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ADVICE , 19 yrs , Singlevalentinelauren/r/RedPillWives28/05/17 11:58 PM
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DATING ADVICEvalentinelauren/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 02:05 PM
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This really helped me so much ! Being a young nineteen recently joining the Air Force I’ve found that I spend on my money on things that I feel attribute to my self care and hangout w/ women who won’t really benefit me in my journey. When in actuality I should focus on my finances and how I want to live my life . Thanks for this post !
/r/RedPillWives21/01/18 05:02 PM
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I’m glad I’ve finished up with that situation. It won’t lead anywhere good .
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/17 03:24 AM
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That really gave me a little laugh . Im giving my self 2-3 years of monk mode to really increase my SMV and just focus on myself.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 11:00 PM
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Now I'm just super embarrassed I even put up with that type of treatment .
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 10:47 PM
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Thank you so much . In my newly found monk mode I'm definitely going to sit down and make sure i know the difference between the two . I was letting a lot of slide because of that confusion . My milk is dried up. I was being used for spare parts . Thank you again for your advice!
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 04:07 PM
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I WAS THINKING THAT BUT I THOUGHT I WAS OVERTHINKING . Seriously he doesn't even have a major yet and he is studying abroad it just didn't sound right to me . Thank you for your advice !
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 03:55 PM
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sweats This is true. You teach people how to treat you . Thank you for your advice !
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 03:52 PM
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Honestly , your right if he cared it would be shown through his actions. I try my best to respect everyone despite the situations. lol i like to come to people in a correct manner so i can at least say i held up my end of the bargain in the respectful region. I didn't sleep with him for fun . I slept with him because i really liked him and everything in that moment felt perfect to me . We both were in community college transferring to the same school kinda becoming friends . Seriously , it was p…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 03:40 PM
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I truly think it was a self esteem issue within myself . I literally put my foot on the CC and got swung into reality . If hadn't found /r/RedPillWomen there would be no safe haven for me to put my problems and get them analyzed by ladies and gents with insight. Just typing the post itself made me become a little bit more aware of what position I put myself in . Thank you so much for the advice i will definitely check out those resources.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 03:29 PM
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We had sex last night but we weren't officially together anymore . When I came home after the sex is when I saw all that stuff on my computer.Funny how things work because if I would of saw it before I went over there this would have been a very different post. Honestly, I did let it lower my self esteem because I was really caught up in how I could let someone do this to me . But I'm starting to realize I can't control another adults actions. * Can you fill me in ? Why is it a big red flag ?
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 02:53 PM
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Why is it unreadable ? Is it the format specifically or is the whole story unclear?
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 02:15 PM
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Sorry for the way the post looks ! I will do a bit better next time .
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 02:07 PM
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I've been struggling with getting out the bed to go hiking every morning but this is really motivating me to get my butt into gear .
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/17 05:01 PM
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I feel dumb . We got back together . He opened up and I fell in the trap once again ..
/r/RedPillWives31/05/17 03:08 PM
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He just texted me today asked if I still wanted to write jokes for the comedy club thing we wanted to do a while ago . I said yes but I don't know what direction he's trying to go in .
/r/RedPillWives29/05/17 10:57 PM
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I'm so glad I'm going through it . I'm really learning a lot from this thread along with real life situations. The best part of the whole ordeal was how realistic and friendly we were about the break up . Honestly we could still be friends after all of this .
/r/RedPillWives29/05/17 04:08 AM
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We've been dating for about five months . In the first two months I realized we weren't really the best option for each other . But some secrets were revealed and we had a heart to heart about where we both saw the relationship going. In essence he became my best friend . Now the problem is reoccurring because he isn't showing me traits of someone supportive or concerned about my well being so I called it quits. He then texts me and says sorry for not opening up and I hope the next person your w…
/r/RedPillWives29/05/17 01:06 AM
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