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| 155 | 26 YO Virgin, new to game, fear of escalating / closing. | vehissu | /r/seduction | 11/02/14 03:37 PM |
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| 1 | I behave completely differently around different people & social sets. Anyone know how to change and become my optimum self?You have an investment in who you are in your existing social circles, you're more sedated / more shy / more whatever, but you've always been 'that way' around those people, so it's natural, auto-pilot sort of behavior. I've noticed a similar thing, where when I go out solo, to a different city / different club where I don't know anyone, suddenly, I'm not stifled, flirting hardcore with everyone, I'm in set and girls are coming over and opening me trying to drag me away. Heck, I took one of my f… | /r/seduction | 16/03/14 03:30 PM |
| 1 | 26 YO Virgin, new to game, fear of escalating / closing.I think I'm going to have to go and read this book. I'm a pretty closed off guy emotionally to begin with (broken home / no father figure, don't really trust anyone / open up to more than 1 - 2 people in my life, I mean I journal & analyse my behavior, but I don't really share it, I mean friends just assume I'm not a virgin, the couple of times I've tried to tell friends they just don't believe me and I don't bother pressing the issue). Thanks for the advice :D. | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 02:45 PM |
| 1 | 26 YO Virgin, new to game, fear of escalating / closing.I like this idea, putting an end date on it, and then if I can't do it, get a hooker. There's a RSD bootcamp coming up in my area in about 3 months, I figure if I can't do it before then or over that weekend, I'll bite the bullet and see a hooker. | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 02:43 PM |
| 30 | 26 YO Virgin, new to game, fear of escalating / closing.One set, I actually did tell the girl I was a virgin, thinking it would make it easier, at first she didn't believe me, but I was persistant, then she was like that's weird, you're wierd, and instead of freaking out, I flipped the script, said what, wierd like a unicorn. Actually it must be wierd for you, how often do you talk to a 26 year old virgin, I mean 14 more years and I've got a movie! She's laughing, then I asked her if she's ever been anyone's first, asked her what sex is like, told he… | /r/seduction | 11/02/14 04:58 PM |
| 5 | 26 YO Virgin, new to game, fear of escalating / closing.It's not so much the being rejected, I mean quite often in set I get shit tested / resistance and breeze through it now (basically just re-frame or flip the script), it's more that we've made out, and instead of pursuing it, I start thinking fuck, it's going to be awkward, I cut my losses, bail, and open a new set. Or worse, the girl will literally be hinting that 'she wants to go', like, let's go somewhere else, I've made my decision, I want to fuck you, and then I bail or chicken out & ditch h… | /r/seduction | 11/02/14 04:45 PM |
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