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“Am I doing something wrong”. No. You’ve DONE a whole lot of stuff wrong. Good grief, she’s got purple hair, a child, four dogs, she’s not sure what she wants but knows you have to be down with it being poly. I mean what guy isn’t looking for that situation?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/23 02:30 PM
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“So I know that is mOrE tHaN aVeRaGe but I'm young, in college and just wanted to have all the fun I can.” Stop. Full stop. Congrats you are a “fun girl” and that’s all men (especially older successful men) who want a wife will see you as. “Guys my age don't seem to have a problem but I'd rather find someone a bit older and more secure for my future.” Lol oh would you now. I mean you could have done that two to three dozen guys ago. Also you could just get guy your own age since they don’t have …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/23 02:32 PM
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Holy flaming dumpster fire! If a dating profile ever reeked of desperation we have found it. “my kids needs someone who they can rely on”. You don’t say. Sorta of why until recently society and family placed uber importance on mate selection. Those wacky ancestors and their silly notions! You can kiss your resources goodbye with this one. Run away and don’t look back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/23 03:07 PM
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Wow so by her definition only if you are the victim of abuse or violence by a bad dude does it make your p sleeve “good”. Disgusting and unreal. No wonder why dating is a dumpster fire today.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/23 02:30 PM
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Commenter number 2 is “right” that a woman with kids on a dating site does indeed weed out those that are serious versus not. Unfortunately for that commenter it’s not how they think it happens. Most men who are childless do not want to date single moms (especially anyone near the age of 22 in the case of commenter number 1). It’s not rocket science. Those men won’t initiate conversations with women who note having children on their profiles. If that nugget is brought up after the fact they won’…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/23 03:02 PM
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“I have now spent the past three years exploring my sexuality.” Ugh. We all know what that means. Run away men. She is instantly DQ herself as wifey material. Nice guys don’t want the town bicycle. You’re a cc rider now. To the streets you belong. Her entire confusion can be boiled down to: “Why won’t this square peg fit in this round hole?”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/23 04:45 PM
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“I find dating apps to be icky and low effort”. Well I got an easy solution to your problem ma’am. Get off them. Oh wait you didn’t actually want a solution rather you like and want the attention from men, you just want it at a certain level. Apparently she thinks the apps are Burger King where you get it your way. Sadly she is oblivious as to why most men aren’t putting it “effort” on these apps anymore. Chad doesn’t put in effort so why should the rest of us? She also thinks she could find lov…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/23 04:35 PM
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She is absolutely ignorant and tone-deaf about life and her situation sadly. She flips flops in her own statement like a drunk driver weaving down the road: “Most of the time it doesn't bother me, and I've learned to become very comfortable with my own company.” Ok so what’s the problem then? You don’t need no man right? Get some hobbies. “It's starting to make me feel like I'm about to get eliminated from a game of musical chairs.” Oh so you’re full of shit that it doesn’t bother you, you do wa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/23 03:43 PM
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“I want to be treated with respect and honor as it should be.” Lol. Oh boy, hate to break it to you but that ship sailed long ago. Gee lady you know what used to require that kinda treatment don’t ya? Can you imagine how many nice guys she rejected while chasing Chad and Tyrone. She certainly wanted no part of honoring or respecting nice guys then did she. “I need someone to care about me, really me.” Yeah kinda why we used to place serious importance on mate selection, marriage, family rearing,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/23 03:29 PM
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“It’s a brutal world out there” oh boohoo. You are whining because you only want tall guys and will reject how many other men that have hit you up on OLD based solely on one immutable physical trait that a man has no control over. Such entitlement and arrogance! She has or will be simply used by Chad and Tyrone as they aren’t committing to her. She won’t learn. As others have noted she just needs to get some box wine and cats.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/23 04:51 PM
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Oh for crying out loud. Ugh. You want to know what red flags look like we’ve found it. Multiple baby daddies, she’s doing OF, she’s medicated for mental stuff and loves to get tattoos. Also when she says she’s blunt, it really means she’s loudmouth, has no filter and is uncouth. I mean what guy could resist such a combination to wife up. But also you need to be 6ft men! Just run away she needs to stay on the streets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/23 03:17 PM
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"Looking for someone that wants to step up to be the dad". Sorry no sympathy here. You only want a guy to be your financial safety net for a child that isn't his. That is her entire sales pitch! Wow, what a tantalizing offer. Not. I only hope that all men pass her by. She made the choice she needs to reap its consequences. You just know that if Chad comes a calling, she is going to go CC riding again. It is really too bad there wasn't some kind of process whereby women could determine that only …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/23 11:28 PM
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“I accept only the most interesting, fun, creative, exciting and preferably irresistible invitations”. GTFO. It is seriously unbelievable the arrogance of modern women. This woman just wants a man to spend massive cash on her just for the “pleasure” of a date. Sorry men are wise to that stuff (think foodie dates). Women you want to know why men aren’t dating (and lots of men have sworn off the dating apps) here it is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/23 03:41 PM
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Oh serious delusion alert here. Good grief. In her entire spiel there is not one thing she mention that she is bringing to the man. Her profile is entirely made up of you must be this, you must be that. Got to love the typical “love to travel” requirement ($$$) that she throws in to her list of demands. Don’t be hung up on numbers (like her lying ass about age) but you must be tall, and wealthy. She needs to get some cats and just call it a day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/23 02:55 PM
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This profile is the epitome of the narcissistic lazy woman. All about her wants and not one thing mentioned that she will bring to a man (she is even making clear no sex). All this arrogance from a 37 year old “foodie” who is also a “crazy cat lady” who doesn’t have (or want kids). Just run away men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/23 03:49 PM
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“Hislope, who repeatedly points to her and Kohberger’s astrological signs-they are both Scorpios”. Good grief. How many times have we seen women base decisions on zodiac symbols that have next to zero reality in who a person is. That’s not even the worst fault for this woman. Now we have her pursuing an inmate. Such a flaming dumpster fire. As another poster here said here I feel bad for her 16 year old son.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/23 06:16 PM
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Well not to be the party pooper for her but that’s also illegal in Las Vegas despite common misperception. Regardless ain’t no one paying to get into a 42 year old’s no no square who has had kids and who clearly has been a cum dumpster in the past (as she is clear she doesn’t want to be that now). As if those weren’t bad enough red flags her atrocious grammar and spelling are icing on the cake.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/23 02:15 AM
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“Looking to take dating seriously without going straight to the physical.” So says the women with HSV who has children, a main pic of her holding bottles of alcohol who also says “Never settle when it comes to a partner.” Yep so serious. Serious like a ride to hell in a gondola. Unreal. So after Chad and Tyrone has been with her now she wants to get serious. Run away from this dumpster fire as fast as you can.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/23 03:46 PM
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"I told him 1,000 times he is my first choice." Sorry but repeating a lie over and over a million times doesn't make it any less of a lie than the first time you told it. I have a sneaky suspicion she gives this guy only starfish sex (and only sporadically) all the while her previous hookups she had was doing anything that Chad wanted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/23 10:21 PM
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“Everything happens for a reason”. I shudder when I hear women utter that phrase especially when it comes to dating or the opposite sex. It is a token statement that’s a cop-out and it really is her saying I don’t have to analyze my behavior or actions rather it’s a mysterious force of the universe doing this. As others have noted about her “being more selective” statement she can’t acknowledge that she is already screening men/choosing which men to interact with and she’s alone. You have to lov…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/23 04:06 PM
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“I live a more romantic life now that I’m alone than I did in relationships,” she says. “l light my candles, have my music playing. I have my piano. I’m sure it would be lovely if someone else was in my life and wanted the same thing, but I’ve just never met them.” Right. I’m sure with the thousands of men who hit on her from the age of whatever to now, there is not one of them wanted that. Nope not one. It couldn’t be you wasted your good years and choose the wrong type of men oh no it isn’t th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/23 08:08 PM
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Unreal. I’ll also admit I’m not familiar with hinge but at the bottom of her screen it says hidden 481. I assume that means she has 481 other “matches” or “conversations”? Yet not one guy is acceptable to her to date out of that number. Right. She does deserve to be alone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/23 04:22 PM
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Oh my goodness. So a former “lady of the night” (who also has drug and alcohol issues) and who got ploughed by 10,000 men now wants Mr. Right. I wonder what the over/under is on how many STI’s she has or had? Mr. Right for her probably isn’t even in this galaxy. She needs to look far far away. KS was right, “you can’t make this sh*t up.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/23 03:20 PM
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The only good news from this flaming dumpster fire is that like a creature who engages in Aposematism all her red flags are on her bio so you can run away quick.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/23 05:23 PM
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I just love how this woman who has 43 matches (which as other commenters have noted isn’t bad odds as men have a hard time even getting a dozen matches on these sites) decides to initiate conversation with them not because of some real desire to find a relationship but because of a tik tok challenge. They really are on these dating sites for attention and validation nothing more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/23 02:35 AM
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Wow..a 21 year old with one kid already and another on the way who doesn’t “befriend white guys”. Coupled with a very unflattering profile pic I’ve never been so glad to be pre rejected based on an immutable characteristic. Lol. I think all men should run from this one. She belongs to the streets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/23 04:42 AM
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The way she reacts is proof that not only does she have a high body count herself but the severity of her reaction leads me to believe more than one guy has asked her about her body count before. Also has other posters noted those are some crazy eyes. Run away men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/22 09:54 PM
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You have to love how women think that even when pregnant that the only thing she has to show is her body (which granted is pry all she did previously on apps) with a throw away line about being pregnant to snag a man. Sorry men aren’t playing that game anymore. She doesn’t mention one thing she would offer a man other than a big bill because she wants to be taken care of. Remember she is a modern woman she can take care of herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/22 02:52 PM
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A 39 year old divorced woman with a 12 year old child who “might want more”. Lol ok. Not a great sales pitch. Oh and she’s a victim to boot. You have to laugh that her “Catholicism (and it’s important)”apparently didn’t stop her from getting a divorce which is kinda a big thing in the Church (maybe less so these days but still). The fact that she knows “sex easy to get” tells me she’s been out riding some CC.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/22 07:01 PM
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Well with that attitude and stubbornness if she wants it to die alone she shall because as Captan Picard would say “Make it So”. Hope that OF money is worth it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/22 08:56 PM
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She is a walking contradiction who is now seeking a man to support her after the bad choices have been done. More to the issue is that she has hit the wall and is mad scrambling. She claims she’s Christian and “old-fashioned” yet at 38 she hasn’t been married, has a kid, and has been alone for a while. As we all know alone doesn’t mean celibate for women. She works retail/food services to boot. That’s not a good combination for any women let alone an older women post-wall. What possible incentiv…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/22 03:34 PM
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Ugh what class. Not. Good grief that’s a financial fleecing waiting to happen for a man. Run away and don’t look back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/22 04:46 PM
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I am sorry but that is a very rough 19. She easily looks post 30. I also love how she just adds the big deal breaker for a man as a byline afterthought. "FYI I'm pregnant" Like no big deal right? lol. Run away and fast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/22 06:24 PM
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Wow. I love how at the end she says: “What are you doing guys? What are you looking for?” Even now she still can’t or won’t understand it’s on her. As the saying goes you pry met the one for you, he’s just in your friendzone. As others have noted she isn’t bad looking for 40. But let’s assume she started dating at 20 (we know it’s way earlier than that). That means she has had two decades to find a guy and nothing. Right. It couldn’t be your selection preferences or what not. I mean how many guy…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/22 02:00 PM
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"Where the hell can I find a dude who'll f*ck me early on and still take me out on dates after?" Good grief. The pure cluelessness and arrogance of this woman. She has been chasing Chad who does nothing but pump and dump her and yet she won't change her behavior. She can't stop digging a hole. Then there is this nugget she spouts: "Having sex on the first date, is like asking if the other person wants kids or not." Ick. No. Just no. Not even close. She tries to justify that disgusting outlook by…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/22 10:23 PM
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Wow what an in-depth profile she has written. Lol. Nothing about what she offers only what she demands. A man should respond as Joe Pesci would: “Funny how? I mean, funny like I'm a clown? I amuse you? I make you laugh? I'm here to f$&*n’ amuse you?”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/22 01:00 PM
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Single mother of three! That's immediate no-go number one for any man. Then she wants you to fork out $250.00 for a babysitter? Absolutely not. That sounds like a financial scam to me, no babysitter for three kids is running $250.00. I wouldn't even be shocked if she gets men to send her the money and then blocks them or fakes an illness and doesn't show up for the date.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/22 04:06 PM
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Yikes! A 28 year old woman who is 5’6” 172lbs, “foodie” with children and is a smoker. Wow what a great sales pitch. What’s funny is that despite claiming to want a “loyal and honest friend” her rant earlier in the profile makes clear that only Chad and Tyrone have been her choice. Oh and don’t you be too close with your friends. Good grief. Pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/22 12:41 AM
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“Don’t judge me”. Sorry but not sorry after viewing that train wreck video I am for sure judging her and the verdict is not favorable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/22 12:41 PM
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Holy crap. A 20-year-old woman with a newborn who after getting pumped and dumped by Chad states that: "I'm ready to settle down." Don't lift a finger to help her. She wanted to ride the CC for fun and could have chosen to "settle down" beforehand. Notice not one thing she is bringing to you or offers a man other than her bill for the "package deal". Run away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/22 04:57 PM
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I absolutely cannot believe sometimes at how these women just operate on easy mode for so long never learning or making any effort even after making bad choices. “20 weeks pregnant. Only swipe right if you're serious.” Sure NOW your serious after the fun and bad choice has happened. Lol. Regardless, that’s her entire bio her entire sales pitch as it were. Doesn’t provide one crumb or hint at what she brings a man (other than a big fat bill and obligation for a child that’s forthcoming that isn’t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/22 11:42 AM
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The massive red flags on this profile is no laughing matter. But an obese 44 year old HR person with atrocious grammar demanding a tall guy on a hookup app (yet stating she doesn’t want a hookup) is comical. I don’t think I can afford the food budget for her with this inflation going on. I also love how she listed her IG or Snapchat or whatever as well in her profile. That’s how you know she’s serious. Lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/22 04:13 PM
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Oh goodness. So, a pregnant mother who just left her toxic relationship wants you to step in and care for her and her soon to be 4 kids. What a great selling point. As others noted, it only took her getting pregnant four times to realize this bad boy isn't good for her. Worse still, the economics alone of raising 4 kids today is astronomical, but hey its only your hard-earned money. Why not support her and her brood with the high likelihood she returns to said bad boy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/22 04:13 PM
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Holy crap. Just run away men. Run and don't look back. She is 6 months pregnant (while claiming to be "single" for the last 10 months). Make that make sense. She also smokes no less and apparently lost her car but wants you to be her chauffeur. But hey she is looking for something SERIOUS now.. lol. But no hookups or sex. Cuz priorities you see.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/22 06:01 PM
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“I didn’t tell him about my ‘work’ until about 1 month in.” So she knows guys will dump her straight away when she tells them what she does so she changes strategy (notice she won’t change her occupation of course). So with this new guy she lets him get invested then drops the sex work info on him and then gets mad at him when he has conditions for staying in the relationship. She knows damn well that men don’t want to wife a town bicycle but won’t give up doing porn. As other posters here noted…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/22 12:52 PM
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“I've endured a lot of trauma in my life so I'm a bit of a late bloomer)”. Red alert. First off that’s just code for her being a veteran cc rider that got pumped and dumped by every Chad and Tyrone in her zip code and who knows what else. I have to give it to the guy that unfollowed her. Serious props. He refused to play the “friendzone wait around, now I’ll settle with you game”. Enjoy your cats lady it’s gonna be a cold winter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/22 01:22 PM
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Good grief. It’s really too bad there wasn’t a process whereby a woman could screen a man to determine if they are a suitable parent and life partner before getting pregnant by them. Let’s also not forget the fact there’s how many different types of birth control to prevent such an occurrence as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/22 07:15 PM
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Good grief. A 34 year old mother of two children (both of whom don’t know their father(s)) wants a lottery ticket errr rich man so she can work less and travel more and be treated as a queen. Shocking. The failure to even comprehend that if she works less someone else must work more to pick up the difference is just pure arrogance. She won’t be taking budget vacations either so she’ll want the best holiday you can provide. That’s even before we get to the fact that she has two kids already and m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/22 12:10 PM
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"I go crazy for the bad boys but." That "but" is the real clincher here. She doesn't really want to give up the bad boys she just knows they won't stick around and she needs a beta to step in to take care of her and the daughter. But rest assured she will be stepping out on the beta the second she got bored. I mean she could have tried the "something real and long lasting" with the right guy before having a kid. I know I know that's cuckoo for cocoa puffs talk these days.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/22 05:07 PM
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"At this point in my life". Damn. Right there that speaks volumes. She got plowed by Chad and Tyrone repeatedly for how many years at the drop of a hat and now she wants to impose a hard and fast rule (which she will still not make Chad and Tyrone obey no less). You can't make this stuff up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/22 05:40 PM
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With her list of demanding requirements, I don't even think Paul Bunyan would meet her needs. I also love how she has "given up on dating here" yet mandates you "must like a thick and curvy woman". Yet again she doesn't state ONE thing she offers a man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/22 06:17 PM
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"I am gonna be rude bc you had no business." Right there. This right here. You want to know why men are going their own way ladies we just discovered it. The entitlement a 5/10 has on a dating app is unreal. To borrow a quote from Top Gun this woman's ego is writing checks her body can't cash. Enjoy your cats its going to be a long winter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/22 05:55 PM
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I would almost gamble that her Instagram (which she doesn’t hesitate to put in her dating profile ) has a link to an OF account.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/22 12:12 PM
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You want a phrase that will send most guys swiping left without a second thought. “Boss babe” will do it. The reality is that this is a 49 years old woman who has a misguided view of what she is able to demand. No highly successful “alpha” male her age (or any age) is choosing a 49 year old self described “boss babe”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/22 06:20 PM
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Unreal. Women really want complete validation for anything they decide to do regardless of its impact on another. Posts like this show the more outrageous the spontaneous choice is, the more respect it should be given. Can you imagine the man saying “I’ve decided that I’m now polygamous and I’m bringing five more women in this relationship. If you say no it’s because you don’t respect me”. We all know how that would go.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/22 12:41 PM
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She is 5’3” 200lbs with 2 kids who doesn’t want you watching porn or calling her cute. If that wasn’t red flag enough she’s “separated.” She’s back on the dating apps and her divorce/custody case isn’t finalized yet. The icing on the cake is she’s trying to find “the one” now? Lol Run. Just run.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/22 11:43 PM

Wow..just wow. Not even 6’ gonna cut it anymore. I also love how willfully ignorant and hypocritical she is by posting an inspirational quote in her profile of seeing beauty in others….all the while pre-rejecting anyone under 6’3”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/22 02:00 AM
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An ex-stripper with three kids none of which she has custody of? For “personal reasons” she claims. Unlikely. Those are CPS and/or court reasons (drugs, abuse, neglect, unfitness- take your pick) and they aren’t small ones. This is a literal train wreck for any man and there is one option. Run away now!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/22 02:23 PM
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Lol what a delightful positive person she is no? I can’t believe she is single. Lol. All her profile is missing is the obligatory “can I speak to your manager” tagline. Again notice she doesn’t state one thing about her (other than a vague probably taller than you) or wht she would offer a man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/22 03:18 PM
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Perfect gaslighting and blame shifting. It’s not that she is a deceitful cheater oh no it’s the “you made me do it” argument. Disgusting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 03:51 PM
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“I’m done with hookups”. Awww shucks that’s such a sweet hallmark statement. Can you imagine that statement included in wedding vows. “I promise to have and to hold and I’m done with hookups….” She’s done everything out of order, won’t marry the father of the child but hey you should be ok with her now wanting a relationship after Chad has had his way with her for how long. Run fast and far men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/22 01:39 AM
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“Make me your wife and you’ll be the happiest guy in the world.” Such blatantly false representations really should be the basis for a Lawsuit. Seriously anything else that was making such absurd claims would be properly ridiculed. “Buy my thirty year old fake omega watch and you’ll be the coolest guy around!” Certainly she won’t marry the father(s) of her children but you should and just accept all her baggage which comes with a “whole lot of attitude”. She is right that you should assume her k…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 10:40 PM
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Unbelievable and if you asked her she would tell you she wrote a “good dating profile”. At least there’s enough stated there to make men swipe left quickly and without regret.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 01:11 PM
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"It was never my intention to be a single mum just happened that way." Right. It just magically happened and you had no part in it. Let alone that it happened more than ONCE. No reason to do any self-reflection or accountability. Also what a classly move to try and hauck some goods (aka crap- just saying). Good grief.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 11:13 PM
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A 28 year old overweight self described "very sarcastic" single mother who "sometimes" goes to the gym with a lackluster list of interests. I'd say men don't waste YOUR time and move along.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 05:45 PM
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"Almost 4yrs Single..." remember that doesn't mean she was CELIBATE for those 4 years. No way no how. She even tells this to be the case when she says "But now I realize it is hard to live without a man no one will touch me at night." Aka you have hit the wall and Chad no longer is a calling. Even if Chad is somehow still calling he is pumping and dumping and sure as hell isn't staying the night. As other commentators have noted, it is so hilarious how it is "I don't need no man" is now "yeah I …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 05:36 PM
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The arrogance of these modern women. Her entire profile consists of “are there any men left out there, no boys allowed”. Not one thing describing what she would bring to said man in a relationship or what she offers. Perhaps she should check her friendzone for all the guys she rejected while chasing Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 05:04 PM
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“I would rather stay single”. You can disregard the rest of what she claims as this is her true intent. A 40 year old doctor has had how many men try to date her or get into a relationship with her since she was 20 (I’m being generous)? She chose not to make it priority. Sorry this just reeks of that “manifesting” relationship stuff that ain’t gonna happen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 06:08 AM
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Oh this is just disturbing. A single mother (with one on the way) who describes the father of the kids as a psycho who is going to cause problems with any new guy. She says the psycho doesn’t want her no more but you know she still wants him. So if he ever changes his mind she would dump you in a heartbeat. Notice there’s not one thing she mentions she brings a man other than her baggage. She doesn’t want sex so the new guy won’t even get that. What a great deal this one is: not only do yo I get…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 02:32 PM
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Wow what a great sales pitch. A 44 year old women (who smokes regularly) with two children (who doesn’t want more- the fact she likely can’t have anymore withstanding) now waning something real after spending her 20’s riding the CC. Lol the hubris is unreal. Can you imagine that attitude in any other sales pitches: “Here’s my 25 year old Mercedes that has been used hard for sale but I want a serious buyer who will pay top dollar”. If her post wall CC count isn’t bad enough she’s also a graduate …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 01:17 AM
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Oh my flaming hot dumpster fire. 25 (very rough looking) mother of FIVE kids wanted to shame men if they have a “mutual” friend because she must be a hoe. Wow just wow. She’s on the delightful Uncle Sam dough train. You’d think with all that government money she could get some cleaning supplies. That place she’s at is dirty AF. good lord stop trying to date, and instead go buy a mop and broom and clean that place. Always classy to have your kids in your dating profile pics as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 01:21 AM
7

It really is unbelievable the solipsism of women today. She can’t fathom that men have their own requirements and pretty high on that list is “fit”. No man is choosing her to wife. Chad may choose her to smash but that’s about it. She needs to get some cats because that’s all that will stay with her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 05:23 PM
17

So now at 33 she is wanting a family and is done with fun. Well that sounds exciting alright. How many schlongs has she taken riding the cc I wonder? I mean it’s not like there’s been plenty of men who tried to have a serious relationship with her before that she’s ignored for chad. Also that picture doesn’t exude one ounce of friendliness or warmth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 05:18 PM
8

This profile encapsulates modern women all too well. “I want to be hot and sexy but not sexualized”. Right. That’s not how life works. That’s why the phrase “I want to have my cake and eat it too” exists to explain this. You don’t get both. So no fun for you but have to take her two kids as a single mommy at 33 and she makes clear that “you will not be getting anything from it”. Delightful. She’s not looking for a friend she’s looking for an ATM. Run away men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 04:05 PM
7

But I thought “strong, mature independent woman” don’t need no man. What gives? Perhaps the sly disclosure of “single parent” as an interest means you want a provider to care for you and your kids after chad is done with you (despite being a nurse). Also “curvy” means fat. Time to run from the faux leopard clad cc rider men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 04:47 AM
6

"I'm not just looking for sex. That was a long time ago." Ahhh swell so a 42 year old post wall CC rider who gave it up freely and easily to Chad and Tyrone now will not give it up to you. "I am looking for a partner." Well what are you going to bring to your partner? She doesn't mention one thing she brings as her profile is dedicated to her ruling out sex and some vauge bs of seeker of knowledge.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/22 07:36 PM
5

A 5’3” 190 lbs woman with two kids (who doesn’t want more) who almost never works out and who doesn’t want you to call her cute (I am gonna say given her stats she’s not cute but I digress). Wow what a package here. Doesn’t mention one thing in her profile of what she brings to a man. A man would have to be a heavy drinker to sign up for this train wreck and the chore of taking care of her two kids but she doesn’t even allow that (or a man to smoke weed).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/22 03:58 AM
3

Get out. That list by a 48 year old post wall CC rider is just crazy. She doesn’t mention one thing she brings or will do for a man either. Given that some items are contradictory it’s clear she’s fashioned a list to pre reject all men then she can turn around and claim “all men are trash” because no one wants her. Sadly there’s no boyfriend store where you can build a made to order boyfriend lady. Just call it a day and go get some cats.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 01:54 PM
26

“I don’t know why I put this on Tik tok”. Well simple you like attention and validation. I mean you had a “talking phase” fall through. Ok well if you were just talking with the guy then you shouldn’t be that emotionally invested unless of course you did get pumped and dumped (for the umpteenth time no doubt). I mean if she’s over 30 and has been dating since 18 (being very generous) how many guys have you friendzoned or rejected to chase Chad and Tyrone?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 03:08 AM
15

"rewriting for marriage"? lol ok that makes sense. It is scary how illiterate our population is becoming. She is pregnant but now waiting for marriage. Ok well someone didn't really pay attention in church for someone who is saying she is Christian. Also why do I suspect she will nevertheless string this man along and friendzone him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/22 06:49 PM
7

Oh no. A 29 year old single mother who doesn’t have custody of her kids (and for what reason I wonder) but now wants to settle down and have more children. Makes perfect sense. Lol. Maybe she could just focus on being a better mother to her current kids instead of trying to have more. Just a thought. She’s Christian but apparently didn't subscribe to the “marry before you carry” concept and she’s 420 friendly. The whole no felons or sex offenders tells me that’s who she has consorted with in the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 03:41 PM
10

No smokers she demands because she doesn’t want to kiss an ashtray yet you should be ok kissing her being a post wall cc rider (with how many schlongs she’s had). Ummm ok. She should have been asking men earlier what they want because we don’t want post wall cc riders.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 09:52 PM
5

Oh boy. A 35 year old self described “unstable” women who has “been through everything casual” now (meaning post wall) is “looking to share outings…”. “Everything causal” has got to be a super high cc count. I shudder to think what that true number is. I can’t help but notice one of her interests is Disney. Well isn’t that quaint. Run away fast men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 03:29 PM
8

“What should I say if he wants to meet up again (obviously for sex)?” Ok lady take out a notepad and pen. Ready. Now say it with me: “No that’s not what I’m looking for or will do with you”. I know shocking right? Joking aside just admit you like chad because he gives you the tingles. You can’t stop because you don’t want to stop.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 12:31 AM
23

Oh lovely. A 28 year old single mother who now is looking for “no felons, no drugs, and no games”. Gee maybe that would have been good things to have as requirements for marriage to a man and then have a child? Nope. Now she wants help to “raise my amazing daughter”. Ok and notice not one thing she describes about her (other than she’s a small business owner breeding dogs) or what she is bringing to the table.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 12:21 AM
15

Geez. No way no how. A 38 obese single mom. Sorry men aren’t going to be signing up for that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 03:48 PM
3

Oh goodie a MBA woman who doesn’t want any children demands no broke men. She’s “opinionated” (read loud mouth got to have a say on everything). Why do I suspect that even though she’s Catholic you know she’s not a virgin. I mean she’s not seeking a man through the church.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 11:06 PM
24

Wow. Just wow. Poor husband is doing everything right and his wife is still pining away for Chad. “Happily settled”. Yikes! She would burn her marriage down if this Chad asked her to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 10:52 AM
4

Nothing says serious relationship partner material than a 24 year old single mother with chest tattoos and a demand that you be ready to be stepdad and no sex for you!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 06:40 PM
8

“I’m done with hookups”. Well isn’t that just delightful. So now after being used by Chad she wants to find a guy to date. Swell. I have bo doubt she’s picky as hell. She’s also a girl who swears a lot. Delightful what man doesn’t want a woman with a potty mouth. Instead of being a practicing witch she should be practicing aerobics.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 01:49 PM
4

Oh my gosh. No. Just No. Run for the hills men. A 51 year old woman (who is a nurse- shocking right?) whose pic does her no favors with a rant for her "about me" section. It reads as a super post wall CC rider with an extra helping of regret. As for her question on "where are all the good men?" Well the gentlemen you are talking about are already married or taken or if they are dating they are looking for younger women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 09:22 PM
16

Yikes. A 25 year old single mom with a list of requirements for a man (that might have been useful for her to screen men BEFORE having a kid) yet not one thing she states about her or what she brings to a relationship (other than a kid). She states she has her own place, vehicle and full time job. Ok great welcome to adulthood. Those are sorta the basic requirements. Remember you ladies are equals now you wanted this ability to work and be your own person (I.e. I don’t need no man)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 03:15 PM
3

Wow way to write a scintillating profile and describing her interests and such. Lol. That’s how you know young women have life on easy mode. She can write this and still get plenty of Chads to come knocking. As others have noted that’s a lot of chin.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 03:13 PM
2

I’m just so amazed at the delusion of modern women. She is a prime example. You must be at least 6’1” and you know she won’t tolerate a “dad bod” yet tries to shame men by claiming “guys want a mom bod until they get one”. Ummm no, no men don’t. She also states that “my animals are my life”. Great. So you will never be placed in priority over her pets. of course she’s a mother which is another red flag. The real kicker is the “my life is a mess”. Men are working hard enough and are stressed enou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 03:49 PM
8

Oh good grief. This is disgusting. She’s a size 10 taking clever photo angles to hide her size yet won’t tolerate a man with a dad bod. You also have to be tall (shocking) and of course wants a rich man (totally shocking) and then has the nerve to slam bald men by saying “receding hairline as that speaks volumes paradoxically about income levels.” She apparently isn’t aware of people like Bezos and other who are rich and bald (or balding). She is in for a rude awaking that the type of men she de…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 03:36 PM
3

With a horrible dating history like hers I’m not sure even the almighty is powerful enough to send her a man who will sign up for that now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 05:39 AM
7

A 32 year old mother of three who doesn’t want more kids and it’s “my way or the Highway”. She’s heavily tatted, doesn’t want more kids and to boot she’s coming off a fresh divorce. Pass and run away men. She is the epitome of delusional.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 05:29 AM
5

Lol good luck with that search lady. She better head to the land of Narnia because no man here will tolerate her. It’s fitting she likes cats. She needs to go get some cats now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 01:35 PM
19

Lol. You can scream at the heavens all you want but saying your are something doesn’t mean that you actually ARE that something. There’s an old farmer saying that “you can sprinkle manure in powdered sugar but it’s still manure”. Being a post CC rider screaming your are now relationship material doesn’t magically make it so. Men know. We understand full well. We aren’t going to wife the town bicycle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 02:31 PM
7

It’s really shame our ancestors didn’t figure out a clever way to avoid women being used as pump and dumps like inventing “marry before you carry” and such.., oh wait holy cow it’s a miracle there is a way. Lol. She can’t stop because she doesn’t want to stop. She knows what OLD is all about, her first paragraph says it. It’s why she was trying to be “celibate”. Unfortunately she is addicted to Chad and riding the CC. she will moan and groan about this but guarantee she will hop back on when Cha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 02:23 PM
2

Well if at first you don’t succeed try and try and try again huh. Chad or Tyrone got you preggers but don’t despair hop back on that app. Second time will go much better I’m sure. I feel bad for this kid. Ugh.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 07:50 PM
8

A 26 year old woman with three kids who are her main focus in life and push her to want to settle. Great so at best all you can be is fourth place with a woman with wacky colored hair who writes the blandest most basic profile. Oh yeah such a fantastic deal! She wants a man taller and older and who “can just have a fun time”. Yikes. She’s already had the fun time now she wants a guy to pay for her fun time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 01:03 PM
23

That post is why men have now assumed that whatever number she gives multiply by three (if not higher than 3). She’s 25 and already has a body count of 45. Unreal. Being generous and assuming she lost her virginity at 16 then over the last nine years she has averaged 5 men a year. Also she she says 45ish so she may not remember the exact number so it could be 50 frankly. She doesn’t even get why men are appalled. Notice how she says “it was good stress relief and a way to connect and get human t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 02:40 AM
13

Oh delightful. A 21 year old single mother of two kids who demands that you upfront be ready to be someone for them for (think $$$) but she’s only looking for friends (aka you get to be her emotional support tampon) and only maybe something better in the future. What a tantalizing offer. Lol Pass and run away men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 01:44 PM
51

“I told him it’s none of his business” oh hell no. He’s about to marry her and she’s clearly been mum about her dating history if not flat out deceptive. It’s absolutely his business to know what he would be wifing up. Can you imagine any other area of life where that bs would work regarding a major contract. Example: “So is this house you are selling ever had issues?” “It’s none of your business. The past is the past”. "It shouldn't matter" Well for her it shouldn’t matter because she wants her…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 10:19 AM
32

Lol… so now as a 27 year old single mom she’s wanting a man who is serious. Well isn’t that just fantastic. I mean not like that might not have been something to require before having the kid. Heavens no. By the phrase “I’ve done OLD for years…” you just know she got pregnant from someone off OLD aka Chad. Sadly the problem for her isn’t going to be meeting men but rather finding a man who wants to marry a single mother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 02:09 AM
6

"Spent the majority of my young adult years in an abusive relationship." Ok even if we take her at face value what has she done to address why she stayed in that type of relationship for YEARS. Notice she says she's "finally free and trying to test the water again." I would wager she hasn't done any self-reflection or analysis and is now going to put her trauma and issues onto the next man. To answer her question where are the nice guys? She friendzoned them all those years. I just have to say I…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 05:15 PM
8

Gee if only you had embraced the “marry before you carry” concept then you would have had a husband this whole time for a situation just like this. But then you can’t ride the cc and satisfy the “tingles”. For a man what incentive is this offer? Even if genuine why would a man not find a woman (one without a kid) or injury and just wife her up?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 05:00 PM
28

Oh lord. Disgusting. Guy probably thinks he has a nice girlfriend and she's a lady of the night (who has been one for a bleeping decade!) I shudder to think how many D's she has taken doing it for ten years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 08:00 PM
8

Yeah she hates him so much that she won’t use any of his resources out of principle right? Hmmm that’s what I thought. “I deserve a real man”. Umm no as William Munny said: “Deserve’s got nothing to do with it”. I mean it’s not like she chose to marry this man. Oh heavens no that requires accountability!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 02:22 AM
8

“No crazies”. Well of course not she’s crazy enough for two people with her list of demands. She’s asexual also. Oh delightful. Men line right up! “Fire, sass” “I have an attitude” . Aka she’s a loud mouth uncouth person who won’t hesitate to offer her opinion on any subject. Run for the hills.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 02:18 AM
3

A 22 year old single mother pansexual who is “here for fun” and also looking for cash. Wow what a catch. Lol. She’s a little bit of a dumpster fire.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/22 12:53 AM
11

“I don’t gotta do anything just cause I’m bored.” That’s just sickening and a perfect example of the state of modern women. She’s too lazy or cheap to even go to the correct sugar baby website instead she just posts this on a regular dating website.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 01:34 PM
7

So a 5’3” 41 year old woman with kids who doesn’t want anymore (the point of geriatric pregnancy aside) demanding someone at least 5’11” in height and around 175lbs. Of course nothing describing what she offers said man ( let alone whether the men she seeks wants what she is “offering”). As other posters have noted the “AND GO” is so annoying. It’s the equivalent of a woman snapping her fingers. Apparently she thinks all the men are going to run and line up. Good luck with that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 01:53 AM
15

A 23 year old single woman who is 8 months pregnant and claims she is shy at first wants to chat and see where it goes. It goes to my bank account getting drained for another man’s child. She doesn’t put one thing she offers a man in her profile. There’s no reason for a man to chose her over another 23 year old sans kid. Maybe she should try making it work with the baby daddy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 03:19 PM
23

Well you could do what the rest of us have to do. Get a bleeping job. You wanted equality. You got it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 10:30 PM
10

22 and already has three kids. One of which is five so she had him at 16/17. Unreal. Poor children. Here is someone who undoubtedly on the Uncle Sam dough train. This woman is a master of bad decision making. Run away men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 02:21 PM
5

A 23 year old single mom who is “really shy” but she’s bisexual, lesbian, and straight. I’m not sure how that works but ok. Not one thing she mentions that she brings to a man but of course you must love both her and her son. The child looks at least a few years old so it’s likely she was a teenager when she had him. No need to be her bailout run far and fast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 02:14 PM
31

“Not sure what changed”. Oh please. Repeated statements that women “don’t need no man” , single moms galore (which men have wised up about) or studies showing that 33% of women have admitted to going on a “foodie call” to get a free meal, and let’s not forget that Chad can hit her up and have sex without even traditionally dating her might have some stuff do with it. She even admits that she’s not a traditional woman. It has been said before but bears repeating. Modern Women aren’t going to get …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 04:44 AM
14

Sorry but you didn’t “forget” anything. She clearly left that out so as to not scare away potential matches. She says it in the first line of her text. Imagine if it was the reverse like “got new big job as a MUA? Think she would have “forgot” to update her profile in that case?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 03:22 PM
17

Oh no. Yet another 28 year old single mother of two kids (by two different men) who now wants something serious. Has tats, a nose ring, almost never works out and claims she is a Christian. Way way too many red flags here. “My kids come first”. She wants a man to be her ATM. Run away. Run fast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 04:44 AM
4

Oh delightful. A 30 year old Christian who is now celibate who almost never works out and doesn’t want more children but now only dates with intent. (With tats and a nose ring and piercings). She’s so out of order of how it’s supposed to work it’s not even funny. She is all about making the new man pay for the past mistakes. Run away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 03:55 AM
381

A 30 year old mother of soon to be 7 looking for a hand out. When she says “you will pay for the first date…” she really means “you will pay”. That’s all she wants. “I won’t kiss you until the 5th date”. Why do I suspect all the baby daddies didn’t have to wait till the 5th date to hit it. This woman belongs to the streets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 03:11 PM
8

Always the best reason for getting a divorce is “it got boring”. Good lord. Excellent decision there. It’s got to be tingles all the time with women these days. Back to the CC for her. Now she “isn’t exactly sure what I’m looking for yet”. Well wouldn’t that be wise to figure out before posting a dating profile? I dunno seems like you might want to. She is about to get schooled hard about OLD, Chad and the wall.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 03:07 PM
6

Oh lord a flaming hot dumpster fire approaching! 35, fat, a liberal feminist to boot whining about the bs “wage gap”. Yeah she really knows how to market her profile for men. Lol. “A little bit of an asshole” really means a nagging, harpy, won’t ever let you have any peace woman. That photo as well. Woof woof.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 03:02 PM
3

Yet another single mother who only now is looking for something serious and no more hook ups. I’m sure she friendzoned or rejected many good men back when she was chasing Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 02:56 AM
8

I’m just amazed at how women fail to grasp a couple of simple concepts: Tattoos are generally permanent and men don’t want to marry the town bicycle. Even this woman’s post isn’t causing some reflection rather just LMAO. For all the talk of “stunning and brave” we hear thrown about constantly notice she has to be drunk to admit that she did porn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 04:33 PM
21

Oh good grief… a single mom of two with tats, crazy colored hair, a smoker, crazy makeup and what’s with those eyebrows? She has more red flags than a Communist parade. Run and run fast men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 05:21 PM
2

Somebody better call the burn ward… Shazam.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 05:18 PM
6

A 32 year old mother of FIVE kids who is overweight and demanding people “love me for who she is”. She is tatted and pierced as well. She is the epitome of uncouth. She’s “very ambitious” yet doesn’t even own a car. Lol. At least she owns a cat because Winter is coming.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 12:17 PM
10

A 37 year old post wall overweight woman who appears to now want something serious but describes that in the worst prose possible (and it’s not even hers she is quoting someone). Her picture isn’t flattering as it’s clear she’s got fat folds and doesn’t even show her face. It’s good she prefers dog pics that will help her narrow which dogs to get.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/21 03:25 PM
15

A mother of four who is divorcing and is adamant she is not for booty calls yet her photos all show her booty. Right. She belongs to the streets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/21 08:04 PM
9

This show the mentality of modern women… a woman can reject a man for any reason and men are just supposed to be ok with that. To women it is simply unfathomable that a man would reject them. The fact that she would then harass him and threatening to murder him is scary as hell.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/21 04:50 PM
15

“Do the good ones still exist”. Yes they are the ones she’s friendzoned or rejected. She wouldn’t (and still won’t) give them consideration. However Chad can still get her to be his sex toy despite her claim she never initiates sexual conversations. I’d also bet that despite her “dating” this guy for a year there were signs she was a side chick. Did she meet his family? Meet his friends? Was it basically just Netflix and chill?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/21 01:50 AM
11

A 35 year old woman with an “unfiltered mouth” who likes tattoos (and has some in her neck) and her anthem is “Big Energy”. Oh no. Can you imagine the language that she uses? Also that photo doesn’t exude warm feelings or friendliness in any way. It screams bitch vibes. Yikes. Run away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/21 02:45 PM
7

She by her own friends admission goes for “attractive assholes” and then wonders why Chad only wants to hookup. She even notes that the attention falls off after starting to hookup. Also she like many modern women have to lead off in her description that she has a rewarding career. I bet she talks non stop about her career with men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/21 03:55 AM
11

Wow…just wow. As others noted this woman has no accountability here. She dated this man, had a kid with this man, etc., yet there wasn’t one indicator from this person before she got pregnant? I too would also really like to know what the man’s side of this is as well. It may not be quite as she describes. I also love how providing money for her to buy clothes doesn’t count the same as actually buying clothes. Ok well unless you have the money no one is buying ANY clothes. Lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/21 12:26 AM
4

What kind of money does she spend on makeup a month? Lol. She sure looks way older than 23. Already has a kid and sells spicy pics if herself online. Has a lot of tats and almost never works out. I shudder to think how many times she had been pumped and dumped.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/21 01:17 PM
8

Good lord the contradictions in this woman’s profile is beyond hilarious. The Riddler in Batman made more sense than this lady does.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/21 06:05 PM
3

Yep… make a deal breaker for a man over whether he likes cats or not. That’s the proverbial hill to die on. Well she can get all the cats she wants because that may be the only thing that will be around her. Winter is coming.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/21 12:33 AM
5

Oh hell no. A 28 year old single mother who smokes daily, has green hair, tats, fake raptor nails and has several mental disorders and is a “bitch” according to her. Yikes. Of course we have the “fresh out of abusive relationship” theme but not one thing mentioned by her as to how she is addressing those issues (I.e. therapy). You’re just supposed to come in and deal with all that. “I’m trying to get my life together”. Oh sure what guy doesn’t want to deal with that process along with every othe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/21 02:50 PM
16

A 25 year old single mother who speaks what can only be defined as barely low level English. With a chest tat. Says she’s “tired of being cheated on.” Yet doesn’t mention one thing she brings to a relationship other than she doesn’t like “white boys.” She doesnr want guys to play games but wants to you hit her up on Instagram and snap chat and her profile pic is flashing her chest tat and tatas. She belongs to the streets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/21 11:44 PM
19

Good grief. She’s married with twin kids and because some guy at work is giving her attention she will nuke her marriage because her husband gained some weight. She says she doesn’t want to cheat but has already made out and gotten touched by the office guy. I seriously doubt it stopped there. She claims she blocked him but then magically he’s asked out to dinner again which means she unblocked him so she clearly isn’t embarrassed. She belongs to the streets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 10:32 PM
11

Oh good lord. A single mother of a four month old who is self described as “thick and a bit of a tum“. But of course now she wants the relationship after having the kid. Right. Apparently she didn’t require that of whoever pumped and dumped her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 03:45 PM
19

“Maybe I was just kidding”. No no she wasn’t. She deliberately put him in a friendzone and kept dangling the romance card so the guy would keep giving her free attention. The hubris of this woman to believe that a man shouldn’t move on and not give her free attention or validation anymore is disgusting. As others have noted, don’t chase women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 03:39 PM
14

Wow what a selfish arrogant woman. As others have noted strong hypergamy here. Marriage is the only contract that a party (usually a woman) can break at any time for any reason and still come out ahead. What she fails to get is all this co-worker attention isn’t for relationships but to smash only.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/21 01:38 PM
19

This profile reeks of entitlement and arrogance. Good grief. I’m calling bs on her being an “engineer” that seems highly unlikely. So we have a 28 year old single mother looking for a beta bux provider who brings with her a massive ego. Pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 03:38 PM
26

This coupled with the statistic that a third of women admitted to going on a date to get a free meal aka a foodie call should be sufficient evidence against the idea of wining and dining a woman. Chad doesn’t so why they hell should you have to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 01:48 AM
29

“Her time is valuable.” So a man’s time is also valuable. Good grief the arrogance of these women on apps never ceases to amaze me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/21 02:25 PM
6

“Can handle a person like me”. Yikes. No just no. That language is the Disclaimer that tells you she is a nightmare to deal with. That’s not even counting the other red flags. A single mother who says she’s Christian but who chose “a dead beat baby daddy.” Yes she chose that it didn’t just happen by mysterious happenstance. She’s a queen alright she’s a “queen of a nightmare” for a man. Steer clear.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/21 04:18 AM
14

She’s on the wrong app. She needs to be on the seeking app. That’s what she’s really wants is a sugar daddy. She wants friends but no fwb’s but wants a serious relationship. Ok that makes perfect sense in bizarro land. Her screen name is false advertising she isn’t “sexy” from that pic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/21 05:18 PM
3

That’s a great meme. Completely accurate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 09:06 PM
12

“But I’m beginning to think I’m wrong and should go by the traditional route of waiting for a few dates.” Gosh it’s almost like all those religions were on to something about the whole no sex before marriage dealio. But then she can’t satisfy her “tingles” now. But why don’t they stay after sleeping with her. Gee that’s a toughie. Better get a crack team in to look at this. I mean it’s not like she can say no right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 04:37 AM
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Notice what she emphasis in her description. “Executive at software company, make 6 figures salary”. It amazes that women still to this day don’t understand men don’t care about that. We don’t. That’s not the qualities we are seeking in a woman. As another poster noted she is married to her career. She says she has “traditional values” yet is a modern corporate woman. Even if she’s truthful those will be in conflict the entire marriage. A man her equal or higher wants a traditional stay at home …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 04:10 PM
13

Oh good grief. A 23 year old mom of a six month old who is now pregnant again. “A hopeless romantic” my ass you are a hopeless woman who won’t use birth control. Now of course she wants something long term. Get out. She has also the obligatory “what isms” listed as well. Dumpster fire 🔥. Run and run far men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 01:49 AM
19

Oh boy a 42 mother of three who lives on a farm and can’t invest worth a damn. Lol. Imagine what she’d do to a man’s credit or his investment portfolio. Yikes. The reason she can’t find the men who are looking for a wife is she already turned those men down years ago.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 04:25 AM
15

This post is so apropos regarding the current state of women it’s not even funny. All men should have to read this in high school and college. This woman wants to ride the cc despite clearly stating “my sex life is just fine as well” and “I love him to death”. All because she wants to live her life “with no regrets”. This poor guy has no clue, thinks he found a good girl early on. Her friends will pressure her until she wears down and cheats on this guy cuz you go girl. Disgusting. It isn’t “som…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 03:55 PM
15

“I’d rather find a nice guy to talk to.” That’s bs. That “friend” would be an emotional tampon for her or even worse she would dangle sex so he would provide resources hoping to get with her. I can just see it now. “I’m just not ready yet but just a little longer. You’re so good to me.” Run away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 02:54 PM
10

A 26 year old woman whose kids don’t live with her and is trying to quit smoking, in the food service industry and drives an Acura. Swell. Of course the obligatory don't trust men out of an abusive relationship theme. Making the current guy pay for her past trauma. Always a great selling point. Of course now she wants to be taken care of. Run fast and far men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 03:28 AM
33

Just proof that her previous cc riding destroyed her pair bonding. She’s looking for any reason to cheat now. What’s worse is the poor husband probably thinks all is well. She’s gonna cheat, make some bs excuse when caught, and then divorce him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 07:38 PM
7

“No elephants were harmed in the making of this picture”. That is one ugly dress. Yikes. Looking for a man to spoil her. It better not be spoiling with food because that’s a budget that no man can afford.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 12:27 AM
7

A single mother of four who smokes, never works out and one of her interests is food. Oh boy. That’s even before we get to her trouser snake size demand. Good to know she’s focusing on the important qualities in finding a partner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 02:22 PM
13

A full time single mom with crazy hair (she’s on Uncle Sam’s dough train) who wants a dude to take her on foodie dates (and will order extra to take back home no doubt). Maybe she should just go get a job for Uber eats.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 01:50 AM
5

Oh goodness grief a 49 year old business owner who claims to want intelligence and that you have show her you know what a woman desires emotionally. Yet she doesn’t mention one thing she will bring to a man. Those pictures are not flattering to say the least. Even 49 year old men wouldn’t be interested in this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 07:35 PM
66

Women just don’t seem to understand that men don’t like being lied to about a woman’s sexual past. Her reason “I wanted to forget that.” is not how the real world works. Notice she can’t even fathom how he can be upset she deceived him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/21 03:00 PM
32

A 31 year old dental assistant whose tatted and who doesn’t own a car and has a few extra pounds. She has kids and doesn’t want any more. Wow what a great list of attributes. She seems to be focused on astrological signs. That’s the quality to focus on ladies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 08:52 PM
17

Gadzeus that second picture is rough...yeowser. So a 19 year old in college who just gave birth is now not looking for a hookup but she even demurs there by saying "not really looking for a hookup" so the right Chad can still convince her no doubt and can easily woo her on snapchat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 05:33 PM
7

A 28 year old woman with four kids who is slightly overweight, who wants more children and now wants a “serious relationship”. The typical “someone who will love my children as their own” is stated by her. Her kids will always come first so at best your fifth place. Swell. She wants to take things slow. Even better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 08:52 PM
11

“I don’t understand what’s going on with me.” Well you rode the CC for so long and hard that you’ve hit the wall at full speed and Chad and Tyrone no longer show the interest they did. Every day there’s a new group of 21 year old women hitting the market stealing more and more attention. A good question would be to her how many men have you turned down or passed over since you were 21? Sorry get a cat winter is coming.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 03:18 AM
15

A 21 year old single mother with kids but who can’t or won’t be with the father but wants some other guy to step in to treat them like his own. Right. Just run men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/21 05:34 AM
8

To answer the lady’s question “is it possible”. Yes it was possible 30 years ago… today nope not at 54. Unless the travel you are interested in includes time travel. Lol. Good grief the entitlement is unreal. What man who meets what she describes is taking a 54 year old woman. Even a 54 year old man meeting her requirements isn’t taking a 54 year old woman. Lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 03:26 PM
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"I'm kinda tired of this whole dating thing." Yeah CC riding for as long as she did has to be uncomfortably tiring at this point. No doubt Chad and Tyrone aren't interested in her now so she's looking for the next thing to move onto. I love how bubble is allowing de facto sugar babying now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 09:07 PM
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Oh gracious yet another single mother (who is also currently pregnant) looking for a man. Now after the CC riding is over she magically is now for "no games." Why isn't the father of your soon to be born child good enough to be the husband? lol. Unreal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 04:57 PM
12

So a 30 year old who is 16 weeks pregnant with twins and the father doesn’t want to be involved. Wow what a selling point men. No red flags there. She’s a queen and demands your resources! You can be fourth priority!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 09:13 PM
11

She needs go to the pet store and get some cats today. She’s behind on the necessary spinster accessories and winter is coming. The entitlement of these women is unreal. Everyone deserves a Chad don’t you know? Lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 09:11 PM
3

Goodness grief I’m almost her age and she’s got four grandkids. 2 of her grown kids still live with her and she’s separated from her current relationship. She’s sober for 3 years but is a daily smoker. She’s now ready for something serious and isn’t into hookups. Has a chest tattoo as well. There’s not one positive here men. Run and run fast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 03:44 AM
3

“Full time mommy” means she is on the Uncle Sam dough train. The fact she says “don’t make it weird” means she knows darn well it is weird and wrong. She doesn’t mention one thing she offers a man but her only requirement is a 9” trouser snake. This lady belongs to the streets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 12:58 PM
12

She’s 51 and out here trolling for a sugar daddy. Oh goodness. Her entire sales pitch is ridiculous. “Accomplices in the intimate moments”. Please. She forgot to add the man will need to be blind because that may be the only way this is happening.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 12:44 PM
11

A 33 year old mother of two who is a BBW and who absolutely loves tattoos (she really emphasized that part). She can’t be bothered to write one thing about what she offers a man let alone what she is looking for other than “loves snuggles”. She acts like she is 19, super hot and that the men will just flood her inbox. She better grab a coat, winter is coming and it’s cold outside.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/21 10:51 AM
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A 35 year old overweight nurse (she should know how bad obesity is for health) who only now is looking for her partner in life. She just screams post wall. All the Chads have gone and she’s alone. “No hook ups. I mean ever.” What she really means is no MORE hookups ever again. She makes that tell next line by saying she wants to get to know a guy for once. Boy that’s romantic as hell. That guy will be “punished” by her withholding sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 12:53 PM
13

The hubris is unreal. She is 39 and demands a man leave her a message spilling all of his vital information to get a response yet offers not one thing on her that she brings to the table. OLD is basically another job for a man. If I’m going to that much work I’ll just go to work and get overtime at least.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 12:51 PM
10

A 38 year old woman (with tats I see) who is into liberal arts, yoga, and who is sometimes bitchy. What a fabulous combination. Lol. That picture is rough to say the least. Hello wall. Of course she wants a super successful driven man who is ambitious. Funny how it always come back to the man must be traditional. Yet other than mentioning some activities she likes she doesn’t mention one thing she is looking for in a relationship (I.e. marriage, children-although at her age not easy, etc.) or wh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/21 02:23 PM
13

Nothing says a woman is serious about finding a relationship like a picture of her with filters. Perhaps just perhaps she should have been more serious in stepping up to get married before having a child. Her entire profile is just ridiculous. “Make each day a better day”. Flowery sentiments like that don’t interest men who are seeking serious relationships.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 02:46 PM
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The fact that 25k like that post is just disturbing but shows just how bad it is and the mindset of modern women. But the taking of the man’s resources only occurs with the benefit of the state (child support, TANF, etc.). This is the mindset that gets passed down to kids and further shows the destruction of the family unit and two person household. There’s every incentive to leave and none to stay.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 12:46 PM
9

“You can come to my place and slide right into the beta bux provider role tonight”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 09:41 PM
16

Ahh yes another soon to be single mother trolling for a dude while preggers. She likes Netflix I see. I bet that’s how chad got her pregnant was during Netflix and chill. She needs to change that one sentence to read “Looking for someone who will financially support me and my child.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 09:40 PM
20

Ugh this literally is “She belongs to the streets”. The cognitive dissonance is disgusting. “My problem in dating is not that I don’t have high standards is that I don’t have good standards.” Wrong. Her “high” standards are Chad. That’s it’s. She will hook up immediately with Chad despite red flags while ditching the normal good guy on the date because in simple terms he didn’t give her the “tingles”. I just love how they have no shame or remorse in public posting this for all the world and time…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 11:31 AM
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“Not looking for games or to sleep around”. Of course not that boat has sailed already. Four kids? Good grief. So how come only 2 of the children live with you? Oh that’s quality mothering there. You have a newborn but are trolling for men. She’s not looking to sleep around but all her pics are of her scantily clad or showing her body provocatively. I’m sure her kids will appreciate that someday they will be teased regarding their mom and her pics.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 03:55 PM
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Yeah isn’t that what they teach in sales 101. Insult your potential buyer right off the bat. Lol. A single mom of a 4 year old with tattoos who likes the nightlife think men are shit. Ok. Wow such a lovely personality. Can you imagine what hell awaits on a date with this person so you can “change her mind”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 04:32 AM
13

I know the first thing I look for when dating a woman is one who is still “legally married”. She was so abused by her husband yet hasn’t moved to divorce him but she does have time to create a dating profile. Cuz priorities man. She is a full time stay at home mom which means she is on the Uncle Sam dough train. Just run. Run far and fast from this one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 12:18 AM
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Hmmm it’s almost as if being a single mother of three can be an impediment to being financially stable. Who would ever have thought? It’s too bad there wasn’t enough data to confirm that. Oops there is. If we had truth in dating profile laws like we have truth in advertising laws The Title really should say “beautiful mother of three seeks a sucker”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 12:11 AM
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Basically in a nutshell it’s “I am only attracted to Chad”. Anyone else I will not consider. Hello CC rider, she’s gonna hit the wall and will soon enough be crying “where have all the good men gone”. And as a previous poster noted will be a cat owner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 06:56 PM
16

“Extremely loyal”. Just not to the father of the kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 07:29 PM
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So the man has to work hard to be the “best man you can be” and she is going to do what in return? You have to be the best and all you get in return is a single mom who is overweight with tattoos and has an entitlement complex. Pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 02:58 AM
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“For the last decade I’ve only been attracted to narcissistic perfectionists”. Ok and what steps did she take to address this problem of hers? No mention of therapy or accountability that she kept choosing those types. This is someone who since as “a teenager I tended to become involved with guys I was not very comparable with” so this problem has been going on years. “I do not know IF I am doing anything wrong…”. Right there that is the full extent of her denial. There’s no possible way any of …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 09:15 PM
16

It’s been said before but bears repeating. Modern women can’t have it both ways. You want to be free and independent then this is the result. You can’t be a modern women and similarly demand a traditional man and the “old ways”. If she was the money-maker and he wasn’t we all know that she wouldn’t be sticking around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 09:07 PM
15

I know I’m gonna sound like an old fuddy duddy but I seriously detest the pics with the Snapchat filters on it. Good grief what silliness. Instant strike. Also she’s overweight, her job is important to her and the man has to carry the conversation. Double strike.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 07:02 PM
10

This right here is the evidence of what OLD has done for women and the dating market. Yes, you can get lots of attention and likes from men. Yes Chad and Tyrone will smash you but that is it. They will not have a relationship with you. Meanwhile she will reject all men who aren't "10's" and is going to go full steam into the wall in short order and then complain "where have all the good men gone" or "Why can't I find a guy to marry".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 04:04 PM
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“I want complicity”. “I’m not looking for hookups (that’s the past)”. Red alert. A 47 year old woman with an 18 year old child who is separated is not what a marriage minded man is looking for. In her list of qualities she wants in a man notice she says handsome and attractive. She wants a Chad. Unfortunately post wall Chad don’t want her. Better get some cats lady…winter is coming.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 10:18 AM
15

Unreal. You get into a relationship with someone and deliberately fail to mention a significant portion of your past and then act surprised when he finds out about it and makes clear he isn't at all happy about being deceived. It is the shockaroo award for the year here. I will say as other posters have noted that women tend to use the "I was not myself"; "I was in a bad place" or "I was drunk" excuse to explain their behavior yet if this situation was flipped and it was the man who had the erra…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 10:31 PM
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“Important question”. Lol. No an important question might be, “what religion are you?” “Do you have a job?” “Do you want kids?” “Are you a highly moral person” “are you looking for marriage?” Nope. For her it’s “how tall are you?” The immediate triggered response was hilarious and she immediately goes to engage in a personal rant. If all this bad attitude wasn’t bad enough she’s preggers and now isn’t looking for hookups. Me thinks that’s how this lady got pregnant to begin with (she deliberatel…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 01:51 PM
8

You know what provides a man "sustainable living"? Not being involved with a person like this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 09:19 PM
11

Shooting someone dead who refused to kiss you. Yeah that's the reasonable response all right. Now this mother of three has not only screwed her life up but has now screwed her kids' lives up as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 09:18 PM
15

Yet another woman who is pregnant on a dating app. It’s so bananas to me. Shouldn’t you be focused on your soon to be born child? Maybe take some time to reflect why you got in this position. But that would require accountability and self reflection. Her standards are extremely high yet you aren’t together with the father of your child. You are looking for something serious and long term after the bun is in the oven. How convenient. So clearly you weren’t even looking for serious 8 months ago. B…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 01:51 PM
12

Oh for heavens sake. 18 and has FOUR kids. Even assuming she had twins twice that’s being pregnant at 16 or possibly younger. Unreal. She’s unemployed but you can’t be. You just know that she’s on the government dough train. She’s 5’2 but you have to be above 6’4”. You must have a trouser snake longer than 8” as well and you have to spoil her and she doesn’t want you sober. That makes perfect sense. She also has a big emphasis on the man not being ugly. The level of arrogance and entitlement tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 12:14 PM
7

"Should I just get my own sh*t together 1st?" Oh I am so sorry that ship has sailed and sunk and is irretrievable. You are going out getting hammered and blacking out and then waking up with a guy and this is a pattern. Also who doesn't want to have a girl hurl in their car. That is sweet. That fact that it was "reminiscent of my 20s" means this is her go to routine. There is no change for her. She belongs to the streets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 11:52 PM
31

Oh gracious. Yet another pregnant soon to be single mom who is a “strong independent woman”. She states shes not “your average southern Barbie” yet nothing in her profile states what she offers other than what she demands of a man. Apparently not so strong and independent If you are trying to find a man while you’re pregnant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 06:01 AM
29

Oh goodness gracious. Lady you’re 46. Time isn’t your ally. You want someone to give you “all the feels”. You haven’t found it to date. What in the universe thinks you’ll find it now. No man cares that you “have a Kick ass job that pays well”. Not one thing in her rant does she mention what SHE offers. Men who are as successful if not more successful than you economically are either taken or at the very least aren’t dating 46 year old women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 04:06 AM
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I hope she has plenty of room for the bundle of cats she will soon be getting. At this rate with her attitude that’s the only living thing that will be around her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/21 06:43 PM
26

I feel for this guy as that is just disgusting. I love how it always goes from “how dare you invade my privacy” to the “begging for forgiveness”. The depravity can summed up at by her acknowledgment that she was seeing another guy right from the time they were dating. So much for that engagement. Those “tears” she is shedding is because of the loss of the money provider nothing more. He is fortunate he didn’t actually marry her with the potential of asset splitting and alimony off the table. Sit…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 02:15 PM
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She’s a 27 introvert with two kids but no husband and who is also bisexual. “I’ve been screwed over a lot in the past”. Umm well why does the new man have to pay for that? “Just looking to chat, make new friends.” She means make new friends whose wallets she can gain access to. “Not looking for anything in particular”. Yep that’s reassuring. You’re on a dating app but you have no idea what it is you seek, or offer. Oh and she ain’t going to message first cuz well you know she’s the catch. Lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 03:47 AM
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Oh no. A 19 year old pregnant woman who now is “wanting something long term”. Wouldn’t that have been the approach to take BEFORE letting whoever is the baby daddy implant your uterus. I mean just a thought. They must think tinder is the new step daddy store where plenty of men are just eager to be parents to children not their own.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/21 06:29 PM
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Hilarious. I mean it’s not as if women couldn’t stop hooking up or engaging in sex without a commitment first. That is ludicrous. They have no agency or control over the hoo haw or whether to sleep with a man. It wasn’t men who destroyed the family unit or were promoting the “you don’t need no man” claptrap we’ve heard for decades. You’ve dumped on good guys and went full on cc riding with chad and Tyrone and now want to bemoan men who don’t want to play that rigged game. Nope.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/21 02:45 PM
15

“For a long time I refused to see that I am pursuing the wrong people because on the surface these guys were nice to me, had their life together, seemed like good partners on paper.” Meaning you are stubborn and refused to see what direct evidence was in front of you. You went for chad and his bad boy ways and rode the CC as a rinse and repeat cycle. Your magical epiphany now is too little too late. She’s looking for “that specific feeling of chemistry…” aka the “tingles”. She hasn’t changed. He…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/21 01:54 AM
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That pic...wow so friendly looking in it. Did I just feel the temp drop five degrees? They say a picture is worth a thousand words and her pic says no fun here. No smile in it and nothing to say I am a warm caring woman. “I've always been in abusive relationships”. Oh boy. Men run. You have no duty to fix her and there’s no evidence that she had done any introspection as to why that is or what is different for her now. A 33 year old mother of one who wants to be pampered. Again notice she doesn’…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/21 11:45 AM
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Yes it is so vital when selecting a partner to emphasis penis size and girth. Things like honesty, loyalty, motivated, moral, etc. are not vital. It’s “can you hit my g spot with your trouser snake”. I mean it’s not like there aren’t other ways a man couldn’t sexually satisfy you. So you get in exchange a 29 year old out of work (but has an undergraduate degree so I’m guessing a nice load of student debt) hippy chic with mental issues who states she is a Multidimensional being. No way. Run and r…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 02:17 PM
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I have to agree with the other posters here. Why can’t she punch out of the dating market and just raise her kids. Take the “L”, buy a cat and wait until they are grown to try again. Nope she wants a third bite (let’s be real it’s way more than three) at the apple. She’s 29 with three kids by two different dads neither of which are around and of course no sex for the new guy you get to be “ friends” aka mr. Bailout.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 02:54 AM
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That is hilarious. The initial question as always is where she is finding these men. I suspect on the dating apps. For Vegas that is especially problematic because people come here on vacation and update their location and are trying to hook up (aside from the true locals looking to hook up, lol). “It’s just sad how this generation of men turned out”. Please spare me the crocodile tears. You went on a show called 90 day fiancé so you’ll forgive me if I don’t take your claims of relationship inte…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/21 02:58 PM
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It just baffles the mind. “No hookups/ons/fwbs”. Yet all her pics are her showing herself provocatively. Her profile doesn’t contain one paragraph of what she is looking for other than she likes Hispanic men and one word tags of her interests (of which none are the gym). I mean what man looking for a serious relationship is going to be drawn to this. The best may be that she has Snapchat. Yes all the high quality marriage minded women are on the Snapchat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/21 07:23 PM
10

Why stop at 7 lady. Two more and you can field a baseball team.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/21 12:35 AM
9

Im just disgusted at the state of things these days. I’m so glad our criminal justice system gives inmates time to create dating profiles. I’m relieved my tax dollars support that. Also they have time for hair coloring as well as it’s “a sexy blonde at the moment” and she’s naturally black. I mean after a long day of serving time who doesn’t deserve a spa day? She helps the homeless too! What a generous good person. Lol. Don’t mind the victim(s) of whatever crime you committed. “I don’t have tim…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 05:11 PM
9

Here’s the answer lady. “The father(s) of your kids” loves your children like his own. But apparently they aren’t good enough for you. Also when she says “if you are not interested in getting to know my kids as well" she really means “if you are not interested in getting to support my kids as well"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 04:39 AM
15

If I am going to give my money away I’ll do it to a legitimate charity that actually helps truly less fortunate people not modern age lazy entitled hippie women. She has arms and legs and is free and independent. Hit the hiring line.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 02:15 AM
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A 46 year old woman who is a mother and whose child has to help with the profile. She wants you tall, fit, rich, sociable, etc. and on top of it “my mother never shut up.” I’m sorry but the tall, rich, and sociable men are not dating 46 year old mothers who can’t stop talking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/21 12:57 PM
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"To have that spark again with someone." Ok so why didn't you marry that person? My guess is Chad didnt want to and she passed all the men (and still is passing the men) who would. Those "tingles' are fleeting in life. If she really thinks the "tingles" is what will carry a relationship the distance she is going to be a cat lady. She is now tempted to end it after one date if the "spark" isn't there. Good luck lady because if that is the standard your probability of success isn't high.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 08:45 PM
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Wow a whole lot of stuff to unpack there. Notice no where in that whole flaming pile of a mess post does she mention trying to find a man at church if she is a Christian rather she is only on the dating apps. Now when she says "have not met anyone who wants a serious relationship", what she means to say is: "the chads I want on the dating apps don't want a serious relationship." How many men does she reject that don't meet her "high standards". She still refuses to change course or try something…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 03:16 PM
8

“Don’t judge my mess”. Yes, heaven forbid you take any criticism about your choices or lack of responsibility. “I have no idea what I’m doing”. That is not a man’s obligation or duty to figure out your life that is your responsibility. This woman is a single mother, has a leg tat, and her room looks like the Tasmanian devil tore it apart. She’s coming no where near my stuff and most valuable men wouldn’t want that chaos in his life either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 12:49 PM
11

Unbelievable. Even with four kids at 31 there’s no humility or self reflection. The statement “ I’m aware I’m undatable” is purely hollow. So a mom with 4 kids, a tat and lord knows what else, yet doesn’t show one thing she offers a man or how this time is different.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 01:38 AM
11

These profiles really do reinforce how women have it on easy mode. You can imagine how much easy male attention and Chads she got all those years. Now she’s 36 (and has gone thru how many “toads”) and all her profile contains is a provocative pic of a covered breast and a pity platitude about Prince Charming. No real information about her is relayed, no interests, goals, etc. That is the extent of the effort. Yes, Prince Charming is going to jump at her profile I’m sure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 01:39 PM
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Goodness grief. A 21 year old mother with tats who likes Netflix looking for a step daddy. How original. Lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 07:31 PM
9

“I live in the moment”. Fantastic. So you’re basically a child. There’s no structure or long term plan or goal you are able to articulate other than you want the “butterflies in the stomach”. Meaning you change course at a whim and the second those leave she’s gonna bounce. She doesn’t state one thing she brings to the table but you have to be someone who “makes me laugh”. She better just buy a dog.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 01:21 PM
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Ohhh so “not looking for anything serious” yet want a handsome husband for kids. She claims she’d “ make an incredible wife” but doesn’t explain one bit of who she really is other than a dog/cat mom and shopping problem (big consumer debt load no doubt). She’s not athletic but you should be. Yes a man should uproot his life and relocate for that. Unreal
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/21 02:51 PM
13

A 45 year old woman who is now done with one night stands but likes wine (vino), cats (gato), smokes occasionally (de vez en cuando) and works in HR. That’s a winning combo if I ever heard one. She doesn’t mention one thing she brings to a man in her post other than “to make you laugh”. A man can get that from Seinfeld reruns. You better have something more than that. She’s going to be the type to “buy a dog die alone” because those men she wants to know exist are not going to be into her sadly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 11:57 AM
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Oh who doesn’t want a romantic partner that will stress you out. lol. Not like a man doesn’t have stress enough at work already. You just have to love yet another 20 year old with a kid who likes tattoos and dyeing her hair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 03:50 AM
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I’m just amazed at how they want a good guy and ”no games” from people after the bad stuff occurs. She’s only 20 but is 2 years sober with a one year old child. If the sobriety is for drugs that’s bad enough because otherwise if it’s for alcohol then her having a drink every now and then means you aren’t really sober. But hey now she’s not into games so it’s all good. Unreal
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 01:08 PM
36

"In college I didn't really do the boyfriend thing." Meaning your rode the CC hard and put up hall of fame numbers. It is so true, but important to remember that when they say they are not dating it doesn't mean that they aren't having sex. I bet the attention from Chad and Tyrone is falling off and now she wants to find a "nice guy" to support her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 04:29 PM
28

Well we don’t know what she looks like and we all know how chad and Tyrone have their pick of women on the apps so that can easily explain why she gets ghosted but I will say this (not to mention she’s 36). She leads her post with the statements that she has a six figure income, has a career and a dog and that she’s independent. All those are traits/things most relationship minded men don’t want or at best are indifferent to. She probably leads with all that on the apps or on actual dates. It’s …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 04:22 AM
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“I’m not too picky”. Boy what guy doesn’t want to hear that? She has a nine month old, is in an open relationship and wants to travel extensively. So aside from being man number two in this picture she would dump her child onto man number one him so she can travel with you on your dime. Fantastic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 11:38 AM
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“I attract narcissistic assholes and men without jobs”. Gee I wonder why that is? You mean to tell me a successful doctor, lawyer, architect, etc. doesn't want a tattooed Halloween loving woman with 2 wild ass girls. I’m shocked. Those girls must be terrors.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 04:53 AM
12

Wow. So aside from her poor sentence structure and grammar all you get here is a 39 year old mother of one who doesn’t want any more children. Quite honestly she doesn’t like DIY projects otherwise she wouldn’t be looking for mr. Beta bucks. You wanted to do it by yourself with a kid..have at it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 08:04 PM
16

So accurate. This really should be posted as a PSA to all men on dating apps or social media as fair warning of what is out there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/21 01:46 PM
16

Three different men are the fathers of her children. Unbelievable. She’s just irritating as hell in this video and I’m sorry she talks and looks like white trash (complete with fake nails). Now we have this woman bragging about the multiple fathers she has (and ranking them to boot). Can you imagine the reverse happening? There would be outrage if it was a man doing this. I’ll speculate as well but dollars to donuts I bet this person is actively looking for baby daddy number four.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 02:14 PM
16

She’s a party animal and is on Tik tok but she wants to take things slow despite being pregnant and not really divorced yet. Oh and no car either so you get to be mr. Uber for her. Swell.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 05:07 AM
20

This is such a flaming dumpster fire of a mess it’s unreal. 19 and pregnant. She hasn’t even given birth and she’s trolling for dates. Soon to be a single mom but not embarrassed by it. Now wants a nice guy to treat her right after having been done wrong (according to her). Has tats (possibly face ones per the pic unless those are a filter). The fact she is explicitly saying not wanting to hook up leads me to suspect that’s EXACTLY how she got pregnant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/21 01:30 PM
56

Wow married for a whole 8 months. Way to give it the old college try. She found someone to marry her after she already had the children (and I’m gonna guess probably by different fathers) and could only stay married less than a year. No real accountability in her post as to doing things out of order. Well at least she can play with her cats.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/21 01:34 PM
31

She likes to watch Netflix. That is so lovely. I'm guessing "Netflix and chill" with Chad is how she got in this situation instead of looking for something real.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 04:10 PM
38

She met a guy from the street after previously meeting a guy from the street and she thinks that’s a good thing to brag about. Yuck. She does belong to the streets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 02:56 AM
12

Unreal. Deciding that marriage was her long term goal was too much to realize before she did the horizontal mambo and had a kid. Good grief.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 01:36 AM
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