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Depends on your definition of accused. Accused in a plase leading to a investigation, accused in the family court system that doeant require evidence, accused to get what she want in the home "leave and ill tell ppl you r me" cause the last 2 are quite common i find but seems to not get included in stats despite being just as dangerous. A accusation like this got his family (parents and siblings) to not talk to him for 15 years now despite her coming forward to them after 5 years that she made i…
/r/MensRights22/10/24 03:44 PM
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I am so insecure about my body. No joke, if my ex did this to me i would most likely do something stupid and very permanent. Revenge porn is not cool. Closest thing that happened to me was a ex sent me a video of herself fucking someone else as a way of breaking up with me. Not sure what she was thinking because i could have uploaded it... but it hurt me more than i think it would have hurt her.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 11:31 PM
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Im confused, on one side men are blamed for not doing something about these issues and on the other accused when we take action. Its like the justice system is there for a reason and why it looks like we arnt doing anything
/r/MensRights26/06/23 11:17 PM
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Its brain washing. The loud groups call male rights advocates toxic, women haters, patriarchy supporters. Just like the enormous amout of women leaving feminism when the finally see the trueth your friend is just brain washed. He maid assumption. Similar to the assumptions that used to apply to the gay comunity involving pedophilia or 100% adultery. Its the immediate block that gives it away.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 04:03 PM
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Prenups are a joke anyways. See so many things in a prenup the judge decides to throw out
/r/MensRights16/06/23 03:54 PM
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Definatly, ive had a crazy "clingy" gf. They just have the advantage of not being called stalker
/r/MensRights15/06/23 09:53 PM
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Your absolutly right. I would die for my family, i would kill for my children. If my partner ever tried taking my kids i have no doubt if i thought i lost them i would end it..... we dont show our love like women and often it gets misread as loveless
/r/MensRights15/06/23 01:08 AM
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No, the misleading statistics.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 02:59 PM
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Not sure if the gtfo was ment for me, if so i think i may not have been clear. I ment that we are seeing only one type of abuse being addressed and forgetting about the mental abuse thus encouraging it since men tend to be physical and women psychological. Im on your side we need to address physiological abuse as well and just as hashly as physical abuse
/r/MensRights13/06/23 10:34 PM
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I dont actually think most do it on purpose. I think they just dont see things the same way causing issues. They go in looking for the problem so their not objective to the trueth instead they focus on their truth.
/r/MensRights13/06/23 10:30 PM
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Suverys like this count 2 as agree violence against women is ok. If you not 100% against it 100% of the time then your the problem. Its like asking if murder is ok and ppl say yes when in self defence then they claim you approve of murder....... So when someone asks me if its ok to hit a woman like this question. I would logically say 2. If shes coming at me with a knife i think its ok to hit a woman..... you can never 100% believe is nothing theres always exceptions
/r/MensRights13/06/23 09:39 PM
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This is the issue. Men get blasted for physical abuse (as they should) but mental abuse like this seems to be encouraged
/r/MensRights12/06/23 04:52 PM
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Not sure if they tried again but someone tried a female version and it was taken down. Interesting how one side is allowed to do this and the other isnt. Not to mention stats show women are the currently the primarty for DATING multiple men at the same time currently....
/r/MensRights12/06/23 04:50 PM
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You price product for your consumer. Some thing women are willing to pay more for and some things men wont buy even if they were 1c more than current price. It goes the other way to there are things men pay more for too just because we are willing to pay for it. Hair cuts are a perfect example. I look for the cheapest possible cut where my gf pays way too much ( in my opinion) 10x $ more for only 2x the labour. Because they are willing to pay more for it. Part of it also has to do with supply an…
/r/MensRights07/06/23 08:09 PM
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Check what is included in this stat and ask yourself why its rising. They arnt catching up but the emotioanl manipulation of a so called attempt is.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 03:38 PM
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The problem is toxic masculinity exists but these groups want men to act like women and that defeates the point of being men. We are different so we can see things differently and respond differently. This is why sometimes you go to the male for help instead of females and vise versa. If everyone grows up identical and everyone acts like women that destroys the ability to see things differently. My gf complains about her boss (female) all the time to her gfs and they take my gfs side all the tim…
/r/MensRights07/04/23 07:18 AM
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True that. Its always a circle. She treats boys like shit becasue boys treater her like shit and then the boys treat girls like shit becasue ofnthat and so on and so on and so on. This idea that its all mens fault is silly everyone reacts to their history all that way back to the first humans where she hit him for staring to long or human a wanted to go to buddies cave and human b said it was ok expecting him to read between the lines lol neither one was right but they both started it.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 03:44 AM
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Treat boys like toxic waste and they are more likely to become toxic waste.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 02:51 AM
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I am in no way a expert but it sounds like you "broke her heart" when you denied her advances. My suggestion would be to txt her saying you really broke the kiss off becasue she just got out of the hospital and might not be thinniing clearly and wanted to seperate yourself from her so that in the future any emotions between you would be real. But i would honestly suggest telling more than just for family tell your school teacher and police. Get ahead of it instead of waiting for the storm. Tell …
/r/MensRights06/04/23 02:23 AM
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She is absolutely correct. To fix this lets force all women to fight in the war like they do men.
/r/MensRights26/03/23 03:22 PM
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This is true for me too. Dont get him cut flowers but a plant.
/r/MensRights26/03/23 12:20 AM
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The way to a mans heart is through his stomach. Take him out. I like gag gifts. Buddy ziptied a whistle to a 10mm socket as a gift 12 years ago, Its still in my toolbox. I find we like more practicle gifts. This is why we dont understand giving a sah partner a new vacuum is wrong untill after the argument lol. What does he work on or do around the house get him something he will use regulary. But honestly the comparison to flowers i think is food. Ileven if he ends up cooking buy some fancy stea…
/r/MensRights26/03/23 12:17 AM
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This is basically my issue with the pro choice side too. Im personally pro life probably biased on being adopted to a family that couldn't have kids. But i think abortion is a nessesity in todays world until we fix a entire grocery list of things. That said as far as the discussion i cabt stand with the pro choice side because theres so much double standards in their debates.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 06:46 AM
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I dont know. I think what we are going now is proving todays debates on equality = war of the genders. I dont want the mras to be as revolutionary as feminsm cause look at where feminism is today. Most of what i see in the mens rights are pointing out the double standards in feminism. What i would love to see is the downfall of feminism and mens rights movements and replace it with one equality group that works together..... but right now both are nessisary. But the revolutionary act would be de…
/r/MensRights15/03/23 05:53 PM
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Avoid record and report. Seriously, if she said this, report her to whatever hr system is there. You dont nessisarly have to tey to get her i trouble if you dont want since theres no proof but get it documented so that if something happens they have it in their file
/r/MensRights14/03/23 04:00 PM
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A list of ppl? Like one that identifies the victim of a crime ppl will metoo and believe the accuser regarless of the facts? Nope keep me off that list! At most ill acknowledge my history when asked but no way would i be willing to be on a list even if there was 1000% evidence that it was false. Ps not accused but ive been threatened of the accusation Get on making a list of fake accusers. Even then i think a list like this is dangerous of the same this as the metoo does. You would have to be 10…
/r/MensRights13/03/23 03:27 AM
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I think judging ppl based on 1 topic in an election is as idiotic as only demanding change of one gender when both suffer from the same thing.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 11:27 PM
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Its the definition in alot of places and thats what causes the downplay in severity ofnthe problem and when stats are used to prove there are more female victims. Alot of places the only time women can be charge with actual rape is when its with a child. Even then it get downplayed because the victim is a boy. So stats like 1in 4 women and one in 14 men stats are scewed because women cant rape men. Then when women do its slumped in with sexual assult wich includes things like groping. I glad wom…
/r/MensRights10/03/23 08:49 PM
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Awesome!
/r/MensRights10/03/23 08:41 PM
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What about the unpaid rent? Food? Mainence/upgrades of the home? Appliances?
/r/MensRights10/03/23 08:36 PM
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We have the right to be drafted thats about it
/r/MensRights10/03/23 06:31 PM
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What ubout her unpaid rent?
/r/MensRights08/03/23 05:20 AM
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Its because we are the really the only ones initiating/asking for sex and shes the one also saying no or waiting for him to initiate. So since we are the only ones asking its seen as thats out only thought
/r/MensRights07/03/23 11:38 AM
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Are those companies male only or is the male stripper just 1 part of a 2-sided business
/r/MensRights05/03/23 10:42 AM
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Can anyone point at any company that advertised male only workers like this.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 06:29 AM
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First, i want to say this is my experience with knowing a few ppl that have attempted, failed or not, and a little research. I also want to point out that any attempt for any reason is a serious issue, and this gender battle of who has it worse by trying to dismiss the other is disgusting. When men bring up male suicide and the response isn't women deal with this as well, but women attempts are higher...... What I've seen with female attempts is exactly that. They are meant to be failed attempts…
/r/MensRights04/03/23 06:06 PM
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The phrase no, but how its used. Traits different from women are being labled as toxic but there is definatly toxic male behavior. I would more so go after the phrases like "all men" or debated the issue of what toxic masculinity is and start ysing the phrase toxic femininity (in a propper way not as a eye for an type callout out different women behavior instead of toxic behavior)
/r/MensRights03/03/23 05:33 PM
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They dont see it clearly in history either. Both sides delt with there own oppression. Sure women had harder time with work, pay differences, career choices, being told to be in the kitchen...... but so did men. Men were forced to be out of the home, forced to war, forced to stay on the boat while women and children leave. Life is life, work isnt life. You ask me and the meaning of life includes spending time with my family raising my kids. The fact that i have to go to work is a sacrifice men h…
/r/MensRights03/03/23 04:44 PM
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This is one of the things i hate about the dress code type debate. Yes men should learn to control themselves better but at the same time some of the skin tight cloths some pll wear that leave nothing to the imagine and when you bend over stretch to the point you can litterly see every bump. The idea that men shouldnt be looking is ridiculous. They wear things things to be looked at by either men or other women sexual intentions or not, its attention seeking. You cant demand attention by wearing…
/r/MensRights02/03/23 10:20 PM
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Depends on what your trying to fix. There is a pay gap in gender its just the top 1%. So if you try to fix it by mandating equal pay for hours and work and experience its easy to fix because it no longer exists lol. The problem is fixing the 1% or salary if you take into account alot of reasons women spend less time at work is becasue they have to go home to watch the kids. The the problem there is it creates a unfair wage gap that companies have to pay out for unworked time. And whats going to …
/r/MensRights27/02/23 08:03 AM
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This is fuel to why men dont spend time outside the home with their daughters or women in general. We feel prosecuted for just being with our kid. I was babysitting my 9yo niece and had a lady following us in walmart then come up to her and start asking her inappropriate questions about me. Like wtf. I get trying to protect ppl but there was nothing remotely suspicious about my behavior other than im a man. She was laughing and joking, hold my had then run off and come back on her own to hold my…
/r/MensRights21/02/23 09:16 PM
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I love how they still make these women sound like the victim. "Vulnerable" women are......for false rape accusations.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 09:08 PM
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Ohhhh since they broke the rules can we stop sending them money and resources now!!!!!! As much as i want to help them we need that money here. We cant help anyone if we are also stuggling
/r/MensRights18/02/23 05:58 AM
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"Men dont know how to handle their emotions and explode when angry"
/r/MensRights16/02/23 12:36 AM
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A drug for same reproductive rights? We have condoms not much different the pill as far as safe sex goes. The difference is seen more so about choice afterwords. Morning after pill, abortion, adoption, keep and put her on support, ok keep for self.
/r/MensRights15/02/23 07:57 AM
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Women consider stealthing a trype of rape (as it should) seems like this should also be a type of rape
/r/MensRights15/02/23 07:51 AM
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I would say its just the double standards in the movement they pretend is for equality. Almost everything they call for has a double standard to it and when we bring it up they deny it or pretend they arnt guilty of the same thing they accuse us of.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 05:05 PM
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If the goal was to actually solve the issue the topic would be solving road rage not toxic masculinity.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 02:38 AM
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Could that be based on your understanding of bullying. You might not have seen girls stuffed in lockers but boys and girls are different. You punching me hurts me just as much as a comment like "your ugly" can hurt her. It hurts in different ways but the pain is the same. Then as we get older our shields are up and when you punch me we can be friends again in a hour but if she says something hurtful to me its like a stab in the heart but the same thing to her gf and their bffs again in a hour. T…
/r/MensRights09/02/23 08:53 PM
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You're forgetting about the other types of bullying boys can verbally abuse girls with simple comments like "who would ever like you", but your a perfect example of how terms, stats and studdies can be screwed with and give misleading information. Boys are also less likely to report being bullied by girls.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 08:47 PM
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Depends on how you look at bullying. My school made sure noone put their hands on girls. But the verbal/mental bullying girls do to each other is still bullying. Goes for comments to and from boys too. Sure the girls rarly.came into class with a black eye but you saw red eyes from crying all the time
/r/MensRights09/02/23 08:39 PM
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Any statistics you get you need to check the sources and read what qualified as bullying. I find alot of stats that make their way through the feminist and mens rights groups tend to be biased and leave things out. Bullying comes in may ways theres the physical boys and the mental girls (stereotypically). Also you need to look at how they gather this info. We have seen this in rape statistics where men/boys WON'T answer 'yes' to being assulted but they will say yes to unwanted physical contact. …
/r/MensRights09/02/23 08:33 PM
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The problem is this is one sided. And in 20 years women will dominate because their the ones getting in. Women and rich families will be the ones that are going to school. If we really are looking at equality and we want to start in the schools to make the future qual we will have say 10 scol9rships for women and 10 for men. If we want to go further out of that 1 for white 1 for asian 1 for african American and so on. The men and boys of today had nothing to do with history yet we are the ones b…
/r/MensRights01/02/23 07:46 PM
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This argument is ridiculous. A better example of our differences Is a guy get angry and destroys ANYTHING he can get his hands on. throws his xbox, their furniture, their walls. She gets angry and destroys HIS valued stuff, his xbox, his car, or convinces another male friend to destroy him.....
/r/MensRights01/02/23 06:29 PM
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I do not like this type of reasoning. We all have somethings better and some worse. Its all based on perspective and personal values/wants. The only thing i would say in who has it worse is societal views are against men currently. Everyhing is being blamed on us by certain groups. Thats it.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 06:15 PM
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In a way i agree with you, but as far as religion goes should that be your choice or your parents? I doubt a god would keep you from whatever after life you believe in becasue your parents decided not to cut off the skin your god put there.... I get tit though especially is your younger in your faith that not doi g what your pastor says can be scarry. But as a christian with critical thinking i know when the bible was written and in that time circumcision was medically suggested due to the techn…
/r/MensRights28/01/23 07:09 PM
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Without men society would fail faster and nother would be solved if it did happen. This is misinformation that men are the root of all evil and women can be just as evil as men. Let look at highschool girls as a highlighter the type of behavior. Women are just as revenge filled. The difference is they wont have men to fight their battles for them. If men vanished i think women would end up with just as many wars if not more. Just as much hate filled decisions.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 08:56 PM
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For the sperm bank. Frozen sperm can last up to 50 year. However to bring your other points electricity both in the creation/maintaining/repairing is a thing done primarly by men. I think if all men vanished today some many women would have their hands full teying to survive like learning how to provide food and transport food (something that would shut down immediately) ppl would forget about the sperm bank just long enough to create a problem destroying the sperm supply. Even if they deal with…
/r/MensRights21/01/23 08:50 PM
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The idea that men are at fault is an absolute ridiculous trend of "thought". It take 2. Did he wear a condom did she let him in without a condom. Did she take the pill did he decide the pill alone was enough, did she take any 1 of 13 options for safe sex did she choose to sex without requiring all 13 types of protection? Did someone shoot a seed did someone open the door? Its always 50/50 unless someone lies about protection or tampers with it. Next this idea has no research behind it becasue if…
/r/MensRights21/01/23 08:02 PM
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This is bullshit. This is assault plain and simple. Doesnt matter if this area is filled with criminals. He did nothing wrong. This is like the case of the mail man that went on vacation and the replacement go shot deliving mail because the land owner didnt recognise him so he assumed it was a criminal. You cant just shoot ppl because your in fear of a stranger the stanger has to actually present a threat and being male isnt a threat jogging isnt a threat. This idea of fear all men is the proble…
/r/MensRights15/01/23 08:17 PM
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Dont get me wrong women have many privileges. Just like men do. They are just different but we both have them.the idea that one side is more privileged than the other is silly the privileges are just different
/r/MensRights12/01/23 05:30 PM
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Although your list is important i think the double standards we need to address first are the ones used as stats against each other. So saying all men because men abuse women but refuse to look at the stats of women that abuse men. Dealing with 50% of the problem Ps i might have read over it but an item that should be on your list is views on rape (minor and adult). Its seen as less of a crime when done against a boy or man from a girl or woman.
/r/MensRights11/01/23 06:36 PM
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I think its a double standard. The ppl that push this privilege idea usually also add that since we are men we dont see our privilege. Blind to what we have. Yet they dont take that same message. Women have their own privileges they are blind to aswell. We need to stop gender blaming. If we talk about privilege. Talk about both sides. Instead of saying men abuse just talk about abuse. Because what happens is subconsciously the one sided info becomes the only info and the only truth.
/r/MensRights11/01/23 01:09 AM
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The society we are living now cant put themselves in others shoes. For a long time men said the same thing about sah moms. Ppl couldn't see what they did they only saw the house still a mess when they got home. Like that this group of ppl dont see what men have to do. They value time over effort. He spent 10 hours at work then came home and sat on the couch instead of helping out not accounting for the fact that his body is basically broken from landscaping all day. Its this same culture that de…
/r/MensRights09/01/23 07:16 PM
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And this happens alot more then women realize. Men get blamed for manipulative tactics being a type of sa and refuse to admit they do it too. This like this or "if you dont want me you must he cheating/small dick/ broken/ not love her anymore/not being attracted to her anymore" and more. We get guilted into it much more often than ppl want to admit
/r/MensRights06/01/23 01:39 AM
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This is exactly what happened to me and it changed me along with a few other incidents. I now hate being intimate and has caused alot of depression and weight gain in order to not be appealing to others. I get things like this happen to women aswell. Some victims have fun at the time others dont just like boys. But its rape, plane and simple. This is exactly why i hate the feminist movement. They push a naritive and refuse to admit women can also be the purpotrators. This double standard in thei…
/r/MensRights06/01/23 01:29 AM
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Leave. Ppl keep claiming men are abusive and toxic like this when turned down for sex and refuse to see they do the same thing. This is toxic and manipulative. Now the next time she asks your going to debate saying yes so you dont get accused of cheating and dont have your things broken. Its manipulative and you should leave. Infact ask her again why she did it over txt so you have proof she broke your things because you wouldnt have sex so if she trys getting a portion of your stuff you can sho…
/r/MensRights06/01/23 01:14 AM
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I was banned from a number of pages for just being part of this channel. Plus im sure alot of ppl in the feminism subreddit are also here to "spy" on each other
/r/MensRights03/01/23 05:58 AM
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Not exactly sure this post really belongs here however report him or just ask him to stop txt and you think it unprofessional. Go to the hospital and get your health issues delt with even if you dont report him, if he comes in to check on you ask for someone else.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 05:44 AM
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Although i agree with a lot of what rhis person says. Being trans i think its still hard for him to see things from our perspective. This man sees all this as a negative. But it makes us strong in ways women aren't. It gives us the ability to do things and see things from other perspectives. Come up with different solutions. Be willing to sacrifice different things. We do share connections with other men, but from someone who grew up female, they might not seem like a connection, but our bonds a…
/r/MensRights28/12/22 03:47 AM
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This is exactly how its used. If my opinion is different or im just trying to explain my opinion they call it mansplaining in order to shame us into silence. It has nothing to do with talking down to women anymore. it's just a difference of opinion now.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 07:51 PM
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The problem is the term mansplaining is not used as its defined. Now, if we have a different opinion and try to defend that opinion its mansplaining. Its used as a psychological weapon. I dont like what your say or cant defend my opinion so your mansplaining, similar idea to when your having a argument and they bring up your most insecure thing so they can win the argument.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 07:47 PM
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Ya the issue i have with this is its still seen as not possible for women to grape or sa men. Its.been shown that women are just as awful as men but its still protect women and blame men.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 06:46 AM
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Double standards misinformation. I know it coveres basically every topic but if we can change those then theres nothing else wrong with the system
/r/MensRights24/12/22 06:42 AM
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He has some valid points but then surrounds them in toxicity
/r/MensRights24/12/22 06:37 AM
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Although i think the idea of all men actually pushes women to fear all men instead of just the 1%. This is no different the cops putting their had on a car so their prints are on the car just incase.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 06:17 AM
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This. My ex call me toxic because i didnt do things to her standards. She wanted me to vacuum daily ontop of what our roomba does daily while we are at work. We are clean ppl i think vacuming 2x a week is plenty. Why am i the toxic one when everything has to be her way and only her way? Even doing thing we agree on. Folding laundry. I get yelled at for not folding her way. So i change and fold her way but she changed her mind and wants it folded another way so i fold that way then next laudry da…
/r/MensRights23/12/22 03:23 PM
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The wage gap exists.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 09:03 AM
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I love this..... here is exactly how you do it but dont forget about carma we dont suggest doing this but this is how you do it.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 12:26 AM
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I agree it shouldnt be the governemts call but he has a point we dont regulate premarital sex or adultry and our divorce rate is sky high. Its fair to say that this is a problem. Again i dont think it shoukd be a law but more so a lesson in sex ed. Frowned upon but not illegal.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 08:26 AM
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I dont agree with this law, but we dont stop premarital sex/ audultry, and our divorce rate is through the roof..... i think it would be a fair conclusion that these things as we as a society accept this behavior have had more problems. next, is this really a mens rights topic? It seems to affect both parties equally from what i read. So, although it is a human rights issue, i dont see the relevance here..... but that's just my opinion
/r/MensRights08/12/22 08:20 AM
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We should be able to sue the mother after the fact. Kid no longer needing that support (in this case dead but in general living on their own). Mom can now pay the person she defrauded or he should be allowed to sue the actual father. But this depends on your relaships with the kid. If you were acting father in more than just cs then thats your kid. Bood related or not you treated them like your kid and they believed you to be their father. It hurts what the mom did and lied and forced your heart…
/r/MensRights07/12/22 10:09 PM
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I love the last step. It's always our fault she's yelling, apparently. If only we knew our responsibilities. Sounds like victim blaming......
/r/MensRights04/12/22 02:29 AM
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Thisnis what the conversation on equality should look like
/r/MensRights03/12/22 04:27 PM
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I am pro life aswell but i suggest paying for it. Its still her choice. If you dont chances are she will keep the kid and crazy will be attached to you for the next 19 years. Pay get her to confirm it was done then run. Dont tell her your going to be rid of her till after she aborts..... crazy can be really unpredictable.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 04:09 AM
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I dont know this is a tough topic. Part of me says if women can abort men should have the same option to choose to not be part of the childs lif and financially abort. The other part of me say protection isnt 100% and you need to accept the consequences..... What i do know is leaving the country is just a temporary fix. In 15 uears when you have another family and they want to take a family trip there could be a warrent on you for unpaid child support. So as far as running, with the laws inplace…
/r/MensRights25/11/22 04:55 PM
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I think the best thing is to be open minded. Put yourself in our shoes and fact check. Then stand against unequal treatment. I think the biggest issue at least in America is misinformation or half truths only containing half the stats or double standards. I dont think the mra movent would exist if feminism was truely pushing equality. Alot of things discussed with mras is misinformation and the blame game including double standards of what seems to be an opposing group. Ps this goes both ways. M…
/r/MensRights24/11/22 07:14 PM
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Thats part of it the issue i dont think accusations like this make it into records checked by any studies. Since this isnt a court that arrests its marked in their file if issue come up but thats it
/r/MensRights03/11/22 08:27 AM
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There are many instances in history of ppl fighting a loosing battle and winning. Alot of time its because its a loosing battle ppl finaly see the trueth. Today we are seeing a rise in women leaving feminism because they see the hate its become instead of the message it was supposed to be. We see more and more female mens advocates all the time. This isnt a loosing battle this is just the begining of a battle. Ppl have been fed misinformation and as we speek more and more are going to their own …
/r/MensRights26/10/22 03:50 PM
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I dont think this idea is wrong infact i think thats the primary reason for the abortion ban in the states. They see the birthrate decining and ppl having kids later in life and they are concered about their future and having the taxes to care for the sick, retiring and elderly
/r/MensRights24/10/22 03:20 PM
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‘If he happens to get killed, it will even be good’ confirms men are just paychecks to these ppl.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 01:19 AM
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I agree unless asked I dont help anymore but that attitude helps absolutely nothing and noone. act like that and your not better than the all men crowed just in reverse
/r/MensRights24/10/22 01:13 AM
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100% agree. I think i might have responded to the wrong pers9n because i thought i responded to a statment claiming its only a american thing. Thats what i stated i wasnt arguing if its right or wrong.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 03:11 AM
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Sorry i generalized the us but i did say where abortions were legal. So depending on state it should only be allowed during the same time frame abortions are legal
/r/MensRights21/10/22 03:07 AM
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Agreed i thought i address that by saying only where abortions were legal. But my likes apparently shows my comunitcation skills need work. So a male finacial abortion would only be legal whole the abotion is legal. If abortions are legal until 15 week thats the same time period he has
/r/MensRights21/10/22 03:05 AM
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It funny i saw a "where are all the helpful men" just last week asking where all the men were that would just help her lift a heavy item or get something from the top shelf.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 03:01 AM
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the issue isnt with feminists. the enemy is misinformation or lack of information being spread. We need to talk about our issues. we need to show the evidence and stats that show otherwise. the issue is that when feminism says things like 1in 3 women and all men it subconsciously reinforces the idea that men arnt victims because if it was it would be talked about. if it wasn't all men it wouldn't be 1 in 3 (although disproven still preached). the issue is this is diven by men to. some men that b…
/r/MensRights18/10/22 01:08 AM
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Only if abortions are legal. So in the us this shouldnt be allowed
/r/MensRights15/10/22 07:11 AM
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Im not sayingnits right but just pointing out your comment. It started as a health thing then became a catholic thing (or vise versa i cant remember what came first). So no different than it being a muslim thing. We see it done around the world. there are african tribes that do it as a sign of becoming an man.....
/r/MensRights13/10/22 07:48 PM
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Circumcision should only be prefored when medically nessisary
/r/MensRights13/10/22 07:44 PM
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How is groups like this allowed? If we created a against female rights it would be imedualy shut down as it should be
/r/MensRights12/10/22 12:48 AM
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Men cry, we dont cry in public and only around those that we feel safe crying around. I had someone run into my car after insurance i lost 7k of the loan i still owed and needed another car. So i was looking at loosing every dime i had to my name. I cryed infront of my gf and i ended up consoling her...... if your man doesnt cry infront of you its because he doesnt feel he will get her support. Hes afaid he will look week to you and leave him or that his feelings will be used against him later..…
/r/MensRights09/10/22 06:03 PM
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Misandy does more than irritates men. Its the entire reason all men are seen as evil and all women are seen as victims and theres no deviation even though stats prove its a minority of men that cause these issues.
/r/MensRights09/10/22 05:55 PM
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Like feminism you get the crowd of gender blaming/hate
/r/MensRights08/10/22 10:48 PM
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I think this is the cause of most stereotypes continuing. the girl talk, the idea that sex is our one and only thought that will overcome anything we are currently doing, the violence that men are always the bad guy and if theirs a victim its women so all men are bad and that we think all women need to be rescued by men (double wammy). that we think women are week by portraying us as prince charming requiring men to save the day. the toxicity of men as seen in shehulk. the idea that men are bad …
/r/MensRights04/10/22 04:53 AM
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I dont even make it that far. ive spent way too much on 1st dates that never go farther than the bill then never seen or heard from again. when i ask a woman out i let her know that i wont be paying for her meal on the first 3 dates and dont expect anything from her other than conversation. I do this so we can get to know each other first then decide if we want to continue a relationship with no stings or pressure attached to that decision. funny how many dates get cancelled before they even sta…
/r/MensRights04/10/22 04:28 AM
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....... can we do this for the women that arppear to just want a free meal?????
/r/MensRights03/10/22 01:11 AM
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this so called patriarchy looks a little odd. I admit our history is hard against minorities and women but what about them men and boys of today. this is a classroom, if this was my class i would feel completely worthless. we talk about men needing to open up but based on this nobody cares.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 11:41 PM
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keep all this information. especially if you have evidence she wast using bc and allowed you to assume she was on it. including txts. i dont like this option because i think its wrong but you can try fighting to give up your rights and attempt to stay away from child support. i wont say youll win because its a hard fight as it should be in my opinion but at the same time its a right we should have........
/r/MensRights29/09/22 04:39 AM
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it does a little. the nicer you look the more you get hit on but neither crowd makes a healthy relationship. infact most men i know say they dont care about womens makeup and that its about making her happy. from what i observe its more of a status thing with women like strength is for men. the ppl that point out makeup issues or suggestions is women to other women. if your looking for a hookup and annoyed your friend with all the makeup is getting all attention. ask a guy out. it happens so rar…
/r/MensRights19/09/22 07:40 PM
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We need to standardized paying for your own meals on the first few dates. After i think we could be a thing i have no issues paying. But i have been on way to many dates that left me just used. All chit-chat and fun and then after the bills paid the attitude is like talking to a rock.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 03:54 PM
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Put a good woman up for election and she will win. The last few elections for me anyways is whos less awful. Tumps shit bidens shits hillary was shit. First of the 2 parties that put someone good up will get overwhelming support
/r/MensRights08/09/22 05:23 PM
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as much as I want to say "we wonder why men are checking out of life" in reality we aren't wondering that, we are continued to be blamed for everything true or not and even wanting to check out. this is why we have a issue with #allmen #believeallwomen #fearallmen and the "stats" based on surveys. this #fearallmen attitude is partly due to lies or biased opinions and fear that lead to false accusations that the person might believe is true even if its not like this situation. STATS say its a min…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 03:17 AM
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Making laws like this should be gender neutral. To lie about protection/birth control. This law specifically was made to deal with stealthing. And i have no issues with that aspect of this law but there should be a equal opposite.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 07:09 PM
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although I haven't heard anything like this in my area (not that I've been paying attention for situations like this). this is the issue with equality in the workplace I have issues with. ppl want these types of jobs for whatever good intentions but when its time to get dirty, they call for men that will to do whatever is necessary to get it done. I think if this happens since this is a part of the job description these ppl not willing to do their job should get more training, unpaid leave, or l…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 02:12 AM
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anytime i hear this i respond with being wet is consent? usually gets them thinking unless they respond with its not the same at which point their just sexist hiding inside the feminist movement. interesting fact just like the male body can ejaculate while being raped. women can also orgasm while being raped. this is the mental issue that ties everyone up pushing the idea that men cant be raped by women and why some people dont understand a no or stop, and why alot of men and women don't come fo…
/r/MensRights26/08/22 04:10 AM
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to be fair the way you said that sounds like the exact issue we are dealing with. false accusations that change our lives. something that was innocent now a issue. your post was damaging and just as much a waste of time as what you accused the person responding to you
/r/MensRights26/08/22 03:58 AM
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I hate saying this because i think to have sex you should be in a point where written consent shouldn't be necessary. however, we live in a society where just like the idea of #allmen and #fearallmen and #believeallwomen, men need to protect themselves against women. I think written consent is a natural evolution of where this type of attitude towards others is taking us infact even demanding audio recording the entire event wouldn't surprise me. the fact that sexual assault is one of the things…
/r/MensRights26/08/22 03:52 AM
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Lol so even of we are tired of being blamed for everything and we can find happyness without women its our toxic behavior.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 08:35 AM
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to be blunt I think today's feminist and today's mras both have the same issues. yes, not all mras just like not all feminists. both are reacting to each other but not looking at things to solve the issues as a hole.
/r/MensRights04/07/22 05:45 PM
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I think nobody agrees on anything and just because men created what they thought was the best at the time it has no baring on today's society. I make the best of what I can today doesn't mean I agree with how things are run or even what I need to do to survive. I think the rules and laws of today we created by the minority. the pack leader (the strongest), the wealthy, the blood lines kings and queens, and still today laws are created by the privileged and wealthy or that were only elected as th…
/r/MensRights12/06/22 07:36 PM
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