vansterdam90 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	act chill or walk away Act chill, never let them know they got to you. Just resume regular programming, but don’t bring up the text. But if this is causing you to think about her and causing mental masturbation, you have to go out and meet more available chicks or you’ll be stuck in her web, I mean you’re already counting days.	/r/seduction	25/10/22 08:14 AM
10	How do you become the Alpha of the group in your social circle? Confidence requires evidence. Who’s just talking and who’s shooting?	/r/seduction	24/05/21 04:57 AM
2	How to cold approach correctly I am with you but I think it depends on the importance of the call and if you were forewarned that an important call may arise during the date. It’s bad timing, but sometimes you gotta take the call. I think it can be respectable if the communication is transparent and given in advance. I would almost be appreciative, they wanted to show face on the date despite anticipating an important call. I think it wouldn’t be a deal breaker for me if both parties are mature and adult about it just being a…	/r/seduction	18/05/21 05:57 PM
1	Fam, sometimes you can do everything right but a flake is a flake. On the bright side, you saved time by knowing what you know now of the other person. When it comes to dating, nothing is until it is. The motto destroys all fantasies and excuses. Sorta just makes you go meh. It was nothing, until it is something. Even a few dates in and they could go and date others before it’s official, and no worries because nothing is until it is.	/r/seduction	12/05/21 12:27 PM
4	**** it, I'm gonna cold approach an obsene amount of girls even with masks. Kudos to you OP, I want this energy	/r/seduction	10/05/21 05:46 AM
6	If a person really wants to see you, they will make the time. The perfect match may not always be perfect, but the perfect match will like you back.	/r/seduction	02/05/21 04:58 PM
2	You'll never feel ready... so you fucking force yourself to take action anyway Sounds like a post confirming to not be outcome dependent.	/r/seduction	17/04/21 06:42 AM
1	I asked for a girls number today. Good job man, the rejection hurts much less than the mental masturbation from regret.	/r/seduction	16/04/21 03:40 AM
135	The Main Reasons of Why You're still single or NOT good with the ladies - 3 Brutally Honest Truths. There are probably TikTok video makers or DoorDash drivers that can probably smooth out and get chicks better than a broker on Wall Street. You just need to make decent, something comfortable and spend within your means. 3 is pretty much the main summary of the whole post, nothing changes if nothing changes. Time just elapses, and aging does its damage. You can watch all the videos, read every book, listen to every podcast. Workout and have low body fat percentage, still no one will show up at t…	/r/seduction	13/04/21 01:07 PM
3	How to keep a girl interested in texting and ultimately get her to go out with you? Just talk to them like a friend, don’t make conversation feel like a game of ping pong, but friend zone is not the goal. Despite it being counter intuitive to friend them first and then date second. Get in depth and actually connect, when you can engage you can suggest to take it off the app. Aligning yourself to each conversational topic, and calibrating your timing is everything. Texting should be to engage and then switched over to just make dates thereafter.	/r/seduction	11/02/21 09:12 PM
1	I missed a shot today Listen to podcasts about abundance mentality and outcome independence. That cellphone cringe strategy you should leave in the decade past. Chalk it up as an experience, dust yourself off and move on. Part of outcome independence is that you live your best and just forget the rest. You didn’t know her, don’t stress your mind by running mental scenarios in your head.	/r/seduction	10/02/21 09:34 PM
16	Less charming, more Sexy You can interpret inspiring or influencing as manipulation. Manipulation is just a something that has reward factor in the end. Your gym trainer can suggest you to take before photos and then months later an after photo to keep you going, you can interpret that as manipulation. But that term has negative connotation to it, so you want to maybe use the term inspire. Ik the comments say seduction is manipulation, but let’s just step back for a sec. If an individual is self aware with their thought…	/r/seduction	11/01/21 02:37 PM
3	Approached a lot of women for the first time tonight holy shit Order a coke, will look no different from a rum and coke in front of ya. You’ll still need to sell/present yourself regardless of the drink in hand. Lots like the liquid courage, but within moderation but it’s not a requirement.	/r/seduction	27/09/20 04:25 PM