. Have fun though!" If it's truly important to her, you won't ne…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 03:58 AM
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*how alpha men disagree.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 09:14 PM
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It's really, really, REALLY fucking hard balancing the RP attraction theory with the comfort/emotional needs of a woman in an LTR. Once you get the hang of being alpha, it's responsibly incorporating/rationing the beta traits that becomes both scary and difficult. Honestly, I wish there was some subsection of the sub, or at least a tag, that focused on how to be beta. The Married Man's Sex Plan has a great section on that.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 08:03 PM
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Someone hasn't been paying attention...
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 09:52 PM
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This post is not about how he got into the situation, it's about a proposed theory of strategy in response to it. I commend OP.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 09:51 PM
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It just seems painful. And a little gross, conceptually. I mean, I'll do it (last time was about a week ago), but I don't think of it as a test unless I know she's into it or personally enjoys it. TBH, I think the discovery that a girl was really into it or enjoyed it might be a red flag for me.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 01:06 PM
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Don't you get it? They are examples of immoral men taking the amoral red pill. Being alpha doesn't mean being a solipsistic prick.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 02:44 PM
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Sexuality and Authority in the Catholic Church, by Monica Migliorino Miller. Explores the psychological, philosophical, and theological reasoning behind gender roles and Catholic authority structures. Interesting in terms of RP theory and its unspoken history in the world, even for people with no interest in Christianity. The Tao of Pooh - Benjamin Holt. Helped me implement Taoist philosophy into practical daily life, which I found personally beneficial. The 5 Love Languages - Gary Chapman. Revo…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 12:40 AM
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You say "how much do you need to know to see if you can let it go?" Then you say exactly that much. Otherwise, you are storing up for yourself a world of hurt.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/16 01:51 AM
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Yup! This seems like a desperate ploy to secure commitment from the alpha. "Uh-oh, this is what happens if you keep me casual!"
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 06:30 PM
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I'm impressed that you resisted the urge to mock her or water the seeds of self-loathing. It's the audacity of telling you and trying to get a jealous reaction that's particularly annoying. You handled it perfectly. It would (or will) be great if she accidentally discovered a hotter chick fucking you at some point soon.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 06:27 PM
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OP, it's important that this post sinks in; it will help you move on. Sounds like your wife was a hell of a woman - and that means she always will be in your heart - but she was not perfect, nor was she the only one for you. Know what else? She wasn't even the best. None of them are. There are billions of options on this planet. The odds of finding the "best" are laughable. We only ever find "good enough". And you know what? That's great. That's blissful. My advice is to spin plates for awhile, …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/16 12:43 PM
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THIS. I have three kids. Whenever they beg for me to do one more push-up while on my back, I can't resist. I always am pushed to total failure.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 02:49 AM
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Not every woman fucked the college football team. That's why you employ a thorough vetting process and take a great deal of time in determining LTR material. Personally, I'm not persuaded that virgins are the best LTR material. I think typical virgins may have too much curiosity to find out what else is out there (a curiosity that doesn't fully go away ever, but is obviously amplified in the inexperienced). I think 2-4 prior LTR's is a good range for a girl, but it requires some detective work a…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/16 11:20 PM
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He should only even consider getting back with her after she and he both know they've been fucking other people for a solid year or two. One of my old plates told me that, while on a brief "break" from her LTR, she fucked FOUR OTHER GUYS. Holy shit. OP, your girl is in college, and in a sorority. She is going to, at least occasionally, be a huuuuuge fucking whore. She will make at least a few guilty-pleasure memories of being a total slut. Probably a threesome at some point, maybe even a devil's…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/16 02:11 PM
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I would bet money that she is feeling guilty for AT THE VERY LEAST making out with some other guy at a party or club or something. High likelihood she's already had sex because she had one drink and thus was "super drunk" and the guy was "super forward", so she just sort of "was there" while it happened.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/16 01:51 PM
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THIS. You know the last time I heard a girl say that to her boyfriend over the phone (I'm being dead serious)? Her 4 year LTR called her and she gave the same line right after letting me fuck her in my car. It's no joke, OP, do not hesitate. She's already moved on, GTFO and DGAF - you WILL get laid again; soon, if you practice RP. And eventually, if you want it, you will LTR someone hotter, nicer, sweeter, and even more relatable. No matter how good the past was with this girl, and no matter how…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/16 01:46 PM
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Self-declared nympho who is obviously into violated innocence? I bet I would be fucking her within 30 15 minutes of getting her in my/her car.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 04:44 PM
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I'm phenomenal at warm selling current clients on new products and services (it helps that my company kicks ass) and closing hot leads for new clients that discovered us through my advertising efforts. I'm shit at manual lead generation, though; creating hot leads out of strangers. I'm in IT - especially GLBA audits and CISSP development. Create compelling content that attracts new clients? Sure. Cold-call or cold-approach for manual acquisition of new clients? Nope. Any tips from pros would be …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 10:57 PM
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I agree with what was said here, so long as we maintain ready to share the truth when someone needs it or seems ready. I used to think that, had I discovered RP a year or two earlier, I would have saved my marriage (I shudder at the thought now). The truth is, it took getting my heart brutally and unapologetically ripped out and publicly spit on for me to wake up, like a good slap to the face. All of the misery I endured during the years I was married wasn't going to do it; the pain had to come …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 12:38 PM
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Forget about her, even if you don't dump her right now, and focus entirely on yourself: Step 1: be attractive. Get lots of sleep, drink lots of water, lift lots weight, eat lots of healthy food, and run lots of miles - in that order (Source: lost 110lbs, 10" off waist, been fucked countless times, since) Step 2: be alpha. Demand more of yourself in the workplace, in your career, in your path to fortune - and move, move, move (source: increased my income by 50%, nabbed a director role) Step 3: be…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 03:02 PM
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You should post this as an actual post. I'm guessing there are a lot of fellow ex-fatties around here. I've been considering surgery for my loose skin and stretch marks for a year now, and your post was tremendously helpful.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 05:15 PM
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If the man isn't doing as he pleases, then the sex must not be very good...good sex is when the man dominates a woman who begs for more and cums multiple times. That's usually associated with AF, and starfish/dead bedroom is usually associated with BB. If a girl is truly satisfied, sexually, even with AWALT in play, the chances of cheating are minimal. AWALT simply means that on any given day, if the satisfaction drops, her natural inclinations to cheat are dramatically amplified. But I'm confid…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 09:19 PM
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Here's my question: was she really having "great sex" with her BB? I thought that great sex was generally an indicator of AF or (currently) good LTR? I would imagine she was just having sex, not that it was particularly good.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 05:39 PM
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I don't know...I think there is a fine line between AWALT (true) and "All women are currently cheating" (not true). RP deals with evolutionary predispositions and strategic responses in contemporary society, and doesn't mean healthy LTR's are impossible - just unlikely.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 09:10 PM
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"Another bold move (I feel like John Madden)" Hahahahahahaha, instantly changed the internal voice and I had to re-read. 10/10 would re-read again.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 11:22 PM
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I'm very early into being "successful" following the RP way. One thing I have a terrible struggle with is rewarding girls for compliant behavior, as weird as it sounds. Everything changed so dramatically in my favor from, frankly, becoming self-interested, detached, bluntly honest, brutally critical, and sarcastic/mocking toward them that I think I've developed a knee-jerk fear of being too nice. I am really bad about outright ignoring or dismissing any sacrifice or act of kindness that isn't go…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 09:18 PM
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Terrible lines, awkward moments, and you know what? You fucking kicked ass. You DGAF about any fear or anxiety about it, you just fucking did it. Do this shit all the time. Before long, you will be slaying pussy. My advice is practicing everywhere in day to day situations (retail girls and waitresses were my bread and butter). Good job man, keep it up! What works for me is being a bit mean, while always wearing a smirk: "You look miserable and I could use a good laugh, tell me about your life." …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 01:37 AM
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I did. RP transition is messy. Hell, if he's doing it right, he may be finding himself less attracted to her. She hit him, which many RP guys will view as insta-next. He needs to find his frame and she needs to help him feel rewarded for doing so.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/15 02:57 PM
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You're both just going through RP growing pains. He's obviously having trouble holding frame (alpha DGIAF and he seems to be losing his cool and letting your mistakes get to him). You're obviously having trouble not being a bitch. Go give him a ridiculously porn-star blowjob out of nowhere and tell him it turns you on when he seems like an unsinkable ship. And just keep on the RP path.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/15 12:58 PM
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Dude. It is spooky how IDENTICAL - right down to exact phrasing, the tacos, the EDM, everything - your story is to mine. RP has shown me how cookie-cutter so much of this life can be, but your story approaches Twilight Zone territory! Good job to both of us, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 07:32 PM
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I think it is cathartic for those of us who have gone through divorce with children. Even after letting go and being successful in RP methodology, one can't help but feel a sense of satisfaction in the acknowledgment of a true cunt's lot in life.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 07:35 PM
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"Christian and secular European men seem to have failed a rather massive shit test" Slow clap. That line is golden truth. And honestly, I think it endangers us all, since these women will be banged by people who refuse contraception; that's a lot of ignorant extremism repopulating... ...all because our culture allowed itself to be castrated.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 11:41 PM
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In a way, this actually seems backwards to the RP tactics I've been (successfully) using...I mean, I thought kino was all about getting as much physical contact in as possible? My game has been acting 25% bored, 25% annoyed, and 50% amused, with an abundance mentality and lots of overt sarcasm and teasing. But I maximize contact and touch through it all. This post seems to suggest I should back off on the touch? Then again, I'm just reading and responding quickly at a drive through, maybe I miss…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 05:54 PM
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I am a moral person. Red Pill is amoral, which is fine; it is available to those of us who are moral along with those of us who are immoral. Putting aside the subjectivity of morality, I believe in the golden rule. And while I can't control another man's actions, I sure as hell can share my knowledge and experience when opportunities to do so arise. I was a BP beta. My sex life was shit and my insecurities were numerous. Had it not been for my introduction to RP I would still be a total loser. I…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 09:54 PM
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Secretly, very quietly, get a lawyer. Maybe open a new card/account to help ensure she doesn't see the expense. DO NOT LET HER KNOW YOU KNOW. Game of pretend time. Pretend you're happy and stable and comfortable - not a care in the world. Make sure the lawyer is good. Rarely is there another time that it's worth going into debt. This is one of the most important expenses you will ever make. I've been there. I was in a much worse place. If you need to vent, use me, not anyone in your life that kn…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/15 04:35 PM
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You did amazingly well. Probably better than I would have done in your shoes. Hindsight is 20/20, but I wish you would have recorded the attack AND called the cops. Get that cunt behind bars for the legit assault that men so often are falsely accused of.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 03:19 PM
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Role reversal. As a BP beta, I worked my ass off putting her through school to the point of an advanced STEM degree and professional license. I did all of the child rearing and home-making. When I found out she was having an affair, I confronted her and secretly recorded her confessions - to the affair (naming the guy, a co-worker) and quite a bit more. I chose an academic major with the pipe dream of being a professor and did very well in school, but never finished graduate studies or accumulat…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:48 AM
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My revenge was getting a good lawyer and taking half of her 401k + $5k toward the legal expenses that pulled it off. 50/50 custody. Zero alimony or child support. And now I'm alpha-fucking someone younger and hotter. I win. If anything, I owe her a thank you.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 11:34 PM
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I went to the party last night as Iron Man. Not with a full costume, but a hoodie that looked like it was a full costume (including a hood that zipped up the face). Loved it because it accentuated my muscles and body frame, was technically a "costume", but was also just a hoodie jacket.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 03:27 PM
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You can't honestly expect him to not be attached to Chad's son? He has fathered Chad's son. You don't just "stop" loving an adopted child. This guy is emotionally fucked.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 04:50 PM
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I was spinning 7 plates before I lost interest and stopped answering their texts / calls in the context of this new girl. I will be the first to admit that I am NOT an RP pro. However, the stuff I've learned and put into practice from the sidebar has completely changed my life. I lost 10" around my waist, enjoy far more respect in general life and socialization, demanded more of myself and scored a 35% raise and director role at a new company, and went from being a friend-zoned white knight who …
/r/askTRP28/10/15 06:52 PM
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Start by cold-approaching waitresses, hostesses, retail clerks, baristas, etc - any pretty girl who is a captive audience - and be a little mean, teasingly, mocking her position or the fact that her day is being wasted away by it, then say you're looking to go out tonight and she should come. Ask for her number and/or give her yours, then walk away. If you get rejected, move along. If she says she has a boyfriend, don't hesitate a second, say something like "that's not his fault" or "I bet I'm m…
/r/askTRP28/10/15 03:48 AM
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Yes. Sigh.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:57 AM
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I don't see a loss of frame. A beta past has nothing on an alpha present. You conquered yourself and took a commanding role of leadership in offering direction. Unless there's something I'm missing, keep your damn mouth shut and carry on.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:39 AM
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What's scarier is that RP is frowned upon and men are being victimized and brainwashed by an insane society.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 01:03 PM
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I didn't find out about RP in time to save my marriage, but if I had, it probably would have looked something like your post. By that I mean: keeping on applying MRP to your life, and keep living for you, not her. I get the frustration and the pain that motivates you to post this, but you already know the answer. Keep on keepin' on. Either you'll get the marriage you always wanted or you'll be free of a bad situation and fucking a hotter girl's brains out (source: experience).
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 11:46 AM
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All you need, right here. Especially glad you touched on the girl. AWALT; so many stories of cunts leaving a man - even a good alpha - in this situation! No matter how enjoyable and helpful and - gasp - "loving" she is, never EVER need her; never EVER become dependent on her, emotionally or relationally. Always - and ESPECIALLY in times of crisis - be fully independent of her.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 10:14 AM
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You must be really cold in Russia.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 10:13 PM
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Sidebar material.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 03:08 PM
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Ahhhhhh jeeeeeesus stop! Just stop! We need to have some sort RP Gospel leaflets to help a brother out. So fucking annoying. I'm sick to death of hearing story after story of ignorant BP's getting fucked over. I am so, so thankful that I stumbled onto this sub. A year later, I have a new job - a director role - with a 25% pay bump not including bonuses, minus 100 pounds, and getting everything I'm supposed to out of a healthy, active life. I look back on my BP self with disgust and shame. So muc…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 08:11 PM
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I've been doing SL5x5 for one week, and feel super impatient, lol. The starting weights seem so easy, and it has been very scary to drop my keto diet (on which I've lost over ONE HUNDRED POUNDS) to dump carbs back into my body for the muscles. I successfully adjusted to a life and diet free of carbs and was rewarded immensely; since jumping off that wagon, I've TANKED into a shitty diet of old habits. Plus, mild acne has come back (went away with keto). Week 2 of SL5x5 starts tonight. Really hop…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 12:41 AM
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Take your pontificating out of here. It just baits controversial arguments that are irrelevant to this sub.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 08:45 PM
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So I want an attractive woman who: -dresses modestly -avoids clubs and drunkenness -prefers community events or hobbies for socialization -volunteers at a children's hospital -has an advanced STEM degree -has only had 1-3 long-term partners -plays a sport or fitness activity competitively -enjoys cooking for others -shit tests by means of challenges to better myself -likes trying new things (curiosity) -is an independent, self-sustaining individual I feel like the best prospects for scouting out…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 05:42 AM
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I have a hard time embracing "kind" and T RP simultaneously. Very difficult for me to walk the line.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 10:54 PM
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Almost every restaurant or bistro.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 05:04 PM
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Keto success story, here. Last November: 335lbs, 44" pants -Keto- Today: 230lbs, 34" pants It works. Only if you're capable of sticking with it, though. For me, that meant finding Keto meals I actually enjoy. Critical stash: the big bags of shredded Monterey Jack cheese at Costco. You cover parchment paper with that shit and throw it in the oven at 350 degrees. 10minutes later you bring it out cool it, using a pizza cutter to make small pieces, which will be chips, and larger pieces, which will …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 04:24 PM
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This is the most helpful/insightful post I've ever read in RP subs. I want more. Edit: personally, I mean; could have been responding to me as well as OP
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 01:06 PM
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Apprentice here, would appreciate advice on this topic - the echo chamber of beta reinforcement and marital alpha condemnation. Women may want alpha fux, but in marriage, if a woman is already pissed or you've been BP for years, RP behavior can be viciously condemned - even labeled "emotionally abusive", etc. - and this condemnation is usually reinforced by all the wife's friends. Like, secretly, yeah, they want to fuck that guy, but in public discourse they certainly don't want to marry that gu…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/15 02:29 PM
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High numbers for girls or guys just reads "herpes" to me.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 08:07 PM
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Still just an RP apprentice (albeit an immediately successful one, though I'm beginning to suspect that's just the magic that is RP reality), but I think your move is to forget any of this shit happened, be unphased, enjoy your life with independent activities and busy-ness, and if she brings it up just be honest with extremely few words and no emotion beyond humor (genuine humor, not mocking/sarcastic humor). Let it go. Be the rock. Be above it. Be at peace.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 12:19 PM
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Cry me a river. Fellow RP noob, here. RP has already changed my life. I have lost fat, built muscle, eased off on letting the world shit on me (I would be lying if I worded that differently), and demanded a better career of myself. But guess what? You think you know the pain of getting on this boat too late? Try being married for more than a decade, with three small children, one of whom is special needs. My bitch was/is cheating, is leaving, and we just yesterday had to rip our children's heart…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 10:22 AM
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Can't you avoid all the problems with a good prenup?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 12:50 PM
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This is fair, and I appreciate the criticism. I have a lot to learn, and like many RP noobs who have been used to being shit on, it is a process.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 07:59 PM
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Hidden cam. Or convince to make a sex vid. Either way.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 05:15 PM
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I'm right there with you, bro. Message me anytime you need to vent or get motivated. I have a wife and three kids, and I just took the red pill, myself. Solidarity.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 05:05 PM
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Original comment I was replying to (he deleted it): "Posts like this make me sick. I lose so much faith in humanity. Fuck 'plating'. What a messed up world this is. I don't want to alpha or even be associated with the human race. To hell with this red pill bullshit. I only like the posts about self-help and self-improvement. Men of this world, don't let bad experiences with women turn you into monsters. Take the high road. Maybe you'll actually make the world a better place? Did you ever think t…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 01:30 PM
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No he's potentially doing the husband a favor, but only if he outs the slut and nexts her.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 01:16 PM
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Everyone will always cheat; period.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 12:31 AM
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This post completely changed my understanding of TRP. Recent lurker, here. I got the impression that RP was all about never sticking with one woman, being anti-marriage, having as much sex as possible - preferably with other men's SO's - and being an asshole to women. I'm not trolling, I'm just telling you that I got that impression from skimming probably all the wrong comments/threads. I need posts like this to help me figure out how being RP is compatible with a monogamous marriage and childre…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 12:27 AM
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