varsitymack Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	She Needs You A Lot More Than You Need Her I didn't say to deny everything, that would be silly. Open the bottle of wine, cook her breakfast, change a light bulb, whatever, it's okay to be a decent human being and demonstrate that you do give a F. Just know when to draw the line, when it's going too far, from normal shit to controlling behavior.	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/15 12:45 AM
3	She Needs You A Lot More Than You Need Her Agreed. She may have legitimately f'd up opening the bottle, and you fixed it, absolutely no biggie. But recognize that because you were there to do it, so she had you do it. Just like if she can't open a resistant jar top, some extra strength from a man helps. You were there. But damn, I've had trouble opening up a jar of pickles before. Had to resort to tapping the darn thing on the counter, etc., loosening it up so I had the strength to open it. Do I need a big body builder buddy to open a ja…	/r/TheRedPill	22/11/15 10:39 PM
3	She Needs You A Lot More Than You Need Her Women want to see if you'll do things for them. It starts out small, like opening a bottle of wine. She's conditioning the man for bigger things down the road. Getting the man in the habit of doing what she wants, or "needs", making her happy and comfortable. Mr. Fix It. Fast forward months later. She confronts him about some new woman "friend" on his FaceBook. He'll make the mistake of explaining himself to keep her happy and comfortable (just someone from work, etc.). Easy fix to her, delete t…	/r/TheRedPill	22/11/15 10:13 PM
23	She Needs You A Lot More Than You Need Her She's playing with your head. She didn't need you to open the bottle of wine, she's entirely capable of doing so herself. She was playing damsel in distress, creating a problem, minor as it may be, then acting as if she "needs" you to "fix" it. She didn't. She wants you to think you do, and you do. You're falling right into her trap. Fall if you want, not saying it's a bad thing, just know what's up before jumping to your own self affirming conclusions.	/r/TheRedPill	22/11/15 05:27 AM
5	Quick FR on the importance of Time In early dating, a woman showing up late is simply a test. Expect it. It may be a test to see if you have a temper. Don't fall for that, don't get mad. It's weak to not have control over your emotions, especially over what is truly trivial. You've lost the game before it started, total turnoff. Remember: if she didn't like you, she wouldn't be testing you. Or it's possibly a test to set herself on a pedestal from the get-go. Either way, shouldn't matter to you, too early to establish anything. S…	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/15 08:18 PM
5	A More in Depth Look At Shit Tests. Part 1. Excellent analogy. I would say these pings are used by women to find out a multitude of things well beyond SMV.	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/15 04:24 PM
18	"Don't Be Afraid to Dominate" Great post. I read her email as a test to see if she'll get a reaction out of you. To the extent that you'd be interested walking down the road of marriage and monogamy, with her. Obviously you didn't take the bait. She'll be back.	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/15 02:14 AM
7	"Don't Talk to Women Like Men" In as sense it is an interview, but to just incrementally find out enough information to move the conversation forward, to get deeper, gather the coordinates and steer the ship. Informal and conversational, rattling off 20 questions would of course be a turn off. Women love to talk, get them talking. Most people’s favorite subject is themselves, so not the most difficult of things. She wants to get things off her chest, she wants to confide in someone, whatever, she wants someone that truly unde…	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/15 05:35 PM
51	"Don't Talk to Women Like Men" This describes the "too cool for school" approach, custom built for a dude that lacks the verbal or mental skill to wow the f out of a woman's brain. And it is her brain that you want to possess, the rest flows from there. You CAN speak to a woman, and you should. You should listen very carefully to every word out of her mouth because it does matter. Women send clues physically and verbally. They use all the tools in their arsenal and you should too. You can act disinterested and interested simu…	/r/TheRedPill	10/11/15 08:12 PM
1	Being nice is biologically a "submissive" behavior Appreciate the input. Seems the matter may be more problematic than I thought with such vehement debate on here over such semantics. If someone is out there on-the-town thinking, "I can be kind, but no way am I gonna show any niceness..." that person is a mess and it will show. Rather insignificant, if not silly, distinctions that will prove to be more distracting to the operator than productive. I say be nice, be kind, be mean, be sweet, be difficult, be whatever the situation calls for at the …	/r/TheRedPill	10/11/15 12:12 AM
2	Being nice is biologically a "submissive" behavior There's a difference between being nice (kind, smiling, engaging, etc) and being a doormat. You can be cordial and the king of the jungle simultaneously. When you intrinsically know that you are on top of the food chain, you can be the most congenial guy on the planet with only upside, socially, economically, sexually and otherwise. For example, you can even let a dumb insecure dude twist his wrist so his hand is on top when shaking hands... silly parlor trick, doesn't make him more alpha (actua…	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/15 09:53 PM
2	Remember Law 38. Think as you like, behave like others. “Speak what you think today in hard words and tomorrow speak what tomorrow thinks in hard words again, though it contradict every thing you said today.” Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self-Reliance	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/15 10:53 PM