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7	Q4W Do you love men? I’d be fucking terrified. That’s a crazy fucking death toll. You just murdered billions. I would personally feel the same level of fear of it for myself as I already do (I’m in a low risk group, healthy, etc). However I would be much more worried about the future of humanity. 20% of the population just dropped dead and it’s increasing? Time to buy a gun and an off road vehicle because shit is going postapocalyptic. Your suggestion is ridiculous because the human mind has a difficult time with th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/20 10:50 PM
1	CMV: Simply "doing something in order to get laid" is NOT "putting women on a pedestal" your hands and/or other men aren’t good enough for you Is this the gay agenda Mommy warned me about	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/20 10:48 PM
10	Women constantly try to water down the meaning of cc riding? Ok, but the above post is saying getting in a relationship every 1-2 years is riding the cc. So if that’s the definition, almost every high value woman who is older than 18 probably fits it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/20 10:42 PM
5	Women constantly try to water down the meaning of cc riding? Uhhh... you realize that the second person you’re describing has still definitely dated and fucked other people right? Unless your version of “Chad” is marrying a virgin. Which is highly unlikely in my experience, most high tier guys end up with high tier women who are good at presenting themselves as innocents and certainly behaving like they aren’t sluts. Think about anyone you’d classify as a trophy wife. They for sure had their cc years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/20 10:38 PM
3	Are there actually that many women who "rode the CC" without relationships and waited until their 30's to think about settling down? Tbh if the result is AWALT then in fact there is no reason for a woman not to sleep around if she even is slightly inclined to do it, if the assumption is she’s a slut anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/20 02:49 PM
1	CMV: Short man syndrome is monster created by men as much as women — if not more. I truly believe this is just something that changes based on your perspective. Short women want to date guys taller than them. Tall guys want to date women shorter than them. Tall women “don’t mind” dating guys shorter than them. Short guys “don’t mind” dating women taller than them. Of course, otherwise they would be narrowing their dating pool enormously. Our desires change because we want the biggest available dating pool that meets a set of minimum requirements to be the correct “size”. If y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 11:36 AM
1	Is casual sex for everybody ? I’m sure if Scarlett Johansson waltzes up he’s not gonna say no just like if Brad Pitt tried to get a woman who was normally a prude. But those are pretty ridiculous and unlikely circumstances. So it’s silly to account for them IMO. It’s like saying “yeah I prefer to save wisely unless I win the lottery in which case I’ll do x y and z” — is that specification really useful?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 11:30 AM
8	What's your minimum requirement in a women for you to date her? It’s interesting you point out nose piercings under “not feminine” because when it comes to humans I’m pretty sure they’re way more common on women than men, which would make them feminine... I don’t like them because they look kinda trashy but they’re definitely not masculine lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 11:23 AM
1	How much of men with dating woes is simply not being in shape? I kind of disagree with this. Plenty of guys are in happy relationships with women who aren’t objectively pretty. Sure maybe being “too picky” contributes to individual unhappiness but I’m pretty sure studies have proven men usually aren’t as picky as women. In fact women are the mate-selecting gender usually. Obviously towards the ends of the bell curve this holds less water but around the most average looking, it’s true	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 11:20 AM
0	How much of men with dating woes is simply not being in shape? In today’s social media world, sure. But I’ve also seen plenty of overconfident guys. I really don’t think this is a woman only phenomenon, but maybe to you obviously guys aren’t your target demographic. But there are pick up artists and “players” who don’t look like much but act like they think they’re the shit too...	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 11:17 AM
2	How much of men with dating woes is simply not being in shape? Women fucking love a good butt on a guy. Have had female friends discuss man booty more than you’d think. See: Wolverine running ass-naked through a field. See: Captain America, America’s Ass. Caveat, you also need muscles for this. Big butt on a skinny guy might be weird. Basically it boosts your looks a lot if you’re already good looking and in shape, but it won’t do anything if you’re not... kind of like nice hair or whatever “extra” feature on a woman, gives a boost if she’s already hot, not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 11:10 AM
7	Why women give men bad romantic advice Eh, closer but I feel like still not 100%. More like, women don’t want to have to lead. They’re fine doing their own thing too but they absolutely hate being in charge of you. This is how the “harpy wife” stereotype starts, if they feel like they need to take charge, they’re resentful and angry about it. I know because I’ve felt that resentment. I am perfectly happy directing myself, seeing chores to do and doing them, doing my work, paying my bills... but not being a reminder alarm for my SO to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 10:58 AM
1	People over-glorify youth. Specfically, the 18 to 24 demographic. Exactly. Now, not everyone is like this. I’m sure there are teen models who look very adult. But I for one look at old high school and college pics and honestly feel like any mature, older guy who hit on my friend group must’ve kinda been a pedo. I know that accusation gets thrown around a lot but like, I had face chub, untamed eyebrows, awful makeup, acne and braces at 16, I remember getting hit on by adults... there’s NO WAY they thought I was 20+, in retrospect those guys were actually trying…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 10:55 AM
3	People who’ve dated both genders, what do you think about each, as relating to PPD’s frequent debates? same but doubt it’s happening. This sub is basically PURE r/arethestraightsok	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/20 11:51 PM
3	Is becky buxx a thing? Gotta (x) for doubt on this one. Maaaaaybe they literally all have me fooled but I know enough of them well enough, they’d tell me. Especially my best friends - between work, friends hanging out, and time spent with their bf, genuinely don’t know when they’d have time to get extra dick unless they’ve got some time turners tucked up there. Having said that, I can imagine that happening in a few years post marriage, the whole “wife’s boyfriend” meme is kind of like that right. And Silicon Valley t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/20 11:42 PM
6	Is becky buxx a thing? Not always. Seen it in a couple friend groups. It can also be guilt or pride for sure. Seen several working woman paying everything for their poor ass not-that-attractive grad school boyfriends because they feel bad for them. It’s almost a marker of status for engineer chicks w academic partners. They basically fetishize mothering these helpless dudes and loooove bitching about how the waiter “gave HIM the check”. Usually dating guys who call themselves feminists, love talking about music nobody…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/20 10:29 PM
1	QFW: Is lack of hygiene really an issue with a lot of men? Unfinished drinks sitting around (besides water). Once went on a date with a guy, it was great. When eventually we went to his place found out he just had dirty laundry on the floor, half full soda bottles sitting around, etc. The whole room smelled musty. Like all of his laundry always sits wet for several hours before he gets around to drying it, it’s a really specific smell... just a bit too nasty. I’m fine with a bit of a mess but not grime. By the time it smells bad it’s too late lol. Guy I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 10:54 AM
1	Men don't "NEED" women, either. However among the elderly single women are more content than single men. Statistically. This is probably because women have better social support into old age but basically once kids are off the table bc you already had them or aren’t ever gonna, it seems like women are way better at being single. Plus it probably helps that older women have lower libido.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 10:46 AM
1	"Emotional labour" is one of the most disgusting things to say Yes that’s exactly how it goes. Was similar kid. Got mad at mom. Now realize I was absolutely lying to myself I was never gonna clean my room or the bathroom sorry mom. I mean it’s true that people are all selfish and will get away with what they can. Because we just don’t put mental thought into stuff we don’t have to. It’s not male or female, it’s human. If I stayed in a hotel room yeah I’d leave the towels on the floor too. I wouldn’t be unreasonably messy but if I COULD stop cleaning and sti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 10:20 AM
1	Q4ALL: Would you rather date someone who appeared hot to you but was average looking to everyone else, or appeared hot to everyone else but average looking to you? The thing you’re missing in asking this is how hot the respondent is. Because I would bet money that affects it. As an average person I want to date someone hot to me and average to everyone. Someone more focused on looking good to others, probably would want to date someone who is similarly focused on looking good to others...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 10:13 AM
3	Waiting for sex: research agrees with FDS women that it is associated with better LTR outcomes. ballooned up to 120 I hate that I can’t tell but geez, I hope this isn’t actually a jab	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 10:04 AM
4	Waiting for sex: research agrees with FDS women that it is associated with better LTR outcomes. I think it depends on how the relationship starts. I have never wanted to straight up start dating someone who was first a total stranger. Expecting to have sex ~4 cumulative hours into knowing someone seems crazy to me because, even though I don’t consider it spiritual or religiously important or whatever, it’s still an intimate thing that’s risky, and the risks are higher for women. Like, if I wouldn’t trust someone to look after my house plants and dog, I don’t think I could fuck them lmao. F…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 10:01 AM
2	Waiting for sex: research agrees with FDS women that it is associated with better LTR outcomes. No because the food is different depending on how long you wait, in this case. It appears you don’t get the same result no matter what (which your analogy implies). More like, if you drive to this restaurant you get nice food but you have to wait, or you can microwave a hotdog.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 09:54 AM
2	Men who want casual sex but shame women for having casual sex with "Chads" are shooting themselves in the foot So, just out of curiosity, do you have daughters and if so are you teaching them that casual sex is great and to go for it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 09:51 AM
1	Men who want casual sex but shame women for having casual sex with "Chads" are shooting themselves in the foot other responder has a point. Young married people have the most sex on average. Obviously if you CAN be a stud having sex with 370 different women a year, that’s more than sex every day with the same woman... barely. There are definitely reasons to wait (like actually growing with a person and figuring out who they’re going to be as an adult) and young marriages also fail at high rates. But if all you care about is maximizing amt of sex there’s nothing that beats “young married love”. Seriously,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 09:47 AM
0	Men who want casual sex but shame women for having casual sex with "Chads" are shooting themselves in the foot This is pretty dumb. Graduated from college three years ago. Been living in a major city since. Yeah it’s still easy to get laid if you are mildly presentable but the amount of casual sex people are having IS declining. “Dumbass studies” — o yea, they’ve been doing those same studies for decades, you think a trend of less sex is just appearing out of thin air? The sexual stats study literally is repeated every other census I think. People are having less sex and they’re starting to have sex late…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 09:45 AM
1	Men who want casual sex but shame women for having casual sex with "Chads" are shooting themselves in the foot the ratio of men and women on tinder is like 7:1. That’s including all the bots and catfishes lmao. Listen, I don’t slut shame, not all the women there are prostitutes, but it’s absolute fact that men REALLY WANT casual sex and women, as a whole, apparently can take it or leave it. I mean just imagine how much more casual sex you’d be having if women wanted it as much as you did. If every time you were like “huh I’d just like to bang rn” some woman around thought the exact same thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 09:37 AM
1	Men who want casual sex but shame women for having casual sex with "Chads" are shooting themselves in the foot I mean just think about it... would a 10/10 guy be a Chad if he was gay? Not in the context of fucking women lmao. So there must be a requirement of being in the market etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 09:35 AM
3	Men who want casual sex but shame women for having casual sex with "Chads" are shooting themselves in the foot Bc some women do want it and that’s cool but we’re also talking abt norms and generalizations. Women statistically have lower libido for casual encounters than men. Some women have higher. But less. It’s not that exciting. It probably changes because the question goes from “all women anywhere” to “why do some women...”	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 09:32 AM
5	Men who want casual sex but shame women for having casual sex with "Chads" are shooting themselves in the foot Honestly UTIs are so fucking annoying I started avoiding sex with the bf because I kept getting them. I started making him shower before sex and it was totally fine since (so I know it’s not me lol). Having it hurt to pee like clockwork after fucking really really really turns you off of it. Also he says he’s had a UTI and it didn’t hurt much... idk if it’s different for guys but, uh, no fuck no. I enjoy sex, but if I wasn’t in a relationship it would make NO GOD DAMN SENSE to risk that for an o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 09:16 AM
2	[Q4Men] Men who are not conventionally attractive, has dating gotten easier as you entered your 30s vs your 20s? What have you noticed? It’s partly a matter of perception. Like you say, image. Someone down to fuck is just going to be willing to get trashy w you if you project a similar image (no offense it’s just a look). But if you seem upscale they aren’t going to want to embarrass or shame themself in front of you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 09:04 AM
2	r/femaledatingstrategy posts will be removed until Monday. Ehhhh not the greatest idea to bring up murder stats. Men overwhelmingly are the killers when it comes to child murder... but the “worst of the worst” isn’t what we should be worried about, it’s the norms. It is not the norm for men OR women to kill their kids so bringing it up is just grasping at a shock tactic IMO. More reasonable in this sub to discuss the norms and average type of relationship. An average relationship doesn’t involve murder (unless I’ve been doing it all wrong) but it can in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 08:48 AM
1	r/femaledatingstrategy posts will be removed until Monday. Hags don’t care about Incels they care abt the guys they want to be with. Similarly incels probably don’t care about hags bc they aren’t the women incels want to be with. It’s more like “male incels and female incels try to war against normies”	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 08:47 AM