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Good FR. Can you remember any more of what you said, or compliance tests?
/r/seduction02/10/12 06:45 AM
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Great. Thank you for the takeaways! The photo thing is gold, I'll try and do that.
/r/seduction14/07/12 03:32 AM
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Good to see another Aussie here! Thanks for the AMA, it's been helpful. Question: which local stores are good? Which would you recommend? I like to try stuff on and online shipping is expensive.
/r/seduction26/06/12 07:02 AM
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Thanks so much!
/r/seduction01/04/12 11:24 PM
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Nicely played. Sounds like you're living the good life right now. Thanks for the FR, I wanted to know what came of HBBB! I've never used OKCupid, but it sounds like it pays off. Would you recommend it?
/r/seduction25/02/12 01:58 PM
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Wow, I really loved reading a FR from both perspectives. You guys should definitely do this more often. Thanks!
/r/seduction25/02/12 01:54 PM
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Excellent. Be the party, assume attraction. Solid advice we should all remember.
/r/seduction08/02/12 01:46 PM
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Well, I got my swab and blood test back today - I'm clean. Looks like it was nothing. Thanks for all the comments, folks - I was really freaking out but I've learned a load from this, and hopefully other people have too.
/r/seduction12/01/12 10:26 AM
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This was easily the most useful thing in the whole topic, thank you.
/r/seduction12/01/12 10:25 AM
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Good job getting that number. Even if it goes nowhere at least you're going to have a cool new friend at a coffee shop.
/r/seduction19/12/11 04:37 AM
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Great job noticing her signals and reacting appropriately. Shame about her "boyfriend" - not experienced enough to offer any advice on that. But nice FR.
/r/seduction10/12/11 03:43 PM
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Excellent outcome independence. Amazing move, the "do you want to have casual sex with me" question was fucking amazing. What was going through your mind when you asked that? Did you think it'd work? Did you care?
/r/seduction10/12/11 03:39 PM
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Realise that you're in the minority, and adapt appropriately. It will be scary. It should be. But nothing can go wrong, don't worry. You need to learn this. Remember that and let it motivate you.
/r/seduction10/12/11 03:09 PM
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You never know who you'll meet. So two pieces of advice: always dress well, and always make sure your bedroom's tidy.
/r/seduction10/12/11 03:11 AM
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Very few people are going to be uncomfortable. Touch is a sense just like sight or hearing. Do you think people want to avoid seeing or hearing you? No. They usually don't want to avoid touching you either. I have literally never seen anyone be uncomfortable over casual touching, and while I'm sure there are anecdotes about that, it's statistically unlikely. Don't be a bitch. Give yourself a goal, like touch people at least once in every conversation you have with them. It's important to get ove…
/r/seduction10/12/11 01:35 AM
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Good. Very good. You're getting over approach anxiety and learning how to game. Yeah, you panicked and missed your chance. Not a big deal. Hopefully you've learned and won't do it again. I'd like to see more FRs like this. This story still had a lesson to be learned. FRs don't need to have 5 number-closes and a SNL to be valuable.
/r/seduction08/12/11 02:43 PM
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Field report. Basically a write-up of your night out, with analysis, so you can think about what you did and we can all learn from it.
/r/seduction08/12/11 02:40 PM
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Shame about your friends. Hope they don't bring you down in the future. Anyway sounds like a great night... that's where I'd like to be soon. Able to just open and close in clubs like that. Nice job, man.
/r/seduction08/12/11 02:30 PM
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Upvoted for science, testing and learning. Shame about the European chick. Oh well. Abundance and all that.
/r/seduction08/12/11 02:24 PM
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I was kinda intimidated by your text wall but wow, this was worth the read. Very inspiring FR... I was genuinely anxious to get to the end to find out what happened with you and HB Asian. Good to see you didn't let your blow-out affect you. Reading more good FRs like this makes me more comfortable with the idea of sarging clubs. Thanks!
/r/seduction08/12/11 02:15 PM
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I'm seeing a kinda shy girl at the moment. I've found her IOIs tend to be more subtle, but it's an interesting chance for me to be more active/aggresive. If she's not going to be active in moving things forward, you have to be. She's more passive and will probably go along with you taking the lead more.
/r/seduction08/12/11 12:40 AM
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Just fucking do it. It feels great. Even just a "Hi" will leave you feeling excellent.
/r/seduction07/12/11 03:01 AM
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Just commit to who you are. Don't doubt yourself. If you don't treat your looks like a big deal, no-one else will. Don't let it get to you. If you're confident in yourself people will mirror that. If people make a ginger joke, laugh and ignore it. Ugly guys can get laid if they're fun, confident, and don't put much importance on their looks. It's not like you've got awful facial scarring or you're missing an eye. Get over it, get over people who give you crap and stop caring. You're awesome with…
/r/seduction04/12/11 04:58 AM
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Good job. Kinda inspired me to go to do that tomorrow. Gonna go talk to some people on a train or something.
/r/seduction01/12/11 12:03 PM
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Great story, very readable. Heh, it's kind of awesome how flustered you made her when you first met, I wish I could do that :P Keep writing FRs!
/r/seduction28/11/11 11:47 PM
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This took place Friday night/Saturday early morning. On Monday, I texted her to arrange a date Tuesday, told her we should go see the beach at night. We ended up getting takeaway burgers nearby and eating them on the sand. We talk a lot, she is constantly laughing, asking me questions about myself, and I ramp up my kino. End up stroking her thighs, then realise what I'm doing and how okay with it she is, and go for the kiss. Pull away first. We keep talking. Next time a lull comes up, maybe 20 m…
/r/seduction28/11/11 02:40 PM
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Just do it. Who cares what your cousin thinks? Not you. Send a good message, see her, then go hard or go home. You both know you've only got a week, so make it count.
/r/seduction27/11/11 07:53 AM
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No.
/r/seduction27/11/11 07:29 AM
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Yeah, proximity is always important. Good idea, making them move to you. It becomes an excellent signal and affirms their attraction, so they're consciously aware of the fact that they like you and want to be near you. The combination of overt kino + eye contact could be pretty powerful, I'll have to remember to do that. As I understand it, incidental kino seems unplanned or natural or friendly, whereas overt kino is more deliberate, "I am touching you now" flirtation. In hindsight I was probabl…
/r/seduction26/11/11 03:27 PM
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Nowhere near experienced enough to advise you there, sorry :( My gut is saying push/pull like TofuTofu's written about might work? If she's high-value enough that guys chase her, you might not want to make it too easy for her. I've really got no idea though.
/r/seduction26/11/11 03:14 PM
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Agreed... I really don't like the idea of asking for a kiss. Take a chance, fail faster. Abundance mentality. You can meet cute girls with Macbooks any day. Don't get too attached to sunken costs. If you kissed her she wouldn't have had a chance to say she's not a good person or whatever. Sorry if this sounds harsh, I've just been in a very similar situation recently and wish I could've said this to myself a month ago. No idea what to do, but very interested in reading the responses from more ex…
/r/seduction26/11/11 10:11 AM
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Dude. If you've got such a high-value girl interested in you, that makes you high-value. Think to yourself, "This banging hottie wants me. Out of all the guys she knows, she's hitting on me." If she's into you, there's got to be a good reason for it. So you have attractive qualities. So lots of other women should be into you as well (you may not have met, but they would be if they knew you). So remember that. Remember you're an attractive guy and that other girls like her will be into you. Then …
/r/seduction26/11/11 10:04 AM
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Yeah, buying both our glasses didn't feel right, but given that I was leading the whole date and was the one actually at the bar (she was a little behind me) it would have been inconsistent and frame-breaking to get her to pay. Didn't have the time to think of a smarter way to handle it, so I just went with my gut. Suboptimal, but at least it went smooth.
/r/seduction26/11/11 09:49 AM
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Cool, thanks, that's really helpful. I did that stuff a little. I thought (from reading Dicarlo escalation ladder) that overt was more... overt? I dunno. New to kino. Question: What's the triangle gaze? I found a few differing definitions online, but even so - how am I supposed to use it and why/how does it work?
/r/seduction26/11/11 06:45 AM
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No exceptions. No regrets.
/r/seduction26/11/11 06:43 AM
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This was around 2AM in the city. Is it easy to catch a bus from the CBD to King's Cross? She suggested we should check out Kit and Kaboodle sometime - what's it like?
/r/seduction26/11/11 06:42 AM
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Yeah, there aren't many resources on group-work with other guys here. Anyone want to share some?
/r/seduction26/11/11 01:43 AM
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Kinesthetics - "Touching someone in order to build comfort and attraction." Read http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/kinesthetics-kino/ for a good definition. Then go out and practice it. Gamechanging for noobs :P
/r/seduction25/11/11 10:05 PM
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Oh yeah, advice for fellow sedditers: Always have an umbrella. Trust me.
/r/seduction25/11/11 04:31 PM
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Sounds like a good night. You accomplished what you wanted - nice discipline with avoiding the k-close. A somewhat inspiring FR for noobs like me.
/r/seduction25/11/11 04:07 PM
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Depends. Again, assume attraction. If she wants to see you, she'll see you - read up on text game to nail this (my text game has dramatically changed since joining seddit) You don't know who the other guy is. It's possible she thought he was a creep. If he's anything like the AFCs I know he added her on facebook without really knowing her, stalked her like hell then asked her out. You're better, you know her better and she likes you more than that guy. Assume attraction. If you can arrange it in…
/r/seduction24/11/11 11:36 PM
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Eh, he'll probably back down. He knows I've got a better shot and he moves on quickly.
/r/seduction24/11/11 11:26 PM
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Assume attraction. Sounds like she'd be at least open to it. Plus, if her best friend thinks you're pretty cool you've got someone working things your way on the inside. Call her for a study session AT A VERY MINIMUM. If I was you I'd just straight up ask her out on a date. If you can't get her alone, just text her, arrange a date, escalate from there.
/r/seduction24/11/11 01:16 AM
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Hope the (delayed) reply taught you to keep a cool head and not overthink. She could have been delaying her reply for any number of reasons, intentional or unintentional.
/r/seduction22/11/11 02:47 AM
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Thanks! I've gotten into contact with a cool girl I met at a party. Looking forward to the chance to improve. I certainly hope I look back at this in six months and laugh at how much better I've become.
/r/seduction22/11/11 02:24 AM
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