vatellechef Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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49	What if a HV man broke up with me because I was acting stupid/LV? My personal view would be that there is no lost “chance” or “opportunity. We could argue pointlessly for days it it was his “fault” or your “fault”. Maybe he was not able to make you feel secure, maybe your attitude pushed him away, but I don’t think this should be the main focus here. Reading your post I get the feeling that you are not 100% ready to be at your best and flourish in a relationship, potentially being in danger of exploitation from scrotes. Relax, you have not missed anything (it’…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/22 01:04 PM
38	Never EVER share financial information with a man. It starts with $20 now but can easily escalate to much more over the years. Come across the wrong one and they will absolutely destroy you financially. Yeah, funniest part in this not-funny story is when he says “ight, then no breakfast for us, I guess”, it’s no breakfast for YOU, you bum	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/22 11:26 AM
8	This is what we mean when we say don't go 50/50. You'll be doing 100% of the childrearing while he's at work and he will expect you to give up your savings as well. Oh man, I don’t want to step into the “conservative old school wifey” territory (which has big delusions and pitfalls as the FDS community is well aware of), but “my husband is asking to share moving expenses”….is just……is just sad, man	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/22 04:31 PM
7	This is the prime example of rich =/= high value.. “Shown him receipts and payslip”?!???? Sis, it’s supposed to be your boyfriend, not the local tax bureau	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/21 01:11 PM
27	Please don’t idealise men from other cultures My god the Korean men comment is very spot on with all the k-drama and k-pop trend. I am a white woman living in Asia and I had a relationship with a Korean man, it is true at the beginning they might catch you because they SEEM more romantic and sweet by being shy, polite etc etc…give them a while and BOY they drop the mask…unsurprisingly he was looking for a white “sexually liberated” (reads slut) throphy gf BLERGH if only I’d found some Korean sisters putting some wisdom in me	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 09:33 PM
28	addicted to male validation (need help going into pickmeisha rehab) In addition to the great suggestions of the ladies above, and only as a less important/“phase 2” recommendation, I would try to create and nurture a circle of women friends. Try to start from women only hobbies if you can/ covid situation in your area allows it. I started a women only Pilates programme and it’s incredible how my workout has shifted to “I want to be hot —-> squats to make my butt sexier” to “I want to be healthier and stronger”, no matter the pickmes/scrotes choir of “BuT NO Man …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/08/21 01:41 PM
480	OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑 “I couldn’t come up with a decent date, I have sent her a shitty (nagging) text now she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore boohoo🤡🤡🤡” YOU GO GIRL	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/21 04:06 PM
131	Britney Spears is a QUEEN who is STANDING UP for what's RIGHT! I am asking myself daily how come Chris Brown is still around on this planet AND thirsting over Rihanna’s picture on social media. Appalled	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/06/21 05:40 AM
52	DAE have the hardest time genuinely connecting with men? 👥🧔🏽⚡️ I have recently found a man I genuinely have a strong friendship connection with and a few months later...he came out as gay...only man who didn’t see me through the dichotomy fuckable/non fuckable and cared about getting to know and support each other	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/06/21 04:17 AM
35	Weekly FDS Check-in Imagine people using their free time and efforts to create a copycat with the purpose of sabotaging an online page on a social media when they could just IGNORE IT...what would some scrotes do just to actively avoid being better people is a mistery to me	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/21 01:38 PM
12	What the frog just came across my timeline My god if I hear another one poor woman giving some idiot rapist scrote the “BEnEfiT of ThE DOuBt” Sis’ this is not a court, it might get you pregnant, abused & more	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/05/21 04:20 PM
147	People 👏🏻 don’t 👏🏻 want 👏🏻 women 👏🏻 to 👏🏻 enjoy 👏🏻 PERIODT Yet another FDS post perfectly on point...My LVB (Low Value Boss) told me “as a joke”: “no matter how hard I try, I can never make you cry”...like ok scrote, if you have to exploit corporate hierarchy to exert dominance over a woman who is 20 years younger...the whole world and the job market is waaaaay to big for me to ruin my mascara over an OFFICE JOB, no matter how much I like it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/21 06:21 AM
22	Bumble Encourages Women to Talk to Men who Commit Microaggressions And Explain to Him Why They Are Inappropriate : Further Reason to Stop Using OLD My god, this corporate jargon is making me want to throw up	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/21 03:43 PM
1	Educating my daughter on what men will say when she is confident and strong in her opinions, what are we missing? “You’re smart and your performance is above the average of the team. You just need to learn TO SmiLe MorE” by every male boss ever	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 02:07 PM