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Lifestylevbcbandr/r/seduction19/09/20 11:39 AM
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vbcbandr/r/seduction13/05/14 07:45 PM
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If you're using the term "beta", that's a problem you need to address. I work with kids and that's 4th graders favorite term these days.
/r/seduction01/01/25 12:00 AM
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Good luck. First tip: use punctuation and proper grammar. Real, adult women (who are milfs and those who aren't) won't likely give you the time of day if your texts read like a juvenile wrote them.
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:56 AM
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"No thanks, but you can buy one for me"...with a kinda cocky, playful tone. If they're bitches about you joking around, send them packing politely.
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:12 PM
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I'm 5'5"...take advantage of those couple extra inches! Haha.
/r/seduction29/08/21 02:24 AM
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Wait, you sent an unsolicited dick pic? Dude. NEVER EVER do that. Compliment her pics, that's all you do unless she specifically asks for a pic of your junk, which is unlikely.
/r/seduction26/08/21 05:14 AM
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Media has programmed us to be persistent: movies (many of which cater to women like Rom Coms) tell men that if you are persistent she will appreciate you working for her and she'll come around. Not the sole reason, of course, but one of the reasons.
/r/seduction22/08/21 10:14 PM
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I don't think you can use Europe as a singular locale: women in Spain are vastly different than women in Finland who are far different than women in Greece.
/r/seduction17/08/21 02:10 AM
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Subscribed. Great videos, my man.
/r/seduction09/08/21 10:04 PM
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I'm sure that can be challenging also.
/r/seduction03/08/21 06:14 PM
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Height matters...from a 5'4" guy. Any women who says it doesn't is lying. I especially like the women who say, "I won't date a guy who is under 6 feet", but is 100lbs overweight herself.
/r/seduction03/08/21 05:48 PM
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My 2 cents: I am a short guy, 5'6". I did an experiment (mind you this was a few years ago) on Tinder and Bumble. Same city, same pics, same exact profile but I did each profile at different times, about 2 months apart. I didn't want people to see the exact same profile on the same day for example. One profile had no height, one had my height and one said 6'1". The taller height got more matches by a large margin. You can read into this as you'd like or scroll right past but those were the resul…
/r/seduction02/08/21 08:58 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction25/07/21 04:33 PM
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Not the first one at all...unless you're maybe hitting up a Foo Fighters or Green Day concert.
/r/seduction25/07/21 04:33 PM
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Go to dance classes...seriously: tons of women there and being a good dancer helps immensely in this situation.
/r/seduction25/07/21 04:26 PM
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Being good and helpful with no expectation of anything in return makes you feel good, I guarantee it.
/r/seduction17/07/21 07:40 PM
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Margot Robbie will never be out of my reach. You have no idea how high I can fly.
/r/seduction05/06/21 04:11 AM
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Exactly: don't be rude.
/r/seduction18/05/21 07:37 AM
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If you're only interested in dating her, then it is completely fair to make that known...just be sure not to be rude or come off as upset. Just play it cool, be respectful and move on.
/r/seduction18/05/21 05:00 AM
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Learn to dance. Take a few dancing classes...good chance you'll meet attractive women there.
/r/seduction17/05/21 05:27 AM
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The weak attempt at making you jealous is from an insecure woman or is maybe a cultural thing. Girl seems lame.
/r/seduction11/05/21 03:17 AM
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Honest question: what is omegle?
/r/seduction09/05/21 11:53 PM
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Work on yourself...make small steps, they will lead to bigger things. I know that sounds like a shitty, cop out answer but it's the best way to live your life and ultimately meet girls. Obviously I have no idea what your mental illness is but, if possible, I would find a job. Even if it's not glamorous, a local coffee shop or whatever, it gets you out of the house, gets you meeting people and makes you money. All of these things help with girls at the end of the day...but more importantly they w…
/r/seduction25/04/21 08:20 AM
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Look for La Nuit de L'Homme Le Parfum by Yves Saint Lauren...great second option, especially at night.
/r/seduction10/04/21 02:16 AM
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That's a pretty popular fragrance. If you like it try all three (EdT, EdP and Parfum) to see which you like best.
/r/seduction09/04/21 10:18 PM
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Those are some good ones. Look for things that are appealing that aren't best sellers. No one needs 1 Million right now.
/r/seduction08/04/21 01:40 AM
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As a cologne collector: always go easy on the trigger (unless you're going to a sweaty club in Spain). Find something unique. There is so much more than what is at Macy's.
/r/seduction07/04/21 06:30 AM
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Please don't wear any cologne at the gym. Afterwards (and after you shower is fine). Bombarding people with Le Male at the gym sucks.
/r/seduction07/04/21 06:28 AM
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No, the analogy is that women desire something they have to work for or can't get. Men are the same. People want what they can't have. If a women knows she can have you, you aren't desirable for a variety of reasons...yes, some of them aren't logical either.
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:21 AM
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This may be for r/askwomen or r/askredditafterdark
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:00 AM
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As much as Mystery and his crew were annoying, they did have a lot of good verbiage: "Cat string theory": when you are dangling the string in front of a cat, making it tough to get...the cat wants to play and grab it. When you give the cat the string, it walks away. Use a little push/pull with her.
/r/seduction26/03/21 03:53 AM
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What are the details?
/r/seduction26/03/21 02:38 AM
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Wtf? Where are you living man? How old are you?
/r/seduction25/03/21 10:19 PM
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Wait, is this due to COVID or you can never have a woman over?
/r/seduction25/03/21 08:22 PM
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Feel free to ask any questions.
/r/seduction24/03/21 07:46 PM
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Certainly not all is lost...my advice would be to, as a college kid, join clubs/sports/off campus activities. If you're into fitness do yoga...the number of hot girls at yoga is very high. I love yoga and have done it since I was about 25. I wish I could go back to my college years and really learn yoga and earn a certification. Not because of girls, but because I love the exercise (I'm partial to strength building yoga). Girls would be a bonus. Once COVID is over: Join a sand volleyball team, k…
/r/seduction22/03/21 04:35 AM
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To add to what others have said, OP, if you have a lot of money, you are a step ahead.
/r/seduction21/03/21 04:55 AM
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My friend doesn't haven't social media but he works for the government doing things he can't discuss. I bet he bangs hot spies in Russia though, so...
/r/seduction14/03/21 06:30 AM
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Aventus. (Costs a shit ton but the ladies love it. ) Curve For Men YSL La Nuit. AdP Colonia Leather. (I have 100s of fragrances, PM if you want.)
/r/seduction09/03/21 05:17 AM
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Feels like a bag of sand.
/r/seduction07/03/21 09:37 AM
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Relationships that last, aren't always easy. They take work and sometimes it's hard.
/r/seduction07/03/21 09:30 AM
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"Will not work in South Florida" should be noted by all. Haha.
/r/seduction18/02/21 12:53 AM
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It's definitely just an ego booster for some girls: bored on a Saturday night, sad and lonely, hit up the dating app and have 10 guys talking to you in a few minutes.
/r/seduction12/02/21 03:18 AM
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Next time just say you're busy doing something else and say, "hey, I gotta go...talk to you later."
/r/seduction25/01/21 04:24 AM
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"I wish there was a way to know you're in "the good old days", before you've actually left them." -Andy Bernard
/r/seduction11/10/20 03:36 AM
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I am quite familiar with where you are physically (Boulder) and emotionally/spiritually/confidence etc. I had a really hard time in college due to anxiety. To be honest, it really affected my experience. I got so nervous about what other people would think that I spent a lot of time alone so as not to have to worry about it at all. Looking back it was pretty painful and lonely. I am a pretty social, friendly and a funny guy once I let my guard down. The problem was getting to that point with new…
/r/seduction20/11/19 07:55 AM
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Probably lots of private forums. I used to know a guy who went all in on PUA stuff...took bootcamps in LA and Europe. Moved to Vegas and Austin, TX. I think he's still kinda out there doing his thing but I'm not really sure. I know he wrote a massive book on his years long adventure but I don't even know where to find it or if it was even for sale. May have circulated in private circles.
/r/seduction30/09/19 09:20 AM
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For me: Neil's book opened my eyes on living a life that was more full, having a few things in my back pocket and that sometimes it's best to just go in like it's a video game...who cares if some random girl brushes you off. Don't let it affect you. And yeah, he was in a very specific environment. LA in 2001 is not like Seattle or Dallas in 2019.
/r/seduction30/09/19 09:16 AM
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