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No one should have to be associated with or feel responsible things they've never done. Bravo
/r/MensRights21/08/12 11:48 PM
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If it's anywhere in the same order it's a major major problem. Even if it's not in the same order, it is a major major problem.
/r/MensRights10/08/12 11:10 PM
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FYI the Blaze is Glenn Beck's website- this is all about being inflammatory and full of shit. Still, good discussion to have here.
/r/MensRights27/07/12 07:14 PM
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feminists and liberals prefer to censor Ill downvote wingnut statements about liberals in MR.
/r/MensRights17/07/12 10:26 PM
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Dude, no one is applauding the decline or inequality in male graduates. On the one hand, there has been great strides in helping women become equal, an in this case, advanced. Now we can work on getting more men to graduate as well. It's not a zero sum game.
/r/MensRights11/07/12 08:50 PM
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Read Obama's op-ed. He didn't exactly, unless you want to recontextualize, a la Faux. It's clear he is simply applauding the success of a program.
/r/MensRights11/07/12 06:46 PM
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MRM is not a right wing movement (or left wing). This is just pure political bullshit. The title of this post is misleading, as Obama never said those words. Faux news. Edit: from reading Obama's op-ed, he actually did says these words, but not in this order. This is plain re-contextualizing to fit a political agenda (MRM). MRM should be above this type of Faux news hysteria. O is plainly applauding the success of a program started decades ago at ending inequality. MRM should thank him for point…
/r/MensRights11/07/12 04:57 PM
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hahaha to the crazy conservatives in mrm. MRM is NOT a conservative or liberal movement!
/r/MensRights28/06/12 08:16 PM
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word
/r/MensRights28/06/12 08:13 PM
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wrong!
/r/MensRights12/06/12 06:23 PM
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It would matter to me and many others.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 08:52 PM
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Statistical references? It may be true that some kind of majority react with revulsion, but to highlight a difference between men and women, proportionately more males are into this scenario than women.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 08:50 PM
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Patience. And keep your good humor.
/r/MensRights06/06/12 07:35 PM
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The important thing is to keep sticking up for men's issues without being an asshole. Most people do not change long-held opinions and view points very quickly. It often takes months or years for before someone will change their mind or even see things in a different light.
/r/MensRights06/06/12 07:34 PM
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Like what fucked up idea?
/r/MensRights05/06/12 09:48 PM
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It's weird the way this sub rubs some people. I love women and was raised with mostly women, am in a great relationship. I don't get the feeling ever that this is a sub for hating on women, though of course there is an element more extreme than I personally feel. But that exists everywhere and I definitely see it as a minority around here.
/r/MensRights05/06/12 07:15 PM
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This is like a great little post-card. Always welcome. Plus this reads like sanity over hysteria. Kudos.
/r/MensRights05/06/12 07:04 PM
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whao dude, I can't even read that. It's not an infograph, it's a wall of disjointed text. If you goal is to make something easy for people to read, just put this all in one page using the same font, font size and without all the colors.
/r/MensRights05/06/12 06:41 PM
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Absolutely. When will institutions recognize this problem?
/r/MensRights01/06/12 06:42 PM
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IMO calling a man a bitch is about as bad as it gets.
/r/MensRights31/05/12 05:42 PM
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Maddening. That person has a skewed sense of justice.
/r/MensRights30/05/12 11:43 PM
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I actually I dont understand whats so bad about cunt. ? Dick / Cunt ?
/r/MensRights30/05/12 11:42 PM
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Right. I guess the reason I have is that people who have made false rape claims should be encouraged to come clean. But it's fucked no matter what.
/r/MensRights30/05/12 11:41 PM
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False rape claims need to be tracked and publicized hand-in-hand with rape statistics. It matters to everyone involved, on all sides of the issue. I will never again accept rape statistics from an organization that is not just as concerned and eager to condone false claims.
/r/MensRights30/05/12 09:33 PM
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Are there any support groups for victims of false accusations? How fucking shitty. False accusation awareness now!
/r/MensRights24/05/12 09:40 PM
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Absolute tragedy. Catch-22: Though I feel the false accuser should serve at least as much time as he did, that would deter other false accusers in the future from telling the truth. Does anyone have any statistics on the number of false accusations out there? Does the SPLC or anyone else track these? Another article: http://www.kval.com/sports/Onetime-top-Calif-football-prospect-exonerated-of-rape-conviction-153736315.html
/r/MensRights24/05/12 09:32 PM
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ah, rape machines, that's all we are!
/r/MensRights09/05/12 05:20 PM
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Exactly!
/r/MensRights09/05/12 05:18 PM
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Sure I pee on the bathroom floor...sometimes. Im not offended. Gender differences exist, as long as people aren't assholes about it, it's ok.
/r/MensRights25/04/12 10:45 PM
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This is all about a balance of humor imo. As long as no one on either side of the joke is really serious, or begins to take it serious, then its an exercise in shedding gender stereotypes by making a joke. But if the person seriously expects you to play into this role, then point this fallacy out to them and to necessary associates. The joke then is no longer funny.
/r/MensRights25/04/12 10:43 PM
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Wow! Lightbulb moment Frida! There can be a men's rights movement just like a women's rights movement, focusing on issues effecting each sex, each ideally striving for equality and understanding. Get used to the idea, then check back with an apology when you learn more.
/r/MensRights25/04/12 05:25 PM
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Unfortunately men's rights is still not taken seriously enough. But we're getting there.
/r/MensRights25/04/12 05:22 PM
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The title of this post is wrong. Summers lost, but the idea of the debate is weird. This IS a post-feminist society. That's the point, people seem to agree. Young men need all the help they can get.
/r/MensRights24/04/12 10:31 PM
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I came here to say that. I've been told that I was just angry that I "wasn't getting enough pussy", that I must think that I'm "entitled to pussy", or was just sexually frustrated. Incidentally I am in a wonderful loving relationship. Pussy ain't my problem.
/r/MensRights29/03/12 06:03 PM
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The mocking of Nice Guys is a favorite feminist meme. feminists misunderstand Nice Guys.... Nice Guys are frustrated is because they believe in feminism and act like feminists tell them to, and get nothing....Women, it turns out, are attracted to masculine men, not feminized men This is the first time I've read it put so clearly. Thanks. I often see accusations that MRAs are just a bunch of jilted jerks who haven't got any pussy and so we are mad. Something like that. EYE ROLL Any doubters readi…
/r/MensRights27/03/12 04:59 PM
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This is a funny article (funny if it weren't so sad that MRAs get stereotyped into these categories). There is nothing "Modern" about these attitudes, and to say all men, or a majority of men, or even a significant amount of "modern", educated, responsible men think this way is total bullshit. It's like people are still defining men based on traditionalist stereotypes fit to a modern sexual code. Dude, I don't know any man that thinks this way in the article and if he did he would get a pat on t…
/r/MensRights27/03/12 04:40 PM
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Absolutely brilliant!
/r/MensRights26/03/12 05:54 PM
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There is alot of politics to be played. However, there are as many feminist misandrists as misogynist MRAs. It's just apart of the game. The task is not to worry about those genuinely hateful people, but to ignore them and establish a stronger narrative. Yes, outsiders are obviously focusing on the few hateful voices, but the task then is to establish a stronger narrative. I am really turned off by the notion that MRs must be PC or else perceived as misogynists. Part of MRs is a cathartic embrac…
/r/MensRights26/03/12 05:52 PM
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This is really amazing. SPLC is really bent on slandering open minded dialogue about equality. Very disappointing.
/r/MensRights26/03/12 05:43 PM
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What the fuck is Rape Awareness??? Who is not aware of fucking rape?? What the fuck????????
/r/MensRights23/03/12 05:24 PM
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Absolutely. Words < actions.
/r/MensRights23/03/12 05:07 PM
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It is funny. Am I really condoning rape? No. Part of the problem is that MR is being forced to be PC. Obviously this is a politically sensitive time for MR, but I'm not always going to worry about who confuses misogyny w male humor. Personally I'm not going to walk on eggshells.
/r/MensRights23/03/12 05:00 PM
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hahaha! (this is male humor. its not necessarily misogynistic. here here for male buttsex humor!)
/r/MensRights22/03/12 10:51 PM
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Those majors are about thinking critically and inductively. They develop the kind of thinking that makes life more meaningful as well. And I;m not defending hipsters. This stuff has been around alot longer. Perhaps you don't have a taste for culture. Don't let your insecurities turn to spite.
/r/MensRights21/03/12 09:58 PM
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Every industry is a microcosm.
/r/MensRights21/03/12 09:55 PM
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Be careful of oversimplifications. Of course professors or working people of any type are in "the real world". They pay bills, raise kids, do all the things everyone else does. The difference is that they make their living thinking in abstractions. It is basically anti0intellectual to belittle the liberal arts and social sciences because they do not operate in the rubric as the hard sciences. I'm saying this as someone with both a BA (Philosophy) and BS (Computer Science). In fact I think the an…
/r/MensRights21/03/12 09:54 PM
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They're in professions like college professors, secretaries, stupid shit like that. Not exactly a nuanced position. While I agree that feminists are often not comfortable with male behavior, this goes beyond that. Often there are masculine comfort zones and feminine comfort zones and the two are not always compatible. Sometimes the right solution is to find a compromise depending on the environment, something rather neutral. While radical feminists often want to feminize everyone's behavior, the…
/r/MensRights21/03/12 09:43 PM
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great response. im kind of thinking the same
/r/MensRights16/03/12 03:48 AM
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Thanks for your contribution. Feel free to speak out and don't shrink from fair criticism. To me alot of gender issues are like race issues- they can be highly charged for some people who can be the loudest in the room, but in fact there are more calm and reasonable people. Also, it is ok to be wrong- we are all wrong a little bit or alot about something. It's just important to be willing to modify one's position.
/r/MensRights16/03/12 01:39 AM
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I wouldn't say a rape victim is "asking for it" but I would say they may bear some responsibility depending on the situation, just like I am responsible for leaving my window open or not having mace in the house. Actually, there are people who would say I was "asking for it" by leaving my window open. And you know what? Fuck em, I don't care what they think and nor should any reasonable person about that attitude. My burglary was no more isolated than a rape incident. Actually, your examples and…
/r/MensRights16/03/12 12:24 AM
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No analogy is perfect. Men are raped too, so we can have an opinion about this also. There are times when the analogy makes sense and there is no question about that- don't get yourself in vulnerable situations. But there are times when you just had bad luck. My view is that in any instance of any crime where one is the victim, it is perfectly legitimate to ask yourself what you could have done differently. Sometimes the answer is nothing- but other times there are in fact things you could have …
/r/MensRights15/03/12 07:37 PM
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on the one end, you have feminists justifiably fighting against traditionalists; on the other end we have feminists mistakenly fighting against mras. mras are not traditionalist oppressors. if anything the traditionalists are a main problem for fucking up the progressive message of mens rights / equality.
/r/MensRights15/03/12 07:28 PM
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misogyny may be hard to spell but misandry isn't even included in spell checkers
/r/MensRights15/03/12 07:25 PM
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In the Wikipedia entry on postfeminism I found this: In her 1994 book Who Stole Feminism? How Women Have Betrayed Women, Christina Hoff Sommers considers much of modern academic feminist theory and the feminist movement to be gynocentric and misandrist. She labels this "gender feminism" and proposes "equity feminism"—an ideology that aims for full civil and legal equality. She argues that while the feminists she designates as gender feminists advocate preferential treatment and portray women as …
/r/MensRights09/03/12 08:16 PM
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Why not just straight up say that MRAs are all misogynistic haters? That's what the knee jerk reaction is. Sure, like in any movement there are radicals, and often a lot of them when a movement gets started. But the core of r/Mensrights and MRA is not hate! I do not hate anyone, that's the point. The point of MRA is is to point out the double standards towards men and how it is acceptable to hate men. If someone misunderstands this then we just have to stick to the message.
/r/MensRights09/03/12 12:32 AM
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Women-bashing? Like misogyny or just picking fights with misandrists? Are women too gentle to pick verbal fights with? Do you find that sentence offensive too?
/r/MensRights06/03/12 09:22 PM
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These women are fully indoctrinated into their own mythology. It happens.
/r/MensRights05/03/12 05:57 PM
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That only applies to reasonable people in reasonable situations.
/r/MensRights24/02/12 06:24 PM
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That would be the assumption, but I've observed it doesn't work that way quite often.
/r/MensRights24/02/12 06:23 PM
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I don't get it- MensRights is totally tame. This is not r/manhoodacademy or some bullshit- I've found this to be a very friendly, supportive place. MensRights is basically a nice group that points out hypocrisy and double standards and certain people feel threatened by that; for these people it is the feeling of one's deeply sublimated biases being threatened by questioning.
/r/MensRights13/02/12 11:35 PM
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MRA as a thing is a new thing for me. But I love sharing all the ideas with my gf and my female friends. They are really receptive and supportive, partially because I'm not a stranger saying strange things. They know I treat women respectfully and without double standards and we all like to call out double standards.
/r/MensRights13/02/12 11:26 PM
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Men have a right of assumed innocence until proven guilty. Part of the Victim Blamers gig is to assume the guilt of the man. Source? My source is a point- rape accusers need to be questioned thoroughly by the police and the court of law before they can be believed without any physical evidence. This is not Victim Blaming, it is due process.
/r/MensRights10/02/12 06:32 PM
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I have had plenty of people tell me that questioning a rape accusers claims are victim blaming. I think that those people should be subject to intense scrutiny. The defense has every right to call a person's character into question and look at the circumstances. In the courts this is absolutely necessary. Now if you want to talk about how a potential victim gets socially treated, fine. But in the courts may everything be brought to light.
/r/MensRights10/02/12 04:24 PM
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What's the difference? (straight question)
/r/MensRights10/02/12 04:20 PM
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I'm not sure what your point is. I'm not going to look at your other posts right now, but the reason I posted this is because I have had plenty of discussions with Victim Blaming activists that think any form of police questioning or skepticism of rape accusations is tantamount to victim blaming. On that I call bullshit.
/r/MensRights10/02/12 04:18 PM
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move along. this post is retarded.
/r/MensRights27/01/12 11:07 PM
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thanks. new here.
/r/MensRights24/01/12 03:04 AM
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Females are usually thought as more worthy of sympathy than males, and males are typically credited with greater agency and so are held more responsible for their situation. This.
/r/MensRights24/01/12 02:04 AM
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Nice. If you leave your car parked in a shitty area and it gets broken into, I'm sure no one will fault you.
/r/MensRights24/01/12 02:01 AM
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"their passion is in the fight to be right" So true. It is a true-believer kind of attitude that won't allow any possible hint of dissent or even discussion on the issue itself, much less about actual cases.
/r/MensRights24/01/12 01:56 AM
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jesus lady, it's not always about you all the time
/r/MensRights20/01/12 07:27 PM
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hahaha! Hooters protesting is an excellent example.
/r/MensRights20/01/12 07:17 PM
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"Personally, I find that any person who shames another for their sexuality is an asshole, regardless of gender." Great post, just add some line breaks.
/r/MensRights20/01/12 05:22 AM
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"pick your battles" i agree, girls using guys, guys using girls. generally im ok with that along evolutionary bounds.
/r/MensRights20/01/12 05:17 AM
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IMO women are far more likely to do slut shaming, perhaps to either sex, than men. The dynamics of it are probably well explained looking at social biology, if someone cares to get into that. But I guess I'm not clear on what you are saying.
/r/MensRights20/01/12 01:11 AM
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It's a form of double standard. Girls wanting to be equal but still expecting the guys to pay.
/r/MensRights19/01/12 11:49 PM
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For me it was when I was trying to explain that women have some responsibility about the decisions they make that get them into vulnerable situations concerning sexual violence. For this I was labeled a rapist by the entire board. :/
/r/MensRights18/01/12 04:40 AM
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That's a great doc but I'm not sure it sheds any new light on this.
/r/MensRights18/01/12 04:33 AM
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Well said. It's not serious.
/r/MensRights18/01/12 04:32 AM
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I agree, but it's still a fair question to see how this makes us feel. Ads directed towards men featuring women? Women hate that shit.
/r/MensRights18/01/12 04:29 AM
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Great question, liked your post too. Sorry if I'm a bit late (a day on reddit +blackout coming!) but here's my quick unmeditated response. On the subject of objectification- I've always felt men are ok and even LIKE being sexually objectified. It happens so rarely and to so few, it can be actually quite a release to the complicated social and emotional roles in sex that masculine sexuality, imo, plainly doesn't want to deal with most of the time. As for objectifying some kind of perfect unattain…
/r/MensRights18/01/12 04:25 AM
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Right. I feel like maybe we are bit out of context from the original post. It might be a fucked up think on the MRA board to say, but I feel like castration would be preferable to other forms of forced abstinence. Personally I would prefer that option (if I wasnt getting out any time soon).
/r/MensRights18/01/12 12:51 AM
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Stay strong. Was there anyone at the party you told this to? Anyone else that knew what happened? Legally you should be fine, but as for reputation you might appreciate a friend or someone who can back you up. Keep your chin up.
/r/MensRights18/01/12 12:47 AM
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How does it negatively effect male dogs?
/r/MensRights17/01/12 08:06 PM
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That is torture. It would be more humane to cut off their balls.
/r/MensRights11/01/12 09:44 PM
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Maybe it's not a Human Right, but it's an arguable form of torture to forcefully deny complete sexual gratification. There are physiological and psychological consequences. Basically I think it's an extreme form of punishment enacted by those who want to punish prisoners at every opportunity. Personally I believe prison should be less about punishment and more about segregation from society and rehabilitation; in this case porn should be freely available because evidence shows greater porn acces…
/r/MensRights11/01/12 09:43 PM
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I too have made this argument. Well done.
/r/MensRights11/01/12 07:53 PM
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