valraaa Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Men highest in psychopathy scored significantly higher genuineness and trust ratings compared to men lowest in psychopathy, and women high in emotionality showed more genuineness and trust of high psychopathy men psychopath hands wrote this study	/r/BlackPillScience	25/05/21 12:11 PM
3	How do I overcome shame over my past involvement in PUA and associated behaviors? Maybe talk to a therapist and work through that shame. If you own up to your past and are committed to acting better with women now, why should you not be able to have a nice healthy relationship with someone you love? We all make mistakes, some more than others, but we can all learn and improve. No need to beat yourself up. Stop worring about people who still judge you for past behaviour. That will stop over time the more consistent you become with your better actions. In the end your love life…	/r/ExRedPill	22/04/21 04:04 AM
3	Why shouldn't I be interested in my girlfriend's past? Of course you should be interested in your girlfriends past, just as you should be interested in her family and her friends. It's important information to have in order to figure out where the person is at. Sure, you shouldn't pressure them to tell everything about themselves at the first meeting, but if someone never opens up about their past and or hasn't made an effort to heal from their past mistakes, then that's a huge redflag and don't let anybody tell you to look the other way. You don't …	/r/ExRedPill	21/04/21 04:13 AM
2	WHAT IS AN ALTERNATIVE? Therapy. Once you get real help you see how ridiculous TRP is. It's a bunch of retards acting like they can tell you how to live life, just so they can feel important about themselves. Their life advice is also maladaptive and doesn't get you far.	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/21 06:51 AM
0	As a man you should not have to prove that you are safe Don't fuss about women like that. They are not ready to be in the kind of relationship that you want. If a woman acts like that, you just move on. Women have suffered a lot historically and some of them still to this day. Unfortunately, all that suffering comes with a cost to themselves and the people around them. There are women who are not like that and once you are at peace and happy with yourself, those women will stumble into your life just by accident.	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/21 06:45 AM
4	Why are you a Exredpill?? I used TRP as an outlet for hating my mom. Once I started therapy I processed that hatred and since then I no longer have any desire to watch gen-x/boomers yell about their ex-girlfriends on Youtube. Especially since I am bi and want to be with a man some day.	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/21 10:07 PM
7	Why isn’t redpill scared of pregnancy/adamantly childfree? They are stunted adolescent boys who want to forever remain in porn wonderland	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/21 05:08 AM
7	why is it ok for women to treat me badly? You have poor self-esteem. It radiates from your post, how you describe yourself, the words you choose etc. And because of that you subconsciously end up in situation that reinforce your own lack of self worth. If a woman were to talk to me like this, I would just get up, leave and never give it a second thought. Talk to a therapist, if you can. You need someone who loves you unconditionally in order to grow some self-esteem. Once you become more confident, all of this will wash away.	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/21 05:06 AM
7	Feeling shame or weak for just being naturally empathic to people / women? He was the second one I picked and I got really lucky with him, as he is the perfect guy for what I am dealing with. Back then I was still carrying a lot of manosphere thought patterns with me and put him down as a beta at first. But now he has become a father figure and spiritual mentor to me. He gives me love in a very masculine way and showed me a way to give the same love to myself, so I no longer have to try to find it in toxic places. I only ever listened to the more smarter people in the …	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/21 05:19 AM
18	Feeling shame or weak for just being naturally empathic to people / women? Become comfortable with your sensitivity and empathy. True masculinity is doing your own thing, even though it goes against the male code. It's easier said than done, though. It took me a year of therapy to get there and it's not like things are magically falling into place. Our modern world and TRP in particular are full of insecure men being obsessed about projecting a strong male image to the outward world. So when they come across someone who is comfortable with his sensitivty, they are usua…	/r/ExRedPill	06/03/21 07:14 PM