vazark Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Is there anything more essential than confidence? It means exactly what it means. Only by being yourself can you attract people who like you. If you’re being busy trying to impress a certain type of people by putting on a fake persona, it’ll show as nervousness and anxiety. Paradoxically, if you want to change yourself fake it till you make it is the best advice… which also comes down to confidence (to accept failures)	/r/seduction	28/04/24 07:08 PM
43	What to do when a girl says she has a boyfriend Take a hint	/r/seduction	24/03/24 03:51 AM
19	Dating is just sales. “..in the matters of taste”. Why does no one ever say the complete version ?	/r/seduction	18/04/23 06:18 AM
6	The guys I know who attract the most women are among the most deeply insecure, arrogant, narcissistic, egotistical people that I know of There is being a nice guy and then there is NiceGuy™	/r/seduction	20/10/22 07:15 AM
35	I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girls Flirting is about having fun. Not getting laid. So tease, have fun. You pick it up as u go	/r/seduction	31/08/22 12:02 PM
1	Why do girls say they like “nice guys” but never date them? There’s nice guys and there is the « nice guys » TM. You gotta figure out which one you are.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 10:41 AM
9	Women coming to you? Lol. Go out and get some. We’re men. Nothing in life « comes » to us unless we’re born lucky and those guys never need to be here	/r/seduction	20/01/22 08:18 PM
5	How can I (27 f) be more physically affectionate outside of sex? Random hug and kisses, initiate cuddles or just lean on him when you’re sitting next to each other. Wrap your arm around his waist or his arm. Or give not so subtle signs that he can initiate them at his end. If you’re not really used to it, let him know that you appreciate/love the affectionate contact.That validation of affection with verbal AND reciprocated action is the thing most guys crave the most.	/r/seduction	17/10/21 07:32 PM
2	[deleted by user] Dude. Go change your preferences on any OLD to men. Try creating a personal connection. You’ll appreciate the women’s perspective better. Dating is supposed to be you having fun. The girl isn’t the goal, it’s you having fun and taking her for the ride. You can find more about dating in general in this video essay.	/r/seduction	05/10/21 06:54 PM
4	How is any of this supposed to work if you don't have any women interested in you to begin with? The question of the moment is “Are YOU interested in them?”. Then shoot your shot. As long as you don’t cross a line or super cringey, most girls won’t mind.	/r/seduction	03/09/21 07:06 AM
5	How is any of this supposed to work if you don't have any women interested in you to begin with? Maybe I’m projecting but I feel like I wholeheartedly understand where you’re coming from. You’re not negative but you know that an amazing person and a great catch. You want the girls to recognise it and approach you. However, i realised only late into my 20s that most girls will have more options for a partner than you can imagine. So it’s up to the guy to pursue his romantic interests. Sometimes they’ll want you back, sometimes they won’t. We can’t succeed without rejections. You have to make…	/r/seduction	03/09/21 06:36 AM
1	Hey guys confused Lol. Are you telling me that you’ve never bitched about picking up girls with your homies? That’s just sad.	/r/seduction	21/07/21 08:57 AM
2	Hey guys confused Is she truly someone you consider your friend or was it just an “in” to get to know her? If it was the latter, just tell her your not emotionally available right now and stop talking to her for a couple of weeks. Figure out what you want and choose your course of action from there. However, if she is truly your friend and the feelings were something that came later, do something to get it out of your system (venting/working out). She expects that this “incident” is merely a bump in your friendsh…	/r/seduction	21/07/21 06:49 AM