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Or you could just be a low-libido guy and be well-matched, or you open up your marriage if you’re high-libido, you can always masturbate with or without or wife, or if you’re kinky you can participate in solo sex or non-sexual fetish play. There are options if you can only think outside of the box to be sexually satisfied even when your wife is having challenges with her sex life or differences in lifestyle goals. This “blue pill to red pill” family man scenario applies only to guys who are comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 01:09 PM
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Weird. I feel like I, as a man, am also attracted to women either my age or slightly younger. Dating a 19-year old when I was 28 was strange as fuck. I can’t be alone. It would make more sense to me if the average was around 24 or 26. The pedophile vote must be throwing this shit off
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 07:57 AM
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Cute innocent boyfriend shout out here! It does work sometimes! My gf and I are both bisexual though, so we make no claim on being normies. She makes more money than me, likes to dress butch, is about the same height, and is usually dominant in bed. I couldn’t be happier, i almost have enough for the ring!! Yeah, you straight vanilla people actually seem like the weird ones to us just sayin. Little toy girls tend to creep me out just a bit, they just seem so easy to break and they tend to be so …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:28 PM
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Meh, “peak years” lol. Maybe physically. But your mileage may vary with life experience. Not everyone is at the same level of mental or emotional development as their physical age would suggest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:19 PM
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Maybe you are telling the truth but it’s suspicious. If you are a 22-year old college girl dating someone 10 years older, then you’ve done the troll’s job already... making it seem like young women just care about money at status. I get your point tho, that there’s nothing wrong with dating someone who has money and status, it’s actually kinda fricken nice. My fiancé is my same age but she’s a surgeon from a wealthy family, while I’ve earned close to the poverty line since getting out of college…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:16 PM
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Dammit, I’ve got to try harder. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 12:56 AM
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What the hell does that even mean??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 11:56 PM
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How would this point even be debated? How do you prove that feminism is or isn’t used as a dog whistle? How do you even get accurate polls or experimental observations for evidence here?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:16 PM
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I’m close to asking my doctor girlfriend to marry me, an Uber driver/novelist with 20k in debt. She has stocks, savings, vehicles, a house, two dogs, a cat, a turtle, as a gun nut she has a small arsenal of firearms locked away, and lots of friends. We’re both bisexual, atheist, and into left wing politics and weird offbeat sexual kinks.... I work out at best twice a week and have been absolutely honest with her from the start about all my failures. I’m nice, handsome, and smart but far from ric…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 07:01 AM
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My argument is that all humans tend to feel good with security and stability around, we tend to learn it as children. Men tend to be born with larger bodies, and less hormones that cause mood change, so we tend to create feelings of safety and dependability in others, especially women and children. When we want it for ourselves, we tend to depend on ourselves and create it, or we get it from our friends, rather than SOs and family. Tribal instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 05:18 PM
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I haven’t found a reliable survey, but most active BDSM practitioners (going to meet ups and legal dungeons) will report a near 50-50 split between men and women. Of course, male subs do complain more often that there are fewer female dommes, and anecdotally this seems to be true, but IMO I think it’s closer to a 2:1 ratio than 50:1. What we should recognize is that most dominant women probably don’t have any trouble exercising their sexuality with vanilla men, so they identify less with the com…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 05:47 AM
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Meh, it’s just in general. Red pillers are always saying cucks as if it’s something bad... well I’m proud to be one! I’m much happier after accepting who I am and glad I didn’t buy into their bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:56 AM
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Well in that case, I have no reason to argue against anything you believe. Thanks for being civil, no offense taken after all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:53 AM
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I understand bro. I really do. Of course every sub needs a dom to really flourish in life, to be without them is like for a plant to go without the sun. Yet you have to try to self-care until you find that person (or, as I like to call it, self-master)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:24 AM
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No, I made her a yummy dinner so I get some free time. I’m sure she’d agree with me, in fact, she’d probably be a lot meaner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:22 AM
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It is more challenging to find and build LTR with a lady domme than a vanilla girlfriend just because of statistics, sure. But I’d wager it’s far more rewarding. Come on tho, a masochist should be able turn any misery into joy, it’s our secret power! Even loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:17 AM
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Not all MensLibbers are cucks or otherwise submissive, that’s an absurd stereotype. Whatever the percentage is it is less than a majority. Maybe a quarter are subby?? Anyway, I take offense that being a submissive dude is being “cockless”. My mistress uses my cock a lot, thank you very much! She uses it so much it hurts. It’s getting way more action than when I was trying to be alpha, thank you very much
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:12 AM
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Those are transpeople. Male feminists enjoy their cocks, they’re just a little more cautious with them. They’re like our best friend who nevertheless makes bad decisions and often tries to rope us into dark comedic situations. You know, a more reality-based worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:01 AM
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I thought I was asexual for years. Instead, I was just a victim of religious and parental sexual oppression, and a low-libido male. My sexuality came roaring into my life in my mid-twenties. Not sure how many self-identified “asexuals” later discover the pleasure and emotional connection that comes with sexuality, but anecdotally I certainly was one of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:58 AM
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Yeah, seriously, everyone else in that thread was telling him to get psychiatric help and get his life in order. Damn feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:54 AM
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Thank you! Exactly this. Started with the Greek philosophers thousands of years ago, some which were women, and grew from there, especially after the creation of Christian Europe. So glad the Persians didn't strangle it in its cradle, for all of it's flaws it brought us the Enlightenment and the technological revolution. /androidanswer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:21 PM
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Some do, sure, maybe most do? But there’s still a lot of availability. And for the non-jealous types, you can always become part of a harem and share a mistress. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 11:10 PM
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Actually it’s easier than you’d think, when you consider how many betas are waiting around for someone else to fix all their problems, that don’t take the initiative to improve themselves, or present themselves well, and how many women have at least some interest in dominating a man. I’d say feminism primes many Western women quite well in awakening inner desires to “flip the script” and “wear the pants”; their numbers are only growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 10:30 PM
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I like the direction this post has taken. I’ve long wanted to write about mating strategy for submissive men looking for non-abusive dominant women. A lot of red pill ideas work in this case actually, but most miss the mark since dommy ladies (especially the ethical ones) are such a different animal from vanillas, and are regarded to practically not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 10:11 PM
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I’ve been accused of being sexist by opening doors for women. Then I started opening doors for my bros too!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 04:17 PM
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:/ I like your octopus cross stitch
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 02:41 PM
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Well, since the third wave it’s about everyone. It’s a great thing, I think, that everyone in society can benefit from the feminist vision. It’s a movement about freeing the human soul from the roles imposed on us by our culture :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 02:14 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 01:44 PM
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I highly recommend the books Feminist Theory: From Margin to Center and Feminism Is For Everybody by bell hooks. Feminism should be called gender egalitarianism but the name connects us modern people to the historical movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 06:00 AM
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My understanding of feminism after studying it in college and being a feminist activist for several years was that it was all about establishing freedom and equality between the sexes. You know, tearing down gendered norms and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 11:15 PM
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Well damn, so many subreddits have such stringent rules. Any suggestions on where to vent?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 11:13 PM
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It is awkward to some women. One hookup I had couldn’t believe that I didn’t want to cum and took it personally. My gf and I obviously want to orgasm and we try our hardest, we succeed half of the time and I feel we’re getting better. Need more practice at this point. But it’s not awkward, we learn to appreciate sex in all its forms, no matter how it ends or how long it lasts. I would say the amount of times you “have sex” in a day is equal to the sexual sessions or episodes, ie each time you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 09:50 PM
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28 dude here in a new LTR with a low-n woman with higher libido than me, can confirm much better than having casual sex. I spend less money, less time, and I find myself having sex with her when I come over even when we deliberately plan to do something else, in other words, now I’m having sex 15-20/month instead of 1-7/month (and orgasming much less than that since I often get ED with hookups, trouble suppress anxiety). For me, LTR seems like the only way to sexual liberation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 09:45 PM
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Why would you use the word "rebel"? Rebel against what? I think you must admit at this point that you believe that gender norms exist, and that some of them can be bad. Yes, men can be more secure and wear a dress, but it's the other men around them that shame and humiliate them that makes it very hard to be secure. Hell, I've been in a dress in a bad part of town with some friends and while I was confident enough to go out, I'll tell ya I was practically shitting bricks walking down the street …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 11:58 PM
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