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| 3 | Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scroteI went through something very similar when I was 16 and became ‘involved’ with a married man in his 30s. When the wife found out, she blamed me and stayed with him. I’m really glad the top comments are telling her to lawyer up, leave him and tell the authorities. I really hope she listens. I can’t begin to explain how much it has impacted me down the line, knowing that adults like her chose not to protect me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 05:17 AM |
| 10 | What do you wish someone had told you about men when you were 14?-Don’t let older men tell you that you’re ‘mature for your age’ or ‘different from other young girls’. He doesn’t genuinely think you’re different, smarter or ‘more interesting’. -DON’T LET ANYONE FORCE YOU INTO KEEPING SECRETS. Absolutely NOTHING is so awful or secret you can’t tell your mother, or a trusted female teacher. -even as a teenager you’re already smarter, wiser and have more going for you than any of these older men or boys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 11:00 PM |
| 29 | Lessons from LV relationship Part 1: I learned why you should never tell a man about your trauma the hard way. Don't be me.I'm new and starting to realise my ex was a LVM. I told him about my trauma really early on in the relationship and I definitely think he used it against me, even in smaller insidious ways. He didn't need to gaslight me into thinking everything I did was a trauma reaction, because I did that myself unfortunately. But I think it gave him the opportunity to see me as a victim who was helpless, and didn't have standards for how I should be treated. I also think that him knowing about my trauma (I'm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 12:16 AM |
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