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She probably will come back being her first + 8 years is a lot, give her time and don't apologize for shit just continue your path but regardless of the outcome you screwed up, you know that and you're no omnipotent being to change the past. Yes it was beta to cry and all that but it was human it happens to all us, the best you can do is forget and continue focused on your path. Regret is very beta dude
/r/TheRedPill20/10/23 01:54 PM
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Relative to this what's up with mainstream media war on old dudes banging young chicks. I just saw a post about Chris Evans 40 married a 25 yo actress and 90% where about how evans is a creep for the age difference and just praying for the downfall of their relationship
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 04:09 AM
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I don't get it man she told you the truth at the end and you punished her, If she told you from the start will she still be your gf? . What you are promoting is cheating and lying dude.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:21 PM
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This is a big issue I see in here they assume everything is their own fault in other words they care too much go easy on yourself man.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 12:02 AM
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I did brush it off she kept coming back to it and I let her end the relationship cause she couldn’t get past that and I got tired of it. I pretty much just made this to get some steam off and self reflection
/r/askTRP10/02/21 05:26 PM
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Truee
/r/askTRP10/02/21 05:14 PM
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I should have explained that better she just told me that she was attached by that time but she didn’t told me at the time that happened. I never lied to her and didnt cheat on her when we were exclusive, she also never asked me if I kissed someone before we were a couple.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 05:05 PM
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I was looking for a relationship the kiss happened months ago when we were seeing each other but not serious.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 05:01 PM
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Wtf are you even talking about I got into a relationship cause I like her and see a future with her and she felt the same. The cheating occurred when we werent a couple but she told me she already felt attached by that time. If she would have asked me I would have told her but even that wouldn’t fix it.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 04:57 PM
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What does that even mean
/r/askTRP10/02/21 04:38 PM
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Next time I just wont do it, It left me a pretty bad feeling even when she didn’t know
/r/askTRP10/02/21 04:29 PM
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That’s because most of the guys here haven’t swallowed the pill and confuse it as a men’s right movement (in a way it has morph into this) when in reality’s the redpill is just a theory on the current/true sexual marketplace and how it works. That’s why you don’t want to take most of the advice in here and just stick to the side bar and recommended books. Most of the advice is bitter of the red-pill and it has worsen over time
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:14 AM
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The whole social situation and woman power (left), shift the balance of society to a more true red-pill nature where for men looks, social dominance etc are more important than providing we are already seeing this. when before a providing beta used to be a more potential match its not so much the case anymore. I capitalize from this I even now have a plate with only fans that buys me shit. So for the alphas this mean more woman and more money
/r/askTRP03/11/20 11:12 PM
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Yeah, I'm leftist and red-pilled. But I think most people that are in the red pill community are conservatives even though I consider the left actually more true red-pilled.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:04 PM
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It is you can tell most guys here haven't even swallowed the red pill. Just because a woman waits to sleep with you it means she is a good girl for all we know she may have gotten laid by a bunch of randoms in Cancun. It just a more advanced tactic used to to get you in long term or play with you awalt.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 03:58 AM
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Look man there are way to many things that could go wrong and few right if you tell him. At most I would drop hints which Im pretty sure someone close to him already did. I may be wrong and you end up winning a friend for life and your conscience is clear but most likely not. If you end up telling him post an update so we can learn from this shit.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 04:14 PM
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Unless you are getting treated like the dude don’t worry about this shit.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 11:55 PM
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Hard disagree with most of the comments in here. I have told my bros shit like this and 90% of the time they don’t even listen. How old is this guy 28 or older he should have learned the red-flags by now and see through this shit, is not your fault and you are just going to shoot yourself in the foot. You are going to lose your girl, social circle just for saying out loud something that is obvious to anyone.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 11:52 PM
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You are thinking way too much about this shit man. It used to happen to me too, jealousy is a beta trait you need to learn to enjoy life and stop thinking about what's in other plates. In other words stop giving a fuck so much
/r/askTRP26/09/20 08:50 PM
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No, a big mistake I have made with high interest women is that i get too confortable and start making plans everyday get too available and easy because I know they want me. Always make them chase you and be as scarce as possible keep focusing on the gym and your goals.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 08:50 PM
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Same sounds cool
/r/askTRP29/06/20 08:43 PM
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Yeah let her go make her work for it
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:27 PM
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Thats the thing the same happened to her she show me a convo with a guy she was in love but she never reached out to him. She did said that she still misses him
/r/askTRP12/06/20 02:12 PM
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I know but for example the 9 was all down about how the same happened, that she was in love with a guy but he just stopped calling and she never reached out.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 02:10 PM
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Dude I had been in the same situation. Yeah it sucks but thats life you are not always going to be in a situation were you have the power and thats fine.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:50 PM
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I think its possible since stuff like this used to get me down a bunch more. Being fine with it sure its a step in the right direction. Anyways thanks for the solid advice.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 10:21 PM
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Not dull for sure, this kind of stuff still tilt me a little but not as much as before. She posted one of those quotes on her story about how she just wants someone that don’t play games and tells the truth and I almost responded to that. Im just trying to get to where this kind of stuff doesn’t even faze me.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:02 PM
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True still gotta sharpen my edges. Its still fun since its been sometime since a girl got mad at me
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:58 PM
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Its a mix of a lot of stuff now that i think about it. But it comes down to making myself to available. Posting a stories daily on insta cause i wanted to show off. Trying to make plans on the same day. Not punishing enough cause i wanted to see her. While none of those are instant turn off they start adding up and chicks get bored. You can have the money, body and social life but neediness really kills all 3. Value yourself and your time man.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 06:02 PM
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This is the biggest one. Im on top of my game on looks/money but it took me quite some time to realize why I was turning chicks off in the long game. I dropped neediness in little hints and once chicks smelled just a tiny bit, the looks and money just went out the window. Its simple don’t try let her chase you.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 03:50 PM
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But she did
/r/askTRP18/05/20 04:39 PM
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This is my plan so just respond but dont make plans right
/r/askTRP18/05/20 03:29 PM
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Lol so how would you have handled it and whats a good response from here?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 03:07 PM
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Yeah the soft next started after that
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:42 PM
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Damn man i needed that thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 03:43 PM
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Pretty sure she is over it since she unblocked me. I shouldn't call her at all or just wait like a month to msg her? The other guy she is seeing is very high value. Shit man is just that its been sometime since I've been with someone that i actually enjoy and the drawback of not having her is pretty bad. Ive been sleeping with others girls but it's just not the same, gym is helping tho.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 05:31 PM
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The post never said to reveal your n count just to make her belive you had more sexual history. Which still complies with rollo
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