vaktaeru Archive

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1	Outside of illegal prostitution, What's the easiest way to maximise my looks, repair my reputation and finally have sex with a beautiful woman at 25? Get in shape, have good hygiene, read books that you find interesting and try to pick up a hobby that gets you out of the house. More importantly, stop making sex your main goal. When I took sex off the table and started making friends with women, they started introducing me to their (hot, single) friends, and would actively wingman for me. It takes a few months and if your intentions aren't genuine, you will get rightfully called out on your bullshit. Also, when you do make friends with women, …	/r/seduction	20/07/26 02:17 PM
12	Sexual allure is not hard to build up, and it's your fault if you don't have it Well, you know what you need to work on, which is better than 90% of us. Just talking to more women, even without the intention of dating them, will probably get you there. Best of luck, brother.	/r/seduction	30/03/26 01:53 AM
22	Sexual allure is not hard to build up, and it's your fault if you don't have it You're either not approaching enough, or there's something you think you have that you don't. Ask the women in your life that you aren't sexually involved with for advice - and if you don't have any, that's something you need to change.	/r/seduction	30/03/26 01:27 AM
0	19M Never talked to a woman before, where to start. If you haven't worked on your general social skills then you'll struggle with girls too. Give the following study material a shot and it'll open your eyes to a whole new world: -How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie -Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss -Cues by Vanessa Van Edwards -The Art of Charm podcast All total game changers. They worked for me and they worked for multiple friends of mine, all of whom had serious trouble with girls in the past. Biggest piece of advic…	/r/seduction	14/08/24 06:10 PM
7	A day in the life of a hot girl Wait a second, this isn't even a post! It's just three misogynies in a trench coat!	/r/seduction	21/05/24 02:04 AM
198	Males who are great at texting and get a lot of results using text, what are your tips and advice ? Leave your house more often. Doesn't matter why. The less time you spend alone at home, the more chances you have for interesting things to happen to you, and the more interesting you'll be in turn. Interesting can be as simple as going for a hike and finding a cool bug or a flower you've never seen. Or it can be starting convos with strangers at bars and letting them talk about themselves a lot. Take a dance class, go read a book at a park instead of in bed. Hell, drive to a random part of town…	/r/seduction	02/11/21 08:50 PM
2	Males who are great at texting and get a lot of results using text, what are your tips and advice ? Are you initiating conversations over text just for the sake of initiating conversations? If so then you're probably going to be boring. When you text someone, have a goal for the conversation - making plans, showing them a cool bug you found, asking a question that you actually want the answer to right now. There has to be something to start the conversation going in. After that, you should be able to just have a conversation like you would out loud but...you know...over text. If they're giving…	/r/seduction	02/11/21 08:46 PM
5	Where to learn some basic game? There's an amazing podcast that I learned EXACTLY this from called "the art of charm". Listen to their first five or so episodes, they talk a lot about how to talk to women, how to approach, what banter is and how it works, what certain body language means and how to respond to it, and how to appear receptive to being approached yourself. They also go over stuff like texting, building sexual tension, and escalating. It's a fantastic, legitimately beginners course on how to flirt. One of my frien…	/r/seduction	06/10/21 09:10 PM
27	Girl in my class It sounds like you're afraid to approach her in any situation where she's not completely alone. Discard that idea now, it's going to hurt you here and it's going to hurt every approach you ever make in the future.	/r/seduction	06/10/21 04:24 PM
2	Just a small piece of advice for the day Very, very, VERY few people are actually ugly. Many people who look ugly are actually just out of shape, and would be downright gorgeous if they reduced their % body fat since it makes your features look more defined.	/r/seduction	07/09/21 03:18 PM
9	Just a small piece of advice for the day Sounds like it's time to work on your mind the way you've been working on your body. Confidence can be trained into you, just like physical strength.	/r/seduction	07/09/21 03:16 PM
13	[deleted by user] Keep doing it. Humanity will continue to advance, so you have to catch up and then keep up. You either always approach or you always fail. The worst outcome of an approach is identical to not approaching at all.	/r/seduction	10/08/21 06:08 PM
9	I FINALLY did it! Created chemistry with a girl and set up a date. The Insights I learned: You'll hear a lot of the same advice on this sub over and over - "just be more confident", "get out of our head and just talk to her", "practice makes perfect". The reason is that it fucking works. There's now "how" to vibing with a girl. Ever made a friend in public? Ever gotten to know a stranger at a bar? Same shit, different day. Stop trying to say something that's gonna impress her and stop asking her every question in the world. Just introduce yourself and start a normal fucking conversati…	/r/seduction	08/08/21 09:19 PM
1	Tip For Nerdy Intelligent Guys What are your interests?	/r/seduction	25/05/21 08:55 PM
7	Tip For Nerdy Intelligent Guys TL;DR go to a public space that facilitates your interests if you want to meet people that share your interests, and seek out social activities that YOU enjoy, not the social activities that society tells you are the "right place" to meet people. Every successful relationship I've had has been with someone who loves anime and dnd as much as I do. Do you think I met these women at bars? Of course not! I've been to bars with them, but I met them at anime conventions, university anime/gaming clubs,…	/r/seduction	25/05/21 01:54 PM
3	How To Have A Killer First Date Every Time The intense, explicit detail definitely helped me, I think the length is necessary in this case. If you mostly get the idea, you can always skim for tips through the post instead of reading the whole thing :)	/r/seduction	02/12/19 07:05 AM