vanfourello Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	It's about time you became the man women want you to be The only addition here, please always try to be better version of yourself for yourself. Again do something, get better for yourself! Not for some girl, not to be attractive for women. But to become better self. And then everything will change	/r/seduction	14/09/21 11:43 AM
3	How is any of this supposed to work if you don't have any women interested in you to begin with? Bro, please cheer up! Stop thinking about necessity to be interesting for girls. But. Please start value yourself more. Become interesting for yourself. With current mindset even when you meet someone it won’t change anything. Please stop being unfair with yourself. Stop looking for the approval from the outside. Just accept yourself as who you are already! No matter how old are you, where you are or what you doing- just always keep in mind that you are enough already. Please be kind to yourself…	/r/seduction	03/09/21 11:09 AM
2	4th daygaming session (2nd alone) Yes, this is something I was totally not thinking about. Do I understand correctly that showing value is about speaking of the good aspects of my life without bragging about it? Like mentioning me going on a trip to X, doing Y in my free time, possibly doing Z as work etc? Yes, you should not be bragging, e.g friends invited me to go for the football match, camping, whatever. This will show your social status, value. Like you are life of the party, a real charmer. Don’t talk too much in serious …	/r/seduction	02/09/21 09:51 PM
2	4th daygaming session (2nd alone) Nice FR! Good thing you are evaluating your own mistakes. So far what I understood you are trying to ask w about herself, before that few things worth mentioning. Don’t forget to display your value in non direct way - e.g. to oversimplify “prize model”, you should sow some interest, she should be interested in you and then cultivate that interest. I’ve been there with speaking too fast, too quiet - practice and awareness will help you. Maybe some acting course, or vocal. Have you done all the ap…	/r/seduction	02/09/21 08:02 AM
1	Should i get in touch again? In terms of /r/Dating_Advice this could work In terms of this sub, you don’t need to bullsh*t around. Just perform steps that will help you get close to her This is regarding taking responsibility over this all, like there is always something that woman doesn’t want to care about, and when you are ready to take responsibility, and translating this by your attitude, behavior - she will just listen and agree with you Like no need to push someone to do something they don’t want too. Just behave it …	/r/seduction	28/08/21 10:12 AM
18	No confidence/female attention Experience is the answer here. Be present at the moment. Enjoy what are you doing. Don’t be pushy over yourself, don’t try to set goals like, “I must kiss her”, “I need to take her to my place already”, just enjoy the moment and have fun. It’s the key!	/r/seduction	28/08/21 09:53 AM
2	No confidence/female attention You telling me you’re playing guitar and experiencing lack of female attention - you must be kidding me? So as pointed out you do have hobby, then express yourself via it. Don’t just sit and wait for anything happen. Improve your skill, participate in something - dunno concert, show, contests, etc. Just do that one for yourself not for the girls, etc. And one more q - there is a chance that you are not receiving the attention from the girls you wanted to get that attention but from others? As pe…	/r/seduction	28/08/21 09:50 AM
1	Should i get in touch again? If it’s already month later you may give it a try. But again easy. Ask how is she doing. And wait for the reply. Btw regarding her 3 jobs, what they are about? E.g. it could be some season work. Also is there any story behind why does she need to work so much?	/r/seduction	28/08/21 09:39 AM
0	Should i get in touch again? Hm, then it’s looked too pushy. Why you decide not to go for a date but directly invite her?	/r/seduction	28/08/21 09:34 AM
-2	Should i get in touch again? Bro you fucked it up when she came to your place- you just should have sex with her. So once you didn’t make that step- like you sent the signal- I’m not sure. Neither she is. And for woman is absolutely fine for behave like she is. So tbh even two text is too much. Invitation to your place was too much. So don’t rely on previous feelings and your affection. As advised here make step back. And be ready whenever you you want to try again- that you should perform cold start, like nothing happened …	/r/seduction	28/08/21 09:18 AM
15	What got me far Women do like athletes because of their consistency. Like that guy has a goal and he is achieving that. And everyone around able to observe the result of their work. Also gratz on finding your way!	/r/seduction	24/08/21 08:42 AM
1	Poor timing lol So she’s joking about it, that’s nice! As per the situation, you could try to joke about such in the future- like - you need to hurry up, pretend to disqualify her. If you approached her very well and she has interest in you, that’s not a big deal, as we see in your situation! Just do not overthinking it	/r/seduction	13/08/21 09:19 PM
6	The inner Nice Guy never completely dies. You must constantly destroy him, or he’ll start taking over again. The difference between nice and kind. Not sure get it right from your comment , BUT Congruence is about behavior and words, they should be equal in terms of one person, e.g. yourself only and not someone else, like if someone speaking about their braveness- it’s expected they are bravely behaving. maybe poor example and wording, but I just translating my thoughts from my native language	/r/seduction	08/08/21 12:20 AM