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There could also be some emotional impact on how you were interpreting the encounter. Performance anxiety can do that to you also. Sometimes when it’s been a while for me, I can get very worked up and excited leading up to it, but then when the time comes, my body doesn’t respond. Happened to my the other week. Went over to her house. At this point it’s been a month since I last got laid. On my way over, I was so horny and ready. I knew we were gonna fuck. But when the time came, I couldn’t get …
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:08 PM
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from title: "coworker" "divorced" "with a kid" yes it's a bad idea
/r/askTRP12/07/18 02:37 AM
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Using your diaphragm, push out an "uhhhhh" noise. This is your natural speaking voice. You've conditioned yourself to raise the tone of your voice as well as the pitch to what you assumed was a more pleasant pitch when speaking to someone, and there are some people who you'll raise it even higher for (think of the customer service associate speaking to a customer). You can access your natural voice at any time. Though in the morning, your voice will be significantly more deep - deepening your vo…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:44 AM
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If you want to keep fucking her, I recommend throwing in some comfort. As an outsider looking in based on what you said, I see jealousy in the fact that you're fucking other girls and she's not special to you, which to me reads as wanting to commitment. If she's doing the same with other guys, then the only explanation is that she has more feelings for you than she is leading on regardless of what she is saying. Her behavior and reactions suggest otherwise to what she's stating. Listen to her be…
/r/askTRP10/07/18 01:42 PM
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Seems to me she is starting to really want commitment tbh.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 01:25 PM
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Well, what are you doing to her in bed?
/r/askTRP10/07/18 01:15 PM
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You should always be escalating. A nice body > a nice face. If you have a subpar face, women look past that if you have a nice body. A nice body is enough to peak interest in a woman, because a developed physique suggests sexual prowess and dominance in bed.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:13 PM
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The one with better game. But women will go to the jacked guy with average face first.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 04:28 AM
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Typo. Meant to write passing her shit tests.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 05:34 PM
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What are your stats? Mantaining 7.5% is going to be a lot easier if you're 200lbs with 7.5% than 140lbs.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 04:45 PM
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Not necessarily criticism. A lot of people here like to think everything a woman says to you in a shit test when that's not always the case. It's usually a way to test you for something that is perceived as a weakness to others, or an insecurity. If you are being shit tested, chances are the woman is attracted to you and is using it to actually test your mentality. A man should be physically strong (by lifting) and a man should be mentally strong (by testing her shit tests).
/r/askTRP08/07/18 04:06 PM
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Forget the alpha and beta mentality for a second that is so strong in this community. Think of a tree. A stern tree that is unmovable. The branches are strong. During a storm, the wind and rain and whatever other elements are at work and for some trees, the branches break and some trees even fall down. Be a stern tree. Using this metaphor, consider the tree your sense of self and your mental fortitude as a man. You are supposed to be strong, and stoic. Shit tests are often ways for people to tes…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 03:56 PM
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I agree so much. I value my muscularity more than I do some people in my life. Always willing to trade in my time for some heavy lifting. I'd live in the gym if I could.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 01:40 PM
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I don't recommend waiting too long to invite them out. Could also be fake numbers, if they don't respond at all. Something I would recommend when getting their numbers, ask them to put it into your phone manually and then take the phone back and call them in front of them. This helps validate that it's a real number. You could also ask them to get their phone out as if you're about to give her your number, and then change your mind after it's out (that way you know that she actually has her phon…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 01:17 PM
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How do you go from there? Setting up dates, getting numbers, etc.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 01:01 PM
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Sounds like a healthy and realistic view on women. What are your full interactions like? I really don't think your success with women who you are approaching by yourself in your every day life is related to your social circle.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 12:56 PM
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What would you say your view on women is? A means to an end? Just for fucking?
/r/askTRP08/07/18 12:43 PM
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Check your diet. Fat regulates hormones. Keep fat intake at a good amount. I personally aim for 40-50 grams minimum.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 12:15 PM
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Remove the fact that you clearly state you’re a goofball who isn’t afraid to make fun of himself. Open invitation to being seen as weak and opening yourself up to being made fun of by others since you don’t respect yourself and make fun of yourself.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 12:15 PM
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Single digits is where you can walk around and see your abs in pretty much any condition assuming they are defined enough. If you’re without any real muscle mass, you’ll just look like a skinny twink.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 12:13 PM
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How are you connecting with women and gaming them? With that kind of body, you can easily pull off a cocky attitude who pushes more than pulls, and plays with her emotions. Develop the mentality that you are the prize. Think to yourself “Just look at me. What woman wouldn’t want me fucking them?” It’s all about your thoughts. Go in truly believing that you are higher value and she should qualify herself to you, and reflect that through making her qualify herself, and you should see some better r…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 11:55 AM
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The problem with being goofy all the time is a lot of people end up taking advantage of you because a goofy guy comes across as someone who is looking to make friends with everyone. Which is ideal, of course, but coming across as actively looking to make friends with everyone in the room has its own negative associations. People will disrespect you and walk over your kindness and lack of having a firm stance on things because you’re flexible and don’t really care one way or another. I know becau…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 05:07 AM
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“You’re okay.”
/r/askTRP05/07/18 05:24 PM
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Oh okay, I tend to ask questions and let her do the talking. In the form of statements? Can you give an example.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:21 PM
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I do understand this, and I do agree, but I am a bit confused because generally the advice here is to let her do most of the talking and to say less than her pretty much. How do I do that, but also control the conversation?
/r/askTRP05/07/18 11:51 AM
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If you’re aiming for sex, make sure she has nowhere to sit except where you want her to sit. If your bedroom has a bed and a desk, make sure the chair is already occupied with something that prevents her from using it as a way to cockblock you.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:30 AM
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I mean I still have a lot of nice guy tendencies. Like not escalating and being shy to do so.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 05:29 PM
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That’s the attitude I tend to have when I’m interacting. But in practice in the moment it’s hard not to respond in what was a natural way. I have the asshole thing going for me in that I like to tease and push more than pull, but I still find it impossible to navigate shit tests in the real world. Even thinking of examples is hard.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 04:33 PM
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My biggest problem is identifying shit tests and being able to differentiate a shit test between a valuable and credible statement or concern. I have dealt with the consequences of responding to a valid concern from someone as if it were a shit test, and it’s not at all good.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 04:17 PM
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It’s rather strange from your other replies that your physique doesn’t give you any confidence.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 03:33 PM
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You’ve got some pretty solid mass for those numbers!
/r/askTRP03/07/18 03:22 PM
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How long have you been lifting and what program do you run?
/r/askTRP03/07/18 01:59 PM
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Well whenever we are together and not in a super public place, I always initiate. I’m a very horny man. I planned on acting like nothing happened, but history tells me she will be hung up about it. She and other women I’ve been with have expressed the fact that they find it weird that I can let out an emotion like frustration and then suddenly be totally okay. Okay, that’s fine. She’s a woman that’s what they do. They cling onto emotions and just keep them around. But even with that in mind, it’…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 10:52 PM
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Well right now I’m not responding to her. I just came back from the bar I’m pretty well known in. Assuming I can sleep off my tipsy, I plan on napping and then going to the gym and sleeping and then going to work tomorrow. So should I continue to just not respond to her text?
/r/askTRP02/07/18 10:27 PM
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I usually don’t initiate contact to begin with. Rarely I’ll send her a good morning text if I feel like it’s been a while, but apart from that, I let her contact me first. So when she contacts me, should I respond?
/r/askTRP02/07/18 10:17 PM
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Solid reply!! Just what I needed to hear. I am just unsure when to end it and what to say when it’s over. How do I initiate contact? Should I make it last a shorter period like a few hours because this is the first time?
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:13 PM
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This is my first time running it. She’s already called me 5 times and has driven to my house.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:03 PM
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How it affects her is competition anxiety. The more women who want you, the more a woman wants you, because she says to herself “look at all those girls throwing themselves at him he’s so high value I want him.”
/r/askTRP02/06/18 04:46 AM
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This depends on a lot of factors. How much can you lift now? If you can take an Olympic barbell with 1 plate (45lbs plate on both sides) and bench it in addition to rowing it, it’s a good sign you won’t have any issues. But it’s likely you can already do this, albeit with a bit of difficulty. This is also a great way to get a girl really wet and DTF. I take plates of mine for a walk in this really secluded forest overlooking a lake with the intention of fucking them there. I pick her up, bend he…
/r/askTRP02/06/18 03:40 AM
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what does this have to do with trp?
/r/askTRP27/04/18 04:44 AM
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How do you assume a sexual frame from the beginning? Can you also give an example of being challenged in the sexual frame you assume and doubling down on it without compromising?
/r/askTRP26/04/18 04:20 AM
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Ask her what she’s doing out of the kitchen, because you don’t remember telling her she could be. Going the sexist route is an easy way to regain control of the situation and it’s humorous to other guys. Girls seem into guys who are a little bit misogynistic.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 11:21 PM
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Do hit the gym and lift heavy. Don’t go to the gym and run on the elliptical with the girls your entire time and then leave. I don’t go to the gym to judge people, but I do notice the guys who clearly need to lift a dumbbell get there with a woman or two and hang out in the cardio area, who leave before I’m done my workout, and I just can’t help but think they’re a beta cuck.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:59 PM
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Virginity does matter to some people, and to others it does not. Our own virginity matters once you reach a certain age, where you personally feel you should have lost it. For most guys, that happens around 20+ years old. Also, a lot of guys think less of you if they know you are one and a lot of girls will act different around you if they know they have a chance at being your first - some are into it, some aren't. After you lose your virginity, you realize it is not really too big of a deal tha…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 03:15 PM
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Some men feel anger, some don't. For me, I never had an anger stage, because all this seemed like common sense to me growing up. For a lot of guys, they feel like they were lied to their whole life.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 03:14 PM
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That woman sounds like a bitch, and also exactly like a woman I know at my job who holds much of the same attitudes. She somehow leads a lot of men on who send her money and she never gives them anything in return.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 03:13 PM
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This isn't the advice you are looking for, because my advice would be to make some friends. One of the things I regret when I was that age was not really taking time to have any friends. I could make friends, but I'd lose them just as quick. I'm 26 now, and I am successful with women, but I still have problems making and keeping friends. In all other areas of my life, I am pretty satisfied, but it leads to some depressing nights.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 03:10 PM
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The first thing you need to do is to take your balls back from this chick. She’s got them dangling from her rear view window. When you get those back, you’ll have everything you need to break up with her. Stop playing games and trying subtle ways to get her to make the moves. You are the man. That is your job anyway.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 10:55 AM
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You’re there to give her the attention she wants when other higher value guys aren’t there to give her dick.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 05:59 AM
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Let it pass. This didn’t bother you in the slightest. You gave it no thought, no importance. In fact, you need to be reminded by others that it happened at all. And when you are, you find it kinda funny, and you move on with your life.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 05:57 AM
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Next time I think it would be very hilarious if you took her out and tell her it’s a surprise where and then bring her to a strip club.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 05:47 AM
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It's not a shit test. You need to hit the gym.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 02:53 PM
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Tell him to eat your ass and stop being a little bitch.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 02:25 AM
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https://i.imgur.com/DeemXqN.jpg
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:34 AM
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No. You are the most alpha of them all, OP.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 05:32 PM
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make it a two night stand.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 05:26 AM
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usually one week a month.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 05:25 AM
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The amount of decisions I make based on my gains is 100% of them.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 12:08 PM
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you shouldn't be marrying plates.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 06:18 AM
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read her body langauge when it comes to foreplay. too much foreplay and she won't be as into it. in my experience, most girls in the bedroom are just as direct and vocal before you unravel her as they are outside of the bedroom AKA they aren't AKA they "drop hints" that they expect you to pick up AKA they want you to still be a mindreader.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 05:53 AM
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bro i don't think anyone of us want to see your pics, especially in pm. i recommend getting a better haircut and facial hair style that fits your face shape, taking better care of your skin, dressing well, eating well, and lifting well. a 3 face with is best fought with a 7+ body. that's achieved through diet and exercise.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 05:48 AM
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a woman's goal is to have a man commit to her. she will use sex to achieve that in situations where a man is of high enough value and attractive.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 05:46 AM
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fight hypergamy by embracing your masculinity (lifting, being masculine, improving yourself) and beat cheeks.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 05:44 AM
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you can think what you want about licking pussy and whether or not its submissive or dominant to do it. i don't really view it as either or. from experience, a lot of girls who identify as 'good girls' get super shy when a tongue comes near their clit. but i do think you can assume a dominant role by just being aggressive and physical with anything that you do.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 05:42 AM
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you do realize everyone who lifts lifts and sleeps, right? maybe not everyone has a job, but I'm willing to bet most of the guys in the gym have a job. dumb question bro. do all three like everyone else.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 05:36 AM
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I treat my dick like a best bro. He always lets me know what he’s in to, so I have to look out for him to get him into whatever he’s in to. So when it comes down to it, the biological role of a penis is to penetrate and conquer where a vagina accepts and submits. Follow that instinct in interactions.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 11:56 PM
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