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I feel like most young women nowadays don't really care too much about being authentic and having integrity. Always keep things casual, vet out women, and one day you'll find one that sticks out. Still doesn't remove the "feelings over facts" nature of a vast majority of women, so you still have to make her feel like the only woman in the world while still keeping that character that initially attracted her to you. There's nothing "beta" about treating your woman with respect, just know when she…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 11:45 AM
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You could always get a blood panel done to see if anything is going on. Sometimes it really could just all be in your head if you start to psyche yourself out
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:20 PM
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No offense to your brother, but he has absolutely no self esteem or pride and should see a counsellor to get his shit together. No one in their right mind would put themselves through this.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:40 PM
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Listen to these guys OP. Only reason to ever ltr someone is if they themselves demonstrate they have a good head on their shoulders and are an asset to your life. High quality women will be guaging you in the same manner. If the girl is telling you straight off the bat she's not good, take her word for it and don't even consider a relationship
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:36 PM
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I found for me I had to be more emotionally available and actually care about they're goals while still prioritising my own. Relationships are both a give and a take. Like one of the other guys stated, once you redefine your expectations for an ltr those issues will hopefully fade away.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:54 PM
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It seems like you aren't giving enough comfort to these women and they're picking up that you're not that serious about them, so they fade away thinking you couldn't care less to protect themselves. Be dominant and a little more comforting next time to give her an environment to where she can trust you enough to want a relationship. The slow fade more often than not isn't done with bad intentions in mind.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:55 PM
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Lol I'd just tell the front desk. They should get him for not respecting the distancing rule
/r/askTRP03/11/20 11:50 AM
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Sometimes silence is the best way to go about things, especially in a scenario like this where communication will only be a waste of time.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 04:17 PM
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Withdraw attention when they do that. Sooner or later they'll take the hint and stop. So instead of rewarding bad behaviour with attention, simply keep working and improving on yourself.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 02:29 AM
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No offense, but that whole interaction you put out seems autistic. You took her too seriously when you could have said something like "well you're just going to have to learn ;)" and for whatever reason asked for her number as if that was going to magically change things. Read the side bar and talk to other girls.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 12:04 AM
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Throw yourself in the fire and learn through experience. RP is a tool set to better improve yourself and your worth as a man, but not the end all be all.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 11:27 PM
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You're human and many men have gone through what you're going through and made it out, so don't be hard on yourself. Seek a counselor if you need in order to learn how to effectively process what you're feeling and block communication with this woman as she seems to have no sense of self-awareness or respect.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:23 AM
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For the sake of yourself OP, listen to this guy
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:32 AM
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There is so much wrong with this line of thinking, and you're hamstering yourself over one woman. Just go have fun kayaking and lead.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:30 AM
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Of course. Question was rhetorical in order for him to think more.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:56 AM
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In that case, I wouldn't stress about it. Do your thing and let her initiate contact when she wants to see you again.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:02 AM
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You sure she's not already taken? There are girls that I've seen that make it look like they're single through their social media, but in reality are not in order to receive more male attention.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:46 PM
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You can do whatever you want, and just know even as you are now there are girls that would want you physically if you game right and direct with what you want. You don't have to go so crazy either. Practice proper hygiene, exercise routinely and put in some honest effort into whatever avenues in life you feel are worth pursuing. Your self-esteem and self-confidence will thank you for it.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:34 PM
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Mainly cause they weren't a threat to your well being and you saw no reason to prove anything through fighting.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:58 PM
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Lol it's your first date. Invite her to something you enjoy on a time that works for you and don't stress about the outcome of it. Tease her and escalate to a kiss if she's receptive and have fun.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 01:51 PM
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First real heartbreak, which in hindsight I am extremely thankful for and is what lead me to this sub. She had connected with me both physically and emotionally more than anyone I knew and fulfilled any requests I had with no complaints and never argued in the year we were together. She began acting extremely hot and cold in waves, and it turns out my gut was right that she was periodically seeing another guy behind my back on the odd weekend when she said she was spending time with friends (I t…
/r/askTRP19/07/20 05:17 PM
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I bet your mind hates the fact you acted out of character by making yourself look like an idiot in front of this one woman you found attractive and subconsciously won't let it go. I suggest meeting more women to feel in control again.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 01:58 PM
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They feel emotional in the moment and want someone who will emotionally validate them and make them feel better.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 07:52 PM
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Tell her what she did to make you distant, and how she will make it up to you. If the answer isn't to your liking, and you have other valid reasons for wanting a break up that outweigh wanting to stay then do the mature thing and break up. If I'm being honest, this whole situation sounds petty due to lack of substantial and direct communication.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 07:48 PM
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Why do you expect a girl to be high interest when you've only screwed around through text? Besides instead of negotiating a meet up which most women don't care about with a person they've never met, you should have told her you're doing x at y time and would be glad if she joined up. If she says no it's not a problem as you'd be doing that thing anyway regardless
/r/askTRP16/07/20 06:30 PM
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I believe she knows her insecurities are in her head and is comfortable enough with you to mention them without deep diving as it makes her feel worse about herself than she already does. Her self value seems to come from supporting other people to reassure herself that she's good enough. Nothing you can do about it, so continue doing what you're doing and lead if you see value in her.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 08:25 PM
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In that case, it's just part of her personality. I wouldn't read into it too much, but if it genuinely upsets you then tell her to simply tone it down next time and if she doesn't then withdraw attention.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 08:19 PM
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Sounds like you're borderline orbiting a girl who's already taken and plain bantering with you with no intention of wanting more. Soft next and work on your smv
/r/askTRP11/07/20 07:54 PM
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Mainly attention from a person they see as higher quality than themselves from what I've witnessed, as well as that person having qualities that they admire and want a taste of
/r/askTRP11/07/20 07:32 PM
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Take a step back and breathe. She knows where to find you if she wants to converse, otherwise you will come off as needy and kiss any potential opportunity goodbye. Read the sidebar in the meantime and put your attention elsewhere
/r/askTRP11/07/20 02:30 PM
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