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Lifestylevcarpe/r/seduction29/04/20 02:14 AM
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Try sending some random pictures of things that happened, or some show you are watching, etc Something random
/r/seduction23/07/20 12:52 AM
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I think most of it depends on the culture and what they perceive as attract or how they see another race for example Asian people seem to have an admiratiom for white people. But not all Asian people seem to have an admiration for black people Japan girls seem to like black people but Thai girls usually do not like them so much from my experience. I can totally understand why Latina girls are not so much into Indian men as I come from Portugal and here for some reason I have never seen a girl wi…
/r/seduction22/07/20 10:45 PM
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Here is a Personal story. I have never been afraid of sounding awkward. However I used to be scared of her finding out that I was shy. I wanted her to think that I was an alpha and very confident. One day on a date a girl call me out telling me that I was shy. I felt like she can't my secret and that it was all over. As a result I turned red which she she told me. It was a nightmare I felt like I was just going down and feeling dizzy. To my surprise she wanted a second date. And later we had sex…
/r/seduction22/07/20 10:35 PM
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The more experience you have the less you will experience this. If you have butterflies in your stomach just look at it as excitement/adrenaline and think to yourself, this is going to be exciting! It will be an adventure. And you will gain energy. Also, you are afraid of awkwardness, but it will 95% happen. So just accept it as part of it. Awkwardness is FINE. All my dates have some awkwardness, and I still can get laid from many of them. Just accept it, and don't fight it. If it comes, just fe…
/r/seduction22/07/20 10:20 PM
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It makes you stronger to a degree. But if you are getting rejected all the time it can hurt your confidence temporarily. In these moments take a deep breath and look at the big picture. You could be a bad day, a bad phase (sometimes you could be in an insecure phase for a couple of weeks/months). But have plans and ideas for the longterm to improve yourself. And be in peace with yourself as long as you are following the plans and taking the action. You may ne rewarded later.
/r/seduction22/07/20 10:09 PM
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Maybe she had a bf, and was regreting, who knows. There are many possibilities.
/r/seduction22/07/20 10:07 PM
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You cannot completely destroy it. You may be able to destroy for some hours, but it will come back. But you can become better at handling it and accept the fear. Here are some ways that may work: -repetition. The more you do the easier it will become. Maybe you will still have the fear, but you will become better at dealing with it. And you will prove to yourself that approaching is not dangerous, since you will see from repetition that nothing bad happened. And even when you were rejected, you …
/r/seduction22/07/20 10:02 PM
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Ok, I do not have experience. But most of the girls do not know you are a millionaire. Like you said, if you are not flashing, it won't probably make a big difference. I would assume that it helps, specially if you want to start a relationship. It will give extra points to you, amIRight? Also, girls like men with a big purspose, if you have that money, you probably have a high purpose/work hard. So that can also help, no?
/r/seduction22/07/20 11:38 AM
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It is shallow, just look around. But I wouldn't say it is completely binary. My friend, not be mean, but he is not particularly good-looking, looks a bit weak, average height. Got a pretty cute gf, I would say 7/8. How? They study in the same course, and maybe she likes his personality and style. But of course it is superficial.
/r/seduction22/07/20 11:23 AM
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Yes, but pick up skills not = social skills. He is in a relationship, of course he should work on his social skills. But I do not think it would be a good use of the time to work on pick up in this Phase.
/r/seduction22/07/20 11:12 AM
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No. But it would help trmendously
/r/seduction22/07/20 10:57 AM
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In my opinion its better to be confident/attractive than have good pick up skills. You gotta prioritize your real value and not the superficial value. Of course, if he ends the relationship then he can work on pick up skill. But I wouldn't even worry about it now.
/r/seduction22/07/20 10:55 AM
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Additionally, be with a smaller group. And if it doesn't have guys even better. I very rarely approach a girl in a huge grouo, unless she made some eye contact or showed me signals. And if the grouo has a dude, I am much more likely not to approach. The dude could be a bf or a jealous friend
/r/seduction22/07/20 03:21 AM
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Ahah yea If you are that worried on being approached. Or just leave the group for a moment. If you are alone much more likelihood. Also, give sometime for the dude to gain some courage to approach
/r/seduction22/07/20 03:15 AM
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It will depend on where you live. If you came to Portugal, I am pretty sure you would be approached. Also, during the day I assume it is rare. During the night, if your friends are more good-looking then it can make it harder.
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:37 AM
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Why do you need to bring the topic of sex? If the date is going well, there is no need for it. No need to force it when it isn't needed, or doesn't sound natural at the moment. You could just kiss, and thete wouldn't be the need of that type of conv. Nevertheless, you could do some sexual jokes, if you think of something funny, that it isn't too outside your character
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:28 AM
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Basic girls are basic because they are not interested enough on you (me, or whoever they are talking to). If they were interested they would definitely make an effort. You are wasting your time with 95-99% of these girls. They like the approval, but do low effort because they are not interested enough on you. Even if you can turn it around, is it even worth it? Why not a girl that you can have a nice conversation? Self-respect is important. For me, I am disrespecting myself when I waste my energ…
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:24 AM
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It is not that much of a skill in my opinion. Develop yourself, become an interesting person. That is much more important than knowing some techniques
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:19 AM
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There is a point where no matter how good your game is, it will be very hard to compete. At that level, you havr MUCH MUCH more competition. That's the truth. Girls at this level will hardly fall for a random guy on the street, unless you are very good looking/really her type. Being above average isn't enough. And even if you were very good looking, it would probably be hard, or impossoble for some girls. Some girls would not be into this stuff. You are competing with rich dudes, very good looki…
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:16 AM
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Not insecure. Just do not feel so special about her anymore. I decided to focus only on her in these 4 months.
/r/seduction17/06/20 10:34 AM
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It's not insecure. Just doesn't feel right. Makes me unattracted to her
/r/seduction17/06/20 10:31 AM
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While we were dating we told eachother that we would not see anybody else.
/r/seduction17/06/20 10:29 AM
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Yea, I just started yesterday. She told me this after I said I wanted to start a real relationship.
/r/seduction17/06/20 10:27 AM
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But she told that she would now stop it. And tell them no. You still think the same?
/r/seduction17/06/20 10:23 AM
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Sim, é isso. Ele não perdeu o interesse. Simplesmente, deve ter alguém agora. Mas não quer perder-te caso a coisa dê para o torto, e por isso tenta manter-te. Tenta dar esperança para tu não parares e continuares a ser uma possibilidade. E pode também ser o caso de gostar da atenção e da aprovação (não sei). Sinceramente, quanto mais depressa mudares a página melhor. Essas promessas e saudades que ele tem de ti, não passarão de promessas se ele não agir. Não caias nas falas mansas. Claro não fiq…
/r/seduction26/05/20 02:07 AM
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Quando eu digo fotos estou a falar coisas aleatórias tipo uma foto ou vídeo do teu cão ou qq coisa engraçada. Mas pelos vistos a situação é diferente. Envias-lhe convites e ele ignora. Isso normalmente é mau sinal (sendo muito franco). Não quero ser insensível, mas aqui vai a minha opinião honesta. E posso bem estar enganado, porque não estou muito dentro da situação. Digo-te, se estou interessado numa rapariga, nunca tento arranjar desculpa. Se não posso, arranjo maneira que aconteça noutro dia…
/r/seduction26/05/20 01:25 AM
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I am from Portugal, forget about him and switch to a real man (me) 😏 Jk "I forgot how to flirt" soa a Bullshit. Uma pessoa não se esquece. Faz parte da nossa essência. Se conseguiste uma vez consegues repetir. Mas é necessário que ele esteja interessado. Vai tendo conversas simples, responde aos stories, etc. Ah e uma coisa que funcionou comigo, é começares a enviar-lhe fotos. Sejam selfies, seja do teu cão, seja da comida. Não interessa. O importante é que ele comece a fazer igual. Começa tb a …
/r/seduction26/05/20 12:38 AM
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I am a man. It sucked. I was in a rush to lose my virginity. Had sex with a random girl. Wasn't even that attracted. I expected something amazing. It wasn't. I couldn't feel much and came quickly. I do not regret that experience. It teached me a lot. I just regret repeating it with other random girls. I only had good sex when it was with a girl I was more comfortable with. So what I did wrong was going to people I did not have a good enough connection. I get more nervous, she is drier. But the w…
/r/seduction25/05/20 11:59 PM
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Dont do it. It isn't worth the risk. And you only start being afraid when it starts happening to you or your friends. Before that it does not seem like reality. Look, I had sex with around 5 girls without using a condom. And most of them I only did it once or very rarely. Guess what? I caught genital warts! Yuk. Lucky me it was the best std, i removed it with some basic surgery, so no problem. But the paniv when i saw those weird things on my pp! Not worth it. It could have been worse. Oh, and I…
/r/seduction25/05/20 11:47 PM
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Tell him "Look, you were very nice. Except for the aggressive sexual advances. If it wasnt for that I would probably have gone on a 2nd date. Do not take this in a bad way, I just want you to learn from your mistakes. And I am sure you won't have a problem. But I am just not interest anymore, I am sorry" I would not get hurt with such a message. I would even be happy to learn. I even wish I could get feedback about my mistakes, which never happen. This would be a good rejection because you are n…
/r/seduction25/05/20 11:34 PM
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I dont think if helps when you enter competition mode. You probably will become more stiff and have less fun. Just act normally and have fun.
/r/seduction25/05/20 11:24 PM
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Find some guy that seems to be drama free and opened about sex. Avoid drama. Show him that you are opened and drama free. Have compatibility. Message him here and there (1/2/3 times a week). Make it clear that you do not want anything serious. Honestly I do not think that it is hard at all. Most of the guys have the fwb mentality. And do not forget the FRIENDS part. Do not just have sex. Try to do something fun. Oh, and very important. Try not to talk about other guys. Even if it isn't serious, …
/r/seduction25/05/20 11:21 PM
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I don't think that words will be enough to prevent to convey a creepy vibe. So I do not think there is a bullet-proof line. It is more about your vibe/appearance/status
/r/seduction25/05/20 11:11 PM
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Ok, seriously. When she laughs at everything you say, even if it isn't that funny. If she initiates the conversations Responds to your insta stories. If she tries to keep the conversation going, and doesn't give dry answer that will force you to come up with something new. She complies to what you want to do (you want to go to some bar, she goes with you. You ask if she wants to go for a drink, she goes) Is comfortable giving you proximity
/r/seduction25/05/20 11:08 PM
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It's in my opinion. Move on. She was never that interested in you, if she always had excuses. Even if they were valid, if she was really interested she would find a way. Unless you could convey that you dramatically changed on your social media, nothing will make you look better to her. She was a bitch to you. Move on. You probably responded rightly (I dont know). Regardless, she is not interested anymore. If she was, she would find a way and appologized. Unless what you did was extremely bad, w…
/r/seduction25/05/20 11:03 PM
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She sucks your pp
/r/seduction25/05/20 10:57 PM
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Don't be like me. Protecc your pp
/r/seduction29/04/20 02:49 AM
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