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| 5 | Jojo’s new song “Man” is screaming FDS vibes. Love her.That's awesome - enjoy every moment! My grandmother was a HVW who taught me to be strong. I know she'd be proud of me. We were just watching RV a few days ago and wondering what JoJo was up to these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 12:34 PM |
| 25 | Do not get naked on webcamHe takes it to Best Buy where the Geek Squad gets to ogle your goodies too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 11:33 PM |
| 18 | Do not get naked on webcamI have a Womanizer, Premium version, and I love it, but I was thinking of adding a Satisfyer to my pleasure chest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 11:31 PM |
| 6 | HVM = BDE? 🤔Some LVM can fake BDE pretty well, mainly the confidence part with a surface-level kindness sprinkled in. But they show their colors soon enough. I encountered one last summer, and fortunately I was in a better mental place to be able to see past the facade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 11:49 PM |
| 9 | We reinforce this behavior ALL THE TIMEThat last line... oof | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 10:25 PM |
| 17 | Ella enchanted and finally saying noLove this movie! Great spin on a terrible pickme fairy tale, the humor and music are fabulous. Watched it with my daughter when it was released, she read the book as well. It’s hard to find movies for young girls that convey the right message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 12:32 AM |
| 12 | A bit of a laugh for y’all during these tough timesWhat’s funnier is the town is a very wealthy one north of Chicago, and it’s chock full of LVM hiding under the guise of being HV. The Onion knows its shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 10:23 PM |
| 18 | That dude waving his red flag proudly.Also proving the point that men are dangerous, regardless of gender. Why can’t they see that? Because they think with their peepees 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 02:13 PM |
| 59 | We already know this but I'm seeing more and more of this thing pop up on social media. Ladies are catching onIsn't it sad that being able to function as an adult is considered a high standard, possibly too high for men to even uphold? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 11:38 PM |
| 22 | “Emma”(2020) is definitely an FDS movie! 🎥 🍿 Check it out if you can (no spoilers).I love the Gwyneth Paltrow version (even though IRL she peddles pseudo-science like her magic hooha egg), Jeremy Northam as Mr. Knightley, the ultimate HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:50 AM |
| 4 | Still praising men for doing the bare minimum.If I was still active on Pinterest, I sure as hell would have an FDS board, find a pin to craft that onto a pallet in no time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:41 AM |
| 5 | Short Men who become offended because a woman is not attracted to them over something like height.5'10" and I prefer someone around 5'11" or 6' - I'll date taller but if we end up having sex, I feel squished if the guy is vanilla and too tall. When he's more adventurous in bed, I'm okay with taller. There's no way to know that in the beginning, so I usually skip anyone over 6'2". When I was on the apps, if the app didn't have a height filter and they didn't list it in their profile, I didn't bother - after more than a few matches, I figured out it usually means they're short. Most still want… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:03 AM |
| 11 | Welcome to FDS - We're Here for You ❤❤❤This needs to be pinned since we're getting so much traffic from other subs and the WSJ, etc. Welcome to FDS - we build each other up! 💪🏻👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 03:28 AM |
| 19 | Ladies, Change Your Focus. FDS is NOT About Getting the Guy.Pick me’s and incels are the ones who think FDS is about meeting rich guys. Those who are strong HVW or who are recovering from being a Pick me raises my hand know it’s about bettering yourself, for yourself. It’s also about building each other up - men want us fighting each other. I will not fall prey to that. I make it a point to smile and be friendly to every woman I meet. They are not the “competition”, they are my sisters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Requesting songs for the Female Dating Strategy playlist.Just searched FDS to find this, thanks for asking for adds! Sorry if these are repeats here, but I did search the playlist. New Rules - Dua Lipa What It Feels Like for a Girl - Madonna Fuck with Myself - BANKS A Girl in Trouble is a Temporary Thing - Romeo Void Fall in Love - Phantogram shedontknowbutsheknows - Tove Lo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 05:47 PM |
| 4 | At Risk Pick Me Youth Seeking AdviceI thought I could handle a FWB, but I can't separate the sex from the feels. It always benefits the guy more than the woman anyways, so screw that crap. Every time you feel weak, get in your head and read off a list of how they disrespected you and what makes them a LVM. It will turn you off in no time. Honestly, when I'm getting ready in the morning, I blast my playlist full of Lizzo, Dua Lipa, Grimes, etc. and sing so loudly. I literally look myself in the eyes in the mirror and yell the lyric… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 05:35 PM |
| 134 | Watch as men get exposed for failing to know basic information about their significant otherYou can see the hurt and the heartbreak in some of their eyes. On national TV, no less. The true Pickmeishas are laughing like it's all good; I hope they all wake the eff UP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 05:23 PM |
| 45 | [Discussion] Has anyone here found quality partners resulting in a healthy relationship from sex apps like Tinder?Ladies, don't use OLD if you don't want to, but also, don't kid yourself into thinking there is a better selection of men hiding somewhere else you haven't yet found. Remember, the problem is men in general. Can I get an AMEN to this! And I'm an atheist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 05:15 PM |
| 19 | This had 18.7k likes on another subreddit 🤢Ciara leveled the fuck UP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 02:53 PM |
| 23 | Wahhh, men can’t enjoy a movie cause their not arousedPutting aside that I think it's straight up bonkers, looking at the outfits in BoP, that anyone says HQ still wasn't sexualized, the whole movie was lit with beautiful, strong women realizing their worth. I saw it with my 18 year old daughter, we were cheering the whole time. She went home and ordered a Black Canary shirt afterwards. Add in that we saw the WW84 trailer (Gal Gadot and Chris Pine together are just so luscious, even in a fanny pack), it was a great date with my girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 02:21 PM |
| 34 | I realized that giving a man ANY emotional support is infinitely more valuable than the money he spends on youThe only men in my life who have provided genuine and honest emotional support, on various levels and without expectations, were gay. I'm being serious and it's still true. OP, I provided the same emotional support for my ex-husband, and it was completely draining. Not only was he socially awkward and I provided a similar function as you, but I was the family custodian, both physically and mentally. The mental load that women carry in any relationship is well documented, and it still very much e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 02:13 PM |
| 9 | Queens. Help me not relapse.I called my ex my heroin, I was addicted to him. Still am, but I am being strong. I'm almost on the other side. We can all do this, OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 01:06 AM |
| 118 | PSA: Saying we’ll be “single and lonely” is not an insult. It’s better to be alone then in bad company.I had a big toe tell me in an intro on OKCupid that I’m going to be alone because I only want to date locally (I’m in a major city’s suburban area, dating someone in the city or out in the sticks doesn’t work for me, so I used to say it in my profile). I am miles above him in quality, so first of all, the audacity. But also, boo hoo - if the pickings look like him outside of my range, and I don’t find anyone near me, then I am a-okay with solitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 11:50 PM |
| 5 | Must be niceThank you! FDS helped me recognize the truth that gender doesn't matter, patterns are patterns and you need to break them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:06 PM |
| 19 | Mood for the dayOof. Why y'all keep posting these truths to make me strong? Oh, because you're not men - we build each other up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:04 PM |
| 8 | Guy I've been speaking to starting to send "good morning" textsTexting crap like that definitely promotes that intimacy, and I agree, ignore if you don't want to go further. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:00 PM |
| 7 | Their stupidity knows no boundaries. He says he will take me somewhere nice, but then offers disgustingly low-effort drinks. I knew he was LVM when he asked me what I'm doing tbh, but was curious if my gut feeling is right. It always is. Next!I'm outside a major city and rotate through museum memberships. I like to train in and go on my own, so inviting someone to join me isn't any skin off my nose. I like this angle, great tip from mom! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:57 PM |
| 20 | Must be niceI dated a woman for the first time ever this year. I've had sexual experiences before, and the sex with her was amazing and it felt very natural, but I'm hard-wired to love and prefer penis more, and I'm not sure I'll date a woman again. Aside from that, while our openness and honesty to each other was refreshing, her communication style was just as shitty as most guys, as I apparently gravitated towards the same unhealthy personality type in a woman as I do in men. She was self-destructive and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:48 PM |
| 18 | Guy I've been speaking to starting to send "good morning" textsUgh, it's such a player move. It appears he is letting you know how he operates with just these texts. Benefit of the doubt could be that maybe he's also conditioned to this behavior and can change, but why is that your responsibility to help him grow? He needs to do that for himself, but if you tell him, perhaps it will trigger something and he will come to some sort of self-realization hahaha who are we kidding? Anyways, I think it's a risk to continue, but I would come straight out and tell h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:40 PM |
| 6 | Disturbing level 100!I saw a reddit video post recently where a black woman was taking a train in remote China with a friend and the whole train car full of people were just staring at them pointedly. It was creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:41 PM |
| 15 | AnalI have only practiced it with one man, my ex that I'm still getting over. It's very intimate and I did truly enjoy it, but only with him, and I have orgasmed from it. I am jealous of the prostate, my gay friends laud the O it produces. I know the clitoris has triple the nerves of the penis though, so I'm okay with never doing it again, as I do not think I will ever allow myself to get that close with a man in the future. This past year I spent exploring my sexuality, and I dated a younger guy wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:27 PM |
| 15 | Ladies, I really need your opinion/advice...Go listen to Dua Lipa's "New Rules" - it's my anthem right now. My ex vowed he'd changed, but I knew he would revert back to his old ways. I was done by the time I told him I wanted a divorce, I finally grew a backbone. At the time I said it would be 5 years until he was once again the materialistic, selfish, overweight asshole I knew from before. It took 3. Edit: "New Rules" is for my last relationship, my college boyfriend I got together with after my divorce. It's been a long 5.5 years sinc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:11 AM |
| 2 | I learned this the hard way and wasted time trying to get him to chase me...I thought he was just playing hard to get. If they don’t put in effort from the beginning then just drop them. Do not waste your precious time!Preach - I have to remind myself that idleness makes my mind wander and I obsess. Thankfully my job keeps me very busy, but at home... oy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 10:04 PM |
| 14 | Using memes to reply to unwanted messages... it's super effective!He lost that chub so fast, he thought he'd found a new humiliation kink. Then, not so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 03:59 AM |
| 10 | Using memes to reply to unwanted messages... it's super effective!This sub is full of the funniest women - simply brilliant! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 03:57 AM |
| 5 | giorgio looks really young and radiant for 25yo with this gray beard and all those wrinklesIf this is real, I'll bet he's hoping what he thinks are his charming good looks will win over the 25 year old woman who encounters his profile and realize she was SO mistaken to rule out grandpas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 03:54 AM |
| 17 | giorgio looks really young and radiant for 25yo with this gray beard and all those wrinklesThis made me snort out loud - every time I take out my brain and try OLD again, I see these and I die a little inside from the time I waste even looking at their lame ass profiles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Just imagine.That's bad ass! It takes strength to power past our stupid hearts and their amazing hold over our brains. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 03:11 AM |
| 5 | I'm not wrongSo low effort. I'd be more turned on if he at least used a 40% off coupon and bought me a latte with the savings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:31 PM |
| 12 | The new HONY story has me feeling a lot of emotions. Went from a survival story to 40 years of emotional neglect in .2 seconds.The first red flag you notice in your first year together is one that will destroy your relationship in the future. Wow, this hit me HARD. I noticed just today, 5-1/2 years out of my marriage, that I still walk on the balls of my feet, not my heels, so that I'm quieter and won't make noise - I was triggered by the wood floor at work. I really did walk like I was on eggshells during my marriage. because if I woke him up while getting ready in the morning, he would rage. Our first apartment was in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 01:48 AM |
| 21 | "Women are so lucky! Everyone takes their feelings seriously!"A woman running for president was literally labeled as too emotional to hold the office. Now look what we've got. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 11:08 PM |
| 7 | 2 minutes into unhiding my tinder profile ...Saving this absolute gem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 07:04 PM |
| 3 | LVMs be like:Not the perfect solution, but you can set child comments and automod posts to auto-collapse in the Apollo app | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 07:01 PM |
| 4 | STRAIGHT 👏🏼 MEN 👏🏼 AREN’T 👏🏼 YOUR 👏🏼 FRIENDS 👏🏼There’s a gross amount of rationalizing going on in that thread, sickos who think it’s okay an adult groomed a minor because now she’s of legal age. JFC He was dishonest from day one - that is not friendship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 04:10 AM |
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