| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 23 | New guy | vancityoriginals | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/23 04:48 AM | |
| 6 | Discord Support Group? | vancityoriginals | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/22 10:49 PM | |
| 2 | Court today - help? | vancityoriginals | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/23 08:06 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | Got My SockGo defcon brother. You got this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/24 12:14 AM |
| 6 | I don’t know how to be alone after 10 yearsStay away from the bottle. You got lots of company here, not alone my friend. It gets easier. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/23 06:41 PM |
| 16 | Seeking advice - Wife cheated, she doesn't know I knowConfirmed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/23 03:18 PM |
| 2 | MessyYup. Going on 4 years now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/23 05:22 PM |
| 6 | New Lady Friend?Fuck lawyers. Scum of the earth. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | New Lady Friend?Let her take your pants off. Bang it out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 07:54 PM |
| 1 | I'm having a midlife crisis, how do I get through it?Haha I did this. In a solid relationship now but man was it fun. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Court today - help?That was rough. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/23 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Court today - help?I have the application and a lot of it is quite embellished. Here we go! | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/23 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Wife is divorcing me, what now?Buckle up. Stick around. Lean on us and whoever else you have. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/23 12:02 AM |
| 6 | Prevalence of the Modern Walk Away WifeExactly. Take some responsibility for your own happiness. I’m literally out here trying to give us all the best life possible with zero help. I’m going to do my best to be there for you always, but don’t just bail when things get tough. Anyways that was 3 years ago now, not sure if she’s much happier or had any realizations. Guess I’ll never know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/23 06:56 PM |
| 5 | Prevalence of the Modern Walk Away WifeHappy with what they have. Bingo. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/23 06:41 PM |
| 23 | Prevalence of the Modern Walk Away WifeYup. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/23 02:47 PM |
| 13 | Marriage is not about love. It's an economic contract.This is a repost and I can’t remember who posted it but I think it’s relevant here. Speak up if it was you! Marriage has undergone drastic changes since the early 1970s. What used to be the bedrock of Western culture with life-long commitment and unbreakable barring the most severe circumstances, has been relegislated into something entirely new thanks to the lobbying efforts of radical feminists and the divorce industry. This includes legalized abortion, no-fault divorce, domestic violence laws… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/23 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Blindsided by divorce and heartbrokenBrother. Here for you. Been there. Almost 3 years into it now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 05:43 PM |
| 3 | ResentmentI’ve been stuck in resentment awhile | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/23 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone actually had success in litigation?Modern day pension | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/23 08:19 PM |
| 5 | Advice to men: It is very difficult or impossible to recover financially from a divorce after a long marriage, you are almost always better off hiding assets and risking a penalty vs certainty of lower living standard for the rest of your lifeI’m essentially from scratch. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/23 12:41 PM |
| 5 | It gets betterI’m 2.3 and shit is not getting better. I’m happy to hear it is for some though. God speed gentleman. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/23 02:03 AM |
| 4 | How did divorce change you emotionally?I always love the dday replies. I’ve saved a few to my notes. Thank you sir. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/03/23 05:13 PM |
| 1 | True Detective season 1Yeah. First season was the best. Great acting. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/23 01:38 AM |
| 4 | Did your wife’s friends turn her against you?Of course. She has to reinforce that narrative she’s stuck in. Doesn’t bother me though, only if you let it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/23 11:00 PM |
| 3 | What is divorce? A man's perspective.Still am | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/23 04:05 PM |
| 5 | What is divorce? A man's perspective.Divorce is being cast into the void. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/23 02:02 AM |
| 6 | Ladies, you have the divorce reddit to yourselves. Why pretend to be men on this one?Yet we support and give them everything when they decide to cash in on their modern day pension. The irony | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/23 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me... or is the system designed solely for profit and inequality usually at the fathers expense?!Jesus | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/23 08:47 PM |
| 2 | For those coparenting with narcissist ex. How are you doing?So when we split, my kids were 5 and 3. In the spirit of doing “what was best for the kids”, they stayed in the family home. We didn’t think it was a good idea to bounce them back and forth between us so young, plus I couldn’t even find 2 bedroom housing due to where I live. And now it’s an uphill battle, I feel your struggle. She’s changed so much in the past year or so. My kids don’t hate me by any means, but I don’t want to become Disneyland Dad. I’m still involved in their lives daily and th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/23 10:05 PM |
| 6 | Pay the lump sum to dodge lifetime maintenance or fight for a different settlement?Tell tale signs of a cheater | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/23 02:45 PM |
| 2 | I'm in the anger stage of grief, and it has opened my eyes to the truth of marriage.Couldn’t agree more. Welcome, brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/23 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How long realistically does it take to move on ?I just hit 2 years since I moved out. It’s been peaks and valleys. The first year was the darkest valley. The second year has been some growth but I just went through a really rough patch recently. I felt revitalized this New Years though, I’m still facing some big challenges but i know I can get through. I read this quote, about a boy lost. “I can't see a way through”, said the boy. “Can you see your next step?" “Yes” “Just take that”, said the horse. - The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse … | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Any positive stories here?My goal is to become one of these posts. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/23 11:12 PM |
| 3 | New guyI agree. However I also don’t feel a need to control her at all. She’s an adult, she wanted to see the other side of the fence, and so she is now. The only thing I care about is that my kids are safe. But the expense has been fucking tremendous on this side, cast into the void almost overnight, financially ruined and the hardest part, living alone and away from your kids. Fighting to see them. I am still working through the resentment part but I’m worn out. To drive up to your old house and see … | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | New guyIt was strange timing and sadly you’re probably right. He was leaving. The kids were asking me “who is that, dad?” I said “you’ll have to ask your mom guys I’m not sure”. They asked her and she said “oh my friends are just leaving”. That was that, they didn’t ask anything after that. Clearly it was one guy leaving, so not sure why she said that, I guess maybe she wasn’t wanting to say it’s her boyfriend or something. It was kind of surreal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/23 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Discord Support Group?Thank you so much. I listen to your podcast, and completely forgot you mentioned this. I’m struggling, need some support. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/22 12:39 AM |
| 2 | am I on the hook for my kids education if I can't afford it? Ontario Canada. supposedly education is a section 7 expense...all I am is a fucking paycheck. They sure respond quick when it comes to money don’t they | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Why does everyone always side with the woman?Wild | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/22 08:34 PM |
| 2 | It’s been 4 months of hell.Women are brutal. Mine called me. Couldn’t even talk to me face to face. No respect. And then your out, alone, supporting everyone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/22 08:30 PM |
| 2 | To those who got divorced and had to live together untill the house sold. What's your best advice?I didn’t get that option. It was out the next day. My life still hasn’t recovered. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | ConfusedThat was a wild read | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | ConfusedThank you | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | ConfusedMan this resonates | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/22 07:50 PM |
| 7 | How many of you lovely lot have actually found a genuinely nice and kind woman who makes you happy ?I’ll never get married again. There is no incentive for men to do so. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/22 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Can you intentionally gamble away a few hundred grand before divorce in the stocks market so no one gets anything?Liable for what? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/22 08:01 PM |
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