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"you're not bad yourself, I'll take your #" you want to get off the app as quickly as possible and set something up over text
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:10 PM
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few thoughts here as a straight male don't overdo the sucked in cheeks thing, looks way too try hard. If it's obvious you're doing it then = not good. I like the car racing picture though, high value activity. Short hair suits you better. You need to put on another 5-10 pounds of muscle for long hair. It fucks up the proportions. Short hair on you gives off the athletic chad vibe, which I think is what you're going for. All pictures are good except one in front of building Mirror selfie looks li…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:54 AM
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fair enough, that's a legitimate reason to get a surgery glad it ended up working out for you
/r/askTRP07/06/21 08:44 PM
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ignoring your retarded post obviously but curious as to why you needed a jaw surgery?
/r/askTRP07/06/21 08:41 PM
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if you want FAIR MARKET VALUE for your SMV you absolutely need to be marketing yourself the right way. Your typical guy has NO IDEA how to market himself. Guys are naturally bad at social media and building social circles. A 15 yr old girl on Instagram has more of a marketing presence than a 25 yr old man. Go to any marketing agency, it's all women. They naturally understand how to do it. Look at Apple and Samsung. The latter makes better phones but what is the herd addicted to? Which one charge…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 09:25 PM
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I agree, she didn't even seem to be overtly trying to manipulate me she was genuinely saying it and believed that it would make sense to me
/r/askTRP03/06/21 09:11 PM
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lmao I literally had a girl tell me this sad thing is, some guys actually fall for this one
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:57 PM
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lmao she showed you a list of guys she fucked with notes on each guy? yeah dude, definitely LTR material. Being "her best" is more than just the size of your dick, stop watching so much porn. The fact you even made this post asking and then mentioned your dick size as your main selling point, communicates to me that you are insecure. That, and the fact that your self worth is tied to how this chick treats you means this relationship is destined to fail at some point. Enjoy while it lasts.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:14 PM
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"I've cum in her and she's never let anyone else" speaking from experience, this is 90% a lie. If she's on some form of BC/IUD then it's 100% a lie. Girls are very good at making you feel like you're the best. This is how they get you to invest more and commit. Once you associate your self worth or ego (which is the only reason you care about this) with how she treats you, she has you by the balls. Sounds like you're already there bud.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 06:47 PM
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I think it probably has something to do with the way black men are portrayed in the media (including porn) as low IQ violent thugs obviously you wouldn't want a girl who has been with someone like that and would question her choice in men (including you) If it wasn't for the media brainwashing you I doubt you'd actually give a fuck.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 07:44 PM
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just because a girl is with a guy doesn't mean the guy is her BF. I've gone up to girls at a club/bar that were with a dude who turned out to be an orbiter/gay best friend and pulled. Only way to know is to approach. I feel comfortable approaching if the guy is obviously low value, but if they're dating I just fuck off since I'm not a dick.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:33 PM
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really hot girls never gets approached that much when they're by themselves because there's no barometer. Guys just assume the girl is out of their league and pussy out. When guys see what they're up against (you), that makes them feel comfortable approaching. Think about what it is about you that makes guys feel they are better than you and then fix that.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:26 PM
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that's good that I got downvoted by the guys programming 5x5 and making no gains in the gym
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:53 PM
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dude honestly this is why I don't really squat anymore. I want to fit into normal clothes and not look like a homo. The goal is to look like a jacked swimmer, not those fat powerlifters with big butts. Just go running or play sports instead.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 02:51 AM
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holy fuck lol that's another level
/r/askTRP18/05/21 04:56 PM
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why do you say that? Never been, genuinely curious as to what makes a city "difficult".
/r/askTRP17/05/21 07:36 PM
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I agree with this, but ONLY if you're working on improving yourself every day. If you're stagnant and doing jack shit, that statement DOES NOT apply to you. Difference is, I KNOW that it's their loss because I am GENUINELY putting in the work to be the best man I can be. You can't expect everyone to see your value, some will just reject you for the sake of rejecting.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 07:33 PM
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you say the apps are "worth it to me", but then it pisses you off when you go on the dates with dating app trash. Remind me, how is doing something that pisses you off worth it to you? Sounds like a gigantic fucking waste of time. Oh, and yeah if your value is low the girl is going to roll out of bed without doing anything. How a girl treats you is a reflection of your value. If your value is high she's anxiously thinking about what she's going to wear days before the date.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 07:28 PM
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I wouldn't leave just yet. Personally, I like leaving when I have the upper hand. It makes the breakup less painful and allows you to move on quickly. start mentally checking out first, be less and less available. Leave right after fucking her and stop sleeping over. If she asks what's wrong DO NOT ADMIT THAT ANYTHING IS WRONG, this is an attempt to get you to rationalize and makes you seem butthurt. Stop initiating anything with her. If she wants to talk or hang, she has to initiate. Just say y…
/r/askTRP14/05/21 07:05 PM
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the reason why the friends disrespect you is because the girlfriend doesn't respect you and she's communicated with them that you're not respectable. The fact that they both walked in at different times and greeted you the same way means it was planned in their group chat (yes girls are petty and think they're clever for doing shit like this). In fact, your girlfriend probably told them to say it. You might think things are cool with you and your girl because she said so, but never listen to wha…
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:55 PM
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it's actually ridiculous how they always come back when you leave confidently and without giving closure they absolutely NEED it
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:32 AM
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if you're getting the gut feeling you need to get the fuck out of there fast
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:50 AM
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So firstly, this girl is a hoe. I don't think you need me to tell you that. Secondly, why would you ask her something like that? Were you just being insecure or did you get a gut feeling it was warranted? Take back the gift, return it for cash if you can, and dump her. But you already knew all of this.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:55 AM
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agreed, should have clarified that red-flag means auto hard next
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:09 AM
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never used steroids, but you're a bitch simply for the reason that you want shortcuts. You'll get the physique, but you won't have the mindset of earning it which bleeds into other aspects of your life. If you're lifting to look good for women, you can get that size in 2 years. Stop being lazy and put in the work. Only 26 and looking for steroids, pathetic.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:23 AM
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great job on the approach, 90% of people on here won't do it so you're already on the right path for future reference, don't shake people's hands when you introduce yourself. Save that for work events and formal introduction. A simple wave and big smile is what you need. Some people will just make any excuse not to talk to you, pandemic or not. Move on and keep approaching.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:19 AM
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I definitely would not, it will follow you to work.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:16 AM
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what is the context? In the professional world, it is important to catch up with old colleagues. This is how you learn about business opportunities and potential job openings. You know her better than us. If she's a career driven woman who has otherwise been loyal to you, a quick 20 min coffee mid-day with an old colleague makes sense. If she's meeting a "colleague" from the time she worked as a bartender or in retail at 10PM at your local bar and isn't back by 1AM then yeah, it's a red flag.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:15 AM
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it's like he's playing some fake character in a movie, he kinda comes off as on the spectrum to me
/r/askTRP14/04/21 07:19 PM
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I'm approaching on a college campus - if I approached like that I'd have campus security on my ass pretty quickly. He's drawing waaaaay to much external attention into the set. Of course he's doing it on a college campus but he doesn't actually go there so he doesn't give a fuck about his reputation. Never understood the "vetting girls quickly", if you get her to go on a date with you the chances of you fucking her are much higher. I got a girl on a date last week and ended up fucking her. She t…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 03:04 PM
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this dude's style is super aggressive, he literally ran after a girl and approached from behind. I would NOT do this. it bring way too much outside attention into the set. I take a totally different style to cold approaching. I don't masquerade as this too confident to be true dude, I just smile, try to make them laugh, and have a normal conversation. This guy probably closes 10x more numbers than me, but they most likely lead nowhere since he pushes very hard for it (they give it to him so he g…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 11:55 AM
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if its something like infidelity, stealing, outright lying then yeah I agree with you. You can't fix deep moral corruption. a lot of these younger girls don't know how to act around a guy. Social media is making them socially retarded. It's like a child that doesn't understand the rules yet, because it's a child. I think there's some value in telling a girl what she's doing wrong, if you believe she's unaware of her behavior and otherwise respects you. A girl who values you will want to change f…
/r/askTRP27/02/21 04:54 PM
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"also I actually hate everyone" so why would girls want to seek out someone who hates everyone? you sound like a bummer to be around man, girls feed off positive energy
/r/askTRP27/02/21 04:45 PM
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Wow, really appreciate the time you took to make this comment. I've been doing some reading into psychological disorders and self-esteem. I've got a long road ahead of me but I'm willing to put in the work to strengthen my inner game and make myself an overall better human. I do know that I wasn't like this before finding TRP, but TRP also gave me so much positive so I can't be mad.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:11 PM
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I have a solid mission, in fact I have quite a few things I'm pursuing simultaneously. I'm lifting 6x a week and very academic/career focused. However, I lack a friend group or as you put it, a "tribe". Since I'm so focused on my mission(s) I rarely have time to attend or organize events. I've pushed people away who have tried to be friends with me. Now that I think about it, it's kind of sad I've prioritized pussy over building solid male friendships. I view sex as one of my base needs while fr…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:19 PM
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what do you recommend I read instead?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:12 PM
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I read "The Game" like 4 years ago when I first got into this stuff. I'll read "The Truth" in the next few weeks and follow up with you, eager to discuss. Appreciate the advice.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:53 AM
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just look at jared leto fat vs thin Not only is he not fat on the left photo, but he's also improved his appearance with the hairstyle and facial hair. Two different people, truly remarkable.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:41 AM
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I appreciate the insight. any way to mitigate this? I'd read on the subject to learn more.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:34 AM
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exactly dude, you're fine. Lift weights religiously, excel in school, and cultivate some cool hobbies as well. You need to read this book called "Psychocybernetics". It's about how your self-image impacts your ability to achieve any goal. Highly recommend.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:57 AM
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lmao I love this guys stuff
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:50 AM
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as a man you have great potential unless you are actually deformed. What you believe the world is withholding from you, you are actually withholding from the world. You even said it yourself! You're "invisible" to women but you never approached. There's your answer. You're not actually ugly (unless you're deformed/fat in which case see a doctor/exercise), you FEEL ugly, which causes you to adapt certain social mannerisms that are unattractive to women. Because you've made yourself unattractive, …
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:47 AM
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you're right man, I feel like I could wrestle a silverback gorilla this lock down is really testing me psychologically and I'm just trying to emerge a better man.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:38 AM
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damn credit suisse? let's network brother I'm trying to break in. My buddy just worked there last summer too you probably know him lmao
/r/askTRP26/02/21 07:26 AM
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I'm going to DM you to avoid doxxing myself gimme a sec
/r/askTRP20/02/21 03:14 AM
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this is a great answer, much better than the other guy saying "banking is not real work" hurr durr. I just checked out that resource and it has some great stuff on interviewing, going to study up. By egghead roles you mean middle/back office? I've heard similar advice that unless you're front office you're wasting your time/screwed. I'm taking some business classes right now for my minor and I'm surprised at how low the level is of the students taking them for their major. I finally understand w…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:30 PM
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yeah I get that, but that doesn't change the fact that the salaries are much much higher. Something something capitalism?
/r/askTRP17/02/21 07:21 PM
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I just added it. It definitely matters since software salaries are comparable to investment banking. How's the living on 122K though? Maybe you could tell me if 65K is poverty or not.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 06:32 PM
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I'm not in software homie (think mech/civil/electrical)
/r/askTRP17/02/21 06:31 PM
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if a girl is trying to cancel on you, the last thing you want to do is say "it doesnt bother me that much.. im just to it by now". Know when to walk away. Poorly handled, now she has no option but to ignore you since she was just trying to be nice by offering a bullshit excuse. Here's what I would have done if she sent me that garbage. "Hey no worries, something came up for me as well. Good luck with work on Sunday." Comes off as totally non-butthurt, you communicate that you have other shit goi…
/r/askTRP10/02/21 02:24 AM
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wait...she SAID she wasn't going to fuck him. He didn't actually give her a chance to back up what she SAID with ACTIONS. lmao let me guess, you still take what women say at face value? Every time a woman has told me this, I just ignore and still end up fucking when we get back to my place. Back to the sidebar buddy.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 11:07 PM
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you dealt with this horribly, in a totally autistic way. You're also going on dates with this girl (dinner and drinks and then paying lmao), but then getting pissed when she isn't down to have sex and just wants to chill. It's a covert contract. How did it feel when your secret little plan to get sex didn't work?
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:22 PM
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Slow down for a second hoss. You're on to something here. I'm from that area so I'm familiar with status in NYC. It's not really about money more than it is about branding. However with more money you have access to better branding (vacations, clothes, experiences). You could be poor and have a good brand, however that brand is mostly going to be your looks and the social circles you run with since you can't afford shit. This is how your average Chad gets laid. He's not cold approaching girls at…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 06:13 AM
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so you can either blame society or take the time to unlearn all the bullshit that makes you feel insecure. That's the whole premise of the movie "The Matrix" (and hence the redpill name). Like Neo, you need to unlearn the conditioning to free yourself.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 05:34 PM
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Exactly. Imagine letting someone else determine YOUR value and then letting how they view you affect the way you feel about YOURSELF. TRP does a good job of giving you the basic toolbox but there needs to be more focus on self-esteem, self-image, and correcting insecurities. Guarantee half of the questions would disappear.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 07:30 AM
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I would love for a plate to rate me as a 1 or even a 2/10 on a excel spreadsheet. I know my value better than anyone else and I genuinely feel bad for people who undervalue me. I know I have a good product, if they can't see the value then by default THEY must be low value, or are too dumb to recognize my worth. Why would you even give a fuck about this? Assuming you're getting sex when you want and a overall positive experience (if you're not drop the plate). This shit doesn't even make any sen…
/r/askTRP03/02/21 07:25 AM
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