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Discussionvanillabeanbby/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:54 AM
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Isn’t that what these other guys are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:01 AM
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Yeah women who think anything other than their looks are valued by men are stupid and destined to fail in love
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:37 PM
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Link to stats please
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:05 PM
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Banging and dating are two different things you realize?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:20 PM
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Negatory Most guys are forced to settle at their level but shoot far far beyond that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:17 PM
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How is this untrue There are places currently where women are restricted from basic things like obtaining and education Women have never been able to participate in society to the degree men have
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:57 PM
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Why have sex with them then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:49 PM
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This is only a semi viable option and only for the few men who are truly not getting any benefits Many of the men who complain still get benefits so after they complain online they go right back to women There are many outlets for the very few unfortunate men who are completely unsuccessful with women and they’re still not enough Even the ability to pay to sleep with a woman who pretend to want you like a bot will is still not enough Nothing fake will ever date the urge to be truly desired or ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:41 PM
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If that’s the goal you don’t need a bot Just your hand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:28 PM
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There is less than 200000 people who belong to this sub even if all of them are men and all of them have those complaints itd still be less than 1% of the male population Step outside of this echo chamber for a better perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:27 PM
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Very few men complain about the things you listed actually and most men want to be desired they want to feel wanted which a sex bot can never ever ever really do They could just see a sex worker if they want to release sexual frustration without true desire and intimacy at least it’ll be a real warm blooded woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:17 PM
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You’d have a point if women refused to work but they participate heavily in the work force It makes sense to ask these things of their partner when they are reducing the financial load by working It sounds like you want a woman the required nothing of you but a few dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:08 PM
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Just like these men don’t have that luxury many of these women don’t have the luxury of just getting a regular job either You severely underestimate how hard many of these womens lives are To say someone could get a job in almost all circumstances is extremely callous and cold Some of these sex workers are literal children You really think they signed themselves up for this smh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:39 AM
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Since these men are so disgusted why don’t they stop soliciting sex workers and get a woman to sleep with them without pay? You don’t know everyone’s life circumstance to assume they could even get a regular job if they wanted to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:47 AM
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There some top tier strippers that are very selective on who they perform for and how much they expect That said not all type of women can do sex work Just like many men don’t want to pay for sex many women don’t want to be a sex object either regardless of pay Also sex workers place themselves in dangerous situations with the work they do and clientele they have Most women won’t want to experience that Also men claim women are so picky but think they will open their legs for these same unattrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:55 PM
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I just think those outlets are very self destructive when overused so even though they aren’t committing crimes it doesn’t really help that theyre in a constant zombie like state from porn and video games But it is what it is I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:48 PM
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I think the idea that men “cast a wide net” when it comes to dating is a farce This is done for the purposes of casual sex not actual dating This is why you find it hard not to treat humans like numbers because that’s all you see them as in actuality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:24 PM
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Id take a glance at the hate disgust and threats that are thrown at those women on that sub as well It hard to be enthusiastic providing a service to individuals who often see you and treat you as less than They are not only an outlet for sexually frustrated men but also angry men Keep in mind many men who visit sex workers hate they have to pay for sex and take it out on them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:17 PM
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The narrative for what a woman’s life should be is also changing You see a lot of women choosing to be childless and single now and a lot more men employing shaming/scare tactics to jerk them back into the mother/wife role
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:09 PM
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This is why I don’t support casual sex Men approach it as a power play to boost their ego They see it as something they do to a woman as opposed to something they do with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:54 PM
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Actually places where prostitution “works” are third world countries which Germany and Australia are not Men particularly target these places for sex tourism because women there are desperate for basic life necessities like food
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:50 PM
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From what I’m seeing you’d be very wrong lol when these men come out of the porn/video game haze they are acutely aware of what they’re lacking Also those options are being shown to lead to long term issues like major depression due to dopamine imbalances and erectile dysfunction which leads to further depression Also lack of motivation severe loneliness and a slew of other issue Some idk if legal prostitution can even tackle
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:48 PM
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I dont know any woman who hasnt been at minimum sexually assaulted but I dont think most men would ever want to face the reality that womens lives arent as breezy as they want to believe Guys always give me some variation of "at least youre getting attention"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:43 PM
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And so men have to figure another avenue to sate themselves or opt out and remain unsated because the supply will never be enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:33 PM
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Not all feminisms
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:24 PM
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drop dead gorgeous mixed girls there was in the hood Im sure the hood has a wide range of beautiful women Spanish Deebo looking guy on work release. He wasn't a junky. But most definitely a criminal. I would assume being a junky has much more of an effect on looks. Deebo is a look and personality some women are drawn to perhaps
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:22 PM
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being horny is not the only reason people date *women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:08 PM
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2 minutes 1 to wash hands
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:07 PM
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Prostitution would have to be legal and free for many men especially young men to be able to afford it And because prostitution is very restricted a lot of sex workers have lower standards for clientele If they were being flooded with work they'd be much more selective of the men they choose to service which would give rise to the same issue
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:06 PM
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Not all feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:58 PM
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Especially the mixed girls skin color is not a metric I use to determine attractiveness. They will date a druggie criminal even if they aren't fond of that lifestyle. I've seen it first hand MANY MANY times. Ive never seen a 10 with a druggie maybe with a sketchy guy that is very nonchalantly attractive like Brad Pitt in Kalifonia but never a full on druggie
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:57 PM
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Most drug addicted criminals aren’t hot Unless they have some money So I’d say money hold some weight unless she just started being a druggie criminal and still has some looks Although it’s scary to think what men will put their penis in just because a woman looks good
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:29 PM
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Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:23 PM
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And naturally men don’t want that because they are used to having the upper hand
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:38 PM
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Walks around in sweatshop clothing and iPhones, while complaining about mail order brides improving their lives. You mean mail order slaves. You mean buying young girls to force to do sexual acts. You mean purchasing human beings although based on this comment Im sure you dont consider women people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:02 PM
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They are getting bad I just watched a documentary of India being inundated with “American” food and how obesity is starting to do numbers in Asia as a whole apparently. I think it can be hard to maintain a healthy weight in a place where the majority of the food is ill made and designed to be addictive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:21 PM
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I think being fat is mostly an issue in western places. This particular girl was not fat lol She just had a facial scar
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:09 PM
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I meant if you want a woman to actually desire you and be attracted to you youd have to clear her bar for attraction If you don't mind women who just want the lifestyle you can provide then yes the richer the more options
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:50 PM
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I know one girl who actually attempted but failed idk why some guys act like only ugly men have it rough
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:47 PM
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Socio-economic status matters after you’ve cleared the attractiveness threshold
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:38 PM
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What is emotionally unappealing about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:39 PM
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Too much? 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:31 PM
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Idk Guess she found out after years of being physically sexually verbally and financially abused by her husband
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:27 PM
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Nothing for guys apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:20 PM
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The Bureau hasn’t linked increased instances of violence to women spaces like it has to the Manosphere these misogynistic spaces that men care so deeply for are causing a huge uptick in murder and violence against women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:20 AM
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And men like that at that age are veryyy few and far between and come with more than just looks They typically can provide financially or social elevation This fantasy that men get better with age needs to end It’s not the case for most men If you’re not pulling in your 20s highly unlikely it’ll get better unless you were fat and lost weight that relieved good bone structure Money and status might get you a young girl who wants nothing more but it won’t keep her or make her faithful
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:09 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:39 PM
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Bold of you to assume I’m insecure and equally bold to assume most men get rich And because these men are not rich and have nothing to attract younger women they be with women their age or be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:19 PM
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So basically you think womens only value is youth and men can become rich and have more value mixed in with some biological broscience smh Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:32 PM
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So young women who’ve not had many negative experiences or responsibilities surprisingly are more happy and less jaded Not a big secret All been proven as a reason not to get married young because you have no idea how the person will deal with lifes hardships and difficulties It’s a big reason why people get divorced after marrying young because surprise young women grow up and that whimsical attitude disappears. Women who grew up privileged and are affluent also retain this “joy” because they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:29 PM
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So it doesn’t matter if women marry early or not after 30 you’re less valued as a sexual partner Maybe that’s part of the reason they get divorced Whod want to be with someone who values them less and less for something outside of their control like age Im sure young women are dying to be with men in their 40s and 50s. You know what’s funny A lot of times when a woman cheats they say she’s acting like a man but you can’t say all men are cheaters because that’s wrong lol Anyway what do you mean t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:08 PM
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Yes please explain because it sounds exchanging youth and eggs for a potential “hvm”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:48 PM
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In love with my youth right That’s where my buying power is according to you Not my intelligence kindness honest compassionate nature None of that equates to the “buying power” my youth affords
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:45 PM
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Right Im better off settling for someone who's attracted to my youth and beauty and has money because those things last forever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:39 PM
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Men are seeking marriage now more than women are Maybe they aren't meeting men who meet their standards and are as accomplished as they want them to be but there are a lot of men in the market for marriage Fully formed adults dont consider women valueless after 30 which is why many women get married after 30. This is scare tactic intended to get women to settle for low quality men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:38 PM
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And majority of men want marriage As a matter of fact recent studies show more men want to get married then women do Which means the women who want and choose to "settle" wont have a hard time doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:24 PM
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God forbid her goal be to actually be in love
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:15 PM
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If having children is the only "argument" you have for why women should settle you need to try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:12 PM
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People whose only barrier is “the law” will break it they feel like they can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:50 PM
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This. This misogynistic mindset is exactly why it’s dangerous for younger women to date older men who’ve failed at dating and relationships. Sad pathetic and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:47 PM
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If she’s a paramedic I can almost definitely tell you he’s not the only one on the roster Probably the top choice but not the only choice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:02 PM
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Your comment convinced me that you guys are all going for the same 20% of girls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:37 PM
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I’m sorry but it sounds like you just have a massive disdain for women Anything that doesn’t fit your ideal of how things should be or challenges that is not just not true to you Saying whatever women went through or complained of is fabricated is really dismissive You want women to agree to being led by broke men who are being led by their dicks That makes no sense In your mind the women should be submissive first in order for the man to become a good leader That won’t work and women won’t go f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:50 PM
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Women who only want sex don’t care about that crap either They only care if you’re hot Just like a man who only wants sex only cares if you’re hot
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:24 PM
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Men like to enforce this “wall”they made up to scare women into being with them It’s hilarious considering stats show men are beginning for marriage and women don’t want it anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:13 PM
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Men ignore these same red flags in attractive women It’s not a gender thing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:11 PM
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If being a housewife back then was so great why did women oppose it. Men tend to naturally abuse their power It’s great to be a housewife and have a family but it’s good to be happy too and a lot of women weren’t Men like to say this is not true but this is from the accounts of women from that time And minority women still had to work during that time they’ve always had to work A lot of dudes these days do not even demonstrate the ability to lead themselves let alone a family. They do not even t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:03 PM
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And yet most of the US is struggling to eat and pay rent even though men and women are working What your talking about it’s cute but men cannot afford to support wives and children anymore No disrespect I know life is hard but I’ve met a lot of dudes who had the opportunity to make something of themselves but chose the easy/broke way. They don’t want to do the hard work anymore and it’s not fair to them to break their backs for minimum wage. Men aren’t going to college anymore they’re not doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:36 PM
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My fiend made partner at her law firm They joke about which male partner she smashed to make partner
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:11 AM
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Honestly though You cant possibly think any woman would be okay with the scenario right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:59 AM
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Not at all I’m trying to guage why you said women would not worry about safety when it comes to Bruce Wayne
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:55 AM
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But you think women throw safety out the door if they guy is hot enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:36 AM
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Have you had women see you as a safety concern?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:42 AM
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Healthcare Sorry can’t text back when I’m elbows dead in a patients guts even if it takes 2 seconds I barely use my phone because I don’t want to get hospital germs all over it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:59 AM
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I don’t really trust anyone to be completely honest but even if I have basic presumed trust don’t I have to get to know the person before I can fully trust them which means I would have to know the person for years prior to even dating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:30 PM
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Oh ok That’s commendable but rare af
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:27 PM
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And how would they know the guy is even being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:26 PM
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I couldn’t care less who gets what as long as I get mines Point is how is it “fair” for one party to expect to be treated one way while they have no intentions of treating the other party the same Men don’t treat all women the same women don’t treat all men the same What’s exactly the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 07:57 PM
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You don’t think it’s fair since both sexes do the same thing? Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:53 PM
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Should they ask for a report on how all their exes were treated to make sure they’re getting the same treatment How would they know how he treated all his previous dates otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:52 PM
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I think it’s fair Men have these same double standards when dating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:43 PM
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Being a good wholesome loving caring woman does nothing to protect you from men who will take advantage of your good nature for one Just because she doesn’t spread her legs after you tell her you like her doesn’t indicate she’s playing games or putting barriers on intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:37 PM
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Should women get butthurt cause you gave your ex a title in 1 month but not them Are they entitled to be your girlfriend after a month just because the last girl was. Should expect you to treat everyone woman the same or it’s not fair
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:33 PM
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And men do that allllllllll the time pump and dump some some get dates some get a title What’s the point of being butthurt over getting treated differently when men don’t treat girls the same at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:27 PM
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Aren’t men kind of the same way though They don’t treat all women the same They pick and choose who deserves what treatment They pump and dump some and they treat some with respect
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:46 PM
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Cite your source for this tiny tiny tiny amount This is laughable All men judge women Can’t even lick a lollipop without being called a whore around some of these lames Anyone who feels one gender is more suited to be allowed to have sex than another is problematic I don’t care if you’re a virgin if you feel like women shouldn’t be having as much sex as men You’re a problem period
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:34 AM
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I don’t believe in friendzone If you approach a woman to date and she puts you on the sideline it’s your responsibility to not hang around in hopes of sex or a relationship If she’s hesitating with you and chasing other men that’s your cue to peace the fuck out unless you want to have an actual friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:23 AM
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It makes no sense that guys act like there’s a sure fire mathematical equation they use to figure this shit out It’s weird af I’ve seen guys call a girl a whore because she like to dance and call my quiet friend sweet because she wear glasses and likes to read meanwhile she’s getting plowed every other night You can’t really know You can assume sure but dudes act like they can tell by the way a woman blinks If a girl is dropping major red flags then sure most of the time guys are non the wiser
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:28 AM
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I can see that to a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:56 AM
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But they wanna be boyfriends after they’re done being boysluts sometimes they’re still slutting around and want girlfriends Is it what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:55 AM
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I say have in terms of social acceptability As in its socially acceptable and praised when a man is whore and not vice versa If women turned down all man whores relationships would cease to exist Based on this post men are preoccupied with womens n counts Boysluts don’t want sluts themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:44 AM
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Lmfao Thumbs up all you guys who are whore detectives while all these whores are thriving If it makes you feel better than congrats I’m not here to scrape the icing of your cupcake
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:12 AM
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That’s the thing If you knew how many men are married to certified whores and think their wives are little bo peep you’d know whatever pseudoscience you use to “spot” these women is bull shit Womens sexuality has been repressed since forever and yet their sexual beings so they’ve learned for years how to look the part Men call any woman who looks at a man a whore They’re not in the minority Men are taught they need as many sexual conquest as possible to be manly and deserve a saint for a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:45 PM
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First how will anyone know I’m a hoe or not Second men are hypocrites the ones who want ltr are hoes themselves but don’t want one The first will call you a hoe the second will fuck you then call to a hoe as well Why bother? Should I not sleep around when most of the men both short term and long term minded have slept around?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:35 PM
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Nah too many hypocritical men It doesn’t make sense Men are searching for the best deal for themselves not love and honesty telling women to look for that shit is another Disney dream
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:53 PM
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Why not though? the same man who slept with 100 women will judge a woman for having 5 partners so why not lie Why should a woman have to accept a boy slut if he doesn’t want a whore
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:43 PM
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What I don’t get is men want to fuck but they don’t want women to fuck because if women fuck they’re value decreases but then men make millions of posts about how it sucks they’re not fucking as much as they want but when they do fuck they slut shame the girl who fucked them Im so confused
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:34 PM
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