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One guy told me he’s manipulative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:54 PM
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This happened when I was a low self esteem pickme Didn’t have a car during our whole relationship and I did all the driving Porn sick and would attempt to try to pressure me into fulfilling his weird fetishes Took my virginity by raping me when he got tired of waiting until I was ready Cheated on me with multiple people behind my back Skin condition with severe acne/scabs/sores/scars all over Didn’t groom himself or dress nice Was a compulsive liar and future faked me into staying. Told me he wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:40 PM
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I wouldn’t be surprised if the tinder date he mentioned coerced/stealthed her into having sex without a condom. She probably mentioned it to him because she wanted to share her trauma and justify why she’s so persistent on enforcing her boundaries. This lvm tries to make it look like she’s rubbing it in his face when in reality he didn’t believe her when she said she was coerced/pressured/stealthed. This is one of the reasons why you should never justify your boundaries with men. Saying no shoul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:45 PM
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It’s easy for men to get away with stealthing but almost impossible for a child free young woman to get her tubes cut/tied. In a lot of places abortion is heavily restricted or even illegal. This makes me never want to have sex. Trusting a man can potentially ruin my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:22 PM
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Not an ex but I was Facebook friends with a guy I went to middle school with. We’d share the occasional silly meme and then he escalated to sending me a video of a deer being repeatedly shot with a man yelling at the deer in anger. (The deer was not shot in self defense) He thought the video was funny and he said that was his sense of humor. He confessed that he enjoyed watching people/animals being hurt online and he considered those videos “dark edgy memes” When I wouldn’t respond right away h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:38 AM
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Not to mention it’s much easier and less invasive for a man to get a vasectomy than it is for a woman to get her tubes tied. Even after a woman had several kids in her lifetime they still have to jump through hoops to get it because “she might change her mind” “she needs written consent from her husband” “it’s against the doctors religion” For a young child free woman it’s almost impossible to get her tubes cut/tied. If men don’t want kids or to use a condom they should just get a vasectomy. But…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:23 PM
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I am in a better place. Thank you. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:58 AM
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I was 2-3 years old. Was from an adult nvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:15 AM
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Isn’t that also unsafe for the wife and kids? If something happens to one of them or someone tries to hurt them the husband would be too far away to do anything in time or even notice what’s happening. But men expect us to believe they are “protectors”. Yet they can’t even do the bare minimum to protect their own family. I wouldn’t be surprised if a lot of these lvm would run off instead of helping their family if there was any danger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:11 PM
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Also having to take some form of birth control hormones because they don’t like the way condoms feel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:07 PM
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It’s mostly about ego and porn sickness. I don’t think it’s about pleasure. It’s physically impossible for them to have sex with two women at the same time because they only have one set of genitals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:53 PM
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It’s not uncommon for women to develop allergies to things they weren’t previously allergic to before pregnancy. Being highly allergic to something for life because a lvm got a woman pregnant sounds horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:46 AM
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I never understood the appeal of porn. Even in my pickme days I just felt grossed out by it. I also felt this uneasy feeling because I felt this vibe that none of the actors were actually enjoying what they were doing and there was no emotional connection. I get much more aroused from reading or using my imagination.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:36 AM
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I remember when I was 15 I was coerced, locked in a room and made to do a bunch of things I didn’t want to do. I asked if it was rape on yahoo answers and most people said “no” and one guy sent me that exact clip as a “joke” and said it wasn’t rape. I felt so invalidated for so long and was afraid to tell anyone because of that. I felt like no one would believe me and felt like it was my fault for not fighting back enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:29 PM
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When I look my worst after a long workout or a long day working outside in the heat. Messy ponytail, sweaty, no makeup, sweatpants/big t-shirt. That’s when men flock to me. They’ll follow me, ask for my social media/phone number, catcall, invade my space, try to start a conversation, stop their cars ect. When I’m all dressed up, fresh from the shower, hair done, glowing, wearing jewelry men usually just look at me a lot but never approach. The only men that approach me when I’m all dressed up ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:34 PM
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I’d be more willing to have sex if it didn’t hurt. Is some lube and foreplay too much to ask? My ex would just spit on me then force it in even when I was crying. Told me to bite down on something so I wouldn’t scream. It was excruciating one of the most painful things I ever felt. I felt like the pain was normal because I was a virgin but now I’m afraid of having sex ever again because not only does it not bring me any pleasure but I’m scared of the pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:12 AM
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I remember when I was 19 I went to a male therapist and he got an erection when I was crying about being sexually abused at 3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:33 AM
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What’s “natural” about having a big beer belly? Fit men are much more natural because their diet consists of water, fruits, vegetables, eggs, nuts and lean meat. All of that can be found in nature/farms and isn’t manufactured in a factory unlike junk food, soda and beer. Before humans had civilization and people were hunter gatherers NO ONE had a beer gut and being lean and having muscle definition was super common. The only time someone had a swollen gut back then was if they were full of paras…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:54 PM
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I noticed attractive men are much more attracted to me too. They’re not as porn sick as the fat slobs. Every fat man I’ve been with has negged me to lower my self esteem. Nit picked things like a single hair I missed while shaving, or told me to dress different. They would nitpick every little thing about me. Even though they smelled like sh*t and had fat bellies and man boobs. They would also try to talk me out of working out, dressing up, eating healthy, doing my skincare routine so they could…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:40 AM
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Sometimes even female only gyms don’t stop creeps. I was taking a women’s self defense class and a homeless man went up to the window and started touching himself while we were stretching. Watching us. I’m not sure I was the only one that noticed but I let some employees at the shopping center know after I was finished with class. I thought I was in a safe space because the class was all women but creeps will still try to invade our spaces. I used to also go to a local gym that had a small women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:59 PM
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Chris Hansen is a low value male. He was spoon fed everything Onision did by his victims and youtubers that have been calling out onision for almost a decade. Chris Hansen promised that he would work towards getting Onision behind bars and that’s why people spoon fed him the information but it was all a lie. One of his employees destroyed one of the only major things of evidence (Sarah’s computer) so now it can’t even be used to convict Onision. All these women poured their hearts out about thei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:44 PM
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I was looking to buy a car and decided to test drive a few at a car lot. A day later the car sales man contacted me on Facebook. He was old enough to be my grandpa. Gross There was also a time when I was in high school. I was waiting out front for my mom to pick me up. A man pulls up and asks if I needed a ride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 12:51 AM
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When I was 12-14 I frequented online game chat rooms because I was lonely and too shy to talk to people in person. I had grown men criticize my appearance and tell me to kill myself. They would mock the shape of my nose because it didn’t look like an anime characters. They would call me a slut even though I was a virgin. They would mock any social awkwardness, spelling errors or any interests I had. They loved negging and nitpicking everything about me. The way I dressed, the way I parted my hai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 12:46 AM
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Chubby/fat guys or “dad bods”: I’m not attracted to guys that’s don’t take care of themselves. I have a nice fit body and i expect him to have a nice body in return Weed/smoking cigarettes/vaping/bongs: Smoking is gross and most smokers want a girl that smokes too. I’m not going to deal with their smelly pot or them pressuring to smoke it. Pictures with alcohol/at a bar/night club: I don’t drink. A guy occasionally having a drink is okay but the fact that they have pictures of themselves drinkin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:11 AM
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