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I didn’t see your other post, and I mean this in a genuinely helpful way, but have you ever thought about seeking therapy? I’m a woman who has had a lot of negative encounter with men while dating and therapy helped me so much.. especially with the anxiety part, including dating anxiety. There’s probably a lot of stuff there you need to work out, if not, your insecurities are just going to travel with you with every relationship you try to have.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/23 03:06 PM
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Why can’t you just control your emotions and stop responding? Stop being in your feelings.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 08:03 PM
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My delivery 🤣🤣🤣 but you’re a Tate fan! You can’t make this shit up!
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 05:50 PM
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Y’all always say some shit is “emotional” when someone, particularly women, disagree with you—especially if we make good points! if someone speaks from experience and from research IT MAKES NO SENSE and is factually inaccurate to say it’s an emotional response. Your post in the first damn place was EMOTIONAL. Y’all swear you don’t have emotions but emotions have bewitched and ruled your whole life. Red pill males are some of the most emotionally disturbed and dysregulated males around. Depressed…
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 05:39 PM
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Don’t think Asian cultures are so conservative. Cheating is extremely common in Japan and Korea.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 02:39 PM
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I feel like red pill males love to say women don’t have unconditional love when they themselves don’t either!!! Would you love your wife if she gained 150lbs? (Been proven, No!) would you love her if she was sick and dying from cancer? (Don’t get me started on the studies) Would you love her if she cheated? (No, but if you cheated, she should be able to forgive, right?) would you love her if you suddenly became wealthy, opening you up to women who are more attractive, possibly younger etc? (NO! …
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 02:25 PM
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Says the person crying on a red pill sub about no woman being interested in him 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you can’t make this shit up. This is what y’all are like! I’m doing just fine, you’re the one asking for help boo. The number of lonely, single, depressed men is increasing because of women’s standards and not tolerating “the bar is in hell” effort from men. Women are statistically more happy and at peace being single, with friends, family, pets and children then together with low effort, males w…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 07:05 PM
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Lol, too bad toots! You saw the article on psychology today… y’all bare minimum, low effort guys are OVER. You are lonely and single and will continue to be so. You never see a problem and expect women to roll around on the ground with you. It’s not happening. Yeah, I’m resentful.. I resent low effort, low energy men. I resent SCRAPS. A lot of us women are waking up at the same time, it’s over for y’all ✌🏽
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 05:15 PM
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Would love to know your idea of “Above the bare minimum.” What do you do for women above bare minimum? Yes absolutely, the bar is in hell. I can give an example most women can relate to: the guy who claims he likes you or “really likes you”, yet puts in absolutely no effort to keep in contact with you or spend time. The last guy I dated, I cut him off because of this bare minimum low effort and we got back into contact 6 months later cause he wouldn’t stop messaging me and then spilled his guts …
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 01:52 PM
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I stopped reading half way through because it just sounds so immature, like you have hardly ever talked to a real, live woman at all. Do you know what it’s like? How many women, have you had long, deep conversations with and gotten to know? Like get to know who they are as a person, not surface level like a casual coworker? You speak like you’re doing simple math. “Attractive guy + sexy women wanting sex = I am amazing” real human beings are not like that! We don’t operate like that.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 06:25 PM
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31, single… not happy about it but not freaking out. Wouldnt love anything more in the world than to meet THE ONE, but the current dating landscape doesn’t make it seem possible. I’m not willing to settle either for a guy that I have to chase or someone who puts in low/no effort which is most of the guys that seem to be interested in me. I want to have children but again, doesn’t seem possible right now. Would possibly get a donor but gonna see how I feel in two years. I rather a donor than a de…
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 11:57 PM
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Yeah. Can’t tell you how many times eye contact and a 1 second smile of common, polite acknowledgement has led to heavy pursuit despite my objections. Just yesterday at the pharmacy I had to literally keep my head down staring at the ground, this man would not stop staring at me directly in the eyes and looking my body up and down, made me so uncomfortable.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 09:19 PM
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THIS! And I saw a nurse before talk about how so many men, when their wife is dying are already dating and seeing other people. They bounce back so fast after their wife dies. A YouTuber I follow who was a mortician said she would frequently see men flirting with other women at their own wife’s funeral.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 04:54 PM
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This happened to me. When my exes mom was dying, he cheated on me, ignored me, dumped me, would be cool and fun with his friends but nasty and moody to me. Took all his fears and frustrations out on me. Would be super needy and then cold and distant and MIA for a week(s). I tried to be there for him as much I could (don’t get me wrong, I made some mistakes along the way too). Then when his mom went to another country for treatment and he went too, left me in the dust. Then his mom passed away… m…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 04:52 PM
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Maybe you should practice putting in a condom, watch some tutorials before you try and put one on in the moment and you mess up… be selective about the people you lay with and you should have that conversation: what happens if you get pregnant? What will you do?
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 04:10 AM
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Start with this groups first aid kit!!
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 02:12 PM
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you couldn't deduce that from my comment? He's hot.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 02:44 PM
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You’re bugged out… Tom cruise is fine as hell. Was especially in the 90s and 2000s. Don’t speak for who women want to fuck.. many women said for decades he was the sexiest man alive.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:13 PM
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Well this is a very surprising, turn around of a post! Good for you.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 04:56 PM
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It is a cult and they are being investigated by the CIA and DHS. Watch.. a lot of these channels that are radicalizing mentally Ill, mentally malleable, nihilistic young men are about to disappear.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 01:33 AM
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Sociopath? No, he’s just emotionally unavailable due to his own life experience (abandoned by his father, deceased ex wife, multiple toxic relationships, PTSD, attachment issues). Y’all red pill weirdos swear men are not whole ass people with problems and their own journeys, because YOU have no journey and a 1 track mind. Staying around with no attention? One night stand? Majority of women? You’re in the wrong group. You made so many bizarre, bitter, disgruntled, sour grapes assumptions, it’s no…
/r/ExRedPill28/04/22 05:09 AM
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This. My last dating experience.. me and the guy had similar life goals, were on the same level status wise, I was attracted to him.. but he was extremely emotionally unavailable and completely unwilling to change. This man was 31. Sure, lots of access to sex.. being “approached” (usually for sex), but a quality, meaningful interaction? Far and few in between for me.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/22 12:12 AM
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This post should be pinned!
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 12:45 PM
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Stop listening to stuff that makes you feel bad about yourself. Whats the point? Listen to positive videos that tell you you can do anything you put your mind to (which is the truth.) Confidence is key...
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 01:30 PM
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I think average is average, it’s fine. One of my best sexual experiences was with an average sized peen because I was so attracted to the man attached to it. He wasn’t particularly skilled tho. Anticipation and attraction were a lot.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 12:57 AM
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It doesn’t have to be black or white. That if you care about size then it needs to be ridiculously large, not the case at all. But size does matter… get with a micro penis dude and then tell me it doesn’t…
/r/ExRedPill11/04/22 07:34 PM
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No she can’t, it does matter, friend. If you’re average size, I think you’re okay though.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/22 12:58 PM
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This! They up on this thread lying to this man. It does matter.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/22 12:58 PM
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Y’all gotta speak for yourselves… penis size does matter, particularly if it’s small. A man will never tell you “a woman’s body size/stomach size doesn’t matter”, why y’all lying? It does matter.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/22 12:57 PM
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I think it’s actively discourage. Women are constantly bombarded with “beauty and the beast”, older man and young woman propaganda from the time we are very small. It’s fascinating that it’s okay for a man to want the best looking woman he can get and women are shamed (slut shamed?) if they want the same thing.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/22 10:12 PM
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This was a great analysis, I never thought about it that way. And yea, the “nobody, average looking girl catches the handsome billionaire who becomes obsessed with her” is like every teen girl fantasy—see: Twilight. It’s obviously very layered with the levels of fantasy. I think it’s okay to have kinks and to enjoy BDSM, but I also think it’s important to ask WHY. As a consumer of Porn, there is soooo much of it that I simply can’t stomach because it’s watching abuse on camera. So many women who…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/22 04:04 AM
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Uh, yeah! The same way any movement happens. The same way there is widespread knowledge amongst women how to avoid rape and murder as best as possible, there needs to be more discourse amongst men about harming women. Y’all simply are not talking about. You don’t correct your sons, brothers, cousins or friends when they do foul things. Kanye west for example, was enabled by so many men online saying “that man just wants his family back”, “he’s just passionate”, “if it was my wife I would fight j…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/22 03:58 AM
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Really great answer and well thought out. I have to respect the brotherhood, yet I hate it at the same time. Men have this ability to completely link arms and enable each other’s behavior. It seems like even “good” and “great men”, leave openings for bad male behavior. They will scrape a woman’s dead body out of a garbage can, find her killer and lock him up, yet won’t start a foundation or awareness campaign to stop killing women. They teach women how to try and not be killed or raped by men bu…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 01:35 PM
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Well at least you know. I go to the mall, to the grocery store, to Home Depot, to restaurants and the percentage of older men that I see and think “oooo he’s HOT” is probably under 5%. I’m being generous. I would say overall women tend to upkeep themselves better with clothes, nails, makeup, hair etc
/r/ExRedPill30/03/22 12:10 AM
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People who cannot admit they’re wrong, even if it’s something small.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/22 08:41 PM
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Right!! He looks like the homeless guy you hop over to get on the train!! 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:54 PM
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I dated a guy who had spent most of his 20s in the military and had just got out a year so although he was stable (job, house, car), he was still trying to figure out what he REALLY wanted to do. He wanted to work in the creative field and I have been in the creative field my entire life. He resented the fact that he had some assumptions about certain things and I would explain to him that it doesn’t work like that. He was once talking about an art project involving seashells and I informed him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:57 PM
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Ugh.. I really hate that we can’t link to post because I’ll be wanting so bad to go and look at the comments!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 06:58 AM
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Online dating is the worst and such a waste of time for me too. If I had the money I wish I could pay an escort.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/22 09:58 PM
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Listen, it’s happened to a lot of us. Me too. Lesson learned!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:23 AM
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Yeah what a weirdo… future lesson ladies: do notttttt kiss on first meeting. It’s too risky!! You never know how these mf will react!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:53 AM
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Stop. No one said that. 5 years and 11 years is a big difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:30 AM
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Loads of mature guys with their shit together 19 to 24? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 okay bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:35 PM
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Unrelated. 5 years is not a big age gap. We can agree to disagree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:34 PM
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It’s not a huge age gap at all. If at 24 you’re dating a 24 year old guy… it’s fine but he’s gonna be broke, confused, living with his mama. I think y’all are being quite irrational.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:29 PM
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Out of curiosity, why do you think five years is too much of an age gap? 🧐 that seems very normal to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:08 AM
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No flossing… got 4 day old rotting meat in their mouth in their teeth. The last guy who asked for my number breath stank and was the reason why I never answered his calls or texts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:27 PM
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This is probably a 14 year old incel troll. That or he is horrifyingly obtuse about how rotten his personality must be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 08:41 AM
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I posted on Craigslist that I was looking for a room some years ago and smh.. so so so many dudes kept talking me to offer a room or their bed in exchange for sex. After 2 calls, I edited my posting to say I was not interested in a physical relationship, only a room that I paid for. They wouldn’t stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 03:31 AM
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Most of them truly are garbage.. so I’m fitting to read all these comments!! I am not optimistic at all.. I was just telling my cousin that getting married, as a millennial woman, at this point seems unrealistic. Might just end up getting a sperm donor so I can have my children and just wait until I meet my life partner.. cause I don’t want to rush into it out of desperation for a guy that’s not worth it. I am turned off immediately by most men. Looking at the Rihanna situation.. having a baby w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:04 AM
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I got mine hanging up in my house lol I love it.. and yes, they are really fun.. there will probably be a bunch of couples but idc!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:59 AM
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This first line pissed me off. “ there’s nothing more stigmatized than single fathers.” UM, SINGLE MOTHERS?!?!? WTF!!! Men are not shamed enough at all for abandoning their children because it happens so frequently people look at it as a matter of fact, as a matter of life, as a thing that happens just as snow would happened or a car would drive by falling down or you cook macaroni and cheese for dinner. “You didn’t grow up with a dad? Aw… we’ll anyway, so what about brunch on Sunday?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:48 AM
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I’m doing a paint and sip with my friend.. I was looking for a good painting and unintentionally liked the one on valentines!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:39 AM
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Right!! He is not cute anymore at all!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:34 AM
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Still don’t understand the Rooney and Joaquin relationship. She must be a lunatic like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:33 AM
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This is what it comes down to… Y’all shitty choices in women and dating women with personality disorders and having mothers with mental health issues and now you’re mad at all women. 🤣🤣🤣 it’s like clockwork!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:24 AM
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I noticed your earlier replies… something wasn’t right and came off very condescending and rude… after this comment and walking away from someone mid sentence, I can see you are a nasty piece of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:16 AM
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I disagree. I think that if pedophilia was allowed, MORE MEN would be into it. In addition to “hebephilia” and “ephebolia” which is attraction to ages 11-19, I know this as a fact cause like the commenter above me, I was relentless hit on when i was a teen, walking down the street by men for years. Like I said, it made me deeply ashamed of my body. I had a butt. Saying they wouldn’t go lower is completely not true. And most girls who are attracted or developed early can attest. The 15 year olds …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:28 PM
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reminds me of when billie eilish said porn ruined her brain as a kid... smh. I think i first saw porn when I was 12 or 13, I wonder how much it ruined my brain! And yeah OP's post... sounds like most men would, indeed, be pedophiles if it was allowed. Like the good "old days" I guess. YUCK. These same creepy, leering men made me deeply ashamed of my body as a pre-teen and teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:46 AM
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You just gave the horse girl meme a whole new meaning to me… Everything you said makes total sense! I never really understood the horse girl meme but I do KNOW (from experience) how men get very intimidated by women who have dedication and passion to things outside of them!! It’s intimidating!! “No, we can’t hang out.. I have to take care of my horse.” Which seems like it’s a long time commitment… Just like how a lot of them don’t like women who are very educated and have to study a lot!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:27 PM
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This is the stupidest thing I’ve Read so far this year!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:17 PM
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As a woman who has had one night stands, most women DO NOT have one night stands. And a lot of women having one night stands don’t always initially intend for it to be that. And what is the reason that you think women are having one night stands with the top 10% of men only.. that makes no sense. Also, a lot of these mf be straight up lying that they want something more and next thing you know you’re a one night stand.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/22 03:54 PM
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This is 100% fax cause I often match with men who, even though I am attractive and confident, I believe are “out of my league” based on looks. Then I message some of them and never hear back or they don’t ever reach out on their own first. Some do but most do not.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/22 01:06 AM
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In the words of Jordan Peterson, women are selective and we absolutely should be! If men had the potential to get pregnant they would be choosy too.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/22 12:51 AM
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And better be getting an allowance from him that is YOUR money to do what you want with it.. like say stash it in a foreign Swiss bank account where no one can touch it but you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:22 PM
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This is you guys problem, y’all think it’s either or, black or white, when it’s nuanced and shades of grey.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/22 04:38 AM
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You don’t need to like someone personality to knock boots. Plenty men (and women) knock boots with attractive women they couldn’t care less about or find their personality unattractive.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/22 07:48 AM
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I don’t understand this question.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/22 12:20 PM
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In the words of Jordan Peterson… “maybe you are undateable. What’s your personality like? Have you looked at how you dress? Are you obsessed with pornography?” I mean, you’re not wrong but a lot of dudes complaining about not getting women be looking tore up from the floor up. Lose some weight, work out, get a flattering haircut, groom yourself and dress like you give a damn. Some of these things you can change overnight and it greatly improves. Most people are average looking or have an average…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/22 12:15 PM
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No one would care if a man didn’t get no ass… It’s because of the men who are angry, and rage and act out because they get no ass is the reason why it’s an insult. YOU don’t be dishonest. Men and women value different things.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/22 03:44 AM
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The reason why incel is an insult is because of their BEHAVIOR and not because not getting female attention is an insult. Incels like Elliot Rodger’s psycho ass and others are the reason why Incel is an insult. Just look at how black pilled and red pilled men talk about and treat women.. it became an insult AFTER people learned about their disgusting and sometimes murderous behaviors.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 11:27 PM
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This is the correct answer.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 01:13 AM
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After watching Braveheart, and learning about about primae noctis (the legal right of government men to have sex with the wives of subordinate men, particularly on their wedding night) I realize so many mens entire identity relies on how women view them or how they’re able to dominate over women and other mens women. Like how you going to legally fuck a man’s wife before he gets a chance to. Take her virginity? It’s sick.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 07:00 AM
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I tried hard to find the original but could not lol he must’ve gotten flamed off the Internet. I’m
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:18 PM
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This is the AGE OF AQUARIUS. It is the Information Age and Age of Enlightenment. There definitely is a tide turning amongst women.. thanks to social media, We can gather with women from all across the world and exchange ideas and most importantly AGREE WITH ONE ANOTHER. So much solidarity bd shared experience, especially with these scrotes.. that’s why the red pill idiots are coming out from under the stove like cockroaches. They won’t win tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:04 AM
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Yeah stuff like this makes me sick to my stomach. I will not be with a overgrown child. I personally don’t believe in making the bed but I know they do this with many other things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 05:36 AM
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Let's not even start on Kevin Samuels talking about "domestic discipline." As in, telling a woman a safe word when she's "on one" and if she continues on, you can hit her. He bout to have a lot of these mf in jail.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/22 07:45 PM
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Are you still watching the content? I would say start there first. Click “not interested” in all that stuff that enters your feed.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/22 04:43 PM
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Reject you for being circumcised? If you don’t mind my asking, how old are you? Most penises are circumcised. At least most of the ones I’ve come in contact with, it has never been an “issue.” I don’t even conceive how it could possibly be an issue. I never met a guy who had no sensitivity in his circumcised peen… like, huh? They cum every time. If anything actually, I hear some girls thinking an uncircumcised weird… which I don’t understand that either. Peen is peen, as long as it’s clean. I wo…
/r/ExRedPill14/01/22 04:41 PM
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These fools are dumb as hell. If you don’t ask them, NONE will use condoms. If I slept with 10 dudes, I’d say that 9 of them would try to fuck raw. And I’m being generous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:55 AM
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I remember him saying a woman should be honored that a “high value man” would let her lick his balls. That he can cheat and he SHOULD. That she needs to be prepared to compete with all of his side women because she’s lucky to even be chosen. It was terrifying to see the amount of agreement in the comments, “this was your BEST show.” I listened to this one show ^ in entirety to truly see if I was misunderstanding the controversy.. it was worse than I thought.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/22 03:17 AM
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Didn’t you see the clip where he said he doesn’t believe in misogynoir? He doesn’t believe black women are being abused as much as they say cause he doesn’t see it? In fact, I’ve seen a clip of him endorse physical discipline against women, a hard slap or pinch.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/22 03:10 AM
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“But I read papers about it and apparently colonisation fucks men up in a particular way where they see the coloniser being sexually cruel to women and they associate that with the power they have and it becomes their aspiration they want to repeat.” ———— Wow. This is crazy and makes A lot of sense actually. Whoever conquers and holds power over women is who is the most masculine and strongest… all comes back to sex really. So gross.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/22 07:05 PM
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Many people these days are looking for something to believe in, I feel. They believe mostly nothing and stand for nothing… makes it’s easy for grifters and con artists to seep through and fill up that empty space in their heads.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/22 03:51 PM
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I 100% agree, but I’m going to say straight up that black men LOVE and perpetuate this stereotype. They LOVE to be fetishized and seen as bbc long schlong everlasting sex beasts. They work in these pornos, gangbanging a white woman, telling her he’s giving her exactly what she wants, all while the video is being filmed by WHITE MEN for a company owned by WHITE MEN. They don’t even own the rights to their own dick and sexuality and they don’t care!! They make music about their supposed sexual pro…
/r/ExRedPill12/01/22 12:00 AM
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The best thing you can do is continue to identify yourself and a black male and speak out against. Correct your bros when they say foul shit in private. Correct your cousins.. not saying get into arguments with people but tell them the stuff they’re saying is wrong or them cheating is wrong or anti-black woman rhetoric is wrong. It starts on an individual level.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 11:44 PM
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It’s like slave masters forbidding slaves from learning to read. Keep them as dumb and uneducated as possible and you can maintain all the power.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 11:38 PM
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That’s cause we have emotionally checked out and are at peace lol it’s their fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:31 PM
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I had a feeling this post was going to end up here 😂😂 and yes, if anyone is curious, there were people [read: men] in the comments defending this sadistic gulag warlord of a boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 12:52 PM
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I count.. have a list too lol I once saw a funny video on IG where a girl said don’t count guys where it’s less than 5 minutes nor guys that you fucked for money or sugar daddy’s.. “that’s a job.” 😂😂 I pretty much count, if he put it in and pumped, even if he didn’t finish. My body count does not matter to me AT ALL. Though I do keep it private. I don’t care about it being high by their standards. It makes me feel like my pimp hand 🤚🏽 is strong!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:18 AM
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Didn’t know you could do this. Thanks! Done and done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 04:23 AM
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I’ll be honest, I opened up one dating app to everyone cause I’m so exhausted with men. I am straight and always dreamed of life with a husband but like idk now man. I’m 31 and all these guys turn me off.. the one guy I met recently that I didn’t hate, ended up being extremely low effort, low energy and had huge walls up. Ladies.. WE ARE NOT BREAKING DOWN ANYONES WALLS. It’s 2021. He needs to seek therapy not a woman. I really don’t think I’d ever end up with a woman but right now I’m open.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:55 PM
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And this is why the true alpha makes and providers MADE THESE LAWS to protect women for their own kind cause they know how they are. Dude said “298k and she didn’t pay one penny, no wonder why men snap”, he sounds dangerous and I hope his ex wife keeps her head on swivel. He thinks she provided NO VALUE in that house, after probably scrubbing it down weekly, washing his shit stained drawers, taking care of his rugrat children and cooking his lazy ass meals. Gotta also love the other idiot sugges…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 03:33 AM
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So has she been cancelled for saying this? I would imagine this is very controversial with the pro pornography and sex work left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:31 AM
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That comment is what makes me think this is fake and this person is just looking for attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 03:24 AM
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Damn.. she married a hobosexual!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:54 AM
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She kind of has always given narc energy to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:44 AM
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I have to admit, Shannon boodram (girl pictures) annoys the crap pout of me lol she has been claiming to be a relationship and sex expert for yearssss.. since she was like 22 probably… I always felt like she wasn’t genuine. She just did it to have a niche. Maybe I’m reading her wrong but I always got that vibe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 02:59 PM
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All those old shows are like that. I watch them a lot at night to fall asleep.. Martin, Fresh Prince, living single and sometimes friends… I’ll be honest, I followed more of the black sitcoms but there are bad too. Martin is my favorite show ever and he is definitely a dusty, misogynistic colorist—the way he treats Pam and other women is downright awful. Cole and Tommy are also both dusty. Cole is a hobosexual. Will smith on fresh Prince is also misogynistic and treats women like objects. How se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 02:33 PM
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I very much have nearly every experience with a guy of him not talking to me normal, him talking to me like I’m a hooker, him not knowing to have a conversation and keep it flowing or him talking to me that is inappropriate for the little amount of time we know each other. I’m starting to think it’s something wrong with all of them, an entire generation. Millennial American men are the fkn worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 02:23 PM
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They are a special breed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:51 PM
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And if you’re black, talking about “submission”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:48 PM
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Okay thanks, that was a nice chuckle… I had a hotep type dude ask to split a $24 bill. We both got 2 beers. He was the “grand rising” and “you beautiful black kween” type, you know bragging about how superior blackness is but is on a “date” with my light skinned biracial ass lol yeah, that type… He said, and I quote, “let’s go Dutch. It’s equality.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:31 PM
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Typical black men… one threatens to rape a woman and the other 2, instead of condemning, denouncing this despicable behavior, and trying to protect her… laugh about how he’s such a monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:22 PM
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Well we should know that moving in with a boyfriend should be a no no 🤷🏽‍♀️ but alas, it keeps happening I guess.. well, yeah that’s a big lie. I would want to find out what he’s going to do about it and how he’s going to close that financial gap. Is he about to hit the pavement and start looking for a better paying job? I feel like this is the only thing that can rectify. His lie is reminding me of Michael from married at first sight. here is the scene from the show, like it sounds exactly like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 12:34 AM
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These are the things on nightmares. I can’t deal with low energy, low effort men!!! Ugh. My ex ex dusty never ever cleaned, barely washed his own ass. It was horrible. If you don’t clean, you bette have enough money to pay someone to come and clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:25 AM
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Just turned this feature off like yesterday! TikTok is crazy invasive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 07:52 AM
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Wow… it’s like she’s an all-in-one, one stop shop for his emotion. He sexes her when he’s horny, he makes her clean and cook when he’s lazy, he makes her his therapist when he feels emotional and he makes her his punching bag when he’s angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 07:33 AM
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Where is the original post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 12:09 AM
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It’s weird cause they’re so mad and she even said she doesn’t care about money cause she has her own… and they still mad lol. The thing is, they hate women, so no matter what, they going to hate you!! Also, ladies, stop saying size doesn’t matter. They would not ever say YOUR size doesn’t matter. They would never say your weight doesn’t matter… and if it didn’t matter, would you be okay with a 3inch peen fully erect? No? Okay then it matters. We have to stop sparing their feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 12:09 AM
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It has nothing to do with my personal belief and everything to do with statistics, science and math. Look it up yourself.. WHO IS BUYING.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:44 PM
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Man, what? 😂😂 I said I wanted a threesome not that I agreed with polygamy or wanted a polyandry marriage. And how you going to say, “that’s alright” and then call it “hoeing around.” Please move on, you can’t have a straight discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:58 PM
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You are the delusional one because 1, cardi is married and 2, young women are the NUMBER ONE consumers and purchasers of music and merchandise, for both male and female artists. If cardi wanted to make music that appealed to men, she would make different music.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:56 PM
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If you can’t wrap your brain around a woman wanting a threesome with 2 men idk what to tell you lol it’s legit my dream scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:55 AM
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Bruh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:22 PM
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Disgusting. See point #1: Have very little to no expectations for men it’s really hard for me to find any kind of decent man not even talking about romantically, I’m talking about friends, family, colleagues. It’s grim out here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:21 AM
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The best way a woman can be happy With any man is to have low expectations. Call me jaded but I will Never ever ever ever ever ever fully trust a man and put my faith in him. If I was her I wouldn’t give a damn either.. he’s good for one thing $$$$ and she will be paid regardless. And she’s still young so she can meet a man she REALLY cares about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 01:18 AM
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I HARD relate to this. I just started talking to this guy very recently that I definitely like.. we really hit it off. Sooo much in common, he’s funny, I’m attracted to him and we have similar life goals… but he keeps making these rude sexual comments that are starting to rub me the wrong way, even though I said I don’t want to talk about sex and that I take things slow. You just feel so defeated.. like there are no respectful men in the world. They always gotta have some major flaw. It’s so dis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:46 PM
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You can’t win with these dudes. A few years ago I was doing food delivery on a bike (in NYC). Apparently I made contact with this guy who was in the restaurant also waiting on food. Anyway, I get the food, pack it and leave.. 2 blocks away the same guy from the restaurant catches up to me on his skates. And tried to holler at me because he says we made eye contact in the restaurant and he thought we had a moment.. I was flabbergasted. Thankfully it was in broad daylight but damn, this guy was de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:06 AM
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How can we report this person? He is an Elliot Roger wanna be with his “day of retribution.” This should be reported to the police and this individual should be in a watch list. Unfortunately for him this just made go check out the podcast for real. I will be listening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:01 PM
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I don’t think so. I don’t think that is the majority of the reason. Women fake it cause men ask “are you cuming?” Thrust thrust! And they’re too afraid to “ruin” the moment. I’ve had good sex and have been tempted to lie but I just usually ignore the question somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:09 PM
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I fear for the woman who has the courage to tell it like it really is on a large platform.. that men aren’t pleasing the majority of women sexually, across the board, that high likelihood and occurrence that women fake orgasms, that their D ain’t doing nothing special.. Also, ladies.. STOP FAKING IT!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:19 PM
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Imagine saying people your own age “look too old.” You don’t see anything wrong with that? The media and entertainment industry brainwashed you good.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 04:36 PM
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The original video don’t get old 😂😂 “I’m dominant!” Me thinks, thou doth protest too much. He didn’t even believe that when he said it. But his “no you ain’t” in the beginning always gives me chills. You can tell he deeply hates women. Very very bitter this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:06 AM
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Well you already get a 👏🏽👏🏽 for asking questions. We all need to ask questions about everything we thing and know! I am here myself from watching red pill videos and they made me feel horrible about myself as a woman. Growing up and believing my entire worth predicates on my appearance has wrecked me emotionally and mentally. I’m in therapy about it. That’s why I am here. KS hates women, I’m sorry but it’s true. He does. He don’t even have respect for his own guests who come on his show, the sam…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 01:30 AM
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I feel like you can’t see past your male perspective. Women have plenty of reasons to be better off “as the calendar goes.” Like uh… living longer and being surrounded by family. If women making their own money wasnt a factor, men would be choosing the prettiest little unemployed thing they can find. No, the majority of the modern males want WORKING women, with their own passions and goals… cause it also means they don’t have to work as hard. To say credentials don’t matter is again, red pill li…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 12:31 AM
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That’s fine if you don’t say that, but I think more women would be on a 40year olds mans level, and possibly even more. A woman’s confidence at that 40 is like peak. Unless you’re judging a woman’s attractiveness on her ability to bear children.. which is weird. Considering so many women of all ages are unable to bear children. It’s a fact (I wish I could find the survey or study but I refuse to waste any more time, google yourself) that women are becoming more and more beautiful, over time, thr…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 11:41 PM
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I think that if you take care of yourself, by eating well and working out, the average 40 year old woman would look better. I don't want to get off topic but after children a lot of women at 40 have run themselves into the ground from working and child rearing, being too tired and overwhelmed for self care and self love. That's a whole other rabbit hole...
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 05:37 PM
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this is so interesting to me because now as I'm getting older (30) People in their 40s don't actually look that old, but now people in there teens look so young! It's interesting how what you see depends on where you sit.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 05:34 PM
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Yeah... certain things about red pill ideology i just don't understand nor do they make sense. I see older men every single day of my life as I step outside and its rare for me to see one and think "he is sooo sexy. I want him. I want to marry him and have his babies!" Most older men look regular as hell, regular as the older wives they're married too, have dad bods (which is not a negative thing) and are just plain old average! Period! Idk where this idea what when you hit 45 you suddenly start…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 05:31 PM
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You know how many red pills and incels I see arguing about the rate of divorce is women’s fault, we always end up filing… never once asking themselves WHY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:26 AM
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And we all know what he meant 😂😂 I’m just thinking of 5 girls standing in a row taking pics at all the popular spots everyone else takes pics in in Tulum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:23 AM
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Shaming people with an insult IS discouraging. If you didn’t care to stop the behavior, you wouldn’t use shaming/insulting language in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:00 PM
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Not advocate against casual sex? Well what about the “cock carousel”??? RP have an actual term for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:34 PM
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I wonder if her husband will offer her a cuckolding “present” for her birthday.. I doubt it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:27 PM
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That was a very sweet and warming paragraph but it’s opposite to all of the incels I see not complaining about not finding love and affection but that women won’t have sex with them.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 06:44 PM
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I have looked into it tbh but it’s a lot more expensive for men in my searches. And I only said that because incels like to invalidate femcels by saying they can get it if they really wanted it.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 06:41 PM
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Incels can pay for sex, so is it really involuntary? Femcels exist and i feel like I’m falling to that pit. Desperately trying to get out of it. I have a lot of similar experiences as you..
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 12:12 AM
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What a loser with 0 creativity cause they could’ve gone to the beach and had a romantic picnic for under $20. These men are brainless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:29 AM
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This date does not sound appealing at all unless she herself was also a photographer… what a weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:28 AM
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Yes the hell it does. There was just an incel shooting in Plymouth UK.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/21 02:22 AM
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Bye 👋🏽
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 03:27 AM
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It’s not your money.. I have dated plenty of Broke men my damn self. It’s either your looks, your clothes, your insecurity that can be smelled a mile a way, your personality etc. saying women only go after money is a complete lie and has been debunked by THIS GROUP. Go read the FAQ And about page… what’s the point of being here if you’re not actually Ex red pill??
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 03:26 AM
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That’s the fault of the patriarchy.. women may make less and still contribute. Even contributing less money, they contribute more in time, chores, time with pets and child rearing. If women were accurately paid For their time caring for home and picking up male slack, it would be in 6 figures.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 03:19 AM
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I’m going to keep it real with you, but as an “open minded person”, I have been in these spaces and it ALWAYS devolves into talking about violent behaviors towards women. Women can despise men without wanting to hurt, rape, assault or kill men. With men it’s not the same. I have been in these spaces and always see things about “Islam is right about women”, “a woman’s nature is evil and a whore”, “women shouldn’t be allowed to vote or leaves the house”, justifying violence, “she asked for it”, en…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:12 AM
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This is a complete and total lie. Just check out the “feminine dating strategy” group and you can find a plethora of women talking about the dusty men they were with. I don’t know a single woman who’s relationship I admire or say to myself, “I wish I could find a man like THAT.” You may be broke, but also aren’t good looking, don’t dress well, don’t have a good personality, insecure etc… y’all should start watching Love Island. 🤣🤣 it’s an amazing show that is like a daring social experiment, sho…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 03:01 AM
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“Men take who they can”… how is this different from saying “men get the best women they can get?” We do not get who we want, by a long shot for that matter. Both men and women settle. I know plenty, TOO MANY women who have financially supported men and dated men doing financially worse than them who never take them out on dates, never buy birthday or Christmas gifts for them, never buy flowers or hardly do basic chores and are generally low effort. There are plenty of women who will date broke m…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 02:53 AM
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You guys always forget the men assaulting, raping and murdering women en masse part. Women coming together to gossip or shit on men doesn’t lead to increase violence and murder against men.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 02:25 PM
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Women making leaps and bounds in the work place and financially and raising their standards and men no being able to or making no effort to keep up… I’m sorry but I believe that is the truth. Women NEEDED men before and now we don’t.. we WANT one, and not just any one, the best one we can get… this shouldn’t be a crazy concept though, because men choose the best woman they can get as well.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 02:22 PM
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Thank you for that boost of positivity.. I was raised by a single dad so I know they exist… a man who adores children is a great litmus test. I come from a family plethora of crappy marriages and divorce so I’m afraid of possibly divorcing as well and running myself thin/into the ground while “super sad” comes by every other weekend but still gets to live his 2nd lease on life… but again, I guess it comes down to finding a man who WANTS to be a dad and one that loves children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:54 PM
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I know the feeling… especially not having physical Intimacy, a hug or kissing in sooooo long feels agonizing. Sometimes I’m just like how much longer can I live like this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:38 AM
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This is my WORST fear with having children.. having them with a man who doesn’t help out!! And the burden is then left upon me!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:15 AM
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I hate to say I can relate. Just 2 days ago I cried and asked my cousin to hug me because I’ve had no physical touch or affection in years. It can start to feel Inhumane. I want to validate your feelings, it’s real.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 01:41 AM
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This is the one, especially distancing yourself from online conversations about dating and men/women relationships, the gender war etc. it’s maddening! Focus on hobbies and bettering your craft or your passions! My dogs have also helped me.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 01:35 AM
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God rest my fathers soul.. i love him, I feel Lost without him, and he is the man that has treated the best in my entire existence. But at the same time, my mom (who is also crazy, I come from a very dysfunctional family), got the short End of the stick. My dad was a bitter baby daddy and mad that my much younger mother left him. He did many things to spite her and it fucked me and my sibling up. He was the only man who got me something for Valentine’s Day, despite having 2 boyfriends. He spoile…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:36 PM
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Based solely on the enormous amount of women looking for support after leaving abusive/toxic relationships, men should understand why we need a space to speak without push back and devils advocate, often times victim blaming debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 09:11 AM
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You’re telling me that THIS is what is making you question if black men like black women?? Lol No they don’t.. look at the every day actions and INactions. The best thing you can do is work on yourself and keep your options open. Based on numbers alone, there simply aren’t enough black men to go around.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 02:13 PM
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No I don’t. I consider myself to be a quite clever person, so I will usually leave a message that piques their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:25 AM
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Google it, they have many stats on this. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.perfocal.com/blog/dating-profile-picture-tips-for-guys/amp/ https://www.vidaselect.com/online-dating-photo-tips-for-guys/ https://www.myheartskipped.co.uk/blog/which-photos-make-good-dating-photos Stuff I personally hate: photos too close, photos in the bathroom holding phone in mirror, photos wearing ugly ass shoes, photos where you look like a different person in every photo, photos with women, multiple group photos wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:21 AM
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I’m going to just go ahead and say that on some level I think the stats are BS myself. Cause I (a girl) have gotten a “match” with guys who I myself was shocked they swiped right, and when I actually messaged or reached out to them, I never heard back. This has happened many times which leads me to think a lot of men are just swiping right on mostly all women if they aren’t repulsive but in actuality they are only attracted to a smaller number. And I will also say, that most, MOST men in dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 04:52 PM
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Yeah but you still should not have ghosted him. If he texts you, how hard is it to day that you met someone and you are pursuing them only from now on? I have ghosted people before as well but it’s not nice and shouldn’t be considered NORMAL. Being honest and up front is what should be considered normal.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 04:48 PM
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Well I don’t know you so there is no way to tell. If you have a female friend you trust, why don’t you ask her? Tell her your dilemma and ask her.. chances are she’s seen what “it” might be. Or hell, even ask someone who “friend zoned” you in the past. What is the worst that could happen? I have done this before myself and while it may be tempting to get defensive, it’s good to hear how you’re coming off to people…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:06 AM
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I didn’t say all that. You seemed to have swung the pendulum all the way in the opposite direction. Don’t be rude, disrespectful or manipulative like the PÚA tips usually are. I would say pick up some kind of hobby and get really good it… like kick boxing, golf, BJJ, rock climbing or something.. learning new things really well can help with confidence. Dress more stylishly and fitted. It’s shallow but women HATE when men wear ugly/gross shoes. You don’t have to wear suits every day or anything, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:30 AM
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It’s probably your approach and personality, tbh. The way you come off. Personally, I have rejected good looking men/men I was attracted to simply based off of their initial behavior and how they carry themselves. You might need a makeover. A confidence makeover too, or at least fake it until you make it. Women can smell desperation and lack of confidence on men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:27 PM
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Damn you mad huh lol If you’re going to complain until the cows come home about not being able to find a woman but only will date 1 race of woman, you’re a fkn idiot… and half the time, reasons for racial preferences are really shitty, baseless reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:25 PM
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Yup. She’s not the only one. I got another cousin who is a GYN And her husband is an “entrepreneur.” Makes wayyyyy less than her. I think he is a stay at home dad too. Which is fine, whatever, if the man is confident. If he’s not, and low key feels emasculated by this, it can be dangerous..
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 10:20 PM
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I thought your post was going to go a different way, but I want to add that I don’t think these men are fully opening their options… a great many of them are sexist misogynists which is the fraternal twin sibling of racism. Are you open to dating all races of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:26 PM
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Go to therapy. You would surprised the things that go back to childhood. Narcissism absolutely stems from childhood and your relationship with your caregivers/family.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 09:16 PM
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I have a friend who was in a relationship with a really big, overweight guy (def over 300lbs) and she complained sometimes about how difficult was for them to have sex.. it was hard to reach in certain ways and if his D ever came out, he went soft right away. They usually couldn’t change positions and stuff… I’m generally attracted to skinny/slim men but hearing this deffo turned me off. But for example, my friend liked bigger guys but this guy was much bigger than her usual type. So there are g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:32 PM
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Just the other day in Chicago a baby girl was shot in the head when a group of black men exited a vehicles and started shooting in all directions. Black men REFUSE to take accountability, are perpetual victims, want black women to stand up to white men for them, take care of them, coddle them.. getting ahead in America is hard but not IMPOSSIBLE. They won’t even attempt to do well in school and then study a lucrative field (law, finance, IT) and try to help themselves. They won’t admit they have…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 06:27 PM
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I don’t think the opposite of KS is Cynthia G for black women… it’s Chrissie, it’s The Pink Pill, its Paris Milan, it’s INDIFFERENCE. Notice Cyn has way less subs and views than those other ladies who preach to black women to divest, to work on THEMSELVES, stay on code and have sisterhood amongst other black women. Notice how a disgusting man like KS has over 1M subs and still has so many black women crawling on hands and knees for his and other black male approval, whereas, there is no female v…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 05:43 PM
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A lot of these black men, especially dark skinned black men, have severe self hatred issues, are colorists and lack fathers. So many of them are fkn pissed at their mothers and it manifests in this way.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 05:37 PM
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Still bs, im from NYC and young people date young people. Even us 30s folks date other 30s folks. He is such a damn grifter.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 05:30 PM
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His comments SCARE ME when he makes videos like this. I had to unfollow him. Saying girls think young men are unattractive is a complete fkn lie. And I can speak from that about every women I’ve ever known. If I have 100 female friends or women I knew, only 3-5 of them I would say prefer “older” men. Like 10+ years older. He’s needs to get a fkn grip!!!
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 05:29 PM
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I would avoid dating people while you’re down.. especially cause when you’re up you know you’re going to want better. It seems here like you might have some other issues, like low self esteem. No shame in that, get to a therapist and talk to someone. But Please: stop dragging women through your “ride or Die” phase. Why do we have to die? Why do we have to be drug through the mud and go through hard ship to prove our worth? And what often happens is that when the guy gets money, loses the weight,…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 05:23 PM
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This is gonna sound harsh but I think it’s because women are making huge leaps in education and finances and so their standards are going up and a lot of men simply cannot and do not want to keep up. I got a cousin who is a black female dentist and dating for her was sooo hard. It was next to impossible to find another black man on her level education or money wise. Her current husband makes significantly less than her. Less than half. So the response to this, like the KS of the world, who make …
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 05:13 PM
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It’s idiotic. Especially since men themselves are also on the “pussy carousel” until they are ready to get off. What’s the fkn difference? How many guys mess around with girls they would never let meet their mothers before settling down with a different type of girl?? And plenty of men will dump a good girl for a HOT girl, or a girl they are more attracted to in a millisecond. I mean I’ve legit had a guy give his number to the bartender when we were on a date. Women shouldn’t be held to a higher…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 05:04 PM
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😂😂👏🏽👏🏽 let me tell you that the tides are turning. I’m in a lot of these spaces and black women are paying tf attention KS types and his followers. And the race loyalty shit to a group of men who hate you is DYING. “Go where you’re celebrated.”
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 04:58 PM
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If a black woman was saying white men don’t feel pain, their lives aren’t hard, they don’t have mental health issues etc.. she would get death threats and be cyber stalked.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 04:56 PM
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I agree with you 100%. Just read the comments (actually don’t). So many of those guys talking about “putting women in their place” even if by force. It’s SCARY.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 04:54 PM
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I disagree with this sentiment completely, unless you were previously ugly duckling, fat or have body dysmorphia. Good looking people KNOW they are good looking by the way others treat them their whole lives. Trust me. Handsome and sexy men know it cause women let them know. Same thing for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:19 PM
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I still disagree with that because they be doing at times when it’s inappropriate. I feel like a lot of me are very emotionally immature and not in tune. Women also need to speak up more.. but they be doing this shit at work, where it’s inappropriate or hell even when your walking down the street at night alone. The feeling of worrying about then always wanting something from you is off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:17 PM
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I always say hello and even thank you to compliments or “you’re beautiful.” But it doesn’t usually stop there after I say thank you. And to an extent, men definitely do need to be blamed for this. Why do we as women always have to be on the offense, to “tame” them? Or keep them bay? That’s a bad narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:10 AM
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This is sad. I will do it more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:07 AM
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To be fair, I’m a little like this. Being from NYC, I’m naturally guarded and many times in the past, being vulnerable (like paying a guy a compliment) has backfired enough for me to not want to do it much. If a man is attracted to me, the being friendly often at some point leads to being hit on. On the other side, I have had before had thought that men who I was attracted to, when they were being nice, “is he ‘the one’?” Go through my head in a split second it happens so fast and goes away lol.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:39 PM
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Are you what might be considered as good looking or handsome? I think this part makes the likelihood higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:34 PM
2

I am really noticing that. I’ve been looking at a few folks post history and there are many sleeper cells and double agents in here!! Lol!
/r/ExRedPill22/07/21 09:04 PM
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“This mf spittin!!!” Sooo true. They need to become the heroes they desperately want us to worship them as… they could stop this or at the very least, drastically reduce such crimes. Women are already doing everything that we can to avoid it happening to us and it still happens.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/21 09:02 PM
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No, I agree with you! I was agreeing with you and replying to the guy you were replying to. I think that you should judge yourself friend.. tf. Friends should be able to tell their friend when they are wrong. I was saying I don’t get these people, like the guy you’re responding to.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/21 08:37 PM
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Then be on the news like #pleasehelpfindjessica I have yet to see a large, male led campaign About stopping beating, raping and murdering women lol they really don’t give af.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/21 08:25 PM
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I don’t get these folks at all. “As iron sharpens iron, a friend sharpens a friend.” If you are doing some morally wrong shit, it needs to be called out and JUDGED. Y’all always want to bring up nazi Germany when talking about free speech… like, same thing. If it’s wrong, call it the fuck out, JUDGE IT, denounce it with your fucking chest. I have a friend who was messing with a guy who had a girlfriend on the low and I straight up told her it was bird behavior, it’s wrong, it’s gross and that sh…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/21 08:23 PM
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Lol did you miss the part about “BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT BEING ABUSED.” He literally said that. And black women are ACTUALLY abused and MURDERED at a higher rate than any other race of women, and any race of women by their own men. Black women already have ENOUGH trouble trying to be believed for our pain, by police, by doctors, by our own families. And this scum bag is telling his ONE MILLION FOLLOWERS, a large portion of which are BLACK MEN, and surely some ABUSIVE black men at that, that black wo…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/21 08:17 PM
4

I think there is a correction… *violence against black women is only now starting to get reported and also on the rise. I started putting in a lil extra work to avoid ever seeing him on my screens (unfollowing people, unsubscribing, “do not recommend”) because he is so nonsensical and hateful that it’s enraging.. but this is too much. A safe word?!!! The violence against black women thing should’ve gotten the video taken down at the least. It violates YT TOS.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/21 07:57 PM
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this says so much about men too lol... y'all really gotta pay someone to suck your raggedy diqq. these women hate sucking diqq so much they will never again do it for free... men going out sad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:09 PM
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I confronted a guy like this at the beach once about 3 years ago. He was filming women, some of which were topless... in New York, where it’s legal to be topless. He had a camera taped to some fake ass paper towel roll binoculars. I was like, I know what you’re doing and it’s gross and creepy and you need to stop...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:06 AM
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Fresh prince used to be my favorite show and rewatching reruns, will Smiths character is such an asshole. He treats people very badly, not just women. Especially him constantly ridiculing uncle Phil’s weight, even once he had a heart attack. Like who was writing these jokes. Wills character is so cheap and women are used like sexual props. Lisa is the only one that stood up to him but still ends up marrying him in the end. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:52 PM
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I was just telling my therapist about how I don’t like anyone knowing what I really do. I dumb it down a lot and I’m just so vague.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:56 PM
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When you start to see these things, you see them everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:11 AM
2

I haven’t shaved my armpits in almost a year... I HATE shaving my armpits! I love smooth legs and shave them often but I hate the itchy armpits of regrowth, the amount of maintenance... I was going on vacation and begrudgingly shaved my pits for fear of public ridicule or appearing unattractive or less feminine simply for... letting my hair exist where it’s supposed to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:23 PM
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Oh lord lol do you know her username? Man just today I saw a pickme libfem type justifying herself marrying someone who is in PRISON! And talking about discrimination against criminals and how awful her family is for not accepting him... like Jesus the delusion is real!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:34 AM
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I had to go on TikTok to find the original sound cause I was like the the hell... but she made it herself. WHEW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:07 PM
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It’s so gross how from the time we are very young, girls are groomed for marriage and to be palatable To men.... and they just get free range to do WHATEVER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:48 PM
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God I hate to say I agree with this but I do 😂😂 I am slightly flirting with the idea of polyamory because I know that I simply can never truly trust any man. My ex was actually a nice person (I think) generally speaking but sometimes he did me so fkn dirtyyyyy.. it’s like damn, even the “good kids” will dog you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:43 PM
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For me, I had my “awakening” around 27 or 28. I’m 30 now. I remember telling my friend, “this sounds bad but I think that men are largely awful and inferior mentally to women.” This came after a severely mentally, emotionally and sexually abusive relationship and a slew of horrible dates and interactions with men... and I don’t mean dates where there is no chemistry, I mean BAD DATES. Something went WRONG. I’m still to this date trying to tell myself not all but it’s hard... I have a cousin who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:55 PM
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I deleted tinder and refuse to download it ever again. Guys ask for sex immediately and straight up.. That app is basically backpage revived.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:45 PM
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At this point I do now cause I’ve gained a ton of depression weight and so I rank lower.. when I was at my “peak” in looks and weight, I got a message from OKC saying I was in the top 10% of most attractive people on the app and at that point I saw tons of hot guys. It could be your algorithm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:16 AM
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Sorry... maybe I’m showing my age but he’s still hot to me lol using “Brad Pitt” as a figure of speech placeholder for a hot guy is very 90s/2000s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:04 AM
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Facts... they claim they hate feminism when in reality they LOVE so many aspects of it!! Most I would say!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:56 AM
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Never will give another ugly guy a chance AGAIN. The last time the guy was so unbelievably awful and mediocre is every aspect of his life... f that. If I’m going to put myself out on this trash dating market I’m gonna get something out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:48 AM
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We as women need to all get in the same page cause these men, from Quasimodo to Brad Pitt ALL believe they DESERVE the hottest women, and they believe and support each other gettin the hottest women. The standards they have for us are so outrageous man, I am sick of it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:46 AM
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I have a cousin who used to have to pull tricks to convince her boyfriend to shower... so gross man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:39 AM
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What a fkn loser!!! Ciara is actually Next level drop dead gorgeous with a PERFECT body. She is a timeless beauty that will be sexy and beautiful well into her 50s and 60s!! Period!! Russel know what it is!! These men are pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:59 PM
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yes fk that!! I shave my leg hair cause I don't like how it feels but armpits? Fuck yall. Leave my armpit hair alone!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:22 PM
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i agree, dad the "best friend" needs to expose this predator to his daughter if he really cares.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:16 PM
2

i really tried to tell my cousin this.. men really don't be giving a fuck. don't fight with him sis... level yourself up and meet a real man. that's thebest chance your child has, rather than dealing with an inconsistent dead to create insecurity and rage in your child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:58 PM
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when that is the case you're like YES!! I am THAT BITCH!! But when it's not... you feel shit. What worse feeling is there than wasting your cat on some trash D!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:23 PM
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im soooo tired of these pick me hoes "sIzE dOeSnT mAtTeR" um huh???????????? I have fkd a dick so little I didn't even know it was in yet.... IT MATTERS. idgaf what small dick man got a problem with it... for them, a womans body size absolutely matters. So why not with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:21 PM
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ugh.. when you said "i just wanted to be" that definitely brough back many memories. I experienced that a lot. Sometimes things are going crazy amazing, and they aren't bad either.. its just a regular day. They have such high expectations of you all the time, its so annoying!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:46 PM
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Some social justice efforts efforts be on some “legalize everything” “everything is acceptable” type bs time. I heard this great quote one time: “don’t be so open minded that your brain falls out.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:41 AM
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Lmaoooo... let me tell you that super liberal men are some of the dirtiest mf around.. super fkn lazy and don’t clean SHIT. I’ve dated very liberal men and they are DIRTY. THEY DONT CLEAN [either]!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 09:56 PM
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Yes I never ever ever understood this response!! Not just power, SEXUAL POWER. They slurp up your fear, they guzzle down force and TAKING, they bathe in getting away with it! Period!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 09:49 PM
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This is hilarious cause I see soooo many manosphere types bragging about how they are done with American women and going to asia or South American to find wives.. I’m like, are y’all kidding lmao you think Asian or Latino men going to just let you come and take their women in droves?? Not to mention, the women like your Dad’s ex wives who are smart enough to take the money and run?? Shit! Delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 09:42 PM
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Blessings and good will to you girl!! You are paving the way for the rest of us.. this is the dawn of a new era for women! No longer are we doormats. Keep your head up.. a lot of us are unemployed and lonely right now!! I just got a puppy! Weeping may endure for a night but joy comes in the morning!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:40 AM
2

Watch out! We got a live one! Black pilled snowflake on the loose!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:09 AM
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I didn't mean for it to sound like I was looking down on him and I'm not going to pretend that I know what it's like to find a job in HR... the only comment to that I can give is that we don't get what we deserve, we get what we negotiate. I just can't sit here and say that I buy that he can't get a job making more money... I'm not saying over $200k but more. He works and has a job which is better than what I can say for many, but having a boyfriend who does the "most minimal effort required" is…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:07 AM
1

I honestly feel like many women don't do research on how to date properly and with intention... they don't listen to their gut feelings and they don't realize that they cannot change a man. I don't think dating around is enough... you actually have to do research about compatibility and shit in addition to doing inner work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:56 AM
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I personally feel like she should've waited longer and put more effort into dating, in addition to opening up her options in terms of race. I probably phrased that "just wants commitment and loyalty." Of course she wants a man to love for him, and she does love her boyfriend for who and how he is... but obviously she is struggling with low energy, low effort nature. She'll pay for it I think when she's doing all the housework/management, paying most of the bills and doing most of the child reari…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:54 AM
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i struggle with this.. I want to have kids but don't want the responsibility. I wish I could wait until 40 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:50 AM
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a lot of these conversations bug me because they always position it as MOST women are on a constant search for better that never ends which is simply not true... I have a plethora of family members and friends who stay with the same dirty dog dusty ass man for YEARS. So women aren't just peace-ing out left and right, it's not true. Why do they think that women should stick around NO MATTER WHAT? No.. I'm not going to stay with someone "no matter what." My inner peace matters!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:48 AM
1

i can feel you on that. I'm single and dating/talking to people sucks. Hold onto her!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:42 AM
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Theoretically speaking, you're right. There are a great many who try to deny this though...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:47 PM
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Yes indeed, a lot of women don't properly vet but I also think that a lot of women don't really know what a good man IS. What a provider IS. What they should be expecting of their partner for a relationship. I for one have witnessed ZERO healthy relationships of adults in my entire family. Everything I know is from personal, ACTIVE research on youtube and google. Take for example my friend "Jessica." Jessica went to dental school and is now a working dentist. When she's finished paying off her s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:26 PM
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