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TRP as a praxeology and a community steers away from politicking, but that doesn't mean we are free from politics. When our mission statement is the embodiment of everything certain political groups hate, politics tend to come our way.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 05:41 PM
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His point does not conflict with your point. While there probably are too many PhD's out there, many of them obtained their degree solely due to lowered degree standards. So there are more PhD's than jobs but not enough truly intelligent people who actually understand their field to fill all the positions. The vast majority of positions are filled with morons. Its the same in law and why finding a good attorney is quite difficult.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 03:47 PM
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I completely agree. But what is rather ironic in this instance is that the white knight is correct but for the wrong reason. At least if, as men, we fix ourselves, we know where the problem lies. Is OP the problem or is it his wife? Until he owns his shit and gets on the right path he will never know.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 02:59 AM
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White knights always be white knighting.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 02:06 AM
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Women live for drama. Either you provide it and control the interaction or they provide it and you react. One way equals wet pussy, one doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 03:08 PM
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I see only one problem with this post. A compliance test (aka a shit test) is a test of a man's frame and not the same as a comfort test, which is test to she if she is good enough for you. Other than that, this post is pure gold.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 02:33 AM
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Where did I say no demons or struggles? Depression and substance abuse are coping mechanisms for the struggles in life. Great men become stronger because their demons and struggles. They fuel the fire. Weak men turn to the various forms of perpetual intoxication. The weakest of men off themselves because they can't take life any longer.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 07:18 PM
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Great men don't have depression and substance abuse issues, don't let women ruin their lives, twice, and don't off themselves.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 05:30 PM
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The law uses the term "primary aggressor" for DV arrests. Men are more likely to be viewed as the primary aggressor for a variety of reasons. So to answer your question, no, it won't work in DV cases. I dismissed a case where the guy called the cops on his gf because she was wasted and falling all over the place while holding their newborn. He tried to take the baby from her. She told the cops he smacked her and almost hit the child. Even though she was wasted and endangering a newborn, he was d…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 08:14 PM
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You are correct but it goes much deeper. After all women can use knives an guns just like any man can. Why do you think there is a "battered wives syndrome"? There are institutional devices in place to free women from guilt/blame that don't apply to men under the same circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 07:41 PM
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Sound strategies for adequate protection will be forthcoming. Mouth punches included.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 07:33 PM
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Cultivate discipline. It actually has a lasting effect on your life. Motivation is fleeting.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 12:55 AM
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I tried posting this on a fresh account but forgot about the anti-newbie ban, so I said screw it. If I get doxxed, I get doxxed. This topic hits home with me; I am a prosecuting attorney with years of experience in this field. While I do not prosecute in Florida, most, if not all states have these VAWA (violence against women act) laws that are uniformly enacted across multiple jurisdictions. Femi-nazis have lobbied each individual state to pass substantially similar legislation. Not every state…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 07:56 PM
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For those who don't understand the million dollar words being thrown around, mikejoneswho believes you can practice RP in a bubble. GLO is (correctly) arguing you can't because the entire world is politicized. RP detests safe spaces.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 12:59 AM
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Stopped reading at "long distance relationship"
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 11:42 AM
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You definitely have some rough times ahead. Abundance mentality and dread work. Plain and simple. Ii eventually gets to a point where, subconsciously, she has to know you are 100% capable of cheating, that the other girl is a mere phone call away, and that you are fine with the consequences. redpillrobby and I disagree on whether or not you MUST cheat, but the underlying principle is the same. She must know you 100% can cheat at-will. If she doesn't, your dread will eventually have no effect.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 08:25 PM
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Valid point, and on a certain level, especially with taxes, healthcare, legal support, I agree. However, we are regularly seeing females boast about their high N-count, and at earlier and earlier ages. A recent post by u/destroying-reality comes to mind and shows the reality that feminism is "empowering" women to have "equality" in all areas, not just legal rights, workplace rights, etc. Third and fourth way feminists literally want women to act like males, to the point that some of them want a …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:34 PM
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So many contradictions in one tiny post. But what you fail to understand is that I agree with OP. I'm going to do me, you do you, and if that gets you laid like tile, great. But paying for hookers tends to get really expensive!
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 04:47 PM
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Which is why posting when you have no experience is like playing Russian roulette. The newbies need to be guided by the more experienced members of the community until they have enough experience to actually get laid. Posting a FR about how you followed GLO's or Rollo's advice and got laid is within the guidelines. Posting theory when you haven't actually gotten laid and haven't approached hundreds of women in an attempt to get laid, doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 04:23 PM
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MASTERS teach, PUPILS stfu and learn until they have demonstrated mastery over the subject matter. Simple as that. Your n-count is the only metric that matters when determining mastery in a sub squarely focused on sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 04:13 PM
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All other things being equal, my sculpted arms, chest, and abs will get me laid more often than your blurry 6. If you workout and eat properly it is easy to stay lean, strong, and healthy.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 04:02 PM
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The comfort test/shit test dichotomy is something I plan to touch on in part 2 because we see substantially fewer comfort test when spinning plates opposed to when we are in ltr/marriage. It falls in line with the two hierarchy models I mention in the post and how things differ slightly between the two.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 08:03 PM
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If you are reacting to her with babbling enthusiasm she will view you as a child. If you lead and act with enthusiasm and bring her into your frame, it's just the opposite. Men can be excited, enthusiastic, etc and still be in control of themselves and their emotions.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 05:52 PM
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Uh, I carry dog treats in my pockets. Gets all the bitches chasing me!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/17 07:07 PM
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Both of these comments really hit the nail on the head. I found myself reacting to my wife's mood, temper, and enthusiasm instead of setting the tone myself. Action is always better and more effective than reaction. The first attempt at fixing this was the AA and escalation. I saw improvements but it was merely a band-aid. I realized I had to set the tone from the start of the interaction. Doing this nipped the issue in the bud and really set the tone for interaction throughout the rest of the n…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/17 07:00 PM
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I truly believe many of you are missing the point. This is not about conflating TRP with T_D and politics. The mention of T_D was merely being used as an example of what will more than likely happen when TRP gains enough influence to become a viable threat to the SJW/feminist stranglehold on thought. Yes T_D was run by a RP mod but no one is saying we want TRP to become T_D or a political activist group. What we ARE talking about is maintaining a space for us to think and speak freely.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 12:24 AM
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The reason we are allowed to exist is because we drive traffic to reddit and related sites. We used to be a nuisance that was used as a tool by the SJW types but we have grown enough to develop into a threat to the establishment. Once the threat becomes large enough, action must be taken to wipe it out. While I don't see this happening in the near future, GLO, in his usual clairvoyance, is forming a plan of action to ensure we remain organized when shit hits the fan.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 12:00 AM
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If my wife told me that I "grabbed her boob in a demeaning way", got pissed about it, and told me I should be happy just to get sex with only her I would take a long look at myself in the mirror and figure out a) what I'm doing wrong that is removing her kink, and b) do I still want to be in this relationship knowing it may not get any better no matter what I do. Sounds like you need to do some serious introspection and figure it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 12:26 AM
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This is a good start but you are still explaining yourself here. You need to bring her into your frame and get her hamster running wild. This is why the above comment is better (you should worry when I don't). It is much more concise, does no explaining, and will get the hamster running because she will get to the conclusion that you are referring to fucking other women, on her own. It's much more powerful when she comes to the conclusion herself.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 06:17 PM
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Treat her like the child she is. Do you care when a 5 year old throws a tantrum? No, you hold your frame and tease the shit out of her for being a whiny 5 year old. Having a serious discussion with your lady is fine and often necessary but she has to be an adult about it. If she can't, and picks fights with you to bring you into her frame (she is and you're failing miserably) you have to shut that shit down. Holding your frame, getting what you want, having the relationship you want isn't selfis…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/17 07:16 PM
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Pushups done first thing. I am terrified of freedom. The realization that I can do whatever, whenever I want. Throughout life my obstacles, my goals, my challenges were always provided by others (family, coaches, professors, etc) to guide me down what they believed was the correct path. The notion that, as an adult (I'm 32 with a doctorate), I can do anything and become anyone freezes me in my tracks. Its a fear of change and a fear of failure that comes with having no one to guide me but myself…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 09:49 PM
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I have to disagree here. I think his interpretation is fairly accurate. His wife definitely has some insecurities regarding his change. He is no longer the beta bitch she was used to. He is also no longer the beta bitch her friends knew him to be. As we all know women talk, and his wife is in dire need of knowing why he went an became a man again instead of staying her 300lb beta bux. It would not surprise me if the question was asked by his wife's friend for the sole benefit of his wife. Regard…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 08:57 PM
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I had a similar experience to this. The wife sometimes let me do it but always complained about how "yucky" it was; she usually did something to avoid it happening when I came. One night I decided to completely own what I wanted. I made the wife cum a few times, she got sore and I couldn't finish so I told her she had to finish me by hand. She did, but I grabbed it and flung it all over her chest. She was visibly upset, got up and called me an asshole. I laid down in bed got comfortable and made…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 08:32 PM
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Please refrain from this type of comment. We welcome argument, we welcome discourse, we welcome disagreement when it is backed by opinion and/or fact. However, this type of trolling does nothing to help the men of TRP better themselves. It makes no point, it provides no argument, it is complete shit that needs to be expelled, and It shows you are not interested in improving yourself. Consequently, if you are not interested in becoming a better man you should leave. We won't miss you, trust me.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 02:40 PM
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This was desperately needed. I thank you for your contribution and in helping me renew my determination and stay disciplined.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 08:06 PM
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My motto during my anger phase (I'm still in it): The anger I hold is directed at the system, at feminism, at myself; but not at her. She is not the problem but her way of thinking is a symptom of the problem. Fix the underlying problem (myself, my frame, my dominance, etc.) and fix the symptom.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/16 07:36 PM
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This is the type of shit I like reading about in field reports. Why? Because it is genuine. Did you do everything perfectly? No. Could you have done better? Of course! But you went outside of your comfort zone and proved to yourself that it can be done. We are all at different levels of trp mastery and as long as you are applying trp principles and pushing your own limits you succeeded in becoming a better man. Well done good sir, well done indeed!
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 01:47 AM
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By all means, keep sitting on that couch playing COD or wanking to pornhub. The fewer enlightened there are out in public, the more pussy there is for us to slay.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 11:33 AM
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I actually gave this a decent amount of thought and couldn't devise a similar quip for females. +1 to you for the catch good sir.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 08:10 PM
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I am new here, only been lurking for a couple of weeks. Still currently getting the lay-of-the-land so to speak; I know no one. With that said, while written with a purposeful lack of tact (GayLubeOil I know what you're doing and agree tact and PC are undesirable for TRP) the post nails it. Duality is probably the most underrated yet most essential part of being successful, whether with women or life in general. It is so important that we actually have terms for it when practiced properly - cunn…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 04:11 PM
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