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5	Want to enter monk mode but have social anxiety, how do I work on that by secluding myself? Ask yourself if is it possible that maybe you want to eneter monk mode BECAUSE of your social anxiety, if, in other words, you are just fascinated by monk mode because it's a way to avoid social interactions. I don't think that the so called "monk mode" is an essential tool for everybody. In your case maybe doing the exact opposite of monk mode is the best thing. At the end of the day monk mode is just a tool created to bring balance to someone's life. In this hyperactive world, with an hyperact…	/r/askTRP	23/12/17 11:16 AM
1	My LTR wants me to pretend to be Tom Brady and its messing with my head. Best comment. Also, OP, I think you are overanalyzing the situation. It's just a game. It's like when kids play doctor: You don't feel humiliated because you don't actually have a medical degree. You just play the game and have fun.	/r/askTRP	16/11/17 04:33 PM
-1	Man creates "sexist, misogynist" app, MakeApp, that shows what women look like without makeup. Rage ensues. If a woman could invent a "pants app" hat could show a guy's dick size I, as a man, would e pretty pissed off. So I don't get this whole controversy. Everyone tries to look their best to attract a mate, I don't see a problem with that.	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/17 01:41 AM
4	Fighting oneitis in LTR You can allow yourself to "fall in love" and "get softer" but never give up on yourself (or let the other person give up on herself) by taking a relationship for granted and assuming that something can be generated from nothing. Enjoy the feeling of love, enjoy getting softer if you will, but keep working on yourself to reach YOUR OWN objectives and make sure that your relationship is instrumental to the growth of both of you. Think in terms of ME + YOU rather than US. At the end of the day your…	/r/askTRP	13/11/17 03:18 PM
43	Fighting oneitis in LTR In my opinion becoming a beta provider is not a direct consequence of monogamy, although monogamy is a "risk factor" if you are the kind of person that tends to be codependent. Let me say something that can be seen as controversial or offensive in this subreddit: I feel like this subreddit is full of young and confused males who are unable to mantain a healthy relationship in a mature and responsible way. They commit an inevitable mistake (developing codependency and, as you put it, become a gir…	/r/askTRP	13/11/17 12:10 PM
2	How could I not hate women? Dude the world isn't made of technical fields. Doctors, lawyers, salesmen, nurses, dentists, educators, teachers... take your blinders off, the world doesn't revolve around engeneers. Engereering is very, very important, but there are many other things. If you think that those women can get a degree only because they spread their leg and people help them your idea of how society works is pretty distorted. I'm, not saying that those kind of people do not exist, but there are not the overwhelming …	/r/askTRP	12/11/17 03:33 PM
2	How could I not hate women? Dude you are not thinking straight. For every tattoed douchebag there's a slut, both men and women can throw away their 20's fucking around. That doesn't mean anything. Nowdays there are more women than men with higher education. That means, your cock riding slut "doing nothing with their lives" are actally performing better than men in an accademic setting. All this while riding cock at the same time. Getting an engeneering degree doesn't mean you can't have a life. If you wasted your opportuni…	/r/askTRP	12/11/17 12:27 AM
1	Is my gym routine ok? I'm no expert. I'm sure 2 times a week is fine. I think it boils down on the intensity of the single workout, the age and training level of the athlete etc etc.. I'm fine with an high intensity training once a week per mucle group, I couldn't do 2 leg days a week even if I tried. Maybe I could split my leg day into 2 "half leg days". I will look up this PPL, I have no idea of what it is.	/r/askTRP	08/11/17 04:23 PM
1	what is wrong with women sleeping around during their 20's. yeah you know that's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about the clearly butthurt and offensive comments that you can usually read on this subreddit. There is a slight diffenrence between that sort of witch hunt that that we are used to see here in the comments and what you've just said.	/r/askTRP	07/11/17 10:25 PM
1	Redpill approach to anxiety? Anxiety can be caused by a myriad of psychological, enviromental, and physical factor. It can be a response to stress, it could be a response to a psychologican trauma or a physical head trauma, it could be a response to a physical condition such as hypothyroidism, anemia, altered liver funcions, brain tumor, prostatitis, the list goes on and on. Maybe something it's wrong with your career, maybe you have some serious electrolyte imbalances due to all the sweating at the gym, that can also cause…	/r/askTRP	07/11/17 09:35 PM
2	Is my gym routine ok? I'm not a professional trainer but the way I understand it the best way to do it for maximum results is to let a muscle group rest for a week between sessions. With your current excercises I would switch around some things in order to train all groups once a week instead of what you are doing now (training multiple groups multiple times a week). So, to give you a n example: Day one: Bench press, overherad dumbbell press and all the triceps/pecs excercises. Day two: dumbbell row, all the various …	/r/askTRP	07/11/17 09:05 PM
-2	what is wrong with women sleeping around during their 20's. Nothing wrong with that. Sometimes undersexed men get mad about it but it's basically a matter of envy. Are you familiar with the fable of the fox and the grapes by Aesop? A fox try to eat some grapes on a vine but cannot reach them, no matter how hard he tries. So he just give up and rationalize his faliure by saying that the grapes were probably not even ripe and sour, and nobody wants to eat those anyway. So when people see a woman that litteraly fucked anybody but them they just belittle her…	/r/askTRP	07/11/17 08:37 PM
2	Material things determine my Self-worth, How can I alter this perspective? When you own too much things you end up being owned by them. I used to train at home, I started buying stuff to make a personal gym: a bench, a rower, some kettlebells etc etc... In the end my space become cluttered with stuff and I was suffocating and became a slave. Just the thought of moving to another place... impossible. Now I try to live "lightly", got rid of most things, I feel free. Same thing with that piece of shit of my boat (a little old wooden fishing boat, nothing fancy): got rid o…	/r/askTRP	25/10/17 04:59 PM
1	Your best response to "can we be just friends" It seems like the response you gave is the best one: simple, elegant, doesn't sound desperate/butthurt or passive aggressive like most of the suggestions in the comments. "sorry, I'm not looking for friends". Easy. I don't know how can you beat that. You offered her something, she declined and offered something different back, of course you don't want the different thing, so you politely decline her offer. You can add "Sorry I can't picture you as a friend" but she already knows that, so It's no…	/r/askTRP	25/10/17 02:04 PM
1	Cheated on LTR. Dealing with the consequences now Dude of course you can, it's not against the law.	/r/askTRP	13/10/17 10:57 PM
1	Cheated on LTR. Dealing with the consequences now Dude of course you can, it's not against the law.	/r/askTRP	13/10/17 10:57 PM
3	This is probably one of the hardest things I've come across How do you go from strangers in class to in the same bed naked next to each other? It takes a good amount of experience and there is no recipe for that. If you fixate on a single girl that you don't know and you just want to fuck her you need to be attractive, or better, she needs to be attracted by you. The truth is that sex is more like a matter of chance and opportunity (for normal looking individuals with a normal salary and a normal social status). You get to know some people, you talk, you…	/r/askTRP	13/10/17 01:27 AM
0	Justin Bieber rejected by a girl with girl with boyfriend. Contradiction to hypergamy and TRP? It's not like every woman is an absolute whore who cannot possibly say no whenever sex is offered to her. Come on guys. The girl has a boyfriend. She can fuck justin bieber, not see him again and lose her boyfriend or maybe she can just keep his boyfriend and realize that a single night with a teen idol isn't worth the end of her current relationship. All the stuff like AWALT, Hypergamy and such are more like guidelines, it's not like a 100% guarantee outcome that applies to every single female …	/r/askTRP	13/10/17 01:10 AM
1	Plate irritating me Fuck it, you are doing all the work and she still behave like that. Isn't this subreddit supposed to help people avoid that exact kind of situation? "Girl, I got the ticket and the room, see you saturday?" No response in 12 hours? NEXT. Invite someone else. She replies 3 days later? "sorry sweetheart, I thought you didn't want to come and invited someone else. "	/r/askTRP	13/10/17 01:01 AM
4	Is going to gym everyday okay if you're young? Well, the way I understand it, you should rest a specific muscle group for a few days for optimal results. If you train different muscle groups on different days it shouldn't be a problem. In that way every group has some days to recover. I go to the gym 3 days a week and train every muscle group once a week. (biceps and back on day1, triceps and pecs on day2, leg and shoulders on day 3 in my case). You shouldn't do the same excercise 2 days in a row, it wouldn't be usefull, unless you are a pro…	/r/askTRP	13/10/17 12:49 AM
1	Break the Rules to win "name calling of an attitude you don't like isnt allowed here" Are you kidding me? Are you seriously telling me that a forum that litterally lives on the opinion of its users doesn't allow opinions? Name calling of an attitude? Giving a name to a behaviour isn't allowed? Like TRP doesn't have dozens of acronym and names to describe people's behaviour? Seriously dude?	/r/TheRedPill	13/10/17 12:31 AM
1	Break the Rules to win I guess you are right, my point of view is just slightly different. I don't agree on the me vs the world way of seeing things, I think it's childish, no one ever did anything great by himself. Also "do whatever you need to win as long it doesn't hurt others" it's exactly the definition of "playing by the rules", since "don't hurt others" is basically the fundation of the law. I guess the thing that rubbed me the wrong way is that slight hint of bitterness/MGTOW vibe that I got from OP's post and…	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/17 09:50 PM
0	Break the Rules to win It sounds nice but in the end of the day I don't really understand what you are talking about. I mean, "play the game to win rather than by the rules": what rules are you talking about? Ithe longer I frequent TRP the more I get the impression that it's a place for people just trying to escape from themselves. This kind of post frames it pretty well: it gives you the impression that society is somehow forcing you to live in a certain way "by the rules", while the only rule in place is the LAW. Be…	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/17 06:40 PM
1	Cheated on LTR. Dealing with the consequences now I disagree. OP acted dishonestly. I agree with you when you say that monogamy is bullshit but that doesn't mean you can pretend to be monogamous to get a certain girl and then do whatever the fuck you want. It's childish to blame "bullshit ideology" to mask the fact that OP made some sort of agreement for an exclusive relationship and then goes aroung fucking random girls. Be a fucking man and take responsibility for your actions: you want to fuck multiple girls? Then be honest and tell the girl…	/r/askTRP	12/10/17 05:42 PM
2	I am hurt, anti-social, and an abuser, how can I save myself? It doesn't seems like you really want to change. You have rationalized pretty well why you steal shit and lie to people and you don't seem to feeling bad about the felonies you have committed. It seems like all boils down to you wanting to live the fantasy of a "normal relationship" with "normal girls", whatever the fuck that means.. You should think about the fact that only a small portion of yourself wants those things, while another major portion is ok with the things as they are now. There i…	/r/askTRP	05/10/17 11:37 PM
1	Matched in college with boring guys. The only advice I can give you is to stop blaming other people for your personal faliure. If you are not doing the things you want to do that is on you. You can keep blaming other guys for being boring but at the end of the day you are responsible for your action and your happiness. Stop looking at others and start looking at yourself. The "I lose my energy twice as fast when I'm with them" is a cheap excuse. Everybody can be a winner when you play in a team of winners. How about being a winner …	/r/askTRP	03/10/17 07:25 PM
1	Hypergamous women are less likely to branch swing if- I'd say 3.6 points, 3.65. Maybe a couple of standard deviations. Wtf are you talking about?	/r/askTRP	02/10/17 06:45 PM
3	She said she actually doesnt like when guys are in shape It's the same exact reason why men like me don't go after perfect 10 girls. I don't want competition, I don't want to defend myself from other guy's attempt to steal my girl, I don't want a high maintenance girl because I'm kinda low life. So I say I don't want a perfect 10 and I mean it. That said, if a perfect 10 came to me and said "please take me I'm yours" I would dump any girl I'm currently with. It's bullshit. It's allways the same bullshit. That doesn't mean that she doesn't like you as …	/r/askTRP	28/09/17 01:33 AM
2	When is it ok to fuck a friends ex-ltr? No one can answer your answer because it all depends on how much you want to fuck this girl versus how close you conseder this friend. I have "friends" that I don't give a fuck about and friends that I would take a bullet for. The same goes for girls: there are girls I don't care for and girls I probably would pay for the opportunity to fuck. Just take the 2 variables: value of that particular friendship and value of that particular girl, subtract the second from the first. If you end up with a …	/r/askTRP	25/09/17 04:05 PM
14	Pretty sure my bluepill friend is gonna be a meal ticket for a tinder girl tonight. Why so many people here waste time judging other's people choiches? Every other post is about a friend or a brother. Why can't you all mind your own business and focus on your own lives?	/r/askTRP	22/09/17 07:35 PM
7	Help! MGTOW is really depressing; isn't really helpful like The Red Pill. Getting all that shit out of your head is quite simple, you just need to take responsibility for your life and stop judging or blaming reality, for reality is what it is and it cannot be completely understood by your brain. All the MGTOW (and sometimes on TRP also) shits boil down to this: a grand delusion that the world is wrong and I'm right. "Women fuck more than I do so they are sluts riding dicks while I'm a great person with higher moral standards". When you accept that the world isn't goo…	/r/askTRP	17/09/17 04:50 AM
3	Apparently I complain a lot? Listen to yourself when you talk. Be mindful of what comes out of your mouth. Only complain when you can actually make a change, if it's a comment that doesn't help change the reality of the current situation just refrain from complaining. For example: you are at a reastaurant and the place is packed and you are waiting too much to get your food. Instead of complaining about the restaurant being packed and the service being slow, just shut the fuck up. In this particular case complaining won't m…	/r/askTRP	16/09/17 11:25 PM
1	Boss Making Obvious Moves Toward My Gf I know that over the internet is hard to tell but it wasn't sarcasm.	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 07:34 PM
1	Boss Making Obvious Moves Toward My Gf I think you are right. I automatically went passive agressive because that is probably who I am. Your advice is better than mine, I can see that.	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 04:54 PM
1	Should I ever get married? Asking this after reading the book called "the manipulated men". I understand. So maybe you should try to compromise and try to get what you want while giving up as little as possible. There are people who can manage a marriage, even if it is a risky business. If in your culture you cannot have children outside marriage then marriage is the only way I guess. I'm telling all this assuming that propagating your genetic materia is your end goal. If you don't care about that and you are more focused on career and achievement then the problem doesn't exist.	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 04:34 PM
2	Boss Making Obvious Moves Toward My Gf What do you mean by that?	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 04:30 PM
1	How to cope with being different Ok dude. But you see that when you go as far as staing that you have a "different razionality" that is a poorly phrased statement at least. Whast does it mean to have a "different rationality"? As if you can have a different set of logical operators that are still true but "different", as if all the people live under a set of "euclidean" rules but you can operate under "non euclidean"ones. Also the political thing. What does it means that you have "different" political views? Don't you think tha…	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 04:29 PM
1	Manipulating Over Bite For Bigger Jaw - Worth it if a fighter? Dude are you serious about the "bigger target" thing or are you just trolling? Jaw surgery moves your jaw maybe 1/8 of and inch. What the fuck are you talking about "bigger target"? I would be more concerned about the structural integrity of the bone after the surgery: in most cases the surgery is performed on both jaws and the bone is screwed togheter with small external plaques (external to the bone I mean). It takes months to the bone to heal after the surgery. This is what it looks like: htt…	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 01:10 AM
1	How to cope with being different You are a special snowflake with a unique political orientation and YOUR OWN RATIONALITY, a special form of rationality that is still rational but DIFFERENT! Not like us old farts, we the 99.9999999% of people who all vote the same shit, uses the same mental schemes and have the all the same goal in mind. Geez dude, delusional much?	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 12:55 AM
2	Have you ever just wanted to delete every person from your life to start fresh? Everyone thinks about that form time to time, you are not alone. The problem is that, as goes the proverb: "wherever you go, there you are". People are the same everywhere, problems and drama are the same everywhere, and if you can't fix your shit here, your shit is coming with you wherever you go. Obviously there are exceptions to this: leaving behind abusive family members, or leaving a small and claustrophobic town to go and live in a bigger and more interesting city... You just need to try t…	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 12:42 AM
1	Uptick in AMOGing When you destroy every single social construct people are left alone to fend for themselves. Nowdays most people are lonley, with poor social structure behind them, so they act tough to conceal their fundamental fear and bewilderment. It's basically a chronic fight or flight response. Think about it: we used to talk about girls with our friends, now we talk about it on the internet and we see our friends as our competitors. We live in a constant state of alert. I think TRP can be saw and applied…	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 12:24 AM
1	Should I ever get married? Asking this after reading the book called "the manipulated men". Well if you can find a woman that is willing to have your children without getting married then there is no other benefits in getting married, only downsides. Nowdays it's not hard to find those kinds of women. Where I live a lot of unmarried couples have kids.	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 12:11 AM
1	Should I start meditating as a teenager?How do I do it? Never saw a teenager stick to meditation. But if you are curious you can start here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xeCXhXDkzpw the dude also wrote some interesting books on the argument, most of them "noob friendly".	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 12:08 AM
1	How to get a woman to stop speaking to another man without breaking frame The way I see it you can't force people to do as you please. There is no point in being controlling, very few people (with psychological problems) likes to be around controlling people. No one really likes to be told what to do. If you don't like to be with a woman that talks with other men then all you need to do is just to walk away from that woman and go find another one. If you are more important to her than she is to you then she will correct her behaviour. If she's important to you more th…	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 12:02 AM
1	How to get a woman to stop speaking to another man without breaking frame The way I see it you can't force people to do as you please. There is no point in being controlling, very few people (with psychological problems) likes to be around controlling people. No one really likes to be told what to do. If you don't like to be with a woman that talks with other men then all you need to do is just to walk away from that woman and go find another one. If you are more important to her than she is to you then she will correct her behaviour. If she's important to you more th…	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 12:02 AM
1	Is this a correct identification? Dude you can be "removed from the situation" wheter or not you own the house. Where have you been in the last 50 years with divorce laws and shit? At least the dude won't lose his own house and his money, so to me, if anything, the dude looks ALPHA AS FUCK. He got a woman buy the house for them. I think you have the whole thing backwards.	/r/askTRP	12/09/17 11:42 PM
2	Help me With Masturbation Do you have a link to that powdered gorilla dick? I can't find it on amazon.	/r/askTRP	12/09/17 11:31 PM
3	Boss Making Obvious Moves Toward My Gf I think the answers of u/catalisto and u/mrpthrowa combined give you a good idea of what to do. Do not make a scene, avoid emotional reactions and slowly cut out the dude out of your life. I don't know you or this guy but I guess you (as a 22 y.o.) don't have the tools to outsmart and put in his place a 36 y.o dude. I would suggest, in the case this happens again, that you make some sort of sarcastic/teasing joke about the dude's age and the fact that he's trying to get a 21 y.o girl. Without an…	/r/askTRP	12/09/17 11:11 PM
1	Is it even worth following TRP strategy if you have a small penis? As other people pointed out the main problem is that you feel the need to be the best you can for someone else and not for yourself. You wonder if your dick is big enough and never wonder if the girl has a tight enough vagina for your dick (for example). When you lay in bed with a woman for the first time you try to read her reaction to your dick size instead of reacting to her features. I'm not saying that you should blame women vaginas, what I'm trying to say is that it seems to me that you ar…	/r/askTRP	12/09/17 12:20 AM
2	How to avoid catching feelings? What kind of life is that? Are you actually trying to avoid feeling things? The goal isn't to be emotionless, the goal is to mantain a certain control and try not to be screwed. Almost every person I know can manage to be in a healty relationship and focus on personal projects at the same time. You need to learn the difference between winning the game and avoid playing it. If you like the girl be with the girl. Be smart, don't overextend, don't give her your stuff or the credentials of your bank…	/r/askTRP	11/09/17 11:46 PM
1	'The Matrix' screws over women just as much as men. I don't understand how exactly men (or women) are being screwed. Also I don't understand why would you think that the "truth about the sexual marketplace" is some sort of secret and not something that every single creature on this planet understands. A lot of men here are mysoginists simply because the are sore losers, and they are like that not because "they don't know the secret about the sexual marketplace" but simply because every (healthy) human being tends to downplay his own faults and sh…	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/17 06:56 PM
2	Stop Making Shit So Complicated You just sound frustrated. And it's normal if you are a daily reader here and read the same things over and over again. But I find your post stupid if you ask me. It's just like "guys, I'm tired... just be better, it's not hard". What kind of approach is that? If you are learning a skill and your mentor just went like: "dude WTF just be better, just do the thing, it's easy".. Or if you suffer of a random phobia and your terapist told you: "aah man, all bullshit, just do the thing already". would…	/r/TheRedPill	09/09/17 01:00 AM
1	My gf wants to meet her ex last time I usually don't say stuff like that but in this case I have to: NEXT her. SHe's clearly not over her ex, I've been on the other side of this story in the past (being the ex boyfriend). Awful tension between the two of them (awful for you that is). She didn't broke up with him, HE DID. She's probably still in love, and you can tell from how she acts around him. Honestly I don't know how can you be with a girl who is still in love with his ex. How can you pretend that nothing is happening? If I wa…	/r/askTRP	09/09/17 12:41 AM
1	17M - I'm just...Really, really feminine. Dealing with this? Dude, most 17 years old look feminine. At least wait untill your growth is complete around 20 y.o. Keep being healthy and do phisical activity. It takes time. You are just 17. Growth and testosterone production is not linear and equal for all people. Is it entirely possible that you will go bald and with a full beard in a couple years. No one can predict it. I had a male friend that used to have long blonde hair and a feminine face. Then in just 2-3 years he got fat, bald and bearded. Don't be e…	/r/askTRP	06/09/17 08:15 PM
1	Should I quit gaming and start learning web designing or doing other things instead? What should I do instead? Again dude?	/r/askTRP	06/09/17 08:07 PM
2	Should I quit gaming as a teen? How about my gamer friends? Can it make me less depressed? What should I do instead? Dude in the last two days you spammed the same question over and over while at the same time engaging in various gaming subbreddit. It seems to me that your head is just spinning. You ask, and ask, and ask, and you don't even care about the asnwers, you just keep asking. If you ask a question just ask it once and take your time to understand the answers instead of waiting two hours and ask the same thing again, while in other places you are asking what game you should play. Growing up it's not l…	/r/askTRP	06/09/17 07:35 PM
1	I've never been denied sex by my gf, yet she never initiates it. Maybe it's just a personality trait. Some people are more adventurous and proactive, other people are more passive and agreeable. I wouldn't be concerned if, at the end of the day, she gives you what you want.	/r/askTRP	06/09/17 07:27 PM
3	Do I show respect to her orbiter? Dude just move on. Be humble in victory. You won. Stop rubbing it in the loser's face. You have made your point in a polite and simple way. He recieved the message. Move on. Why do you want to draw this person attention to yourself again? Is it some sort of macho trip? You are the alpha wolf and need to be sure that the beta males of your pack are safe and healthy? WTF man? Keep your distance, things are already sorted out. If it's not broken DO NOT fix it.	/r/askTRP	06/09/17 07:24 PM
3	My 15 year old bro. Just support your bro and try not to make a big deal out of it. It seems to me that your bro will end up in a war between your views and his teacher's views, like the child of divorced couple that become the fighting ground for the partents. If your bro does't want to shave let him express his opinion to the teacher. If the teacher insists then, eventually this thing will go to the principal office. Then let the principal decide. At the end of the day, men's right aside, your bro need to live in…	/r/askTRP	06/09/17 07:15 PM
1	Girl didn't reply till 4 days later The way I see it you have made your move. You texted and tried to set up a date. She responded poorly. Now, if she really liked you she would've responded. Or maybe not and she really forgot, it's not important. I would just assume she's not interested and leave the whole thing behind. Then if she wakes up and make the next move you are back in the game. Maybe there are more aggressive guys here with a better strategy, I don't know.	/r/askTRP	06/09/17 12:24 AM
1	Conflicted with the idea of acceptance Yeah just as u/feminazis_stalk_me said, that passage needs some context and is poorly written. You need to use your intelligence to determine wich fights are worth fighting and accept the fact that certain things cannot change. Self-fulfilling prophecies aren't a universal principle. As much as you wish to be 6 feet tall, if you are 5 feet tall it's just not going to happen, no matter how much you wish or work for it. If you want to be the best football player in the world and you are in a wheel…	/r/askTRP	06/09/17 12:07 AM
1	How to Red Pill friends/family in DIRE need of it? Dude at least he's getting his dick wet. Is red pill the best for him because you say so? TRP is not for everyone, and by that I don't mean that only few enlightened people can get it, I mean that maybe some people are just better off without it. I don't think that "converting" people is a viable strategy for any kind of philosophy or religion. The word is out there. The message is out there. When a person feels the need he will find the message. If you talked to him about it and he told you tha…	/r/askTRP	05/09/17 11:51 PM
7	I've made myself objectively more attractive through better posture and lifting. Now random girls avoid eye contact and have less friendly body language. What is going on? Maybe you are the one who now has a less friendly body language. Have you considered it? Maybe women just pick up your obsession with posture and the need to look good in other people's eyes and just respond with avoidance. I mean, we all know that swole guy that always go around with is chest out and he's always looking at other people with his eye's wide open like he's trying to see the reaction his presence gets from other people. Maybe you are that guy now. You totally should get out of your…	/r/askTRP	05/09/17 11:34 PM
1	Asking a girl what she did? Dude... You can do everything in your life, the only thing that matters is the kind of "energy" you put in the thing. The "energy" and the motivations. Is it wrong to kill a man? yes, most of the times it is. Is it wrong to kill HITLER? Nah, probably not. Is it a bad move to ask a girl what she did in a certain period of time? It depends. If you ask her because you a re clingy and jealous yes, if that is the "energy" that you put in your question. If you are legit curious about her life then go …	/r/askTRP	05/09/17 11:23 PM
1	Theory: Does Price's Law apply to the sexual market? I don't understand why would you waste your time with this kind of useless hipotesis. What are you trying to accomplish? That said it's hard to apply a mathematical model to the complex reality of life. Jordan Peterson himself (who is a psychologist with very little comprehension of mathematics) uses Price's law and Pareto's principle interchangeably in various occasions. He also Points to the fact that Pareto's principle (the 80/20 one) can be applied recursively. If you apply the Pareto's prin…	/r/askTRP	05/09/17 11:09 PM
1	Just realized my best friend is dating a sociopath. Is there any way I can possibly open his eyes or is he a lost cause? Ok dude but I mean... 8 years... it's kinda late to intervene now, don't you think? If you are a honest person and value your friendship you could try to use some tact and diplomacy and tell him something like: "Bro, I respect your choices and I don't mean to tell you how to live your life but as a friend I need to know that I've noticed (things that concern you)." You have done your duty as a friend, he has been warned. Then what happens happens. I wouldn't waste my time in those kind of things…	/r/askTRP	05/09/17 09:14 PM
2	What the fuck is wrong with me? You shouldn't let one single defeat (or perceived as such, like in this case) consume you like this. In my (limited) experience I noticed that girls, when feel offended by something, resort to that precise strategy: invalidate your relationships and belittle your manhood. That is like on page one of the "low effort ways women try to get in your head 101". An example from my personal life: one time I made fun or possibly offended a female friend of mine and the first thing she said to try and fig…	/r/askTRP	05/09/17 09:02 PM
1	Just realized my best friend is dating a sociopath. Is there any way I can possibly open his eyes or is he a lost cause? Well if this thing is going on for 8 years and you already tried to tell him what else should/could you do about it? I think that friends should never interfere with each other's sexual/love life (with few exceptions like cheating or stuff like that). You don't know the whole story, you are not there with them when they are alone, you don't know what kind of agreement they've made. Your job as a friend is to help and support your buddy if and when his relationship blows up. I find it cringy that…	/r/askTRP	05/09/17 08:37 PM
3	How bad are SSRIs(Lexapro, Prozac, etc.) for you? Dude I'm no doctor but I can share my experience. I'm a very introverted/depressed dude and I used zoloft on and off for some years. First of all: antidepressant helped me a lot in terms of getting out of my head and be more open and receptive to relationsships. Looking back at my life I can see now that basically I only got some pussy while taking antidepressants. I didn't experienced lower libido, however I had some problems reaching orgasms and sometimes I had some "whisky dick". My doctor to…	/r/askTRP	04/09/17 06:25 AM
2	Freaking out- need advice- RP veteran, I fucked up and hit my wife I deleted a prevoius answer because it was a little bit over the top and it felt like beating a man who is already on the ground. I Hope you can solve this situation without negative consequences. The prevoius answer pointed to the fact that when you talk about your state as "liberal cuck" and talk about your wife's friends as "liberal sluts" then beating your wife is just a logical consequence of your aggressive and demeaning thinking patterns. It seems so obvious to me. You live in this red pi…	/r/askTRP	20/08/17 07:38 AM
2	I'm the IT guy. I tap into a female coworker's computer and accessed her chat software. She's constantly trying to fuck with me behind my back... best way to address it? You fucked up in the first place by originally going the extra mile to help her. You can't give cocaine to a person, then stop giving it to him and pretend him to behave. If I were your boss, reading about how much of your energies go into helping/spying/thinking about/dealing with another of my workers I would get so fucking mad. Why don't you just focus on your specific job and let her do whatever the fuck she wants? If she is wasting working hours to fuck with you it's her problem. When all t…	/r/askTRP	14/08/17 02:49 PM
1	What makes evo-psych a "pseudoscience"? ...Assuming that everyone has what it takes to be a striker.	/r/askTRP	12/08/17 10:34 PM
1	Did I do the right thing ? I have a decent head of hair for my age. Sometimes in the summer I shave it. When I do so my family is always surprised and mildly shocked, my mother (when she was alive) used to hate it when I did that. Usually people gave me mixed reaction. If you come across 100 friends and every single one tells you that you looked better with hair then maybe just keep the hair (and see a different dermatologist). If it's a 50/50 thing just keep shaving. Give more weight to the opinion of the girl you are in…	/r/askTRP	12/08/17 03:43 PM
2	If a girl opens conversation with me several times could she still try to get me as her beta orbiter? Can be both. No one can tell without the context. If she just opens a conversation to eventually get you to do something for her you are an orbiter. If she opens a conversation to invite you to do stuff together without further reasons then maybe she wants to fuck. Telling you that you remind her of her brother isn't a good sign.	/r/askTRP	12/08/17 03:34 PM
2	What is the explanation for the "Rule of 2?" Maybe it's the combination of the subconscious element of competition paired with the safety provided by the group. I don't know.	/r/askTRP	12/08/17 03:27 PM
1	Acne and SMV Just se a desmatologist. Can be anything, from a food intolerance to a hormonal problems. In MY PERSONAL case, eliminating milk and dairy products from the diet and changing pillowcase as often as possible helped a lot. But that was my personal case. Everyone is different. See a dermatologist.	/r/askTRP	12/08/17 03:23 PM
2	Did I do the right thing ? So it's a general thinning on the vertex. Dude I'm not a good judge of looks and more importantly I think that you should decide whether or not you like yourself better with hair or without. At the end of the day the opinion of other people can't dictate your decision. If you like yourself better shaved just keep shaving. If you liked you hair better talk to a dermatologist and gain back your hair. Simple as that.	/r/askTRP	12/08/17 03:13 PM
9	What makes evo-psych a "pseudoscience"? Not exaclty. The scientific bases on which TRP is built upon aren't wrong, but are somewhat limited and applied in an incorrect way, and that's why TRP is considered as a "pseudoscience". The foundational elements aren't wrong but are just incomplete. Let me put it this way: let's say the game we paly is soccer. The red pill guys will say to you something like: "dude, the goal of the game is to score, and to score you need to put the ball in the net. You need to play as strikers, we all need to …	/r/askTRP	12/08/17 03:06 PM
7	Did I do the right thing ? How can we judge your looks better than people who can actually see you? Maybe you really look bad without hair, or maybe you look better and your freinds and family just got caught by surprise and just need time to get used to it. At which stage of balding are you? I'd pick a shaved head over a type 5-6 or 7 anytime but I'd also pick hair over shaved head for everything under type 4 and below. You gave us too little information to help you.	/r/askTRP	12/08/17 02:44 PM
0	If women don't want to be with you long-term, just be fuck buddies, is does that mean you're worthless? It depends on your age/the girls ages. In this society where adolescence is constantly streched forward and young people keep putting off responsibilities I wouldn't take that as a meaningful indication of your worth. If you and the girls are thirty then it's another story.	/r/askTRP	11/08/17 10:41 AM
2	How to stop feeling like a kid I understand your concern but I believe that life often figure itself out. The thing you should do is to keep having all sort of experiences and trough your inevitable mistakes you'll learn how to "be a man", whatever it means. Contrary to the believe of a lot of people in this subreddit I don't think that you can force yourself to be something that you are not. That doesn't mean that you can live in your parents basement and one day you'll magically become a man, you need to be open to experien…	/r/askTRP	11/08/17 10:32 AM
2	Why do some guys try so hard to be a good person, and likable by everyone? I know of so many guys who are actually nice people, but I see it get them nowhere and they never change.. Some people are more agreeable than others, we aren't all made the same way, we all have different attitudes and we all go through different experience that forge our character in different ways. agreeable people have more success in some fields and little success in others. they often fail with women because being overly agreeable is a sign of submission and low status. women try to get high status men.	/r/askTRP	11/08/17 10:25 AM
1	Finding meaning in life? Exactly. The meaning of life can't be contained in a set of rules in a subreddit. There is no recipe. There is no meaning in this subreddit. it's just a self help community of teenage kids who thinks that if they are ripped, rich and powerful and they fuck a lot of good looking women they are going to be happy and they will finally feel complete, it will finally be enough. It's a delusional fantasy, it's darwinism turned into a nightmare. They belive that they all can be alpha males and that bei…	/r/askTRP	07/08/17 02:57 AM
2	Help from someone who was in a similar situation Sorry I can't help you by sharing any personal experience but you need to take care of your health. Scoliosis can be cured and any thyroid related problem can be solved with synthetic hormones. Now those are your 2 problems, you should work on solving them before worrying about anything else.	/r/askTRP	07/08/17 02:46 AM
1	Finding meaning in life? Not at all. I'm saying that I never had the impression that this subreddit is concerned with the finding of purpose and meaning in life. In fact is the opposite. People here often try to find purpose in lifting weights, have high social status, high sexual value and fuck more ladies. That's the answer you get here. It's an answer. I'm not saying it's a bad answer, a lot of people find meaning in those things but I had the feeling you were looking for something more. EDIT: At the end of the day t…	/r/askTRP	07/08/17 02:29 AM
2	Finding meaning in life? Are you asking this in a subreddit where people are ready to replace their whole life and all their personal values in exchange of a prepackaged set of rules crafted to take control of any aspect of their lives? "dude Lift, eat clean, fuck the maximum amount of girl you can possibly fuck, go at the bar at night, be the life of the party, act this way, say this thing, say this pickup line, demonstrate value, get a good job, get a degree in STEM, it doesn't matter if you like something else, dump …	/r/askTRP	07/08/17 01:18 AM
2	So no one here has any idea about making new friends and creating a high status social life? that's an idiotic question. Grow up	/r/askTRP	07/08/17 01:05 AM
3	Wife is having an affair with a former patient of hers, we have kids so I have just been taking it. That sucks so bad man... I would suggest you to get the fuck out of there at the speed of light but I understand that you don't want to loose your kids. Very few people on this subreddit have kids/know what they are talking about. Can you get a separation and still live under the same roof unti the kids grow up and then get a divorce? Split up, you get your room she get hers. You both live your separate lives under the same roof for the kid's sake. Maybe 4 or 5 years of that to ease the kids int…	/r/askTRP	07/08/17 12:58 AM
1	On a brink of suicide One of this 3 things is happening to you right now: 1) You are drinking to much alcohol. 2) You are suffering a form of clinical depression. 3) You have developed a series of wrong habits and beliefs that are causing suffering. We can talk about that, I'm always happy to talk if it can be of any help, but keep in mind that if you feel sucidal your life is in danger and you need to see a specialist (psychologist/psychiatrist). Talking with people can help you unload the excessive stress you are s…	/r/askTRP	07/08/17 12:33 AM
1	Long time lurker first time posting Hi dude. 1) just go to a gym and get a personal trainer to prepare a program specific for your needs, it's teir job, they get paid for it. I don't get why people feel embarassed at the gym, I really can't see a single reason. It's a place you go to do physical excercise, every other consideration is childish and stupid. No one over the age of 15 will laugh at you for the amount of weight you can or cannot lift. Do you have a job/income now? If so, get braces. 25 is a good age to get braces, a lo…	/r/askTRP	07/08/17 12:17 AM
6	Girlfriend flashed a group of people, next? Dude you sound like an anti marijuana PSA: "sure it's just a marijuana cigarette today, but tomorrow it will be cocaine. And before you know it you will be shooting heroin!!". Stop being paranoid. You are paranoid. The thing you talk about might or might not happen, it doesn't matter. Who gives a shit. Have fun today. If tomorrow that girl will show her tits to a biker gang then OP will come back and we will talk about that WHEN IT HAPPENS. This subreddit is full of paranoid people that likes to…	/r/askTRP	31/07/17 08:05 PM
1	Not able to come to terms with the fact that her lips were kissed by another guy I understand that men and women are different and it's somewhat easier for girls to get laid etc etc but at some point we need to be fair:if you fucked another girl and she's ok with that you need to be with the fact that she has sucked some dick. I'm sorry if I sound mean but that's crazy. We are living bodies, we are dirty, we live, we eat, we shit, we fuck. A couple years ago people on this subreddit talked about "unicorns", now that's not enough, you want some kind of sterile disposable prod…	/r/askTRP	31/07/17 06:45 AM
8	God, fuck, Help. Years ago I broke up with a girl after a long realtionship and I just collapsed. At the time I still was on facebook and I didn't block her right away so I got to see all the fucking picture of her with MULTIPLE Chads and it was too much. I fell in a vortex of rage that I cannot begin to describe. I couldn't sleep, my head was litteraly burning with rage. I mean I could litteraly feel my head overheating. I was lost for maybe a year. Back then all this rage felt normal and an appropriate reactio…	/r/askTRP	31/07/17 06:31 AM
17	Socially awkward guys who joined clubs/activities to make friends, was it as bad as it sounds? It is very bad if you join a club with the sole objective of making new friends. It works fine if you join a club that you are very intetrested in and make some friends as a "collateral effect" of your interest. Your interest cannot be "having friends". You can't force friendship. You can be passionate about something and do it/talk about it with other people, developing relationships in the process. If you focus on the "make friends" part it will not work, it will be bad as it sounds.	/r/askTRP	31/07/17 06:02 AM
2	I feel like I'm never going to have a healthy relationship if I can't look past girls' sexual history. Is that true? What is the problem exactly? It's the number in itself or the fact that a girl had more partners than you? At 27 y.o. most people had a certain number of experiences, i'ts kinda inevitable. If you take any good looking 27 years old female you know for sure she has sucked some dick. Personally I don't find any difference between 1 dick sucked or 10 or 20 dicks sucked. Over 20 and I might start to think about using a second condom over the first one. The wholesome girls are the "whale"some, the ug…	/r/askTRP	31/07/17 05:54 AM
1	Girlfriend flashed a group of people, next? Meh, I think people on this subreddit always overreact to everything. Everything must be black or white, if a girl isn't wife material she must be a whore. Maybe it's just that I'm a little older than the people here and I'm a little softer, but I don't understand why you should trow away a fine relationship for a stupid thing like this. Have fun, don't take things seriously. It's just fucking and having fun. You don't need to have kids or a family whit this girl. Take note of this event, pay at…	/r/askTRP	31/07/17 05:41 AM
2	Beta and nice guys for years. Changing my ways and improving - old friends hate it? Sometimes people who smoke weed hang out with each other just because they smoke weed. I used to have a group of friends growing up, then I started to smoke weed and over 2 years of smoking I completely changed my acquaintances. When I quitted smoking all my old friends came back, all the weed friends disappeared in a cloud of smoke. Same goes with alcohol. But to be fair the same goes with everything really. You changed your lifestile, you'll find new people that share your same lifestyle, mayb…	/r/askTRP	07/06/17 07:27 PM
3	University? Waste of time and money? Statistically speaking People with a degree tend to earn 20-25% more than people without a degree. That said you are a person and not a statistic so no one can predict if you'll end up having more success with or without a degree. Companies nowdays want people who are able to work, degree is not a requirement if you have ton of experience. But then again in a lot of big companies (multinationals etc) nor having a degree limits your career opportunity for example in some luxury goods multinationa…	/r/askTRP	24/04/17 11:20 PM
1	What kind of an SMV do Arab/Middle Eastern guys have in Western Europe? It depends. Like any other men it's a collection of things. Social status, career, how you dress ecc ecc... If you are a smelly fat dude I'd say zero smv. If you are lean, well dressed, shaved, with a nice job you will be fine. Like any other man. Being Arab doesn't mean shit for most people except of racists and those women who prefer to get laid with foreigners. But then again I think black guys are more targeted than arab guys (by said women). They don't seem to be that succesful, maybe they …	/r/askTRP	23/04/17 12:23 AM
1	Why is it that when women outperform men in a field, all is right in the world, but if men outperform women, it's an example of men holding women back? Dude I totally agree with you but you are kinda putting a lot of stuff into OP's question. I get what you are saying but I still can't think of anybody saying that "men are holding women back" in the real world (when outperformed in a field). You are not saying the EXACT same thing OP's is saying. Worlds are important. Your argument is valid, OP'a argument is kinda distorted.	/r/askTRP	15/04/17 12:40 AM
1	Why is it that when women outperform men in a field, all is right in the world, but if men outperform women, it's an example of men holding women back? You're wrong. The wage gap was a major talking point for Hillary Clinton and Bernie Sanders during their campaigns. The false sense of gender discrimination in the western world is not an idea held by a small insignificant percentage of the population- it is a huge reason for the push to get women into STEM. It is why Trudeau appointed his cabinet based on gender rather than merit. THIS I can talk about. A more reasonable way to present the subject, with names, faces, facts and numbers. But then…	/r/askTRP	14/04/17 11:27 PM
1	Why is it that when women outperform men in a field, all is right in the world, but if men outperform women, it's an example of men holding women back? Again, this is just the opinion of a little percentage of the population and has it's root in the feminist movement. It's not a widespread opinion. Like the wage gap, some idiot came up with it and people started bouncing it around social media, just like op did in this post. We keep taking those crazy and controversial statement and keep pouring gasoline on the fire just to entertain ourselves. The disturbing aspect of this post is that it doesn't even generate from a confrontation: OP doesn't …	/r/askTRP	14/04/17 10:10 PM
1	Why is it that when women outperform men in a field, all is right in the world, but if men outperform women, it's an example of men holding women back? This isn't even a false attribuition, it's just a non-attribuition. What are we supposed to talk about here? "why is that.." what? Who said that? Are you quoting someone in particular? Or are you just throwing around words? Is that supposed to be something which most people agree upon? Because it seems to me as something that only few delusional feminists would say, yet you decontextualise it and try to pass it around as something everybody thinks. Do you have a source on that quote or are you j…	/r/askTRP	14/04/17 07:35 PM
1	Is silence the best revenge? Dude you are framing the whole thing the wrong way... You don't "give her silence", you never do that. Instead you move on and delete her from your life, which has "silence" as a side effect. Do you get the difference? The way you put it's like she's still has a great influence in your life. You "give her silence but she's in your head, and sooner or later you'll answer to a sms or a call or whatever. The mere fact you are asking on a message board for people to help you get "revenge" makes me t…	/r/askTRP	06/12/16 12:40 AM
1	Is it Beta to let your girlfriend talk to other "guy friends" or to be over protective (so to speak) and not let her talk to any? I don't know dude. It's not a good sign. This is what I'd do in that situation: I'd let her talk to the guy, get close to the guy and grab him by the hair, pull him down and let him sniff my scrotum to establish social dominance. then I'd go for a dread game.	/r/askTRP	23/08/14 01:42 AM
0	GF adding guys on Facebook Come on guys... Seriously? I understand all trp bullshit and I'm subscribed and I also post sometimes so I'm not here to criticize and make fun of you but guys... Seriously? You are here telling me that you have a gf that does everything you want whenever you want. What is the problem? She's a fucking human being, isn't she allowed to have how many frends she likes on facebook? Wtf, how many good looking girls do you have for friend in facebook? People add friends on facebook. Is what facebook i…	/r/askTRP	18/07/14 03:43 PM
3	In July 1968 four pairs of mice were introduced into the Utopian universe. ...There was no shortage of food or water or nesting material. There were no predators. The only adversity was the limit on space. The answer you are looking for are in a book written by Edward T. Hall called "the hidden dimension". In this book he talks alot about this experiment and try to transpose the outcomes to the contemporary society. He tried to explain deviant behaviour (and many other things) through "proxemic", a concept he first introduced that basically describe personal space and the perception of it by oneself. Nice book.	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/14 02:11 AM
1	I guess ltr? That's actually a good answer. I don't believe TRP is about hate but in this saubreddit I find mostly stories about women who misbehave (or what I think it's a bad behavior). So the first impression that this subreddit gave to me is some sort of contempt for women. I'm not trying to criticize for the sake of it, I'm just trying to understand TRP "way of life" and see if it could help me getting what I want.	/r/askTRP	18/03/14 08:25 PM
1	I guess ltr? I understand that but what about my question? How can you get married and have kids when you can't trust a woman? I ask you that because I cna't trust women after 15 years of realtions (short ones and 5 years long ones). I want to have kids but can't trust women, that's all. I was curious to know TRP answer about having a wife and having kids.	/r/askTRP	18/03/14 02:11 AM
1	I guess ltr? again I don't understand why when I say feminism (and I mean feminsm) you talk about femininity. Is there somethng that makes you think I used the wrong term? Again I can barely speak english so maybe I am missing something here. To be clear I was talking about "a movement that says that women can do anything a man can do equally as well"	/r/askTRP	18/03/14 02:04 AM
2	I guess ltr? no I mean feminism and I can't see the source of your confusion.	/r/askTRP	17/03/14 10:15 PM
2	A large collection of pictures of male feminists. There seems to be a common theme (cloning?) here... I need to shave.	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/14 09:35 AM