vehementi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Is it creepy to go to a club for the sole purpose of hooking up? ecstatic dance Wow I naturally do this, I didn't realize there were organized events	/r/seduction	16/04/24 12:50 AM
5	Do men have emotions like women have emotions? All culture and upbringing	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/17 01:24 AM
1	30 year old acts like 10 year old[X-post from WTF] But he was being callous and cruel and actively saying things to make her more upset. He was purposefully outright lying to her to provoke her further (his known-to-be-lies about "oh this is all about cigarettes?" "all this over a lake?" he knows those are false and wrong and he is saying that to make her lose her shit even more). Those aren't the actions of some stoic man merely immune to a tantrum demonstrating that it won't work on him and that the behavior isn't OK. She said she was having a…	/r/MensRights	25/07/13 05:12 PM
1	30 year old acts like 10 year old[X-post from WTF] When someone is just acting badly, you don't enable them; you call them out on their behavior. You point out how ridiculous it is. You let them know that it won't get them what they want. That's not gaslighting, it's refusing to enable bad behavior and refusing to reinforce bad thinking. Absolutely, I don't think I was suggesting he give in to her demands (again assuming worst case) or anything, but rather defuse the situation instead of deliberately making it worse. That's cruel. When a little …	/r/MensRights	24/07/13 06:25 AM
2	30 year old acts like 10 year old[X-post from WTF] I am not excusing her behavior at all - it sucks. There's not really anything textbook about what I said though because in my very post I assumed the worst of her and explained why his actions would be cruel and unconscionable anyway. There really isn't anything mild or innocent-seeming about any of his reactions - they're all mocking, laughing at a person, or outright verifiable bald faced lies. What's really textbook is that this is exactly how many manipulators act. Like consider the evil wif…	/r/MensRights	24/07/13 05:38 AM
1	30 year old acts like 10 year old[X-post from WTF] Why are you downvoting this guy who's trying to have a discussion with you?	/r/MensRights	24/07/13 03:30 AM
3	30 year old acts like 10 year old[X-post from WTF] Publicly revealing a recording like this is kryptonite against her whole bullshit campaign Are you sure? Because this video really demonstrates his cruel goading and gas lighting. While she may be (let's say, in the worst case, to give her no credit) throwing a temper tantrum over something super trivial, this guy is her husband and is performing for the camera, making her more upset intentionally, with smug remarks and knowing lies ("all this over cigarettes?" smug chuckle -- he is absolutely a…	/r/MensRights	24/07/13 03:28 AM
1	"What Will We Concede To Feminism": UPDATE If the gay right's movement was fighting to prevent trans issues from being brought up because they'd distract from fighting homophobia This is where your misunderstanding is. Who tricked you?	/r/MensRights	03/07/13 04:22 PM
1	"What Will We Concede To Feminism": UPDATE Then let's clarify with gay rights: let's say every state made gay marriage legal. By analogy, the previous poster would be saying gay rights won "but the gay rights radical movement is still fighting on". You see why that's crazy right?	/r/MensRights	03/07/13 04:13 PM
1	"What Will We Concede To Feminism": UPDATE Oh I was giving you the benefit of the doubt. I didn't think you would be insinuating that merely because Roe v Wade had not been overturned, that women have full bodily autonomy. Because that would be a really retarded argument you surely wouldn't make, right?	/r/MensRights	03/07/13 04:00 PM
-7	"What Will We Concede To Feminism": UPDATE Oof, who told you that?	/r/MensRights	03/07/13 03:13 PM
5	"What Will We Concede To Feminism": UPDATE I agree with all these things. But see the problem? These goals have all been met. Somebody you trust has severely tricked you. That notwithstanding, equality is not established once merely the first beach head of rumidentary goals is established. Even if you seriously, actually think those things are currently accomplished, the idea that those are the only inequalities and they should be happy with what they got is ass backwards. If you think women have bodily autonomy currently... lol	/r/MensRights	03/07/13 02:59 PM