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My best friend is the one earning in the relationship while her BF is still studying. She doesn't mind at all and they have been really close for a long time. She tells me to not worry about it too. Another close female friend of mine lost interest in a 6' typical hot rich middle aged dude after he made advances while preying on her potential self esteem about her age. Her current boyfriend is shorter than me (5'9) struggles financially but treats her well, something she has put on priority sinc…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 06:34 PM
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The system wants to divide us, for us to hate each other, bc well then we focus on that and not on who is “the real enemy”. Thank you! Been telling this to every person who I hope listens. Religion, gender wars, left vs right, all of them. We were not so divided a decade ago. In hindsight I took that era for granted. I do understand your frustration with the fact that he and others like him have managed to find partners, while for you it has not worked out. For context, I was also passively pois…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 07:02 AM
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It's fine and it makes sense. I'm a moderate, qu stion everything regardless of who the source is and my best friend is a woman who is bi, poly and liberal. I have openly disagreed with things here and there but we have our middle ground. What is sad tho is a lot of far left and right both consider opposing their opinion makes you either the opposite or have other slurs thrown at you. Like you disagree with the left and you are a nzi or a pdo, disagree with the right and you are called woke amon…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 06:02 AM
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My brain cannot comprehend putting the blame of what is happening in the world on one group of humans. His behavior is not excusable but unfortunately, a large majority of the culprits are from there or are major ringleaders of all the bad things that took place. Not to forget a religious angle is being added by themselves to the current situation and speaking against it is easily called being anti semite. Gonna leave it at that cuz it's a vast topic. Been studying this since last year cuz it af…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 03:30 AM
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By the way, the girls who do that aren't hypocrites, if their boyfriend compliment another girl on social media, they're perfectly fine with it. Intentions. You can acknowledge someone is good looking while leaving it there and you can compliment to express interest. Context matters.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/26 07:44 PM
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It's the intention that matters in my opinion. If you are using it to get favours then I would definitely raise an eyebrow. You can wear revealing that's fine. Ideally, that would be something to look out for in compatibility beforehand? Not every woman likes to wear revealing clothes.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/26 07:42 PM
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Happens. A female friend's dad and was trying to make small talk with him. He didn't talk much. My friend confirmed it was just how he is. He was very soft spoken too. So living proof right there lol.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/26 12:02 PM
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From what I have observed, yes. Even some women tend to negatively perceive men who have been with escorts from what I have heard. I personally am uncomfortable with someone who slept around a lot. Does not necessarily make them bad people. For example, I have a friend who has being polyamorous and all but she is a really good friend regardless. Her sex life is not for me to judge. If those were mostly serious relationships, I'm more concerned about their ability to be in a healthy relationship.…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:06 PM
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Good. While your anger may not be entirely wrong, dating is messy as it is these days, don't lash out at others trying to help you. Easier said than done but you could be affecting a lot of relationships in this process. So pay attention. With that being said, work on your self hate. If you cannot say good things to yourself, at least for now stop saying bad things to yourself.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/26 12:47 AM
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I beg your pardon?
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 09:26 AM
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Well women seem to get into relationships with redpill dudes pretty easily and will make up plenty of excuses as to why they stay. Do you really want to reason with someone like that to be with you or choose you willingly? I know women who i personally warned against the men they are pursuing. Told them there are far better men out there than that (without presenting myself as an alternative). They are also humans who have their own issues to deal with.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 09:24 AM
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So basically I'll never have a relationship because I'm that mentally ill. Not that you can't. But the ones you do end up in would do you more harm than good in this state. I have seen it happen to someone. Things became really bad. It's like trying to run a hundred meter dash with broken legs. Not to forget that you may not realise who you are pushing away with this negative energy in yourself. You also seem to have anger issues and let me tell you, women avoid that kind of stuff cuz it is a ri…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 09:19 AM
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Ego. That they can find someone. There are apparently different takes on RP itself. RP has this thing about keeping women at arms length if I'm not wrong and maintaining control in the relationship.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/25 09:18 PM
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Depending upon the region there is a grain of truth in the issues he mentions men face. Stats are not as clear currently cuz of social stigma cuz the man as a victim is shamed or dismissed. Our country is dealing with exploitation of rape laws against men with no solution in sight as feminists keep attacking amendments. For context, male rape is not legally recognised, domestic violence is not taken seriously, you can be convicted if the woman claims you duped her into getting married to the cop…
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 03:56 AM
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For some, yes. But that is likely due to their own personal issues. Those relationships do not end well most of the time. It is not always the case though. My best friend has a crush on me and knows we can't date as she is poly. She even told me she once thought of going monogamous for me but considered it unfair for me. I have been all that you describe with her but I would have been the same no matter what her interest in me is. We got along as people. We enjoy spending time with each other an…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/25 08:33 PM
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Not incel or RP (did formerly struggle with those thoughts) but I see it as a shortcut. I would rather learn how to attract a partner in my life than just pay money for it as a shortcut. Learn how to be patient if I have to wait it out. I also want to do this with someone I really like romantically without constantly having to remind myself to keep emotions in control, not being afraid of falling in love with the person if I do. Prostitution does not meet that kind of need. The same reason I as …
/r/ExRedPill06/04/25 01:53 PM
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I just meant like - so many guys wonder why they don’t get matches on the apps from women but that’s why. Women just aren’t on there as much. So many of the female profiles are bots. That's just another can if worms tbh. I quit when there were relatively more active users on the apps. It's pretty bad now. I know a couple of women who do use apps even now, one claiming her experience has been great (not sure if it's true for some reason).
/r/ExRedPill27/10/24 11:00 PM
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What I said was meant in general. This would of course be worse on the apps. P.S : I met my crush offline.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/24 10:22 PM
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I think the difficulty has more to do with mental health of people not being as good on average as before due to many reasons including the economy. Most of the complaints I have heard seem to link to this -ghosting, situationships, etc. I am in a complicated situation with someone with someone who is mutually into me on some degree but things have been really slow. A close female friend mentioned a lot of these actions can stem from fear after having been hurt in the past. It is definitely not …
/r/ExRedPill24/10/24 11:03 AM
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I've mentally resigned myself to the idea of dating older men because in my mind 26 year Olds don't like me or find me attractive. Doubt that is true. 25M here and my recent crushes were older than me, one of them being your age.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/24 10:30 PM
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I think they mean misandrists here.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/24 10:22 PM
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Abandoning someone physically compromised with potentially permanent repercussions and the responsibility of a life sounds like a really shitty thing to do.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/24 06:39 AM
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You’ll get there. In life, there will be lots of people who don’t see you that way or who are involved in relationships. Rejection blows, but it happens a lot in life. Yeah, I know. Just frustrating once in a while. And fwiw, I’m a woman who has often told guys im into them and I’ve had more rejections than you’d expect. I believe you. I myself have mentally rejected women who have shown interest in me due to compatibility reasons (one is poly, the other smokes, one lives too far). Also do your …
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 10:38 AM
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Still feels scary to talk about. Even if I do manage to get a date offline (have some optimism on it) and it actually leads to something (none of my dates ever have so far), this feels more difficult to do than asking someone out. That being said, a lot of things are still foreign to me since I have no experience.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 04:36 AM
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I am part of the Latin dance community in my area. I do meet women often there but only been getting rejections so far (4 and counting this year). These women are people I organically met and got to know. A little more confident asking them out but progress has been slow.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 04:33 AM
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Never made it that far in dating. Went one one second date and two first dates via tinder. Been working on getting a date offline but have no idea about this topic either.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 02:19 PM
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For me it feels like catch 22 since I struggle expressing interest in it. If I don't express it, no woman would know I am interested in it and I am never there. I know it would get better with time but I feel too scared to even make it to the first.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 11:56 AM
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I feel like we are (men) often gaslighted as wanting sex on day one but we actually don't want it. I think it can also sometimes go towards wanting sex in general. That's caused me a lot of guilt around wanting sex and fear of expressing that I want it in general (where it would be otherwise considered normal and ok to want it). I think this is going to be a very big source of anxiety if I do get physical with someone someday.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 11:20 AM
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Never had a woman be interested in me. You may have likely missed the signs. Women are not very vocal about it most of the time for many reasons such as being taken for granted. Never got matches on dating apps. Skewed gender ratio, predatory business practices, shitty moderation and probably some people with no manners/ social skills (ghosting, flaking, etc) or shallow people in general you won't want to date anyways. The apps make money keeping you there and deliberately keep you away from an …
/r/ExRedPill28/07/24 09:13 AM
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Nope. They remember their owners. My dog used to live with my grandmother before us and she still gets excited to see her.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/24 11:01 AM
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incelexit by all means. Really helpful folks there
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 06:53 PM
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My colleague came from a rural background and mentioned this once that his cousin who once visited and happened to see me said I could easily land one there cuz I'm way taller than average where he comes from and good looking with long hair (not common). Standards are lower but I don't think it's a good idea considering different lifestyles and values esp if you want to settle down.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 06:47 PM
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Probably higher considering the people who do not know the term and have been poisoned with a misogynistic mindset by society, friends, family, etc.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 10:02 PM
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But men and also raping monitor lizards in India I have never heard of this one. Where did you get this?
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 05:26 PM
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Same
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 05:22 PM
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I am guessing by looking at the influencers who promote RP indirectly they just tell men to "brush it off" and have not emotions. Personally, me knowing I had depression felt pissed off by this mindset which is probably why RP never fully poisoned my thoughts.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/23 06:20 PM
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She also posts a lot about military issues. And as a veteran myself, I got to see first hand that military men are way worse than any civilian spouse. As in?
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 06:30 PM
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I think it started as a call out to entitlement/abus of rights for personal gain (last when I saw it) which spun out of control.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 06:02 PM
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Ah man! That sucks!
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:17 PM
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Add Teachingmensfashion Occasionally promoted RP content for quite a while (esp hypergamy). Advertises his merch as a silver bullet for being more attractive. Started being vocally anti RP after Andrew Tate got arrested. This was my observation.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 06:47 AM
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Wasn't Roma Army pro male mental health? Been a long time since I heard that name.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 06:40 AM
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As someone who managed to tone it down a ton over a year, the first thing I would suggest reminding yourself is that this anger/hate is only going to harm your mind and your body, drain your energy and ruin your sleep. So do it for at least your own health and well being if not for women. Stop consuming RP, MGTOW or any other toxic media. It is like food for your mind. So feed it the right food. This will be a little hard to do but go out of your way to avoid the negative and seek the positive w…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 10:23 AM
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I guess it's just not feeling too comfortable with my own body Ever occured to you that it can be the same for your potential partner?
/r/ExRedPill05/06/23 05:01 AM
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I always had this question (height difference issues basically) living rent free in my head. I guess I was right lol.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 03:31 PM
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Not pilled but this crap is pretty common in tinder bios. Also, my colleague was talking about how a date started dissing on him and started talking about how he is not even 6' tall as if it is some kind of last resort (he is 5'9). So I think this is also present offline. I would still say some women do find men "too tall". My roomate jokingly suggested his friend to date me since I'm single and looking to date and she found me too tall for her (I'm 5'9, she was 5'0).
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 03:30 PM
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Well, what you describe can also be a sign of past trauma so I highly doubt anyone would be mean about it, especially if this is a serious relationship. Also, human bodies vary a lot so experience means nothing. This is where I guess people keep talking about communication. Ask each other about your likes and dislikes. It is more about getting used to each other. This is only going to be as bad as you let it be.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/23 04:10 PM
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Not a redpill fr starters but I wanted to weigh in. The first one is mens suicide rates. Well, when society pressures a men to live up to very narrow gender role that only a minority of males can live up to, of course the suicide rate will be high.Femenists have been saying this for a while. Yet these Red Pill men want to affirm these gender roles even more. This literally makes the problem worse. This I have seen in some ways. Some women on reddit and a friend of mine also talked about this. Wh…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/23 08:55 AM
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I was poisoned by a friend with what people may call RP thoughts and the reason I quit was because I was fed up of being tired due to the hate. It just started with going neutral in hopes I could at least get a good night's sleep. It was after calming down and witnessing another guy in March spout similar crap that I realized that I was becoming just like him if I kept on going and it shook me to my core for days.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/23 08:26 PM
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Not the people, the business model. Also the fact that people pay money for this.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 07:28 PM
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No cuz I find exploiting someone's lonliness and libido unethical?
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 06:08 PM
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As for the risks, that would be hookers. What about the onle models and camgirls? A lot even don't show their faces.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 06:09 AM
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You kinda proved my point. Not a fan of doing this but I will never be able to get that kind of success. Also that is the reason a woman is more likely to do fairly well on twitch vs a guy. I do not dwell on this much tho as it's just a pure waste of time. The anger though is something I struggle with.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 05:55 AM
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Not pilled or incel but I do get triggered by the fact I have to work hard, even overwork for a basic paycheck and a lot of these women are able to make way more money by just undressing. So I guess this is multifaceted? Edit: It is the fact I get mad about not the people involved in it considering how exploitation can take place in some cases. Watching people make way more money via a mere onlyfans while you overwork sucks.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/23 09:35 PM
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I hope you overcome this 🙂
/r/ExRedPill30/04/23 05:06 PM
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Worse, they treat it like some bomb disposal scene where one wrong move is the end. Still not overcome this properly tho.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 08:42 PM
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I think they care more than they ever could when they have daughters makes more sense.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 08:38 PM
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I never knew about the pills back then but I did have the symptoms and thoughts. First, having the hate does not really have any benifit. It just drains you of most of your energy ruins your sleep leaving you a mere shell of a person. Second, in most cases women will reject you because they do not know if you are into her or you want to kill her if she just met you. The danger is real. Even if she does knoe you and rejects you, it may be due to someting that is not your fault at all. Still recov…
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 08:37 PM
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I have not been in a relationship before but I do think having faith that they are out there makes you want to be your best self for when they do show up.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 09:05 PM
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That's one less question living rent free in my head 😂
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 02:30 PM
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That's one less question living rent free in my head 😂
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 02:29 PM
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I think you should make it clear that his well being matters to you as a friend. 8 years has to mean something to him as you 2 did get along. Secondly, tell him that the pills are basically making a slave out of him. Preying in his vulnerabilities for their own gain. Sounds like he has some ego which can be a good way to convince him.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 11:16 AM
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Dunno if this will help you but from what I have gathered, believeing what he has to say means you are walking on eggshells for receiving the love, attention, affection, etc which will be REALLY stressful in the long run. He has mixed facts with his own crap to tell you a very convincing story. Maybe take a break from the internet and go out and see couples in real life as a starting point. Some fresh air might do you good too. Take care.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 08:46 PM
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People keep saying that a relationship cannot cure depression, insecurity and low self esteem. I have a feeling that is what draws men to RP even when in a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 10:51 AM
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And why my insecurity makes me so unattractive? It can sabotage relationships hurting both you and your partner. Relationships do not cure insecurities. Read this again. If you have the feeling she will leave you for someone better, you close yourself off to your partner emotionally in the process making it a self fulfilling prophecy. It is also what can be early signs of abusers (not saying you are one just similar signs) or control freaks and this is where the personal safety over dating minds…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 01:16 PM
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Depends on what porn you watch. There is porn that focuses on the emotional aspect of it, eye contact and all and I could not go back to the regular crap after that.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 05:40 AM
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Also the reason I'm calling quits on the apps. What I hate is how the mods there allow so much crap from women while putting sanctions on men (Bumble took a stance on body shaming while women openly flaunt 6' and above only in their bios). I can see why this is happening as that's how they make money but it's a very scummy move. They are not chasing women, and they aren't MGTOW either, they are living good lives and they aren't on reddit complaining about shit. Well, there are tired people like …
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 05:50 PM
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Once I distanced myself from the people who say these sorts of things, I felt much better about my chances. This move is highly underrated. My own mental health improved because of this.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 06:07 AM
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Even the small percentage of women is split into bots, escorts, social media promoters, toxic women, women there for an ego boost, women treating it like omeagle, women with absurd standards and then genuine women who wanna date just like you. So that shrinks the odds even further. Not a diss against women but this is what I saw. The apps further make sure you don't match with genuine women so that you stay on the app. What makes it worse is how both sides behave behind a screen (like anywhere o…
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 06:04 AM
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The human mind retains negative emotions more effectively than the positive ones. Youtube and every other social media abuses this.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/23 07:00 PM
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Watching stuff like this is clearly not going to make you feel that good. It's like eating burgers hoping to get ripped.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 06:52 AM
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What sucks is the reactions make it worse in the first place. Kinda like a vicious cycle. Goota be something that can be done. What did you do to scare people off?
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 05:19 AM
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Did say so what and got lost from there.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 04:57 AM
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Trying to find things to keep my morale up to not give up. Thats the hardest.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 08:42 PM
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Guess that makes it 50/50 and damn subjective too. But good to know.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 08:37 PM
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Is social anxiety and depression a red flag in such cases? I totally get hygiene but the other two are not really in ones control right? I'm only asking as I am struggling with why a woman be be in love with me, date me, etc.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 07:51 PM
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Wait really? First time hearing this.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 07:26 PM
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5'9 same race put on a little weight but second the onlien dating scene. 6'0 is a weird obsession which makes no sense. Plus a friend of mine went on a date witha woman who dissed him for not being 6'0. I dont know what statistics are IRL but it is very rampant online.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 07:24 PM
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To this day i know far too many men that don’t like women pursuing them, because they think she comes across as desperate. Beats me. My flatmate's girlfriend asked him out. Nice person although my flatmate used to be lazy very often.But hey, worked out well for them. I think it depends on how they pursue (same as guys) right?
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 07:21 PM
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I lose fat, I build muscle, improve my physique - dos it matter? You save yourself from heart problems and extra medical bills. Of course it does. even if my physique were to be the best it can, I would not have a faction of the sexual value an average woman has Do it for yourself not for a woman man. Preferences are diverse. Dad bods trend started for a reason.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 10:11 AM
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Stop being vague. Be specific
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 09:43 AM
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it's not, male models are a thing they all have the same traits How often do you go out? Not every human is a model, yet they find partners.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 09:30 AM
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What have you tried to make your life better? I have not seen anything from your side but excuses.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 09:26 AM
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all women on tinder are matching with the same few % of profiles The app is rigged. How many times should I tell you that? This situation has been created by the app. It will put you in the bottom of the stack on purpose so you pay them. They also allow bots to exist for that very reason.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 09:25 AM
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oh wait, no women seem to have a problem dating as literally all of them have multitude of options, often better than them You only see one part of this. These relationships never last. The only attention they get is from desperate guys. you are idiotic, men don't face assault and murder? Not the point. MEN ARE MORE LIKELY TO BE ASSAULTED AND MURDERED Get your facts checked. I have had to supervise my cousins and my own sister repeatedly because of the female murders and assaults rising. I want …
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 09:23 AM
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OLD quickly tells you how much value you have to women - in concrete numbers That is a business and a business needs steady customers. It preys on low self esteem and desperation for sex, intimacy, etc. It can ruin self esteem of even the "high value guys" you seem to talk about. It will never help you find a partner as that means you ditch the app, not pay for premium. all women (and men too) care about your height and face Short women exist too you know and not all of them want a 6' dude. Face…
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 09:08 AM
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I don't have faith because I am a male, I will never be happy Steve Jobs was fired frow the very compay he created. He could have ended himself. But he instead chose to fight back, was brought back to the company and fired everyone who kicked him out. Guy had nothing when he started.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 09:00 AM
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Stop your cope BS. All I am seeing are excuses. Nobody wants someone nihlistic to date. Man or woman. all of which they can work on, and none of which are such a brutal dealbreakers as the ones I mentioned for the men Self esteem has nothing to do with dealbreakers. You can be in a relationship and still have self esteem issues. I have seen how it ended for a lot of people. It's ugly. I can never have the things I want, the nice things all women have It's not all good you know. They do have thei…
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 08:57 AM
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and is that not a privilege? to have people be nice to you because you are pretty? You will not be able to be able to trust anybody. It's like dating women while being rich hoping that woman is into you and not your wallet. A lot of pretty women have talked about it. Men are intimidated by her or catcall her, women are mean to her out of jealousy or fear her stealing their man. Do they get free stuff? Sure but reality does crash once the looks fade away with age, bad health choices, etc.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 07:48 PM
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Please read something healthy instead of the pill and incel forums. I hate that I can never be weak or have problems, and the second I do, I am worthless Do not entertain the idiots who make you feel this way. I hate that there are so many genetic blows I as a male have to deal with like baldness, height, dick size, the size of my skeleton, the list goes on Grass always looks greener on the other side. Women have those insecurities too about their weight, figure, bust and butt size, etc. You loo…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 07:44 PM
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