valcineye Archive

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0	The discourse around the Lindsay Clancy case really shows how desperate people are to not let women have accountability. she did not have postpartum depression. she had postpartum psychosis	/r/MensRights	01/08/26 07:13 AM
1	The discourse around the Lindsay Clancy case really shows how desperate people are to not let women have accountability. a lot of the discussion around her being failed by the system is because she did seek help. she was a labor and delivery nurse that knew all the avenues to get help and used them. she called the police on herself many times. she went into impatient care but was discharged only weeks before the murder. she had been put on a ridiculous amount of medication, more than 30 different types. these were to treat PPD not PPS. i understand making this some sort of man versus woman debate in the legal resp…	/r/MensRights	01/08/26 07:11 AM
2	Sexist Double Standards in Restroom Privacy as a woman fathers are more than welcome to enter the womens restroom when bringing their children. social media is odd because from what i've seen people only have demonized the man who was fired for his own actions. that man did nothing but terrify young children when their father intended to keep them safe and feeling secure, which he did even in a high stress moment. the only thing i have seen outside of welcoming is to suggest that fathers announce in a full bathroom that hey, i am here for…	/r/MensRights	21/06/26 02:19 PM
2	The Positive Impacts Fiction can have on Gender Movements i am also curious. because any basic understanding of the handmaid's tail combined with anyone wishing it to be reality even only in some parts gets a massive what the fuck from me	/r/MensRights	21/06/26 01:58 PM
17	Women's expectations for men vs men's expectations for women as someone who works with infants regularly people tend to have a more idealistic view of what parenthood and division of responsibilities will look like without considering how their baby will be as an individual. when and how you will cook and clean is part of that ideal. "when the baby sleeps" is a major ideal that comes crashing down when the main caretaker has to make up sleep from a night of waking for the baby. clearly after a 10 hour shift he will need adequate rest but dealing with a ba…	/r/MensRights	16/05/26 05:04 AM
3	For the great single men -or- single dads of this subreddit children tend to make a mess where you have just cleaned. it's less about the act or chore itself and more about the repetition which can lead to frustration as your efforts can feel meaningless or unappreciated when they do not last long or appear as if they were never done in the first place. most of the complaints i see by stay at home parents come down to feeling isolated or lacking adult interactions. getting out and about can depend a lot on finances, even for free activities when not all …	/r/MensRights	30/04/26 05:44 AM
6	Underage boys are okay? you cannot base your perception of male sexual abuse victims off of social media comments left by people who are trying to appear as edgy or rebellious. these experiences traumatize boys and men all the same. it's people like you that leave these same people unwilling to share their experiences of sexual abuse with you without framing it as a joke	/r/MensRights	05/04/26 11:22 AM
2	Is anti-abortion sentiment driven by anti-feminism pushback? it would be that simple if abortion was accessible. this is heavily dependent on the state and why i believe financial abortion rights should exist and be directly tied to abortion rights. there are severe mental and financial health implications for all involved. i will never disagree with the basic fact that children deserve parents who are stable, able, loving, willing, and present not only physically or financially but emotionally. ultimately the issue of if sex is consenting to parenthood d…	/r/MensRights	05/04/26 11:16 AM
4	Is anti-abortion sentiment driven by anti-feminism pushback? having equal reproductive rights is complicated. you say that either consenting to sex is constenting to parenthood or it isn't. but only women can become pregnant and this can come with health and mental complications, even in a easier or more by the book pregnancy. even the most realistic take that could be taken as law is financial abortions that are held to the same limits as abortion by number of weeks. it could be argued that women will hide or lie about their pregnancy status, but it coul…	/r/MensRights	04/04/26 08:19 AM
3	Are there any women here? yes but i'm 22. i have solid friendships with men and work with boys as part of my career field so i like to stay aware of things	/r/MensRights	28/03/26 04:41 AM
25	Society seems to promote cruelty against unattractive men this is absolutely horrific. may this child rest in peace.	/r/MensRights	23/03/26 04:51 AM
4	The housemaid 2025 you may as well be if you needed chatgpt to write a reddit post for you	/r/MensRights	22/03/26 05:03 PM
1	I now see hateful comments against men in mainstream media discussions several times a day and it has negative impact on my mental health as a woman i also constantly come across similar comments directed towards women on social media. i feel it's important to remember that social media sites promote these comments because they are controversial. they generate traction, views, interactions, and above all else profit. i cannot express enough how important it is to look toward people in your own life. i look to the men in my life and know they are good and honest. they are kind and loving. they care deeply about myself and others in…	/r/MensRights	09/03/26 11:22 AM
2	Child Support Arrears and Compounding Interest Policies there will be no improvement for children's outcomes through a restructuring of child support payments. what matters for children's outcomes is custody. anyone can see how growing up without a father can negatively impact the outcome of children as they grow into adults. while restructuring child support payments would significantly improve the lives of fathers we cannot pretend that this will improve the outcomes of children. as someone who works with children, has a degree in early childhood, …	/r/MensRights	09/03/26 08:49 AM
7	German police conduct raids against people suspected of posting misogynistic hate speech online honestly as a woman i don't think that expressing mysoginistic views should be criminalized. while i may not agree with their beliefs it's far more important to have diversity in beliefs and values and that people are able to express them without criminalization. it may be different had they expressed direct threats that make it clear they are planning a violent attack against a certain individual but this is not the case. and this is of course ignoring a clear double standard. we have all seen …	/r/MensRights	09/03/26 08:38 AM
2	What are your thoughts that aging is harsher on women because they're judged more on their looks? women do tend to age a bit rougher you could say due to skin thickness and collagen content differentiating from men. though i think this points more towards a larger conversation of being perceived as ugly or generally unattractive. this is not a gender based issue but rather people who were attractive in youth finding that this treatment did not occur in older or old age where attractiveness has faded. though of course gender can influence what being attractive can mean for you. whereas people…	/r/MensRights	07/03/26 07:09 AM
1	Health Focused Misandry is there legal or financial gain to this? such as conservatorship. is she being paid by the state as a caretaker? he may have to resort to a shelter, legal assistance, or both. if she holds a conservatorship over him this alters everything. i would seek legal advice in his area, even if that means resorting to legal advice on a subreddit.	/r/MensRights	14/02/26 11:29 AM
4	New Jersey teacher got pregnant by student she ‘groomed’ - and broke the teenager’s heart by aborting the baby i understand your argument but in this case the child would not be better off if his adult rapist hadn't gotten an abortion. he is a child himself and while his feelings on the matter are very real, by being young he may not fully consider the outcome of having to raise a child with someone who would target him in this way. he can be heartbroken, but looking back he very well may be glad he does not have a direct lifelong tie to his abuser both emotionally and financially	/r/MensRights	14/02/26 10:32 AM
12	Do men actually vote as a gender bloc? If not, is the men’s rights movement strategically doomed? i am a woman so take this as you will. but for men to vote based on a male specific issues candidates would have to share their views and potential policy on male based issues. which they do not. i have not seen candidates on either side reference male based issues. they will often reference issues that impact both men and women, but they often refer to men and women generally or women in particular. its important to remember that how women vote is heavily influenced by abortion, either in suppo…	/r/MensRights	09/02/26 10:14 AM
2	Let's be honest about men expressing their feelings. let me put it this way. i work with children. boys and girls before socialization and culture has completely altered their sense of self and expression. boys cry. over anything. all of them. just as much as girls do. anger, frustration, pain, etc. they cry. they cry because they are sad, they miss somebody, somebody didn't want to be their friend, they got hurt, they felt wronged or shaken in some way. its natural and is far from exclusive to females. maybe consider how you have been impacted by…	/r/MensRights	25/01/26 10:50 AM
-3	UK: William Shakespeare was actually a black woman, feminist historian and LSE graduate claims in new book. OP: Feminists are crazy don't blame women as a whole for this bs. nobody in their right mind believes in this and while he may have been a front by another man what person of anywhere near average intelligence with no agenda to gain views would even consider this to be the truth for even a second. don't fall for clickbait just because it fits your agenda or you become a poor representation of your cause immediately. and lord knows poor representations become the public view of any cause. yeesh! waste of time.	/r/MensRights	25/01/26 10:46 AM
1	The world of books is becoming an increasingly unfriendly place for men interestingly the majority of published books still depict male leads, including both adult and children's media and your anecdotal experience only tells me you have done nothing to seek out works by male authors. women read more and purchase more books than men and will as a result be catered to in store. by your own replies you read maybe a book a month if that. be the change you wish to see and in doing so you will benefit greatly in many ways by reading more and with intention.	/r/MensRights	27/12/25 12:38 PM
1	Stay at home parent it can be a privilege but there is a bit of a spectrum here. childcare is not necessarily affordable and those who can afford it but choose to stay at home have the resources to make it more manageable. there is a lot of pressure to enjoy it but this does not alleviate the inevitable burnout that comes with being a stay at home parent. especially with people seeming to think that if you loved your children enough you would enjoy being with them every second and every hour. you become the primary…	/r/MensRights	22/12/25 10:40 AM
3	Does not having sex disqualify me from the dating pool? it does not disqualify you from the dating pool. i only had sex for the first time because i felt insecure about being an adult virgin and thought that lacking sexual experience was seen as unappealing for potential partners. especially when other people would discuss their sexual experiences and i had nothing to contribute. i lost my virginity to another virgin that i'd known for a while, and while i don't regret it i didn't walk away feeling like it contributed to my life in any real way. i do…	/r/MensRights	15/07/25 10:24 AM
2	Society's attitude towards incels and abortion really highlight how misandristic the world is. do you experience sexual attraction to other people? i am curious about the details of what you think about it / how you came to that decision	/r/MensRights	19/05/25 07:13 AM
4	White House Council on Men and Boys? Not exactly i have seen some speculation that this may be a way to artificially lower autism rates. making diagnosis seem like a potential threat will leave people hesitant to get their children or themselves diagnosed. there is no real way to follow through on his promise of tackling autism.	/r/MensRights	25/04/25 07:06 AM
35	Med student posing with cadaver’s testicles on her hinge profile she thought it would be funny to pose with the genitals of a corpse and go as far as to use that photo to represent herself on a dating platform. nevermind the ethical and professional standards she clearly cannot hold herself to. nobody in their right mind would let someone like this represent their medical program or office.	/r/MensRights	06/03/25 09:28 PM
0	Paternity tests shouldn’t just be normalized—they should be mandatory at birth. requesting a paternity test in itself is an accusation. some of my earlier replies have my perspective on why i think so. if you consider your suspicion well founded due to external or historical factors that does not negate the strain it can have on a relationship. it displays a lack of trust and is a question of your partners morals. you may not view it as personal, but it becomes so when the question of paternity is brought into the relationship. i don't think we will agree on this part becau…	/r/MensRights	11/02/25 02:21 AM
3	Paternity tests shouldn’t just be normalized—they should be mandatory at birth. men can want assurance. but both have to understand that when it follows an accusation it can lead to strain when it's unfounded. it's less of a tip toe dance around their feelings and more about what kind of person you believe they are. you have to consider what you'd be accusing them of: cheating on you, the lies that go into hiding that kind of dynamic, the resulting pregnancy meaning they may not have used protection and leave you vulnerable to std's, going as far as to lie about the child b…	/r/MensRights	10/02/25 06:57 PM
2	Paternity tests shouldn’t just be normalized—they should be mandatory at birth. it's not that the discussion isn't private, it's that one would know the discussion took place. it becomes a question in a relationship. did my partner seek out a paternity test or not? have they been honest with me about what they chose? do they really think this of me? again, requesting a paternity test is an accusation of infidelity. it's important to understand that. it carries a lot of weight. there is no way around that fact. you cannot logic and data your way out of something that has a n…	/r/MensRights	10/02/25 06:22 PM
4	Paternity tests shouldn’t just be normalized—they should be mandatory at birth. most of the controversy surrounding paternity tests has to do with when they are requested. to raise a child for any number of years only to have to walk away from that parental role. by that time an emotional connection has been built, your day to day has changed, and both you and the child take on roles and routines. it creates a lot of inner and outer conflict to have that stripped away. people may look at you differently because of how distraught the child will become. it would be best done …	/r/MensRights	10/02/25 05:40 PM
2	What’s one question you’ve always wanted to ask a female? it comes down to a general conflict within feminism of what it really means to make choices that align with "oppressive standards." the question being- is this what you really want or what you have been made to believe you want? it's the idea that you have the illusion of choice. this concept very well could have served older generations of women better. your mother hands you the razor when your body hair begins to show - not your father. i think it's important to be able to reflect on what you …	/r/MensRights	25/01/25 05:20 AM
1	What’s one question you’ve always wanted to ask a female? not necessarily. female and male are not exclusive to humans the way woman and man are. you can accept the title for yourself, but it can be used in a manner that's intentionally dehumanizing. especially when one uses male or female to describe either men or women, but not the other.	/r/MensRights	25/01/25 03:20 AM
16	What do you all think about this? honestly it seems the root issue was less about men being there and more about women not being there. another solution could have been to create a meet-up group or club for women interested in rock climbing without closing the space to men altogether. as a woman i can understand feeling intimidated if i walked into a class and i was the only woman. i'm not even one to naturally find men intimidating. most of the interactions i have with strangers in public and those in my own circle are with men…	/r/MensRights	12/01/25 03:48 PM
5	I feel gaslighted by feminism the issue is that you reduce the risk of being raped to your assumed level of vulnerability to violence. while rape itself could be described as a violent act this is not how most cases of rape occur. both men and women can face dynamics where they are in a position of weakness. you will often hear of cases that involve violence and even death. this is because these cases stand out against more typical cases of rape. if you look at the motivations behind rape you will find it tends to come down …	/r/MensRights	29/12/24 11:10 AM
1	Feminist want equality. So, are you ready for the real male experience..? i wasn't alluding to toxic masculinity. i don't believe in that honestly. nothing about what it's supposed to mean is exclusive to males or seems to have anything to do with masculinity. it's apparently more defined as being overly aggressive, violent, and a need to control others. while toxic femininity also involves aggression and a need to control or manipulate others. we already have a long list of diagnosis for people with those traits when it's really a problem. by the social pressures and…	/r/MensRights	30/11/24 06:27 PM
0	Feminist want equality. So, are you ready for the real male experience..? i do appreciate the break down it was an interesting read. a penny for your thoughts / perspective if you want: what are your thoughts on the male loneliness epidemic? i don't see it as something that's hit men just recently. but thoughts on causes? potential solutions? roots in childhood or societal pressures/problems?	/r/MensRights	30/11/24 11:07 AM
-8	Feminist want equality. So, are you ready for the real male experience..? it's interesting because as a woman it's other women doing these things for me. they reach out on birthdays and holidays. they reach out in general. they provide and ask for emotional support. most of the men i know don't know what month my birthday falls on. and it's like they have to prompt their friends to know when their own comes around. they reach out to me for emotional support over men they've known for a decade. so i guess i'm just wondering what men do for one another socially. what em…	/r/MensRights	29/11/24 10:23 PM
10	Mens reproductive rights mutilating a child so you don't have to teach them about proper hygiene and sexual health is nothing to be proud of. not to mention the impact pain has during infancy. it's a trauma that cannot be resolved and has long-term consequences. there is little pain relief following the initial surgery as well - most aftercare is based on keeping the wound clean and finding ways to distract them.	/r/MensRights	09/11/24 08:07 AM
2	'Female' is considered dehumanizing and offensive but 'Persons with uterus' isn't? woman refers to an adult human female, while man refers to an adult human male. male and female are not human exclusive. when you exclusively refer to men as men and women as female it will be seen as dehumanizing. i don't consider it to be offensive being labeled as female by someone who also uses male. but removing the human component for women only can come across as having those intentions. persons with uterus is viewed as offensive. see similar backlash for terms like "chestfeeding." the on…	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 03:56 AM
1	Am I in danger messing with a single mom? Like I said. You're acting insanely irresponsible for a nearly 30 year old. Think about the kids here man and not just your potential ones. You really need to sit and have an honest conversation about your thoughts and expectations to make sure you're on the same page here. She could have been joking or you could have just assumed as much. You can have your fun but when children are involved you need to take a major step back and consider the consequences to this dynamic. If you take any advice …	/r/MensRights	06/09/24 02:45 AM
13	Am I in danger messing with a single mom? he isn't using protection when she's likely still fertile. if not her he will get someone else pregnant. idk how he made it to thirty with this lack of thinking.	/r/MensRights	06/09/24 01:47 AM
8	Am I in danger messing with a single mom? I'll be another woman in your ear telling you to leave. She has made it clear what responsibilities you will have to take on and you are being extremely irresponsible by not using protection. You know you don't want a child by her but can you confidently say she doesn't want a child by you? Hookups don't introduce you to their children and honestly go find a woman your own age, not someone desperate and nearing their 50s while you are barely 30. You know she's fertile and looking for a father fo…	/r/MensRights	06/09/24 01:41 AM
2	What's a good response to this? I work with children. We do need men in childcare. Boys cannot look up to women as an example of who they'd like to become in the way they can with men. Boys need someone they can relate to and engage with in a way they cannot with women through shared experiences. Giving and accepting affection are part of the job when working with young children. You cannot comfort them at a distance. We simply do not work that way in early childhood. Especially when we have children who do not have a father f…	/r/MensRights	28/08/24 08:31 AM
2	Do you think it's fair for men to be stay at home husbands and women go to work? It should be less about expectations tied to sex and more about what works best for individual families. Having a stay at home parent is beneficial for children regardless of which parent it is. I work in childcare and it's a major expense for families where both parents work, especially if more than one child is involved. There are plenty of men and women that could find this dynamic works best for them. She really needs to think about this more and how she reduces women to their fertility and …	/r/MensRights	21/08/24 07:00 AM
1	Possible custody divorce i would make a list of the things you mentioned here, and whatever else you can think of. then ask yourself what you can prove right now and what you would need to collect evidence for. consult a lawyer immediately to get an idea of what this means for you and what you should do. i do believe you could get custody. though you may not get full custody. you have home ownership and being able to provide other necessities like health insurance on your side. you want to be able to prove they would ha…	/r/MensRights	06/08/24 10:06 AM
1	How to explain to my girlfriend that I don't want to get married in the future but still want to be committed to her frankly marriage is made out to us as the ultimate sign of commitment. you may often see content about couples buying a house or having a baby.. with all the comments saying "but no ring?" the wedding, ring, and last name are a signal of that commitment to people you know and people you don't. if you have a strong relationship this is a conversation you can have and work through together. really the points you've made will have a negative emotional impact because they are planning for the worst.…	/r/MensRights	17/04/24 08:56 AM
4	Why do people say “if that was my daughter” about women being victimized but not men? as a woman i would say we are infantilized. if my car breaks down all i have to do is cry on the side of the road and everyone who passes will pull over and offer assistance. there is the assumption we cannot help ourselves which is why people help us. that's not even a made up scenario either. i was crying out of frustration because it was hot and my dog was with me and literally every single car that drove past me pulled over or stopped to check on me. men and women teens and adults. obviously…	/r/MensRights	17/04/24 08:18 AM
1	Shakira Says 'Barbie' Sent Wrong Message About Feminism i watched it and honestly i was lucky to be high through the never ending monologues that went nowhere. i'm a 20 year old woman so i guess i was the intended audience... but at the end of the day my age group already grew up with the messages it tried and failed to send. the only aspect of the movie i thought was actually good and could resonate with people in general was finding a personal identity outside of what had been prepackaged by society. literally all of the barbie brand is an identity…	/r/MensRights	04/04/24 03:47 AM
1	The Yes No Questionnaire for Feminists i think at least for me the trust point comes down to are you in a relationship or not. it makes perfect sense for a man to require a paternity test from a hookup who claims the child is his. or anyone he is not mutually exclusive with. but if you are dating or married one has to understand requesting a paternity test is a direct accusation of infidelity. to get one "just to be sure" is to get one "just to be sure" your partner did not cheat. which is a heavy accusation that will (rightfully so)…	/r/MensRights	26/03/24 01:03 AM
4	The Yes No Questionnaire for Feminists hell i'll answer: yes. men and women should be paid the same for doing the same job. i understand this would have to fluctuate if one works more hours than the other and so on. compensation is deserved for differences in hours or performance. yes. i believe men and women should be able to retire at the same age. we both have lives beyond work we deserve to live. i think as this coming generation reaches "retirement age" we will see the playing field level out for the detriment of both men and wo…	/r/MensRights	26/03/24 12:47 AM